Tank - I Can't Make You Love Me (Official Video)
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- The official video of "I Can't Make You Love Me" by Tank from the album 'Now or Never'.
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I just became aware of this song, & I would listen 2 it @ any time!!!
Ninja Kidz
Nice kids
I found a letter my husband wrote to me after his passing & I’ll never forget this statement... “There will be many men who want you, but one man will DESERVE you”!!!!!!! That took me out!!! 😭😢🕊❤️💋
So sorry for your loss, wow powerful words💗🌹
Tameeka Harris Thank you Doll! 💖
@@GODSPRINZES2 yw💗
So so sorry for your loss oh the pain is just 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭💔💔💔
stephanie parsons Thank you Sis! It’s really been hard. But he wanted me to live my life. I miss my husband daily. He was everything I could’ve asked for in a man/husband. 😢😭❤️Be blessed! 🙏🏽
To the person that loves hard , this song will hit hard but also makes you realize how good of a person you are
What does loving hard have to do with being a good person? One has nothing to do with the other.
Yes. .Stephan Stewart... gotta be there or been there to understand.
Yes!!
I do agree
👍✔
I was in love with someone who didn't love me the way I loved them. I accepted it, allowed God to heal my heart and in return he sent me someone who loved me better than I could have ever imagined.
Nikkie Gooden god is great
Nikkie Gooden wow God is good! I am going through the same thing. I just have to learnt to let go fully.
Nikkie Gooden listen to Curt Green.. it’s more emotion in his version ruclips.net/video/SPXCH2ewzNE/видео.html
Stacy_HisDaughter you will in time...moving forward didn't happen overnight but I am so happy God got me thru that pain!
Nikkie Gooden Awe
This song speaks to the Soul. If someone doesn’t love you there’s no need to hold on to them. Remember you deserve better
@@Msshortyjc Amen to that.!!
It’s hard to let go. Lord knows I know. Prayers for anyone going thru, may the right person come into your life❤️
Going through this right now
@@monishajefferson4352 I’m sorry you’re going thru it. I still have my days. Sending love & light and healing energy your way. May you grow thru what you’re going thru🤍🤍🤍
It hurts soo bad I have sleepless nights
@@monishajefferson4352 Grief comes in waves feel the feelings. You’re human. The storm won’t last always.
Thank you for the encouragement
To all the broken hearts...its time to let go and set yourself free. It's not worth holding on if they don't feel the same. Keep your pride, love yourself, know your worth. Things will get better.
It's just so hard😢
@@venus1990able in the beginning its hard but time will grant you the chance to heal. Find your hobbies and enjoy the shit out of it lol. Eventually, you'll find someone compatible. Diamonds are formed through extreme pressure. You got this!
It is unfair tho 😢
Thanks a lot I needed heart this
I've been waiting 20 years for someone (anyone) to love me right 😔😟😢
I learned today to give all my love to God. God is the only man who will not break my heart. Thank you God for loving a sinner like me.
Yes Amen "Beautiful"❤️✨
Amen 🙏
you are delusional god dont love anyone b ut himself
Never understood this statement and probably never will.
@@DreiSkins101 Don't ruin it for them. If it helps them cope with things then let them be(although let's just hope they don't learn about the book of Job).
Misplaced affection is one of the most painful experiences, wishing true love to everyone going through this experience❤️
The best/worst song ever created, realizing you were never good enough for another human being that you love may be the worst feeling in the world. This shit brings me back to the worst moment in my life but it brings me clarity because it spews reality and the truth that you never see when you're blinded by love.
agree
so true....
your right. the feeling is so awful and dreadful. just a seething burning pain of almost total dark and emptiness. I can't forget it. its a terrible feeling. like labor. its unforgettable.
You're exactly right..I know this type of heartache all too well💔
😢..I feel like I'm living this song and your comment right now.... I'm not perfect but I know I work at it everyday. Although we're still together, Im feeling exhausted from all the energy I've put into our relationship but things just aren't changing and I can't seem to wrap my mind around the fact that my efforts just hasn't paid off as much as I would have liked to see. I can't understand why so many people (females) favor me but the one person I'm in love with doesn't see the qualities others see in me...(Sorry I'm an introvert and this is the closest I've ever come to venting to anyone about my current situation)
This song always reminds me how important self love is. Love is one of the most painful feeling in this world but one of the best feeling ever to experience. #2022 who is listening with me?
So true‼️‼️
Thank you for reminding me to breath
Yes so me!
I'm here
WOW !!! well said
The worst hurt is when someone awakens ur love with no intention of loving u back n then leave with no explanation just cut u off like u never meant nothing to them so ur just clueless n hurt
Understand u so well..
