Confronting the person who hurt you: is it dangerous or not
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- Опубликовано: 13 сен 2024
- It's been told to us by society that we are doing the right thing whenever told to confront a person who hurt us. I explain should we confront the person who hurt us or not?
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Yes, to confront these people would be pointless. I already know they have no conscience or remorse. They have shown total disrespect and have been verbally abusive to me in the past.
I totally agree with what Tyler was saying in the video because even if your diplomatic with your choice of words their not going to admit that they did wrong. They will start screaming & yelling then start to bring up things in your face that you did to them. In the long run, their will be a fight (verbal sometimes physical). Sometimes it's better to let time heal & forgive by praying for them so you could move on.
I feel like it's never a good idea to confront the person especially if u sense a high level of toxicity. That person is narcissist and if u confront them they'll keep ignoring truth.
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Once again, this is a great topic. I can say that it takes a certain level of maturity and openness when dealing with this type of situation. In the end, however it may be best to avoid a confrontation like you say because some times the person is not willing to compromise or hear your point of view. Thank you.
Hey IReminisiceNYC. How are you doing? You are so right when it comes to maturity and openness, but a lot of times a lot of people know it,but feel like they are doing the right thing because they are told there will be probably healing in the situation that they're in. Like you spoke, there are most people that are not willing to compromise and we know it to by watching them through their actions of what they have do to other people. Thank you so much and I really enjoy you comments! Thanks once again IReminisceNYC and peace and blessings to you.
Tyler JTI We can really go much deeper into this topic. I hope you can continue with it some other time. Another factor is when or both individuals are unwilling to admit fault. That leads them to display the behavior you mentioned: anger, confrontation, etc. They would prefer to be upset and deal with it that way.
Very positive insights on your part. A blessed new year 2017 to you.
You are very right on this part though. I know i did a video one way back on why it's so so hard to forgive. I need to do another video about " what is forgiveness" when it comes to the self-help area, I find out people misunderstand what that is. However, I really love talking about this too. Thank you so much IReminisceNYC so much and I enjoy your comments so much. Thank you so much. I speak that you a blessed new year in 2017.
It’s frustrating & discouraging when you confront people who you are supposed to be mature Christians who have hurt you & they don’t own it & end up attacking you or acting like it didn’t happen. Very disappointing.
i have thought about confronting my brother ....my older brother for reasons that always stress me out! i go through the battles by myself like everyday! first of all thank you Tyler, but i am not going to because i know for a fact... i am the bigger person and i am the better and more caring one!
PEOPLE WHO HAS NO SAME VALUES ON IT, CANT UNDERSTAND EACH OTHER. PEOPLE WHO HAS NO SAME LEVEL OF EDUCATION AND RELIGIONS TOO.
You’re so right, I have three cousins that I want to confront so bad for doing me wrong. Basically they want the benefits of something without putting in the work for it. Their was always an excuse why they couldn’t help out. I honestly wanted to beat them up but physically and verbally but your video has helped me. Thank you very much sir. God Bless You!
so very right Tylor. thank you for reminding me of that.
Right this happened to me and was hung up on. Church person.
Why bother. It is so exhausting...ugh!
I wish I could of saw this before I confronted the love of my life...it broke us apart hurt even more...great video
Amen!!!
Sharon Anderson. Thank you so much for your comment.Peace and blessings to you.
I see your point....but when you have children involved and both parents are actively tied together to that one being that loves the both of us.....that's when you must put all your own fears aside and walk gracefully with the lord and peacefully bring understanding into your x loved ones soul in order to gather the proper material to co parent without letting go of your beliefs....when you compromise with the evil doer...it destroy you in more ways than what it appeared to be the first time.. And it blocks those involved from being the best truth teller as one is able to be for eternity....So I always point out those wrong activities..and it do get heated and rough and tough but. God created me once..than surely. I do believe that he will create me again.....peace..