The guy is obviously not involved in his child's life but just wants to deny the mother access. I am glad she enforced her rights as stated under the law. Well delivered judgment mi lord.
she was not in custody of the child since three month old, the family of the guy is. I salute her courage, but this is different from a situation where the lady was actively contributing to the upkeep of the child. You should rather salute the family of the man who received the three month old baby and has since taken care of the child till age 8 year old when the mother was not available for the child at all
@@onyinyecoco usually, a mother will never visit a first child without bringing something for him, that is good. But she was not demanded to pay any of the bill of the child or buy him things. I wish they could be united as husband and wife again, that is what they both need, but it has taken too long years apart.They were both too naive at the time they had sex
@@ayenia2736 she was a virgin which shows she was a good woman , she was sending money to the boy’s grandmother too . She’s a very good mother. She needs to take full custody since the father is not interested .
He says she abandoned him therefore no access. Yet the same abandonment does not stop him from asking for money to support the child. She obviously has always had her son's welfare at heart. She is the one who first brought up that he was not doing well in school, which prompted them to change his school. He would not have done anything at all. The only thing he could say was he was too busy and moved the child to his sister. He too abandoned the child with his parents then his sister. Proud, insensitive, egocentric, man. She needs help to get full custody of her child. Salute her for having focus to finish her education. He wanted her to greet him, yet he had embarrassed her by denying her. PLEASE @dangeorge9883 get in touch with her and help her. Keep us posted, I would really like to know she has gained custody of her child.
Who says we cant start again after falling. The mother is an Amazon and i am proud of her and her zeal to be a mother to the child.. thank you Judge Asaolu you are a life saver and our hero.
This guy is honestly missing a good lady. Who else noticed how resilient and calm the lady was while he was narrating his issues? The girl is calm and I don't think we have them many this days. It's pathetic!
Thank you Judge Asaolu for your judgement. The plaintiff deserves to be in her son’s life. She has been so patient in dealing with this dysfunctional family. I wish her the best.
Thank you Judge Funmi. God bless you. 99.999998% your child young man. Your parents have been honorable. The young lady has been honorable. Be a man and stop bickering and accept responsibility.
Good judgment, the young man is completely immature, by claiming the young woman abandoned the child. He himself went about empowering himself and expected the lady to put her life on hold for a mistake they both committed. Thank God the young woman took the path of self empowerment. Now she is capable of taking care of her baby. She deserves nothing less than full custody.
This young man became a father at a very young age. He was immature and naive. But the sad part is that, eight years after giving birth to the child, he still remain immature and naive. Such kind of person is what I will never pray my daughter to encounter. They can never grow up. Even in old age, they will still behave immaturedly. Just watch out, this young man will still have this kind of immature behavior in his old age. I hope he sees this comment and get wise.
Even if he sees 10,000 of your comments, he cannot change. He is the type that would remain a perpetual baby. He will not outgrow babyhood. The lady too is still young, but she is not as petty and childish as him. Just imagine how she handled the issue of talking about what happened between the parents of the man, that she doesn't want to talk about it in public bcos the child might get to see the video in future. You can see maturity, compared with the boy. Imagine him asking for DNA to determine the paternity of a child he doesn't want to release! In a case like this he should be made to pay for the DNA. He has made his baby family baby instead of assuming full responsibility as a father. In every case he is always refering decisions about the life of the baby to his family as if they are the ones that slept with the lady to impregnate her. Imagine him blaming the lady for the separation of his own parents. His father too appears to be petty.
@@WHAT-DOES-THE-BIBLE-SAY same like you are, you all type what you like, were you there in the issue of her extra marital affairs. I know some body like you if you experienced it you would have killed some one instead of leaving the house
They want to keep the child to be doing house boy for his sister! Better go and take custody of your son ;! You are the mother and requires custody not access
It is beyond that. These people have been the one taking care of this boy for all this year and she needs to come down and talk to them well, though she is the mother but some people had always been there forthe boy.
@@yinkaoluwaseun6636The sisters taking care of the child don't give them full rights over the child; the child still belongs to the biological parents, and they are responsible for the child."