@@mariechanel1503 😔😔
💔😩
My current situation 😔
Yes.. its the one thing I didn't see coming falling in love with him. Just all this time I really thought he did only to find out he never had..yet I still stayed hoping for the best...it just takes two. And I wish long ago I was told by him so this pain wouldn't be so hard. 3yrs..I loved him I only wanted his love back..and unsuccessfully didn't..💔
This song DEFINITELY hits different when you feel a certain way about someone but they don’t feel the same. Feels like a prison
Facts 😢
😢😢😢
💯
😢😢😢
I’m on the opposite side of this I have someone who loves me really hard but I don’t her but I don’t want to hurt her I have tried my best but I can’t 😢😢😢
It's really tough when your feelings are stronger than the other person. Be true to your heart and move on before you end up hurting yourself. When someone loves you, it is the most visible and evident action possible. A simple touch, a smile or a thinking of you text takes no effort when it's true love. No Love Should Ever Hurt or cause you to question yourself!
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of
sure does!
so true
Just wait until you find someone who won't take you for granted and appreciate you ♡
This song makes me cry everytime. It's hard trying to find that right one, only to end up getting hurt everytime 🥺
Everytime
😪
Me 2
I feel you ❤️
😢
I'm so tired of crying. God please help me let go of this man that don't want me. Im tired of trying to make it work by myself... 😭
I understand how you feel
💔😞🤔😥👎
Same here right here right now
Did you make it out momma?
Thought i was the only one 💔
This is the ultimate heartbreak song. Put this song on repeat, grab some dark liquor, cry, and then move on.
NIce version but Teddy swims is the definitive version. Makes this version sound thin amaemic almost. Listen then come back ... theres no comparison..
2nd day in 2020.. I’m here.. It hurts.. but I’m determined to let go of my situation and NEVER look back! I’m ready to love me like I loved him and never lose that feeling. God give me strength!
keep pushing... remember you always have the next day to start over again. Thats the beauty of going to sleep and waking up refreshed and ready for what the day brings. It will get better
I'm sorry to hear this. Seen ur previous comment!!! And I'm there with you also!!!! Been 4yrs to long!!!
STAY STRONG
I'm sorry that you are hurting, I've been there. When you truly learn to love yourself, you will value you and realize that your love is priceless. Wishing you the best God has to give you.
@@rozelliamatthews8598 You speak the Truth
When you want to cry a good cry from the pain inside... but you have to be strong for your child looking at you...
Yessss I'm there now only God knows.... 🙏
Oh.... Yes. You said it. I cant even cry.. My son all over me. He's 2😣😣😣😣
💯💯🥺🥺
This the one!! Lord I don’t know what to di
So true.
I gave up the fight today. I fell in love with a friend who either wouldn't or couldn't love me back. This man helped me get through such an extremely difficult time in my life and things just happened. I fell hard and unapologetically, but all he could say was how flattered he was. He has every right to not love me, but I have every right to be with someone who can and will love me. This is to all of the tender-hearted people who love exponentially and without regret: your love matters. It might not matter to the person who you want, but it matters. That longing and constant yearning - give that to someone who longs and yearns to be with you. Don't give your love to a person who will not love you back. Preserve your love for that right person - they will come.
I felt your words........
Giving up on love. My heart is broken beyond repair 😢😢💔💔. I feel that real love isn't for me.
Have you found the love you were seeking...because I'm starting and it's kicking my ass already.
@@khandilousw4291 It's going to be cheesy and cliche and we've heard it a million times, but the best relationship you can have is the one you have with yourself. My catharsis helped me heal childhood trauma and brokenheartedness. Then you meet people that are attracted to that energy, that wouldn't do anything to hurt you and help you continue to heal. You want to find someone that pours into you like you pour into them. It's definitely out there!! 💜💜💜
Thanks, For that. 10 yrs Wasted,Jerome
Most underrated singer. If you don’t feel nothing after hearing this something is wrong! This man is definitely talented and gifted.
He definitely has one of the best versions of this song. I love Tank!
Have you heard Bonnie Raitt?
He definitely brought great honor and beauty to Bonnie Raitt's song.
@@SakuraMoonflower She didn't write the song
If this song has ever brought tears to your eyes you know what it is to have truly loved and to have truly lost.
It has and deeply
KnotsofVessels oceanblue very true
KnotsofVessels oceanblue you are so right BUT GOD
One of the songs that's helping me get over all the pain, hurt, bull shit and more!! Trying to fight and hold on sometimes it's not even worth it anymore!! Heart Broken 💔 2022!!
Hang in there!
You are not Alone, Keep It Moving, Love will come
This right here!!! I felt ALL of this!!! This song helping me too, "I can't make you Love me, I can't make your heart feel something it won't!!!!" Whooowee them some Powerful words! But I realize it's their loss not mine.
