Exactly what I did when I decided to divorce her. I mentally told myself that all the household items, furniture, dishes, cookware, beds, decor, etc. needed replacement anyway. So I baited her by pretending that I wanted a fair split of them. She spent so much energy, time, and attorney consultation fees that she became obsessed with “winning” a battle over things I never wanted.
My narc brother deemed that nothing is allowed to leave the family home for me and my kids on the other side of the world. Out of sight out of mind we are not considered family. The lawyers can sort out the inheritance. Hope Golam is happy with all our parents worldly goods. He got his wish. We are no longer family he no longer has a sister or niece and nephew. No chance for a nice holiday in the sunshine for him or his family. I no longer have to listen to his phone calls of constant moaning and complaining. He will never be happy. I've sent birthday and Xmas cards for 35 yrs and never received one from him or his family. So I'm done no more of course I will be smeared for cutting contact. So be it. Peace at last.
"What's yours is mine. What's mine is mine." They might discard later too or keep if they liked it but it'll most likely not be yours again unless they can manipulate you or someone else.
No one likes a theif, I was dumb enough to let him stay in my room and went to work, came back and there was stuff missing, and of course went ghost, that was my breaking point, special place in hell for him
My ex wife took all the gifts she gave me . The very first gift she ever gave me she took and gave to the woman she cheated with . She took my wedding ring, an engraved watch, even my dog’s ashes in a necklace. She was evil all along and I was easily fooled because I am real .
Break your stuff,once the smoke clears you will notice missing things,broken items,and keep any gift that was given to you,but keep the gifts you gave them,sounds familiar anyone?
I have no idea what the narcissist did with the items he took from me, which included bedding, cookware, cds, clothes, jewelry, perfume, household cleaning products, DVD player and so on. I never got any of it back and when I had inquired in the past he erupted. It was as though he was entitled to take things I owned to do with as he pleased. He may have kept items for his use and the rest he sold or gave away. I won't get those items back. I have been no contact almost a year.
Hahaha- yes household items. After three months of no contact I recently discovered that- on top of a lot of random other things- he silently took one piece of every cutlery set I own. So one set is missing a fork, another one is missing a knife and so on. I am bouncing between anger and laughting about how sick his thinking is
You’ve identified to me that my ex wife is an ultra-narc. She methodically kept my clothes items, nice jackets, college jacket, tennis racquet, etc. after our divorce in order to control the interactions, divorce proceedings, hoovers, issues of contention, timeline, her supply stream, the kids, and everything else. On one occasion during our marriage where I went without her on a business trip she intentionally opened up my expensive guitar to allow our 2 year old son to damage it. Then she specifically called me to tell me about it citing it was “accidental”.
This so describes the woman that I divorced about a year and a half ago. She kept stuff that belonged to my grandmother along with other things that she knew were important to me. This is totally spot on!!!!!
Well my husband stole my wedding ring. I was cleaning and I use chemicals. I've put my ring in my jewelry box. And when I went back it was gone. I've been sleeping in the lounge. He was the only one in the room.
My ex contacted me by text saying he had the heart monitor for my rowing machine and did I want them returning. I grey rocked him saying that was kind of him and thank you. I ignored his question about how I was... He never posted it and I never asked because I felt like that's what he wanted. To provoke me... Maybe I'm wrong but I didn't want to get drawn in. It's probably in the bin now lol.
I was only with him for 2 1/2 months in total. Had my own place. The only items I left behind was a $10 travel mug and restraints used for sexual purposes which we did not use. He can keep them or dispose I honestly do not care. I know for a fact the restraints will not be used since he has a limp small penis and refuses to go to his doctor for pills. His new victim gets to have that....sorry not sorry
Hello HG Tudor, honestly after coming across you the last couple of months I find it really difficult to listen to anyone else's RUclips videos about narcissists, Dr ramani second.. You explain the best tar duck
💯! HG's the man! another one to check out Little Shaman. She's geared towards acceptance and growth from these relationships. Turning negatives into positives
The Narc separated me from my adult children. Two years ago he returned in two big packages the drawings and paintings that I give to my children when they were little. I cried in silence. I never react or say anything. I had although to scan for bombs in the post office because I didn’t trust him.
I was told before I escaped, that any and everything that I ever wanted to see again, best be removed before I left. That I probably would never see it again. I can now say that is true. He is using some of my things as a carrot on a stick, has given away some and I am thinking the new woman is in possession of some.