@@yinkaoluwaseun6636 and so ? Did they carry the child for 9months ? If na me I will sue all of you the sisters of this boy and jail you all . Biological mother should have custody of her child less than 18 years . Ignorant of the law is not excuse
Hi girl if you come across my comment, please asked for full custody of your child now that you can speak for yourself,else they will later come for you and say you’re not mentally stable to be a mom!!!
@@akpewevivian1812 there's need. The boy is still a minor he is supposed to be with mother then the father having access to him not the other way round
@@akpewevivian1812 there's need. The boy is still a minor he is supposed to be with mother then the father having access to him not the other way round
@@akpewevivian1812 there's need. The boy is still a minor he is supposed to be with mother then the father having access to him not the other way round
@@akpewevivian1812 there's need. The boy is still a minor he is supposed to be with mother then the father having access to him not the other way round
What kind of immature guy is this. Calling his son ‘the baby’. This one will always be a mummy’s boy and will never make decisions himself. What a shame
This boy doesn't have sense! I commend the resilience and determination of this girl; she should fight to take full custody of the child because her baby daddy looks like a person who has rented out his brain.
If I were this lady,I will go back and ask for full custody of her child. How can his sister be in charge of another woman's child and upon that deny her access
This guy Daniel was my neighbor for 2yrs in Abk, he’s the most useless in our community & so cunny. He can’t make decisions on his own without his parents involvement.
@@agbortambeferinhoo2807 no I don’t think that’s the reason . The legal age is 16 in Nigeria if I am sure and even the judge said in the law as long as the child is under 16, the right place for the child is with the mother . Watch the video again. I just think she wants to still be respectful to his family
The judge is just thinking about the child emotional status . U can’t just pull a child out from where he has been all his life easily cos it might be detrimental to his emotional status
Requesting for the custody of all the children would have been better, that will then show you who was actually taking care of the children. If she's had been responsible for the care of the children before now why then did she come to court only a month I left home, a lot of lies here. Did you all know the actual cause of the problem? Her extra marital affairs in the past and the recent one. Well God is the righteous judge and you can type what you like
As a matter of fact, she didn't neglect her child. She was brave and intelligent enough to go back to school, which would have been end of road to many girls of her age and type. She was still contributing to the welfare of her child during this period. Kudos to her 👏
That doesn't make him silly. if the boy disappeared and reappeared after 8 years, the world could have crucified him. please. stop the insult and resolve this amicably with equal access for co-parenting.
@@agbortambeferinhoo2807But the woman didn't disappeared like hw most men does. She didn't neglect the child even when she had nothing, even when the family doesn't want her to see the child. She fought for the child to this day. Most men especially African men has these mentality that their children will look for them, when they have become an adult, which will eventually turn out to be lie for them. Fight for your child now don't wait when they become an adult.
I have never seen anyone so childish and irresponsible as that young man. He claims he never denied her access... yet he doesn't want her to have access! He blames her for all manner of nonsense... he even blamed her for separating his parents! As if his parents are not mature enough to make decisions for themselves. I pity the woman who will end up with him.
Have never met, seen or know anyone that knows Judge Funmi, but she's one of my favorite humans. Imagine if Judge Funmi is in charge of the Nigerian judiciary for 8 years. Ahaaaa...Nigerians will marvel, all diasporans will come back. Her integrity, sincerity, honest, dedication to duty shines tru d television screen.
Before nko.... Look at the way he is looking like last born, wey all the family get him remote for hand, opening his gutter mouth to say he was young when she gave birth but was d girl not also young but she never let her mistake hinder her future but the boy na urgent 2k for family he still wan dey do
This eminently distinguished elegant lady/plaintiff does not know how much of an asset she is. You are beautiful, no! very very beautiful, with a brain, to match. In addition, you are very responsible, smart and very hard working. More importantly, a real mother. Just continue to read and acquire skills. The men that know your value, will beat paths to your door.
This guy sounds like my son’s father. These kind of guys God help you with them. They explain too much n there is nothing you can say to make them understand. He is talking without making sense. Best interest of the child is all that matters. It’s well. Run run away from him if I were her. How can he talk this much. He is selfish.
This guy is so irresponsible, everything that happened between him and his parents was as a result of his own stupidity. His mom won't have had issues with the lady had he not being childish.
A very resilient survivor. So determine that she went ahead with her education pursue despite the distractions. Both father and mother should have equal right to the child, this is the best interest of the Child. I appreciate the fact that she seeks for intervention.
