I Feel Like My Ex Never Loved Me

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  • Опубликовано: 18 сен 2024
  • When a partner decides to leave the relationship, it can cause you to question their love for you the entire relationship. In this video, we discuss the pain of wondering if a partner ever truly cared and challenge your perception of the relationship.
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Комментарии • 58

  • @rel0302
    @rel0302 2 месяца назад

    The empathy that this channel has for dumpers AND dumpees is incredible. Being empathetic is so important in relationships. Thank you for being such wonderful role models ❤️

    • @CoachCraigKenneth
      @CoachCraigKenneth  2 месяца назад

      The longer I do this, the more clear It becomes that empathy =mental health

  • @jasonmerchant2451
    @jasonmerchant2451 2 года назад +33

    As time passes and the further away from the relationship that I become, the more that I recognize neither one of us truly knew how to love ourselves. This, in turn, was the death of our relationship. For those that are hurting from a breakup, I pray for you in your healing journey and hope that you will spend time to learn how to love the person you are.

    • @basseyarchibong9923
      @basseyarchibong9923 2 года назад

      I'm so happy having back my ex fiance back, after bring separated for 4months. All thanks to Mr Franklin whom help me to get back my ex again, I will suggest y'all get help from him and it works within 4days..

    • @basseyarchibong9923
      @basseyarchibong9923 2 года назад

      Wh'atsapp him for help*🙏...

    • @robhellyer6939
      @robhellyer6939 9 месяцев назад

      😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊

  • @pj8624
    @pj8624 2 года назад +7

    You hit it right on the head!!! She walked away like she didn't care about me at all... I was blown away and shocked, as if I never knew this woman. I felt like she faked our whole relationship. She was so cold, a totally different woman. Told me she didn't love me and never loved me, and was never in love with me. WOW!!! I felt we had a very good relationship! Guess I may have been wrong!!

  • @BrighterLifeInstitute
    @BrighterLifeInstitute 2 года назад +6

    I felt that way as well that the person never cared and never loved me, now they are with someone else, you leave it alone and enjoy the fact you are now free of it, you are no longer investing in that person

    • @basseyarchibong9923
      @basseyarchibong9923 2 года назад

      I'm so happy having back my ex fiance back, after bring separated for 4months. All thanks to Mr Franklin whom help me to get back my ex again, I will suggest y'all get help from him and it works within 4days.

  • @Sams911
    @Sams911 2 года назад +19

    I had to resubscribe... nearly 4 years after it ended, I still feel like I can't get over her.... worse part, is it only lasted 4 months... why am I such a baby!??

    • @sivanandayoga2801
      @sivanandayoga2801 2 года назад +3

      I worry about that too: mine was also a short relationship and I can’t understand why I can’t leave it behind.

    • @Sams911
      @Sams911 2 года назад +7

      @@sivanandayoga2801 they say it's sometime harder to move on when you're still falling hard... the dopamine and chemicals going crazy, then suddenly pulled out! .. not to mention the ruminating about "what could have been?"... Trust me, you're not alone... wish more breakup coaches did videos on this topic..

    • @sivanandayoga2801
      @sivanandayoga2801 2 года назад +1

      @@Sams911 Yes, it's true. I think it is traumatic, when they leave so suddenly. I mean, I've had longer relationships that have failed, and I've been able to deal with it much better: it made sense, I knew it wasn't working out, etc. So I guess that's what we have to work on: accepting something that we won't fully comprehend.

    • @lloydyarbrough3171
      @lloydyarbrough3171 2 года назад +2

      I’ve been in an on again and off again relationship for the past 5 yrs but each time I felt like I was starting over. For me I felt I gave my all in the relationship,I guess with me giving my all I felt it hurt so much more. My ex is avoidant and I’m anxious. I’m starting to realize I was pushing her away and didn’t realize it. This last breakup has been so different for the other’s that we had. I’ve begged,even drove by her work and her place and I’ve never done this before. It got to the point she threatened to get a restraining order. I’m not sure if my ex is seeing anyone but she blamed me for everything she was doing. This shit sucks. I try to keep myself busy but I can’t stop thinking about her. I wish you all the best and hope you can find your peace.

    • @zokins83
      @zokins83 2 года назад

      @@lloydyarbrough3171 there is no peace 😄 however I find it helpful working on myself

  • @boomds5602
    @boomds5602 2 года назад +5

    This is a similar issue I had. I think I am anxious but he wouldn’t ever tell me his needs. I kept trying to push him to but he never did.

  • @ChrisLT
    @ChrisLT 2 года назад +21

    Been watching these videos long enough to know where this is going when she gave her reasoning, lol.
    Surprised how rampant cheating is, physical or emotional (my ex left for another dude, too, one of those "just a friends").

    • @Dad_Brad
      @Dad_Brad 2 года назад

      Yep, and in my experience cheating is equally common across all cultures and societies now. No stereotype is accurate about certain cultures’ values about faithfulness or waiting until you’re married.

    • @franciscopereira5760
      @franciscopereira5760 2 года назад

      @@Dad_Brad and genders, girls are pretty good at cheating now

    • @Dad_Brad
      @Dad_Brad 2 года назад

      @@franciscopereira5760 I wonder if it’s just because of technology people are cheating more now, or has cheating always been this rampant and we’re just now becoming more aware of it due to technology?

