I'm glad you posted this, honestly if that happened to me i would immediately block the number. In the area i live in there's a lot of men like this, but i never have gave my number to any of them. Honestly mostly in the summer there's a lot of drunk old men walking around the streets or just hanging out in front of a store I, sometimes feel unsafe since in the area i live in there has happened a lot of crimes and accidents in the past, but i feel safer when i'm not alone. So just don't go alone late at night and always make sure to look behind! I hope that anyone who's reading this is safe!
I am so glad you are not blaming yourself! Creeps like that deserve to be called out, because they really think they are not being creepy. He probably is doing this right now to some other teenager...now there's a thought, isn't it? I put up with that shit all my life i some form or another and it is a huge trigger for me. I will see someone put up a video somewhat like this and invariably some creep will defend the guys action. "Well, she shouldn't have smiled" *actual comment! I lit into him, and last I looked, he had another 100 comments because he kept trying to defend his thinking. lol. Women, don't assume your male friend, brother, son, etc., knows not to do shit like this, and tell them WHY, because if you don't tell them, who will? Tell them how you see the world.
When I was a teenager I once met a guy online and we talked for a while. He was really nice to me and listened to all I told him about. After I basically told him all my problems, fears and everything, he kinda made me have telephone sex with him. It was as if he subliminal suggested it like “I listened to you now you can give me favor too.” After we finished I felt really dirty. He tried to make it happen again for some days but I always found polite excuses why I can’t until we stopped talking and then I deleted his number. I was 14 years old at that time and he was 40. Looking back the only thing I regret is that I deleted his number and didn’t saved the chat in the cloud. Everything else wasn’t my fault although I felt guilty and ashamed for years. At that time I didn’t tell anyone about it. So what I wanted to say with all this is that if you find yourself in a similar situation where you get used by someone never ever delete the evidence. Although it might be embarrassing, go to an adult you can trust, tell them everything and ask for help. Or go straight to the police. It is not your fault. As a minor we all tend to think we are old enough, smart enough and know how the world works. But the truth is, there is a lot shit we don’t know yet.
Had some experience with really creepy guys in online games when I was younger. It's like you said, when you're that young you're just not aware of the whole situation. Glad you reacted this way now. It's a good awareness story for other girls ;) Hope you're doing good and stay safe!
First of all, you are the most respectable person I've seen in a while! You handled that situation so well! This shit happens all the time and happened to me too back in the day. And what about these creepy 20 something year olds trying to hit on much much older women? LOL
8:05 that scared the living hell out of me!! Holy crap!! Just Imagine the person walking around the place to see you... Omg i can't! It's sooo scary god! Sophie i gotta say you were a strong woman and you always will! Love from Bangladesh🇧🇩🇧🇩.I know sometimes It's annoying that i always comment your videos..😬.But i just want to share what i felt in Your videos not caring if It's sad or happy or motivational. Anyways sorry if it bother you🙂.Ilysm❤️
This makes my stomach hurt 🤢. I had a similar experience when I was kid, thankfully my parents saw what was happening and told the guy off. After they explained it to me, I got pissed. I still see him around town. He creeps me out and I wonder if I'm the only one. I refuse to not look him in the eye. Gross. I'm glad you are ok ❤
Oh my god I'm 17 and I've been receiving so many weird DMS from this old man which really creeps me out. Nevertheless I felt like I was being really sensitive but I guess sticking with my intuition and keeping on blocking and reporting god knows how many accounts he's messaged me with is the smartest choice to make! Thanks Sophie, for the story.❤️🥀
If he didn’t get the message after you blocked him the first time and made other accounts to continue to try and contact you that is stalker behavior! You are not being sensitive at all! If this is still continuing please speak to authorities and keep yourself safe.
I know im late sophie but thank you for spreading awareness and sharing your stories 🤗💖. I remember getting sexually harassed in a store and I kept my silence which was wrong for me to do but im glad now that im more matured im more awared of these situations 😊. Ily Sophie keep going 💖💗💓!!
I've gone through the same shit, like I'm also super friendly with people in general and stupidly enough gave my number out too, I get these weird ass text from these guys tryna flirt with me or some shit, super uncomfortable, but ya I block them 🤣 ain't got time for that bs✋🏻🤧 anyway I totally related to your story time, thanks for sharing ❤❤🌺
when you said " he put money in the card, isn't that weird or am I tripping?" I'm thinking "oh he's tryna bribe you into doing something" and something just felt off about all of that
my god i hate when old man act like this, like, sometimes i use to go around with bus and sometimes there were a man (fortunally always a different one) and they look at me like- TF IM TOO YOUNG FOR U!!! LOOK AWAY! I already feel uncofortable where there's a lot of people but- if an old man (around 50s) look at me i feel really really uncofortable, like stop it. I hate that because they dont care about u, because if it was they wouldn't act like that. Fortunally they just look, and when i go away they dont follow me or other shit, but- im mean... Idk if u got the point.