I have been following Judge Asaolu for some years now. Weldone Ma. The young man is being controlled by his mother and sisters. He knew what is good for the boy but fear of his sister and mother. Why the agreement in the first place. I will encourage the lady to go for full custody of the boy. She is the only one that can take care of her son the way she want. God bless Judge Funmi Asaolu
The father pretends as if he is better than the mother because the baby is being raised by his family, but he just admitted that he himself doesn't have time for the child due to his busy schedule. He is just doing all this out of anger towards the mother. No matter if the relationship between them didn't work out, it doesn't mean she can't be a mother to her child. I'm happy she got her life together and is willing to take full responsibility of her son.
This medieval concept of a child being the property of the family needs to change. Secondly, no matter how bad the mother is, the child is still her child. The paternal side of this child want to use the child to blackmail the mother. The weight of ignorance!
This guy doesn’t have sense,is not matter of now buh in future all this attitude will pay him back. I love the fact that this lady didn’t give up her education and she is a mother indeed,she deserves the accolades 😊
The man is probably the only boy of the parent. That's the way only boy in the midst of ladies behave. He will soon start to make up like ladies he's not rescued on time. He needs help to become a man
Fair Judgment!!! The standing of the law however gives the custody of the child to the mother till the child is 18 years old, then the child can make his or her decision on who to live with. For the man, he's driven by feelings and emotions but the law is the law, and his ignorance of matters of access and custody does not make him excusable.
Exactly . The look on his face when he realizes the law was not on his side but tbh did he come here thinking the law will favour his family instead of the mother of the child when she is capable and not insane
I just like the way Judge Funmi summarised it...The law is not about sentiments. All that talk of abandonment and feelings are irrelevant. So this boy expected the mother's life to come to a standstill because of the child while he continues his own journey? Up till now, he's still not taking responsibility for the child and his trying to use culture and family influence to oppress the girl. The court has done the thing. Wish she prayed for full custody. As the court pleases.
I actually enjoy this episode because of the guy's babish narration. It's cracking me up, i keep watching his narration over and over. In case you read this, now that you are sure that you are the child's father, step in fully and be at the forefront of your Child's care. For me the child not doing well in school could be because of all these drama. For God's sake, you both should step up. Let the past go, co-parent and build a child you'll be proud of. God bless you both.
The baby's father needs help to straighten his mentality, please. Hope it will not be too late to realize he's presently in shackles and will need to be delivered from the wrong mentality and counseling.
In this life as a Lady, be careful who you choose to lay with cuz some people no normal. Very irresponsible man. I am really proud of this lady, as she didn't let her mistake define her but it pushed her to reach for her goals to be independent so she can care of her child.
The parents have always had underlying issues and the mind and emotional control of the mother over the children is one of the issues hence the collapse.
Judge Fumi, good job. The mother should have full custody because the child is a minor and need motherly care and affection. Young girl pursue full custody as the Law is on side. The parents inlaw have done well but they need to let go. I believe the child will still remember them
God bless you justice Funmi, for the wisdom God gave you and you exhibited. The young Man doesn't know the pain a woman goes through in having a baby. She has right to her baby. And definitely when the baby grow up she will ask for his mother.
This one think say to give girl belle na only joy. If the woman fights, >90 % of judges will hand her the full custody. “You gat to learn, don’t play!”
The guy is childish... The lady should have asked for custody... The man's family are toxic n they will spoil the child's mind against his mother... I think this lady should have asked people around on what to do... The child is a minor and should be with her...
God Bless Judge Funmi,she's All round wise,in fact we're very fortunate to have A judge like her in Nigeria. She's top notch.This boy should wake up,he's so immature, this mother is very sensible.God Bless your Efforts over child
Strong lady, for the fact that you managed to graduate despite the hiccups you're wonderful. The boy needs to grow up.
The guy is obviously not involved in his child's life but just wants to deny the mother access. I am glad she enforced her rights as stated under the law. Well delivered judgment mi lord.
This young lady had enough strength and sense to finish here schooling despit the set backs. Now she has a job. Give her some credit.
