Here I am 27 years old going through my first heartbreak and I never would have imagined it would be this painful. I pray my daughter never feels this low over a guy 😢
@@alexisdarden9646 she’ll be fine as long as she has you. A father plays a huge role in a girls life and his emotional support is everything. You got this & I’m rooting for you 😘
Home blcalicak ohih and the renlaitionship boiary kaliha rone love you guys too much and kaliha are going through the kids and kaliha rone love you guys too baby girl friends kaliha boyfriend double ⏩ and a Danna ll search 🔎 live in show Katie kaliha your house 🏡 kaliha I know you
John and my parents and friends and family shop are coming in today and I don't think you have time i😅 I'm in y😮 yes 🖐️😉 you can get the renlaitionships hair and my phone 🤳 and my parents will be home blcalicak kaliha rone love you so so very much more 💗 you are my mom and my parents 😘 years 👄❤️ and I 😊
There are a lot of broken hearts here. It gets better! REAL love finds us when we least expect it...Love isn't something you find. Love is something that finds you. In the mean time; lets love ourselves and enjoy life!
+Dee Thomas I can imagine it being tough, especially factoring in children. Time heals all. Focus on and take care of those babies, I'm sure there is no one you love more than them. It will get better!
This song hits so hard! I’m a 36 year old Latino male that’s experiencing a tough break up and this song is purely amazing and hits home. Men do give it their all and get treated bad as well ladies.
Every word in this song I've experience I wasted 2o years of my life with a man who cheat,lie and was so disrespectful it's not even funny when I look in the mirror I feel like slap myself.
Listening to this on repeat. "I wish i could go back to the day before we met so i can skip my regret" that hits hard. They just dont make songs like this anymore.
Dear black queens 👑 am sorry for all the hurt and pain we put you through whether verbal are emotionally, we're definitely sorry ,my black queens you deserve to pampered everyday,you are the rock in this world, no other can compare to my beautiful black queens, you're one in a million,i am here telling you that we appreciate you 💕
Where I live it doesn't rain that much, but now we are entering winter and the song fits the atmosphere perfectly. I just wonder in which city the video clip was recorded so I can meet it in the future.
I love this song, I use to hear my mother playing it as a child. But now it definitely has a different meaning! Us Black Women deserve to be respected,appreciated and loved too.
@@b-mec-him796 Ironically my ex just knocked on my door begging me for help. He’s an unmedicated schizotypal. I told him he can’t talk to me unless he gets medicated. So he’s on the streets.
It hurts so bad, especially when you still have hope but they continuously break your heart. Who knew how hard it would be to just let it go, they will never change..
It a hard especially when you passed so many opportunities and then you trust fall in love get married and 10 plus. Years later this man start acting like a real @$**** just ain't gonna change they say jails institutions or death. Mrs Florida
***** We all want to be loved,But the 1s we love the most just don't love us like we deserve..I do hope your situation improves..If he will take the time to prove to you that it can work..Not the fly by night solution of flowers,watered down apology or the stories of the good times....You need present &future
It's now 2023, and this song is absolutely awesome. On point and timeless. It should be featured in a motion picture. I'm surprise it wasn't in one of Tyler Perry's movies. It's truly a beautiful song. She spoke for all women.
I was living this when this song came out. To listen to it today brings tears to my eyes. Sadness for the young woman I was then, and tears of joy for the woman I am now.
There's soooo much emotion in this song. Whew, that one line, "I wish I could go back to the day before we met and skip my regret." That's a powerful line I've lived through. Thank God this song was out when I needed it the most because in that dark space, I could not put words to the emotions, but this was it!!!! It got me through! God definitely blessed Heather with the power of healing in her voice. Not to mention, she's just a beautiful spirit all around.
Don't get me wrong, I admire Heather's immense vocal talent but it would be more accurate to say she's among the best of her time. Whitney, Mariah, Celine, Lara Fabian are her contemporaries (Lisa Fischer also released her debut album around that time too). I don't know about her beating them but I know she's among the best.
@@agr8tsmile Heather has been acting for Years on Broadway she's an actress and singer with tonys etc so I'm not surprised she's doing well we love her ❤.
Where did all of our singers go? Heather Headley without a doubt has one of the best and most unique voices out there. In the words of Jennifer Hudson, Heather "where you at?"
Ruth Jenkins Check out her FB page. Last I read, she had the lead role as Whitney's character from The Bodyguard, on Broadway (or something like that). She said it was a dream come true to get to sing these songs live.
Dear women in general, I'm so sorry for all the hurt men out there that have hurt you out of their pain, please try to forgive them and know that it's not the end of the world, though it feels like it at times, especially when you come in contact with them again. Just know that you're better than what they were going through and it's ok. I Love You, your Black brother.
