The break up was definitely temporary. All the signs were there. No contact works!! Your videos have been helping me grow and become more secure for the past 5 years. This break up put everything I've learned into play. It took 3 weeks of no reaching out. I responded when she reached out. When we came face to face at a camping weekend with friends she said she missed me every single day. She saw my social media and thought I had moved on after she broke up with me. She said I looked happy while she was miserable. We reconnected and I did everything that I've learned from Craig. It works! But you have to DO the work. Every. Single. Day. Become more secure and become a master at relationships. Learn the skills and practice them. Don't slip!! Trust me. Thank you so much, Craig. Listening to your videos helped ease my anxiety every day. You are incredible!
Did she see others during this time? How about sex? I’m honestly SUPER good at no contact and I know how to navigate every situation and hypothetical conversation except when it comes to if my ex had sex with somebody else. For me that’s really hard to forgive and wrap my head around. That’s TOO far
@@Miswhitness0520 I agree with you currently going through it right now. My ex was reaching out and even asked to me see me. We started to text and everything again, I didn’t believe that she wasn’t talking to somebody else. Then a couple days later my friends tell me she posted her new boyfriend. Smh it makes no sense to me as she was trying so hard to make me believe she was single. Idk
I feel for you my friend. We all have different time limits on emotions. 2yrs is a very long time to still be in love with someone you are no longer with. Hopefully you have moved on and are a better and stronger person through these brilliant guidance videos. Keep being a better you and happiness is there for us all.
Same with my brother. I've grieved almost 3 months. But my brother samething. He hasn't had a relationship in 10 years. So I know that it defers alot between people. Wish you the best
As much as I loved my ex, leaving in the first place is the ultimate disrespect. I understand that people need to work on themselves, we all do, but that decision to sever ties should show anyone there’s a fundamental lack of respect in the relationship. A notable exception is abuse though. If you or they are abusive then you need to get out of there quickly and with extreme prejudice. Do the work and maintain your self-respect, you WILL be happier in the long run.
Totally hear you. However, it can be very difficult to do necessary work while in a relationship. Its too easy to avoid confronting ones inner discomfort by escaping into the safety of a partner. Being honest about this is not disrespectful - being dishonest and dragging things on is more disrespectful in my eyes.
When they decide to leave for whatever reason, respectfully show them the door. but when they return to try to reconcile show the the wrath. I say they keep that same energy they had when they left, for when they return they won't find the person with they same energy they left them with. Fucck otta here with that beta energy, we Alphas out here.
@@asteriamoon1817 you did the right thing. Anyone who raises their hand against their SO is a POS coward, you deserve much better. Don’t waste any tears on a sick individual like that.
I'm so happy having back my ex fiance back, after bring separated for 4months. All thanks to Mr Franklin whom help me to get back my ex again, I will suggest y'all get help from him and it works within 4days
A friend got dumped by her on-and-off again now ex-bf (he was a real douchebag), he started driving by her home on the regular even though he got a new gf. He still messages her after 4 years, she finally moved on but he continues to contact her. She really dodged the bullet on that guy and he still doesn't want her to move on/let go. It's interesting, I think that they might have worked out if he actually worked on himself too, but he never did.
Listen to Coach Craig, he is an expert. Do the work. Buy the workbook series. Work on yourself. My ex came back 3 months after he broke up with me. We have been together for 4 months now.
I'm so happy having back my ex fiance back, after bring separated for 4months. All thanks to Mr Franklin whom help me to get back my ex again, I will suggest y'all get help from him and it works within 4days
I know my ex fiancé will eventually regret her decision to end things. But she’ll have to learn that the hard way. If I talk her back into it (which I already did once) she will not have learned the value of what I bring to a relationship. And it does make me sad to think that by the time she does come to her senses I may have found someone else by then. She’s almost 24, and we were together for 5.5 years. I think the biggest obstacle she’s facing that she won’t admit to, is that she needs to experience what else is out there. She was in a relationship in high school that was very toxic but lasted a couple years, and then maybe 6 months after that she met me in college. She’s never really experienced being single since she’s been an adult.
I'm so happy having back my ex fiance back, after bring separated for 4months. All thanks to Mr Franklin whom help me to get back my ex again, I will suggest y'all get help from him and it works within 4days
Three weeks ago I was thrown out of our apartment. We’d been dating 4 years and living together 5. He was gone for 2 hours and I asked him where he was? What took so long (for one item)? He didn’t like that, blew his too and told me to get TF out!!!!! After that, how could I stay. I packed up my stuff and moved out. I’m crushed. I feel deflated. I’m hurting. I can’t sleep, eat. Yesterday he calls to tell me that he didn’t want to call his mom (37yo) so he called me to tell me that he was feeling very sick, vomiting, dizzy and wanted me to go to the hospital with him. WTF!!!! I took him some soup and ginger ale and went home - to cry. How can he tell me how much he loves me the night before and the next day blow his top and out me out????? This hurts like hell!!!!!
