I used to listen to this song and cry myself to sleep when I was going through my divorce. That part, “they say if you love something you have to let it go and if it comes back that it means so much more but if it doesn’t at least you would know that it was something that you had to go through to grow” always broke me down. Fast forward 7 years and we got remarried and getting ready to celebrate our 5th wedding anniversary (11th is you count the first 6). And Heather is right, it means so much more now! Keep hope and faith alive!
This song touches my heart because of how much I love my ex. I miss him so much and think about him everyday. God knows my heart. Your message gives me hope that we will get back together. It's been 8 months now.
Yes I just said the same thing. They need to give Heather her roses while she’s still here. It’s sad! She’s got an AMAZING voice!!!! She will always be one of my favorite music artists/vocalist, hands down!
I had a boyfriend that loved for me to sing this song to him even after we broke up and moved on. We remained friends throughout the years. He was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer and would be in a lot of pain. He’d called me and ask for me to sing this song to help ease his pain. He’s in a better place now...R.I.P. Mr Micou 😘
robert wright @ yes ur right had a bad break up with a man I trusted but even through the hurt and pain I stilled loved him and would always wish the best..
She sung the shit out this song. When I get that cold feeling and goosebumps along the back of neck, means she accomplished her goal, and that's touch my soul
16 years ago I waited on this woman. Until I couldn't wait any longer. We went our separate ways which was mutual. But she would always send this song to me in spite our decision. We reunited 16 years later November 8,2022 Through those 16 years I was totally unhappy with the person I was with knowing my heart was some where else. Now we reunited I'm claiming her as My Wife if you love someone sometimes you have to let it go. If it comes back naturally it was meant to be. You only get one LIFE. That's my testimony to this song.
"They say if you love something you've got to let it go... And if it comes back then it means so much more but if it never does then at least you'll know that it was something you had to go through to grow. " Soooo deep, soooo true.
“They say if you love something You’ve got to let it go And if it comes back Then it means so much more But if it never does At least you will know That it was something you had to go through To grow“ Truer words have never been spoken
She was going through a divorce when she made this video. Her husband was her college sweetheart and a football player. In the video, there’s a football on the floor next to the couch. Bittersweet.
Its 2021 this song just hit different .SHIT TOUCH MY SOUL.u can feel every word she saying in this song . She is so underrated but ur true fans luv u .
Love this song...never heard too much from since song.Maybe I missed something.I do remember, however, is that this song came right after Hurricane Katrina.Nice song.
Heather said it best: "It was something you had to go through to grow" Embrace the blessing in the lesson and allow yourself the time to heal. God bless
@@sakienajohnican2978 Your feelings are valid. You will feel a whole lot of them. Acceptance is always the last one. But you will get there. I know it hurts though. Praying for your peace
Still singing in 2024, this song always gets me. My cousin Elaine introduced me to Heather with "I Wish I Wasn't", and I was obsessed since all those years ago. She's no longer here with me, but every time I sing these lyrics I feel closer to her. To all those who have lost a great love and use this song as an anthem to the special time when...
Lord have mercy, I'm going through this with my husband. He use to be so kind and gentle. And I fell in love with that man. Our marriage has been through hell to put it nicely. We have both changed in many ways. But I still love him so much. But it seems like I can't do anything right. Sometimes, I really dislike him. But I can't see myself without him. And though he says this same thing, his actions say differently. I fell in love with a Narcissist and it's so hard to love him at times. I just pray YAH can heal us before we walk away from each other.
"They say if you love something you've got to let it go, and if it comes back then it means so much more; but if it never does at least you will know, that it was something you had to go through to grow!" 💕💯
I went through a break up. I cried and cried, but like the saying goes if you love someone enough you let them go. If it’s meant it will come back.. we’ll fast forward we have been married 13 years. You can’t be scared to let go. Either it will fly away and return or never return, but you love yourself first!
We broke up when this song came out in 2006. Fast forward current day 2024, we've been back together since October 2022 and it feels like we never left. This man has always been there for me no matter what. Sometimes I wish we never left but she's right, it's something we had to go through to grow! ❤
How I look at it Brotha, is I imagine she singing the song about me and to me. Same with her other Joint "He is", I can listen to it because I know she singing about yours truly. That should masculinize this song enough for any man reading. I ain't like these brothers bumping the shit publicly, now THAT's on the gay side.