@@nicoleburrows2657 I love you boo, I love all y’all, I just wish our people would come together and stop allowing our enemies to separate and divide us through sewing hate among us and causing us to hate our people and ourselves.
In Kenya 🇰🇪 they’ve coined a word for heartbreak 💔 we call it “Character Development “ because the person really is developing your character so you can heal from it and move on ❤️🩹 😩🥰
BEEN THERE AND FELT THIS BEFORE.. I HAD TO COME TO REALIZE THAT HE TREATED ME THAT WAY CUZ I ALLOWED IT. ONE DAY I STOPPED CALLING AND DID NOT ACCEPT HIS CALLS WHEN HE CALLED. TREATMENT HE DID TO ME TIME TO TIME . .. ALL THE MESAGES I LEFT AND HE DID NOTE RETURN MY CALLS .. ONLY WHEN HE WANTED A BOOTY CALL !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! THEN WHEN HE SUSPECTED THE TRUTH ... I TOLD HIM I WAS MOVING ON AND MET SOMEONE ELSE.. HE WAS SHOCKED.... AND HE FELT ALL THAT I FELT ..LOL.. I SAID I WISH YOU WELL... I MARRIED THE NEW GUY THAT I MET AND HAVE BEEN MARRIED 16 YEARS NOW... HE WAS THE BEST MAN AND REALLY LOVED ME...THREE KIDS LATER .. STILL IN LOVE....I WISH THAT I WAS'NT IN LOVE WITH HIM.... BUT GLAD THE RIGHT GUY CAME BY TO SHOW ME REAL LOVE... LADIES ITS EASY FOR A MAN WHEN HE DOES NOT CARE.. HE FEELS NOTHING ALTHOUGH HE KNOWS we AS A WOMEN deserve better FROM HIM.them).. there is true love out there ladies.. Show less
that's right. I don't like being single. but I would rather be happily single than very miserable, and feel like I am giving my all, while the guy is giving, nor putting an ounce of energy in the relationship itself.
I was mistreated, abused, and manipulated for 6 years. Got up enough courage to walk away but went back. Sometimes God will send you back to show your where you messed up. I’m finally free and will NEVER return back. You can do it!!!
Erica Sheppard ❤ So sorry what you endured but guess what? You're a survivor with a testimony! 🙌 God doesn't "send" us back per se, but allows us to make our own decisions. He desires for us to walk in His way in everything. However He will protect us when we make mistakes. He never wants us to be hurt.🕊 I pray all is well with you currently 🙏
You’re right Bc I went back and NOW I’m finally FREE bc NO One should feel any less than anyone else. I went back and my SAVIOR LIVES and I ran for my life and never went back 6mos ago
God Bless mines tried to come back after 5 years after I got tired of his 🐂💩. I couldn't SLAM the phone down fast enough. So don't think they may not try to come back when you least expect it. Then you will know u over it.
You don’t have to be feminine brothers to go through what she’s singing about. It shows that you have a heart of flesh when you feel pain and not a heart of stone! But, we as men also endure pain and suffering behind a meaningful relationship to us. I’m there now. See her at work every night and she treats me like I’m her event or I mistreated her. But it’s all good. I’ll rebound. Stay strong my brothers.
BEEN MARRIED 3 TIMES , LOVE DOESN'T HURT PEOPLE WHO HAVEN'T BEEN LOVED PROPERLY HURT, IN EXCHANGE THEY HURT PEOPLE. I'M GOOD BUT LEARNING FINALLY HOW TO BE LOVED
The part when she toss the umbrella is proof that this sister is over it. Shedding tears watching & listening to this song. If you never been in her shoes you would not have any idea what she singing about. Great song.
Percy Canty Sr. I was there a long time ago and I played this song while I was in that relationship. It expressed what was on my heart so well.. every time I hear it I get a chill. It helped me to get the courage to get out
Percy Canty Sr. I love love too but that situation luckily didnt shut me down. i was able to leave myself open to love again.. i still struggle but I am present in my situation and realize he is not what my past was.
But you knw what some of it falls on us to cause as I have learned a person only gonna do to you what you allow them to. And oddly enough towards the end I found a comfort in staying cuz it was familiar... But Im on to happier times... Even when we get in one anothers nerves i still feel secure and happy
Happy Birthday Heather Headley born October 5, 1974 R&B and soul singer, songwriter, record producer, and actress. She has won one Tony Award and one Grammy Award.
chocoholicSISTA263 Stop being dumb for once I know you are a fan but Libra starts on my birthday September 23rd ends on October 22nd you just can't change astrology don't work like that She's a Libra ♎♎♎♎♎
I think I have listened to this song over a dozen times. I remember this song back in the day when I lived in B-more & now history repeats itself. The word love is such a strong beautiful word and at the same time sometimes that word is used in the most negative of ways in order to get what that person wants selfishly. I still love the word love because it was not the word that caused the pain it was the actions behind it & that word was also used & taken for granted as well. Although MeMyself&I, I am still FAITHSTRONG & will remain that way....GODISHERE!!