Ayo I remember when i was like 16 i joined this blackpink discord server and i had like so many people dming me and me being the dumb bitch i am , proceeded to interact with a person without knowing their age , i did tell him my age but he didnt really care and we exchanged our snap and i really thought he was like 15 or 16 even lmfao cuz he was very flirty and was acting all cute and nice 24/7 but then he told me he was 20 and i was like wtf ? he knows i am a minor and still proceeds to talk to me ? so he asked me for a pic and i sent him a selfie of jennie and then blocked him < 3
I think this is a great video, its great that you are addressing this subject because it does happen to alot of people! And to respond to him in an adult and civil manner like you did is amazing! I agree with you, stay safe everyone and report anything like this if it happens to you! Thank you for sharing Sophie! ❤
So glad that you are safe and it didn't escalate to anything bad ... I do have a daughter and I let her know about baiting and grooming by older men with not good intentions...
Girl honestly im dealing with the exact same shit rn.even tho im not underage but saying no to an older person makes me feel bad.thanks for clarifying.i know what i got to do now.love u darling💕
Did I read some similar story some guy waiting till somebody becomes legal to holla🤔 but then again, at liberty to talk and correspond with whoever we feel comfortable with but again, he waited till you were grown legally speaking atleast.
I had a similar experience when I was 22 but it was with my co worker he was a chef and I was a busser. I told him I had a bf and and a baby and he said he didn't care he kept telling people him and I were together and honestly I didn't realize what was happening until I talked to my sisters about it. Also nothing sexual happened but he would give me hugs and it was still creepy. To all the girls out there be safe! And thank you Sophie for this story time!
This reminds me of smthing going on rn and basically this girl is trying to get people to give her my number and shi like that and it freaks me out cuz it’s giving stalker vibes.. even some of her ex friends used to call her a stalker as a nickname and a joke and now it’s getting a little too far… anyways in conclusion I need help, this was a good vid, I’m happy, and I hope ur happy!
Boundaries are important to establish so there’s no confusion, which you just did. No matter how old some men are, they might still think you’d date them. But you have now cleared that up for him. He still needs to be blocked and left in the past. I might have also advised him to find some friends his own age. I had an older man (30-40-ish) follow me around a department store, trying to talk to me, asking me if I had a boyfriend, telling me how cute I was….I was 14. Luckily my parents were in the store too. You are doing a good thing to spread awareness.😊
This is one of the first videos I have watched of yours and you have my full respect! I am 21 and I am really glad that I have you to look up to and I'm grateful to have subscribed!
And this is why people (men) who actually like someone Don't persue to approach first, cuz to many people did sh!t like this..... And afraid to be labeled as same as this weird/pervert people.....
The exact same thing happened to me but the customer who messaged me was creepier. I didn't give him my number but he messaged me after i quit my job and asked me to come again and he misses me.. he was like 44 years old and i was 18. He told me that he was planning to marry me and the creepiest thing was that he said he was always watching me .. he knew where i was staying like wtf i was so scared . I went to stay with my mom and never went to that area .. i threw my sim card and was traumatised to talk with men . Still to this day um scared that he will come again .. i informed the police but they didn't care.. Please stay safe Sophie ❤ Older men are the scariest 😔
M happy to hear that u didn't continue to talk to him although if there was not any bad intension of the person but still it's good not to continue conversation with such people... This is really creepy that he literally has your numbers till today and it's really freaky so we better stay away from this type of persons...