Coach Margaret and Craig really keep me going through this horrible time, I hate no contact and not hearing from my ex, but both of you Keep me strong, I'm so sorry Margaret passed away she seemed such a wonderful person x thank you x
Hi Coach Craig, these are hard because my ex does not go on social media, we don’t have mutual friends, and he’s kind of a loner and is a home body as he doesn’t have but one or two friends or any family here locally. With this, it’s hard to tell with him. Also our breakup was caused by a situation outside of our control and it’s been hard as I don’t think it wasn’t anything we couldn’t have worked through. Saturday he was telling me how much he loved me. My son acted out in a very bad way towards his son and the next day he was at my door saying it was over. He contacted me a couple times since to check in and we even had plans to hang out but he cancelled last minute saying he wasn’t ready to see me yet and that we would have to talk again in the future. It’s been radio silence ever since. I’ve kept in no contact after that time but it’s hard to tell if he still cares or regrets giving up so easily. Going to focus on healing and on myself but some days are so hard. I do hope he reaches out at some point.
I'm so happy having back my ex fiance back, after bring separated for 4months. All thanks to Mr Franklin whom help me to get back my ex again, I will suggest y'all get help from him and it works within 4days
Even though my break up was just a little over a week ago and I’ve been with my ex for over 5 years, I really do hope that it’s temporary, even though she did say that we’re over. I just really love her still and I miss her! Man, two words I thought I would ever hear, let alone hear it from her. She was my world, my everything, my first, my very first and first experience with everything.
@@auroraschjlberg9062 Not since last month for my birthday, but only to wish me happy birthday (she’s generous like that). I hope I hear from her this holiday season, especially during Christmas, because our anniversary falls on the day before Christmas Eve, it would have been our 6 year anniversary.
@Samantha linch thank you, but I would never accept her back after leaving my house, i have no idea what she's been doing so I'm going to believe the worst. She should've thought about it before she left. Not worth it, a woman who abandons her home is a POS in my eyes.
@@raimaishrat5934 stay positive, God is good, he has someone special for you. Trust and believe. Don't sit around waiting for someone for a month especially a year. Life is too short, remember, the show must go on.
I'm so happy having back my ex fiance back, after bring separated for 4months. All thanks to Mr Franklin whom help me to get back my ex again, I will suggest y'all get help from him and it works within 4days
I really feel a follow on video to this you should do, how to behave when this happens, what kind of mind set to have to prepare for this...I see too many turn into little puppies when this happens and destroy the opportunity that finally come. A strong centre must be maintained when they finally make contact. A video like "x things not to do when they make contact"
I'm so happy having back my ex fiance back, after bring separated for 4months. All thanks to Mr Franklin whom help me to get back my ex again, I will suggest y'all get help from him and it works within 4days
Me and my ex have a son together. About 3 weeks ago, I was in a period of self imposed limited contact where I went on a couple of dates and realised I wasn't ready to move on. I was barely talking to my ex and I believed we were probably done. Fast forward to now and we're reconnecting well and talking about taking our son away on holiday together. I don't know what the hell is going on but I'm here for the ride! Life is weird!
Hi coach Craig, I have to say a big thanks to both of you amazing coaches that saved my mental health during my terrifying breakup, so here I have a question, is that count as an excuse OR indirect direct when EX comes after 2 months of breakup to congratulate my birthday?
I'm so happy having back my ex fiance back, after bring separated for 4months. All thanks to Mr Franklin whom help me to get back my ex again, I will suggest y'all get help from him and it works within 4days
If my breakup is temporary and she feels bad about dumping me then once she reaches out I will make sure the breakup is permanent. No sense going back to a person who didnt respect you in the first place.
@Knock Da/ Deathstroke You sound like you feel seriously ANGRY and HURT. But my friend, let me tell you that it also sounds like you are setting yourself up for a string of broken relationships. Nobody is perfectly “respectful” the way you want. Any spirit of unforgiveness and grudge-bearing will reap a harvest of life-long loneliness. Take it from someone who had a beautiful 26-year marriage until the death of my spouse…12 years ago. By comparison, every other person out there is divorced, bitter, and full of hate!
I'm so happy having back my ex fiance back, after bring separated for 4months. All thanks to Mr Franklin whom help me to get back my ex again, I will suggest y'all get help from him and it works within 4days
@@fj4731 Oh my dear…I’m so glad you asked! I am exactly in the same situation that your crush is in. She has completely given herself, heart and soul, to Jesus Christ. In the Bible, which we consider to be the Word of God, we are told that we should never become “unequally yoked with unbelievers.” The reason for that is simple. It is because it becomes too easy to put a boyfriend/fiancé first in life, and our God (our Creator) second. This would be a recipe for disaster! For a long time, I put my own unbelieving boyfriend first. Then the inevitable…he broke up with me. I had rededicated my life to God first, and that meant I could no longer fornicate with anyone before marriage. Boyfriend wasn’t impressed, so he dumped me. The reason why you hear her call you Honey and love always, is because she has a terrible conflict in her heart. She definitely feels a strong attraction to you, but she also does not want to disobey Jesus, who is the FIRST love of her life. Now here is my advice to you… Continue to go to church, so that you can learn more about Jesus. If you decide, as your girlfriend has, that Jesus is our Creator and the King of our lives, then choose to serve HIM FIRST. Repent of your past sins and keep them in the PAST. Turn your future over to Him. Then ask Him to guide you to making a good decision as to who HE thinks you should marry. It may be her, but it may not be. That would be between you and God. Also, don’t think of yourself as her “church buddy.” She needs to know that your new faith in Jesus is truly SINCERE, and that you’re not just PRETENDING to convert to her religion just to impress her! If necessary, she could attend services at one church, and you could attend services at a different church. If, after all that you learn about Jesus, you STILL cannot accept her faith as your own, then you owe it to her….LET HER GO! Under no circumstances should you continue trying to pursue her, because you are only doing her harm…and sabotaging your own happiness in the process. If Jesus isn’t in your future, then you would be much better off finding someone else who shares the SAME VALUES AND FAITH (or no faith at all) as you do. I hope this helps…
Well, I had a friend from past I always wanted to date but when we met again she had a boyfriend (10 months relationship). They split up in early April over serious and quite fundamental disagreements. We started to talk more, met few times and agreed that we should try date when she’ll be ready to date again. At the beginning her ex was silent, but then he started to call her few times a day, text her, invite her for dinners and try to meet up. To all that she declined politely. And then she got sick and he came to her house unannounced with groceries and medicines. Next day he came with flowers and promised her that he’ll change, said he can’t live without her and all that stuff. Literally all the things that are supposed not to work. But she took him back. I walked away from her but I’m confused by both - that his actions were successful and that she agreed to take him back after all this 🤔
@rory That’s possible although from what she told me why they broke up it looked to me that it cannot be fixed. Well, she said that there’s no way those problems can be fixed. But when she took him back she told me she still have feelings for him and will give him another chance. But my point is that he didn’t go no contact or walked away but made all the things that supposedly not work and can even ruin your chances. But now they’re together. And I’m kind of disappointed that he succeeded making “mistakes” 😁
@rory Thanks. I won’t wait for her, wish her all the best but I’m curious how it all end and if we will ever be able to finalize our agreement that we’ll date 🙂
Well as Craig says, every break up is different. No two of us are in the same situation and sometimes people make irrational decisions either during breaking up with someone or when getting back with someone.
