Should you warn the narcissist's new person

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  • Опубликовано: 12 ноя 2024

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  • @asianna_
    @asianna_ 6 месяцев назад +7

    Literally warned the new supply and she said “people are mad that I’m pretty and having my way” and told me “you’ll see how much he loves me” a week later she’s OLD NEWS .

  • @nicolletteramirez
    @nicolletteramirez 6 месяцев назад +23

    The new supply could be a narcissist too

    • @moonliightbae
      @moonliightbae 6 месяцев назад +4

      happens more often than not tbh! a lot of narcissists end up with narcissists cause they have the same ugly traits

  • @LeLeB37
    @LeLeB37 6 месяцев назад +21

    Oh no nobody warned me and they not gonna listen anyway

  • @bettycarmella1127
    @bettycarmella1127 6 месяцев назад +2

    Warning them can make them think you’re just jealous too. Sadly it’s often pointless🥺

  • @MissReneeMichelle
    @MissReneeMichelle 6 месяцев назад +10

    No! No no no no no! Leave everyone in the narcissists orbit ALONE.

  • @nicolebeard6051
    @nicolebeard6051 6 месяцев назад +5

    I’ve thought about warning my ex-husband’s current girlfriend. I sometimes worry because she’s 22 and he’s 31. She has a young child from a previous relationship. My ex-husband is a predator, manipulator, and a user. He can’t do anything on his own and is likely using her for a place to live and other resources. I haven’t warned her though because she probably won’t listen. She’s likely trauma bonded and doesn’t realize what she’s dealing with. I didn’t even know what a narcissist was when I was 22. I just hope she wakes up one day and gets rid of him. My ex doesn’t want to be alone but he surely deserves to.

  • @kimj4402
    @kimj4402 6 месяцев назад +17

    Wish the new supply all the luck in the world cause they're gonna need it.

  • @KoKoPuffz706
    @KoKoPuffz706 6 месяцев назад +30

    Everyone has their own journey to live. They'll find out when it's their turn because it WILL be their turn one day.

    • @MentalHealness
      @MentalHealness  6 месяцев назад +1

      😰

    • @IsabellaPiesch
      @IsabellaPiesch 6 месяцев назад +2

      Sadly you are right. But it will be a hell of a turn. BUT: I got warnings from my grandmother - I didn´t listen. You know there is quote: If you don´t listen - you will feel it. I should have listened but I was love-bombed and I really didn´t know anything about narcissm at all... If I could talk to my grandmother - I would say to her I am sorry that I didn´t listen to her (but she died in the meantime). Listen to me folks: Grandmothers are right!

    • @KoKoPuffz706
      @KoKoPuffz706 6 месяцев назад +1

      @IsabellaPiesch Unfortunately, I didn't get a warning from anyone. However, as much as I hate to say this, he was a much needed lesson for me in self-love and boundaries. I didn't know anything about narcissism until this ex, but now, looking back, I can see that each relationship before him was an increase from the last one. So, this recent ex was like a "final exam" for me to learn the things I needed to know about myself to become the best version of me. To put it like a narcissist, in actuality, he was just a tool 😂

  • @ElaineLoyd
    @ElaineLoyd 6 месяцев назад +16

    Why? they're in the middle of being love bombed. They've been told you're all kinds of crazy. Plus when they figure it out I don't wanna trauma bond over shared abuse

  • @litzysoto5965
    @litzysoto5965 6 месяцев назад +4

    I tried warning her, even though I explained everything with proof, she made me out to be the bad person, now she has a kid with him

  • @yuvalgal-shahaf2782
    @yuvalgal-shahaf2782 6 месяцев назад +4

    26 years ago I was warned by the person actual giralfriend (long time before narcsists were a thing) - and thankfully I did listen, but I think mostly because I did feel something was off with this guy and wasnt trully into him

  • @marthasaunders3844
    @marthasaunders3844 6 месяцев назад +11

    It's ironic the new supply always call the ex "jealous" or "crazy" just like the nex does.🤔 Speaking of irony, new supply (questionable) is nex's lifelong female friend. He claimed is like a sister to him and now they're in a relationship. I think they were clapping cheeks long before me and his other exes. I find it disturbing! Nex just grosses me out every time I have to see him due to co-parenting.

  • @psychowitch04
    @psychowitch04 6 месяцев назад +7

    I didn't warn the new supply directly but my friend did and she blocked my friend. She's either in denial or just desperate to stay with my narc ex. 😅

  • @mayday1932
    @mayday1932 6 месяцев назад +2

    Word to them thinking “it will never happen to me.”