Hope your heart has healed since your post...you deserve to be happy!
You not alone 💔
I came across this by accident. To me its such a great analogy to God singing to us. He gives us the free will to love Him. And He can't make us love Him but just like Tank was by that car and saw Keisha Pulliam-Knight coming towards him, God is waiting for our decision to turn back to him...and He is so ready to embrace us. Before I knew the agape love of Christ I didn't understand how to appropriately engage in the other types of love. And now with God I am functional as a wife, mother, and sister.
Love your analogy,it's so on point......
Amen! God's love is unconditional. He loves those who hate him just the same.
That's True
+289dancer This is beautiful.
+289dancer "He gives us free will to love him"....but if you don't you burn in a lake of fire for eternity. Doesn't really sound like much of a choice does it?
It's a hard but necessary lesson to learn that you can't make anyone love you no matter how hard you try. Love Tank's cover of this amazing song.
Who’s the original by?
A broken heart hurts beyond the soul. I pray all broken hearts get healed and meet their soulmate one day. Stay strong and overcome but please love again. Being in love is the greatest feeling ever, that’s why it hurt like it hurts when the love is broken.
❤❤
god says i will always love you no matter what..put your love and trust in christ ...flesh will always let you down but christ will never stop loving you...amen
Soooo True!
Amen
Amen 🙏🏽 so true
Amen
Truth
I remember when my boyfriend sang this to me...I miss him sooo much rest in heaven honeybun!!!
what happened, if you don't mind me asking
Latisha Lewis
He had stage 4 cancer went through chemo the cancer spread to his brain and it took him 4 months later😭
awwwweee I'm so sorry 🙏
Aaliyah Carter Thank you i appreciate it!!!
It's the worst feeling to love someone who doesn't love you back. What's even worse is that they know how u feel and use it against you. What's kills is the fact that you'll still do anything for them. 😞😞😞 Love is often so one-sided.
This shit hit different when you actually feel like this with someone and they don't feel the way you do 😔
You not alone
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@@jeffreywilson7225 nah I'm good on that if someone is not ment to be kept you let them go that person is not for you.
Speak that shit... I keep hearing this song in my head every time I get the urge to text. "I can't make you love me" 😥😥
Damn I felt this
This song is truly a heartbreaker, it brings back all the pain you could ever feel from a one sided relationship 😢😢
That's not a real relationship- that's unrequited love. And I'm still going through that shit right now. Hardest part is accepting that I'll never see her bright smile, look into her deep eyes, or hear her infectious giggle, ever again. God help me, I still love her, and I don't know what to do with myself.
And that the key its one sided & you (deserve) more ❤️
Miles Matheson that touch me 😢
SO MANY ARTISTS HAVE COVERED THIS SONG, INCLUDING PRINCE.
There comes a time when you have to stop crossing oceans for people who wouldn’t even jump puddles for you
yesssssss
Dammmm you Hit it right on the Head with that Quote...Thank you
Amen!!
I like that 1
Great quote
In tears knowing it’s OVER and this song brings so much PEACE 🤍 I am so glad I have this music 🎵 TANK is ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
Loving someone who doesn’t love you.. HURTS. True pain.
Who you telling
The worse pain ever ...
Facts. Me rn
37 years bro
For real
It hurts so bad when someone you put first always puts you last.
xp0sh......Sweetheart never make someone your priority when they're making you an option. Know your worth and claim it. When you know your worth and you stand on it, it's harder for others to mistake your value.....
xp0sh sp true
U so right I feel that way
xp0sh girlll I know the feeling
too deep lyrics
this song hits different when its actually you in this situation.... "i'll close my eyes and i wont see, the love you don't feel when you're holding me, morning will come and i'll do whats right, just give me till then to give up this fight...and i will giveeeee upppp this fightttt" man that shit hits the soul GOOD GAWD
Antwan Lee what a great message! Must be hard giving up this fight
@@mafalalucia1119 definitely is
@Antwan Lee WOW!, thanks for some of the lyrics, that’s deep...sometimes you like a song so much, you don’t really listen to the lyrics unless you’re going thru something specific...I just liked it because of the melody and the person’s voice (which I love by the original singer, Bonnie Raitt) but if you want to hear a really fantastic cover of this song, check out Rueben Studdard’s rendition of this song...it will make you say, Bonnie who?? 😊
@@sassydiva7821 wow really? never knew Reuben did it too.
Yes
Who is here in 2024? ❤❤
Here, and I won't stop
Loving this song.
Bonnie did it better.
And Hornsby.
Me
We here
I feel this. I am slowly getting out of a situationship and I feel so broken. I tried so hard to make him realized how special I was and to show him that I truly loved and cared for him. But I guess when it's the wrong person, there's NOTHING you can do.