I know quite a handful of examples of what you've said happening in real life. But also on TV shows: realities and shows about people talking how they met their wife, i.e., many stories about how they gained back their spouses with persistence and their partner ultimately saying "his behaviour confirmed that he would be with me no matter what till the end of the days". May be they had low steem to begin with? I cannot hide it confuses me too
I'm so happy having back my ex fiance back, after bring separated for 4months. All thanks to Mr Franklin whom help me to get back my ex again, I will suggest y'all get help from him and it works within 4days.
@@rachelledelacruz1688 I think I lost her a long time ago, I just didn’t realized it. I broke my own heart by idolizing her. I gave her everything I could, she took it and was so fast to walk away. It hurts but I have to walk away. In my opinion the best thing one can do, is be honest with them. Tell them how we feel and move on. Leave the ball in their court. Don’t have regrets of what you should have said or done. I did and walked away. Last time we talked she cried a lot and said she still love me and always will but she doesn’t want to work it out. So I had to walk away too and care for me. All the love, energy and attention I gave her, now I give to myself. Good luck!🍀👍
Mine is doing none of this but she is an professional artist and paints artworks (even whole series) about me and she is selling them all over the world. This feels really weird and makes me feel she is still missing me a lot.
I'm so happy having back my ex fiance back, after bring separated for 4months. All thanks to Mr Franklin whom help me to get back my ex again, I will suggest y'all get help from him and it works within 4days
I can’t eat or sleep I contact my wife today for the 1st time in 5 days but I only contact her bout our daughter because I haven’t seen our daughter I haven’t heard nothing back I know she said she wants space and time for herself and our daughter but I miss my daughter so much
Could you do a video on how to get an ex back with BPD? I am dealing with an ex I want back but upon talking to coach Margaret who has told me that she was avoidant, but during the relationship, demonstrated characteristics of an anxious person.
Bpd are usually fearful avoidant, thats a mix of both anxious and avoidant, they are dangerous and i would discourage you frim getting back with her. My cousin is BPD she has major lack of empathy and has episodes of nutty behaviour, cant hold down a relationship and is promiscuous as desperate for attention and shes stunning looking. Stay away think amber heard.
I'm so happy having back my ex fiance back, after bring separated for 4months. All thanks to Mr Franklin whom help me to get back my ex again, I will suggest y'all get help from him and it works within 4days..
I'm so happy having back my ex fiance back, after bring separated for 4months. All thanks to Mr Franklin whom help me to get back my ex again, I will suggest y'all get help from him and it works within 4days
Mine has been slowly txting over last few months. Sending me music to listen too. He sent me a pic of himself this weekend 🤔. He called it a day in our relationship?? Just keeping myself busy 😁
I'm so happy having back my ex fiance back, after bring separated for 4months. All thanks to Mr Franklin whom help me to get back my ex again, I will suggest y'all get help from him and it works within 4days
Me and my ex gf dating for 1.5 years and she wanted to breakup but we didn't get to finish the conversation and then she wanted to go on a break a few days later but I think I pushed her a little too much and didnt give her a straight answer about if I wanted to take a break, about week later took some of her stuff back to her house and at begging of convo she said I dont think well ever get back together but long story short at the end of the convo she said the only way she said she could see it working if we rebuilt some trust about our communication and I need a plan for debt repayment (40k). Broke up 5 weeks ago and no contact for 29 days so far. So yeah a little confused, but working on myself and moving on but would be lying if I said I wasn't holding out hope
I'm so happy having back my ex fiance back, after bring separated for 4months. All thanks to Mr Franklin whom help me to get back my ex again, I will suggest y'all get help from him and it works within 4days
Broke no contact 17 days later.. showed up last Friday.. snuggled but she brought up bad resentment.. i re set boundaries to only contact me if she changes her mind… breakup was 2 months ago but i did NC because it was slowly going downhill. I still ended confused
I'm so happy having back my ex fiance back, after bring separated for 4months. All thanks to Mr Franklin whom help me to get back my ex again, I will suggest y'all get help from him and it works within 4days
I'm so happy having back my ex fiance back, after bring separated for 4months. All thanks to Mr Franklin whom help me to get back my ex again, I will suggest y'all get help from him and it works within 4days
my ex goes to my brother for business stuff, she doesnt have to..there are plenty of other people she can go to. she doesnt ask about me but im pretty sure she keeps going to him to keep me in her life indirectly.
