You Don't Become A Feminist; You're A Born Feminist. no one is born believing that women deserve less rights than others- the patriarchy teaches us that. Everyone is a born feminist; and either you remain a feminist or you become a MISOGYNIST. ~ Farida D.
Times have changed, and so has the meaning of feminism. It's not what it used to be, thanks to the actions and mindset of certain feminists. I will always support equal opportunities and right for both genders but I'll do that without considering myself a feminist.
@Fakecrash-t6l I'm sorry but degree proves everything. Cause you can't get degree without any knowledge. And your comment proves that you have no knowledge.
@@MaybeArkan calling a psychologist a psychologist is a fact though...? Again that's dumb,yk what, have realised almost none of you use your frontal lobe, wasn't going to reply, but how stupid of a sentence can you make lol, it's like asking my classmates to not call themselves doctor after getting a mbbs degree..sounds so dumb(haha am much more educated than you or a bunch of stupids liking you, dw patriarchy will make you all overwork and cry from all the heavy expectations from everyone loll)
Fk the like to dislike ratio man. Fk what others think only your view should matter. Like dislike toh kal ko log bhosarpapu saale dumb log hain bharosa nhn kal ko kisko like karein kisko dislike karein. Like aur dislike aise karo jaise aap hi aik delhne waale ho baaki saari dunia andhi hai bhai
@@itsmohdmustafa Yar its not even about that how many like vs dislike. That should be your metric or merit on which you are judging the video. Its about her points that shes throwing around in the video. Like/dislike ratio ka kia hai? Roz roz dekhta hun hazaron bewakuf aik bewakuf ki baaton se agree karte hain iska matlab yeh thori na ke wohbaat sahi ho gai.
@@amitavmitra6479 isme heart attack ki kya baat h obviously pahle bhi patriarchal women hi thi jinhone women ke rights ko dabaya tha. Sati system bhi women ne hi introduce Kara,female foeticide,and also aurat hi aurat ki dushman h bcoz maine dekha h ki mere yaha per saas hi apni bahu ko pareshan karti h kabhi suna h tumne kisi sasaur ko apni bahu ko pareshan karte hue. Aur aajkal ki ladkiyo ko lagta h ki men agar patriarchal honge to unke rights ko dabayenge. Jabki patriarchal women unke rights ko dabayengi. And one more thing..... Proud to be patriarchal man🗿🗿
@@ani.281 exactly dude..they really thing we are going to support such women misusing laws ? Feminism is about supporting a women when she lacks basic human rights..if it is about human rights..why in the world will a feminist support a law offender?
15:06 Talking about assumptions when this very statement is an assumption from you😅 Asking how many men are okay to marry someone earning more than them. I'm asking the counter to you, how many women are okay to marry someone earning less than them? Matrimonial ads by girl's family starts with salary expectations which is minimum 4-5 times higher than what the girl is earning. So it'll be good to pose this question to the women's side rather than the men's side. Oh sorry, pseudofeminists don't question women, I had forgotten 😌
That's what she said, brother. Men had been stereotyped into doing this since centuries and are expected to be that way, which is wrong. Men are also human and it's OKAY for them to behave like a human; have different perspectives, different choices. Since the very beginning, women were told to look after families and men were supposed to go and hunt for their families. It had been like this. Women were not allowed to work, let alone earn more. So, now... the majority of the people will always side with the conventional methods. I hope you've heard about Nicolaus Copernicus and Giordano Bruno, they said ‘Sun revolves around the Earth and not the other way round’ which was why Bruno was burnt. Why? Because they were against the conventional thinking and beliefs and tried to impose and show case the truth. This case is no different. Just because it had been a history and had worked that way. People has started to see it as a rule, which is wrong. They take it as insult which is NOT. If I ask you now, will you agree to marry a girl earning higher than you or you become a homemaker while your wife earns for your family. Not earning is not even an option these days; be it women, or be it men because earning is necessary! It makes you independent, so that you can handle yourself just fine when you are at your worst and there is no one to help you. So, I’d rather choose and uphold the first question for you, will you agree to marry a woman earning more than you? (reminding you again that it is not bad)
12:07 I think it is a privilege to be treated as you said. Masculinity is a survival instinct for men. Men are being judged and bullied, so they have to be alert in every situation. That's why men show their vulnerability to close ones. Because in reality, everyone is so desperate to bring down an individual.
@sonalisinha7051 tum konsi duniya m pal rahi ho,reality m tumhare views s females bhi agree nhi krti, pseudo feminists ,tum asal m to females k liye kuch kroge nhi,idhr faltu k gyan dekar,jo sachm feminist h unk liye musibat badhati ho,chupchp,tum anti feminist ho,jo patriarchy s jada khtarnak or patriarchy ko strong banata ja raha h.
Oooh khud gali deke sympathy dikha rahe ho? She don't need your sympathy. It's not the first time jab ek women yeh sab openly express karti hai to use gali pari. There are more negative people than positive people. Toh gali toh paregihi. Shame on you.
Dekha ek ladki ne thodasa kuch boldiya toh agye sare ladke usse bura bolne aur jo har jagh misogyny bhari padi hai insta aur society me tab ye sab chup rehte hai. These guys are crying for feminism jo sirf internet pe exist karta hai reality me toh har jagha misogyny bhari padi hai. Aur jo laws pe roo rahe aise laws banne kyuki ladko ne aise crime kiyi hai ab uska misuse ho raha hai that I also agree but phir bhi comparatively shaddi me womens suffer more than men
... Or you can realise that calling out a horrible take just doesn't make you a Misandrist or a Misogynist, same as how you thinking that Adolf H❗tler was not a good person won't make you a Misandrist. Quite frankly she could have been a man, and we'd still think she is stupid. In fact realistically with the amount of hate Andrew Tate gets one could argue the internet would have been far more brutal. Which is simply why outside your echo chamber and terminally online lonely and mentally ill groups, most women do not agree with her either.
so i have a thing to ask mrs goat . so if a guy says that my girlfriend / wife wont allow me , its normal , why other way around is seen as toxic men who ask for healthy women who are not overweight , theyre seen as misogny , but the whys a woman saying " if hes not 6ft " is not misandry ????
I still remember as a little kid my mom telling me the difference between miss and mrs I never understood why we needed two words for it and I just accepted it the way it was without ever questioning it. We are taught this stuff as we grow up you can’t really blame men for being patriarchal because they were taught this stuff when they were little kids. It has been going on and on since generations.
Look at the ID of the person who commented saying he would marry an unemployed man. That's fake ID or pseudo-feminist. Anyway, is a working man legally allowed to ask his wife to do housework? The wife has the right to decide whether or not to have children. She has the right not to inform her husband whether she is pregnant or not. A wife has the right to have an abortion without her husband's knowledge. If she gives birth to someone else's child, the husband should protect her kid without doing a paternity test. What equality are you talking about in this situation?
Some points are good but most of the assumption are absolutely wrong let me tell you why.... you said a women is willing to marry a men if he doesn't earn thats wrong....i made my profile in a matrimony and wrote my actual earning i get over 3 to 4 requests daily but soon i get frustrated and then put my earning as 1LPA you know what i didn't received a single request even when i send requests by myself i get rejected every time. So yes men are like that because you feminists forced them to become like that and you have absolutely no idea how the world works.....all the best with the propaganda 😂
There is a well known Telugu proverb : 'Andani draksha pullana can be given in English as : The grapes which are inaccessible always soar'. It is the nature of some people to find fault with certain goals which they fail to achieve.
There are many rich women who married less earning men I'm sure you know how to use google and while there are women who earn less or nothing, cannot marry someone who also earns less i mean how will they survive will they both beg to make ends meet?
@Lalalalalalalatte I agree a thousand percent. Actually the problem is male low self esteem ego. They don't wanna marry someone who earns more than them.