what's sad is because I don't see too many older men hitting on under aged girls in public like I used to. They usually take to instagram and message under age girls mow. Still not okay but that's what I see more of these days
Sophie one thing i want to share with you here that i also faced this but differently he flirted with me but i was underage so i didn't react that much but now i just hate him hope more girls going to be aware coz of your efforts love you ♥
Omg i remember much older guys talking to me on social media when i was underage and i though it was just normal, they were well aware of the situation and be creepy, didn't realize atm 😥
For him to have your number after this many years is definitely questionable o.o I've had an experience like this too but I never met that person. It was on facebook. You know, back that, i was 12 or 13 ish years old and only played games on Facebook. I really did not know this 'chatting' thing One day, while i was online, playing games, i got a message from this person and he was like 'hey beautiful, how are you?' I was shocked, i did not mean to be rude so i replied him But then things quickly escalated as he started saying really nasty things and just constently annoying me. I'm so glad my mom came by soon and I've let her handle that creep. That was scary. Btw my birthday is 26 july too Sophie 🌷🤗
Something similar happened to me but it escalated so bad and because I was like 13 or 14 I didn't know that what he was doing was wrong and till now I hate myself for it
You didn't do a darn thing wrong. Would you blame another 13 or 14 yr. old if it happened to them? The only one who deserves hate is the pedophile (because that's what he is!). They know how to manipulate young people and know just what to do and say to get their way. I don't know a adult female who hasn't experienced SOMETHING from some creep or another. I think the first time for me was a friend of my fathers who made comments when I was 7 or so. You are not alone, so put your hate where it belongs. (hugs)
@@eileenhathaway1674 thank you so much💜💜, it always bothered me and I couldn't speak up but your words are helping me a lot, I really appreciate it so much💜💜
@@winter2422 I am a grown woman now and men getting away with this crap is quite the trigger for me. Now, if I see a woman pf any age looking threatened or scared of a man, I walk over and start asking the girl or woman if she knows where I can find such and such, or "I already called security, but has she seen a creepy guy? Because I think he took my wallet."....I make up stuff as I go. I also stare at the guy and make HIM uncomfortable. The biggest thing I have learned about them is that they HATE having attention aimed at them.
Oh WOW, lucky U said something about subscribing because I thought I had subscribed to you but apparently not so I have now. By the way good awareness video. Isn't it amazing how we become wiser as we get older? And you'll only keep getting wiser.xx
Obviously, we should be cautious and be safe. Trust your gut and yourself. I have to weigh on this though, I was married at the time and my neighbor on the other side of the street was an older man. He was about 62 and I was 23 at the time. He came off as a little creepy, but we became friends down the road. He checked on me because he understood being a military wife and your husband is gone is hard. He grew Asian vegetables in his back yard and he always dropped some off for me and if I wasn’t there he would leave them on my door knob. We never know someone’s intentions and we should always be careful, but this was just my one experience. In the end, I ended up coming back home and I never got to thank him for watching out for me. I wouldn’t want anything to happen to you so I am glad you trusted yourself and made yourself strong and to the point with him. Being firm and to the point will steer people away and hopefully understand they went to far.
You are correct this is referred to as grooming, the establishing of a comfortable environment if you will. The age gap is a red flag, for young girls-boys ,in that setting the staff is providing a service, which is compensated for monetarily. Once the service is rendered the contact is over between the two parties. This situation should be reported to management if it occurs anytime, be it a female or male employee being taking advantage of. If management does nothing, call the police and report the person who may be a sexual predator, for sure let the person know when and if you feel uncomfortable about the communication. You are in control of the situation IF you set the stage from the onset. Thanks for sharing this story and again this can happen to young boys as well, though it happens to females the majority of the time. The world is not what it used to be.:(
Was he "grooming" you? Ewww! ...or were you a substitute daughter since he didn't have one, or couldn't have one? (Maybe I'm a bit naïve, too?) Thanks for posting this, though, bc I ran into a "professional photographer" who tried to Game me when I was about that same age. I don't want to get into how I figured it out...but I did figure it out in time.🔹#aRMyLOVE💙
You are so strong and amazing for hanging this situation so good and please be safe in this world and I think I will be more aware since I’m 15 years old myself ♥️
Thanks for posting this for awareness. I also had encountered pedos back then. Me a teenage back then and orphan, I was so naive. Now I'm almost in my 30's and also sued them. Case still ongoing tho.
Signs and symptoms of madmen 🙄🙄......... Going after a girl,guy or person who is young enough to be your kid or Grandchild is crazy and thank you for bringing light to this your cool 😎. Though i would like to believe the are some good people out here i just think their light is crowded by the apparent evil out here.Though i just this guy is just down right creepy 🤦🏽♀️ Fun fact Sophie you and i are birthday partners 😂😂
The fact that you posted this and that this creepy guy I used to talk to back in hs added me on snap it’s like soo weird! I just got hit with all the memories of me talking to him and finding out that he lied to me about his age and that I found him on fb to see that he is married and that he’s in like his I believe 30s or 40s (the man is bald). Im surprise tht he added me back after knowing his truth
I had a drawing teacher when I was in class 10 so one day he gave me his phone to help him with something and I saw that he fucking saved my photos. After I deleted those pics he just shouted at me for deleting them. I stopped him from coming to teach me and blocked him everywhere. Lol, this is my first time sharing this. My mom doesn't even know about this :)
Sophie everyone makes a mistake and this was a minor one. So block and forget. Good thing you said it... Next time anything like this happens, someone texts you inappropriate stuff, expose them on your Instagram and Done
Me in my early 20s who tip a bit more for young guys and girls in the service industry ,because I know the struggle and bs they have to go through…😂. On a side note, you have no idea how many creepy old dudes are out here trying to get it with young girls(and boys too). My dad was sexually harassed as a 10 year old and to this day he has ptsd. They apparently lured him in by promising him a new puppy. He told me that they started to grope his privates after putting him in a room. Dad was a bulky fat kid,so he managed to get away from that dude and run to his mom(granny). The pedo was very old too. The freaky thing is that he was a “friend” of my grandad. So kids, don’t even trust your dads or moms friends. One of my moms friends came on to me…at least I kinda felt so.
