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  • Опубликовано: 26 сен 2024
  • Christina Abraham’s 21st birthday loomed with dread. The milestone meant she was aging out of the foster care system and needed to find her own place to live. Christina met with NBC News’ Antonia Hylton in the months surrounding that deadline, sharing her experience in a group home and the obstacles to securing housing in New York City.
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Комментарии • 767

  • @The_Quili
    @The_Quili Год назад +738

    I aged out of foster care. My parents simply didn't want me as an adolescent. I had no support system after and had dealt with homelessness on and off since. Kids need support and someone that cares!

    • @celenajones6352
      @celenajones6352 Год назад +27

      I'm so sorry that you had to go through that. Hopefully things have gotten better for you now.

    • @beyourself2444
      @beyourself2444 10 месяцев назад +10

      How can your parents simply not want you, were you misbehaving and they couldn't control you? Children have a right to support but children have a right to do the right thing, be trainable and obedient.

    • @phexi419
      @phexi419 8 месяцев назад

      @@beyourself2444What a sick and disgusting comment

    • @nunyadambusiness3530
      @nunyadambusiness3530 5 месяцев назад +41

      @@beyourself2444 Children do not have the conscious ability as an adult. If you can't handle an "out of control" kid, then you don't deserve kids.

    • @Victoria-nx6rr
      @Victoria-nx6rr 3 месяца назад +11

      We as a country have failed all foster children. Wow, you are dealing with issues that many adults are unable to navigate . Can't wait to see what you become a lawyer, à Doctor, even à advocate for future foster care kids, group homes, or any kid in need.
      You are the pioneering light! 😊😊😊😊😊

  • @bavery6957
    @bavery6957 Год назад +625

    This young woman is going to "make it", no matter what. Her strength runs deep...

    • @mariastevens6406
      @mariastevens6406 10 месяцев назад +16

      You'd be surprised. Sometimes things outside our control can do it

    • @hellobot67
      @hellobot67 4 месяца назад +25

      That doesn't always happen. You can be strong and still suffer

    • @Silentkittey
      @Silentkittey 2 месяца назад +13

      I think that’s the root of the problem. This being told to foster kids either by rewarding their suffering with strength or putting them down for not being strong enough.

    • @divinedianec3170
      @divinedianec3170 2 месяца назад +2

      I wish the interviewer would ask her, What does she want to become because if she went to school she could escape this group home and begin a whole new life for herself. God has a plan for everyone like me, you, and this young lady, and we all have a calling, and a purpose in this life to fulfill. This is not the end of the story for Christina.

    • @m.htruth8880
      @m.htruth8880 2 месяца назад

      Everybody is strong for a while, how abt we shut down these trafficking organizations instead of using toxic positivity?

  • @zuzao8273
    @zuzao8273 2 месяца назад +216

    After all of her cruel lonely life , she still has this good pure soul, couruge, kindness. I hope God will protect her

    • @ms.t3039
      @ms.t3039 2 месяца назад +5

      They go hungry on the weekend????? The stupid-advisor knows this; the kids have told this person they don’t eat when he is not there on the weekends. And that person does nothing???? That person goes home and has dinner knowing they left hungry kids behind????? I’m so mad right now

    • @KrystalMarie-c8c
      @KrystalMarie-c8c 2 месяца назад

      😂

    • @YosefA.Charis
      @YosefA.Charis 2 месяца назад

      Amen halleluYah God is good and He is merciful guiding leading amazing blessins amen you are blest amen and amen again halleluYah kamfo Yehowa Jesus Yesu Kristos ameno uminom wɔta o’ buhay ❤

  • @jennifertai805
    @jennifertai805 3 месяца назад +153

    I was a former foster youth. It's been a struggle always being in survival mode constantly struggling with basic needs with no safety net to fall back on.

    • @Inquisitor2024
      @Inquisitor2024 2 месяца назад +10

      It's hard for an adult, and I can understand from a youth's perspective as well. Hope you're ok❤

    • @samaraisnt
      @samaraisnt Месяц назад

      there needs to be a network this is such a pervasive problem..!

  • @KC-gu6bi
    @KC-gu6bi Год назад +306

    So, kids raised in foster care face the same situation going out into the world as someone who has been incarcerated. How messed up is that? God bless the people at Hearts to Homes for helping young people get the helpful launch into the world that every kid deserves.

    • @CherylRyanRoberts
      @CherylRyanRoberts 4 месяца назад +4

      Well that's an odd comparison.. I can see where you're coming from. Kid's forcefully or deceitfully removed from their homes over medicated told they have a new mom and dad foster mom foster dad and when they fight their ideology are further medicated. Because the kids must have a mental problem If they want their bio aka real parents.. I can accept your point of view probably in like 80 percent of Foster care kidnappings.

    • @susuilu
      @susuilu 2 месяца назад +5

      ​@@CherylRyanRoberts the system is really corrupt

    • @Catherinethoughts
      @Catherinethoughts 2 месяца назад

      @@KC-gu6bi good point

    • @m.htruth8880
      @m.htruth8880 2 месяца назад +6

      ​@@CherylRyanRoberts They are incarcerated. Being trafficked, labeled, drugged, abused, SA'ed, and etc while being locked up is incarceration. I don't know why ppl act like there's a difference in these systems, which are all connceted

    • @cammie8701
      @cammie8701 2 месяца назад +1

      no, they don't! folks in jail made bad decisions! foster. children are victims!