@@SodaPopinksi I very much agree with you but any man bumping it in public doesn't make him gay at all. The hell with what people out there think! You should feel secure enough within yourself to know who you are and what people out there think of you shouldn't matter
They say if you love something, you've got to let it go. And if it comes back, then it means so much more. Fine if it never does, at least you will know, That it was something you had to go through to grow.
This is actually a very underrated song with a good message. Even when things don’t work out in a relationship, you still care for them instead of plotting revenge or holding bitterness. That’s love ❤️
I guess I’ll my comment like everyone else.... who’s listening in 2020 😂 but I agree she’s absolutely stunning and this video is exactly how I act with all soulful R&B!
15 years ago my marriage ended. We have four beautiful human beings together and when I speak to him or see him I feel like his soul still calls out my name. Definitely the first love of my life. That will never change. This song describes it so well.
She deserved her props when thus song came out. Black women singers are always under rated. Go girl I hope she's still singing and using the voice God gave her . This gift of singing is no mistake for God never makes a mistake. Voices like her and so many others should not be dismissed and left forgotten. Singing is a gift we all need no matter what the circumstances are or going thru it gives us hope to press forward and we can relate.
It's 1:40 am right now where I am. I just got off work from doing a 17 hr shift. This song hits home to me in so so many ways. Cheers to all the hopeless romantics out there. Love will find us!💞
They say if you love something, you've got to let it go.... and if it comes back then it means so much more..... But if it never does at least you will know....... that it was something you had to go through to grow...........................
This song is so powerful it kinda reminds me of the Donnell Jones song "where I wanna be".The message is not only real but it's also relatable. "He standing with her but his soul is calling out my name". Do u hear that?. I got this vibe from her like I respect your relationship and I'm keeping my distance, but you and I both know the connection we have can never EVER be touched or replaced. You breaking up with you girl had nothing to do with me, it was just a matter of the best you ever had was me. So let's stop fooling ourselves and be together because know one can fulfill the importance in each other lives but us. Damm!! 😩
I have the song on repeat ... I just reunited with my ex from 15 yrs ago and he said he was going to wait forever for me 😊 I always knew we would be back together regardless of time and space and other relationships it was only about when .. deeper than soulmates ...twin flames damn I love that man ..This will be playing at our wedding 💍
When me and my ex broke up 2 months ago && this sing use to have me crying so bad! I haven't listened to this song in a while, but I listened to it today to see if it affects me the same way it did when we first broke up && literally one tear came out! I guess you can say I'm moving on 😒
She is a beautiful person inside and out.I met her at a concert back stage and we laughed at talked as if we grew up together. Beautiful Black Queen 👑.🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🦋🦋🙌🏾
I remember when this song came out years ago.. Actually this song helped me get over a man that wasn't good for me. I remember that one important verse for me; "It was something I had to go through to grow".
omg you too same here l was packing his things listening to this CD 10 years of back and forth was enough for me still to this day l hear her music and my heart goes back to the time and I get emotional because it took so long to realize my worth
Heather Headley is beautiful. Who agrees?
Yup😊
Marcel Shadd I agree
I agree
Me I agrees
Yes yes a little thin to my liken bout gorgeous her skin looks like edible wet chocolate
I used to listen to this song and cry myself to sleep when I was going through my divorce. That part, “they say if you love something you have to let it go and if it comes back that it means so much more but if it doesn’t at least you would know that it was something that you had to go through to grow” always broke me down. Fast forward 7 years and we got remarried and getting ready to celebrate our 5th wedding anniversary (11th is you count the first 6). And Heather is right, it means so much more now! Keep hope and faith alive!
OMG that is beautiful.
This gives me soooo much hope Ana G
Wonderful Ms. Ana....
this gave me hope
This song touches my heart because of how much I love my ex. I miss him so much and think about him everyday. God knows my heart. Your message gives me hope that we will get back together. It's been 8 months now.
2024 still one of the best love songs ever written! ❤
Okay👏🏾 Because I definitely just sent this to one of my friends who was going through it!
FACTS
I’ve listened to this 20xs❤
Facts
Most Definitely! Touches my heart every time I hear it.