Everyone has their own preferences, tastes and likes but if you think only men can have preferences but women can't then you're showing hypocrisy, also if this is the reason you hate women then it is called misogyny
About the women being gold digger context, a guy in my office said this "i am looking for a groom for my big sister. I heard doctors in US make 40 lakh per month so as soon as we find a man who makes at least that much money, hum usko shadi karwake vej denge". Then frw momth after that there was some big cricketer getting divorced from wife and wife took some heavy money for alimomy then this was the same guy who remarked "this woman is such a gold digger". And let me tell u guys, never have i ever been so confused by someone's bipolarness.
@@user_n-k44 Oh yeah the double standards females face in relationships.... Women are constantly judged and shamed for their choices in relationships. Date someone wealthy? You're a gold digger.Prioritizing physical attraction? You're too picky, Ignore physical attraction? You're settling for less,Date someone unemployed? How will you survive?, Respect your parents' wishes? You're a cheater, Disregard your parents' wishes? You're disobedient, Get used for body in a relationship? You're dumb & now u lost ur value, Leave a toxic relationship? You're a bad woman to move on...And then there's the infamous purity shaming.When will women be free to make their own choices without fear of judgment? It's time to break these double standards and treat women with the respect and autonomy they deserve.
@@sanskar3163 U still dont get it do you ? A women who was supposedly the home maker should also get her fair share of resources becuase once they are divorced she is no longer a home maker and she has no job BUT that would not affect the man because he still has a carreer to tend to. If the marriages lasted for maybe i say a few years then she is a few more years older and she has no income BECAUSE all this time she was taking care of her ex husbands home. So she should also apt for fair share of resources. Even a 10 year old can get this kuch sensible chize bhi bhol le bhai 😂😂
It's not wrong to marry someone who is rich as long as you agree to not take money after divorce, especially if you are competent and don't need it. Nothing wrong to wish for a comfortable life but don't ruin someone else's life in that process.
1.There's a thing called as attraction,due to differences of psychology of male and female attraction are different in both male and female,the amount of makeup you put in your face,a man doesn't do it,same for underarm hair,if a female is comfortable with underarm hair,we have no problem. 2. Your video literally create mental health conditions. 3."Log kya kahenge" is also important at some levels, atleast it prevents a person from making foolish video and misguide a percentage of population,and this percentage is enough to ruin a situation. 4. Comment Type 4 "you are sick". 5. I couldn't watch that video more
Pehele maine socha ki kuch likhu fir laga itna explain karke koi fayeda nahi hai aur jab itna likh diya toh ab mujhe lag raha hai maine time waste kar diya
No I am 25+ Targeted audience: chapri uneducated people who love to do men vs women Actual audience: educated people who empathize for both men & women
Can you please react to your mistakes for just one video. Not mistake of someone else. You can also react to others talking about your mistake for once. Otherwise I think you are really wrong.
@sonalisinha7051 try to sound mature,but nobody supports you,not even females,agr bharosa nhi to reality m krk dekho jo bolti ho, reality check milega, pseudo......
I am boy studying in class 11 And I have observed many of my male friends are mysogynist even after getting quality education It's feels sad that even after getting quality education they are locked behind the cage of patriarchal mentality and prejudice I want to change their minds So can you please tell me or make a short or video on this topic So that boys like us can be free minded with no conservative and misogynistic mindset. Please ma'am I've sent this same text before also, I'd be very grateful to listen to your views and suggestion and indebted for your service.🙂 I want to you to put some light on this topic and make a video on it if possible or just a single short (whichever is convenient).... please ma'am. Btw loved your take on patriarchy.
dude, you are still budding. 11th class dude. dont get influenced by creators like her. True, there could be some truth here and there but she clearly is a pseudo feminist. you want to explore psychology? watch SciShow psych, healthy gamer gg and early content of Jordan Peterson.
Bro if you want take youtube lectures of sociology professor's they are domain expert they will help you, This women thinks that if your mom doesn't show you her boobs but your father shows chest then you will become sexiest. I am not lying, you can see that video Easiest way to erase mysogyny is to befriend girls have good communication
A psychologist who is making a big video using small video clips, who cannot even speak continuously for some time.Your video is like, 10 year old girl reading book.
RUclipsrs never showed your good side only showed some reels which people get confused that either you lve or hate men snd they used this point snd manipulated the audience and made them hate you without understanding the context ofwehat you post
@shanayak659 not even women all the hate is coming from men who don't know the meaning of feminism and they target girls because they can't control or rule them beat them and cage them in kitchen like past years because women now are smarter then men so all just hate women without any reason just because they can't control them now
Kuch nhi badla hai kuch nhi badlega, (in our lifetime atleast) ye log paise kama k nikl lengy ham log ladte rahengy... as an individual, men women karna chhodo and respect everyone, kaam karo sbko pyar karo. just accept the differences, help each other. only love can conquer hate nothing else.
@@Abhishekkuru exactly.. accept the difference and just help people get their basic humans right lol..but wahi na..she got a few points wrong..but actually in this video she just points to the differences which should be worked on..like i got to learn and yk really change my views
If u r a regular viewer , u will understand wo pehle se hi kaafi achi hai and neutral hai , it's just that she started making videos on feminism recently , earlier she used to talk about male , female , trans , gay , lesb , kids , adults , parenting.... almost about everything , she is a good psychologist for sure , some people r misunderstanding her
This was a good video, although I don't think it's enough against the negativity you've shown in the last 1 month. Anyways, it's a start at least. Talking about people mistaking feminism as martriarchy, the reason is actually pretty logical - You yourself mentioned how much partriarchy is detrimental both for men and women and that feminism stands for equality. But how many times have we seen feminists standing up for what men are facing due to partriarchy? Even in your videos, you've literally talked so many times about women suffering due to partriarchy, but how many videos you have made regarding the men suffering due to partriarchy? It's the feminists who only put women on the receiving end of partriarchy. You've always said - 'If you feel you as a man are burdened to provide financially, then be a feminist and help your wife in household chores, so that she can contribute financially as well' but why the statement isn't ever framed in this way - 'If you feel you as a woman are burdened with household chores, then be a feminist and earn yourself so that he can help you in household chores as well'? Why is in feminism that the female gender is taught rights while male gender is taught accountability, when both have suffered due to partriarchy? The truth is FEMINISM NEVER CARED FOR MEN. True feminism which talks about women's rights isn't problematic, unless it gets extremist. I as a guy support true feminism, but the fact remains that it does nothing for us men, so men need to find some other 'ISM' to fight for their rights. That is what is happening today. Men are realising that they have been exploited too for years, but they don't have any 'feminism', so they are raising their voice now. We are not against feminism, we are just voicing out our rights. If you cannot support that, don't try to down out, otherwise the response isn't going to be quite sweet from the other side😊
“Exploited for years” blud what you are talking about 😭😭😭 I am a man but lets be honest that the society we live in is men centric stop trying to be victim so badly Secondly there are bad fruits in every basket, there are men who are with girls only for materialistic things so don’t generalise based on your “assumptions” (99 out of 100 wala) Third the whole video was literally about how patriarchy is ill for men and how they face problems meeting the so called expectations Fourth feminism talks rights which women have been deprived of and men about the pressure society bombard on them
Bhai..you’re just selfish, that you can’t support something that fights wrong happening with someone, but you need it to cater to you. Wonderful. Anyways feminism caters for men what are you talk8bg about
now i agree with what u said however u r overlooking some of the things first men always like always blamed feminism for not having rights i know so many men going around saying feminist is the reason men r losing rights which is absolutely wrong because feminist was to support women and minorities especially men recently started to understand patriarchy and it's harmful impact before they always just neglected what feminist said about it they totally justified patriarchy so i guess that's why feminist just focused on women rights more.
@@aariharoseroseI think you kinda justified what this guy said. 'Feminism focussed on women's rights more' - I don't think there's any issue with that. Issue is in claiming that feminism advocates for equality, if that's the case you got to focus on rights of both. You're getting my point? The easy thing is to openly accept that feminism works for women's rights, no sensible guy will have a problem with that. Toxicity exists everywhere, similarly certain feminists are toxic, I'm sure they don't define true feminism. Let feminism work for women's rights and some other ideology or other groups of people (like MRAs) work for men's rights. This can happen peacefully. Why this claiming to work for equality by the feminists when clearly they hardly take a stand for men's rights, there lies the hypocrisy, my friend. Fight for women's rights as well as fight for men's rights both can co-exist without demeaning each other.