Whitney Houston note @ 3:39.....Heather Headley has a magnificient voice. Her voice conveys all the frailties of a relationship, the anger, the getting over it. Very pretty voice and tone is so deep, soft, melodic. Perfect job by Heather. She is a beautiful woman.
+Tynia Williams I lost ten years to someone who changed my view of mankind....but ive found my heart again and so can you hun....once you live you can forgive and find love
***** thanks its still not easy hun,trust issues get in the way but my bf does his best to love me and help me forget what my ex did....God is good and he is looking out for you as well
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Happy 50th Birthday Heather Headley!(Born October 5, 1974)😃🥳🎂🎉🎊🎈🎁🍾🥂🤎🎀🌷🌹💐👍🏾👏🏾🙌🏾
Happy birthday
HAPPY BELATED BIRTHDAY, Mines was on the 7th
Happy birthday libra
This song been a classic in my book. Who else agrees???
I agree it’s still 🔥🔥🔥❤️
Me me me
i totally agree
Always 😊❤
Hahahaha.i Had this on vinyl back in my Bk days. I mma go look for it right now.😎
Released in 2002, and 20 years later, this song STILL knocks.🔥🔥
Yes it does
Thank you girl
All of her music is better than half what's being played now!
From my childhood. This song came out when I was in 4th grade
@@vincerumlin171 I so totally agree. Heather Headley is red hot with this song.
Heather Headley is without question on of the most purest voices of our generation!
Fully clothe and singing beautifully. Take us back to these times
True
Might I remind you that Lil Kim and Madonna were a thing back then? Enough said.
@@brandondenver4331 yes they were but they were a very small minority in comparison to the rest of the field.
💖
Yep
Here I am 27 years old going through my first heartbreak and I never would have imagined it would be this painful. I pray my daughter never feels this low over a guy 😢
Girl Same 😩 sending you a virtual hug ❤
@@brittanycrosby1551 thanks sis 🤗 I love you girl. We got this❣️
I'm 27 years old and hope my daughter doesn't go through this at all
@@alexisdarden9646 she’ll be fine as long as she has you. A father plays a huge role in a girls life and his emotional support is everything. You got this & I’m rooting for you 😘
Never! Love no one more then you Love GOD!!!❤️🙏🏼
thank God I don't cry when listening to this song anymore
lungelo ndebele I cant wait!!😂🤣
Am crying now too ring charmaine Medford
Same sis
Me too
omg facts
It’s 2024 and I’m still listening 🥰
Home blcalicak ohih and the renlaitionship boiary kaliha rone love you guys too much and kaliha are going through the kids and kaliha rone love you guys too baby girl friends kaliha boyfriend double ⏩ and a Danna ll search 🔎 live in show Katie kaliha your house 🏡 kaliha I know you
Home blcalicak kaliha rone love you so much more than me and kaliha years old 🗝️ keep you up to it is 😞 I 👄 to go to the hospital 🏥
John and my parents and friends and family shop are coming in today and I don't think you have time i😅 I'm in y😮 yes 🖐️😉 you can get the renlaitionships hair and my phone 🤳 and my parents will be home blcalicak kaliha rone love you so so very much more 💗 you are my mom and my parents 😘 years 👄❤️ and I 😊
Arizona State University prom date night 💤🌉 https openings in show Katie
Home blcalicak June 14 sackike thurh est and kaliha are going through the same time family photo shoot
There are a lot of broken hearts here. It gets better! REAL love finds us when we least expect it...Love isn't something you find. Love is something that finds you. In the mean time; lets love ourselves and enjoy life!
+Levon Black Very well said , Mr. Black. And very TRUE.
well said..
Im so glad you wrote this. I needed to see it.
I Hope it gets better so I can forget him for awhile ,but it's hard when he is the Father of your kids! 😥
+Dee Thomas I can imagine it being tough, especially factoring in children. Time heals all. Focus on and take care of those babies, I'm sure there is no one you love more than them. It will get better!
She was crying while still smiling. That's when you know it's over and she's over it.
exactly 😏
YESSSSS!
lmfao
Ebony Simmons that's true girl 😂
Ebony Simmons
This song hits so hard! I’m a 36 year old Latino male that’s experiencing a tough break up and this song is purely amazing and hits home. Men do give it their all and get treated bad as well ladies.