HEATHER HEADLEY IS GROSSLY UNDERRATED!!!!
Yup sure is
ABSOLUTELY 💯!
Too much.
Most definitely deft 😮🎉😢😂❤😊😅
Q1@@PriscaMulaga
Her and Vivian Green were so underrated 😩 💥💥💥❤️
I just finished listening to emotional Rollercoaster and came over to hear this
Yes I just said the same thing. They need to give Heather her roses while she’s still here. It’s sad! She’s got an AMAZING voice!!!! She will always be one of my favorite music artists/vocalist, hands down!
More like under appreciated...but they have us..!!😊
I truly agree, they're cut from a different cloth
Man I say that all the time the Early 2000's was them underground
This is one of the most underrated R&B tracks of all time.
I totally agree
For sure
Most definitely
So true
hoos3014 I agree
Somebody give this woman her flowers, its pass over due!!!!
💯💯
🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹💯💯💯💯🐐🐐🐐🐐🐐🐐📈📈📈🍷🍷🍷🍷😘😘😘😘😘🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿
YES PLEASE❤❤
fr
YES SHE STAY AT THE TOP ON MY FAVORITES🌸🌺🌷🌻🌼🌹
She was only 25 years old in this video. So much class.
Wow she was
Nope she was 31she born 10/5/74 that made her 31
@ It wasn’t up for debate. Google “How old was Heather Headley when in my mind came out?”
@user-bh3oq4mw4p we must live our lives with actually facts you dig
India.Arie wrote and produced this song for Heather. Beautiful collaboration.
Wow didn't know this this song is perfection and a classic.
Shannon Sanders is the original writer of this.
No she didnt
I use to mix them up so that sounds right
Shannon sanders is the man who wrote this and this is a cover an amazing one
We dont look for old songs. We remember the memories they carry.
THIS IS SOOO EPICLY TRUE
Wow so true!
Real R&B Music is timeless classic 💿📀🎵🎶💿📀
I had a boyfriend that loved for me to sing this song to him even after we broke up and moved on. We remained friends throughout the years. He was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer and would be in a lot of pain. He’d called me and ask for me to sing this song to help ease his pain. He’s in a better place now...R.I.P. Mr Micou 😘
Deborah Robinson that's love
Deborah Robinson . Sorry for your loss
Deborah Robinson R.I.P. Brother.
Deborah Robinson You're a good person.
so sorry for your loss , and yes he is in a better place
She said, “but his soul is calling out my name” lord have mercy. I want to experience a love like this.
That's the kind of love you never ever get over. Long after they have received their heavenly crown 😔
Who doesn’t sista…….im a dude:)
Same
Songs that can make you miss that one love you never had.
Here!
An Ex boyfriend of mine died.
And I can't stop listening to this song, because in my mind, I'll always be his lady.
R.I.P 💓
xxX15coolchicXxx sorry for your lost
xxX15coolchicXxx ooh no! I'm sorry for your loss... 😢😢
xxX15coolchicXxx he's alrigh keep your head up
xxX15coolchicXxx oh I'm sorry for that
Keep your head up!!
It’s crazy how songs can unlock a WHOLE new level of feelings 😓
#damn
For real
Nostalgia
Yesssssss
The sole purpose of music well at least for me.
robert wright @ yes ur right had a bad break up with a man I trusted but even through the hurt and pain I stilled loved him and would always wish the best..
She’s naturally beautiful! And her voice is wonderful!
She is. Love seeing her in Sweet Magnolias on Netflix. She has aged so gracefully
I thought I was the only one who watched it.
@@moniquenorville1981 she was in Spike Lees ' Shes gotta have it' on Netflix too. Such a Beautiful woman😍
Yes she is. Her skin looks flawless. Smooth, chocolate and just outright beautiful 😍. Her voice is out of this world too.
super unrated I love her so much I wish I could cook for her just one time
Song hit different when your 42 instead of 22. I’m so great full for GROWTH
Agreed!
Agree
Yep cuz our perspective has shifted
@@jayfromcali7091⌚🍷🎉😘🙏🏿💯💪🏾
Amen to that!!
