How to Get Married in 4 Weeks | Iman Cave Clips
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- Опубликовано: 10 сен 2024
- As a man, being bold can get you far in life. As a Muslim man with Allah on your side? You can be unstoppable. Here’s how Sami Hamdi used his confidence and his tawakkul to propose to his now-wife within a month of meeting her.
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"Marry young, build your fortress first. Because when you go through the experiences, when you look back, she's part of every experience. The hard times, the tough times, such that you leave no room to imagine a life without her." This hit me.
Marry young doesn't work anymore tbh unless your parents can support you.
Br Sami said it! Women want to be valued, not in charge, just valued and considered in decisions.
Agreed.
💯
Agreed 💯
But then woman need to do their part in the marriage too
@@talhamalik6658 That doesn't excuse the man from needing to make her feel valued and considered.
His intention and path was halal so Allah made it easy for him❤
Oh! Their names are Sami and Sumaiyah (and their children's names begin with 's' as well). That's sweet. May Allah preserve and grow their bond.
I noticed it too, allahumma barik. Ameen to your du'aa 🌸
Aameen
Aameen
Thank you brother, for teaching other men how being kind to your wife makes you a happy man
How beautifully he was speaking, this 10m passed like 1m.
I watched it yesterday. I'm rewatching it today🥹
May Allah grant us all marriage and love between spouses like the Prophet's marriage, Ameen
MashaAllah TabarkAllah, this was so beautiful. I am in awe at how much this small clip has given me a new understanding and appreciation for marriage, particularly one where Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala is the pillar of the relationship. May Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala bless you and your family, dear brothers.
The way he speaks with passion tells you so much .
Ya Rab! Do not punish us if we forget or make a mistake. Do not place a burden on us like the one you placed on those before us. Do not burden us with what we cannot bear. Pardon us, forgive us, and have mercy on us. You are our ˹only˺ Guardian. (Quran 2:286) 🤍
Ameen
Mashallah tears came down my eyes ♥️ Allahuma Barik and may Allah grant us pious husbands who fear Allah SUbhanou
aameen
me too
😭
Ameen .love from Bangladesh
This is the type of men's podcast I would listen to/ watch. Positive and uplifting ❤ Great Job Men ❤
These kind of videos are very much needed which muslim men need to learn from.
And women lol
its simple.. when two people like each other and want to be together in the halal way and get parents involved.. now people have all sorts of intentions
Because nowadays parents have all sorts of intentions too when it comes to their children's marriage. Parents tend to think about themselves rather than their children, even though it's the children who are getting married not the parents.
Social status is a HUGE factor in producing hindrance for marriages.
This is perfect. However, I don't know how many 20 years old can afford to get married. This brother was blessed.
وَأَنكِحُوا۟ ٱلۡأَیَـٰمَىٰ مِنكُمۡ وَٱلصَّـٰلِحِینَ مِنۡ عِبَادِكُمۡ وَإِمَاۤىِٕكُمۡۚ إِن یَكُونُوا۟ فُقَرَاۤءَ یُغۡنِهِمُ ٱللَّهُ مِن فَضۡلِهِۦۗ وَٱللَّهُ وَ ٰسِعٌ عَلِیمࣱ﴿ ٣٢ ﴾
• Dr. Mustafa Khattab:
Marry off the ˹free˺ singles among you, as well as the righteous of your bondmen and bondwomen. If they are poor, Allah will enrich them out of His bounty. For Allah is All-Bountiful, All-Knowing.