.. Or even continuing to use ur streaming account, and even having the audacity to let his secondary-source/new main supply use it. And likely a couple other things I bought him and or us and left there as well. I can’t believe how detached these people are.
You’ve just described my sisters behavior of the last 2.5 years. My personal items, clothing and some collected things while in her presence. She finally returned some of it, kept what she wanted. Also purposely NOT sending promised items. (with no empathy) The return was done for another manipulation 🤷🏼♀️ Didn’t work. Even though she packed triggers into my things…. Totally an ULTRA.
Best explication of the issue I have seen. In simple terms they keep our stuff so they can hurt us long after the relationship is over. Obviously the best way to avoid this situation is not enter into a romantic relationship. It is best for a man to be alone and celibate but not many would follow through with that hence we pay a high price for it. Thanks for this very insightful and revealing content! Consider clandestinely keeping some of her stuff so you’ll have leverage in getting your things returned to you. Fight fire with fire!
He took everything I owned from the house, then stole my Chevelle, then stripped my truck for parts! Now tells me that I'm a POS bc I won't show him that I love and care about him
I appreciate your work so much HG. To hear it all from your perspective in a way that supports us empaths is phenomenal. Thank you for helping me understand the crazy way of your kind. I'm in the process of acceptance, thank YOU!!!
I return my ex his things by organizing a scheduled pick up time and having him sign a list of the items that was in the box so he knows that he now has all of his belongings.
He was holding my new suitcase/bag for me until I found a place for it, as we talked about a future trip. 🙄. Our story is complicated he tried getting help but nothing changed him and I am an empath. Well literally, just the last two weeks he said he would but my bag in another bag and I could pick it up day or night-then he said he has to be there bc his dad doesn’t want me there.. his dad doesn’t even known me so he must be bad mouthing me pretty well. He still has my number blocked and won’t return my emails suddenly so I had to have an officer call him and make arrangements. Now, if the bag was not nice I’d let it go and if my ex husband didn’t refuse to take so much from me including my baby piggy bank, he took so much of my things and I couldn’t prove it! That’s why to me this isn’t just a bag it’s about not letting another man control what he keeps of mine like some game. Funny how he wanted to be nothing like my exes! What a loser, lying, POS!
What about when they come into ur house when ya not there and they steal small items from you, for example, he stole my last tongue ring, he knows I don't have anymore, I got my tongue pierced 20 years ago with my best friend for our birthdays, she passed away, so he knows it means something to me. Then he will act like he's curious about what I am looking for. I played it cool and didn't confront him. He was the ONLY person in my home when I went to my neighbour's. He won't bring it up, like ask me if I found it yet, this is his guilt form. When he us not guilty he would behave differently. Is he just hoping that my tongue will heal over? To get back at him, I ordered 5 more tongue rings, I just simply said, interestingly enough my tongue ring disappeared so I ordered 5 more and made a temporary tongue ring from my bead and wire supplies, the look on his face was priceless! His eyebrows went up and his eyes widened, turns out he thought I was broke, turns out I'm really good with finances! He's not. Lol pay backs are a bitch!
Stuff means a lot to a narcissist. My ex-husband even took my vibrator. In my case, I think he was jealous. It's almost like they want to be you or absorb you. no matter how much lingerie he wears, he will never be the woman that I am. At least the ones I know it's the weirder they get the weirder they have to get. They want a little bit of you so they can remember how messed up you were and it makes them feel invincible. You can have that bed in a bag that I got at Big Lots for $ 29.99 even though you're worth a million. God damn every video I watch reminds me of how weird narcissists are. No offense but it is true.
How to handle my sitch; Narc had police order U out of his home where we lived together for 15 yrs. And REFUSES to allow you into home to retrieve your belongings I(ncluding but not limited to your clothing)
I lived with my ex and she kept all my forniture, money, récords, tvs, electrodomestics, ALL! she stole everything and she talked shit about me she lied and she gaslighted me... i didnt recognize she was a narcissist but after break up
How about money? He owes me $30,000, we're broken up, and he has made no move to pay back the loan. He's gotten a demand letter from my attorney. Do I have to take him to civil court to get my money back?