This reminds me of the time we’re I was laying down and someone added me on snap chat and it was a guy and me being nice I added him back and then he texted me we were talking for a few hours then he asked what I look like so yk I sent a picture of me and he was telling me how good I looked and stuff he then also sent a picture of himself he looked real old to I asked how old he was he said 21 and I told him I was 14 cause yk I was he then proceeded to say age is just a number this can be our secret and after a while I blocked him cause i knew it was wrong. Great video By the way I’m glad your safe ❤️❤️
All I can say is that you really were patient with him and he took advantage of your innocent intentions. If that was me him asking if I had a boyfriend would be a total red flag. Also maybe I'm just a really private person (though I am a social butterfly myself) I would have blocked him because he wanted to know too much about my day and life I mean even my dad and friends don't ask that much about my life. It is a good thing that you came out of that situation safely.
I don't know why but if that ever happened to me I would still think they're being nice ... I think that's because Im always trying to be very nice to people. Anyway thanks for making this video 💖💖💖
when i was working at this buffet place this guy in his late 30s and is married plus has a kid told me and his friend also in late 30s with a kid that i could be his next wife and have a kid with him and i was 17 at the time and that made me so uncomfortable and i quickly walked away right after cleaning their table. men are so disgusting make me uncomfortable on a whole other level 💀
Sophieeee stay safeeeee am your new subscriber and I also saw Ben’s video lmao your so funny I really like the way you talk your so cooollll I really wish that you were my sister we could have hanged out but lol we still can be hehehe and your so beautiful!!!!
Lol gurl…as a waitress you gotta know how to play the game! Never give your real number or give a fake one. Lie that you have a boyfriend and protective older brothers/father if you have to. The dude shouldn’t have taken it further once he knew you were underage. Don’t engage any further, toss the damn bday card. Even this video you should eventually delete because it keeps this connection alive and he can come back anytime to get off on your reaction to his texts. Protect yourself!
I have also got this kind of text sometimes but I have told my dad about.....and you know what happened my dad reported about him in the police. that made me freak out me..............
I'm glad you posted this, honestly if that happened to me i would immediately block the number. In the area i live in there's a lot of men like this, but i never have gave my number to any of them. Honestly mostly in the summer there's a lot of drunk old men walking around the streets or just hanging out in front of a store I, sometimes feel unsafe since in the area i live in there has happened a lot of crimes and accidents in the past, but i feel safer when i'm not alone. So just don't go alone late at night and always make sure to look behind! I hope that anyone who's reading this is safe!
Sophie you should be careful of such creeps, we don't want anything to happen to you 🥺
Facts 💯😭
the fact that he still had your number…was he possibly waiting for you to be legal? I am so creeped out rn
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The fact that he still has your number after so many years is hella creepy.....
He sounds so creepy though and we should all be careful of who we interact with. Thanks for sharing with us your story!
honestly so glad nothing happened to u sophie that dude is hella creepy. STAY SAFE GIRLS
Dude. I'm worried that he'll find this RUclips channel. Glad it didn't escalate, and I hope you're safe.
bring it LOL
I am so glad you are not blaming yourself! Creeps like that deserve to be called out, because they really think they are not being creepy. He probably is doing this right now to some other teenager...now there's a thought, isn't it? I put up with that shit all my life i some form or another and it is a huge trigger for me. I will see someone put up a video somewhat like this and invariably some creep will defend the guys action. "Well, she shouldn't have smiled" *actual comment! I lit into him, and last I looked, he had another 100 comments because he kept trying to defend his thinking. lol. Women, don't assume your male friend, brother, son, etc., knows not to do shit like this, and tell them WHY, because if you don't tell them, who will? Tell them how you see the world.
When I was a teenager I once met a guy online and we talked for a while.
He was really nice to me and listened to all I told him about.
After I basically told him all my problems, fears and everything, he kinda made me have telephone sex with him.
It was as if he subliminal suggested it like “I listened to you now you can give me favor too.”
After we finished I felt really dirty.
He tried to make it happen again for some days but I always found polite excuses why I can’t until we stopped talking and then I deleted his number.
I was 14 years old at that time and he was 40.
Looking back the only thing I regret is that I deleted his number and didn’t saved the chat in the cloud.