An-Nūr, Ayah 32
@@abdulwakil2613 The very next verse:
وَلۡيَسۡتَعۡفِفِ الَّذِيۡنَ لَا يَجِدُوۡنَ نِكَاحًا حَتّٰى يُغۡنِيَهُمُ اللّٰهُ مِنۡ فَضۡلِهٖؕ وَالَّذِيۡنَ يَبۡتَغُوۡنَ الۡـكِتٰبَ مِمَّا مَلَـكَتۡ اَيۡمَانُكُمۡ فَكَاتِبُوۡهُمۡ اِنۡ عَلِمۡتُمۡ فِيۡهِمۡ خَيۡرًا ۖ وَّاٰ تُوۡهُمۡ مِّنۡ مَّالِ اللّٰهِ الَّذِىۡۤ اٰتٰٮكُمۡ ؕ وَلَا تُكۡرِهُوۡا فَتَيٰتِكُمۡ عَلَى الۡبِغَآءِ اِنۡ اَرَدۡنَ تَحَصُّنًا لِّـتَبۡتَغُوۡا عَرَضَ الۡحَيٰوةِ الدُّنۡيَا ؕ وَمَنۡ يُّكۡرِهْهُّنَّ فَاِنَّ اللّٰهَ مِنۡۢ بَعۡدِ اِكۡرَاهِهِنَّ غَفُوۡرٌ رَّحِيۡمٌ
(24:33) Let those who cannot afford to marry keep themselves chaste until Allah enriches them out of His Bounty. And write out a deed of manumission for such of your slaves that desire their freedom55 in lieu of payment - if you see any good in them - and give them out of the wealth that Allah has given you. And do not compel your slave-girls to prostitution for the sake of the benefits of worldly life the while they desire to remain chaste. And if anyone compels them to prostitution, Allah will be Most Pardoning, Much Merciful (to them) after their subjection to such compulsion.
Added to this:
Narrated by al-Bukhaari (5066) and Muslim (1400) from Ibn Mas‘ood, who said: We were with the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him), young men who had nothing of wealth. The Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said to us: “O young men, whoever among you can afford it, let him get married, for it is more effective in lowering the gaze and guarding one’s chastity. And whoever cannot afford it should fast, for it will be a shield for him.”
Every case is specific. If you can afford by any means one should hasten to get married. However, if you cannot afford (at all, not even rent for example) you will be doing an injustice towards your wife.
If you has a residence you won, or your parents bought for you or you inherited, then the accommodation part is sorted, making marriage much easier for example. Every case is specific.
Befriend with fathers who have daughters or brothers who have sisters
@@incogniftoar3943That’s not a good advice. All men specifically hate the type who use their friendship for their women
Depends on what both can live on. You don’t have to move together on day one. Just make the relationship halal.
I'm crying now because you said everything I wanted in marriage and a husband😢 ...اللهم ارزقنا
Bruh it’s a good story and you making it about yourself being negative for ?
Easy to want. What about what to give?
@@bety3017 May Allah bless them and grant you what you want, اللهم بارك لهم
Yes sis exactly May Allah grant us righteous spouses Aameen
@@EE-kt8sh why are you upset
I truly appreciate all that Yaqeen Institute does - you all are doing great work, ma sha Allah. Kindly, I want to point out that having a dream is NOT something that Islam/the Quran states will always follow an istikhara prayer. As a Muslim in this day and age, I see so many people expecting a dream and feeling lost/dependent on this. Please dispel this misconception. It would do so many of us a great favor. JazakAllah.
I think that's what he was doing when he mentioned he was not Sufi by any means, that he was not expecting a dream after istikhaara, but that is what he got.
These are unseen things and unseen knowledge which is always good when it's blurry, if you try to see crystal clear then it's not for you. The sufis were right
@@AudibleQuran ?
The sign of following through with your decision is that things are made easy for you after doing istikhara
The description and the title is soo misleading. The video was way above and beyond my exception. Mashallah Tabrakallah. Dont let the title mislead you ppl.
I'm loving this episode 😊 Jazakumu'Allahu Khairan.
People want to be valued.
MašaAllah..Great video Yaqeen institute..This video need to see every married men and women and also single muslims.. So much to learn..May Allah reward you with Jannah.. Selam from Bosnia and Herzegovina.😊
SubhanAllah these are the kind of talks we need to hear more of as an ummah. The home is truly a foundation for deen.
May Allah reward the brothers on this show and may Allah grant us and our children aafiya (happy homes in this world and the next). Aameen ❤
Aameen
MashaAllah Tabarakallah. May Allah protect your marriage until Jannahtul Firdaus.