1. Has your attorney advised you that your case is more than likely to succeed? 2. Has the proposed defendant got the ability to repay you? If the answer to both questions is "yes" get his peasy ass into court and recover your money.
my ex wouldn't give me nothing back ,even though i was adult and healthy over asking, he also refused to give my house keys back .he more than likely sold them for his drugs and alcohol.
This is ridiculous. My ex Narcissist left almost everything. And said through it all away. . And so I did. Later I found he had smashed my valuable antique Doll . Very valuable . I found months later. How petty. And immature. How sad ... All very true. ULTRA.... Do smash antique Doll s? Oh yes that's right Control CONTROL COnTROl. .. I remember him saying years back I have to have compleat Control over my house. He never called it home though..
HG TUDOR, I'm learning so much from your video/ audios. Also, I'm not sure if it's dry humor, but when you said "kept their SodaStream" 😂, "ignited the Star Wars collection", "the Cabbage Patch Doll" 😂😂😂🙈, oh!!! I nearly died laughing!!! Seriously though, I don't know who you really are ... but I've found I often learn more from the "inside" person, than an outside psychotherapist no matter how smart. What you say has such a ring of truth, I can only believe you are The Genuine Article. 💯
I kicked the narcissist outta my house! He took such items as my house keys, bank card , cd’s but all he got was 2nd. Hand CD player and 2nd hand vhs (thrift store items) the bank card had no money in the account so he didn’t get nothing outta that! If being a thief make him feel he has power and control it just shows how mentally fucked up they truelly are! He can keep my stuff I replaced it all anyways and the quality is my better!
Also he took the groceries obviously he didn’t care that I starved, my family stepped in and bought me food! I been no contact 6 months and I went to a divorce lawyer!
thanks H G Tudor were would we be with-out you .I know I would be up the creek in a barbed wire canoe a big thank-you once again. cheers from down under !
What does it mean when they keep something you've forgotten at their house like earrings or clothing and say that keeping it to remmeber you by ..weirdos
@moon calf thank you for your answer your spot on. I think after analyzing him i think he uses it to show me hey look I have your scarf see how much I love you..just by having your scarf. And 2nd as a trophy ...these ppl a demented
My narc still have my fishing rods. And he still smearing my name around and he still trying to trying to talk to my sons that works in the same place. And hes sending workers from his job to hoover over me. Why is he still doing this? Hes refuse to sign the divorce papers
Boy, isnt this the truth. We both had some collections of things we liked. When I left in the period of 2 hours time, I only took 4 of my 75 Cookie Jars (don't judge!) He acted like I shot his dog. He totally flipped out. It was one of his loudest rages. I am sure bc I had left a week before and he hadn't noticed. But I get it. I would never want any of his things, but he thought MY things were HIS also..I just couldn't get the anger from that...thanks HG
I just started looking into this stuff. I believe my ex of 4 years is a narcissist. Like I said just now looking into it so I'm not positive. Do these people act this way on purpose and vindictively?
My narc only kept my stuff for 2 weeks and then I found it on the porch... And then a week later some more... why? Have I havent heard anything from him the past 2 weeks
He took nothing except the house cars trucks money and all the pictures of only HIMSELF. I do however know he keeps ex GFs gifts like bottle of OBSESSION Perfume. I lived w an "ex GF" gift on his dresser for eons and I was stupid enough to allow it. I know he kept all my gifts too. I bet his new GF just loves that the way I just loved the perfume bottle of Obsession. Frankly HG, I'm glad I have nothing from the marriage. It would only invoke irrational emotional thinking. I wish I could delete the memories like my assets were deleted from me.
Yo! Give me my stuff.....waiting.........waiting......... tick tock tick tock . I want my Justine Bieber ....... Silence..Anyone home? Oh my dam, you shot a bullet through my Bieber CD!! Best practice is, don't leave your stuff with no one.
Hi HG Tudor, I really need your help with what kind of hoover ( meaning behind it ) is what you describe at the start of the video where my stuff is left in the driveway of her home with direction to pick it up without her being there, I have already been there once 3months beforehand but she is giving me more stuff back that belong to us as a couple. What does this mean? Please help! Kindest regards
An odd thing has always made me wonder: the narc took a photograph. Just one. I had to pose for it, specifically with directions . It was nothing sexual, but it was strange. What was that?