  • @juliefrommes4119
    @juliefrommes4119 6 месяцев назад +4

    I had no choice but to deal with her .... her and her dog were sleeping at my house.... and when I told her he was a covert narcissist she said "aren't all men narcissists? you seem disturbed. You have nothing to do with what he does with me so please mind your own business." I gave her my blessing and moved to a different city.

  • @yhwhtlc9217
    @yhwhtlc9217 6 месяцев назад +15

    Afterspending 2.5 years of my life with my ex narc, catching him in lie after lie. He would never let me meet his ex, although we did live an hour apart. But after he dumped me for new supply I ran into his ex who told me much I wish I had known before I got involved with him, as I would not had got involved with him. There are 2 sides to story, he never painted her as the crazy one....which really was him. Because 3 months after he dumps me, he marries new supply and then proceeds to stalk me for another 3 years....women need to stop men like them, I wish I did take effort to warn new supply, they are not together anymore, hes on wife no 6 now, using her too.

    • @courtneyevrrlyn9644
      @courtneyevrrlyn9644 6 месяцев назад +2

      Wife 6???? Did I read that right.

    • @ThimbleFox350
      @ThimbleFox350 6 месяцев назад

      @@courtneyevrrlyn9644 Yeah I think if a man has 3 failed marriages women should simply not give this man a chance.. Once could be a fluke, twice is suspicious but 3? That's a pattern with one common denominator.

    • @lolxd9396
      @lolxd9396 Месяц назад

      Never ending nightmare drama!

  • @nathalieduverna6963
    @nathalieduverna6963 6 месяцев назад +3

    Short answer, NO!!

  • @WhyYouAskinAllTheseQuestions
    @WhyYouAskinAllTheseQuestions 6 месяцев назад +4

    It makes sense, but people have to learn for themselves. If I had gotten a warning, it wouldn't have mattered because I was already ignoring red flags two weeks in. I swam in DeNile for two years, and I am an educated psychologist! I even had a narcissistic abusive relationship before so I thought I knew what to do and what to look for. I get it, but in reality, it's still semi-selfish and I couldn't control him so warning their next victim is also beyond control. Sad truth.

  • @chasesidora
    @chasesidora 6 месяцев назад +2

    I went through this. My ex was a serial cheater and he had one new supply who told me “you’ll always have a place in his heart but I believe he’s better than what he is showing and we have a connection. We fell in love fast” etc etc etc

  • @tab6957
    @tab6957 6 месяцев назад +2

    Agreed....told new supply graphic details of him cheating. All he said was "no" and new supply believes him.

  • @app13s33d
    @app13s33d 6 месяцев назад +1

    Most people dont like the cursing but for me, it shows how angry you are for us. Ty for all you do Lee. To see you passionate for my healing makes me want it even more for me. 🙌

  • @dumpmail-xz2qp
    @dumpmail-xz2qp 6 месяцев назад +1

    I wouldn't even bother going to tell some stranger about the narcissist unless the supply reaches out to me and asks themselves and depending on their attitude I either tell them a light version or just tease them by telling them to enjoy all that time with that person. That supply has a bumpy ride ahead!
    In fact, I view the new supply as my ticket out of that bs mess so while that narc is busy with the new supply, I have my space to heal and move on without the drama, hoovering and toxic narc rage.

  • @Retta-bo3zr
    @Retta-bo3zr 6 месяцев назад +3

    He is already cheating on his new supply.. more than once. I figure they can learn the hard way as well lol my lips are sealed!

  • @Kia-v2p
    @Kia-v2p 6 месяцев назад +6

    No not my place

  • @griseldaguerrero7199
    @griseldaguerrero7199 6 месяцев назад +5

    My ex mistreated me after i had his baby, i had postpartum depression and he always ignored me. Then, he started to take out son to his moms house where he lived and didnt returned him that day. I was worried he couldn't not return him at all since there was no Court order. I had to lawyer up and won the case got custody since ive been raised him myself. Anyways, he now has a new girlfriend with two kids from another man and they live together with his mom, we never even moved in together after our baby was born. I warned her that he is a narcissist, but I know he already talked smacked about me. She kept inviting me to their events and for our kids to go trick or treating. I told her to not include me I dont want anything to do with him, not spend my holiday with my abuser. We dont talk anymore, but good luck to her I already did my part. I wont warn anyone next time.

    • @MegaMisfit138
      @MegaMisfit138 6 месяцев назад +1

      That's terrible! Sorry you went through that, and still have to deal with him somewhat, as the father of your child. Narcs seem to have wired issues cutting the umbilical cord with mommy! That lady is a fool to move into his mom's house! He sounds like a loser. You are lucky you didn't marry! I found out late in my relationship, that he relied on his mommy for everything! He was 55. They don't get better with age. They get worse!