Amin and everyone in marriage, and I pray Allah help everyone struggling in their marriage ,give them Takwa and Patient that is required to have a happy home
Not all of us are that fortunate to marry young and have successful marriage. Some of us are in our 40s and not married . Sometimes the fortress has to be built by yourself.
Assalaam. Ince again the natural integrity and honesty of Sami by the guidance of the Almighty has expressed the simplicity and values of a Muslim proposal and the true blessings Allah rewards us with it.
It’s the religion of Islam at its most beautiful. May Allah make us aware and appreciate these wonderful attributes and qualities we were given. Algamdolilah for small
Mercies. 💕
SubhanAllah this is so Beautiful
May ALLAH grant us a beautiful, religiuos, pious,caring , loving spouse who will be coolness to our eyes'
Maa sha ALLAH, this was so interesting, 10 minutes felt so short
Already 25, I feel like crying.
Same
Same 🤷🏻♂️😂
Clocking is ticking but Allah is the best of planner
24 🥲
😅 34 😭
She is so lucky to have as husband.
Amazing.
MaashaaAllah. Beautiful. Just beautiful clip. Allah bless all.
bro if ur wife loves u , she will literally do everything for u.. the issue is yall are marrying people u don't love or like
Love is deceptive. People confuse lust and esthetics for love and that is where it gets dangerous. You shouldn't marry for love - that is a fleeting sensation. You should marry for compatibility in life and companionship.
What is y'all??
MashaAllah. Jazakallahu khair.
Brother Sami.. I agree with you completely. Beautifully said.
But it’s all about the mindset! People want to marry young but there is so much resistance in the society specially in the family. Everyone searching for the right one.. Allahu Akbar. Last but not the least, people are scared of marrying different ethnicity, I don’t know why (Racism maybe). May Allah guide us all to the right path.. Allahuma Ameen 🤲🏼
This is so wholesome and heartwarming! Allahumma barik. Never heard such a discussion before!
Masha'Allah ❤
Football is the correct term sir xD, thank you for sharing brother and may Allah bless you all !
Barakallah!
Beauty of halal relationship ❤❤
Allahumma Barik, Ya Allah grant us prosperous and peaceful home.
Wow Masha Allah. It is very interesting episode wallah💖
Second time watching this video. Love it!
these guys are sucha breath of fresh air..
May Allah be pleased with them all
Thank you.
Hard to find a man like this anymore. Now every guy just want to talk for 1-2 years and play around.
Same here. I'm facing the same problem. They don't wanna commit.
Time wasters
Say you are looking to chat and meet quite early and get family involvement eaRLY.
The time wasters won’t like that and they will keep away.
“Now every guy” well there must be some issues with women then and not just men
It’s not every guy. Just as it’s not every woman that wants a 6 figure mahr and a host of other unrealistic material expectations from a potential before even considering him. Men and women both face challenges trying to get married in today’s day and age, but that doesn’t mean we can generalize about genders like that.
I wish Sami realities could be applied to many, unfortunately as moeslem who studied many religions, and suddenly encountered with judaism and christians approach when it comes to courting.. I must said they were more thoughtful when it comes to selection process, to make sure each partner choosing right. Because kindnesss alone wont be enough if both have different views in what kind of life they want to live, and other important perspectives to make sure u are in same page as a team.
Sorry to say, we as moeslems need to learn more from others as well and not oversimplify things in this current world situations where the socio dynamics and many things has evolve so much.
Divorce is expensive and require difficult process which impact the whole family unit, therefore we should not take it lightly just because it's allowed.
Different situations might require different approaches, however I do agree with Sami that any relationship needs to be based on kindness, consideration and mutual respects.
What has other faiths taught you on finding marriage?
@@scarlettkhan9667 The discret and thoughtful selection process, what things u need to considered, the importance of respect towards each other genders and placing them at utmost comfortable place, entering marriage with real practical skills, and so on. U need to do ur own research, fella. Goodluck
Brother, don't look to other religions to find a partner. Look to Allah, and you'll find He's already given you an answer.