Stay strong! The one LADY is out there waiting on YOU!
@livingliferight87: THANK YOU BROTHER ( because we’re all brother) AS A BLACK MAN I FEEL YOUR SENTIMENTS & THIS SONG TOUCHES THAT EMOTION…!
You are absolutely right!!
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I agree!! I have seem men hurt as well when it comes to relationships with women
2024 song still is blazing
She is a under appreciated artist. A hit that was totally miss
I totally agree
She is really deep in gospel,so eventhough the labels missed watch how God turn it around for her
@@shamallen8241 yes
It's crazy how we hear all these songs for years but when you experience this shit....ooooooo it hit different 🤧
Ohhhh, the difference! 🙄 But it's the growth, wisdom & the journey back to yourself. Be well ladies. God bless! 😍
Every word in this song I've experience I wasted 2o years of my life with a man who cheat,lie and was so disrespectful it's not even funny when I look in the mirror I feel like slap myself.
I’m going through it RIGHT NOW!
Right
True💯
Listening to this on repeat. "I wish i could go back to the day before we met so i can skip my regret" that hits hard. They just dont make songs like this anymore.
Yesss❤
55 yrs old Queen and till this day I wish I wasn't in love with this man
2024 and this hit like the first time I heard it . Stop playing with peoples lives and feelings if u don’t want them
Dear black queens 👑 am sorry for all the hurt and pain we put you through whether verbal are emotionally, we're definitely sorry ,my black queens you deserve to pampered everyday,you are the rock in this world, no other can compare to my beautiful black queens, you're one in a million,i am here telling you that we appreciate you 💕
Ummm hmmm
Talk is cheap!! --just playing
Thank you for saying that.
GO, Heather!
@@cherissejones5477 😂
THANKS dear 🥺😘
Thank you so much. Black men also deserve the best from us. We need each other. ❤❤❤
At least someone does!
Only the broken hearted understand this song, feelings & lyrics. 💞
Yes indeed 😢
NAH!
I’m here on a raining night with a candle burning listening to old music thinking about the good old days 😊😌
Where I live it doesn't rain that much, but now we are entering winter and the song fits the atmosphere perfectly. I just wonder in which city the video clip was recorded so I can meet it in the future.
Thinking about the good old days and planning the good days to come.
Me too but this music will have u on an emotional roller coaster
L@@JMT1985MO
What a beautiful ambiance that must be ❤
Still listening in 2019. Who else says this is a jam?
Oh yes it is still a jam
Absolute jam
Such a jam
love this and still jammin to this
Me too
I remember crying to this song... I thought I die without you, look at me liviing and breathing without you.
That's right hun!!!
AMEN
Exactly😊😝
Lol
Yep......
“Now I’m drowning in disappointment and it’s hard for me to even look at you.”
2021 and I’m feeling this in my soul... 💔
my feelings .... so on point
THIS HITS DIFFERENT NOW
I love this song, I use to hear my mother playing it as a child. But now it definitely has a different meaning! Us Black Women deserve to be respected,appreciated and loved too.
Facts!
The reason good music don't ever get old cuz somebody's going to always experience it through generation and generation.
True
Amen 😊
One of the most underrated, unappreciated artist and song of all time. #SimplyBeautiful
yesssssssssssssss
She definitely deserves more recognition. Her voice is insane.
absolutely
Luv her voice is amazing
Jesse Hinton yesssss
“Why do you want to hurt me so bad?
I believed in you that’s why I’m so mad😑”
😭😭😭
My last relationship
U will be alright hun
Me too.. then did sumn I never do... redated him.. smh
@@b-mec-him796 Ironically my ex just knocked on my door begging me for help. He’s an unmedicated schizotypal. I told him he can’t talk to me unless he gets medicated. So he’s on the streets.
@@TheContentofCory way ppl snapping nowadays.. may wanna reconsider even if he is medicated.. the world is a strange place now
But you resemble Brandy are you sisters Frank from Uganda I love the music
She can act her behind off. She's killing it on "Sweet Magnolias".
Not her on steel magnolias
@@yolinedelpe1644it is her actually
Why I’m over here tryna figure out why she look so familiar
@@jeseka2470 thats Phylicia Rhashad's daughter
@@prettyinpinksmith161 Heather Headley plays Helen on Netfix's Sweet Magnolias
It hurts so bad, especially when you still have hope but they continuously break your heart. Who knew how hard it would be to just let it go, they will never change..