Everything else wasn’t my fault although I felt guilty and ashamed for years.
At that time I didn’t tell anyone about it.
So what I wanted to say with all this is that if you find yourself in a similar situation where you get used by someone never ever delete the evidence. Although it might be embarrassing, go to an adult you can trust, tell them everything and ask for help.
Or go straight to the police.
It is not your fault.
As a minor we all tend to think we are old enough, smart enough and know how the world works.
But the truth is, there is a lot shit we don’t know yet.
Had some experience with really creepy guys in online games when I was younger. It's like you said, when you're that young you're just not aware of the whole situation. Glad you reacted this way now. It's a good awareness story for other girls ;) Hope you're doing good and stay safe!
thank you for sharing your traumatizing experience and spreading awareness. I wish you well! :)
First of all, you are the most respectable person I've seen in a while! You handled that situation so well! This shit happens all the time and happened to me too back in the day. And what about these creepy 20 something year olds trying to hit on much much older women? LOL
MANS REALLY THINK HE CAN BE WITH U
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Nothing is free in this world... You're absolutely right!!!
8:05 that scared the living hell out of me!! Holy crap!! Just Imagine the person walking around the place to see you... Omg i can't! It's sooo scary god! Sophie i gotta say you were a strong woman and you always will! Love from Bangladesh🇧🇩🇧🇩.I know sometimes It's annoying that i always comment your videos..😬.But i just want to share what i felt in Your videos not caring if It's sad or happy or motivational. Anyways sorry if it bother you🙂.Ilysm❤️
I’m happy you stood up for yourself and that you’re handling the situation properly❤️
This makes my stomach hurt 🤢. I had a similar experience when I was kid, thankfully my parents saw what was happening and told the guy off. After they explained it to me, I got pissed. I still see him around town. He creeps me out and I wonder if I'm the only one. I refuse to not look him in the eye. Gross. I'm glad you are ok ❤
Oh my god
I'm 17 and I've been receiving so many weird DMS from this old man which really creeps me out. Nevertheless I felt like I was being really sensitive but I guess sticking with my intuition and keeping on blocking and reporting god knows how many accounts he's messaged me with is the smartest choice to make!
Thanks Sophie, for the story.❤️🥀
If he didn’t get the message after you blocked him the first time and made other accounts to continue to try and contact you that is stalker behavior! You are not being sensitive at all! If this is still continuing please speak to authorities and keep yourself safe.
I know im late sophie but thank you for spreading awareness and sharing your stories 🤗💖. I remember getting sexually harassed in a store and I kept my silence which was wrong for me to do but im glad now that im more matured im more awared of these situations 😊. Ily Sophie keep going 💖💗💓!!
DAMM...It's SOOO CREEPY MANN.......be careful Sophie.
I've gone through the same shit, like I'm also super friendly with people in general and stupidly enough gave my number out too, I get these weird ass text from these guys tryna flirt with me or some shit, super uncomfortable, but ya I block them 🤣 ain't got time for that bs✋🏻🤧 anyway I totally related to your story time, thanks for sharing ❤❤🌺
when you said " he put money in the card, isn't that weird or am I tripping?" I'm thinking "oh he's tryna bribe you into doing something" and something just felt off about all of that
my god i hate when old man act like this, like, sometimes i use to go around with bus and sometimes there were a man (fortunally always a different one) and they look at me like- TF IM TOO YOUNG FOR U!!! LOOK AWAY! I already feel uncofortable where there's a lot of people but- if an old man (around 50s) look at me i feel really really uncofortable, like stop it. I hate that because they dont care about u, because if it was they wouldn't act like that. Fortunally they just look, and when i go away they dont follow me or other shit, but- im mean... Idk if u got the point.
Ayo I remember when i was like 16 i joined this blackpink discord server and i had like so many people dming me and me being the dumb bitch i am , proceeded to interact with a person without knowing their age , i did tell him my age but he didnt really care and we exchanged our snap and i really thought he was like 15 or 16 even lmfao cuz he was very flirty and was acting all cute and nice 24/7 but then he told me he was 20 and i was like wtf ? he knows i am a minor and still proceeds to talk to me ? so he asked me for a pic and i sent him a selfie of jennie and then blocked him < 3
I think this is a great video, its great that you are addressing this subject because it does happen to alot of people! And to respond to him in an adult and civil manner like you did is amazing! I agree with you, stay safe everyone and report anything like this if it happens to you! Thank you for sharing Sophie! ❤
i appreciate the fact that you made this video, it is so important to raise awareness, especially for the younger people !
So glad that you are safe and it didn't escalate to anything bad ... I do have a daughter and I let her know about baiting and grooming by older men with not good intentions...