Best wishes to u👏🙏🙏
when it's the right one, you won't have to show him how special you are - he'll just know.
If he doesn't realize on his own how special u are,he doesn't deserve u angel😘
If it's hard then it's not right.
I know what you mean, their loss
It's 2020 and I'm still here listening to this song. Who's with me?
Timeless 🤗
Going through it now... With my college sweetheart of 3 years
@Michael Chung wish you all the best with your situation...
Me.
Girl yes!!❤
t's 2021 and I'm still here listening to this song. Who's with me?
Yes throwbacks are the best 🙌 timeless!
I'm crying!!!! but I hope you're good and safe
👀
I'm here and crying as Im listening to it. It's a hard pill to swallow but you'll be better in the end.
2021 listening
Knowing your wife doesn't love you anymore, but you have two young daughters who adore you both, and leaving will just tear them apart emotionally. You hold on just because of them and hope things will turn around. You try hard, but you realise its not worth the fight. What do u do? Guess Time will reveal all. 😢
It hurts when u love someone who is damage so bad that they don't know how to love and trust the one person who would do anything for them....it hurts like hell no lie
Amen ....... You spoke a ton of wisdom, when you made this statement.
I understand you clearly
Because it takes time for them to heal...
😢
This is what Malcolm feels trying to love me and I keep pushing him away cause iam so scared of getting hurt my heart been through the ringer and he is trying to love me and I keep pushing I ask God to plz help me cause I didn't know what's real from fake and all Malcolm wanna do is love me.. God plz take the past away
Daaaaamn. Better than any cover that I have EVER heard. And I've heard plenty. Teddy Swims is excellent. This one is on another level. The "soul" level is a twelve on a scale from zero to ten.
I'd have to agree
My favorite!!!
Yesss get into it!
So much soul - love it!
This cover is great, but you need to listen to Prince version. Let me know what you think
sometimes you just need a good cry, and this song does it for me. some just dont love you as much as you love them. js
The way he starts the song just gets me instantly in tears 😢
Man these are some deep Comments, nothing like being hurt by someone you gave everything too and they treat you like your invisible....some sad shit.
This was my anthem...now it's a memory of someone I let go. I thought I was in love and it was pain and heartbreak. He made me realize all that suffering was to teach me what I didn't want. I was alone a long time after closed off my heart and decided I would ever love gain... then I met my J. He wouldn't let me stay that way. I'm in love and have been for 16 years and he loves me as much as I love him. Equal, trusting and magic...we celebrated our 15th anniversary in September. I am astounded to realize I do love him more and more each day.
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Happy for you 🥰
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Beautiful 💕💐👏💪 and Happy Anniversary 🌹😊
This is a bitter sweet song , sometimes love hurts and you must find the strength to walk away . Love hurts when it's not reciprocated , allow yourself to feel the pain and move on . We are all deserving of love that's felt by both parties don't ever sell yourself short .
it's tough but we can't give up. Get back up and keep fighting. We'll find someone who can love us the way we deserve to be loved one day
So true i cry day and night
It hurts like hell to love someone who dont love you only love what you do for them.
quaqua ellington AMEN SOMEBODY!!!
true..
Fuck yes its hard
😥
Audley Jackson we should just all try to do better
You can hear the surrender and the despair linger in his voice as if he’s succumbing to the loss. Such moving lyrics and a such powerful voice. Tank is most certainly underrated. One of my absolute favorites by Tank. Def vocally gifted 👏🏾💐
I think that's the only way through it. To succumb to the loss 💔
@@SharleyPaul❤
This song saved my life from depression. It helped me cope with all my empty emotions and accepted my reality for what it was. I was unstable as fuck but this song and that grenade song by Bruno Mars did something to me, helped me say ok this shit don’t feel good but I gotta move on. I hope y’all find peace and healing if you’re reading this. Life has sunny days just rmmber the rain is only for a moment
Crazy how loving someone can mean absolutely nothing in the end!😢
right
I know what you mean!!
yeah, i know how that is. But I actually don't think it is love i'll take that as infatuation
right
ouch
Worst feeling ever......when you love someone who doesn't love you back
You damn right... it harts like hell
Brenda Mumbi it hearts. really hurts. bad feeling :(
Brenda Mumbi so true
yes- it is the worst feeling...it. hurts so much it becomes paralyzing! I've had the misfortune of being on both ends....💔
i agree i have been in that position 😭😭😭😭
💘 this song makes me cry that people no longer value love marriage family its sad ...love is so beautiful
Tavia ohyea omg yes!!!!