@@iluvmelatoningummies u didnt get the context. I’m exploring many religions perspectives and best practices, it’s different thing with looking guidance from different religion.
You talkin about 4 weeks my parents married me to my 1st cousin in 5 to 7 days and we then ended up in divorce
Omg 💀😹😹😹
Yeah but who you say yes to is supposed to be down to you not your parents. A nikkah is not valid if you were coerced.
And everything in life is a blessing or a blessing in disguise. So Alhamdulillah there was good for you even in the marriage that ended up in divorce.
I’m sorry that you had gone through such trials. I hope that this has benefited you in the wisdom and strength you could rather wear as a badge of honor, rather an upsetting outcome. I wish you well in life and beyond !!
Sorry you had to go through this but believe me this is not what Islam or Allah ordered us to do. Obeying your parents has no right to force when it comes to choosing your life partner or your career. They can suggest and the final day is yours.
It's a matter of believing that Allah has created you with full freedom and He only owns your destiny not any other person, not even parents.
To obey parents in such situations thinking that that's what Allah wanted for you it's like belittling Allah's power and all the blessings that He SWT granted us and freedom being on the top of those
Not even 4 weeks is garantee it will be successful. I am sure nobody could before see that result. It's a heavy lesson tough. Take your time in making life long decisions, marriage is not an 100 Meter race, it's a marathon with hurdles. You don't rush into it, you don't get easily out of it.
This was beautiful. A great reminder
Brother Sami is soooo right subhanAllah
Wow, thank you for this beautiful video 🙏
Allahuma Barik ❤☝🏽
My whole like I’ve dreamt and fantasised about having a wife and making her feel like the most special woman in the world. Being romantic, talking to her gently, holding her hands and lovingly being there for her in her difficult times.
Sadly I don’t think it’s written for me.
Aww if you speak like this you will certainly find a lovely wife. Just pray and don’t be too fussy.
Do you know how many women wish for a man with a mindset like yours? But making the effort to be that man is the real challenge because you MUST be consistent. In’sha’Allah you’ll find the perfect girl ❤
Work hard to become better and better in your life and put trust in Allah
@@samiyahmaham I was wondering why don’t you get to know the brother? Marry him perhaps? See if you guys are a good fit? Unless you’re already married. In that case maybe hook him up with a friend of yours who also wants to get married?
@@mrjoe9545 Aww haha I’m flattered but I already got a man! And my best friend recently got married too😂 I’m all out of options for the guy I’m afraid; I would suggest meeting someone in real life by attending a social event or class etc. I’ll keep him in my prayers 🥹
Allahuma Barik
say MashaALLAH guys... Allahuma barik
Very special talk 👍🏻
Well said Sheik Sami... you nevertheless disappoint in your analyses
Could you please add official subtitle? Thank you
Masa Allah 🙏🙏🙏
الهم بارك
Loved it.
Ooooh soooo
BEEEE YOU TEE FULL❤
AlhamduLILLAH Nikah is a neehma
Allahumma Barik ❤
Ma sha Allah barakallahu fiik... I wish most daees with big names talks like this about women... But they don't they just Make women feel unworthy and second class creatures
May Allah protect you
Tried the same thing brother. But unfortunately became successful before finding the right partner in the west. May Allah helps us feel like a new start with the new partner
Alhamdulilah
Please pray for me also my marriage is delay no one willing to nikkah to me facing so many obstacles
May Allah make it easy for you ameen
May Allah make it easy.
Do lots of Istighfaar
Great
It’s good. Just say let’s go see a movie, let’s go get icecream. But sometimes your wife does need to know that you know how to use the word sorry. Because she just need the communication. Be a man and use the word sorry.
MachaAllah❤
All of this 👏👏👏👏👏
Wow
Soooo true
Ameen 🤲🏾
Subhanallah
Awwn,Mā Shāa Allāh
I am 22 and want to get married within 2 years, but whould prefer within the next 12/13 months. I really like a women but she is not ready yet to commit to anyone. To anyone reading this, please pray for me that Allah puts love in her heart for me🥺🥺
What happened?