Her baby fingers are just like jimin's OMG you are so cute sophie. Thank you for sharing your story.
Sophie you're a kind soul, thank you for sharing this heavy experience , it's super good to rise awearness !
Girl honestly im dealing with the exact same shit rn.even tho im not underage but saying no to an older person makes me feel bad.thanks for clarifying.i know what i got to do now.love u darling💕
thanks for spreading awareness on this topic. I am in high school currently and you sharing about this helps a lot ... we are glad you are okay.
Did I read some similar story some guy waiting till somebody becomes legal to holla🤔 but then again, at liberty to talk and correspond with whoever we feel comfortable with but again, he waited till you were grown legally speaking atleast.
Sophie, be careful of such creeps, stay safe
I had a similar experience when I was 22 but it was with my co worker he was a chef and I was a busser. I told him I had a bf and and a baby and he said he didn't care he kept telling people him and I were together and honestly I didn't realize what was happening until I talked to my sisters about it. Also nothing sexual happened but he would give me hugs and it was still creepy. To all the girls out there be safe! And thank you Sophie for this story time!
I am 17 and doing a part time job and it's really creepy according to me 🌚
This reminds me of smthing going on rn and basically this girl is trying to get people to give her my number and shi like that and it freaks me out cuz it’s giving stalker vibes.. even some of her ex friends used to call her a stalker as a nickname and a joke and now it’s getting a little too far… anyways in conclusion I need help, this was a good vid, I’m happy, and I hope ur happy!
Sophie stay safe from these creeps 😖! Also thank you for raising this topic !
Boundaries are important to establish so there’s no confusion, which you just did. No matter how old some men are, they might still think you’d date them. But you have now cleared that up for him. He still needs to be blocked and left in the past. I might have also advised him to find some friends his own age. I had an older man (30-40-ish) follow me around a department store, trying to talk to me, asking me if I had a boyfriend, telling me how cute I was….I was 14. Luckily my parents were in the store too. You are doing a good thing to spread awareness.😊
This is one of the first videos I have watched of yours and you have my full respect! I am 21 and I am really glad that I have you to look up to and I'm grateful to have subscribed!
Please stay safe and be careful. You don't deserve this, no human does. Hope you're getting over those hard moments, take care!
hi Sophia you did the right things by blocking him thank you for posting
And this is why people (men) who actually like someone Don't persue to approach first, cuz to many people did sh!t like this..... And afraid to be labeled as same as this weird/pervert people.....
Love you Sophie stay safe !! To many creeps in this world 😭.
The exact same thing happened to me but the customer who messaged me was creepier. I didn't give him my number but he messaged me after i quit my job and asked me to come again and he misses me.. he was like 44 years old and i was 18. He told me that he was planning to marry me and the creepiest thing was that he said he was always watching me .. he knew where i was staying like wtf i was so scared . I went to stay with my mom and never went to that area .. i threw my sim card and was traumatised to talk with men . Still to this day um scared that he will come again .. i informed the police but they didn't care..
Please stay safe Sophie ❤ Older men are the scariest 😔
M happy to hear that u didn't continue to talk to him although if there was not any bad intension of the person but still it's good not to continue conversation with such people... This is really creepy that he literally has your numbers till today and it's really freaky so we better stay away from this type of persons...
omg the society is dying you cant even trust your eyes, be careful everyone
Your honesty is what attracts me even more… love ya sophie 🥰
what's sad is because I don't see too many older men hitting on under aged girls in public like I used to. They usually take to instagram and message under age girls mow. Still not okay but that's what I see more of these days
Sophie one thing i want to share with you here that i also faced this but differently he flirted with me but i was underage so i didn't react that much but now i just hate him hope more girls going to be aware coz of your efforts love you ♥
I'm glad you are fine and it didn't got any further, be safe love you 💖
Omg i remember much older guys talking to me on social media when i was underage and i though it was just normal, they were well aware of the situation and be creepy, didn't realize atm 😥
For him to have your number after this many years is definitely questionable o.o
I've had an experience like this too but I never met that person. It was on facebook. You know, back that, i was 12 or 13 ish years old and only played games on Facebook. I really did not know this 'chatting' thing
One day, while i was online, playing games, i got a message from this person and he was like 'hey beautiful, how are you?'
I was shocked, i did not mean to be rude so i replied him
But then things quickly escalated as he started saying really nasty things and just constently annoying me.
I'm so glad my mom came by soon and I've let her handle that creep. That was scary.