I thought only me felt like that sometimes I think that love is just a fairytale is so hard to find someone to love you the way that you are willing to love them but as he say can't make the heart feel
Some still do ❤️
Tavia ohyea u gotta hear Curt green!!! ruclips.net/video/SPXCH2ewzNE/видео.html
So true
I love too hard and I'm tired of hurting. Realize maybe I should be by myself.
I agree because I'm the same way! It's sucks to be in love by yourself
Loving someone who doesn't love you back is the worst feeling ever. No matter what you do or sacrifice for them, they'll never see it and appreciate your effort.......they'll treat you like shit but you'll keep coming back thinking they'll love you back but you'll get hurt more. Why do we get to fall for people who don't treat us right? very sad
M James That is more true then you will ever know. My heart breaks when listening to this song.
Kayla Carey. And I too 😔 thanks
never make someone a priority when you are only an option to them..cause the people who loves the most are the most vulnerable persons to get hurt
diana bruce That's absolutely true, you've just described me.
M James it so true
Imagine a man that talks to God about you
exactly. wolves in sheep clothing..smh
OMG best feeling
FRICK N FRECK POWERFUL!! MANY BLESSINGS TO COME 🙏🙏🙏🙏 PRAISE HIM... GOT AN ANGEL 😇😇😇 UR TRULY BLESSED HONEY 😭😭👋👋🙏🙏
Eh that’s stupid
love that
The freaking emotions in this song. He sang this song with his soul. I love it
My mom was a singer and I've heard her sing songs barely anyone could sing through to the end without breaking down. This song was always the exception.
I listen to this song almost everyday. I was in a ten year relationship and married to her for the last four years. When women get tired, they actually get tired. I just never thought I would go thru so much hurt and didn't kno I would have so much love for a woman because I was HARD, but that changed when she told me she was seeing someone else. It broke my heart and it took over a year to heal. God does things for reasons. Although we hear this a lot and don't wanna accept the fact because of the love we have, but love hurts and it also makes u grow. She's moved on and so have I . She's with another guy and has a baby on the way and that's just fine with me. I'm saying to say this. Us men need to feel, listen and respect our women before it's too late cause a fed up woman is hard to sustain.. God has opened my eyes and the next lady I'm with will be treated like a queen, cause my last one was treated like trash. Thank God for growth...
Good to know. Seems like you have manned up.
Your right.. Finally you got there
Wow! Adrian Jackson, You said a mouthfull and it's good you recognize your mistakes through your pain. When you find her, she will feel more special than a queen!
Fasho
I agree you can't make someone love you if they just don't anymore.
Love is a 2 way street. Nothing hurts more than learning after the whole trip, you were on a ONE WAY street the entire time. But once you learn to give that Love to YOURSELF, you'll find that true LOVE!!! you draw to you what come from you!!
Angela Dingle true
Perfectly said.
Thank you. I received that.
I can relate
Angela Dingle This is what am gonna do.
If you've never found yourself relating to this song, count yourself lucky and appreciate your partner
Okayyyyy..love tragedies are for real.
💯💯
This song was humming in my heart one day and I never really knew the words or its meaning. I you tubed it and listen to it and I knew it was god speaking to me. Idk if anybody has ever failed at something but I did but I wanted my success so bad and god had my blessing waiting on me I just needed to go get it and on this particular day he confirmed through this song that my ship had finally come. Thanking KJon as well.
I can truly watch this video without feeling pain. I recently got married to a beautiful woman who found something in me to love. Not to long ago, I used this platform to express my hurt of a 12 year relationship break up. Writing about it and reading the feedback was helpful and therapeutic. Now, this is a beautiful song!
So glad to hear that you found love again as I just read your earlier comment and thread.. You sound like such a lovely guy, your new wife is a very lucky lady. Hope you have a lifetime of happiness together. xx
💔💖 time heals wounds. Glad you didn't give up on love
Look at God ♡♡♡♡
Congrats
Joseph Johnson sorry for that i hope you find someone to love you forever😜😀
This has to be the best song when you feel like you love someone wayyyyy harder than they love you. Speaks volumes and is so true.
that's right
I feel you...stay up
Sometimes the best thing you can do is find the strength to walk away. As bad as it hurts.
Real talk
Thank you
It is better to walk, than wasting your time being with someone who doesn't want you.
Damn this is so true
Amen
It's 2025 and I'm still here listening to this song. Who's with me?
Hang in there Everyone.... God will send you someone special just for you. Pray and keep him with you. Miracles do happen for reasons. Remember they were never really yours in the 1st place.
Love yourself! God Bless
You are so right... our plans are not God's!!
It's easy to say stuff like "lean on God", but when the same shit (unrequited love) has happened for the third time, it's kind of hard to put into practice.
I pray so....