I made the reel I included in this video (which had the same script but short) in 2023 and it went viral on Instagram. I have not copied anyone’s video. This is 100% original.
You are so right even around me growing up I always heard things like "what kind of a man he is if he doesnt earn" or the typical "dont cry like a girl" (my mum and dad still say this to my brother) and its so damn frustrating that they dont see whats wrong with saying these things. Patriarchy truely does stop men from living most of them are always away for work and they have to earn for wife and children and also their parents which is VERY stressful. I have seen my grandfather and my father spiral into depression and be put on antidepressants for years and plus all the shaming, "what kind of a man feels sad". So I really believe patriarchy and the "cultural" mindset harms literally everyone Thanks for talking about this tho love ya💗
Your point of the fathers not being able to watch their children grow up, literally made me cry, because even my father was not able to see me and my sister grow up. Now he's about to get retired from his job and we are just about to start our careers, no matter how much we try, we'll not be able to bring back the time and spend it with him (although this was because of a different reason but still) I can't imagine how he must be feeling about this, we atleast have our mother here for us , but he doesn't have anyone over there (he lives in a different state) . I really miss the time when we used to stay together like a true happy family😖. I wish I could just go back in time and then stop it forever. 😢
@BrilliantGUIDE Nahi ye unki galti nahi hai. I don't blame him, I'm just sharing how I feel about the situation and I know ki iska to koi alternative nahi ho sakta tha, I was just ranting and expressing my feelings. I'm not blaming anyone here. Her point just reminded me of my own situation.
When I cry in front of my mom at the age of 19 she said this "ye dekho ladka ho ke roh rhaa hai" if i want to do some house hold work then se says " ladko ka kaam hota hai kamana" When i ask my mother that how you cook so delicious food? Can you tell how i can cook this" bs yhii sb krna ladkiyon wala kaam" Bs mummy hai toh kyaa hii bol skte hai 😅😂
I don't understand how some females laugh on sexist wsup jokes of husband wife where clearly the wife is shown as some kind of ungli pe nachane wali women , but in reality, it's just their way of loving and protecting their man ,for example when ur wife is telling u to stay away from those bad boys , it's because of toxic masculinity, not because she don't value friendship
Because it's joke a sweet heart i respect u . Now see it a joke main source of entertainment no girls are offended except of some because them u or me can't change fact that women were seen as lower than mens protecting ur husband is a good thing but you force a man
@@eterna1379 I never find them funny , they show that women are jealous of other womens ,women are over controlling , women are hard to understand, they are just stereotyping half of population, humans are complex, every human is different
I was about to shut down this video but when I watched it till the end I was like “not bad she had some decent points” You can however focus on the delivery mechanism which is quite unlikeable unless that’s your persona to get views Dial down the attitude and present more examples. Some of the topics / examples are molded according to your convenience.
Became feminist when I was 12,I was rational ever since I was born and always opposed dogmatic beliefs,this is the only thing I'm proud of myself, I'm 19 now and never even regretted for my ideas
Good for you. Logical rational thinking will keep you miles ahead of others. It will only benefit, so keep lighting your way, and pave it for others too ❤😊
one example of patriarchy affecting both genders is labelling certain hobbies "feminine", associating femininity w something weak and not letting men enjoy these "feminine" hobbies for that reason
@@nothingpersonal- For instance, playing with dolls is considered a feminine play , well in fact it's just a doll, same as playing with football is associated with masculinity, even though it's just a ball.
I love ur content and ur message. And I am so sorry that u r receiving a lot of hate because a few people r too dumb to understand what u r trying to say.. or r too biased to even listen to what u r trying to say..
Lol they did it for the views if you don't believe me check the views for other vedios and the reaction vedio on her (has the highest ever) because they knew there are many misogynists in our society who'd love every chance they can get to show their hate and you are one of them obviously 😂 you are just an another view for them
Let's remember that she didn't disrespect or insult him in any way. Instead, it's some of you who are using his name to spread hate and misogyny, which is truly disrespectful. Please be more mature and sensitive when referencing him, and avoid misusing his case to fuel negativity. Let's show some respect for his memory. If you haven't already, please watch the content and try to understand the context better. This will help you form a more informed opinion
That's exactly what she mentioned. Men have been conditioned to not show emotions. Even in my house I've seen many times when my mom gets upset due to my dad, she cries it ou but when my dad gets upset due to my mom, he'll just go aloof and never open up. This needs to change.
@@ritwikghosh7743 Men are traditionally socialized to suppress emotions, except for anger, which is often seen as a masculine trait. In contrast, women are expected to be more emotionally expressive, showing sadness, empathy, and nurturing qualities, but are discouraged from showing anger, as it's perceived as unfeminine.
I believe that you have noot seen all the colours of the painting, i accept patriarchy exist , but the world is not that cruel place to exist , i have seen my father taking care of me when i am hurt , he knows my class attends my ptms, motivate me to just focus on efforts , in my siblings both boys and girls are emotional, the provide emotional support , but not male ego the have elder sibling syndrome or adult syndrome of going through all the pain to keep their younger siblings Happy and comfortable, my bros and sis we equally irritate others and cook depending on our moods , in my know locality there are old couples, from the era of ( gunghat wla zamana where people used to marry early ) they also share work , In my family : my dadaji cooks ( they live in different town ) and dadi manages all the otherwork , and my nana don't know how to so he makes tea and he takes care of all the market duties and then both of them watch tv and news together then abbuse the policy makers , but they are living happily and peaceful they fight argue , but in the end its life it can not be idealistic that both the people do equal work its a family some takes care of one duty other guy takes care of other duty , It depends upon liking, condition , skills and understanding , this is real world 🌍 . I don't have a degree but in your videos i see that you have some bitterness against men .
You are talking about your own comfort and your life There’s a much bigger picture to this and mind you she is also married to a man and she stated she doesn’t have anything bad against all men its patriarchy we are talking about It’s good that you didn’t face it but there’s outside this too i hope you get it
@@rohankamble9595 You comment such positive things but why are you so self contradictory, bro😅 She's telling positive things about her life and you are telling there's a bigger picture. In that case, anyone who highlights the negative points, that's also not the big picture. It's true even today many people in the society have that partriarchal mindset, but what's your ground for claiming that those partriarchal people form the core of the society and these feministic people are exceptions? In a country with 1.5 billion population, is there a way to generalize? If I say that majority of the society believes in equality today and these kinds of partriarchal people are exceptions and they don't 'paint the big picture', how are you gonna prove me wrong, bro???
@@ritwikghosh7743 at this point you are just being eristic, as a girl I KNOW I have witnessed enough to say that 90% of India is patriarchal!!! Still most of parents in my locality want a male child and they want to marry their girl child once they complete class 10, people like you who question ridiculous things when someone fights patriarchy literally boils my blood, if it isn't for the patriarchy i wouldn't have stopped to pursue my favourite career and my sister wouldn't have stopped from going other state to study in a great college that she earned the seat by herself studying day and night And without patriarchy everyone that came to our home never would have sympathized us and told our mother to marry us off and not educate us because our father died and we need a 'MAN' in our home to take care of us, well guess what we lived for 15 years without 'A MAN' and continue to do that and people also continue to tell us to marry and that we need a man but they never acknowledge what we achieved so far NEVER You know how distressful it is when you just want to study and get a job live a earning by yourself and want to take care of your family but outsiders always coming and telling you that you need a MAN and need to get married to make a living???? Ofc not!! It's great that you lived a good life and patriarchy didn't affect you but that doesn't give you the right to dismiss million of other people's sufferings!!! When someone is fighting a toxic system you can either stand by them or LEAVE but don't be an addition to that problematic system
@ritwikghosh7743 i wont generalise I will just ask one question which will define if the society’s patriarchal or not How many female prime ministers have we had as compared to male? Only one Now you may ask how does this matter because it does Our society do not want woman to be in the position of power and if you can’t see that You’re just pretending you’re blind There, i proved you wrong😉
i don't understand what makes you comment this. some men like you bash feminists because apparently we dont talk about mens problems and rights enough, and now when we do you bash us again
Your videos are actually making so much impact, I am a women and I didnt saw world this way that men also suffers in this system, I thought only women suffer. U just opened my eyes and made me see the world in different way, Thanks dear. Now i wanna respect all the genders 🙏
@@gigdthkkf Respectfully asking, did you really think men have no emotions, don’t suffer, or never have breakdowns? You spoke as if you had never met a man before until watching her video. So It’s a major issue that women are unaware of men’s struggles. We also have emotions and feelings, girl. It's the problem why relationships fails, they both don't know about each other. Both genders should understand the psychological differences between males and females. I recommend you read the book "Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus" by John Gray. It’s a great book that helps you understand the differences and perspectives of both genders. Have a nice day!
