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mine hid me and refused to post me to “protect the relationship” from “jealous people” but now he’s showing her off buying her flowers and taking her on holiday… doesn’t feel good… the relationship ended very sour and i was discarded very dismissively. he even dumped me on a 5 minute phone call… its just nuts
Same to me. More than 2 years hiding me, using me, professionally, status, emotional support, help, all you can imagine, and nobody knew she was with me even, lying to family in the holidays. Holidays that she obviously destroyed every time. When she made me lose all even my director job, she left me with a text message saying that i should not have any hope of having a relation or anything similar with her. Now, after no contact, put a pic kissing in whats with someone so everybody see it......of course I am sure he is someone she had while she also was with me
Funny story for you both I went all crazy on my ex when he changed his social media. He made his page private. He left their profile picture and his love professing bio put private page. I’m very glad about that. Guess he figured he would have to deal with my crazy ass every time he posts something if he didn’t.😂
It’s also that you taught them the baseline of what you expected, and so they learned to adapt better to the new person and do some of things you expected.
I have seen all this with narcissistic family. They can never be trusted because they never admit how they are and that would be the only way anyone can change.
I'm super upset, because before I met my ex bf I was "invisible" to guys. After our relationship ended, I'm "invisible" again. It breaks my heart. He was literally the only guy who was interested in me (or in this case - in abusing me). I'm in my early 40s. I don't know how to live with it. The worst part is, that he knew how much I suffered from being "invisible". :-( I feel terribly unlovable, ugly and I lose hope someone might get interested in me. I don't even have friends in real life, because all women my age are mostly married with children, and uninterested in spending time together from time to time. The situation is difficult to me. The last words I heard from him was: "I was your only chance. No one will ever want you, since you're a damaged good." I wonder how to stop believing his words, that no one will ever want me.
I could have written your words, not to invalidate your unique experience. They want to break you, to leave you in an unrecoverable state where you die right where they left you. Remember, hurt people hurt people. The things mine said to me upon leaving were the most horrifying things anyone had ever said other than my mother growing up. I was dating my mother. I also barely survived the 6 months after he left. Emotionally somehow pulled myself out even though it still feels like im in love and still think of him all the time. You will heal and invite you to try exercise, meditation of lots of grace. Please give yourself love and forgiveness.
I understand exactly how you feel, I cried at reading your comment. I’m going through a period right now where I thought he was my ticket to a better life. I had no relationships before him other than guys playing me and I thought, oh here is a guy who knows how I feel! I don’t want him back. He moved on so quickly and riding off into the sunset more than a year and a half ago, now playing happy family, and I’m doing therapy and watching these videos to help me, but there’s no prospects around me, and all my friends are married and just don’t understand. I was going well for a long while but now I feel crushed and extremely depressed. Especially because I was and work hard to be someone’s good partner, I have good standards, and I want to keep my standards high so as to not attract toxic people.. but I’m very lonely. Stay strong ❤️🔥
His new supply is someone who really unattractive cause she is sick.. Cause of medical situation.. And I hope she will aware and loving herself more.. But here for you.. Narc never love you.. Before he date with really grade A.. Very beautiful, hot body, kind and hardworking but still.. Not grateful at it..
We're not through the divorce yet (2 yrs so far) After 45 yrs married it was the future faking that tipped me off. I imagine when he remarries (she's hidden so far) that whatever he does as far as things I always wanted (but he refused) will happen simply to hurt me and for no other reason. I just wanted to imput that their motives are to hurt/destroy their last supply.
Yeah that happened. My idiot ex throw not only a new wife in my face but 2 children as well ( while I was in a happy new relationship) Like a cared. He had a huge smirk like "I showed you" or whatever. And I am WTF! 🤣😂🤣still laughing when I remember that. He thought he hurt me, but I was over him years before. They are really delusional. BTW. He is still truing to hoover after 20 years :)))
They are selling perfect partner but they are still a lemon thats been photoahopped to appear to be everything ypu want and more..lmao man of my dreams...man of nightmare eventually
This is the craziest shit I’ve been through. There’s nothing like it. A narc will put you through itttt.