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@@milesmatheson1142 I agree... and there are people who live their whole life and die single, without ever receiving the love they deserved
Meeting your soulmate and realizing they don't love you.Or aren't ready to love you.Or don't realize what true love is....is the worst pain I have ever felt.I never got an explanation.My heart was just....butchered.
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Claris-Ann Horn wasn’t him then babe. Just hold on... God is faithful 💓
Truth
Claris-Ann Horn awww huni x
Claris-Ann Horn I know exactly how that feels after 14yrs
I give up this fight...
I've reached the point in my life where I do not believe in love. Well I mean don't get me wrong I believe in love towards my children, family, friends but not in that love which we all dream about. Don't believe in the happily ever after, finding you're better half. Noooo that does not exist... society is so mess up now a days. People play with others feelings like nothing. Makes me so sad to see how can you let someone that loves you so much down. Cheating, lying is so normal now a days! :(
Feeling the same way. I wish it was like that.
Angélica Pinto González I so understand how you feel. I use to feel the same way. But I've resolved that just because it has not happened for me the way I would have liked it to, does not mean that it doesn't exist. What I do know is that it is a blessing to have when and if we find it. I've known of some couples that have been together 50+ years, so I know that true love and the longevity of it really does exist. Keep your head up. I pray God send you the love of your life and that he blesses the two of you with the happily ever after :)
ladynastailgic Yeah 50 years ago though. Not nowadays.
whocanitbeifitaintme
With God, all things are possible. And as for nowadays...........yes nowadays. My parents, my brothers and their wives, my sister and her husband and even my son and his wife, have all found longevity in their marriages. There is a common denominator for them all. and that is they chose there mates for other reasons than the ones I've listed below. I'm guilty of choosing the wrong person for the wrong reason, so I am in no-way trying to judge. Unfortunately, as men and women we have a tendency to reach for the shallow (looks, money, image, lust good sex and for some, the fear of being without a mate.) all those things are fleeting because whenever they are weigh against the strength it takes to be committed to a thing, none of those are able to stand the test of time. When we chose wrong we wont have the relationship long. We changed God didn't. Oftentimes our view and feelings about a thing is a result of what we have or have not experienced so it is easier to believe that it no longer exist because the only other option is harder to accept.
ladynastailgic IM LOVING YOUR PROFILE PIC. LONG LIVE BLACK LOVE
I’ve had two experiences in my younger life and they still touch my heart though I know I deserved better. Grow through it your heart will heal. Love yourself first!
He sang it with such a wonderful and emotional voice.
This is just one of those songs that makes you miss ...wish...hope...dream...sad
Donald Aubry its only sad because you can't make someone love you if they don't.
yeesssszzzzaaaaa
May the good Lord fill our hearts with so much love, so we may not be destroyed by others who fail to love us the right way. May He give us the strength and will to walk away when it does not feel right. And the courage to fall in love again.
Eloquently said. Thank you!!!
Amen 🙏
Isn't gay love a sin in Christianity?
Yes !!!
Going through this..Sacrificed alot for this man!Only for me to realise I was the fool!Picking up the broken pieces and fixing me!
Thank you God for healing me helping me understand that I am infinitely Loved by you 💜
Just realising after 18 years of relationship that I've been trying to make someone luv me then after been awoke realise that the person is soo damage themself they can never luv you the way we are meant to luv....... It hurts! 😭 But with God's strength, I'll be fine. 👌😊
Be strong. You gave it all! That energy will find its way back to you one day. Best from the Netherlands!
🙏💪
Trust me when I say it gets better and you'll find happiness again within yourself...
Wow i loved this
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This song makes me cry so hard loving this man for 6 years and he doesn't feel any way i do and it seems so hard to walk away cause he is all i want 😭😭😭
I completely understand no other comments. 💯💯💯💯
I feel the pain coz am going through that right now after 7 yrs
😢😢😢😢
I know the feeling 😢😢
Dishelia Howard I’m going through it right now . 8 damn years and he’s still all I want. Pray we all get through it
One of the most underrated singers. His version takes you back to the pain and hurt. You can tell he’s singing from experience. I love the original by Bonnie Raitt (still listen to her version too) but this...August 2018
Bonnie Raitts version is a cover. Country artist Mike Reid along with Alan Shamblin, wrote this song in 1991. And it was on Reid's debut album "Walk on Faith" the same year or 1992. Unfortunately, Raitt has taken credit for writing it. I've seen her in interviews and she was complimented on it and never said that she didn't. But, even as a Mike Reid fan, I think Tank really nailed it.
Duke Steele EXACTLY what I was thinking!! I'm feeling so much emotion of this young man (Tank)had OBVIOUSLY gone thru.....love,LOVE THIS!!😢😢😢
Prince has a good version of this as well, from his, Emancipation album.
Both are great songs for a sad soul and heart.