She sung the shit out this song. When I get that cold feeling and goosebumps along the back of neck, means she accomplished her goal, and that's touch my soul
very deep song
Southern Hoodoo 🙌🙌🙌
Southern Hoodoo why songs like these don't the attention due...she sounds better than Beyoncé to me ijs real soul music
Southern Hoodoo it take you to a place
Lisa Lee
I will have to be a great weekend with
16 years ago I waited on this woman. Until I couldn't wait any longer. We went our separate ways which was mutual. But she would always send this song to me in spite our decision. We reunited 16 years later November 8,2022 Through those 16 years I was totally unhappy with the person I was with knowing my heart was some where else. Now we reunited I'm claiming her as My Wife if you love someone sometimes you have to let it go. If it comes back naturally it was meant to be. You only get one LIFE. That's my testimony to this song.
💙
I love this! ❤️❤️
Thank you. That's where we're now. Don't know if I want her back , after years of sharing herself with other than myself. ONE 🙏✌️☮️.
This is a wonderful. I am glad destiny was in your favor. Blessings to you both!
@@Klassyladyk Thank you
*Released in 2006 and 16 years later, is still FIRE in 2022.* 🔥🔥
Facts
Man I was in grade school this still hit
I'm 30 do the math
2023 too!
You too huh got to self not before God though 💘💘💘💘💘💘💘
Just beautiful! Heather’s voice is the truth. I will never get tired of her voice. In my mind, she has won 50+Grammy awards. 2024 and counting.
This is one beautiful black woman!!!
Yes
"They say if you love something you've got to let it go... And if it comes back then it means so much more but if it never does then at least you'll know that it was something you had to go through to grow. " Soooo deep, soooo true.
Yes!!! 🙏🏾😥
Makeup Pri 🎯
I swear thanks I keep trying
With you when you right could not have been said better that's a very powerful part of this song
Makeup Pri that's so real!!!!!
“They say if you love something
You’ve got to let it go
And if it comes back
Then it means so much more
But if it never does
At least you will know
That it was something you had to go through
To grow“
Truer words have never been spoken
For Shou!Bt Dnt..... Grow 👆
You can now hold on to somebody that does not want to be there yes every word of that song so damn true love love love
Lost something *
@@monaenae5940 no she said if you love something
Fine if it never does
Black women are magical.. cause can't nobody sing THIS song like this but a black woman...💚🖤❤️
Yes! As a white women I have often said that there is something magical in the talent of black people, and black women can sing like no other!
@@jjones3566I have to second that opinion, I love me some melanated singers..!
Preach, Preacher!👃🏽⛪
I miss good music. Thank goodness for RUclips. We can always go back in time and enjoy real Soul, Rhythm and Blues.
I Totally agree!!
Amen
Indeed, family. Blessings.
Fancy Me likewise 😇
I agree
This song is a timeless masterpiece
JESUS is coming soon and JESUS is the only way to Salvation accept JESUS as your LORD and Savior today before it is too late
Don't take the vaccine trust in The LORD ALMIGHTY!!.!
Who’s still loving this? And it means something to you in 2019. Let me hear you. Let it go baby..... Sing it out loud.
Yassssss 🙌🏾🙌🏾
Doing just that 🎙️🎶
In my mind/ yes
This Girl put Tears in your eyes and Heart Good Song
I still love it . Heather is the best.
Heather Headley so underrated this song is still relevent even more so now here in 2024!!!
This song is criminally underrated. I never knew a song could evoke so many emotions. I’m glad I’m not the only one that thought this.
That’s the beauty of music.
😢🥴🥴🥴🥴I Felt This
That’s a lie. Artists know- and have used or sampled this
As a black women… thank you on behalf of my people!!!✊🏾💪🏾
What you said.
She's married to a whole yt man
The only Americans and English speaking people who don't like Heather must be visually and hearing impaired!
Heather Headly knows who she is and where she comes from, Trinidad, land of steel pan. Carnivall
@@luciahessic8214and so does other black people… What’s your point? You’re ignorant for even thinking otherwise
Only heart break can make you sing like that 💔
I know that’s right‼️💯💯
Sheesh💔
She was going through a divorce when she made this video. Her husband was her college sweetheart and a football player. In the video, there’s a football on the floor next to the couch. Bittersweet.