She deserves a lot of credit, and she never abandoned the child at any time.
she was not in custody of the child since three month old, the family of the guy is. I salute her courage, but this is different from a situation where the lady was actively contributing to the upkeep of the child. You should rather salute the family of the man who received the three month old baby and has since taken care of the child till age 8 year old when the mother was not available for the child at all
@@ayenia2736she was contributing money even as a student. Kudos to her
@@onyinyecoco usually, a mother will never visit a first child without bringing something for him, that is good. But she was not demanded to pay any of the bill of the child or buy him things. I wish they could be united as husband and wife again, that is what they both need, but it has taken too long years apart.They were both too naive at the time they had sex
@@ayenia2736 she was a virgin which shows she was a good woman , she was sending money to the boy’s grandmother too . She’s a very good mother. She needs to take full custody since the father is not interested .
If she no first greet u in the morning, why you no first greet her....he is just immatured and proud...😂
Sadly, this is the ego some male folks carry. When you see a female child as one who should be under your feet. This is sadly the African culture...
You know that's typical Yoruba mentality, she is a woman and she must be the first to open her mouth to greet the almighty husband first.
Thank you!
Very proud, immature and unreasonable.
Exactly oh!!!
No body is talking about the deaf interpreter,so amazing 😊
😂😂😂😂😂😂
👍
I laud this Lady
I am proud of what she's been able to achieve 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
I too love this young lady! She has alot of sense! Pls i need to assist her!
Pls assist me I need help
Thanks so much sir/ma GOD bless you ❤
Go through The Justice Court so you won't be scammed. They will give you her contact.
Help them train the child ode
He says she abandoned him therefore no access. Yet the same abandonment does not stop him from asking for money to support the child. She obviously has always had her son's welfare at heart. She is the one who first brought up that he was not doing well in school, which prompted them to change his school. He would not have done anything at all. The only thing he could say was he was too busy and moved the child to his sister. He too abandoned the child with his parents then his sister. Proud, insensitive, egocentric, man. She needs help to get full custody of her child. Salute her for having focus to finish her education. He wanted her to greet him, yet he had embarrassed her by denying her. PLEASE @dangeorge9883 get in touch with her and help her. Keep us posted, I would really like to know she has gained custody of her child.
Broda Ode!😂😂😂😂
Who says we cant start again after falling. The mother is an Amazon and i am proud of her and her zeal to be a mother to the child.. thank you Judge Asaolu you are a life saver and our hero.
This guy is honestly missing a good lady. Who else noticed how resilient and calm the lady was while he was narrating his issues? The girl is calm and I don't think we have them many this days. It's pathetic!
Thank you Judge Asaolu for your judgement. The plaintiff deserves to be in her son’s life. She has been so patient in dealing with this dysfunctional family. I wish her the best.
You have a good lady as a mother and you took her for granted.
Thank you Judge Funmi. God bless you. 99.999998% your child young man. Your parents have been honorable. The young lady has been honorable. Be a man and stop bickering and accept responsibility.
Good judgment, the young man is completely immature, by claiming the young woman abandoned the child. He himself went about empowering himself and expected the lady to put her life on hold for a mistake they both committed. Thank God the young woman took the path of self empowerment. Now she is capable of taking care of her baby. She deserves nothing less than full custody.
Hummmm , this lady is a great girl. We are proud of you dear lady
I agree with you
The guy is not talking from his own sense he’s talking from his family sense
Madam ask for custody of your son , the guy needs to grow up.
ABSOLUTELY
This young man became a father at a very young age. He was immature and naive. But the sad part is that, eight years after giving birth to the child, he still remain immature and naive. Such kind of person is what I will never pray my daughter to encounter. They can never grow up. Even in old age, they will still behave immaturedly. Just watch out, this young man will still have this kind of immature behavior in his old age. I hope he sees this comment and get wise.
Very good of her, not allowing pregnancy to weird her. I wish her d best for life
Even if he sees 10,000 of your comments, he cannot change. He is the type that would remain a perpetual baby. He will not outgrow babyhood. The lady too is still young, but she is not as petty and childish as him. Just imagine how she handled the issue of talking about what happened between the parents of the man, that she doesn't want to talk about it in public bcos the child might get to see the video in future. You can see maturity, compared with the boy. Imagine him asking for DNA to determine the paternity of a child he doesn't want to release! In a case like this he should be made to pay for the DNA. He has made his baby family baby instead of assuming full responsibility as a father. In every case he is always refering decisions about the life of the baby to his family as if they are the ones that slept with the lady to impregnate her. Imagine him blaming the lady for the separation of his own parents. His father too appears to be petty.