At the begining of the breakup ALL of these signs were there... until I lost it and tried to ask her questions and try to get them back (because I didn't know why we broke up she gave me no explanation or clarity whatsoever) :( after that she had blocked my number and we never spoke again... idk if it was me who ruined our chances or what but it hurts
Im thirty years old, been actively trying to better myself since i was about 18...but ive never once had an ex contact me lol. Maybe im not as great of a partner as i like to think
@@SamanthaSprinkles69 I am fine, people are so weak they run away from their problems. I am strong enough to handle dealing with someone I care for and admitting it while being true to my values
“So you’re telling me there’s a chance!” -Loyd Christmas Wait, never mind. These are all things she was doing with her abusive ex husband who she’s trauma bonded too. I clearly mean nothing to her despite telling me she loved me. It’s the perfect self sabotage for a fearful avoidant.
I'm so happy having back my ex fiance back, after bring separated for 4months. All thanks to Mr Franklin whom help me to get back my ex again, I will suggest y'all get help from him and it works within 4days
Is it a sign if my break up is temporary? Its because of our last fight and im being immature during our relationship. When i saw her calling with someone i just say to her " i set you free now" because i feel that our relationship fade away. But she reacts that like she dont want to break up with me because and say that guy is just her friend. And then tomorrow morning she says that she want to break up with me. She says a lot of emotions to me saying what happen before that im so toxic and immature and please stop talking to me. She didnt blocked after she broke up and i start not talk to her. Is it a sign that shes just being emotional saying that she broke up with me and wait for a right time to fade her emotions and she will contact me again?
I'm so happy having back my ex fiance back, after bring separated for 4months. All thanks to Mr Franklin whom help me to get back my ex again, I will suggest y'all get help from him and it works within 4days
I'm so happy having back my ex fiance back, after bring separated for 4months. All thanks to Mr Franklin whom help me to get back my ex again, I will suggest y'all get help from him and it works within 4days
@@OneYellowFlower thats hard to do when iv got feelings for him, iv tried so many times but i think for peace of mind i'll need to do it again and stick to it
@@OneYellowFlower each situation and each relationship/friendship is different. It all started going wrong when i told him i had a crush on him at school. Hes a recovering addict and he just messed with my head for over 4 yrs. Its a long story but i think hes got it into his head that im going to cheat on him while im on holiday so he decided to get in there first and call it quits. I had been txting him and i wrote him a letter and i got nothing back. So i decided to block him.
I'm so happy having back my ex fiance back, after bring separated for 4months. All thanks to Mr Franklin whom help me to get back my ex again, I will suggest y'all get help from him and it works within 4days
Always remember... how your ex feels about you now, is not necessarily how they will feel in the future. Do the work!
The break up was definitely temporary. All the signs were there. No contact works!! Your videos have been helping me grow and become more secure for the past 5 years. This break up put everything I've learned into play. It took 3 weeks of no reaching out. I responded when she reached out. When we came face to face at a camping weekend with friends she said she missed me every single day. She saw my social media and thought I had moved on after she broke up with me. She said I looked happy while she was miserable. We reconnected and I did everything that I've learned from Craig. It works! But you have to DO the work. Every. Single. Day. Become more secure and become a master at relationships. Learn the skills and practice them. Don't slip!! Trust me. Thank you so much, Craig. Listening to your videos helped ease my anxiety every day. You are incredible!
Did she see others during this time? How about sex? I’m honestly SUPER good at no contact and I know how to navigate every situation and hypothetical conversation except when it comes to if my ex had sex with somebody else. For me that’s really hard to forgive and wrap my head around. That’s TOO far
@@Miswhitness0520 I agree with you currently going through it right now. My ex was reaching out and even asked to me see me. We started to text and everything again, I didn’t believe that she wasn’t talking to somebody else. Then a couple days later my friends tell me she posted her new boyfriend. Smh it makes no sense to me as she was trying so hard to make me believe she was single. Idk
Was this lesbian relationship?
@@Miswhitness0520 then you're insecure, you were broken up. get over it.
I haven’t talked to my ex in almost two years and I still love her so much. It’s not an easy thing to get over. I feel for everyone here.
I feel for you my friend. We all have different time limits on emotions. 2yrs is a very long time to still be in love with someone you are no longer with. Hopefully you have moved on and are a better and stronger person through these brilliant guidance videos. Keep being a better you and happiness is there for us all.
Same with my brother. I've grieved almost 3 months. But my brother samething. He hasn't had a relationship in 10 years. So I know that it defers alot between people. Wish you the best
As much as I loved my ex, leaving in the first place is the ultimate disrespect. I understand that people need to work on themselves, we all do, but that decision to sever ties should show anyone there’s a fundamental lack of respect in the relationship. A notable exception is abuse though. If you or they are abusive then you need to get out of there quickly and with extreme prejudice. Do the work and maintain your self-respect, you WILL be happier in the long run.