Had he given you anything you were wearing in the picture (it was his last victim's)? There is always a reason. Maybe he had sex with the neighbor that morning and you almost caught him? They are sick, deviant people. Male or female, doesn't matter.
if a narc move in with i would think a head and put all my blongs in a storage and narc leaves his things around still in love/hate booming stage i would prented its his birthday prente return his junk in the break up stage i would forget about narc junk move on by selling/ giving alway or burning his junk if a narc move in with me if i move in with narc i would not buy anything for myself my money is my money hidden a bank vault use this money if narc buy me someething by stealing my money to buy me something i would keep my junk hidden alway from narc and sell to make the money back that narc steal from me
Just escape... they can keep those materialistic items. Your sanity is more important than any object.
Yes...... They r welcome to it, don't want it back. Hope they feels GOOD n SATISFIED.....
They keep souvenirs from their victims. Narc I knew always came out of every situation better than when he went in.
Disgusting! Why I will not let a narc keep my stuff
My narc stole a sentimental religious necklace from me. It was my Grandma's. Crazy
They keep your stuff for the same reason a serial killer keeps "trophies" from their victims, sentimentality.
Might be easier to just cut your losses and let em have it. Can’t put a price on your freedom!
Nope, I would demand everything that they stole and strive for freedom next.
Exactly what I did when I decided to divorce her. I mentally told myself that all the household items, furniture, dishes, cookware, beds, decor, etc. needed replacement anyway. So I baited her by pretending that I wanted a fair split of them. She spent so much energy, time, and attorney consultation fees that she became obsessed with “winning” a battle over things I never wanted.
My sister calls it “asshole tax”
My narc brother deemed that nothing is allowed to leave the family home for me and my kids on the other side of the world. Out of sight out of mind we are not considered family. The lawyers can sort out the inheritance. Hope Golam is happy with all our parents worldly goods. He got his wish. We are no longer family he no longer has a sister or niece and nephew.
No chance for a nice holiday in the sunshine for him or his family. I no longer have to listen to his phone calls of constant moaning and complaining. He will never be happy.
I've sent birthday and Xmas cards for 35 yrs and never received one from him or his family. So I'm done no more of course I will be smeared for cutting contact. So be it. Peace at last.
"What's yours is mine. What's mine is mine." They might discard later too or keep if they liked it but it'll most likely not be yours again unless they can manipulate you or someone else.
No one likes a theif, I was dumb enough to let him stay in my room and went to work, came back and there was stuff missing, and of course went ghost, that was my breaking point, special place in hell for him
My ex wife took all the gifts she gave me . The very first gift she ever gave me she took and gave to the woman she cheated with . She took my wedding ring, an engraved watch, even my dog’s ashes in a necklace. She was evil all along and I was easily fooled because I am real .
I literally just stumbled across you... I just asked myself this yesterday. The universe works in mysterious ways! 💗
Just like serial killers keep trophies. .the Narrasist needs reminders of his conquest.
bingo!!! 🔥😬😬😬
Break your stuff,once the smoke clears you will notice missing things,broken items,and keep any gift that was given to you,but keep the gifts you gave them,sounds familiar anyone?
I have no idea what the narcissist did with the items he took from me, which included bedding, cookware, cds, clothes, jewelry, perfume, household cleaning products, DVD player and so on. I never got any of it back and when I had inquired in the past he erupted. It was as though he was entitled to take things I owned to do with as he pleased. He may have kept items for his use and the rest he sold or gave away. I won't get those items back. I have been no contact almost a year.
Hahaha- yes household items. After three months of no contact I recently discovered that- on top of a lot of random other things- he silently took one piece of every cutlery set I own. So one set is missing a fork, another one is missing a knife and so on. I am bouncing between anger and laughting about how sick his thinking is
You’ve identified to me that my ex wife is an ultra-narc. She methodically kept my clothes items, nice jackets, college jacket, tennis racquet, etc. after our divorce in order to control the interactions, divorce proceedings, hoovers, issues of contention, timeline, her supply stream, the kids, and everything else. On one occasion during our marriage where I went without her on a business trip she intentionally opened up my expensive guitar to allow our 2 year old son to damage it. Then she specifically called me to tell me about it citing it was “accidental”.
This is extremely helpful. He dropped off my stuff on my front porch after 2 weeks of no conract
This so describes the woman that I divorced about a year and a half ago. She kept stuff that belonged to my grandmother along with other things that she knew were important to me. This is totally spot on!!!!!