@@swiftoutcrygaming3297
There is no doubt he inherited his father's pettiness. His father is definitely immature as he is.
@@WHAT-DOES-THE-BIBLE-SAY same like you are, you all type what you like, were you there in the issue of her extra marital affairs. I know some body like you if you experienced it you would have killed some one instead of leaving the house
@@oyeleyetoyese7000
Are you sure we are on the same page? Your comment is way out of the subject matter
They want to keep the child to be doing house boy for his sister! Better go and take custody of your son ;! You are the mother and requires custody not access
It is beyond that. These people have been the one taking care of this boy for all this year and she needs to come down and talk to them well, though she is the mother but some people had always been there forthe boy.
@@yinkaoluwaseun6636The sisters taking care of the child don't give them full rights over the child; the child still belongs to the biological parents, and they are responsible for the child."
They want her to be bringing goodies to them
Exactly 💯
@@yinkaoluwaseun6636 and so ? Did they carry the child for 9months ? If na me I will sue all of you the sisters of this boy and jail you all . Biological mother should have custody of her child less than 18 years . Ignorant of the law is not excuse
Hi girl if you come across my comment, please asked for full custody of your child now that you can speak for yourself,else they will later come for you and say you’re not mentally stable to be a mom!!!
She has to get a lawyer and get full custody of her child cus the guy is so bitter
No,if they do, she will come back to the same court
Get custody of your child immediately this guy is not right in the head
Please take full custody of your child 🙏🙏🙏🙏
@@tandapjuliete5625No law will give her that.
What a guy, God forbid this kind guy for every woman.
Amen ooo
This woman should seek full custody of her child. That young man is irresponsible
there's no need for that. they must have shared custody. as long as there is no proof of abuse a child should experience the presence of both parents
@@akpewevivian1812 there's need. The boy is still a minor he is supposed to be with mother then the father having access to him not the other way round
@@akpewevivian1812 there's need. The boy is still a minor he is supposed to be with mother then the father having access to him not the other way round
@@akpewevivian1812 there's need. The boy is still a minor he is supposed to be with mother then the father having access to him not the other way round
@@akpewevivian1812 there's need. The boy is still a minor he is supposed to be with mother then the father having access to him not the other way round
The lady sound wise.
That child will grow and see all these things. She didnt want to set à bad record .
That's a sensible mother there. She actually just went straight to the matter at hand, not starting from their family history
You are great in understanding too ❤
Exactly, that her word touched me,she didn't want to wash the guy's family dirty linen in public
I really admired her more when she said that
What kind of immature guy is this. Calling his son ‘the baby’. This one will always be a mummy’s boy and will never make decisions himself. What a shame
I tried so much not to say what I'm not supposed to say. Im pissed off. The boy needs to grow up. I feel bad for the poor lady.
This boy doesn't have sense! I commend the resilience and determination of this girl; she should fight to take full custody of the child because her baby daddy looks like a person who has rented out his brain.
From my point of view he doesn’t even give a shit about the child, so amateur
Rented out his brain indeed😂😂😂
I swear even the way him speaks
Poor girl! She is so strong and smart ! If i can help her!
Please assist me I need help pls
you can surely do by contacting the justice court on her behalf.
Please do
Her story is similar to mine but no one can dare to take my baby from me or else blood go flow
If I were this lady,I will go back and ask for full custody of her child. How can his sister be in charge of another woman's child and upon that deny her access
Exactly my thoughts, she should have full custody of her child
Maybe the sister never born😂
She would been using the child like a slave that why they don't want her to see the the boy
This guy Daniel was my neighbor for 2yrs in Abk, he’s the most useless in our community & so cunny. He can’t make decisions on his own without his parents involvement.
This same thing happened to me in 2008 but I gained full custody of my son in 2011
He's lucky the mother is not asking for full custody....😅
For her not to ask for full custody,I truly belief she care for the child well being and appreciates the family
She can't because the child is already above 7 years old.