Totally hear you. However, it can be very difficult to do necessary work while in a relationship. Its too easy to avoid confronting ones inner discomfort by escaping into the safety of a partner. Being honest about this is not disrespectful - being dishonest and dragging things on is more disrespectful in my eyes.
When they decide to leave for whatever reason, respectfully show them the door. but when they return to try to reconcile show the the wrath. I say they keep that same energy they had when they left, for when they return they won't find the person with they same energy they left them with. Fucck otta here with that beta energy, we Alphas out here.
I left my ex because he assaulted me. It was the hardest thing I had to do and it still haunts me almost 2 years later.
@@asteriamoon1817 you did the right thing. Anyone who raises their hand against their SO is a POS coward, you deserve much better. Don’t waste any tears on a sick individual like that.
@@asteriamoon1817 As much as it must hurt, you did the right thing.
Coach Margaret looks so beautiful. Her beautiful soul shines brighter the her pretty earings...I miss her so much💓
You’ve officially become a regular when you say “Hi there” along with Craig after the intro jingle.
I'm so happy having back my ex fiance back, after bring separated for 4months. All thanks to Mr Franklin whom help me to get back my ex again, I will suggest y'all get help from him and it works within 4days
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A friend got dumped by her on-and-off again now ex-bf (he was a real douchebag), he started driving by her home on the regular even though he got a new gf. He still messages her after 4 years, she finally moved on but he continues to contact her. She really dodged the bullet on that guy and he still doesn't want her to move on/let go. It's interesting, I think that they might have worked out if he actually worked on himself too, but he never did.
Listen to Coach Craig, he is an expert. Do the work.
Buy the workbook series. Work on yourself.
My ex came back 3 months after he broke up with me. We have been together for 4 months now.
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@@CoachCraigKenneth I will
@@CoachCraigKenneth well my ex just asked if I have any Christmas wrap and it’s May lol. Bet you never heard that one before . It’s been 10 months.
how long were you together before break up, an did you have break ups before ?
I'm so happy having back my ex fiance back, after bring separated for 4months. All thanks to Mr Franklin whom help me to get back my ex again, I will suggest y'all get help from him and it works within 4days
I know my ex fiancé will eventually regret her decision to end things. But she’ll have to learn that the hard way. If I talk her back into it (which I already did once) she will not have learned the value of what I bring to a relationship. And it does make me sad to think that by the time she does come to her senses I may have found someone else by then.
She’s almost 24, and we were together for 5.5 years. I think the biggest obstacle she’s facing that she won’t admit to, is that she needs to experience what else is out there. She was in a relationship in high school that was very toxic but lasted a couple years, and then maybe 6 months after that she met me in college. She’s never really experienced being single since she’s been an adult.
I'm so happy having back my ex fiance back, after bring separated for 4months. All thanks to Mr Franklin whom help me to get back my ex again, I will suggest y'all get help from him and it works within 4days
updates??
@@louise2528 The short answer, I’ve moved on completely after just some casual dating. Better options are out there for me 😅
Are we in the same relationship? Because same.
Three weeks ago I was thrown out of our apartment. We’d been dating 4 years and living together 5. He was gone for 2 hours and I asked him where he was? What took so long (for one item)? He didn’t like that, blew his too and told me to get TF out!!!!! After that, how could I stay. I packed up my stuff and moved out. I’m crushed. I feel deflated. I’m hurting. I can’t sleep, eat. Yesterday he calls to tell me that he didn’t want to call his mom (37yo) so he called me to tell me that he was feeling very sick, vomiting, dizzy and wanted me to go to the hospital with him. WTF!!!! I took him some soup and ginger ale and went home - to cry. How can he tell me how much he loves me the night before and the next day blow his top and out me out????? This hurts like hell!!!!!
Coach Margaret and Craig really keep me going through this horrible time, I hate no contact and not hearing from my ex, but both of you Keep me strong, I'm so sorry Margaret passed away she seemed such a wonderful person x thank you x
Hi Coach Craig, these are hard because my ex does not go on social media, we don’t have mutual friends, and he’s kind of a loner and is a home body as he doesn’t have but one or two friends or any family here locally. With this, it’s hard to tell with him. Also our breakup was caused by a situation outside of our control and it’s been hard as I don’t think it wasn’t anything we couldn’t have worked through. Saturday he was telling me how much he loved me. My son acted out in a very bad way towards his son and the next day he was at my door saying it was over. He contacted me a couple times since to check in and we even had plans to hang out but he cancelled last minute saying he wasn’t ready to see me yet and that we would have to talk again in the future. It’s been radio silence ever since. I’ve kept in no contact after that time but it’s hard to tell if he still cares or regrets giving up so easily. Going to focus on healing and on myself but some days are so hard. I do hope he reaches out at some point.
Yeah my break up cant relate to any of these....😔
Find a new healthy relationship.
I'm so happy having back my ex fiance back, after bring separated for 4months. All thanks to Mr Franklin whom help me to get back my ex again, I will suggest y'all get help from him and it works within 4days
Finding a new healthy relationship is not easy
@@evanlarson5853 Agreed. Try southeast Asia.
Healthy people are few and far in between .
Ya i had an ex that dumped and started driving by my house when i foolishly got into another relationship. Confused the hell outa me
Even though my break up was just a little over a week ago and I’ve been with my ex for over 5 years, I really do hope that it’s temporary, even though she did say that we’re over. I just really love her still and I miss her! Man, two words I thought I would ever hear, let alone hear it from her. She was my world, my everything, my first, my very first and first experience with everything.