  • @QUEENZEE777
    @QUEENZEE777 2 месяца назад +157

    I hope she's still doing okay. She's a beautiful spirit.

  • @hat8870
    @hat8870 2 месяца назад +66

    NBC interviewing....and helping her financially???
    They should!!!!
    🙏

    • @ms.t3039
      @ms.t3039 2 месяца назад +11

      I was thinking the same thing. NBC couldn’t get the child a bed?????? If I was the reporter I would have done it off camera

    • @mrosjo
      @mrosjo 2 месяца назад +2

      Is that ethical from a journalistic standpoint?

    • @BayouBarbie504
      @BayouBarbie504 2 месяца назад +2

      @@mrosjoI was going to say this. Ethically, it compromises journalistic integrity unfortunately. There were some photographers who got into a lot of trouble for helping penguins at the NorthPole who were going to die. It’s like being a cop, I just don’t have the mental capacity to not help when I know I can.

  • @bluebonbon22
    @bluebonbon22 Год назад +62

    When I was told as a teen that once I was out out of the juvenile detention I would have to go to a group home to live, I ran away at 18. This was in the 1960's when the age of adulthood was 21. I left Minnesota and never looked back. It was difficult and many problems were still in my future. BUT I'm now 75, I've got adult children, adult grandchildren and I'm very happy to have 10 great-grandchildren. I was in foster care starting as an infant, adopted, then again in foster care, unadopted, and a runaway. But I am still alive!

  • @queenfba003
    @queenfba003 Год назад +95

    My foster mother prepared me for age out. Got an apartment at 16 years old. State assisted me until I became 21.

    • @chrissya8296
      @chrissya8296 Год назад +9

      That is so beautiful❤

    • @stanksinatras
      @stanksinatras 8 месяцев назад +3

      good deal for you, free money must be awesome

    • @kennyroberson6216
      @kennyroberson6216 5 месяцев назад +45

      ​@@stanksinatras That was a stupid comment

    • @SarahTerror.0
      @SarahTerror.0 5 месяцев назад +37

      ​@@stanksinatrasyes, good for her. That's where state money should be going, to help young people get their lives going. They are the future

    • @stanksinatras
      @stanksinatras 5 месяцев назад

      @@SarahTerror.0 and what about all the young people who got their lives going on their own, without free handouts? surely the deserve compensation as well, as they've proven they don't need to rely on someone else. why are deadbeats like this girl getting all the money when actual hardworking people get nothing? it just incentivizes uselessness.

  • @RD-ue9wb
    @RD-ue9wb Год назад +104

    She seems so collected. My guess is she "seems" that way, because that's the only way for her to get thru life. There has to be times of fear, whether or not things will be okay at some point, at any point. I wish I could hug her, and look her in the eye and let her know she does matter. There is something to be said for her strength. She is mature for her age. It's certain that's because she's had to be.

    • @aliveprosperous3411
      @aliveprosperous3411 5 месяцев назад

      RAD

    • @divinedianec3170
      @divinedianec3170 2 месяца назад +3

      Of course she is mature for her age because a lot of times when children go through trauma such as; being in the foster system they have to mature fast, protect& take care of themselves. Further, they didn't have a normal childhood from the start so sad.

  • @FeliciaFollum
    @FeliciaFollum Год назад +151

    As a foster parent this is so disheartening. We tried so hard with all of the kids.

    • @bloodlove93
      @bloodlove93 5 месяцев назад +15

      maybe you did, but it seems many dont,and honestly, depending what your best is,it might be one of the things that child hates most and makes them wish they were dead, so really your best can mean nothing,something, and everything, one for 3 different people yet all for the same reason.,maybe it's clothing, schooling, religion, politics, privacy etc etc, no matter how great you think it is,it's some bodies worst nightmare you provide,and most will never feel safe being honest about it,because one word from you destroys everything.

    • @AandM8
      @AandM8 2 месяца назад +13

      This isn’t about you. And even when foster kids have great foster parents, there is still trauma and hardships they are forced to endure simply because they are not in a stable home. They could get moved at any time to somewhere worse, they don’t “belong”, etc.

    • @NaturalBrownCupcake
      @NaturalBrownCupcake 2 месяца назад +32

      These comments under your thread seem so harsh and negative. I'm glad you tried your best to care for others.

    • @m.htruth8880
      @m.htruth8880 2 месяца назад +2

      The best would be stopping this trafficking organization in it's tracks

    • @priscillajimenez27
      @priscillajimenez27 2 месяца назад +1

      So did my grandmother when she was alive as well as the foster parents of my other grandmother

  • @Hey-Ro
    @Hey-Ro Год назад +183

    I understand her. I was in foster care from 6 - 18, 5 different homes/schools.
    One thing I know, having the right parents and listening to them changed the direction of my life. But, most importantly accepting the Lord Jesus Christ truly change my life forever.
    My quick story: I went from foster care to working on feature films. Endgame, Star wars, Sonic 2, etc

    • @chrissya8296
      @chrissya8296 Год назад +10

      That is so amazing. It’s always great seeing fellow foster kids have positive experiences ❤

    • @miamiflorida6965
      @miamiflorida6965 2 месяца назад +2

      Amen! 🙏🩷🙏

    • @CassandraMooree
      @CassandraMooree Месяц назад +1

      AMENNNNNNN

  • @feleciafoster4480
    @feleciafoster4480 2 месяца назад +32

    I’m so sorry this happened. One day I will financially support kids who age out

    • @krimsonedit3272
      @krimsonedit3272 2 месяца назад +1

      Me too

    • @seanservo3105
      @seanservo3105 2 месяца назад +1

      They don’t need financial support as adults. They need education and to start at the bottom of something and work their way up like everybody else.