Well my husband stole my wedding ring. I was cleaning and I use chemicals. I've put my ring in my jewelry box. And when I went back it was gone. I've been sleeping in the lounge. He was the only one in the room.
My ex contacted me by text saying he had the heart monitor for my rowing machine and did I want them returning. I grey rocked him saying that was kind of him and thank you. I ignored his question about how I was... He never posted it and I never asked because I felt like that's what he wanted. To provoke me... Maybe I'm wrong but I didn't want to get drawn in. It's probably in the bin now lol.
I was only with him for 2 1/2 months in total. Had my own place. The only items I left behind was a $10 travel mug and restraints used for sexual purposes which we did not use. He can keep them or dispose I honestly do not care. I know for a fact the restraints will not be used since he has a limp small penis and refuses to go to his doctor for pills. His new victim gets to have that....sorry not sorry
Hello HG Tudor, honestly after coming across you the last couple of months I find it really difficult to listen to anyone else's RUclips videos about narcissists, Dr ramani second.. You explain the best tar duck
I agree. Keep it here.
same
💯! HG's the man! another one to check out Little Shaman. She's geared towards acceptance and growth from these relationships. Turning negatives into positives
The Narc separated me from my adult children. Two years ago he returned in two big packages the drawings and paintings that I give to my children when they were little. I cried in silence. I never react or say anything. I had although to scan for bombs in the post office because I didn’t trust him.
I was told before I escaped, that any and everything that I ever wanted to see again, best be removed before I left. That I probably would never see it again. I can now say that is true. He is using some of my things as a carrot on a stick, has given away some and I am thinking the new woman is in possession of some.
.. Or even continuing to use ur streaming account, and even having the audacity to let his secondary-source/new main supply use it. And likely a couple other things I bought him and or us and left there as well. I can’t believe how detached these people are.
She's wearing my clothes from head to toe🙄
Omg mine did this too. I had to change all my passwords
My ex wouldn't send my pictures from my business event. He also took the heater and food out of the house.
You’ve just described my sisters behavior of the last 2.5 years.
My personal items, clothing and some collected things while in her presence.
She finally returned some of it, kept what she wanted. Also purposely NOT sending promised items.
(with no empathy) The return was done for another manipulation 🤷🏼♀️
Didn’t work. Even though she packed triggers into my things…. Totally an ULTRA.
Best explication of the issue I have seen. In simple terms they keep our stuff so they can hurt us long after the relationship is over. Obviously the best way to avoid this situation is not enter into a romantic relationship. It is best for a man to be alone and celibate but not many would follow through with that hence we pay a high price for it. Thanks for this very insightful and revealing content! Consider clandestinely keeping some of her stuff so you’ll have leverage in getting your things returned to you. Fight fire with fire!
He told me "F*** your stuff, Ill have a bonfire and burn all of it" I decided it wasnt worth it. Heres the match! 😂
He took everything I owned from the house, then stole my Chevelle, then stripped my truck for parts! Now tells me that I'm a POS bc I won't show him that I love and care about him
I appreciate your work so much HG. To hear it all from your perspective in a way that supports us empaths is phenomenal. Thank you for helping me understand the crazy way of your kind. I'm in the process of acceptance, thank YOU!!!
Spot on !
Fuck, this is the funniest thing I've ever heard. So spot on, my cabbage patch 😂😂
I return my ex his things by organizing a scheduled pick up time and having him sign a list of the items that was in the box so he knows that he now has all of his belongings.
He was holding my new suitcase/bag for me until I found a place for it, as we talked about a future trip. 🙄. Our story is complicated he tried getting help but nothing changed him and I am an empath. Well literally, just the last two weeks he said he would but my bag in another bag and I could pick it up day or night-then he said he has to be there bc his dad doesn’t want me there.. his dad doesn’t even known me so he must be bad mouthing me pretty well. He still has my number blocked and won’t return my emails suddenly so I had to have an officer call him and make arrangements. Now, if the bag was not nice I’d let it go and if my ex husband didn’t refuse to take so much from me including my baby piggy bank, he took so much of my things and I couldn’t prove it! That’s why to me this isn’t just a bag it’s about not letting another man control what he keeps of mine like some game. Funny how he wanted to be nothing like my exes! What a loser, lying, POS!