My mother was saying how if a husband doesn’t like or has a feud with his wife's side of the relatives, and they (the wife's side of the relatives) have a function (like a wedding or smth), the husband can forbid the wife from attending it and the wife is bound to follow. My immediate reaction was, 'Which is wrong...', then she went on to shout on me. I was/am so pissed off of seeing patriarchal toxicity all around me, your video was a much need for the day. Keep making them. I missed you. ❤❤❤
Yes happens with a lot of us , not only with females, but also with males , when we try to take stand for our mothers ,they will react by saying don't counter ur dad because he is authority figure in the patrriachal system , so sometimes even if he is wrong, nobody can say anything, thankfully some dads have understood patriarchal society & nowadays are very open to positive criticism and they try to push their daughters forward, but I feel sad for the kids who are still suffering and they are not heard
And the normalisation of this toxicity is crazy. The best example is our relatives' "kind advice" and the slick and oftentimes overt judgement laced in their suggestions. I'm a blunt girl. I tell them off to their face 😂😂
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You Don't Become A Feminist; You're A Born Feminist.
no one is born believing that women deserve less rights than others-
the patriarchy teaches us that.
Everyone is a born feminist;
and either you remain a feminist
or you become a MISOGYNIST.
~ Farida D.
@dazaiswaifuu well she has become a misandrist.
@dazaiswaifuu 🤣
@dazaiswaifuu bullshit
Times have changed, and so has the meaning of feminism. It's not what it used to be, thanks to the actions and mindset of certain feminists. I will always support equal opportunities and right for both genders but I'll do that without considering myself a feminist.
And what about misandrist?
If she claims to be a Psychologist, then I am the president of this country.
@@somethingcool9583 hmm she can claim it..cuz she has a degree
@@Niharika..u8 from WhatsApp univ??
@Fakecrash-t6l I'm sorry but degree proves everything. Cause you can't get degree without any knowledge. And your comment proves that you have no knowledge.
@@Niharika..u8 stop defending her LOL😂
@@MaybeArkan calling a psychologist a psychologist is a fact though...? Again that's dumb,yk what, have realised almost none of you use your frontal lobe, wasn't going to reply, but how stupid of a sentence can you make lol, it's like asking my classmates to not call themselves doctor after getting a mbbs degree..sounds so dumb(haha am much more educated than you or a bunch of stupids liking you, dw patriarchy will make you all overwork and cry from all the heavy expectations from everyone loll)
I'm a feminist but I feel you are very biased
Definitely
So what is she is biased? 😒
Taxes are low in this country, let me explain I'm Finance Minister 😂😂✅
For those who want to know, the like to dislike ratio is 500/2100
Fk the like to dislike ratio man. Fk what others think only your view should matter. Like dislike toh kal ko log bhosarpapu saale dumb log hain bharosa nhn kal ko kisko like karein kisko dislike karein. Like aur dislike aise karo jaise aap hi aik delhne waale ho baaki saari dunia andhi hai bhai
@@JigneshKumar-k2e RUclips algorithm ki madad se pata chal jata hai 👌🏻
God I f*cking love RUclips.
@@itsmohdmustafa Yar its not even about that how many like vs dislike. That should be your metric or merit on which you are judging the video. Its about her points that shes throwing around in the video. Like/dislike ratio ka kia hai? Roz roz dekhta hun hazaron bewakuf aik bewakuf ki baaton se agree karte hain iska matlab yeh thori na ke wohbaat sahi ho gai.
Phycologist from meesho 😂
@@AC-bi8ti psychologist* 😍🎀
Proud to be a masculine man 😎❤
Women are insecure in front of Masculine men 😂
Being masculine is okay. At least you're not patriarchal......
@@amitavmitra6479
According to me
Feminist women 🗿🗿🥶
Feminist men🤡🤡🤡
Patriarchal women 🤡🤡🤡
Patriarchal men🗿🗿🗿🗿🥶
@JeeAspirant-y9x What the fu☆k I just read. I'm having an heart attack now.😞
@@amitavmitra6479 isme heart attack ki kya baat h obviously pahle bhi patriarchal women hi thi jinhone women ke rights ko dabaya tha. Sati system bhi women ne hi introduce Kara,female foeticide,and also aurat hi aurat ki dushman h bcoz maine dekha h ki mere yaha per saas hi apni bahu ko pareshan karti h kabhi suna h tumne kisi sasaur ko apni bahu ko pareshan karte hue. Aur aajkal ki ladkiyo ko lagta h ki men agar patriarchal honge to unke rights ko dabayenge. Jabki patriarchal women unke rights ko dabayengi.
And one more thing.....
Proud to be patriarchal man🗿🗿
As a Feminist do you agree lot of women taking advantage misusing law against men's.
i do
This awkward birch never talks about it
@@ani.281 exactly dude..they really thing we are going to support such women misusing laws ? Feminism is about supporting a women when she lacks basic human rights..if it is about human rights..why in the world will a feminist support a law offender?
@ thats so sad :)
Shhh no no nobody is supposed to talk about that
15:06 Talking about assumptions when this very statement is an assumption from you😅 Asking how many men are okay to marry someone earning more than them. I'm asking the counter to you, how many women are okay to marry someone earning less than them? Matrimonial ads by girl's family starts with salary expectations which is minimum 4-5 times higher than what the girl is earning.
So it'll be good to pose this question to the women's side rather than the men's side. Oh sorry, pseudofeminists don't question women, I had forgotten 😌
That's what she said, brother. Men had been stereotyped into doing this since centuries and are expected to be that way, which is wrong. Men are also human and it's OKAY for them to behave like a human; have different perspectives, different choices. Since the very beginning, women were told to look after families and men were supposed to go and hunt for their families. It had been like this. Women were not allowed to work, let alone earn more. So, now... the majority of the people will always side with the conventional methods.
I hope you've heard about Nicolaus Copernicus and Giordano Bruno, they said ‘Sun revolves around the Earth and not the other way round’ which was why Bruno was burnt. Why? Because they were against the conventional thinking and beliefs and tried to impose and show case the truth.
This case is no different. Just because it had been a history and had worked that way. People has started to see it as a rule, which is wrong. They take it as insult which is NOT.
If I ask you now, will you agree to marry a girl earning higher than you or you become a homemaker while your wife earns for your family. Not earning is not even an option these days; be it women, or be it men because earning is necessary! It makes you independent, so that you can handle yourself just fine when you are at your worst and there is no one to help you. So, I’d rather choose and uphold the first question for you, will you agree to marry a woman earning more than you? (reminding you again that it is not bad)
@@ritwikghosh7743 emotional damage
You are Spitting Facts too straight forward 🤫
@@papolugeetanath7503 bro be spitting facts
I have seen many woman who as a wife work to support education of kids and economic condition of house whereas husband wasting money on alc*hol etc
If she is clinical psychologist
I am the director of Pushpa 2😂
@@AstarAbhi-h6x ? She has a degree for that, you make no sense
@@Niharika..u8and your existence also
@@Niharika..u8 dear fangirl,getting a degree is not a big deal!!!
@@Niharika..u8 paw paw!