    • @divinedianec3170
      @divinedianec3170 2 месяца назад +1

      @@seanservo3105 Agree! That's all of our reality but what foster children need is emotional support to beginning healing from their childhood trauma.

    • @ToLovelyJesus
      @ToLovelyJesus 2 месяца назад +3

      @@seanservo3105Your response doesn’t really make sense. They are already starting from the bottom. Giving them financial support would be the bare minimum for giving them a fair chance in life.

  • @lmoree00
    @lmoree00 Год назад +47

    I really feel like this beautiful intelligent young lady will be successful. She's strong, she doesn't give up, she has personality. She's gonna be fine, and I hope she'll be fine very soon!

    • @chrissya8296
      @chrissya8296 Год назад +7

      Will people like you believing in me how could I fail! Thank you so much for your kind words in my darkest days I think about all the words of light ❤

    • @lmoree00
      @lmoree00 Год назад +2

      @@chrissya8296 You are very welcome dear. Be careful out here and continue to be strong and reach your goals 💚💚💚

    • @girlcalledmango
      @girlcalledmango 2 месяца назад

      ​@chrissya8296 how are you doing?

    • @girlbreezy4388
      @girlbreezy4388 2 месяца назад

      @@chrissya8296How are you babygirl ? ❤

  • @therealbusinessblonde
    @therealbusinessblonde Год назад +117

    Beautiful spirit and smile ❤ I wish her all the best. Her story is so important and we need reform of the foster care system

    • @crouchingchickenhiddenegg
      @crouchingchickenhiddenegg Год назад +2

      It is not about reforming but foster care awareness. Getting more families to open their home to fostering children. Maybe the government could make it more appealing so as to encourage more families.

    • @jweeks9656
      @jweeks9656 Год назад

      No. Its background checks on the bum families!

  • @nataliagarcia5067
    @nataliagarcia5067 6 месяцев назад +33

    I’m so happy that she finally has a home to go to, she is blessed.

  • @marih3286
    @marih3286 Год назад +83

    It's sad that there isn't an agency that works one-on-one with these young adults. I was a foster child in the 1970's. I had an absent Social Worker. Finally as an adult she came through my check out line at the store I worked at drunk, so Security called her husband. He explained she was indeed an alcoholic. The system is BROKEN all the way around.

    • @drawingstyle6327
      @drawingstyle6327 Год назад +4

      Sorry to hear you had such a bad experience. Right now I am volunteering with Dallas CASA. CASA volunteers visit the children in foster care and act as their advocate in the courtroom. I have defiantly seen a lot of Social Worker get burnt out or move on to other things. And I feel the CASA program helps make things a little less broken.
      I would love any advise you have for me to make sure the child I am advocating for gets their voice heard. I know as an adult you can often look back at your childhood and see things you did not see as when you were younger. I would love to make sure all their needs are met both mental and physical.

    • @BettyWilchek
      @BettyWilchek Год назад +6

      I was in Foster care in the 1950's. The system was broken then and it remains Broken Today. As you said in the 1970's your Social Worker was absent, I'm not surprised, because they would make a brief appearance maybe once a year to speak with only 1 or both foster parents. They never made the time to speak with the foster child one-on-one even at an early age just to see if things were okay or if there were any problems at the foster home. So as you said it is sad, that there is NO Agency that works one-on-one with these Young Adults. You are 100% correct, the System is BROKEN.

    • @jweeks9656
      @jweeks9656 Год назад +3

      DO BACKGROUND CHECKS ON THE FAMILIES WHERE THE KIDS GO, AND CHECK ON CHILD AND FAMILY ON A REGULAR BASIS

    • @ItsDanny91
      @ItsDanny91 2 месяца назад +1

      Working in that field probably caused her to drink sadly

    • @camillecrichlow8138
      @camillecrichlow8138 Месяц назад

      There’s one in Newark NJ I forgot what it’s called but I’m not sure how effective it is

  • @fionassimbwa8805
    @fionassimbwa8805 Год назад +48

    Please keep updating us about her..are praying for her

  • @irenesorina3934
    @irenesorina3934 Год назад +46

    This foster kids should not be treated like criminals. Alarmed should only place at the door and only on after curfew hours.

  • @deec3561
    @deec3561 5 месяцев назад +16

    She is going to do great things. I can feel it. God bless this baby girl

  • @gabrielasanchez9389
    @gabrielasanchez9389 2 месяца назад +20

    She's strong and grounded. She will make it ❤

  • @thackett7165
    @thackett7165 Год назад +39

    Christina is absolutely beautiful inside and out. She has something great to offer this world. She is a diamond. She is just getting started. Sidenote: shame on the US government for failing our youth in every way imaginable (education/foster care/healthcare). Meanwhile, billions in tax money sent to Ukraine.