It a hard especially when you passed so many opportunities and then you trust fall in love get married and 10 plus. Years later this man start acting like a real @$**** just ain't gonna change they say jails institutions or death. Mrs Florida
Sorry to hear that,sometimes its better to just let go..The pain will be momentarily instead of a lifetime...
***** We all want to be loved,But the 1s we love the most just don't love us like we deserve..I do hope your situation improves..If he will take the time to prove to you that it can work..Not the fly by night solution of flowers,watered down apology or the stories of the good times....You need present &future
yo fine ah
Amen!
It's now 2023, and this song is absolutely awesome. On point and timeless. It should be featured in a motion picture. I'm surprise it wasn't in one of Tyler Perry's movies. It's truly a beautiful song. She spoke for all women.
Yes it should be in a major motion picture..men and women are going through this every day
I was living this when this song came out. To listen to it today brings tears to my eyes. Sadness for the young woman I was then, and tears of joy for the woman I am now.
There's soooo much emotion in this song.
Whew, that one line, "I wish I could go back to the day before we met and skip my regret." That's a powerful line I've lived through. Thank God this song was out when I needed it the most because in that dark space, I could not put words to the emotions, but this was it!!!! It got me through! God definitely blessed Heather with the power of healing in her voice.
Not to mention, she's just a beautiful spirit all around.
She is simply underrated. She beats everyone of her time. Simply amazing all the way around ❤❤❤❤❤
Don't get me wrong, I admire Heather's immense vocal talent but it would be more accurate to say she's among the best of her time.
Whitney, Mariah, Celine, Lara Fabian are her contemporaries (Lisa Fischer also released her debut album around that time too).
I don't know about her beating them but I know she's among the best.
She is the true definition of a soul singer she's acting on a Netflix series Sweet Magnolias and she's amazing I love it
Yes, she is killing it on Netflix
Really!!! Thanks for the info....Netflix here I come....lol lol...😂😂😂
Also on Chicago Med its so good to have and see her acting
@@agr8tsmile Heather has been acting for Years on Broadway she's an actress and singer with tonys etc so I'm not surprised she's doing well we love her ❤.
I actually bought her CD back then when this came out along with In My Mind. I wished they played this in Sweet Magnolias really fitting 😣
This song will never get old. It will always be in my heart.
Amen
❤😊
Songs mean so much more when you going through somethings. They just dont make them like they used to. 2021 and still so powerful
Nothing but the truth 12/2/21
Agree!!!!
Amen.
say that mama!!!!!!!
Hey
All women who’ve been hurt I am so sorry 🙏🏽 May your hearts be healed ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Thank you ❤
Thank you 😢
When the tears stop flowing you are healed..🌹
Facts 💯.
@Fkyo Flag lmao😂😭😂🙄
💯
Amen
Same with me
Do you know how pissed off somebody had to be to say “I wish I could go back to the day before we met and skip my regret”. 😂😂💀 I loveeeee this song. 😌
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I feel this song to the depths of my soul
Yes, I know! The sad part is even though I know - there are so many times I want to go to the day after I met her. She was incredibly special.
I am so glad you clarified that part. I was today years old when I fully heard the lyrics lol
@@TiffRTR girl I thought she said screamed my regrets .... I also thought she said I thought I fussed enough w you so you wouldny hurt me 😭😭😭😭
Where did all of our singers go? Heather Headley without a doubt has one of the best and most unique voices out there. In the words of Jennifer Hudson, Heather "where you at?"
She took time off to have her baby but is in the studio I hear.
She still does music but she does Gospel now
Ikr
Ruth Jenkins Check out her FB page. Last I read, she had the lead role as Whitney's character from The Bodyguard, on Broadway (or something like that). She said it was a dream come true to get to sing these songs live.
+MovieJunkie ForLife ū
15 years old and I'm listening to rnb.. I wish that my generation would listen to this type of music.
Keep listening
Shes a beauty nD QUEEN
Doesn't mean that you can't ❤
Dear women in general, I'm so sorry for all the hurt men out there that have hurt you out of their pain, please try to forgive them and know that it's not the end of the world, though it feels like it at times, especially when you come in contact with them again. Just know that you're better than what they were going through and it's ok. I Love You, your Black brother.
Awwww Joseph thank you for your kind words❤
@@nicoleburrows2657 You’re very welcome
@@nicoleburrows2657 I love you boo, I love all y’all, I just wish our people would come together and stop allowing our enemies to separate and divide us through sewing hate among us and causing us to hate our people and ourselves.
Powerful!
This is so sweet, God bless you king 🙏🏾
This woman truly knows how to deliver a story! So talented 👏!