Single me 😢
To get married u need to be quite good looking and having a good job
This is not true AT ALL. Its only true if there is a certain type of woman you are after
@@quranaffirmations all women are the same , they are humain being they have basical need ... like man have stop thinking that because a girl is religious that she dont want a handsome or rich man.... we all want the best
RicHeart'Treazures
Thank you Brother.
Marriage is really not a prison😅
Free Palestine 🤲🇵🇸🇵🇸🇵🇸🍉🍉🤲
Asc what do think about someone who does RUclips and does date for content creators for fun and have who don’t pray and drink but they say they better person what should I do
It is one thing you have so ridicolously low standards you would entertain someone who exhibit such ill actions and character, but your future children have rights of a righteous, practicing muslim parent. You do not have the right to play around with the choice of a spouse. They have to be practicing.
So, only approach someone who prays, adheres to the pillars of islam, stays away from major sins. Work on elevating your standards, for yourself and future children.
May Ar-Razzaq bless you with a most beneficial and enjoyable righteous spouse, and may you be the same for your spouse, ameen.
Marriage is serious, so serious that if you marry the wrong person, it will damage your life, it will mess you up, it will bring great difficulties. So listen good because Allah does help you. He does show you this person is really bad for you, really evil, to stay far away from such person. The problem is are we ourselves faithful, are we ourselves marrying for the right reasons, are we ourselves following the sunnah and the true way Allah prescribed for us. Now I get we get tests, I understand this but this here is about red flags. You got that red flag and so stay away from such people, choose someone who has beautiful Imaan, who is respectful to you, respectful to your parents, has very good manners and isn't an idiot, or a woman trying to act like a man or a woman sht testing you. Be careful.
Do not rush it. I would never recommend anyone to ruch marry, trying to get married in 4 weeks. When you feel after you asked Allah for help even one red flag, one, move on, don't even marry this person. That maybe a small red flag but it can lead to huge problems. The person you explained should be easily identifiable for you to stay away from but what is concerning is you had to...ask...what you should do when it is very clear their behaviour is lacking big time.
The drinking part is not good.
Don’t pursue it.
❤
We can talk all day say ebeeything but if the women aint ready to be women and men act manly then all we have is two grown ups living and stayihg together.
*The title of the video is so misleading it made me laugh.*
*Come on brothers and be serious, most "Muslims" in the West despise Islamic marriage.*
*I haven't seen any of the "Online scholars" talk about the rise of Zina in the community.*
Yeah it’s very sad how western Muslims have normalized so much haram 😢
I don’t think most of us despise it. I think most of us want it and it’s just difficult due to culture or location or unrealistic expectations or society or family etc. but fr they should talk about this huge issue, when Zina is easy and nikkah is super difficult.
im kinda confused watching this because i dont understand the Arabic parts 😭
Not very simple for war torn poor countries...
These stories wallahi really make me depressed.
As a 31 year old single man, I’ve been rejected by every sister I’ve approached.
Even I was in a situation like this, I saw a pious sister I really liked, had a positive dream, prayed istikhaarah Tahajjud and cried in sujud and all I got was rejection.
Why does it happen to others and not me?
May Allah SWT reward you for your patience dear brother.
😢 I think when you find the right woman then the ones who rejected you won’t matter.
Looking for the one is about rejection too.
You could ask the girl for feedback on why she said no.
And it might help in your search.
Keep grinding my bro.. keep building your garden and eventually a butterfly will want to come to it.. Allah only gives you when it's good for you at the right time..
Just don't get negative and start playing the "why" them not me game !!
Both my husband and I took ten years to find each other. It took away our confidence and it kept feeling like everyone got married except me. Alhamdulillah by the grace of Allah SWT now we're married we can't even remember any of those bad experiences before, they're so trivial and those people meant nothing.
