MARRIAGE ADVICE every MUSLIM MAN needs to hear

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  • Опубликовано: 9 янв 2025

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  • @SafinaSociety
    @SafinaSociety  6 месяцев назад +5

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  • @bootsmade4walking
    @bootsmade4walking 6 месяцев назад +52

    Faith. Family. Finances.

    • @silkydude
      @silkydude 6 месяцев назад +2

      @@bootsmade4walking add health and community engagement

    • @ibrasawool
      @ibrasawool 6 месяцев назад +6

      Fitness

    • @Ummati0015
      @Ummati0015 5 месяцев назад +1

      What about enjoining good and forbiding evil? This summary of obligtions is vague

    • @bootsmade4walking
      @bootsmade4walking 5 месяцев назад +5

      @@Ummati0015 "enjoining good and forbiding evil?" is under faith

    • @muhammadtalha5941
      @muhammadtalha5941 5 месяцев назад

      And fitness

  • @dhikrandlove21
    @dhikrandlove21 6 месяцев назад +11

    I understand that having an education to obtain an income is what will help facilitate a home.. but sensitivity is what will fill the home with love.. Masha'Allah... , removing the self-centered ideology from th equation.. Alhamdulillah.. Dr. Shadee, keep these beautiful reminders coming.. 🩷

    • @SIMMIS_0316
      @SIMMIS_0316 2 месяца назад

      sensitivity will not fill a home with love if you are homeless because you are without an income.

  • @AmeerLatif-o4v
    @AmeerLatif-o4v 6 месяцев назад +22

    Read the section in marriage in Ihya Ulum Ad-Deen.

    • @BuyorSell-r6y
      @BuyorSell-r6y 3 месяца назад

      Is that Available in English?

    • @JaleelBeig
      @JaleelBeig 2 месяца назад

      ​@@BuyorSell-r6yyes

  • @azishidayatullah1199
    @azishidayatullah1199 6 месяцев назад +6

    I need NBF podcast so badly😢

  • @basmaakhter5709
    @basmaakhter5709 6 месяцев назад +2

    This is such a beautiful and wise perspective

  • @j3ts287
    @j3ts287 5 месяцев назад +1

    Such wisdom mashallah

  • @610MARYAM
    @610MARYAM 6 месяцев назад +3

    IM WORKING ON MY MARRIAGE
    BUT IM WORKING ON FIXING 8 IN ORDER FOR 6 TO FLOURISH. SO IM MULTI TASKIN.

  • @hxyzazolchak
    @hxyzazolchak 6 месяцев назад +9

    First 5 mins gang 😊

  • @feistymind4915
    @feistymind4915 5 месяцев назад +4

    What if the family is toxic ?

  • @cloudyapples9229
    @cloudyapples9229 5 месяцев назад +1

    You are my teacher in the mosque

  • @_zaaphiel
    @_zaaphiel 5 месяцев назад

    Subhanallah

  • @TheAMA911
    @TheAMA911 5 месяцев назад +3

    6:52 Totally wrong about this. Take Saudi, the largest in the Arabian Peninsula. Highest rate of Niqabi in the world, full mosques in most places, by far the most Muslim conservative country on earth despite the recent changes. Also, despite the heat and dry land, people are happy, it is safe and a great place to raise a family.

    • @fardeenmahmud8866
      @fardeenmahmud8866 2 месяца назад +2

      @@TheAMA911 I agree with you.
      No country is perfect or free from fitnah.
      There will always be a portion of the population that indulges in haram.
      But regardless, Muslim lands will always by better than the lands of the kuffar.

    • @MotorStorm66
      @MotorStorm66 Месяц назад +1

      I think a scholar like Dr Masri especially would say that just Niqabs and full mosques aren't signs of faith alone, these are just the outward parts of Islam, which need to be based on inward belief and love for the religion.

    • @fardeenmahmud8866
      @fardeenmahmud8866 Месяц назад

      @@MotorStorm66 Faith in Allah is an individual’s responsibility.
      And you’re right, just because a woman wears niqab doesn’t automatically mean she has imaan/faith.
      But answer me this question. Which country would you rather live in?
      A country where women are dressed half naked and there are little to no mosques?
      Or a country where the majority of women cover up and mosques are everywhere?
      I’m pretty sure the first option would be a nightmare for a practicing Muslim.