This was my moms favorite song🥺 she passed last January and this is my first time hearing this song in awhile and it really hits the soul
❤️🩹🙏🏾🎼R.I.P. to your Mother sending my deepest condolences 💐 to you and your family
My ❤ condolences
My condolences, so sorry for your loss 😢
You have a soul
May your Mom rest easy🙏🏽🕊
Who still listening to it October 2019? She SUCH an underrated artist.
Yes-here 10-10-19!
I love it!!!
Yessss 10/12/2019
EXTREMELY UNDERRATED💯😍🔥
Rozita samuels 🙋🏽♀️
Its 2021 this song just hit different .SHIT TOUCH MY SOUL.u can feel every word she saying in this song . She is so underrated but ur true fans luv u .
It does everytime you come back to listen to this joint 🔥
Yep especially if you get played or dump for another person but still love the fool!
It definitely will now since Nicki Drake and Wayne hopped on the sample
Forreal#
For real!!!
Who else( male/female) knows exactly what Heather is talking about in this song? This song does something to me every time.... Smh
Chile LET'S TALK ABOUT IT!!!! She took our thoughts and put em in this song 😢😢
@@pandorasbox6607 yes she did... It's always that 1... Smh!
When you lose that special person and you get that person back it's that magic that she's talking bout if you agree like
Love this song...never heard too much from since song.Maybe I missed something.I do remember, however, is that this song came right after Hurricane Katrina.Nice song.
I do.
This song NEVERRRRR gets old. Absolute masterpiece and Heather Headley was so underrated, but we see you Ms. Heather. love love love ya
Only a blind and deaf person would EVER underrate Heather!!
Still listening in 2019!
Fr my late grandma put me on her music it's just some bout a strong woman I can feel her
Naturally Char aye u single
Yaassss...vibin with my baby...I luv u "D"!!!
In my mind .
I am still here for this song...sending everyone plenty of love and light!!! September 13, 2019
I LOVE THIS WOMAN the real great singers don’t get enough CREDIT! 🙏🏾❤️
Hi
Agreed!
She gets her credit on Broadway
I agree
True facts that's because they're not selling their souls she a great vocalist
Heather said it best: "It was something you had to go through to grow" Embrace the blessing in the lesson and allow yourself the time to heal. God bless
Amen yes you are right
Really im pissed and gone
@@sakienajohnican2978 Your feelings are valid. You will feel a whole lot of them. Acceptance is always the last one. But you will get there. I know it hurts though. Praying for your peace
Yes.makes sense
Amen!
Still singing in 2024, this song always gets me. My cousin Elaine introduced me to Heather with "I Wish I Wasn't", and I was obsessed since all those years ago. She's no longer here with me, but every time I sing these lyrics I feel closer to her. To all those who have lost a great love and use this song as an anthem to the special time when...
Ffgggggghgggvgggg
SO underrated....... a TRUE artist vocally and lyrically, this woman is bad ass.
This wasn't her original song though
She was performing on "Broadway" for a while before she chose singing as a her career.......She was also singing on Broadway......
Greg Traylor Yes, I agree.....She was on Broadway for a while......
Ethel Stevens Love
***** k
RENT WAS DUE!!!! Sang her heart out yess ma’am!!
When music evoked real emotions and feelings.
Yessssss
Still my jam though💯💯💯💯
YASSSSSSSS!!!
Yes!
Yassss
Lord have mercy, I'm going through this with my husband. He use to be so kind and gentle. And I fell in love with that man. Our marriage has been through hell to put it nicely. We have both changed in many ways. But I still love him so much. But it seems like I can't do anything right. Sometimes, I really dislike him. But I can't see myself without him. And though he says this same thing, his actions say differently. I fell in love with a Narcissist and it's so hard to love him at times. I just pray YAH can heal us before we walk away from each other.
Hang in there!
Keep fighting for your marriage….❤❤
You’re not alone. God bless!
Relationships take work from both sides. You must be equally yolked, while always keeping God in the midst of you. God bless you🙏
🙏🏽🙏🏽
Crazy, you never know who out there still loves you, especially when you feel all alone and think you have nobody.
Truth
@@missamanda1430 yes!!!
So true!