@@Niharika..u8 he said clinical.
RUclips was good until some "Stray Goats" started neighing on the Mic.....
Dayumm 😂
RUclips was really good when dislike button existed (please let's bring them back ♥️)
My guy Harry Kane on thumbnail for no reason with that text 💀
for god's sake why Harry Kane 😭
Fr broo 😭
Fr real bro wtf is this😅😂😂😂😂
Fr , bro is really achieving in backward
Fr, also can anybody confirm that is that fcking Ishowspeed above Kane???
12:07
I think it is a privilege to be treated as you said. Masculinity is a survival instinct for men. Men are being judged and bullied, so they have to be alert in every situation. That's why men show their vulnerability to close ones. Because in reality, everyone is so desperate to bring down an individual.
@@turtleedits1715 lmao?? That's literally the patriarchy
After watching this video I need therapy 😂😂😂
I also 😂
Trust me therapist will need therapy after you visit them 💀💀 so it's better you should not approach any therapist
@@swatipriya562 you reply to every comment 🤣🤣🤣 🤌 koi nhi koi nhi galat ka saath dene me mehnat lagti hai
@@aaryansingh2287 true satya ko support krne mai hardwork toh lgta hai wo v against group of misogynist mentality men
@@aaryansingh2287 true satya ko support krne hardwork hai against so many misoginist men
You acutally need a therapist before it is too late 😂😂
Ha toxic incel samajh kuch Ata nahi bakloli Karni Hai bas
@sonalisinha7051 tum konsi duniya m pal rahi ho,reality m tumhare views s females bhi agree nhi krti, pseudo feminists ,tum asal m to females k liye kuch kroge nhi,idhr faltu k gyan dekar,jo sachm feminist h unk liye musibat badhati ho,chupchp,tum anti feminist ho,jo patriarchy s jada khtarnak or patriarchy ko strong banata ja raha h.
didi band kardo bohot gaali kha rho ho internet pe.....aapke liye bura lag rha hai
Oooh khud gali deke sympathy dikha rahe ho? She don't need your sympathy. It's not the first time jab ek women yeh sab openly express karti hai to use gali pari. There are more negative people than positive people. Toh gali toh paregihi. Shame on you.
South Africa ki mudra 😂
Ye bakwass kitna karti hai😢😂
@@max_splash6953 Yeh nahi tum bohut karte ho dam hai to maa baap ke saamne karke dikha
Exactly. She is a blank narcissist 😂
Dekha ek ladki ne thodasa kuch boldiya toh agye sare ladke usse bura bolne aur jo har jagh misogyny bhari padi hai insta aur society me tab ye sab chup rehte hai. These guys are crying for feminism jo sirf internet pe exist karta hai reality me toh har jagha misogyny bhari padi hai. Aur jo laws pe roo rahe aise laws banne kyuki ladko ne aise crime kiyi hai ab uska misuse ho raha hai that I also agree but phir bhi comparatively shaddi me womens suffer more than men
asli misogyny tumne abhi dekhi kaha hai. jab ladke roj pitenge na tujhe bina matlab ke taab shayad tujhe misogyny samaj aayegi.
... Or you can realise that calling out a horrible take just doesn't make you a Misandrist or a Misogynist, same as how you thinking that Adolf H❗tler was not a good person won't make you a Misandrist.
Quite frankly she could have been a man, and we'd still think she is stupid. In fact realistically with the amount of hate Andrew Tate gets one could argue the internet would have been far more brutal.
Which is simply why outside your echo chamber and terminally online lonely and mentally ill groups, most women do not agree with her either.
Sab RUclipsr ne milke isko aisa roast kia ki awkward goat se tandoori mutton bangayi😂
so i have a thing to ask mrs goat . so if a guy says that my girlfriend / wife wont allow me , its normal , why other way around is seen as toxic
men who ask for healthy women who are not overweight , theyre seen as misogny , but the whys a woman saying " if hes not 6ft " is not misandry ????
I still remember as a little kid my mom telling me the difference between miss and mrs I never understood why we needed two words for it and I just accepted it the way it was without ever questioning it. We are taught this stuff as we grow up you can’t really blame men for being patriarchal because they were taught this stuff when they were little kids. It has been going on and on since generations.
Psychologist from naaptol
Awkward goat ❌ awkward donkey😂
Look at the ID of the person who commented saying he would marry an unemployed man. That's fake ID or pseudo-feminist. Anyway, is a working man legally allowed to ask his wife to do housework? The wife has the right to decide whether or not to have children. She has the right not to inform her husband whether she is pregnant or not. A wife has the right to have an abortion without her husband's knowledge. If she gives birth to someone else's child, the husband should protect her kid without doing a paternity test. What equality are you talking about in this situation?
I definitely never heard of these cases before sounds like it's all made up i hope you're not making this up
@Lalalalalalalatte i am really sorry for the fact that people are living under a rock
@@INSPIRE-BOND-jc5pw Don't worry bro. You will get a proper home. I respect simps more than pseudo feminists. Keep rocking
@@haribelekar4305 You have no idea what's going on you just trolled a hater like you 😂😂 you really are living under a rock
@@INSPIRE-BOND-jc5pw Don't feel sorry for yourself, I feel bad for you
Some points are good but most of the assumption are absolutely wrong let me tell you why.... you said a women is willing to marry a men if he doesn't earn thats wrong....i made my profile in a matrimony and wrote my actual earning i get over 3 to 4 requests daily but soon i get frustrated and then put my earning as 1LPA you know what i didn't received a single request even when i send requests by myself i get rejected every time. So yes men are like that because you feminists forced them to become like that and you have absolutely no idea how the world works.....all the best with the propaganda 😂
There is a well known Telugu proverb : 'Andani draksha pullana can be given in English as : The grapes which are inaccessible always soar'. It is the nature of some people to find fault with certain goals which they fail to achieve.
There are many rich women who married less earning men I'm sure you know how to use google and while there are women who earn less or nothing, cannot marry someone who also earns less i mean how will they survive will they both beg to make ends meet?
@Lalalalalalalatte I agree a thousand percent.
Actually the problem is male low self esteem ego. They don't wanna marry someone who earns more than them.
@Lalalalalalalatte there is no point to argue with a futile mind. So , i won't explain it further...✌🏻
Everyone has their own preferences, tastes and likes but if you think only men can have preferences but women can't then you're showing hypocrisy, also if this is the reason you hate women then it is called misogyny
Bro if you ever feel the need to speak to someone here I am. I think you need a psychologist.
About the women being gold digger context, a guy in my office said this "i am looking for a groom for my big sister. I heard doctors in US make 40 lakh per month so as soon as we find a man who makes at least that much money, hum usko shadi karwake vej denge". Then frw momth after that there was some big cricketer getting divorced from wife and wife took some heavy money for alimomy then this was the same guy who remarked "this woman is such a gold digger". And let me tell u guys, never have i ever been so confused by someone's bipolarness.
Yaa I've seen people like them 😂
Such type of men can be found in your home also🤡
@@user_n-k44 Oh yeah the double standards females face in relationships....
Women are constantly judged and shamed for their choices in relationships.
Date someone wealthy? You're a gold digger.Prioritizing physical attraction? You're too picky, Ignore physical attraction? You're settling for less,Date someone unemployed? How will you survive?, Respect your parents' wishes? You're a cheater, Disregard your parents' wishes? You're disobedient, Get used for body in a relationship? You're dumb & now u lost ur value, Leave a toxic relationship? You're a bad woman to move on...And then there's the infamous purity shaming.When will women be free to make their own choices without fear of judgment? It's time to break these double standards and treat women with the respect and autonomy they deserve.
@@sanskar3163 U still dont get it do you ? A women who was supposedly the home maker should also get her fair share of resources becuase once they are divorced she is no longer a home maker and she has no job BUT that would not affect the man because he still has a carreer to tend to. If the marriages lasted for maybe i say a few years then she is a few more years older and she has no income BECAUSE all this time she was taking care of her ex husbands home. So she should also apt for fair share of resources. Even a 10 year old can get this kuch sensible chize bhi bhol le bhai 😂😂
It's not wrong to marry someone who is rich as long as you agree to not take money after divorce, especially if you are competent and don't need it.