Update?
@@mattm7369 Update with what? My situation?
@@ponokunishima1 yes, hes she reached out?
@@auroraschjlberg9062 Not since last month for my birthday, but only to wish me happy birthday (she’s generous like that). I hope I hear from her this holiday season, especially during Christmas, because our anniversary falls on the day before Christmas Eve, it would have been our 6 year anniversary.
@@ponokunishima1 I feel you... Not quite sure if I should reach out to say merry Christmas or just wait for her
This doesn’t correlate when you’re blocked on everything!
it's only been two weeks, the videos are really helpful with my anxiety, I'm just keeping it in the day
I wish, I wish I hope she will be back..
Good message fams. This would've been inspiring to me 10 months ago. Today it's just a cloudy dream of the heart.
Same for me its a year
@Samantha linch thank you, but I would never accept her back after leaving my house, i have no idea what she's been doing so I'm going to believe the worst. She should've thought about it before she left. Not worth it, a woman who abandons her home is a POS in my eyes.
@@raimaishrat5934 stay positive, God is good, he has someone special for you. Trust and believe. Don't sit around waiting for someone for a month especially a year. Life is too short, remember, the show must go on.
I'm so happy having back my ex fiance back, after bring separated for 4months. All thanks to Mr Franklin whom help me to get back my ex again, I will suggest y'all get help from him and it works within 4days
What do you mean by focusing on personal growth exactly? She left me, so she is the one who should really personally grow.
I really feel a follow on video to this you should do, how to behave when this happens, what kind of mind set to have to prepare for this...I see too many turn into little puppies when this happens and destroy the opportunity that finally come. A strong centre must be maintained when they finally make contact. A video like "x things not to do when they make contact"
There is videos like that.. check out his playlist
I'm so happy having back my ex fiance back, after bring separated for 4months. All thanks to Mr Franklin whom help me to get back my ex again, I will suggest y'all get help from him and it works within 4days
Me and my ex have a son together. About 3 weeks ago, I was in a period of self imposed limited contact where I went on a couple of dates and realised I wasn't ready to move on. I was barely talking to my ex and I believed we were probably done. Fast forward to now and we're reconnecting well and talking about taking our son away on holiday together. I don't know what the hell is going on but I'm here for the ride! Life is weird!
is just seems like i’m the only one doing these things
Hi coach Craig, I have to say a big thanks to both of you amazing coaches that saved my mental health during my terrifying breakup, so here I have a question, is that count as an excuse OR indirect direct when EX comes after 2 months of breakup to congratulate my birthday?
I'm so happy having back my ex fiance back, after bring separated for 4months. All thanks to Mr Franklin whom help me to get back my ex again, I will suggest y'all get help from him and it works within 4days
If my breakup is temporary and she feels bad about dumping me then once she reaches out I will make sure the breakup is permanent. No sense going back to a person who didnt respect you in the first place.
True.... While u were missing her, She was hooking up with the guy she told u not to worry about...😠
Dont take the Slut back
@Knock Da/ Deathstroke You sound like you feel seriously ANGRY and HURT. But my friend, let me tell you that it also sounds like you are setting yourself up for a string of broken relationships. Nobody is perfectly “respectful” the way you want. Any spirit of unforgiveness and grudge-bearing will reap a harvest of life-long loneliness. Take it from someone who had a beautiful 26-year marriage until the death of my spouse…12 years ago. By comparison, every other person out there is divorced, bitter, and full of hate!
I'm so happy having back my ex fiance back, after bring separated for 4months. All thanks to Mr Franklin whom help me to get back my ex again, I will suggest y'all get help from him and it works within 4days
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@@fj4731 Oh my dear…I’m so glad you asked! I am exactly in the same situation that your crush is in. She has completely given herself, heart and soul, to Jesus Christ. In the Bible, which we consider to be the Word of God, we are told that we should never become “unequally yoked with unbelievers.” The reason for that is simple. It is because it becomes too easy to put a boyfriend/fiancé first in life, and our God (our Creator) second. This would be a recipe for disaster! For a long time, I put my own unbelieving boyfriend first. Then the inevitable…he broke up with me. I had rededicated my life to God first, and that meant I could no longer fornicate with anyone before marriage. Boyfriend wasn’t impressed, so he dumped me. The reason why you hear her call you Honey and love always, is because she has a terrible conflict in her heart. She definitely feels a strong attraction to you, but she also does not want to disobey Jesus, who is the FIRST love of her life.
Now here is my advice to you… Continue to go to church, so that you can learn more about Jesus. If you decide, as your girlfriend has, that Jesus is our Creator and the King of our lives, then choose to serve HIM FIRST. Repent of your past sins and keep them in the PAST. Turn your future over to Him. Then ask Him to guide you to making a good decision as to who HE thinks you should marry. It may be her, but it may not be. That would be between you and God. Also, don’t think of yourself as her “church buddy.” She needs to know that your new faith in Jesus is truly SINCERE, and that you’re not just PRETENDING to convert to her religion just to impress her! If necessary, she could attend services at one church, and you could attend services at a different church. If, after all that you learn about Jesus, you STILL cannot accept her faith as your own, then you owe it to her….LET HER GO! Under no circumstances should you continue trying to pursue her, because you are only doing her harm…and sabotaging your own happiness in the process. If Jesus isn’t in your future, then you would be much better off finding someone else who shares the SAME VALUES AND FAITH (or no faith at all) as you do. I hope this helps…
Almost 2 years, he reached out to me sometimes just to make sure im okay.