@@agbortambeferinhoo2807 no I don’t think that’s the reason . The legal age is 16 in Nigeria if I am sure and even the judge said in the law as long as the child is under 16, the right place for the child is with the mother . Watch the video again. I just think she wants to still be respectful to his family
The judge is just thinking about the child emotional status . U can’t just pull a child out from where he has been all his life easily cos it might be detrimental to his emotional status
Requesting for the custody of all the children would have been better, that will then show you who was actually taking care of the children.
If she's had been responsible for the care of the children before now why then did she come to court only a month I left home, a lot of lies here.
Did you all know the actual cause of the problem? Her extra marital affairs in the past and the recent one.
Well God is the righteous judge and you can type what you like
This Lady played her cards excellently.
So excellently
"Thank you Akin" love hearing it in Judge Funmi's voice
This boy is so silly. Even if she “neglected” her son, she's still his mother and should be given full access. Kudos to Judge Funmi
As a matter of fact, she didn't neglect her child. She was brave and intelligent enough to go back to school, which would have been end of road to many girls of her age and type. She was still contributing to the welfare of her child during this period. Kudos to her 👏
That doesn't make him silly. if the boy disappeared and reappeared after 8 years, the world could have crucified him. please. stop the insult and resolve this amicably with equal access for co-parenting.
@@agbortambeferinhoo2807But the woman didn't disappeared like hw most men does. She didn't neglect the child even when she had nothing, even when the family doesn't want her to see the child. She fought for the child to this day. Most men especially African men has these mentality that their children will look for them, when they have become an adult, which will eventually turn out to be lie for them. Fight for your child now don't wait when they become an adult.
Young lady if u are seeing this message please go back and ask for full custody of your son
This girl is too nice.. you and your family are not well .. give her the baby!
Can this lady please request for full custody of her son....
I was expecting this lady to ask for custody of the child and also for child support as well
Yes, indeed!
Yes exactly but she must respect and appreciates the family for what they have done so far but tbh I will take full custody of I could if I was her
I have never seen anyone so childish and irresponsible as that young man. He claims he never denied her access... yet he doesn't want her to have access! He blames her for all manner of nonsense... he even blamed her for separating his parents! As if his parents are not mature enough to make decisions for themselves. I pity the woman who will end up with him.
He doesnt even realize it.
You nailed it
Red light for his future wife.
says who, Dem plenty mostly Ogun state mummy boy, na so so English nonsense dey spit out anytime dey open their mouth
Nice one sis, I admire you Lady
9:15 / 27:59 the lady on white, her facial expression is so hilarious 😂😂
Have never met, seen or know anyone that knows Judge Funmi, but she's one of my favorite humans. Imagine if Judge Funmi is in charge of the Nigerian judiciary for 8 years. Ahaaaa...Nigerians will marvel, all diasporans will come back. Her integrity, sincerity, honest, dedication to duty shines tru d television screen.
Your right, very principled woman
Good bless you Judge Funmi for your immense contribution to amicable resolution of disputes especially in the area of family/marital relationship
This guy is ridiculous and immature! Goodness!!
So immature! I felt ashamed for him.
True
Before nko.... Look at the way he is looking like last born, wey all the family get him remote for hand, opening his gutter mouth to say he was young when she gave birth but was d girl not also young but she never let her mistake hinder her future but the boy na urgent 2k for family he still wan dey do
@@osunsanyaoluwaseyi6055you have said it all. This guy is not serious with his life. Shame is not in his dictionary.
@@osunsanyaoluwaseyi6055lol😂lookinglike last born. Ahhh. Their partners must be patient. Last lborn wahahla or only boy
Please advise or help the girl to get a lawyer so she can take full custody of her child. Pleaseeeee
This eminently distinguished elegant lady/plaintiff does not know how much of an asset she is. You are beautiful, no! very very beautiful, with a brain, to match. In addition, you are very responsible, smart and very hard working. More importantly, a real mother.
Just continue to read and acquire skills. The men that know your value, will beat paths to your door.
belive me when i said JUDGE FUNMI ASAOLU is a good woman .... mommy God will bless you
This guy sounds like my son’s father. These kind of guys God help you with them. They explain too much n there is nothing you can say to make them understand. He is talking without making sense. Best interest of the child is all that matters. It’s well. Run run away from him if I were her. How can he talk this much. He is selfish.