Nothing wrong to wish for a comfortable life but don't ruin someone else's life in that process.
1.There's a thing called as attraction,due to differences of psychology of male and female attraction are different in both male and female,the amount of makeup you put in your face,a man doesn't do it,same for underarm hair,if a female is comfortable with underarm hair,we have no problem.
2. Your video literally create mental health conditions.
3."Log kya kahenge" is also important at some levels, atleast it prevents a person from making foolish video and misguide a percentage of population,and this percentage is enough to ruin a situation.
4. Comment Type 4 "you are sick".
5. I couldn't watch that video more
Dumb😂😂😂
Pehele maine socha ki kuch likhu fir laga itna explain karke koi fayeda nahi hai aur jab itna likh diya toh ab mujhe lag raha hai maine time waste kar diya
Targeted audience:-👨🦱👩🦱
Actual audience:-👶👦👧
Kid go and do your homework or learn some new skills Don't waste your time here
No I am 25+
Targeted audience: chapri uneducated people who love to do men vs women
Actual audience: educated people who empathize for both men & women
thanku for reminding
chala jee ka pdhne bhai
@TOP5हिन्दी-p5k phirse eak baccha 🤡
@@TOP5हिन्दी-p5k ye hui naa Mardo wali baat😁
Thks bruh...
Can you please react to your mistakes for just one video. Not mistake of someone else. You can also react to others talking about your mistake for once. Otherwise I think you are really wrong.
I think you people missed the video logic and like incels only hate women
@@sonalisinha7051 Blandish spotted
@sonalisinha7051 try to sound mature,but nobody supports you,not even females,agr bharosa nhi to reality m krk dekho jo bolti ho, reality check milega, pseudo......
0:21 unfollow
I am boy studying in class 11
And I have observed many of my male friends are mysogynist even after getting quality education
It's feels sad that even after getting quality education they are locked behind the cage of patriarchal mentality and prejudice
I want to change their minds
So can you please tell me or make a short or video on this topic
So that boys like us can be free minded with no conservative and misogynistic mindset.
Please ma'am I've sent this same text before also, I'd be very grateful to listen to your views and suggestion and indebted for your service.🙂
I want to you to put some light on this topic and make a video on it if possible or just a single short (whichever is convenient).... please ma'am.
Btw loved your take on patriarchy.
Don't change just choose your own crowd! they r idiots, their kids will run from them as many of us doing from our family!!!
@sadashivkumarkushwaha1849 mouga mat ban, Mard ban
dude, you are still budding. 11th class dude. dont get influenced by creators like her. True, there could be some truth here and there but she clearly is a pseudo feminist. you want to explore psychology? watch SciShow psych, healthy gamer gg and early content of Jordan Peterson.
Bro if you want take youtube lectures of sociology professor's they are domain expert they will help you,
This women thinks that if your mom doesn't show you her boobs but your father shows chest then you will become sexiest. I am not lying, you can see that video
Easiest way to erase mysogyny is to befriend girls have good communication
abe unka nhi tujhe tera mind change karna chahiye. L generation
what do you think of intersectional feminism or radical feminism or the different notion and types of feminism
naaaaahhh it's people who think feminism is only allowed to earn women and stopped it when they started enjoying their hard-earned money!!
Phycologist from naptol 😂
A psychologist who is making a big video using small video clips, who cannot even speak continuously for some time.Your video is like,
10 year old girl reading book.
RUclipsrs never showed your good side only showed some reels which people get confused that either you lve or hate men snd they used this point snd manipulated the audience and made them hate you without understanding the context ofwehat you post
It's because every women who talks about another women is getting hatee and personally targeted....
@shanayak659 not even women all the hate is coming from men who don't know the meaning of feminism and they target girls because they can't control or rule them beat them and cage them in kitchen like past years because women now are smarter then men so all just hate women without any reason just because they can't control them now
@@shanayak659 LOl victim play, wman card. first look at why she got hate.
idk about the previous videos but this seems rational to me
same
Because you are blined by Shwetab's youtubers
@@shashisiddhi9662 you are blind by her if you don't find previous one irrational
@@shashisiddhi9662 shwetab wasn't wrong on that reel reaction video.
@@shashisiddhi9662 same goes with you
Kuch nhi badla hai kuch nhi badlega, (in our lifetime atleast) ye log paise kama k nikl lengy ham log ladte rahengy...
as an individual, men women karna chhodo and respect everyone, kaam karo sbko pyar karo.
just accept the differences, help each other. only love can conquer hate nothing else.
@@Abhishekkuru exactly.. accept the difference and just help people get their basic humans right lol..but wahi na..she got a few points wrong..but actually in this video she just points to the differences which should be worked on..like i got to learn and yk really change my views
Unempathetic men be like -
Achhi ban rhi hai ab... don't fall for it
She is always good and brave, You don't have brain to understand her thoughts and words' inner meaning..
If u r a regular viewer , u will understand wo pehle se hi kaafi achi hai and neutral hai , it's just that she started making videos on feminism recently , earlier she used to talk about male , female , trans , gay , lesb , kids , adults , parenting.... almost about everything , she is a good psychologist for sure , some people r misunderstanding her
@@shanayak659 ye ldki abhi damage control kr rhi hai 😂
This was a good video, although I don't think it's enough against the negativity you've shown in the last 1 month. Anyways, it's a start at least.
Talking about people mistaking feminism as martriarchy, the reason is actually pretty logical - You yourself mentioned how much partriarchy is detrimental both for men and women and that feminism stands for equality. But how many times have we seen feminists standing up for what men are facing due to partriarchy? Even in your videos, you've literally talked so many times about women suffering due to partriarchy, but how many videos you have made regarding the men suffering due to partriarchy? It's the feminists who only put women on the receiving end of partriarchy.
You've always said - 'If you feel you as a man are burdened to provide financially, then be a feminist and help your wife in household chores, so that she can contribute financially as well' but why the statement isn't ever framed in this way - 'If you feel you as a woman are burdened with household chores, then be a feminist and earn yourself so that he can help you in household chores as well'?
Why is in feminism that the female gender is taught rights while male gender is taught accountability, when both have suffered due to partriarchy?
The truth is FEMINISM NEVER CARED FOR MEN. True feminism which talks about women's rights isn't problematic, unless it gets extremist. I as a guy support true feminism, but the fact remains that it does nothing for us men, so men need to find some other 'ISM' to fight for their rights. That is what is happening today. Men are realising that they have been exploited too for years, but they don't have any 'feminism', so they are raising their voice now. We are not against feminism, we are just voicing out our rights. If you cannot support that, don't try to down out, otherwise the response isn't going to be quite sweet from the other side😊
“Exploited for years” blud what you are talking about 😭😭😭
I am a man but lets be honest that the society we live in is men centric stop trying to be victim so badly
Secondly there are bad fruits in every basket, there are men who are with girls only for materialistic things so don’t generalise based on your “assumptions” (99 out of 100 wala)
Third the whole video was literally about how patriarchy is ill for men and how they face problems meeting the so called expectations
Fourth feminism talks rights which women have been deprived of and men about the pressure society bombard on them
Bhai..you’re just selfish, that you can’t support something that fights wrong happening with someone, but you need it to cater to you. Wonderful. Anyways feminism caters for men what are you talk8bg about
now i agree with what u said however u r overlooking some of the things first men always like always blamed feminism for not having rights i know so many men going around saying feminist is the reason men r losing rights which is absolutely wrong because feminist was to support women and minorities especially men recently started to understand patriarchy and it's harmful impact before they always just neglected what feminist said about it they totally justified patriarchy so i guess that's why feminist just focused on women rights more.