She delivers with a perfect voice
One hit wonder
@@bredabreda884 she's had quite a few beautiful, frequently played songs
Almost two years later and here I am still healing. Who knew love could take such a toll 😩😂
A lot of us 🤧
It is so painful.
3 years for me...I'm still trying...
Love is the greatest emotion ever until its gone. Then it's becomes the worse. But loving means we a living @allie04Rose
In Kenya 🇰🇪 they’ve coined a word for heartbreak 💔 we call it “Character Development “ because the person really is developing your character so you can heal from it and move on ❤️🩹 😩🥰
Happy Birthday Heather Headley enjoy your day, what a Beautiful woman.
Where is music like this at man it doesn't exist nomore 😖
so true
I know right. I miss R&B and even good hip hop.
Caribbean Trinidad artists from baratara
“ I Wish I Wasn’t In Love With You , So You Couldn’t Hurt Me...”
Who’s here 2020 ❤️
2021
She deserves a award 🥇 for this song 🎵
This song still punches me in the gut every time I hear it.
And my Heart😢
Me too smh
you aren't alone i always say im not gonna cry and I tear up and I a damn man lol
Ditto
Same here
It hurts wen u love someone and their action speaks louder than the words that comes from their mouth
💯💯💯💕
this song is the truth😢putting hope and energy into the wrong one...been there...never again...I'd rather be happily single
BEEN THERE AND FELT THIS BEFORE.. I HAD TO COME TO REALIZE THAT HE TREATED ME THAT WAY CUZ I ALLOWED IT. ONE DAY I STOPPED CALLING AND DID NOT ACCEPT HIS CALLS WHEN HE CALLED. TREATMENT HE DID TO ME TIME TO TIME . .. ALL THE MESAGES I LEFT AND HE DID NOTE RETURN MY CALLS .. ONLY WHEN HE WANTED A BOOTY CALL !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! THEN WHEN HE SUSPECTED THE TRUTH ... I TOLD HIM I WAS MOVING ON AND MET SOMEONE ELSE.. HE WAS SHOCKED.... AND HE FELT ALL THAT I FELT ..LOL.. I SAID I WISH YOU WELL... I MARRIED THE NEW GUY THAT I MET AND HAVE BEEN MARRIED 16 YEARS NOW... HE WAS THE BEST MAN AND REALLY LOVED ME...THREE KIDS LATER .. STILL IN LOVE....I WISH THAT I WAS'NT IN LOVE WITH HIM.... BUT GLAD THE RIGHT GUY CAME BY TO SHOW ME REAL LOVE... LADIES ITS EASY FOR A MAN WHEN HE DOES NOT CARE.. HE FEELS NOTHING ALTHOUGH HE KNOWS we AS A WOMEN deserve better FROM HIM.them).. there is true love out there ladies..
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thats is so true you get tired or being sick and tired.
Silent prayer
that's right. I don't like being single. but I would rather be happily single than very miserable, and feel like I am giving my all, while the guy is giving, nor putting an ounce of energy in the relationship itself.
+Chelsea Bone I agree just do you and be happy.
She is so underrated to me ... she is one of the best
classics must be played everyday
If you can relate to this song I pray for your swift healing 🙏🏾❤
Please do
Thank you 🙏
Too late
Thank you... it hurts so badly.
Why thank u
I was mistreated, abused, and manipulated for 6 years. Got up enough courage to walk away but went back. Sometimes God will send you back to show your where you messed up. I’m finally free and will NEVER return back. You can do it!!!
Erica Sheppard ❤
So sorry what you endured but guess what? You're a survivor with a testimony! 🙌
God doesn't "send" us back per se, but allows us to make our own decisions. He desires for us to walk in His way in everything. However He will protect us when we make mistakes. He never wants us to be hurt.🕊
I pray all is well with you currently 🙏
You’re right Bc I went back and NOW I’m finally FREE bc NO One should feel any less than anyone else. I went back and my SAVIOR LIVES and I ran for my life and never went back 6mos ago
Good girl Erica!🙏
Thank God you found the strength. Many blessings to you ❤🙏😊
God Bless mines tried to come back after 5 years after I got tired of his 🐂💩. I couldn't SLAM the phone down fast enough. So don't think they may not try to come back when you least expect it. Then you will know u over it.
This song is timeless
Jimmy Jam and Terry Lewis Production
November 2024.
This song is timeless.❤🇰🇪
"wasting my time thinking bout you
and you ain't never gone change...."
I will bae
ok now
Ms L. Best line in the song
Ms L some people never change & when in those type of relationships the ball is in your court,you stop talking and walk away.. I love this song ✌
True
Goddess. So underappreciated in her day. Bring me back to the golden days of Jill Scott, India Arie, Musiq, Common, Maxwell, Corinne Bailey Rae, etc.