    • @griseldaguerrero7199
      @griseldaguerrero7199 6 месяцев назад +1

      @@MegaMisfit138 I'm glad we aren't together anymore and that we didn't marry, he is a looser. He did me a big favor when he broke up with me, I stoped loving him, it was all about him the whole relationship. He is using this new girl for her money, she is paying his bills and other stuff because he wasn't working for almost 6 months and he also owed me a lot of child support. He is also a hypocrite. He has always criticizing overweight people, including his sisters and here he is dating an unattractive plus size woman with two kids from a previous relationship.He and his narcissist sister will depend on their mom. I'm happier being single just focusing my energy on my son and working on myself getting my confidence back.

  • @nunyabiz6588
    @nunyabiz6588 6 месяцев назад +2

    A long time time ago I got involved with what I now recognize to be a narc. I interrupted him when he was trying to get a neighbor of his. A long time later when I was still with him she asked me about him and I told her the truth about him and saved her a whole bunch of trouble. She actually listened to me.

  • @Sunny-or8bq
    @Sunny-or8bq 6 месяцев назад +1

    most won't believe you and just think your jealous. Best to ignore as it will open the wound all over again that you worked hard to close.

  • @LeLeB37
    @LeLeB37 6 месяцев назад +2

    My ex married a bia that was a supposed friend after having an affair w her so she signed up for whatever she gets
    Im over here laughing at their "union" match made in hades

  • @beautypablotamarini7315
    @beautypablotamarini7315 5 месяцев назад

    I WOULD BELIEVE!!!
    I saw all fist day, but I couldn't believe myself.

  • @lolxd9396
    @lolxd9396 Месяц назад

    I wish my narcissistic player's room mate should have warned me about this skunk! I had the right to know, whether I listen or not is a different story. It would at least planted a seed of doubt. Thank you Lee. 🙏😎

  • @clarakam3858
    @clarakam3858 6 месяцев назад +3

    Yes is true. She didn' t believe when she heard & she said i lie , he is the most amazing person😂. But in what i saw she is the same , i don' t know now how they doing but i see him because we share kids so he doesn' t look good & he didn' t take the kid no more for more then 3 months so i quess " the good " times are gone😂. I don' t care. I am sure she saw what & how he is. My kid talled me he is not happy.

  • @Bluepearl187
    @Bluepearl187 6 месяцев назад +1

    Na, she knew he was with me and was okay with him monkey branching to her and let him move in. He’s her problem now 🤷🏻‍♀️

  • @arphotography6595
    @arphotography6595 6 месяцев назад +2

    Mine married his last affair then ran her ex out and adopted her kids.🤦🏼‍♀️

  • @Me-mn4nw
    @Me-mn4nw 6 месяцев назад

    My Ex is physically violent towards women and has lost his teaching liscense because of it, but those records are sealed. He tells everyone he left because of the way parents and students are. His best buddy warned me after we were expecting our child. I wish I would have miscarried than have gone through the Hell I've lived.

  • @sherimascote7495
    @sherimascote7495 6 месяцев назад +2

    Hell no 😮

  • @Jae-by3hf
    @Jae-by3hf 6 месяцев назад

    Never! People don’t want to hear and are so delusional! People want to see the good in everyone and I’m like: good luck 👍🏽

  • @shamilleramsay9196
    @shamilleramsay9196 6 месяцев назад +1

    The one i was involved with, i rejected him more that once before i got involved with him ,and then he told me he was a Freemason,when i tey to leave him the man manipulate me and use magic on me to .But Thank God for this Challenge and the power of the Holy Spirit that is providing the knowledge, i need to get my strength and courage to move on.
    Knowledge is power, lady when your intuition tell you something go with it.
    Listen to it.

  • @passion8princess261
    @passion8princess261 6 месяцев назад

    The gold metal that tarnished..

  • @drestrick3899
    @drestrick3899 6 месяцев назад

    Lmao the surprise is red flag 😂😂😂😂 I sure thought it a gold flag too

  • @karlataylor1172
    @karlataylor1172 6 месяцев назад +1

    One can only pray.