He his a narcissist, period
Bombastic side eye of Judge on the guy😅
👏🏼😵💫🫢🤣😜😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂
😂oh u saw that too
@@anifowosheelizabeth1193 yea I did o😄
😅😅 bombastic element 😂
This guy is so irresponsible, everything that happened between him and his parents was as a result of his own stupidity. His mom won't have had issues with the lady had he not being childish.
I have watched it very smart and intelligent lady
This guy will eventually push the lady to ask for a full custody of the child.
She’s so smart and caring
They are not the owner of the child, point of correction, he is not married to you , why did u not give the child to ur own mom
A very resilient survivor. So determine that she went ahead with her education pursue despite the distractions.
Both father and mother should have equal right to the child, this is the best interest of the Child.
I appreciate the fact that she seeks for intervention.
The Baby Daddy is funny, he needs to be taught how to be a father.
You really made a point here....many needs to learn how to be a father figure
I have been following Judge Asaolu for some years now. Weldone Ma.
The young man is being controlled by his mother and sisters. He knew what is good for the boy but fear of his sister and mother. Why the agreement in the first place. I will encourage the lady to go for full custody of the boy. She is the only one that can take care of her son the way she want.
God bless Judge Funmi Asaolu
I hope the girls and ladies are listening to this. The programme is not for cruise oo, its an eye opener to everyone
The guy doesn't even care about his child.very irresponsible and silly individual
He became a father very young
The father pretends as if he is better than the mother because the baby is being raised by his family, but he just admitted that he himself doesn't have time for the child due to his busy schedule. He is just doing all this out of anger towards the mother. No matter if the relationship between them didn't work out, it doesn't mean she can't be a mother to her child. I'm happy she got her life together and is willing to take full responsibility of her son.
He’s not even an involved father… he too abandoned the child with his parents yet has the mouth to talk… smh
Ladies please no matter what give your children a good dad. Guys, do the same.
Read it again.
My goodness
Best comment ever.
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Dnt sleep with a person without integrity, honour and character.
Don't cast your pearls before swine. Na Bible tok am! Don't give your 'valuable' to someone who will treat you and it like faeces.
The most annoying thing is throughout is speech he was character shaming the lady meanwhile he is the worse
I love this lady, pls go and fight for full custody of your child because they teach the child bad things to use against you. Good luck
This medieval concept of a child being the property of the family needs to change. Secondly, no matter how bad the mother is, the child is still her child. The paternal side of this child want to use the child to blackmail the mother. The weight of ignorance!
I went through same thing, but mine is two kids and am happy I was giving full custody and and a house...
I'm awaiting for Akin "Your honour this case is between..."
10:16 Omo see that bombastic side eye.... I'm wheezing🤣🤣🤣
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I really feel bad for the child being transfered from one hand to another. His mental health must have been messed up!
No way.. it now allowing his mother access to him... the immature young man should lucky she isnt asking for full custody
This guy doesn’t have sense,is not matter of now buh in future all this attitude will pay him back. I love the fact that this lady didn’t give up her education and she is a mother indeed,she deserves the accolades 😊
After listening to the man why are they refusing with the baby 🤔🤔 the guy needs help, his a mummies boy😂😂
Not only mummy's boy, he's a family's boy😀I pity the lady that will marry him.
The real definition of a man is not by having a child. This guy is still a boy who still knowledge to deal with life.
his a mummy's boy😊
He's a foolish boy... He will later see the value in that girl and beg ..
The man is probably the only boy of the parent. That's the way only boy in the midst of ladies behave. He will soon start to make up like ladies he's not rescued on time. He needs help to become a man
Kudos to this lady. You are superwoman ❤❤❤❤❤. Thanks my honourable Judge Funmi Asalou ❤
Fair Judgment!!! The standing of the law however gives the custody of the child to the mother till the child is 18 years old, then the child can make his or her decision on who to live with. For the man, he's driven by feelings and emotions but the law is the law, and his ignorance of matters of access and custody does not make him excusable.
Exactly . The look on his face when he realizes the law was not on his side but tbh did he come here thinking the law will favour his family instead of the mother of the child when she is capable and not insane
I just like the way Judge Funmi summarised it...The law is not about sentiments. All that talk of abandonment and feelings are irrelevant. So this boy expected the mother's life to come to a standstill because of the child while he continues his own journey? Up till now, he's still not taking responsibility for the child and his trying to use culture and family influence to oppress the girl. The court has done the thing. Wish she prayed for full custody. As the court pleases.