Bonnie didn't write it
You're a star, Still listening to you over 10years
life's to short.. to love someone that doesnt love you back..find your true love that loves you more than you could ever imagine.. love this song.. so so beautiful..
John Yule so true.
John Yule true
John Yule I wish it was that easy
2018 😥😔 hurts u care an love someone that don't care or love u back an now we're having a baby in July 😥😖👶
Finally closing the chapter ...It's been tough I'm letting go.
Congrats on taking the first step towards self reflection and purpose. May the tears of last chapter water the seeds of love, hope, determination, resilience, faith, peace, strength, etc for the next chapter!
siphokazi damana me too
Wish I can let go 😭😭😭💔I’m trying so hard but it really is not easy,there’s nothing left to fix I’ve tried everything dear God
You're brave
@@zikhonamtandana2780 kuzodlula I had to be strong for my kids...after 13years I had to let go...he didn't have feelings for me anymore...he was my first I had to let him go ...tough journey but it gets better everyday ...I'm stronger and I'm learning new things..back on dating it's nice..
I was a loyal wife and that chapter is closed I'm not regretting it if was part of my journey....nyamezela kuzolunga 😘
Dont patronize...
I have always enjoyed listening to this song. We can not make anyone love us. We must set them free and love ourselves. IMHO.
Good song.... But "if you don't"...
Don't get me pizza???
What is it?????
:))))
Alfredo Aceves Yes I really like this one..
No Pizza = no love....
LOL :-)))))
ISN'T THAT KESHA KNIGHT PULLIUM.. OR LIL RUDY????
I can't make you love me (Real songs
sibusiso thungo True.. We can not make anyone feel anything for us. We Must accept their feelings and move on with our lives. :-/
I've actively worked to decrease the flow of my sad tears. Especially when my babies are watching. My heartbreak has been so sad. Tank is Vocally Perfect. Captures the pain. And the Love.
I Love this song! Knowing what it feels like when you Love someone and they tell you that they are not "IN LOVE " with you just to be with someone else. Letting go is the best thing to do; especially when God has moved you because he saw and heard conversations and saw manipulations and lies and cheating that you didnt. Thank you God for moving me and healing me! Letting go and Letting God! Loving me again!
Thk you for that 🥺😔
It's such an intense feeling When you have found your soulmate and they dont love you back the same way. You just fall to pieces and yet all you want for that person to be happy regardless of who they choose to be with. Even When that person will never choose you.
flowingover ughhh u just put my feelings into perfect words...im hurting more when I stay smh
flowingover sometimes it's better off they go staying knowing an seeing they're so much happier outside than home hurt so much more but i trust God for everything and we reep what we sow an do to others
Dominique Hardwick i’m so sorry you feel like this.. love is everything but most importantly we must love ourselves first. There is nothing wrong with us, the person just didnt have that love in their heart for us.
flowingover...yeah you right. Love can be so unfair. 😢
It's so true going through it with my man it hurts so bad
This song is......words can't describe, but it seems I can't listen to it without breaking down. maybe I'm not strong enough at the moment, but I pray I will be. The heart is the most fragilest things, & to give it alone, is the most heartbreaking. But love is a carousel, that will always come around :)
Yodit Stiphanos it will get better beloved
Yodit Stiphanos yup going through it now
Why do we have to get so heart broken over people who Neva cared bout us in the first place cuz they lied threw out the whole relationship
DANG, IT'S 2022 AND THIS SONG STILL HITS LIKE THE 1ST TIME I HEARD IT. AT THE MOMENT, I'M LISTENING TO THIS OVER AND OVER AGAIN. I'M OVER HERE SUFFERING IN SILENCE BCUZ MY FAMILY AND FRIENDS DON'T BELIEVE I'M EVER GOING TO LEAVE. BUT, HONESTLY AND TRUTHFULLY, I'M ASKING YOU LORD GOD TO GIVE ME THE COURAGE TO FINALLY END THIS NIGHTMARE I'M IN. IT STARTED AS A FAIRYTALE AND IS ENDING A NIGHTMARE. I'VE SPENT A DECADE LOVING CATERING AND FOLLOWING THIS MANS LEAD, AND, IDK HOW TO WALK AWAY 'FOR GOOD.' LORD, I PRAY, PLEASE HELP ME. 🙏 GIVE ME THE 💪TO LEAVE THIS RELATIONSHIP. I KNOW I CANT DO THIS ON MY OWN, SO, I'M CALLING ON YOU. LORD, GIVE ME THE STRENGTH NOT JUST TO LEAVE BUT TO STAY AWAY. EVEN IF I HAVE TO GIVE HIM THE HOUSE AND THE CARS, I'M COOL WITH THAT. AS LONG AS I HAVE MY CHILD, I KNOW I'LL BE OKAY! AMEN
Jesus give her the strength, courage and wisdom to make the right decision.