  • @Mr-id4os
    @Mr-id4os Год назад +85

    I have no siblings or children, 'unqualified' to adopt yet I fostered teen moms with babies for many years. Now, as a retired senior, I wish I could still adopt a young adult who wants and needs parental support. I've had girls like Christina - and worse. But, this definitely DOES NOT have to happen to kids who spend the majority of their lives as a ward of the court. The whole system makes me sad and angry at the same time.

    • @chrissya8296
      @chrissya8296 Год назад +6

      The want to help is half the battle! I’m sure you’ll be able to support in a way that will leave you feeling fulfilled!❤

    • @ddigiorgio8438
      @ddigiorgio8438 5 месяцев назад +3

      Why are you "unqualified to adopt"? Perhaps you can be foster parent or mentor to an older teen or a young parent.

    • @lunab.1136
      @lunab.1136 2 месяца назад

      You are so wonderful and I’m grateful that you’ve had the opportunity to impact so many lives I hope God continues to bless you and I hope you have an amazing summer thank you for my former foster youth that knows how much people like you are needed

    • @Mr-id4os
      @Mr-id4os 2 месяца назад +2

      @@ddigiorgio8438 The reasons I couldn't adopt. #1 if a couples age total more than 80; I was 36 and he was 50 #2 Who's going to take care of the child if something happens to me...#3 I needed to be married more than 3 years.

  • @TheNameIsJazmyn
    @TheNameIsJazmyn 2 месяца назад +98

    The fact that they run out of food in a government agency lets me know that those workers are stealing the food for themselves.

    • @Inquisitor2024
      @Inquisitor2024 2 месяца назад +22

      I worked at a homeless shelter and some of the workers definitely took donated foods before the homeless got it. They got first dibs,even though it wasn't meant for them

    • @TheNameIsJazmyn
      @TheNameIsJazmyn 2 месяца назад +12

      @@Inquisitor2024 I know, I used to live in a homeless shelter. A few of them. They always took our donations. We had food and never ran out, but they did take first dibs on donated clothes and toiletries. Thankfully, God blessed me with a home to leave that life.

    • @Inquisitor2024
      @Inquisitor2024 2 месяца назад +1

      @@TheNameIsJazmyn awesome to hear ♥

    • @m.htruth8880
      @m.htruth8880 2 месяца назад +1

      ​@@Inquisitor2024 And then the job description says "free breakfast, lunch, and dinner".

  • @happygrandma4ruthP
    @happygrandma4ruthP Год назад +175

    I worked in a group home and was let go because I reported the mistreatment of the children.

    • @chrissya8296
      @chrissya8296 Год назад +48

      That’s so unfortunate. Thank you for trying to do the right thing.

    • @AshleyLegare
      @AshleyLegare Год назад +25

      You did the right thing..God bless you Angel❤

    • @jamila442
      @jamila442 2 месяца назад +14

      I hate when people did the right thing and get in trouble.

    • @SheilaLJones
      @SheilaLJones 2 месяца назад +5

      You are a gem 💎 for doing that

    • @m.htruth8880
      @m.htruth8880 2 месяца назад

      ​​@@jamila442Cash for kids system staff commonly leave with PTSD themselves from being "forced" to help staff abuse m0lest kids.

  • @BorahaeBitch7
    @BorahaeBitch7 Год назад +425

    During college, I worked at a transitional group home for older kids getting ready to age out. We guided them on things like applying for a license, for college, for a job, writing a resume, how to cook, how to budget, how to pay bills, etc. Just so thankful that we had the staff and resources to really see things through. The best part was running into some of them after they left the home and getting a hug and a thank you and hearing about all the good things going on in their lives. Some would have others believe that resources are scarce but it's truly not. If we could just prioritize the well-being of people first, above all else, no one would have to go without the basics...food, clothing, and shelter...and maybe even one person that cares.

    • @chrissya8296
      @chrissya8296 Год назад +28

      You’re so amazing! Thank you for helping people like me!

    • @vbrown6445
      @vbrown6445 Год назад +17

      @@chrissya8296 Your story really touched me. Thank you for being so open to sharing. I'm wishing all the best for you- that you accomplish all your goals and continue to build your own chosen family made up of friends and people who love you because you are so wonderful.

    • @kigo641
      @kigo641 Год назад +6

      Chrissy…you are beautiful and strong. I pray you’re doing well. Has anyone come forward to support you through this experience?

    • @economicdevelopmentplannin8715
      @economicdevelopmentplannin8715 Год назад

      We're helping kids to get jobs and buy a house in cash with a spouse by 22. Especially excited whenever we get to help kids in foster care

    • @economicdevelopmentplannin8715
      @economicdevelopmentplannin8715 Год назад

      @@chrissya8296 a bedroom bathroom suite in DC area on bus stops is under 150k renovated. Working 2 full-time minimum wage jobs will allow you to payoff this mortgage in under 3 years. Then dump the rest of your income into dividend paying stocks like Verizon. Pretty soon, your dividend income will exceed the cost of your groceries and property taxes and utilities yearly.
      If you want help getting a couple jobs in DC area, please let me know

  • @whimscal1
    @whimscal1 2 месяца назад +4

    I pray this young lady makes it. Life has been cruel to her but I see a spark of resilience in her. She is going to be successful. That is truly my prayer for her! Hang in there girl!