I actually enjoy this episode because of the guy's babish narration. It's cracking me up, i keep watching his narration over and over. In case you read this, now that you are sure that you are the child's father, step in fully and be at the forefront of your Child's care. For me the child not doing well in school could be because of all these drama. For God's sake, you both should step up. Let the past go, co-parent and build a child you'll be proud of. God bless you both.
The baby's father needs help to straighten his mentality, please. Hope it will not be too late to realize he's presently in shackles and will need to be delivered from the wrong mentality and counseling.
In this life as a Lady, be careful who you choose to lay with cuz some people no normal. Very irresponsible man. I am really proud of this lady, as she didn't let her mistake define her but it pushed her to reach for her goals to be independent so she can care of her child.
He said the child is not his but his father 😂😂😂
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This guy is so foolish... All i can here is my dad,my mom and my sisters....
Baby boy. He's not even taking that dad's position. I think it's because he's been doubting the paternity sha
I'm very embarrassed for him... 😅
Exactly! As if his daddy and mummy and sister were the ones who helped him impregnate the girl.
This guy should be a dummy
This lady is smart and intelligent. May God bless, and strengthen you more.
this boy is not exposed at all. education plays a vital role in one's life
Yes u re right dat guy is complete dull
How can a stranger come and separate your parents??? 😂😂
This boy is not alright sha
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His Dad knows him very well, reasoning he called him "stupid" and he's still stupid after 8yrs 😂😂😂
The parents have always had underlying issues and the mind and emotional control of the mother over the children is one of the issues hence the collapse.
Judge Fumi, good job. The mother should have full custody because the child is a minor and need motherly care and affection. Young girl pursue full custody as the Law is on side. The parents inlaw have done well but they need to let go. I believe the child will still remember them
Judge Fummi i won't forget to talk about your calmness... Its so heavenly ❤❤❤
I just don’t understand why this lady did not ask for full custody of her dear son. They will finish the boy. They will make him their slave. Oh God !
This girl is very respectful she Dey even bend her head as the guy Dey talk she no even talk anything at all 😂😂😂
The boy na Dindinrin….the Ego wan finish him
God bless you ma’am as you always made me proud.
This guy is just a child....So immature really.
Really
Very stupid and senseless, childish boy.
Honestly, ask my mummy, ask my sisters 😅😅😅
God bless you justice Funmi, for the wisdom God gave you and you exhibited. The young Man doesn't know the pain a woman goes through in having a baby. She has right to her baby. And definitely when the baby grow up she will ask for his mother.
This one think say to give girl belle na only joy. If the woman fights, >90 % of judges will hand her the full custody. “You gat to learn, don’t play!”
I love that her request is granted ❤❤❤she's smart and able to finish her school 💓
Honestly, she is.
My mother said....., my sisters said bla bla bla. Are you from Anambara 🏃🏃🏃🤣🤣🤣
Judge Fummi, I appreciate your manner of handling issues of Sexual and Gender Based Violence and especially on Child Protection related matters.
Your sisters are angel's let them born their own and give to people
God bless you dear.
I agree, a child they might have turned to a house help
If she can't say hi or hello, how did she say yes to you in the 1st place,
Say Baby boy😂😂 why can't he say 'hi' too
Mummy's boy... so childish!
She asked for custody, why didn’t the judge grant her request ? She should have been given full custody since the child is under 18.
My opinion too
My opinion too 😮
We need more of judge Funmi not just as a judge but also as a mother.
The guy is childish... The lady should have asked for custody... The man's family are toxic n they will spoil the child's mind against his mother... I think this lady should have asked people around on what to do... The child is a minor and should be with her...
A great judge.
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God Bless Judge Funmi,she's All round wise,in fact we're very fortunate to have A judge like her in Nigeria.
She's top notch.This boy should wake up,he's so immature, this mother is very sensible.God Bless your Efforts over child
The guy is a jerk and very arrogant. Very shameful.
God bless judge Funmi and bless her with longer life, good health and wealth. Amen
Loving you Ma every day