  • @Dont-worry1618
    @Dont-worry1618 6 месяцев назад +1

    Imam Abu Haneefah (may Allah have mercy on him) said: Allah has a Hand, a Countenance and an Essence as He, may He be exalted, mentioned in the Qur’an. Whatever Allah, may He be exalted, has mentioned in the Qur’an of His having a Countenance, Hand and Essence, these are attributes of His which we affirm without discussing how. It cannot be said that His Hand is His power or blessings, because that is denying the attribute, and is the view of the Qadaris and Mu‘tazilah. Rather His hand is a divine attribute, and we do not discuss how it is; His wrath and His pleasure are divine attributes, and we do not discuss how they are.
    End quote from al-Fiqh al-Akbar, with commentary by Mullah ‘Ali al-Qaari, p. 85

  • @user-fd7gy9zh8x
    @user-fd7gy9zh8x 4 дня назад

    Can the woman write in the marriage contract that the husband cannot take another wife?

  • @samven582
    @samven582 Месяц назад

    Ill be 40 next year and still not married

    • @c-baazb5668
      @c-baazb5668 22 дня назад

      Salaam.alaikom... sorry.to hear this...i!m sure there.is a whole story behind your suffering... what a shame and faillure that the ummah has caused an eppedemic of fitnah and lonelines amoung the youngster... we have decided to fear poverty instead of fearing zina. What a shame...
      I am also same age as you and also unmarried. I have given up allready l am now focussed on quran and doing good deeds. If I found some1 I will inshallah marry. That is much bettter... but also i realise it could be worse. I could be ill. I still have many blessings even if I am alone. Alhamdulillah... its not good to be alone. This is shaitanoc lifestyle to be single by choice. But.sometimes people are not married. Often people and families male it hard without good reason... i have a few friends who got married before they had money pr job. Because their parents were smart and thought marriage is more important than waiting untill you can meet the social.stanards which are 99% unislamocly inspired....
      It's allways good yo make dua... i am going to umrah soon. And i plan to make dua.for people like you. May Allah make halal marriages easy agaon and purify our hearts amd souls to be accepting of each others sons and daughters in marriage...
      Good luck brother... please dont.forget the dua of musa alaihi salaam.in the quran...
      Rabbi innee limaa anzalta ilayya min khairin faqeer.

  • @formetoknow540
    @formetoknow540 5 месяцев назад

    Marriage is a must for ever male and female and not just to Cobaite but dose save one from haram but still some young men leaned individual scholars hazifz of the Quran do haram behind closed doors on social media these days its insane

  • @LionelFloppa
    @LionelFloppa 6 месяцев назад +2

    When’s the next stream?

    • @SafinaSociety
      @SafinaSociety  5 месяцев назад +2

      Wed July 31!

    • @LionelFloppa
      @LionelFloppa 5 месяцев назад

      @@SafinaSocietyOkay Jazakallahu Khairan

  • @BilanBee
    @BilanBee 5 месяцев назад

    Which book is the sheikh holding in his hand?

    • @tawfeeqalum
      @tawfeeqalum Месяц назад

      @@BilanBee Depression and Anxiety by Shaykh Ramadan Al Buti, Translated by Mahdi Lock. I think

  • @wannabe-mechanic
    @wannabe-mechanic 5 месяцев назад

    What happened to daily sohbahs, where are you guys??😢

  • @piqueny8872
    @piqueny8872 5 месяцев назад +4

    Muslim boys want the wife to be like
    His father provide and protect for him and also be like his mother serve and obey and do all the household chores
    Also look like the women they see at work gym TV movies
    Sisters want a man like their fathers provide and protect

    • @syayayayaya
      @syayayayaya Месяц назад +1

      Dont generalize please!
      Or else we can easily say women just want tall rich chad 🙄