  • @RitaBaker56
    @RitaBaker56 Год назад +11

    Christina Abraham's story is powerful and needs to go viral. What an amazing, intelligent, and resilient young woman she is. So happy she stayed the course and is now on her way to fulfilling her God-given destiny! You go girl, you got this!

  • @thegreatestlovethegreatest273
    @thegreatestlovethegreatest273 Год назад +19

    Keep doing stories like this!!! Please. This is what we want to see. Stories about real Americans living real lives. Thank you NBC!🎉

  • @daneblack2593
    @daneblack2593 4 месяца назад +11

    She seems like a really good person I hope everything worked out for her seems like she just wants a chance

  • @Silentkittey
    @Silentkittey 2 месяца назад +6

    So much could be said but this video sums up so much. My husband was in foster care most of his life. Everything she expressed emotionally is exactly what he’s still struggling with today. These types of subjects I hope become more popular. It’s so important. It’s been years since I’ve seen actual quality reporting/news.

  • @kristannestone1748
    @kristannestone1748 Год назад +31

    I have ended up with no bio family. Sometimes it is better, actually. We can find our REAL family. Our soul family. Financially it's so scary nowadays, especially as a woman, but truly WE CAN do it, and you will be so proud of yourself. Much, much love and sympathy going out to you, beautiful person...

  • @milayd3291
    @milayd3291 Год назад +13

    I can feel her strength. God bless her and keep her.

    • @chrissya8296
      @chrissya8296 Год назад +3

      Thank you so much ❤ you’re the best

  • @lindajanes5698
    @lindajanes5698 3 месяца назад +5

    These kids need a loving environment. Something they've never had. God bless them and guide them!!!❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @nova9galacticme421
    @nova9galacticme421 3 месяца назад +109

    I was abused in foster care and am still seeking healing. So sorry for anyone who had to be a foster child.

    • @iamhimmiii_nutron
      @iamhimmiii_nutron 2 месяца назад +2

      Prayers for those in need

    • @mel...s
      @mel...s Месяц назад +2

      I'm grateful I didn't enter foster care until age 16. I was able to defend myself and defended younger kids too which got me sent to a group home but that abusive foster parent lost her '"license " unfortunately the little girl she was abusing probably ended up somewhere just as bad.
      Foster care in ga paid for me to attend college until age 26. That included rent, monthly stipends, and even a monthly kroger gift card.

    • @nova9galacticme421
      @nova9galacticme421 Месяц назад

      @@mel...s at least you got that sister. Nonetheless happy you are doing better💕

  • @Verde212
    @Verde212 Год назад +21

    This Beautiful Young Woman will Do very, very well in her future. Her Essence/Spirit is so Positively Unique and Strong. I will keep her in my thoughts and pray she has a lifetime of Divine Protection. I absolutely love her positive attitude in spite of hardship. I see her as a role model as well and sent this story yo my 14 year old granddaughter to watch.

  • @doreenhall1705
    @doreenhall1705 2 месяца назад +3

    Christina seems awesome. I wish her all the best

  • @AnnmMarie
    @AnnmMarie Год назад +18

    This is exactly why I quit child welfare. I was tired of telling young adults that they were about to be homeless and the agency I worked for didn’t care! Smh it’s heartbreaking

    • @BettyWilchek
      @BettyWilchek Год назад

      Thank you so much for Sharing. I applaud your Caring Nature and Honesty in that the system remains Broken 💔& Heartless. Your one in a Billion.❤

  • @bennettcawley4630
    @bennettcawley4630 Год назад +15

    Virtual housewarming warms my heart.

  • @user-mq9ov5xk7q
    @user-mq9ov5xk7q 2 месяца назад +6

    This hit way too close to home. Omg I want to hug her. I’m sorry you are going through this. People don’t know what foster care kids go through. 😢 I hope everything goes better for her. I hope someone sees this and helps her.

  • @DarleneBattle-n8w
    @DarleneBattle-n8w 2 месяца назад +6

    I'm happy for Christina God bless her.... the charity Hearts to Homes I wanna donate to them immediately.

  • @jrbland18
    @jrbland18 Год назад +19

    For the girl who has been in the Foster care and living in the central, keep your head up.
    I hope you are able to find a place to live.
    Sending you prayers.

    • @chrissya8296
      @chrissya8296 Год назад +4

      Thank you so much ❤ I got my apartment!

    • @vsmith113
      @vsmith113 Год назад

      ⁠@@chrissya8296How are you? I’m so proud of you. You are beautiful.

  • @crystalmasters8582
    @crystalmasters8582 Год назад +30

    I know it’s scary but you can do this!! On my own since 16.
    Get out of the city to more affordable housing areas.
    Much Love ❤️ Enjoy the ride

  • @ToriGee88
    @ToriGee88 5 месяцев назад +8

    The city's foster agency should be sued they should have submitted Christina's housing paperwork in time, their negligence has led to this and has impacted on her life negatively.