  • @thatobaloyi6194
    @thatobaloyi6194 6 месяцев назад

    I don’t have to warn them, he will show them exactly who he is early on. He showed me in 3 days and I just did not want to accept it

  • @Alexis-gs5od
    @Alexis-gs5od 6 месяцев назад

    My ex narc is just going to continue to get what he wants from these supplies and then move to the next the 9 years of being on and off I seen his routine, I just never realized what he was doing to me all these years, now I’m free. So Lee right don’t waste your time to warn the new supply eventually their true colors are going to come out

  • @kassidyonelove
    @kassidyonelove 6 месяцев назад +2

    The new supply shoot they never done with the old supply unless the old supply is smart and moved away. My mother n law and brother n law are both Narcissistic and i be like all these people are dumb me and my husband the middle child took off with our 3 kids and is not going back into they lives. They both called Cps on us and lied

  • @tjtanner9311
    @tjtanner9311 6 месяцев назад

    On social I never named my narcissist ex after we split but I left how I was treated. It was also pretty obvious that we were dating at the time. The narcissist removed all their comments from my social media to hide. So I gave a hint🤷‍♂️. Good luck to anyone who doesn't know.

  • @jessicawalker983
    @jessicawalker983 6 месяцев назад

    New supply broke up her marraige, my marraige and wrecked shop in my childrens lives.. so no, no warning will be given..She got exactly what she wanted. Natural consequences are sufficient 😊

  • @Nidhi_Maheshwari
    @Nidhi_Maheshwari 6 месяцев назад +1

    8:30 Now I get it why the urge
    Excellent 💛💛

  • @jajajiji8447
    @jajajiji8447 6 месяцев назад

    I don't even know who is her new supply lol she is so secretive out of the map that I have no clue as well

  • @Orquet-qj2nf
    @Orquet-qj2nf 6 месяцев назад

    Absolutely. God permits divorce in the Bible for sexual immorality, physical abandonment, and other "in such cases." I believe mental abandonment of the marriage without even the decency to leave the house is included with "in such cases."

  • @clairewilliams7762
    @clairewilliams7762 6 месяцев назад

    I got he didn't "want" our baby or "I don't think she's mine".
    That's his excuse from his narcarcissm

  • @Chynasmith1330
    @Chynasmith1330 6 месяцев назад

    I’m sorry but if they are keeping the narcissist distracted and away from me so I can heal…they can have it. They will find out on their own.

  • @YachicaK330
    @YachicaK330 6 месяцев назад

    The new supply text me over and over until I blocked her. She believes everything he says. As long as she feels she is winning it don’t matter to her.. if we did he angry and say we against him and now we friends😂

  • @REBEKAHJOHNSON-lh6xh
    @REBEKAHJOHNSON-lh6xh 6 месяцев назад

    I didn’t understand the few people who warned me. My covert narc mother was one of them. But she doesn’t like anyone. So how do you tell the difference? My dad was also another, but he was overly protective. A lot of people said they saw something odd or off with her, but almost no one spoke up.

  • @beautypablotamarini7315
    @beautypablotamarini7315 5 месяцев назад

    Narcs can't reach out of themselves.

  • @ms.stinered9640
    @ms.stinered9640 6 месяцев назад

    Ikr Lee💯

  • @CyrLing
    @CyrLing 6 месяцев назад

    Yes, I warned the new supply. Even if that new supply won't believe me,at least I've done my part..m

  • @sk8taway
    @sk8taway 6 месяцев назад

    "The clapping of the cheeks made you colorblind" 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @IsabellaPiesch
    @IsabellaPiesch 6 месяцев назад +1

    No. I know that won´t work. People only believe when they live it. (You know the acting is too good of the narcissist)... But if a bunch of exes would say they same thing I personally would believe it. Narcissts have more than one ex - just ask all of them. (If you are in contact).

  • @jarenkiser8050
    @jarenkiser8050 5 месяцев назад

    Nope, absolutely not, don't warn them! All that's gonna do is give the narc supply from you!

  • @morgan9745
    @morgan9745 3 месяца назад

    The new supply tormented me with my husband just as evil she said she was better and that he was going to change for her and I’ll be a single mom soon

  • @nicolletteramirez
    @nicolletteramirez 6 месяцев назад

    I agree. They will find out themselves in the time or else they don’t want to know.

  • @Orquet-qj2nf
    @Orquet-qj2nf 6 месяцев назад

    What if I tell the new supply that it's not her fault, there's something called projection that she should look into, and show her the domestic violence cycle, then walk away/stop messaging?
    I feel like silence doesn't provide future validation I have to offer. What helped me in the last year I was with him was having already learned the domestic violence cycle through my education. I recognized the pattern and realized I was living in it.
    I might never meet his new supply because under no circumstances am I going to get anywhere near him, but I feel like silence is too close to approval for my comfort.