What about when they come into ur house when ya not there and they steal small items from you, for example, he stole my last tongue ring, he knows I don't have anymore, I got my tongue pierced 20 years ago with my best friend for our birthdays, she passed away, so he knows it means something to me. Then he will act like he's curious about what I am looking for. I played it cool and didn't confront him. He was the ONLY person in my home when I went to my neighbour's. He won't bring it up, like ask me if I found it yet, this is his guilt form. When he us not guilty he would behave differently. Is he just hoping that my tongue will heal over?
To get back at him, I ordered 5 more tongue rings, I just simply said, interestingly enough my tongue ring disappeared so I ordered 5 more and made a temporary tongue ring from my bead and wire supplies, the look on his face was priceless! His eyebrows went up and his eyes widened, turns out he thought I was broke, turns out I'm really good with finances! He's not. Lol pay backs are a bitch!
Stuff means a lot to a narcissist. My ex-husband even took my vibrator. In my case, I think he was jealous. It's almost like they want to be you or absorb you. no matter how much lingerie he wears, he will never be the woman that I am. At least the ones I know it's the weirder they get the weirder they have to get. They want a little bit of you so they can remember how messed up you were and it makes them feel invincible. You can have that bed in a bag that I got at Big Lots for $ 29.99 even though you're worth a million. God damn every video I watch reminds me of how weird narcissists are. No offense but it is true.
They will also leave their stuff at your house or in your car on purpose so that you have to see them again because they are needy
HG Tudor. What a coincidence. I heard that name years ago. Could have sworn I was told a story about a race. lol Hello Peter!
How to handle my sitch; Narc had police order U out of his home where we lived together for 15 yrs. And REFUSES to allow you into home to retrieve your belongings I(ncluding but not limited to your clothing)
He brought me my stuff back and left it on my front porch when I wasn't home.
I've had it. I'm calling cops tonight this is enough of this shit
My parents never give back much. So I have to order new ones from Amazon.
I lived with my ex and she kept all my forniture, money, récords, tvs, electrodomestics, ALL!
she stole everything and she talked shit about me she lied and she gaslighted me... i didnt recognize she was a narcissist but after break up
Mine stole half of my retirement and my trailer I bought to live in.
He told me he was using my electric beater to make his mash potato.
”Justin Bieber” 😂😂😂 you are awesome!
How about money? He owes me $30,000, we're broken up, and he has made no move to pay back the loan. He's gotten a demand letter from my attorney. Do I have to take him to civil court to get my money back?
1. Has your attorney advised you that your case is more than likely to succeed?
2. Has the proposed defendant got the ability to repay you?
If the answer to both questions is "yes" get his peasy ass into court and recover your money.
my ex wouldn't give me nothing back ,even though i was adult and healthy over asking, he also refused to give my house keys back .he more than likely sold them for his drugs and alcohol.
This is ridiculous. My ex Narcissist left almost everything. And said through it all away. . And so I did. Later I found he had smashed my valuable antique Doll . Very valuable . I found months later. How petty. And immature. How sad ... All very true. ULTRA.... Do smash antique Doll s? Oh yes that's right Control CONTROL COnTROl. .. I remember him saying years back I have to have compleat Control over my house. He never called it home though..
I played hell trying to get my vacuum cleaner back. I tricked him and I got it back. How Ironic!
HG TUDOR, I'm learning so much from your video/ audios. Also, I'm not sure if it's dry humor, but when you said "kept their SodaStream" 😂, "ignited the Star Wars collection", "the Cabbage Patch Doll" 😂😂😂🙈, oh!!! I nearly died laughing!!! Seriously though, I don't know who you really are ... but I've found I often learn more from the "inside" person, than an outside psychotherapist no matter how smart. What you say has such a ring of truth, I can only believe you are The Genuine Article. 💯
Yes he kept my soda stream 😆
Control , Control ,Control
I kicked the narcissist outta my house! He took such items as my house keys, bank card , cd’s but all he got was 2nd. Hand CD player and 2nd hand vhs (thrift store items) the bank card had no money in the account so he didn’t get nothing outta that! If being a thief make him feel he has power and control it just shows how mentally fucked up they truelly are! He can keep my stuff I replaced it all anyways and the quality is my better!
Also he took the groceries obviously he didn’t care that I starved, my family stepped in and bought me food! I been no contact 6 months and I
went to a divorce lawyer!
thanks H G Tudor were would we be with-out you .I know I would be up the creek in a barbed wire canoe a big thank-you once again. cheers from down under !