It's crazy because I'm GoinG throuGh this exactly it's numbinG how you spoke those words of a person you don't even know thanks
I could so relate to that
this beautiful black woman has some strong vocals 😎👌👍🤘👏👏👏👏
Yes
she killed this is still a hit!
true ☝ hundred percent
mermer cris brown
YESS YES SHE DID I MISS HER
+karasha culver where she at
Heather's busy , between the tony and countless of boradway appearance ,plus motherhood , she's a busy gyal
God is Love and where ever Love, God is. Thank you so much Lord for your unconditional Love. It protects, directs and corrects its my Everything ❤
"They say if you love something you've got to let it go, and if it comes back then it means so much more; but if it never does at least you will know, that it was something you had to go through to grow!" 💕💯
❤❤❤❤
Who's still listening in 2018?? Forever will love this song!!
Aria Sanders
I love this song. I can relate on so many levels
Aria Sanders i still love this song
Listening to it right now. I will always be/ in my mind
Aria Sanders 4/14/18 @ 1:18am
Me real music
She sung the hell outta that song!!
Sure diddd
I went through a break up. I cried and cried, but like the saying goes if you love someone enough you let them go. If it’s meant it will come back.. we’ll fast forward we have been married 13 years. You can’t be scared to let go. Either it will fly away and return or never return, but you love yourself first!
❗️❗️❗️❗️
So true❤
This ain't that crazy ex this is a woman who connected with a brotha's soul and she STILL feels him. These are LYRICS right here
ruclips.net/video/_fz8YL6ynP4/видео.html
she got to a place and she knows and as a man we feel it too......
No one can sing this song BUT her!! She did this shit 💯💯 still listening in 2018 . Real music
Ja6 mario2
Arc jxdh fghjdecubo dev
shannon sanders ripped it up
Summer Walker could
Truth
I miss when videos told a story..man the times have really changed
Yes they made music understandable
Ragluvvulgar 💯
Man I miss videos like that. Videos today are repetitive and boring. No substance, creativity and no storytelling.
Erica Simms where are you from
They dont make em like this no more
The pipes on this woman is outstanding. ❤❤❤❤
The end of the song when's says "Yeah" and it fades out.... O Lord we need more songs like this 🙏🏽
That part of the song has been sampled many times now in rap songs.. the last 30 secs or so.. beautiful ❤️
Nicki Minaj and lil Wayne drake sampled it in seeing green and I ain’t even know I knew it sounded famalliar😩😩
@@joshsmith7842 I was getting it mixed up with the lemon pepper joint. Y'all made this so much easier for me. Thanks for saving me some time.
I swear these type of songs need to resurface in the world today.
This song won't ever get old
❤💎💐2021👠💋💘
@@vtymes1982 thanks for bringing me back here again. Aaannndd just like i said, this song wont ever get old
We broke up when this song came out in 2006. Fast forward current day 2024, we've been back together since October 2022 and it feels like we never left. This man has always been there for me no matter what. Sometimes I wish we never left but she's right, it's something we had to go through to grow! ❤
Im embarassed to admit ima grown ass straight man n this is one of my all time favorite songs period..
Don’t be embarrassed my brother most of my favorite songs of all time are sung by women. When you are a grown ass man YOU LIKE WHAT YOU LIKE👍🏽
I bump the hell out of this song. Don't give a dang if anyone hears it. Lol
Shit got me amazed too talent is talent
How I look at it Brotha, is I imagine she singing the song about me and to me. Same with her other Joint "He is", I can listen to it because I know she singing about yours truly. That should masculinize this song enough for any man reading. I ain't like these brothers bumping the shit publicly, now THAT's on the gay side.
@@SodaPopinksi I very much agree with you but any man bumping it in public doesn't make him gay at all. The hell with what people out there think! You should feel secure enough within yourself to know who you are and what people out there think of you shouldn't matter
They say if you love something, you've got to let it go.
And if it comes back, then it means so much more.
Fine if it never does, at least you will know,
That it was something you had to go through to grow.
Dude! Lol
The beauty of written words.
Beautiful
My favorite part.
bull, another dude is blowing her back out
2024 hits even harder !!! I love you Heather❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ you deserve all your flowers 💐🙏🏽
She is everything. So much soul and emotion. I live for the old R&B.
ikr
They don't understand grown folks music
Pandora's Box I'm not fully grown tho. I would just rather listen to old school r&b.