You have got this. Take time to prepare your exit. Refrain from fights and explanations . Get busy to distract yourself. I have been there. Planning my exit since 2015. I’m leaving in two days. You can do it to. Meditate every day and remind yourself what’s your goal. God is with you
It takes courage and strength and something we are stronger than we know, I'm going through the same thing, I left but relaps a few times but no more will I do that, you can't make ppl love u if they don't no matter what u do. Wish u all the best queen 👸
It's hard to leave and I've been where you are at I promise. 9 years before I left. Planned to leave since 2015. I left June 29, 2021. Heal yourself first. Always have it in the back of your head no matter how good it may seem at the moment. Remember who they are. Play your role.
Lord Jesus hear her cry. 🙏🏾🙏🏾🥹 I praying for you strength to do what you may think is the unthinkable. I pray for strength and smooth transition. May Lord be bring a PEACE that surpasses ALL understanding. You can do it! LOVE YOURSELF MORE THAN ANY UNHEALTHY SITUATION! ❤️🙏🏾🙏🏾
I can't listen to this song without crying, anytime, any day. So sad you can be with someone years and they don't love you!
That pain can be unbearable, and nobody should have to feel it.
Valerie Lee pain demands to be felt.
Wicked Koala
I believe you must feel pain, but if you truly love someone, you won't ever think of hurting them.
That's prince song his sounds better
ITZ.yoboy Diamond. I did not know that.
Thanks for sharing
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that's nice but i don't listen to this song a lot
Funny thing I used to avoid listening to this song because it reminded me of the hurt I felt being the only one that wanted the relationship but now I like this song a lot because it means to me I’m healed. I now realize that the first one that I must love in any future relationship that I enter into is God then myself. I’ll never go wrong if I do that
Thank you, needed to hear this. 💙
This song makes a lot of sense in this day and age especially for me
this song already make me sad.. but these comments make me want to cry 😢
Listen to this back 2 back thinking how i pour my heart in tears out for that special person i though I had. She only for herself
Mickey Johnson right 😔
Me toooo!!!
Me too I just saw that one where the lady husband wrote to her
i don't understand why he's not the most famous r & b singer already!! his voice is AMAZING. who wouldn't love this guy? he's way too good to be underrated.
True True..So underrated
12,484,014 million people would disagree.
Coolie Gee
really? you think so? i think this song deserves 100+ million views. tank also sings a song called "underrated" himself. i must admit i found out about this amazingly hot and talented "tank" on youtube not so long ago, while i've been watching neyo, usher, drake, etc on mtv all the time since i dunno when. i like those guys too no offend, but tank just deserves so much more than this. his voice and his work are just too goddamn beautiful to be hidden from the whole world :)
Tiny Chihuahua yeah, i just found out about him a few minutes ago.
Completely underrated his vocals are amazing idk why he is not more mainstream
This is the best version I have heard...you really feel the words...the pain and emptiness of loving someone who dosent feel the same way...
Hi Pat,hope you’re okay ?
Pat this version is beautiful but give Ms Bonnie Raitt her 🌺🌺🌹🌹. She put her Soul into this Masterpiece
George Michael.
Prince's version.
Tank’s album version of this. The harmonies and lead vocals at that end take the 🏆 in my book.
Who is here in January 2025??
Hi, Abbey 😊...
You cannot ever make someone love you who don't know what love is in the first place...
We all know what real love is some just choose not love 💯
This is the most beautiful song ever. Before Tank, Bonnie Raitt was a genius. Like it's bigger than pain..this song cleanses the soul.
Bonnie didn't write this song - an NFL player wrote this song 30 years ago - Bonnie was the first to record it
hardest thing is loving someone unconditionally who dont love u...
So true
So true
Daneisha Shaw morning l I was going home now I have a couple of my friends coming in the day so I can go get some food and I’ll go get back some lunch I love you bye baby love mom I hope o well I have some time to call him I love him
Lol no it’s not. If it was truly unconditional then it wouldn’t hurt. It only hurts because your love is conditional.
There’s no such thing as loving someone unconditionally in a relationship. Stop watching Hollywood movies and come back to reality
Trying my hardest to fix my relationship being cheated on and not wanting to leave or want to lose the one you love the most hurts more then anything I've ever experienced... but how do you gain that trust again gain that confidence for your self back... I have nowhere to turn nobody that can talk me into a good head space fighting to keep my sobriety is hard as well I've spent half my life with her and I'm suppose to throw it away now after working so hard to fix all my flaws.. I'm so afraid to fall back into the pills but it seems to be the only thing to truly numb the pain