Btw my birthday is 26 july too Sophie 🌷🤗
Something similar happened to me but it escalated so bad and because I was like 13 or 14 I didn't know that what he was doing was wrong and till now I hate myself for it
dont blame yourself❤️
You didn't do a darn thing wrong. Would you blame another 13 or 14 yr. old if it happened to them? The only one who deserves hate is the pedophile (because that's what he is!). They know how to manipulate young people and know just what to do and say to get their way. I don't know a adult female who hasn't experienced SOMETHING from some creep or another. I think the first time for me was a friend of my fathers who made comments when I was 7 or so. You are not alone, so put your hate where it belongs. (hugs)
@@eileenhathaway1674 thank you so much💜💜, it always bothered me and I couldn't speak up but your words are helping me a lot, I really appreciate it so much💜💜
@@s0hyuna thank you Sophie💜💜
@@winter2422 I am a grown woman now and men getting away with this crap is quite the trigger for me. Now, if I see a woman pf any age looking threatened or scared of a man, I walk over and start asking the girl or woman if she knows where I can find such and such, or "I already called security, but has she seen a creepy guy? Because I think he took my wallet."....I make up stuff as I go. I also stare at the guy and make HIM uncomfortable. The biggest thing I have learned about them is that they HATE having attention aimed at them.
Oh WOW, lucky U said something about subscribing because I thought I had subscribed to you but apparently not so I have now. By the way good awareness video. Isn't it amazing how we become wiser as we get older? And you'll only keep getting wiser.xx
Glad you was very transparent about everything please be careful of your surroundings, as a woman you are the target of creepos. Stay safe and aware
Y’all girls pls stay safe always just make sure to talk to the ppl you know !!!
Obviously, we should be cautious and be safe. Trust your gut and yourself. I have to weigh on this though, I was married at the time and my neighbor on the other side of the street was an older man. He was about 62 and I was 23 at the time. He came off as a little creepy, but we became friends down the road. He checked on me because he understood being a military wife and your husband is gone is hard. He grew Asian vegetables in his back yard and he always dropped some off for me and if I wasn’t there he would leave them on my door knob. We never know someone’s intentions and we should always be careful, but this was just my one experience. In the end, I ended up coming back home and I never got to thank him for watching out for me.
I wouldn’t want anything to happen to you so I am glad you trusted yourself and made yourself strong and to the point with him. Being firm and to the point will steer people away and hopefully understand they went to far.
that was really creepy and you did the right thing to tell it to us
You are correct this is referred to as grooming, the establishing of a comfortable environment if you will. The age gap is a red flag, for young girls-boys ,in that setting the staff is providing a service, which is compensated for monetarily. Once the service is rendered the contact is over between the two parties. This situation should be reported to management if it occurs anytime, be it a female or male employee being taking advantage of. If management does nothing, call the police and report the person who may be a sexual predator, for sure let the person know when and if you feel uncomfortable about the communication. You are in control of the situation IF you set the stage from the onset. Thanks for sharing this story and again this can happen to young boys as well, though it happens to females the majority of the time.
The world is not what it used to be.:(
Was he "grooming" you? Ewww! ...or were you a substitute daughter since he didn't have one, or couldn't have one? (Maybe I'm a bit naïve, too?) Thanks for posting this, though, bc I ran into a "professional photographer" who tried to Game me when I was about that same age. I don't want to get into how I figured it out...but I did figure it out in time.🔹#aRMyLOVE💙
You are so strong and amazing for hanging this situation so good and please be safe in this world and I think I will be more aware since I’m 15 years old myself ♥️
Can i just say your makeup is on point gurl, so fucking beautiful!! and thanks for raising awareness very much appreciated
Thanks for posting this for awareness. I also had encountered pedos back then. Me a teenage back then and orphan, I was so naive. Now I'm almost in my 30's and also sued them. Case still ongoing tho.
This is truly going to be helpful for a lot of young kids out there. Thanks mama burrito💙
Glad you shared your story so that others can be more careful this guy contacted you again so he needs something so please be careful ok
Signs and symptoms of madmen 🙄🙄.........
Going after a girl,guy or person who is young enough to be your kid or Grandchild is crazy and thank you for bringing light to this your cool 😎.