  • @LarryR441
    @LarryR441 Год назад +12

    Kids of abuse really have no options. They get abused, removed from the abuse, placed into foster care just to age into homelessness and being alone. With as high as rents are now and having to make 3 times the income of place just to get approved, getting a place is almost impossible. I make well above min wage, have a degree and I still struggle finding a place. I cant imagine it for an 18 year old or 21 year old with no education or credentials.

  • @hershebeauty622
    @hershebeauty622 5 месяцев назад +10

    They should be doing better to help them finding affordable apartments and they SHOULD be top priorities! PERIOD! I'm blessed my experience wasn't this trying but it gets under my skin to see these children go through this.

  • @yvonneplant9434
    @yvonneplant9434 Год назад +30

    There are thousands of kids just like her.

  • @umyea21584
    @umyea21584 2 месяца назад +5

    May God bless Christina with all the love, prosperity and joy on this Earth. She shines bright in a dark place and deserves all good things! ❤️

  • @anitachin596
    @anitachin596 2 месяца назад +3

    In the U.K. the system is supposed to give you support until you are 25. It is known as leaving care and you should get assistance with housing, budgeting etc.

  • @sabrina.natalie
    @sabrina.natalie 5 месяцев назад +13

    Christina, if you happen to read this, please know that I am so proud of you babe! You did it. I can’t even fathom the amount of trauma, adversity, and pain you have endured throughout your life, but you’re here - you’re alive - with a wonderful head on your shoulders. I can’t wait to see what the future has in store for you. I know you’re going to accomplish amazing things, beautiful! ✨

  • @thegreatestlovethegreatest273
    @thegreatestlovethegreatest273 Год назад +9

    I’m halfway through the video and I love this young lady. I know all about the foster care system from deep, long, personal experience. You will make it young lady. I wish you could come live with me 😢. She is strong and will be successful in life and happy, Amen.

  • @Always.Flourishing.
    @Always.Flourishing. Месяц назад +1

    I ABSOLUTELY LOVED THE WAY YOU COVERED THIS STORY!!
    VERY INFORMATIVE OF SOME' OF THE 'TRUTHS'. OF FOSTER CARE AND THE YOUNG PEOPLE LIVING THROUGH IT.
    THANK YOU.
    MAY THIS YOUNG WOMAN BE BLESSED ABUNDANDLY THROUGHOUT HER LIFE.🙏🌺🙋🏻‍♀️

  • @gwendolynmack1668
    @gwendolynmack1668 Год назад +28

    I can identify it was worse here in Florida, we had to be out at 18, not knowing where you was suppose to go or who could help. Lost soul.

    • @sherrylovegood
      @sherrylovegood Год назад +5

      That would be the same in my country. The thought terrifies me for young people.

    • @sheaholland9704
      @sheaholland9704 Год назад +3

      I’m gonna foster tons of kids in Florida🫶🏽

  • @wgranny
    @wgranny Месяц назад +2

    Such an articulate young lady, best wishes for the future. Write a book, ma'am! I think you could!

  • @pamelamays4186
    @pamelamays4186 Год назад +6

    Working as a guard at my local foster care office I saw a foster parent just drop their foster care child off, with all that child's belongings. That parent was like, "I can't do this." That poor child was no more than ten years old

    • @angeledwards1626
      @angeledwards1626 Год назад +2

      Ten year olds can be monsters and murders too. there kids who are so hurt that they will hurt everyone else around them, should a foster parent be abused now? I have been working with the hardest kids for over 22 years. I was also in foster care in some crazy group homes. KIDS can HURT YOU TOO! There is no ONE ANSWER other than to tell people that EVERYTHING THAT HAPPENS TO YOU IS KARMA and KARMA can transfer over from your past lives. Deal with your karma and learn your lessons then help others with that knowledge to turn it into wisdom and ONLY then will your KARMA change. sometimes people didi people so dirty in a past life that they are born into suffering in THIS one. Thats whats SUP{POSED to happen so feeling sorry for yourself is pointless. others having sympathy or empathy for you is THEIR KARMA. Honestly, how do people NOT know this and STILL expect the EXTERNAL world to give you what you need. YOUR KARMA determines that so look within!

  • @Wyzdom1974
    @Wyzdom1974 2 месяца назад +1

    Prayers up for Grandma, you'll get them back, and for those girls remaining safe. 🙏🏽

  • @fmstori
    @fmstori 7 месяцев назад +10

    Sadly so true I was in care for 17 years and can recall maybe having 4 good homes and a respite care provider. Sadly most do it just to add to house funds but I thank God for the few I had that really cared now I'm an author, podcaster, college advisor and rising business owner God can and does heal all wounds

    • @maryam7402
      @maryam7402 2 месяца назад

      I’m So happy for you:) wish this would be all of foster children stories

  • @krisrodrigues1
    @krisrodrigues1 Год назад +6

    Good job Christina! Apartment is adorable. You seem so well adjusted for what you have been through. Great attitude you are going to make it!

    • @chrissya8296
      @chrissya8296 Год назад +1

      Thank you so muchhh! I try🥹

  • @manarcabrera2528
    @manarcabrera2528 2 месяца назад +2

    I hope she’s living a good and happy life.