@@aariharoseroseI think you kinda justified what this guy said. 'Feminism focussed on women's rights more' - I don't think there's any issue with that. Issue is in claiming that feminism advocates for equality, if that's the case you got to focus on rights of both. You're getting my point? The easy thing is to openly accept that feminism works for women's rights, no sensible guy will have a problem with that. Toxicity exists everywhere, similarly certain feminists are toxic, I'm sure they don't define true feminism. Let feminism work for women's rights and some other ideology or other groups of people (like MRAs) work for men's rights. This can happen peacefully.
Why this claiming to work for equality by the feminists when clearly they hardly take a stand for men's rights, there lies the hypocrisy, my friend. Fight for women's rights as well as fight for men's rights both can co-exist without demeaning each other.
@@rohankamble9595 men centric where all laws are against men?
Aa gayi propoganda wali.
🎉🎉
Video tih dekhle,bas kuch creators ne inke khilaaf video baba diya toh tum bhi bhed bakri kyun ban rahe ho?
Ah yes. My propaganda of validating men who get abused. So bad of me 😣😣
@@awkwardgoat3 no. Propaganda of manipulation in the name of feminism. Hence the sub loss 😂
@@awkwardgoat3no. Propaganda of manipulation resulting in Sub loss😂
Dhinchak puja of psychology profession.
jesus was a patriarch . and i follow what he said and did
What in the world does harry kane have to do with this .
I demand an answer as these fake clickbaits ruin the image of many respected men.
Fr , my boy standards are now in the well
I waste 24 minutes 4 seconds of my life😢
Ayo , i listened and analysised and found that this is 90% copy of dhruv's video 😂
Both are talking about kinda same topics. Both are educated. Both are sorted. So obv
@@Vatikadrawings i hope you understood the matter atleast
Okay, let's talk about how much you learnt.
@ivy.swiftie jane do guys meninist moidler hai repulsed by logic XD
I made the reel I included in this video (which had the same script but short) in 2023 and it went viral on Instagram.
I have not copied anyone’s video. This is 100% original.
You are so right even around me growing up I always heard things like "what kind of a man he is if he doesnt earn" or the typical "dont cry like a girl" (my mum and dad still say this to my brother) and its so damn frustrating that they dont see whats wrong with saying these things. Patriarchy truely does stop men from living most of them are always away for work and they have to earn for wife and children and also their parents which is VERY stressful. I have seen my grandfather and my father spiral into depression and be put on antidepressants for years and plus all the shaming, "what kind of a man feels sad". So I really believe patriarchy and the "cultural" mindset harms literally everyone
Thanks for talking about this tho love ya💗
Damm Glazing in this cmnt section is crazy
Lmao
Especially the girls supporting the 10 y/o 'feminist boys'
Your point of the fathers not being able to watch their children grow up, literally made me cry, because even my father was not able to see
me and my sister grow up. Now he's about to get retired from his job and we are just about to start our careers, no matter how much we try, we'll not be able to bring back the time and spend it with him (although this was because of a different reason but still) I can't imagine how he must be feeling about this, we atleast have our mother here for us , but he doesn't have anyone over there (he lives in a different state) . I really miss the time when we used to stay together like a true happy family😖. I wish I could just go back in time and then stop it forever. 😢
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Toh tum isme bhhi unki galti maante ho ??? Iska kya alternative ideal situation ho sakta hai batana jara ??
@BrilliantGUIDE Nahi ye unki galti nahi hai. I don't blame him, I'm just sharing how I feel about the situation and I know ki iska to koi alternative nahi ho sakta tha, I was just ranting and expressing my feelings. I'm not blaming anyone here. Her point just reminded me of my own situation.
Didi vedio dalo pr net off karke...✅✅✅
she doesnt know patriarchy exist thats why she is alive
I can't express in words how happy I'm rn that you made this video. This was so much needed.
I only heard patriarchal words , nothing else. ( I repeat nothing else )
I'm happy that you are back. Make more videos di 🎀
Yeh train me 10 rupay wali kitab padh kar psychologist bani hai
When I cry in front of my mom at the age of 19 she said this "ye dekho ladka ho ke roh rhaa hai" if i want to do some house hold work then se says " ladko ka kaam hota hai kamana"
When i ask my mother that how you cook so delicious food? Can you tell how i can cook this" bs yhii sb krna ladkiyon wala kaam"
Bs mummy hai toh kyaa hii bol skte hai 😅😂
Tumhaari mami ka bhi yeh haal society ki vjh s h😮💨 unki glti nhi unko bchpn s yhi sikhaaya gya h
Are you okay?
A typical north indian household
@@Harsh-wo2yq happens in south too lol
Pdhle bhai 19 ka h tu
Who wants a "not all men" video
Now talk about the mukesh chandrakhar
I don't understand how some females laugh on sexist wsup jokes of husband wife where clearly the wife is shown as some kind of ungli pe nachane wali women , but in reality, it's just their way of loving and protecting their man ,for example when ur wife is telling u to stay away from those bad boys , it's because of toxic masculinity, not because she don't value friendship
Because it's joke a sweet heart i respect u . Now see it a joke main source of entertainment no girls are offended except of some because them u or me can't change fact that women were seen as lower than mens protecting ur husband is a good thing but you force a man
Same as man give advice but not force
cuz they funny
@@eterna1379 I never find them funny , they show that women are jealous of other womens ,women are over controlling , women are hard to understand, they are just stereotyping half of population, humans are complex, every human is different
They aren't small kids.
Didi itni gaali sehn kar karke bhi video daal rhi. Sikho be ladko tumlog. Tumlog to ladai karliye hote abhitak
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Loved the video divija
I sat and watched the whole video, in the end i realised you are using a fork for your mic WTF😭😭😭
@@rohankamble9595 😂😂
U said it wisely ❤
Love you girl!! Take care of yourself please
And if all this negativity your are facing get too much just leave it
You deserve so much better❤❤
Good Night 🙋
I was about to shut down this video but when I watched it till the end I was like “not bad she had some decent points”
You can however focus on the delivery mechanism which is quite unlikeable unless that’s your persona to get views
Dial down the attitude and present more examples. Some of the topics / examples are molded according to your convenience.
This something lalalllie named girl is ur pet ir what , she is all over spending life to defend ur dirty talks
Instagram se ab RUclips pe bhi hugne aa gayi
psychologist hai पहले bolo अपना खुद का नेट बोल्ट कसे
hii!!! im so happy i got to be early
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अब ये कूच भी बोले लोग गालिया ही देंगे 😅
Became feminist when I was 12,I was rational ever since I was born and always opposed dogmatic beliefs,this is the only thing I'm proud of myself, I'm 19 now and never even regretted for my ideas
Same for me! I was always a logician, and was a feminist ever since i can remember:)
Good for you. Logical rational thinking will keep you miles ahead of others. It will only benefit, so keep lighting your way, and pave it for others too ❤😊
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Leave harry kane out of this
You used his picture on thumbnail
As usual shameless and logicless woman humor ....
Love your videos and the rationality, I am a feminist 15 year old boy
@@JohnDoe-f8c9k you are a gem and we need more ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Yeah I'm also a 14 yr old feminist boy . Happy to see someone like me exist 😊
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That’s great❤
We need more feminist boys, we need more people like you ❤✨
Hey you are that feminist that got exposed right!
one example of patriarchy affecting both genders is labelling certain hobbies "feminine", associating femininity w something weak and not letting men enjoy these "feminine" hobbies for that reason
What feminine hobbies
can you state so examples?
@@nothingpersonal- i just did on that comment wdym
@@nothingpersonal- For instance, playing with dolls is considered a feminine play , well in fact it's just a doll, same as playing with football is associated with masculinity, even though it's just a ball.
I love ur content and ur message.
And I am so sorry that u r receiving a lot of hate because a few people r too dumb to understand what u r trying to say.. or r too biased to even listen to what u r trying to say..
Psycho women😢😢😢😢
be happy because of many guys making reaction videos u are becoming more famous
She's gotten only hate because of them.