Though i would like to believe the are some good people out here i just think their light is crowded by the apparent evil out here.Though i just this guy is just down right creepy 🤦🏽♀️
Fun fact Sophie you and i are birthday partners 😂😂
another great and important video! i love the concent you're putting out lately and I'll join your discord
The fact that you posted this and that this creepy guy I used to talk to back in hs added me on snap it’s like soo weird! I just got hit with all the memories of me talking to him and finding out that he lied to me about his age and that I found him on fb to see that he is married and that he’s in like his I believe 30s or 40s (the man is bald). Im surprise tht he added me back after knowing his truth
I had a drawing teacher when I was in class 10 so one day he gave me his phone to help him with something and I saw that he fucking saved my photos. After I deleted those pics he just shouted at me for deleting them. I stopped him from coming to teach me and blocked him everywhere. Lol, this is my first time sharing this. My mom doesn't even know about this :)
Sophie everyone makes a mistake and this was a minor one. So block and forget. Good thing you said it... Next time anything like this happens, someone texts you inappropriate stuff, expose them on your Instagram and Done
Me in my early 20s who tip a bit more for young guys and girls in the service industry ,because I know the struggle and bs they have to go through…😂. On a side note, you have no idea how many creepy old dudes are out here trying to get it with young girls(and boys too). My dad was sexually harassed as a 10 year old and to this day he has ptsd. They apparently lured him in by promising him a new puppy. He told me that they started to grope his privates after putting him in a room. Dad was a bulky fat kid,so he managed to get away from that dude and run to his mom(granny). The pedo was very old too. The freaky thing is that he was a “friend” of my grandad. So kids, don’t even trust your dads or moms friends. One of my moms friends came on to me…at least I kinda felt so.
I'm 17, thank you for sharing your experience. Stay safe and lots of love from a young burrito 💗🌯
Great video! More people need to be aware of healthy boundaries
This reminds me of the time we’re I was laying down and someone added me on snap chat and it was a guy and me being nice I added him back and then he texted me we were talking for a few hours then he asked what I look like so yk I sent a picture of me and he was telling me how good I looked and stuff he then also sent a picture of himself he looked real old to I asked how old he was he said 21 and I told him I was 14 cause yk I was he then proceeded to say age is just a number this can be our secret and after a while I blocked him cause i knew it was wrong. Great video
By the way I’m glad your safe ❤️❤️
thank you for sharing to raise the awareness! Sending love from Bkk, Thailand!!!🥺💗💗💗💗
Soph honestly I'm super glad you're alright and ntg happened to you 💓 but be safe okay💗
the 100 bucks was truly creepy.... that is to get you to be beholden to him. Yikes.
after reading these comments and watching this video, i understand why my father doesnt want me to do any costumer service part time jobs ever (im 15)
All I can say is that you really were patient with him and he took advantage of your innocent intentions. If that was me him asking if I had a boyfriend would be a total red flag. Also maybe I'm just a really private person (though I am a social butterfly myself) I would have blocked him because he wanted to know too much about my day and life I mean even my dad and friends don't ask that much about my life. It is a good thing that you came out of that situation safely.
I don't know why but if that ever happened to me I would still think they're being nice ... I think that's because Im always trying to be very nice to people. Anyway thanks for making this video 💖💖💖
It’s very scary memory with that Old man please stay safe ,probably the man have problem in mental health I mean what the fuck
when i was working at this buffet place this guy in his late 30s and is married plus has a kid told me and his friend also in late 30s with a kid that i could be his next wife and have a kid with him and i was 17 at the time and that made me so uncomfortable and i quickly walked away right after cleaning their table. men are so disgusting make me uncomfortable on a whole other level 💀
Oh my God, I would be scared as hell.... Stay safe sweety😲if you need help ask your buddy's Ben and Kevin to knock that old man off🙄
I really hope that you are okay this is not right so be careful we love you Sophie
ok you NEED to be careful caz this well FUCKING CREEPY
Thank you for the awareness
Awesome as always Sophie!!🤩🌺❤️🤗
Sophieeee stay safeeeee am your new subscriber and I also saw Ben’s video lmao your so funny I really like the way you talk your so cooollll I really wish that you were my sister we could have hanged out but lol we still can be hehehe and your so beautiful!!!!
we lovee you tooo Sophieee
I have the same situation as you Sophie I am glad nothing went wrong and becareful next time❤️
I really hope ur safe and to make decisions that r more safe! Luv u :))
Lol gurl…as a waitress you gotta know how to play the game! Never give your real number or give a fake one. Lie that you have a boyfriend and protective older brothers/father if you have to. The dude shouldn’t have taken it further once he knew you were underage. Don’t engage any further, toss the damn bday card. Even this video you should eventually delete because it keeps this connection alive and he can come back anytime to get off on your reaction to his texts. Protect yourself!
I have also got this kind of text sometimes but I have told my dad about.....and you know what happened my dad reported about him in the police. that made me freak out me..............
I can't join ur server (btw something similar happened to me when I was in 5th grade)
im 13 years old i hope it will never happen to me or one of my friends
so omg stay safe guys people be creepy af this days!
Thank you soo much ❤️ this I am 16 and now I will stay aware of this
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When you post I get happy im a big fan low key have a crush but where not gona talk about that 🤣I wish you the Best have a Good day🙏❤
I have a similar experience a couple months ago, thanks for make this video 🙌🏼⭐✌🏾
Woah love the new look 😍