DiAngel Parks I understand
I do too
This is actually a very underrated song with a good message. Even when things don’t work out in a relationship, you still care for them instead of plotting revenge or holding bitterness. That’s love ❤️
Lilac.... ❤❤❤❤❤.... 💯 😊
I guess I’ll my comment like everyone else.... who’s listening in 2020 😂 but I agree she’s absolutely stunning and this video is exactly how I act with all soulful R&B!
2020 still bringing me back to sophomore year in high school! #bringthismusicback
This song is timeless
Me
Still listening🙋🏽♀️
My license plate
15 years ago my marriage ended. We have four beautiful human beings together and when I speak to him or see him I feel like his soul still calls out my name. Definitely the first love of my life. That will never change. This song describes it so well.
❤❤❤❤❤
Every note was calculated with precision. Love it to pieces.
Kaliha and girls friends boyfriend double love you ❤️ note 🎵 plak muice DJ and
Beautiful chocolate sister. Heather is amazing
Exactly!!!
tasiawood Married to a white man
Smh
Heather Headley was not playing when she delivered this song. Vocal range off the charts!
#MsBroadway!
La Dee Stay Cee Johnson Day day
La Dee Stay Cee Johnson k
Email me a copy of your music
She deserved her props when thus song came out. Black women singers are always under rated. Go girl I hope she's still singing and using the voice God gave her . This gift of singing is no mistake for God never makes a mistake. Voices like her and so many others should not be dismissed and left forgotten. Singing is a gift we all need no matter what the circumstances are or going thru it gives us hope to press forward and we can relate.
It’s 3 A.M in the morning, balling my eyes out on how beautiful this song is..😭😭. Stuck on repeat
Are you a Pisces
Me toooo lol my go to sleep song 1am
I feel your pain 😫😢😫😢😫
It's 1:40 am right now where I am. I just got off work from doing a 17 hr shift. This song hits home to me in so so many ways. Cheers to all the hopeless romantics out there. Love will find us!💞
You're good...
👍This woman can just flat out SANG. 😊 Enough Said 😁
She blew the roof off on this song.🎤🎤🎙️🎙️🎙️
Damn she was really in love .....strong message!
Lol... More like obsessed.
We all luv this song so much! Keep streaming, keep listening and lets take it to 100m❤. Such a beautiful song and beautifully written. April 2024.
They say if you love something, you've got to let it go.... and if it comes back then it means so much more..... But if it never does at least you will know....... that it was something you had to go through to grow...........................
padussia so true
Yes
Baddest verse
This song is so powerful it kinda reminds me of the Donnell Jones song "where I wanna be".The message is not only real but it's also relatable. "He standing with her but his soul is calling out my name". Do u hear that?. I got this vibe from her like I respect your relationship and I'm keeping my distance, but you and I both know the connection we have can never EVER be touched or replaced. You breaking up with you girl had nothing to do with me, it was just a matter of the best you ever had was me. So let's stop fooling ourselves and be together because know one can fulfill the importance in each other lives but us. Damm!! 😩
now you got me wanting to listen lol
***** the I ain't gonna go to part of your comment had me dying 😂😭, but I feel you tho.
I like her music
thats deep 😭😭😭
Girl you better shut up and keep speaking on it!!!! 👏👏
Heather Headely is very underrated
Stacie Jones i love the shitttt out of this song
YES SHE IS 💜💜💜💜💜. SHE CAN SONG HER ASS OFF
yhea I agree. but people like us know better. lady can sing her ass off.
Yeah, she deserved so much more recognition
Me to love
This Song was everywhere, if you don't feel anything from this, I don't know what to tell you, it's sad it's beautiful it's soul felt 😢❤
This girl is so under rated..she has one of the best voices ever!!
Killin it!!
She is what you call a singer that touch your heart and doul, she Sangs not Sing, she can sing the hair off your head.
and beauty
Mr Goody u got that shit right
Mr Goody she the R&B Yolanda Adams!!!!