    • @ChrisLT
      @ChrisLT 2 года назад +2

      @@Dad_Brad It's just easier. Before it was a phone, now you can easily start something with anyone through a game or whatever. Online communities open all sorts of doors for emotional cheating, at the very least.

    • @mayankgautam840
      @mayankgautam840 2 года назад

      My ex when I pointed out not to talk with this other guy when we were going through our Breakup came and said I'll talk more with him. it's surreal to even think of

  • @Noratheskindoc
    @Noratheskindoc Год назад +2

    He never loved me. There's no other explanation. I kept picking up on inconsistent behavior and calling it out. I had no idea how on point my intuition was 😢

  • @sharonmann4030
    @sharonmann4030 2 года назад +12

    I work daily on myself to be best version of me everyday

  • @sharonmann4030
    @sharonmann4030 2 года назад +12

    He was so evil I didn't know who he was. I go to therapy weekly but still so sad. I see how I did all wrong things.

  • @sharonmann4030
    @sharonmann4030 2 года назад +7

    I was married 35 yrs and have 3 grown girls. Ihe went back to ex gf from high school but told me we r over was cold and hateful had no value to him. I did all the wrong reach outs but he got hot on and thought oh I don't need my wife. 2 yrs later still no talk from him. He prob said to himself mind over matter. I still grieve ame he went right into a relationship. I.dont understand how he could do this. He told me he needed space but then 3 mo's later got email saying over.

    • @garydrago
      @garydrago 2 года назад

      I'm so sorry that's awful. I know it's not what you want to hear but you deserve better than someone who would leave you high and dry like that after 35 YEARS. Here's hoping you find happiness in the future whether that's with a new partner or not

    • @franciscopereira5760
      @franciscopereira5760 2 года назад +2

      Jesus girl, that's horrible I don't even know what advice to give

    • @technoutopia4687
      @technoutopia4687 2 года назад

      How long did it take him to file for divorce?

  • @ArielAriel-rg8ng
    @ArielAriel-rg8ng 2 года назад +8

    This is what is happening to me. I broke up with my ex almost 3 months ago,we work together and even if he speaks to me,after one month from the break up,he has started to chase another girl at work. This hurts me so much and I told him to stop doing this in front of me and he responded so coldly and rudely like a was a stranger.

    • @mariotibbrine1
      @mariotibbrine1 2 года назад

      Are you in a romantic relationship with this person currently?

    • @ArielAriel-rg8ng
      @ArielAriel-rg8ng 2 года назад

      @@mariotibbrine1 we broke up 3 months ago

    • @michaeljackson7361
      @michaeljackson7361 2 года назад +4

      He's a punk. Probably narcissist or just a player. Move on, don't even acknowledge his presence.

    • @mariotibbrine1
      @mariotibbrine1 2 года назад +1

      @@michaeljackson7361 I wouldn't say he's a narcissist she needs to understand she wanted to break up with him and she got exaclty what she wanted which was the break up where she is now broken up where she wanted to be apart from him 🤷‍♂️

    • @michaeljackson7361
      @michaeljackson7361 2 года назад

      @@mariotibbrine1 I was speaking about my narcissist

  • @naadde
    @naadde 2 года назад +5

    My ex started seeing someone about 3-4 months after our breakup and said she didn't think about me since. We tried to work on our relationship since that but she wasn't honest and I burned myself.
    No contact for soon 8 months and I have to accept that she actually never liked me.

    • @basseyarchibong9923
      @basseyarchibong9923 2 года назад

      I'm so happy having back my ex fiance back, after bring separated for 4months. All thanks to Mr Franklin whom help me to get back my ex again, I will suggest y'all get help from him and it works within 4days..

    • @basseyarchibong9923
      @basseyarchibong9923 2 года назад

      Wh'atsapp him for help*🙏.

  • @LG-ly7di
    @LG-ly7di Месяц назад

    What if she didn’t tell him what she needed?

  • @TonyBurke100
    @TonyBurke100 Год назад

    Most men don't show the new woman what they're really like warts and all so when you drop your guard they're off. Show them and tell them ALL ABOUT YOURSELF. SO THERE ARE NO SURPRISES.

  • @KevenDuring360
    @KevenDuring360 2 года назад +4

    For some reason after breakups ppl lose weight 😅 I’ve lost 50 by working on myself and doing me

    • @basseyarchibong9923
      @basseyarchibong9923 2 года назад

      I'm so happy having back my ex fiance back, after bring separated for 4months. All thanks to Mr Franklin whom help me to get back my ex again, I will suggest y'all get help from him and it works within 4days.

  • @maryalbania897
    @maryalbania897 Год назад

    😢

  • @carlfreiermuth5424
    @carlfreiermuth5424 2 года назад

    Sesame Street Oscar and Minnie Mouse 😅

    • @basseyarchibong9923
      @basseyarchibong9923 2 года назад

      I'm so happy having back my ex fiance back, after bring separated for 4months. All thanks to Mr Franklin whom help me to get back my ex again, I will suggest y'all get help from him and it works within 4days..