  • @kerrymadden39
    @kerrymadden39 6 месяцев назад

    I didn't, but mostly , after 22 years of marriage, I just thought I had perhaps brought out the worst in him.. well he had me worked out pretty well , didn't he?! Definitely , he was N.P.D given his attempts to kill me.

  • @cletiawilliams1436
    @cletiawilliams1436 6 месяцев назад

    When coworkers and friends ...warned me about the toxic guys ....didnt know much about narcissist. I was in denial....i thought yall have boyfriends and husbands i have noone to hold tight at night.😂 i found out the hard way!!! 5 narcs out! I found out i was bible smart.....but not street smart.!

  • @ileenerebekah3740
    @ileenerebekah3740 6 месяцев назад

    Should be a quick and simple no. What are you even doing knowing that much about them anymore

    • @MegaMisfit138
      @MegaMisfit138 6 месяцев назад +3

      Because they get new supply before you are even broken up. I was moving out, as she was moving in! She knew about me, and tried breaking up our engagement. I didn't know what was going on till The week I moved out! He actually brought her, and her 6 yr old girl home, and was spending the night with her, while I was packing, to flaunt it in my face! I tried warning her, since she had a kid, and she tried beating me up. Lesson learned.

    • @ileenerebekah3740
      @ileenerebekah3740 6 месяцев назад +1

      @MegaMisfit138 I'm so sorry. That's brutal. I ended up leaving before they knew I was with my two ex husband's. I was not trying to go through that part of it. I have my own problems to deal with and I just was so tired of all the time I wasted, Idgaf who was talking to them. I am pretty lucky on that end though. I had to cut off my whole family years ago, so the experience is familiar for me. I knew to get the fuck out before saying anything about how I feel, and I knew saying anything would never get closure. It always hurts though. I hope you're healing from that experience. 💕

    • @MegaMisfit138
      @MegaMisfit138 6 месяцев назад

      @@ileenerebekah3740 Thanks! I am doing great! I prayed, and GOD told me that I had to experience the new supply moving in, so I would never try to stay friends, or stay attached in any way. Everything happens for a reason. I needed to see the demon in him!

  • @oisheemohajon
    @oisheemohajon 6 месяцев назад

    why would I be the only one to suffer...... 😎😎😎

  • @janicerendleman2377
    @janicerendleman2377 6 месяцев назад

    I wish someone would have warned me

  • @sandraleehurst7350
    @sandraleehurst7350 6 месяцев назад

    My new boo says this is gold! lol

  • @HandsofGlory1
    @HandsofGlory1 6 месяцев назад

    What if tried to unalive you twice?

  • @biggerminds523
    @biggerminds523 6 месяцев назад

    I don't understand why you even know what happens in their like. They didn't do you anything good, never keep follow them

  • @shoneydee_handmade
    @shoneydee_handmade 6 месяцев назад

    I call it a Canon Event and move on 🤷🏽‍♀️

  • @cletiawilliams1436
    @cletiawilliams1436 6 месяцев назад

    GOD hate violence and abuse...lets have common sense people!

  • @Word389
    @Word389 6 месяцев назад

    In reference to the bible, it does state that you may separate due to infidelity. That is the only exception for divorce.

  • @veronicakennedy5269
    @veronicakennedy5269 6 месяцев назад

    ❤no go on with your life❤

  • @GloriaGonzalez-zz4wp
    @GloriaGonzalez-zz4wp 6 месяцев назад

    Hell no Mr Lee I want Wanda new supply his egg supply because he went back with his ex I'm move on thank you MR.LEE 🎉

  • @Doveandson
    @Doveandson 6 месяцев назад

    His ex warned me, the crazy thing is I believed her but stayed with him in denial and shame. Insanity. Don’t walk, RUN it’s no game and it’s serious ‼️❤️‍🩹

  • @MrBigzo0574
    @MrBigzo0574 6 месяцев назад

    Told tell them shit most of those toxic bastards knew about you before you knew about them let them get drug through the mud just like you did they think they stole the narc from you they think they came up on a good person lmao good luck dummy have em

  • @loricrouse9009
    @loricrouse9009 6 месяцев назад

    ❤😊❤ love

  • @bethrenee2007
    @bethrenee2007 6 месяцев назад

    Wooowwww! Read me my life experiences. 😂

  • @BabyJessicaMontes
    @BabyJessicaMontes 6 месяцев назад

    Hahaha 🏆🚩

  • @sheliacarter6983
    @sheliacarter6983 6 месяцев назад

    Hell nah

  • @alicasano273
    @alicasano273 6 месяцев назад

    You are totally wrong all victims should be warned 100 procent