You can literally feel how this could be so painful for someone even if you not in the same situation
no one ever wants this kind of pain... for sure
very sad song
+ToneEsco
been there. it was wicked. it still drives me crazy every time i think about it. i wish i didn't still love him
apparently 638 people have no feelings
+Jay Jose ... that is the 660 people that hasn't been really in love yet.
You don’t have to be feminine brothers to go through what she’s singing about. It shows that you have a heart of flesh when you feel pain and not a heart of stone! But, we as men also endure pain and suffering behind a meaningful relationship to us. I’m there now. See her at work every night and she treats me like I’m her event or I mistreated her. But it’s all good. I’ll rebound. Stay strong my brothers.
This song is STILL all that!!!
I totally agree with you
The way she said : "The way you treat me"... I felt that pain. Love is a 2 way street, u open yourself up to getting hurt by loving someone.
That's too,too true but if you don't take the chance with (love) ❤ sometimes comes hurt, but true honest to (God) love (💖)never ever hurts.🌹🌹🌹✔
So true
Wow 🤩 I got goose bumps on that part the way you treated me like you’re enemy 😎
BEEN MARRIED 3 TIMES , LOVE DOESN'T HURT PEOPLE WHO HAVEN'T BEEN LOVED PROPERLY HURT, IN EXCHANGE THEY HURT PEOPLE. I'M GOOD BUT LEARNING FINALLY HOW TO BE LOVED
Love is never painful, people ignorance towards love is where the pain exist. Keep ya head up, love is around, be patient and let it discover you
Roderick Ridges great words...dont blame love* blame selfishness and disrespect, but never love*
Thanks
Roderick Ridges if it hurts that ain’t love 👌🏾
Collette Brown Zip Exactly
You are absolutely right, love is never suppose to hurt, just the ignorange of people, if it were meant to be it will...
When you love hard like this it’s dangerous. It can break you are make you.
This is a real love song. She did that well.
Yes hun I love it too wow i love it !!!!
Lovely T this isn't a love song .....beautiful but not a love song this is the smoothest regret song
I remember when I was at this point in my life. It was a terrible feeling. Now I'm with the man I love with a beautiful daughter and a son on the way.
Love is beautiful wen two people love each other the same❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️💕💕💕
amen
2024 still hits ❤
Dear black women I’m sorry ❤️🙏🏽 You deserve the world!
Thanks
Simpin ain’t easy
😢Thank You
Real talk...
😢💯💯thanks
please come back music like this i miss you
rihanna forever they don’t make “it” no more🙁.
The part when she toss the umbrella is proof that this sister is over it. Shedding tears watching & listening to this song. If you never been in her shoes you would not have any idea what she singing about. Great song.
Percy Canty Sr. I was there a long time ago and I played this song while I was in that relationship. It expressed what was on my heart so well.. every time I hear it I get a chill. It helped me to get the courage to get out
Ree Coles my heart stills hurt. To have loved and not be loved back. That hurts. I guess I'm just a sucker for love. "love don't love no one"
Percy Canty Sr. I love love too but that situation luckily didnt shut me down. i was able to leave myself open to love again.. i still struggle but I am present in my situation and realize he is not what my past was.
But you knw what some of it falls on us to cause as I have learned a person only gonna do to you what you allow them to. And oddly enough towards the end I found a comfort in staying cuz it was familiar... But Im on to happier times... Even when we get in one anothers nerves i still feel secure and happy
You're good. I was crushed. I applaud you for being able to live life and enjoy love again. "I wish I was......"
Love the Caribbean Heather Headley from Trinidad and Tobago
Heather Headley kills it in this song. She is untouchable
The price we pay for love is sometimes devastating,but it is what it is.!!! A gorgeous gem of a song about love and anguish.Classic.
true
Happy Birthday Heather Headley
born October 5, 1974
R&B and soul singer, songwriter, record producer, and actress. She has won one Tony Award and one Grammy Award.
Dorie Fann-Purry I'm month older than her Libra Squad♎
Libras rocks!!!! Oct 4 1985 here
chocoholicSISTA263 Heather Headley is a Libra
FullyCommitted Jones Happy Belated Birthday🎈🎁💕♥💚💟💗🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🎆🎇🍨🎂💃❤💙💜💞
chocoholicSISTA263 Stop being dumb for once I know you are a fan but Libra starts on my birthday September 23rd ends on October 22nd you just can't change astrology don't work like that She's a Libra ♎♎♎♎♎
2024 I still wish I wasn’t ❤
Who else listen to this 2019? I do 😊😍🤗🤗🤗
I do
daniel barrett me to I love Heather
She is one of the realest R&B vocalists...I still listen! Always will! This album brought me through a storm!
oh yes
Me!