  • @patiencet3103
    @patiencet3103 4 месяца назад +2

    Proud of this young lady and her accomplishments and being able to keep a tenacious attitude towards life. Many blessings to her and her future.

  • @lisawynne-magnuson9469
    @lisawynne-magnuson9469 10 месяцев назад +3

    No one would know if I didn't tell them but I too have experienced foster homes. I recently celebrated my 49th birthday and more and more, I feel compelled to work with folks like Christina. She is me and I am her. My biological mother was a severe alcoholic and due to that along with issues with my biological father, I became a ward of the state. I was emancipated at 18 years old but thank God I started collage right away. Long story short, I was able to graduate from college and make good for myself. I am married with no children however, my dream is to one day be called mom. I know it will happen. Another dream I have is to establish a nonprofit program whereby individuals who have been through the system and have made it; could share their stories to shame the devel and most importantly encourage and motivate those who may be in the system. No matter what, this desire to serve in some capacity for young folks like Christina has consumed me and I know that it is not too late. Her story touched me and I saw a fire in her eyes. She will become very successful and one day look back and tell her story to inspire other young people.

  • @nyieshahopkins6700
    @nyieshahopkins6700 Год назад +14

    Your an exceptional and very articulate young women. You have great energy and that great energy will follow you. Keep pushing for your beginning never has to be your end. I hope you make a family one day and pour into them all that was not poured into you. 🎉

  • @tomorasmall296
    @tomorasmall296 2 месяца назад +2

    Blessings for Christina

  • @naturelove831
    @naturelove831 2 месяца назад +2

    So glad she got out of there. It's amazing to see her thriving after all she has been through. I know she will have struggles but she also has drive and I hope she continues to push forward.

  • @catherinewilson1079
    @catherinewilson1079 Год назад +9

    I love you Christina! I am so sorry you have been treated this way. In Canada the cut off age for foster children is 18!! Disgusting! I pray that you are able to overcome your problems🙏🏾

  • @nicolegordon129
    @nicolegordon129 Год назад +6

    This is so crazy. I’m glad that she finally got what she needed.

  • @bennettcawley4630
    @bennettcawley4630 Год назад +4

    Stay safe, my lady. Your strength is our strength. Live long and prosper.

  • @rosealeebrown6830
    @rosealeebrown6830 2 месяца назад +1

    I'm very happy for this young lady!!! May your life shine and be a living testimony!!🎉🎉 You go, girl!!❤❤

  • @LtheGoddess7
    @LtheGoddess7 Год назад +6

    Such a beautiful piece. Thank you for doing right by her story.

  • @medusagorgon8432
    @medusagorgon8432 2 месяца назад +1

    She is amazing, and clearly emotionally and mentally intelligent. I wish her the very best in life.

  • @JaneDoe-ql7sc
    @JaneDoe-ql7sc 10 месяцев назад +6

    Christina is such an intelligent & beautiful young woman! I encourage her to enroll in junior college, toward transferring to a university after completing the basic college courses. There are grants she can apply for at the schools' financial aid department, & she can also apply for student loans. Moreover, there are scholarships available that she can learn more about on-line, even a "first in the family to go to college" scholarship - the financial aid department can help her receive info about scholarships as well. Blessing to her. Hope you'll do a follow-up on her, because she does matter, & that was the one thing that broke this viewer's heart, how she had to grow up in foster homes where she was made to feel like she didn't matter

    • @Goals9
      @Goals9 8 месяцев назад

      I agree but the government is supposed to give her money to pay for school since she was in foster care did anyone explain this to her???

  • @--ag
    @--ag 2 месяца назад +2

    I’m glad we’re hearing her story. Keep in touch with her please. 🙏

  • @realitycheck6
    @realitycheck6 Год назад +6

    So sad, yet she is amazing to me! Such perseverance! And that beautiful smile and strong spirit in the face of so much adversity! Gratitude also to the people who helped her. I would love to hear how things are going for her! I pray that she is a tremendous success story!!

    • @chrissya8296
      @chrissya8296 Год назад +2

      I am doing so much better! Thank you for your words and believing in me and seeing me and not what I’ve been though. It means more than you know ❤

    • @realitycheck6
      @realitycheck6 Год назад +1

      What a thrill to my day to hear from you directly! Thank you so much for that! I continue to hope that you are making a remarkable difference in the world!! I pray that you are mightily blessed by God!! Yay, you!!❤

  • @caroleastmond9064
    @caroleastmond9064 Год назад +7

    The state should do more to help these kids coming out their system. Good reporting, she is a wonderful young lady, all the best to her!!❤️🎉🎉🎉

    • @chrissya8296
      @chrissya8296 Год назад

      They should and they will! Thank you so much !!

  • @t-timetv1986
    @t-timetv1986 2 месяца назад +2

    This right here makes me fight for Forster children so HARD!! I was once that child myself and I know how this feels I’m now 38 and I still feel the feelings of not being wanted. This is absolutely awful, Christina I pray you continue to push forward and helping give a voice to the voiceless, I love you girl even though I never met you❤❤

  • @lindafrazier9367
    @lindafrazier9367 Год назад +5

    I was so touched by your life. I would be blessed to have you as a daughter. 😇🙏🏾💕

    • @chrissya8296
      @chrissya8296 Год назад +1

      Awww thank you 🥹 I feel blessed for the consideration!