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U are not LYing! I AM SO HURT THAT I CANT EVEN GET OVER THE BETRAYAL 😢
mine hid me and refused to post me to “protect the relationship” from “jealous people” but now he’s showing her off buying her flowers and taking her on holiday… doesn’t feel good… the relationship ended very sour and i was discarded very dismissively. he even dumped me on a 5 minute phone call… its just nuts
Same to me. More than 2 years hiding me, using me, professionally, status, emotional support, help, all you can imagine, and nobody knew she was with me even, lying to family in the holidays. Holidays that she obviously destroyed every time. When she made me lose all even my director job, she left me with a text message saying that i should not have any hope of having a relation or anything similar with her. Now, after no contact, put a pic kissing in whats with someone so everybody see it......of course I am sure he is someone she had while she also was with me
Similar to my story
Funny story for you both I went all crazy on my ex when he changed his social media. He made his page private. He left their profile picture and his love professing bio put private page. I’m very glad about that. Guess he figured he would have to deal with my crazy ass every time he posts something if he didn’t.😂
It’s also that you taught them the baseline of what you expected, and so they learned to adapt better to the new person and do some of things you expected.
I have seen all this with narcissistic family. They can never be trusted because they never admit how they are and that would be the only way anyone can change.
I'm super upset, because before I met my ex bf I was "invisible" to guys. After our relationship ended, I'm "invisible" again. It breaks my heart. He was literally the only guy who was interested in me (or in this case - in abusing me). I'm in my early 40s. I don't know how to live with it. The worst part is, that he knew how much I suffered from being "invisible". :-(
I feel terribly unlovable, ugly and I lose hope someone might get interested in me. I don't even have friends in real life, because all women my age are mostly married with children, and uninterested in spending time together from time to time. The situation is difficult to me. The last words I heard from him was: "I was your only chance. No one will ever want you, since you're a damaged good." I wonder how to stop believing his words, that no one will ever want me.
I could have written your words, not to invalidate your unique experience. They want to break you, to leave you in an unrecoverable state where you die right where they left you. Remember, hurt people hurt people. The things mine said to me upon leaving were the most horrifying things anyone had ever said other than my mother growing up.
I was dating my mother. I also barely survived the 6 months after he left. Emotionally somehow pulled myself out even though it still feels like im in love and still think of him all the time. You will heal and invite you to try exercise, meditation of lots of grace. Please give yourself love and forgiveness.
I understand exactly how you feel, I cried at reading your comment. I’m going through a period right now where I thought he was my ticket to a better life. I had no relationships before him other than guys playing me and I thought, oh here is a guy who knows how I feel!
I don’t want him back.
He moved on so quickly and riding off into the sunset more than a year and a half ago, now playing happy family, and I’m doing therapy and watching these videos to help me, but there’s no prospects around me, and all my friends are married and just don’t understand.
I was going well for a long while but now I feel crushed and extremely depressed.
Especially because I was and work hard to be someone’s good partner, I have good standards, and I want to keep my standards high so as to not attract toxic people.. but I’m very lonely.
Stay strong ❤️🔥
I’m so sorry he said those awful things to you. Know that you are deserving of love and more ❤ I pray God sends you something amazing
TRAVEL THE WORLD!
His new supply is someone who really unattractive cause she is sick.. Cause of medical situation.. And I hope she will aware and loving herself more.. But here for you.. Narc never love you.. Before he date with really grade A.. Very beautiful, hot body, kind and hardworking but still.. Not grateful at it..
We're not through the divorce yet (2 yrs so far)
After 45 yrs married it was the future faking that tipped me off.
I imagine when he remarries (she's hidden so far) that whatever he does as far as things I always wanted (but he refused) will happen simply to hurt me and for no other reason.
I just wanted to imput that their motives are to hurt/destroy their last supply.
he took her to the same restaurant he planned on us going to while we were dating as his new supplies first date lol
Yeah that happened. My idiot ex throw not only a new wife in my face but 2 children as well ( while I was in a happy new relationship) Like a cared. He had a huge smirk like "I showed you" or whatever.
And I am WTF! 🤣😂🤣still laughing when I remember that.
He thought he hurt me, but I was over him years before.
They are really delusional.
BTW. He is still truing to hoover after 20 years :)))
They are selling perfect partner but they are still a lemon thats been photoahopped to appear to be everything ypu want and more..lmao man of my dreams...man of nightmare eventually