I don't even know whether reconciliation will knock my door or not :(
You've moved on though right?
My ex has done NONE of these 🙃 looks like he’s not coming back
did he come back
Well, I had a friend from past I always wanted to date but when we met again she had a boyfriend (10 months relationship). They split up in early April over serious and quite fundamental disagreements. We started to talk more, met few times and agreed that we should try date when she’ll be ready to date again. At the beginning her ex was silent, but then he started to call her few times a day, text her, invite her for dinners and try to meet up. To all that she declined politely. And then she got sick and he came to her house unannounced with groceries and medicines. Next day he came with flowers and promised her that he’ll change, said he can’t live without her and all that stuff. Literally all the things that are supposed not to work. But she took him back. I walked away from her but I’m confused by both - that his actions were successful and that she agreed to take him back after all this 🤔
@rory That’s possible although from what she told me why they broke up it looked to me that it cannot be fixed. Well, she said that there’s no way those problems can be fixed. But when she took him back she told me she still have feelings for him and will give him another chance.
But my point is that he didn’t go no contact or walked away but made all the things that supposedly not work and can even ruin your chances. But now they’re together. And I’m kind of disappointed that he succeeded making “mistakes” 😁
@rory Thanks. I won’t wait for her, wish her all the best but I’m curious how it all end and if we will ever be able to finalize our agreement that we’ll date 🙂
Well as Craig says, every break up is different. No two of us are in the same situation and sometimes people make irrational decisions either during breaking up with someone or when getting back with someone.
I know quite a handful of examples of what you've said happening in real life. But also on TV shows: realities and shows about people talking how they met their wife, i.e., many stories about how they gained back their spouses with persistence and their partner ultimately saying "his behaviour confirmed that he would be with me no matter what till the end of the days". May be they had low steem to begin with?
I cannot hide it confuses me too
I'm so happy having back my ex fiance back, after bring separated for 4months. All thanks to Mr Franklin whom help me to get back my ex again, I will suggest y'all get help from him and it works within 4days.
Over a month. I lost hope. LDR sucks tbh, I still miss her soo much but I have to let her go for my own good.
Wht makes u give,btw I'm in ldr too I have a feeling he will give up on me too...
@@rachelledelacruz1688 I think I lost her a long time ago, I just didn’t realized it. I broke my own heart by idolizing her. I gave her everything I could, she took it and was so fast to walk away. It hurts but I have to walk away. In my opinion the best thing one can do, is be honest with them. Tell them how we feel and move on. Leave the ball in their court. Don’t have regrets of what you should have said or done. I did and walked away. Last time we talked she cried a lot and said she still love me and always will but she doesn’t want to work it out. So I had to walk away too and care for me. All the love, energy and attention I gave her, now I give to myself. Good luck!🍀👍
Mine is doing none of this but she is an professional artist and paints artworks (even whole series) about me and she is selling them all over the world. This feels really weird and makes me feel she is still missing me a lot.
She was contacting me giving breadcrumbs saying she missed me now she’s gone silent!? Help!
I'm so happy having back my ex fiance back, after bring separated for 4months. All thanks to Mr Franklin whom help me to get back my ex again, I will suggest y'all get help from him and it works within 4days
I can’t eat or sleep I contact my wife today for the 1st time in 5 days but I only contact her bout our daughter because I haven’t seen our daughter I haven’t heard nothing back I know she said she wants space and time for herself and our daughter but I miss my daughter so much
Could you do a video on how to get an ex back with BPD? I am dealing with an ex I want back but upon talking to coach Margaret who has told me that she was avoidant, but during the relationship, demonstrated characteristics of an anxious person.
Bpd are usually fearful avoidant, thats a mix of both anxious and avoidant, they are dangerous and i would discourage you frim getting back with her. My cousin is BPD she has major lack of empathy and has episodes of nutty behaviour, cant hold down a relationship and is promiscuous as desperate for attention and shes stunning looking. Stay away think amber heard.
Why would you want a person with BPD back? Those people need therapy, not a relationship.
I'm so happy having back my ex fiance back, after bring separated for 4months. All thanks to Mr Franklin whom help me to get back my ex again, I will suggest y'all get help from him and it works within 4days..
You are so right I did the work that you taught us and he is an avodent and he came back if we follow instructions they will come back.
How long did it take
I'm so happy having back my ex fiance back, after bring separated for 4months. All thanks to Mr Franklin whom help me to get back my ex again, I will suggest y'all get help from him and it works within 4days
I don’t think my ex will ever want our relationship. My situation is probably one of your rarest.
Mine has been slowly txting over last few months. Sending me music to listen too. He sent me a pic of himself this weekend 🤔. He called it a day in our relationship?? Just keeping myself busy 😁
I'm so happy having back my ex fiance back, after bring separated for 4months. All thanks to Mr Franklin whom help me to get back my ex again, I will suggest y'all get help from him and it works within 4days
Me and my ex gf dating for 1.5 years and she wanted to breakup but we didn't get to finish the conversation and then she wanted to go on a break a few days later but I think I pushed her a little too much and didnt give her a straight answer about if I wanted to take a break, about week later took some of her stuff back to her house and at begging of convo she said I dont think well ever get back together but long story short at the end of the convo she said the only way she said she could see it working if we rebuilt some trust about our communication and I need a plan for debt repayment (40k). Broke up 5 weeks ago and no contact for 29 days so far. So yeah a little confused, but working on myself and moving on but would be lying if I said I wasn't holding out hope
I'm so happy having back my ex fiance back, after bring separated for 4months. All thanks to Mr Franklin whom help me to get back my ex again, I will suggest y'all get help from him and it works within 4days
Broke no contact 17 days later.. showed up last Friday.. snuggled but she brought up bad resentment.. i re set boundaries to only contact me if she changes her mind… breakup was 2 months ago but i did NC because it was slowly going downhill. I still ended confused
how long were you together before nc, and did you have breakups before ?