She sang the s_it out of that song! Her voice makes you tremble at the end. You can feel her conviction 💯 She's been through some things💪
Adore this comment and whole heartedly agree !!🎉
I have the song on repeat ... I just reunited with my ex from 15 yrs ago and he said he was going to wait forever for me 😊 I always knew we would be back together regardless of time and space and other relationships it was only about when .. deeper than soulmates ...twin flames damn I love that man ..This will be playing at our wedding 💍
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Iman NP Center I-Lipo Weightloss congrats thats beautiful ❤
ohh that's deep!! best wishes!!
Just curious, are you guys still together?
One of my all time favorite songs! Fell in love with her the first time I heard this song!❤
When me and my ex broke up 2 months ago && this sing use to have me crying so bad! I haven't listened to this song in a while, but I listened to it today to see if it affects me the same way it did when we first broke up && literally one tear came out! I guess you can say I'm moving on 😒
Song*
Moving on is so bitter sweet isn't it?
+Sheyi F very 😩
+Sheyi F it hurts
+Yamaiya Madox but like fantasia said what doesn't kill you only makes you stronger
Who Else Binge Listening To Old R&B THIS STILL A HIT IN 2019
im🙋♀️🙋♀️🙋♀️❤
This will always be a classic .
Me
sonya terry Issa Hit & Im Not Even A female Just Know REAL Music
she's one of those women who will never age...
i since a 2016 pic of her im like damn she look the same
Melanin beauty is ageless
+Danny D IS love to see her & her family, better their beautiful
right 😊,,she's beautiful💚💋
Raynayk Trini women never age 🇹🇹🇹🇹
Yeaaah, yeaaaah, YEAAAAAAH!!!! Still gives me goosebumps
This is the type of music that truly touches your soul and allows you to look within yourself and reminisce about a love that was once upon a time.
George Archie so true
George Archie
Greatest break up song ever 🎶🎶🎶🎶🎶and she very underrated 🎶🎶🎶😎
the mayor Truthful
Very
the mayor as it is for many black singers with her resemblance.
Yes
She is so underrated....
Ms Lady yess
+Ms Lady #TRUTH
Ms Lady YESSS IKR
She is a beautiful person inside and out.I met her at a concert back stage and we laughed at talked as if we grew up together. Beautiful Black Queen 👑.🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🦋🦋🙌🏾
I remember when this song came out years ago.. Actually this song helped me get over a man that wasn't good for me. I remember that one important verse for me; "It was something I had to go through to grow".
JESUS is coming soon and JESUS is the only way to Salvation accept JESUS as your LORD and Savior today before it is too late.!
omg you too same here l was packing his things listening to this CD 10 years of back and forth was enough for me still to this day l hear her music and my heart goes back to the time and I get emotional because it took so long to realize my worth
I feel you on that young lady and I’m so happy that you made it through the rain
ikikiki
This song is the reason why I love me some Heather Headley. She is definitely one of a kind!
🎯
2020 still listening to this.. she killed this song😍😍
I forgot to add Heather Hendley with Fantasia and Angie stone Jennifer Hudson
Me!
My song 😩😩
she murdered it
EASILY the most UNDERRATED r&b song of ALLLL freaking time
Heather Headley is now starring in a Netflix series called Sweet Magnolia.
Yep. I started watching just because of her and then came here after episode two to watch this video. Lol
Yes, I just finished Season 1 lol hoping there will be a season 2 ♥️🖤♥️
Thats what brought me here🙌🙌🙌
I’m currently on the last episode and only just realised it was her 😅👏🏽👏🏽
She shows she is extremely talented all the way around. I was hoping her music would be included in the series. Looking forward to the next season!
After 13 years ....The bond never dies. When the souls are intertwined the physical
and present are irrelevant.
She will always be my dream come true after 15years I've never felt like this about anyone else Darla my dream come true ! Always n forever
And still 17 years later, NOTHING has changed how I feel about him!!
Seriously who doesn't like this song!!I'm sure a lot of us can relate to this song
You if possible irurtfid I di
@Jodoan W. I can sure relate to this and she sang the hell out of this song
#INDEED
Facts
This Song will touch you in the heart forever ❤️
Her voice her mannerisms and facial expressions bring chills to my body and years to my eyes every single time smh
Another reason to cast her as Nala in lion king on Broadway when it first broke out❤