  • @simone2125
    @simone2125 2 месяца назад +1

    I hope she finds better days 🙏🏽

  • @Makeusqueak
    @Makeusqueak Год назад +15

    This is heartbreaking. God bless this beautiful young lady. I hope she has the strength to endure and find a peaceful, happy path.

  • @freeindeed8416
    @freeindeed8416 2 месяца назад +7

    She is remarkably well spoken

    • @hs7720
      @hs7720 2 месяца назад

      Why shouldn't she be well spoken?

    • @freeindeed8416
      @freeindeed8416 2 месяца назад

      @@hs7720 Who said she shouldn’t? Stop looking for negative in the positive.

    • @Aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa669
      @Aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa669 2 месяца назад

      ​@freeindeed841you sound well spoken

  • @miamiflorida6965
    @miamiflorida6965 2 месяца назад +1

    Congrats, Christina - you're destined to do great things, baby! 🙏🩷🙏

  • @Eyemredeemed
    @Eyemredeemed 4 месяца назад +1

    Thank you for showing this. It’s real and more people need to be aware of the need our children and young people have.

  • @cornyconnie.
    @cornyconnie. Год назад +3

    God bless her, and all those who helped her, and all those who are going thru what she has and is!

  • @NeicyJ1990
    @NeicyJ1990 Год назад +2

    Christina is a very wise young lady. I'm wishing her the best on this journey called life.

  • @mauricaribon9819
    @mauricaribon9819 2 месяца назад +2

    Go girl! You can make it !

  • @barbram8001
    @barbram8001 Год назад +8

    This young lady is articulate, and intelligent. She's going to make it. Lord Father God, thank You for sustaining this young lady. You have been protecting her, her whole life. She didn't get this far by luck, but by Your great mercy, grace, and love. Thank you Lord Jesus Christ, in and through Your Name, Amen!

    • @chrissya8296
      @chrissya8296 Год назад +1

      Thank you so much for your words of light over me. You are amazing ❤

  • @dreamjohnson7818
    @dreamjohnson7818 Год назад +9

    BECAUSE IT’S A BUSINESS!!! THEY PROFIT FROM IT!!!

  • @LocsofLove_Ree
    @LocsofLove_Ree 6 месяцев назад +2

    This is the reason I am going through the process of becoming a Foster Parent....This breaks my heart. We have got to do better for these kids!

  • @lynnepichotta9492
    @lynnepichotta9492 2 месяца назад +1

    Awwww.....bless her heart...all these entitled teens running away need to listen to her.....

  • @chrisybeautytv1298
    @chrisybeautytv1298 2 месяца назад +2

    This makes me so sad 😢

  • @Gachilyn
    @Gachilyn 6 месяцев назад +2

    Breaks my heart all that she said... no kid should grow up feeling that way💔 I wish I could foster someday,I have so much love to give l😭

  • @daneblack2593
    @daneblack2593 4 месяца назад +3

    Why would anyone not want her as a foster child she seems like such a good person I think some of the people that are foster parents are messed up

  • @abcd.777
    @abcd.777 Год назад +12

    I hope the reporter, stay in contact with her, not daily but at least twice a month. I know they are not suppose to be emotionally involved but just make sure she stay focused. Don't just let this be a story. I hate that there's not that much help, but I am glad the young lady is off on a good start

  • @heathermetz6576
    @heathermetz6576 2 месяца назад +1

    8:40 “I know I have to be. I know that I’m more capable than most because I’ve been conditioned to the situation.” God Bless Christina and youth like her.

  • @Sagethealpha06
    @Sagethealpha06 2 месяца назад +1

    Gotta love how this girl was surrounded by an entire news crew and not one person at the network thought to help her

    • @MrFirebomb969
      @MrFirebomb969 2 месяца назад

      Its always like this too smh

    • @mayrarubio9311
      @mayrarubio9311 Месяц назад

      She’s not there responsibility her parents are to be blamed for don’t blame others who don’t help but thank those who choose to help

  • @tarajoyce3598
    @tarajoyce3598 Год назад +3

    Thank you for shining a light on this important issue!

    • @chrissya8296
      @chrissya8296 Год назад

      Thank you for listening to my story ❤

  • @sancraft1
    @sancraft1 Год назад +4

    This just breaks my heart. Your life matters. You can come here. I have two adult daughters and would love another. 🤗🥰

    • @chrissya8296
      @chrissya8296 Год назад

      Awww thank you so much I appreciate the kind gesture 🥹💕

  • @kayvelli7895
    @kayvelli7895 Месяц назад

    I am so glad there is good people like you guys out there helping making sure they’re OK

  • @anikapaldi7161
    @anikapaldi7161 Год назад +3

    Oh beautiful soul…all the best to you.❤

    • @chrissya8296
      @chrissya8296 Год назад

      Thank you lovely I appreciate it so much !

  • @saved-surrendering
    @saved-surrendering 2 месяца назад +1

    Thank you for sharing her story as it opens eyes to the unknown truth!

  • @Mountain3900
    @Mountain3900 Месяц назад

    This is so heartbreaking. I just pray they keep pushing and never give up.