Okay but I shipped my exes belongings back to him because I felt like he’s a covert narcissist. So I’m like wait am I a narcissist too Ruh roh
The sob's STEEL your stuff😤😤😤
Cabbage patch doll. Lmao
I listened to this again... just to hear it. CBD
In Hong Kong families, narcissism is normalized.
I am having this problem right now with my landlord.
What does it mean when they keep something you've forgotten at their house like earrings or clothing and say that keeping it to remmeber you by ..weirdos
@moon calf thank you for your answer your spot on. I think after analyzing him i think he uses it to show me hey look I have your scarf see how much I love you..just by having your scarf. And 2nd as a trophy ...these ppl a demented
So you’re saying I won’t get my stuff back, and it benefits them whether I get them back or not. These people always win.
My narc still have my fishing rods. And he still smearing my name around and he still trying to trying to talk to my sons that works in the same place. And hes sending workers from his job to hoover over me. Why is he still doing this? Hes refuse to sign the divorce papers
You was to good and he don’t want to let that go!!!
He still lives with his brother and sister in law.
What if they leave their stuff behind( i threw all out of course) just curious.🤷♀️
I did the same!
Boy, isnt this the truth. We both had some collections of things we liked. When I left in the period of 2 hours time, I only took 4 of my 75 Cookie Jars (don't judge!) He acted like I shot his dog. He totally flipped out. It was one of his loudest rages. I am sure bc I had left a week before and he hadn't noticed. But I get it. I would never want any of his things, but he thought MY things were HIS also..I just couldn't get the anger from that...thanks HG
I just started looking into this stuff. I believe my ex of 4 years is a narcissist. Like I said just now looking into it so I'm not positive.
Do these people act this way on purpose and vindictively?
My narc only kept my stuff for 2 weeks and then I found it on the porch... And then a week later some more... why? Have I havent heard anything from him the past 2 weeks
It's likely to make you believe he doesn't care or to hurt you. They seek a reaction from you, either Positive or negative.
Bravo 🍷
He took nothing except the house cars trucks money and all the pictures of only HIMSELF.
I do however know he keeps ex GFs gifts like bottle of OBSESSION Perfume.
I lived w an "ex GF" gift on his dresser for eons and I was stupid enough to allow it.
I know he kept all my gifts too.
I bet his new GF just loves that the way I just loved the perfume bottle of Obsession.
Frankly HG, I'm glad I have nothing from the marriage. It would only invoke irrational emotional thinking. I wish I could delete the memories like my assets were deleted from me.
Yo! Give me my stuff.....waiting.........waiting......... tick tock tick tock . I want my Justine Bieber ....... Silence..Anyone home? Oh my dam, you shot a bullet through my Bieber CD!! Best practice is, don't leave your stuff with no one.
Best thing is to not own a Justin Bieber CD.
Is a narcissist physically violent toward their victims?
Hi HG Tudor,
I really need your help with what kind of hoover ( meaning behind it ) is what you describe at the start of the video where my stuff is left in the driveway of her home with direction to pick it up without her being there, I have already been there once 3months beforehand but she is giving me more stuff back that belong to us as a couple. What does this mean? Please help!
Kindest regards
All of the above.
the shrine tho....
Does the mid range narcissist keep gift from someone discarded?
An odd thing has always made me wonder: the narc took a photograph. Just one. I had to pose for it, specifically with directions . It was nothing sexual, but it was strange. What was that?
Control
Had he given you anything you were wearing in the picture (it was his last victim's)? There is always a reason. Maybe he had sex with the neighbor that morning and you almost caught him? They are sick, deviant people. Male or female, doesn't matter.
Maybe a fake Facebook profile…
More confirmation
Do they keep pictures you took together???
if a narc move in with i would think a head and put all my blongs in a storage
and narc leaves his things around still in love/hate booming stage
i would prented its his birthday prente return his junk
in the break up stage i would forget about narc junk
move on by selling/ giving alway or burning his junk
if a narc move in with me
if i move in with narc i would not buy anything for myself
my money is my money hidden a bank vault use this money
if narc buy me someething by stealing my money to buy me something i would keep my junk hidden alway from narc and sell to make the money back that narc steal from me
Dudu u voodo jah wok its in god🙏
Hilarious!
I like collecting worn panties 🙂
Yes, your mother said she wants them back as she is running low.
@@hgtudor-theultra thanks for responding 🤣