I think we all been here and just wish we could have made BETTER choices💯✔😞
Rhonda Crews you never lied...😘
Rhonda Crews
man MN
I think I have listened to this song over a dozen times. I remember this song back in the day when I lived in B-more & now history repeats itself. The word love is such a strong beautiful word and at the same time sometimes that word is used in the most negative of ways in order to get what that person wants selfishly. I still love the word love because it was not the word that caused the pain it was the actions behind it & that word was also used & taken for granted as well. Although MeMyself&I, I am still FAITHSTRONG & will remain that way....GODISHERE!!
You are so right!
Amen
my testimony .. .
in those few words you have summed up the way I feel about the word "love". Amen hunni 😢👌🙌💯
I swear I know where you're coming from smh
It's hard to believe this lovely song ,is at least over 20 years running...it's a beautiful, powerful song still in 2023..the mighty Heather Headley
Okay...it's 2022....STILL BANGIN!!!!🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹
Listening to it right right now
❣❣❣
@@yardieinfrastructures8291 ddddddwe see a
😂✝️♓️♊️🈚️♒️💞💘💜✝️
What u said
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Its hard to believe that this song came out in 2002. Times really flies
And it is better than anything on radio now...that's sad.
There's not one song that can top this out right, it is indeed sad!
Wow! This is first time I've ever heard this song and it's 2017!
tasiawood still my jam 2018
ultimatecouponlady wow where you been, you have missed out on some stuff
Whitney Houston note @ 3:39.....Heather Headley has a magnificient voice. Her voice conveys all the frailties of a relationship, the anger, the getting over it. Very pretty voice and tone is so deep, soft, melodic. Perfect job by Heather. She is a beautiful woman.
I still Love this song. Heather is Amazing.
HAPPY 46TH BIRTHDAY HEATHER HEADLEY (OCTOBER 5, 2019)
45th!!! 😯
Oh wow my son was born October 2,2019 Happy belated birthday Heather❤
Oh ...
Was born on 5th of October too..
So she is a Libra. Just like me. Except I was born September 30, 1985.
@@shacora thanks
I remember I couldn't wait to hear this song on the radio back in day on the quiet storm. Ahh bring back so many memories!
Me too i was in. Michigan city,Ind. right by Chicago wgci quite storm at night omg
SweetPetiteBelle 😅😅 so true! I remember the days!
SweetPetiteBelle me too. :)
Smh. This song! Hits an emotional nerve.
2019 and still listening.
Haven't heard this in soooo many years but listening now in South Africa...man what happened to R&B like this 😢
Lawd this song gets me everytime..I want to cry for no reason. It touches my soul.
You can feel the emotion in this song. One of my favorites
I wish I could go back to the day before we met and skip my regret....
Lyrics sah!!! BOOM!
Tamala King I thought she said skip my weeks rent 😩
@@Sunshine134chick lol you have me cracking up here
Revisiting these old songs now that I’m 28 and they hit so different 😢
This is song literally the story of my life 💔
***** it's easier said than done but you're right! thank you!
+Tynia Williams I lost ten years to someone who changed my view of mankind....but ive found my heart again and so can you hun....once you live you can forgive and find love
douglatorare 3030 awww. thank you and i'm glad things are better for you!
***** thanks its still not easy hun,trust issues get in the way but my bf does his best to love me and help me forget what my ex did....God is good and he is looking out for you as well
glad you r ok??
WHERE IS HEATHER!!! I miss her music
she's doing the color purple broadway. she's on twitter and instagram.
Crystal Fleming gospel
She is! I had no idea. Thank you
Crystal Fleming I do too
Crystal Fleming
I agree, she has a great voice, it’s such a shame that nobody’s producing her anymore. That’s the problem with this music industry.
This song reaches right into your chest and touches your heart
She sang the hell out of this song. That high note towards the end set this song on 🔥
Who else still listening this in 2020 🔥😭😭❤️❤️🥰
Yep,classic
June 2020
This song describes my last relationship. Wasted 4 yrs. Thats y im single now.
Why do people still ask this obvious ass dumb question..if you ckicked it, you listened..geesh
i do everyday
I swear I felt like she wrote this song for me ❤ thank god for prayer 🙏
I feel the same way
Man! Still one of the best songs ever.
One of the greatest ballads of all time
She's doing such an amazing job on Sweet Magnolias I came to listen to her unique vocals again! 🇹🇹🇹🇹🇹🇹🇹🇹🇹🇹!
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