But the love and respect she's earned is solely through her own efforts. 😊
Lol they did it for the views if you don't believe me check the views for other vedios and the reaction vedio on her (has the highest ever) because they knew there are many misogynists in our society who'd love every chance they can get to show their hate and you are one of them obviously 😂 you are just an another view for them
Why i bet you know the reason why it is getting hate
@RealIamcooked-s7ibecause people misrepresent her videoes and some stupid people get easily manipulated by that toxic videoes
Let's remember that she didn't disrespect or insult him in any way. Instead, it's some of you who are using his name to spread hate and misogyny, which is truly disrespectful. Please be more mature and sensitive when referencing him, and avoid misusing his case to fuel negativity. Let's show some respect for his memory.
If you haven't already, please watch the content and try to understand the context better. This will help you form a more informed opinion
This was really good. I hope you keep this approach for your upcoming content; presenting facts and staying clear about your opinions. Loved it!
Woh sabh toh tikh hai thumbnail mai Harry kane kyun 😭
Ese hi bichara trophy nahi jeet rha.
😂😂😂 my husband is a Tottenham fan so i put harry kane to make him happy
Makes sense
Btw my condolences to him being a spurs fan is not easy @@awkwardgoat3
@@awkwardgoat3 you became the same thing which you sworn to destroy daaaaa 😅😂😢😜☠️
Such a good video❤️❤️
Toxic Feminist living on her own Delulu😂😂😂
Nose Chico , they never lie
why you hate my man harry kane
She was lil right but some of her points were super biased !
13:28 I saw my father cry once or twice but saw him made my mother cry more often
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That's exactly what she mentioned. Men have been conditioned to not show emotions. Even in my house I've seen many times when my mom gets upset due to my dad, she cries it ou but when my dad gets upset due to my mom, he'll just go aloof and never open up. This needs to change.
@Lalalalalalalatte same case in my home, most of the time my mom can't even talk or communicate due to my dad's rage, violence.
@@ritwikghosh7743 Men are traditionally socialized to suppress emotions, except for anger, which is often seen as a masculine trait. In contrast, women are expected to be more emotionally expressive, showing sadness, empathy, and nurturing qualities, but are discouraged from showing anger, as it's perceived as unfeminine.
@@ritwikghosh7743then why you make your wife cry 😂
I believe that you have noot seen all the colours of the painting, i accept patriarchy exist , but the world is not that cruel place to exist , i have seen my father taking care of me when i am hurt , he knows my class attends my ptms, motivate me to just focus on efforts , in my siblings both boys and girls are emotional, the provide emotional support , but not male ego the have elder sibling syndrome or adult syndrome of going through all the pain to keep their younger siblings Happy and comfortable, my bros and sis we equally irritate others and cook depending on our moods , in my know locality there are old couples, from the era of ( gunghat wla zamana where people used to marry early ) they also share work ,
In my family : my dadaji cooks ( they live in different town ) and dadi manages all the otherwork , and my nana don't know how to so he makes tea and he takes care of all the market duties and then both of them watch tv and news together then abbuse the policy makers , but they are living happily and peaceful they fight argue , but in the end its life it can not be idealistic that both the people do equal work its a family some takes care of one duty other guy takes care of other duty ,
It depends upon liking, condition , skills and understanding , this is real world 🌍 .
I don't have a degree but in your videos i see that you have some bitterness against men .
You are talking about your own comfort and your life
There’s a much bigger picture to this and mind you she is also married to a man and she stated she doesn’t have anything bad against all men its patriarchy we are talking about
It’s good that you didn’t face it but there’s outside this too i hope you get it
@@rohankamble9595 You comment such positive things but why are you so self contradictory, bro😅 She's telling positive things about her life and you are telling there's a bigger picture. In that case, anyone who highlights the negative points, that's also not the big picture. It's true even today many people in the society have that partriarchal mindset, but what's your ground for claiming that those partriarchal people form the core of the society and these feministic people are exceptions? In a country with 1.5 billion population, is there a way to generalize? If I say that majority of the society believes in equality today and these kinds of partriarchal people are exceptions and they don't 'paint the big picture', how are you gonna prove me wrong, bro???
@@ritwikghosh7743 at this point you are just being eristic, as a girl I KNOW I have witnessed enough to say that 90% of India is patriarchal!!! Still most of parents in my locality want a male child and they want to marry their girl child once they complete class 10, people like you who question ridiculous things when someone fights patriarchy literally boils my blood, if it isn't for the patriarchy i wouldn't have stopped to pursue my favourite career and my sister wouldn't have stopped from going other state to study in a great college that she earned the seat by herself studying day and night
And without patriarchy everyone that came to our home never would have sympathized us and told our mother to marry us off and not educate us because our father died and we need a 'MAN' in our home to take care of us, well guess what we lived for 15 years without 'A MAN' and continue to do that and people also continue to tell us to marry and that we need a man but they never acknowledge what we achieved so far NEVER
You know how distressful it is when you just want to study and get a job live a earning by yourself and want to take care of your family but outsiders always coming and telling you that you need a MAN and need to get married to make a living???? Ofc not!!
It's great that you lived a good life and patriarchy didn't affect you but that doesn't give you the right to dismiss million of other people's sufferings!!!
When someone is fighting a toxic system you can either stand by them or LEAVE but don't be an addition to that problematic system
@ritwikghosh7743 i wont generalise
I will just ask one question which will define if the society’s patriarchal or not
How many female prime ministers have we had as compared to male?
Only one
Now you may ask how does this matter because it does
Our society do not want woman to be in the position of power and if you can’t see that
You’re just pretending you’re blind
There, i proved you wrong😉
@@ritwikghosh7743 you are the proof
Being biased wont make you a being.. Atleast a psychologist is out of scope.. Please try being a human with empathy first
Hit like if you have ever dated a alpha guy & that was the most traumatic relationship of yours
Good. Stay away from them.
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Chal bkl 😂
Bhai nhii dekhna to mtt dekh apni aukat kyu dikha rha
@@Preetiiisingh__001 tujhe bhe nahi dekhna to mat dekh tu reply kiu kr rhi . Usne no nahi bola nahi dekhna use
I bet you have P.H.D in mansplaining
i don't understand what makes you comment this. some men like you bash feminists because apparently we dont talk about mens problems and rights enough, and now when we do you bash us again
@ysfjn__ ive got a question for you If feminism and men benefit women then why is it named feminism instead of humanism?
I still remember those days
When belt treatment was necessary
Happy New Year 🎉 wishing you an awesome year ahead ✨️
Your videos are actually making so much impact, I am a women and I didnt saw world this way that men also suffers in this system, I thought only women suffer. U just opened my eyes and made me see the world in different way, Thanks dear. Now i wanna respect all the genders 🙏
@@gigdthkkf Respectfully asking, did you really think men have no emotions, don’t suffer, or never have breakdowns? You spoke as if you had never met a man before until watching her video. So It’s a major issue that women are unaware of men’s struggles. We also have emotions and feelings, girl. It's the problem why relationships fails, they both don't know about each other. Both genders should understand the psychological differences between males and females.
I recommend you read the book "Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus" by John Gray. It’s a great book that helps you understand the differences and perspectives of both genders. Have a nice day!
DKMKB 😂
I am reporting this channel
My mother was saying how if a husband doesn’t like or has a feud with his wife's side of the relatives, and they (the wife's side of the relatives) have a function (like a wedding or smth), the husband can forbid the wife from attending it and the wife is bound to follow. My immediate reaction was, 'Which is wrong...', then she went on to shout on me. I was/am so pissed off of seeing patriarchal toxicity all around me, your video was a much need for the day. Keep making them. I missed you. ❤❤❤
Yes happens with a lot of us , not only with females, but also with males , when we try to take stand for our mothers ,they will react by saying don't counter ur dad because he is authority figure in the patrriachal system , so sometimes even if he is wrong, nobody can say anything, thankfully some dads have understood patriarchal society & nowadays are very open to positive criticism and they try to push their daughters forward, but I feel sad for the kids who are still suffering and they are not heard
And the normalisation of this toxicity is crazy. The best example is our relatives' "kind advice" and the slick and oftentimes overt judgement laced in their suggestions. I'm a blunt girl. I tell them off to their face 😂😂
🫠🫠🫠 enough internet for today
She is spoiling our generation