I'm so happy having back my ex fiance back, after bring separated for 4months. All thanks to Mr Franklin whom help me to get back my ex again, I will suggest y'all get help from him and it works within 4days
Would holding onto your stuff while saying they’ll take care of it (shipping it back to me) count? For Long distance relationship
I'm so happy having back my ex fiance back, after bring separated for 4months. All thanks to Mr Franklin whom help me to get back my ex again, I will suggest y'all get help from him and it works within 4days
my ex goes to my brother for business stuff, she doesnt have to..there are plenty of other people she can go to. she doesnt ask about me but im pretty sure she keeps going to him to keep me in her life indirectly.
At the begining of the breakup ALL of these signs were there... until I lost it and tried to ask her questions and try to get them back (because I didn't know why we broke up she gave me no explanation or clarity whatsoever) :( after that she had blocked my number and we never spoke again... idk if it was me who ruined our chances or what but it hurts
We been together for 3 1/2 years and had an awesome relationship.. he just mess up
Im thirty years old, been actively trying to better myself since i was about 18...but ive never once had an ex contact me lol. Maybe im not as great of a partner as i like to think
I need to figure out how to handle my ex who who broke up with me twice in one month and keeps contacting me. I always respond but it's confusing.
Hot and cold? I’m in the same boat 🙃🙃
@@SamanthaSprinkles69 yeah, sometimes she will ask how I am doing and disappear. Guess she likes someone else is why but also has feelings for me.
That’s really not good for your mental health….
@@SamanthaSprinkles69 I am fine, people are so weak they run away from their problems. I am strong enough to handle dealing with someone I care for and admitting it while being true to my values
Don't respond! Or better yet, block her. She's using you as emotional support until she finds someone else. Then you won't hear from her again.
2 months so far and she said to a mutual acquaintance said she says Adam is no more and
I dot on her and she can offend Me and I'd always go back
“So you’re telling me there’s a chance!”
-Loyd Christmas
Wait, never mind. These are all things she was doing with her abusive ex husband who she’s trauma bonded too. I clearly mean nothing to her despite telling me she loved me. It’s the perfect self sabotage for a fearful avoidant.
I have only 1 sign 😢 what's my chances are
Craig, what's the seventh sign that the break up is temporary?
I'm so happy having back my ex fiance back, after bring separated for 4months. All thanks to Mr Franklin whom help me to get back my ex again, I will suggest y'all get help from him and it works within 4days
Been a yr for me this month
Going on 5 months feel so hopeless.. no idea why she havent blocked my number
Is it a sign if my break up is temporary?
Its because of our last fight and im being immature during our relationship.
When i saw her calling with someone i just say to her " i set you free now" because i feel that our relationship fade away.
But she reacts that like she dont want to break up with me because and say that guy is just her friend.
And then tomorrow morning she says that she want to break up with me.
She says a lot of emotions to me saying what happen before that im so toxic and immature and please stop talking to me.
She didnt blocked after she broke up and i start not talk to her.
Is it a sign that shes just being emotional saying that she broke up with me and wait for a right time to fade her emotions and she will contact me again?
Together for 14 years, 12 years married. Amazing time together minus a few bumps... :-)
must be nice
He was my school crush but i fell in love with him but its not mutual
@Samantha linch no iv not got his number plus im not into chasing
I'm so happy having back my ex fiance back, after bring separated for 4months. All thanks to Mr Franklin whom help me to get back my ex again, I will suggest y'all get help from him and it works within 4days
So if I see any of these signs it means my break up is temporary.
I’m sorry these coaches are great, but I don’t believe people come back.
I had a few returns. Some don't.
I didn't have a break up, but I know men very well.. place holders are sad.
Yes it happened to me some one tried to logging into my Facebook and I am sure it’s him hhhhh😂 and it was during no contact
Could leaving them up not just be because they still enjoyed those moments?
I'm so happy having back my ex fiance back, after bring separated for 4months. All thanks to Mr Franklin whom help me to get back my ex again, I will suggest y'all get help from him and it works within 4days
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Iv asked him plenty of times to block me but he wont
@@OneYellowFlower thats hard to do when iv got feelings for him, iv tried so many times but i think for peace of mind i'll need to do it again and stick to it
@@OneYellowFlower each situation and each relationship/friendship is different. It all started going wrong when i told him i had a crush on him at school. Hes a recovering addict and he just messed with my head for over 4 yrs. Its a long story but i think hes got it into his head that im going to cheat on him while im on holiday so he decided to get in there first and call it quits. I had been txting him and i wrote him a letter and i got nothing back. So i decided to block him.
I'm so happy having back my ex fiance back, after bring separated for 4months. All thanks to Mr Franklin whom help me to get back my ex again, I will suggest y'all get help from him and it works within 4days