How to be a good father or mother in Islam I Powerful islamic reminder I Mufti Menk I 2020
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Hello, Please give me suggesstion or something!
Im so done with my little sister, idk where to begin it, i am 18 (still trying to go to college and try to study my ass off) and my little sister is 15. Im kinda type which is when i say it, i will do that. So, we only live together because my parents just go for works. I do the cook and meal, and for cleaning we do that partly. So she hates vegetables, and im a vegan. Its a little difficult to cook for her because she always love fast food, i try to hold her but she never hear me. I try to cook chicken which is i never touch about it before, (i just studying before and almost never go to kitchen) i try to cook some meals etc which is i never did before, but she always complains, and there s 1000 reasons why she wont eat that not because its awful, just because to booing me in front of my dad or etc because i cant give her what she want. I gave her money i mean if she doesnt want what i cook so she can buy outside, but she doesnt want to buy it and i had to be always the one who buy it, though the seller just out of our window. Its okay i still can manage it. i wish she can take care about herself or something but she cant, she just not taking bath regularly, she just dont want to eat if its not served in front of her, she dont want to getup from bed at morning and keep with phone all day long. And about the cleaning, we agree that she will clean up everymess that she did and her room( never clean since last year i think, and will never let anyone enter her room,but i can smell bad from outside, and i ever know theres even dead bat inside it because the bat stuck there. Oh my god!!! Im so done. She keep promising and never do it. She throw her dirty clothes in bathroom floor and dont want to wash it. Her bedroom is so messy and she dont want to sleep there so she sleep in my room and in my father room and it keep mess again. Idk pls people give me advice or something. I try to tell her in kind way with small voice like some internet suggest to me. I honestly rarely angry, usually if im just so angry to people, im crying i try to be hard to her today, and i cant help my anger again. Please dont be rude to me if i did wrong things, because im trying and i never had children before. Im sorry.
Im so done she is so disrespectful when everyone tell her something. Even theres a day when i go out with her to buy some ice cream in small store. And in front of the seller, she said 'omg, i want to vomit'. Im so angry!!!!!!!! Nobody deserves what she said to that seller.
Idk what happened to me, today im so angry to her, and i break everything, i threw an iron spoon near her and she is scared. Im so sad i swear i regret it. Idk what to do again to make her do good. She is being nice to me after i do that. But she still will repeat bad things again like the other day. Im so scared to my self, idknt want to be bad person to people that i should protect
Really thank you for pin my question. Im sorry if i did wrong things please corrects me, i never had kids before. I just trying to be good sister as best as i can🙏🏻😭
And again, i know that its prohibited in islam to share bad things about people, but i swear i just want suggestion, insyaAllah will delete it after this. I just need advices. Really thank you🙏🏻
This is just a suggestion
But after reading the whole scenerio, I have approached at this point that stop spoon feeding a 15 year old girl just because she is the little one of the house. I also understand teenagers are very hard to deal now a days, but they should be taught in different ways. Sometimes when politeness doesn't work and is taken forgranted , then we are left with two options 1) keep silent 2) become violent 3) Use of a technique or other way
I am not justifying harshness but there should be a balance in all the three options (gentleness, silence and hardness) The best way is to solve the issue by using some intelligent technique like
Let her make her own food. Don't cook anything for her.
When she will cook herself, she will learn alot more things.
For example she will learn how to cook, after all she had to learn that.
She will feel how much effort is needed to cook something. How is the feeling when someone doesn't like your meal at all, although you have done your best
She will learn how to appreciate even if the thing doesn't match with the expectation.
I will suggest your parents should involve in this matter and maintain a balance also. It's not your responsibility to do every little thing of your sister. She is not a toddler. She has grown up ma Sha Allah.
I think you should back off a little. Give ur self space and give her space. It will do u vote good. She wants to eat take away - cool, she doesn't clean - cool, she wants to be lazy - cool.
If you keep pushing her to do things she will only push back and be angry, lazy, rude.
You don't need the headache. If you chill, she will chill.
U do what u need to do for urself - she is 15, a rebellious age. She will figure it out
Make dua and InshaAllah all will be fine. May Allah make things easy foe u both. Ameen
MashaAllah 🌺. May Allah Almighty bless you and your loved ones. Ameen.
Ameen
I can't stop listening to this
If someone insults and offends you remember this educational story
A shameless man had heard of a sage, so he decided to go and challenge him. When he arrived, he started insulting and humiliating her in all possible ways ...
All the while, however, the sage remained completely calm. One could not believe. After half an hour he lost all energy so that he could not speak, let alone offend him, gathered his strength and asked the wise man:
"I understand those your spiritual things, you become like you do not care what other people think. I have humiliated and offended you, so you have to learn how to fight for yourself."
The wise man replied, "My son, can I ask only two questions?"
"Of course," said the man.
Then the sage said to him, "If you bring me a gift, and I do not accept it, to whom does that gift belong?"
The man said, "Well, if you do not accept the gift, then it still belongs to me."
Then the wise man said to him: "Therefore, my son, if you have only insults and insults for me and I do not accept them, then to whom do they belong?"
Assalamou aleykoum wa rahmatoullahi wabarakaatuhu May Allah swt reward cheikh Menk 🙏 Masha’Allah what a powerful lecture
JazakAllah for using beautiful surah Yusuf as Analogy of household
Ma Sha Allah worthy to be listened and practiced
Subhanallah I can't stop listening to this
Jeza kallah heyren
MashaAllah
masha allah
I'm not even married yet.. and the fact that I searched it myself 😅
Alhumduliah may Allah help us all..
Assalamualaikum brother it's really is haq words my brother inshaallah Allah tala reward u a higher level her and day of judgement
It jst amazingly perfect lecture about the role of each family members
When my wife and I changed roles in the house it did indeed cause chaos. Man should work and allow the woman to mother
Please remove music from background. the imam is even reciting Quran and music is still going on in background, please remove this music. JazakAllah
Do you have something for single mothers who have to be both mother and father because father has left. Or even for those whose husband has died and mother raises children alone?
Can anyone tell me the name of the background sound please.
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Dear Mufti, at 1:40, you say that Allah Subhanahu wa ta’ala is telling us successful mothers amazingly they should be having the qualities of the moon.
Can you please mention the Aayat from the Qur’an where Allah says this?
Thank you
Please? Thanks
Assalamualaikum brother you can give lecture in urdu ur telling is to good to understand but more of people cannot understand brother
33.50. O (most illustrious) Prophet! We have made lawful for you your wives to whom you have already paid their bridal-due, as well as those whom your right hands possess from among the captives of war that God has granted you, and the daughters of your paternal uncles and paternal aunts, and the daughters of your maternal uncles and maternal aunts, who have emigrated (to Madīnah) for God's cause as you did; and any believing woman who offers herself to the Prophet (freely, without demanding any bridal-due), if the Prophet wants to marry her - a rule (of privilege) for you exclusively, not for the believers (in general) - We have (already decreed and) made known what We have enjoined on them with regard to their wives and those whom their right hands possess. (This exceptional privilege is) in order that there may not be any hindrance to you (in fulfilling your mission because of marriage relationships). God is All-Forgiving, All-Compassionate.
Be mother of god
We will plan how to be good future wife and husband you and me only together in happiness aamiin yra.. My moon 💚💛🧡💞💟
For family whose father has abandoned them and threw them in the street...this video is not helpful at all
I wish my dad did that.... What a blessing getting rid of him
Placestacewuatnandislamicknowledge
MashaAllah