Just some warning, I thought after 10 years of pain in being single our married life would finally be so easy, but there's more challenges for us!! But maybe cos it took so long to find each other, we are more committed to seeing those difficulties through and not quickly go for divorce. So there is wisdom in Allah SWT timing, but in mean time you still have to keep trying otherwise the opportunity for marriage won't just materialise out of nothing. Praying the best and most pious, sweet wife is waiting for you soon ameen
@@yasmin8609may Allah bless your marriage and keep your love everlasting.
As for me, I’ve lost hope. My confidence is shattered, too many heartbreaks have left me broken, and I’ve decided I need to force myself to accept the reality that whatever it is that women want in a man… I simply don’t have it.
Everywhere I go, people like and enjoy my personality, but that’s where it stops; I’m never seen as a romantic option.
Being 5’2 also doesn’t help. I don’t blame women in the least for not being attracted to me.
😭
Is anyone going to address the high divorce rates in the west which are initiated by women and child custody problems?
truly a shame that so many men don't treat their wives well, if they did they wouldn't divorce them
@@worldwidemoon22999 Both ways, lets not start a gender war
@marah_000 and child custody where women don't give access to the father? This is an epidemic, and the children suffer
@MikeSpence-wk6iv is this true for muslim women too? High divorce rate I mean
Muslims do not ascribe to Western Dating norms or marital expectations. In Christianity it is forbidden to divorce and anyone who remarries is an adulterer! Alhamdulillah Islam is the religion of Truth and rational co-existance. At times, divorce is inevitable and wise and we consider it as just a closing to a chapter which Allah has ordained for it to end. Allah commands us to divorce amicably and not to be in perpetual "separation". Things should be very clear privately and publicly. Our custody and alimony rights are already prescribed in the Shariah..right down to inheritance percentages and rights of women. If a marriage started with conditions (including societal norms specific to the land the two are marrying in - aka what the Shariah calls Orf), then the husband must fulfill and accept the conditions even after divorcing unless otherwise stated. An example would be entering into the marriage with the expectation that the title of the house belongs to both the husband and wife 50-50. We are not concerned about high divorce rates and both men and women can remarry and it wouldn't be considered a taboo Islamically...but the main concern we are careful about is fearing Allah and ensuring you do not oppress your partner no matter what. Marriage in Islam is dubbed as "half the religion" and how you manage your relationship in your day to day is what makes a man or woman win heaven or hell. This is serious business. As for the right to provide and protect..that is on the man as women are not supposed to contribute to the home's shelter, provisioning (food, healthcare, insurance), etc. All of that is on the man. In return, women only inherit half of what a man inherits in consideration to the amount each man has to be responsible for in spending not just on his wife, but on his mother, sister, daughter, neices, grandmothers, etc. She is free to own her own property and have her own businesses and ventures. Failure to do so makes her vulnerable and coerced into staying in unhealthy relationships - so Islam empowers women so that they do not resort to promiscuity or immodest means of living. Islam is a complete system and Shariah law maintains the integrity of the family unit. If a woman works and earns money then it is for herself..and her offspring can benefit from it if she wishes..women in our society also are at the forefront of most of the charity work and what brings communities closer..like social gatherings and events like weddings which they must coordinate. Without these events, the hungry go missing and believe it or not..single people find it harder to be matched together for marriage. If a woman out earns the man and in the case of a custody battle the man wants her to pay for him, then that man is sinning Islamically as she has no obligations to spend on a grown man! I hope this clarifies the Muslim Marriage perspective.. this is uniform no matter what part of the world we live in. I am a Canadian Muslim.
For me, Marriage is marketing!
No, it’s someone to look after you and start a family.
❤️❤️❤️🌹🌹🌹🤲🤲🤲
Ughh
Sami Hamdi is on Yaqeen institute...why does Yaqeen have such a unfortunate condition? It literally seems like the purpose of this channel is to mislead Muslims.
marriage today is only for the duyooth
Can you explain why?
General question, why doesnt sami choose to grow his beard to make it different from the disbelievers.
I'm 45 still single have anxiety
Allahuma barik
❤️