    • @piqueny8872
      @piqueny8872 Месяц назад

      @@syayayayaya Muslim women want husband with her father Islamic character
      Provide protection so she can be thee housewife for her husband.
      Legit had this conversation with my mom
      Our cousin who looks like an shrek, decided not to have children, his wife has to work they can not afford child care 20k yearly plus the cost of raising children
      She’s working to help provide for there martial home to save her marriage
      Not every women is looking for a “rich chad”

    • @The-warrior404
      @The-warrior404 24 дня назад

      This wrong, me personally , just few months ago i was looking for a girl to get married and all of 4 or 5 that i asked about they don't even think about getting married, they only looking for keeping thier studies and looking for job after they graduate. I was really shocked because I'm living in a Muslim country and they think like that , They are not respecting Thier main role in this life which being a good slave for god and good wife for her husband , subhanalah it's arzak because I'm talking about myself I'm looking for wife to complete my deen and take care of her and inchalaah take care of our kids after, end living a humble Islamic life but it's hard to found the exactly thing you want, the right one.

    • @piqueny8872
      @piqueny8872 23 дня назад

      @@The-warrior404 if you told these women you’ll will provide 100% financially
      No need to study or get a job
      Give her Islamic rights own home protection safety they’ll happily marry of course they’ll make sure u ticket all the boxes they want in a husband
      My brother in law during the first meeting made it known to my father that my sister will never need to get a job he will provide
      Everything( she has a law degree and worked)
      He expects her to be the traditional role of home maker
      Now mashallah he gave his promise he provided her with a martial home ,a car pays for her clothes food pays for the FAmily vacations bills everything
      And she takes care of the home she raises the children

  • @micdeymearstienbeiger37
    @micdeymearstienbeiger37 5 месяцев назад +3

    "Making yourself loveable"? Because if you stop them from haram/harm, they'll hate you. You become "hate-able". If you let them do harmful/haramful things, you'll be more loveable. So this "Making yourself loveable" needs to be qualified. Is it better to be hated for speaking the truth to your family? Or, is it better to be loved by remaining silent in front of falsehoods and munkar.

    • @Angelique-LeonorElianaForero
      @Angelique-LeonorElianaForero 2 месяца назад +2

      @micdeymearstienbeiger37 I don't think Shaykh meant being loveable in the context where you bypass the wrongs of your child/spouse... think of it in the righteous sense. You can be both righteous and loveable. You can uphold boundaries and enforce good etc. whilst being the fun and outgoing parent.. this shows a kid that balance is possible.

    • @syayayayaya
      @syayayayaya Месяц назад +2

      Facts! Tell these modern feminist women not to wear perfume outside or post their make up faces on social media whoooo get ready for the 😤

    • @syayayayaya
      @syayayayaya Месяц назад +1

      @@Angelique-LeonorElianaForeroBS tell a Muslim women to not wear perfume outside (which is haram) or even mot posting their bodies on social media and they will kick and SCREAM in their brainwashed feminism 😢

    • @c-baazb5668
      @c-baazb5668 22 дня назад

      Goof points

  • @munawarkhan9689
    @munawarkhan9689 6 месяцев назад

    السلام علیکم
    This (. . . . . . . ) men who talk frome behind the camera is intrasting but frastriting because he can not be seen may allah show your face to us

    • @sammu
      @sammu 6 месяцев назад +4

      Invest in a spell check extension. Even pay for one, because it’s needed.

    • @GO_142
      @GO_142 6 месяцев назад

      @@sammuwth you guys talking about 😭

    • @Potjie57
      @Potjie57 6 месяцев назад

      Sounds idiotic what are you trying to say.

  • @growthandunderstanding
    @growthandunderstanding 6 месяцев назад +1

    ANSWER: Don't marry and remain celibate!

  • @Saa42808
    @Saa42808 6 месяцев назад +5

    Ummah in turmoil, read at your own will:
    Marriage serves as mere license to have sex when wants become needs, and vice versa.

    • @batuayde2074
      @batuayde2074 6 месяцев назад

      What’s the subtext to this? What are you implying?

    • @shahriar4706_
      @shahriar4706_ 6 месяцев назад +5

      you display a clear ignorance. Study the Sunnah, its way more than just carnal desires.

    • @Saa42808
      @Saa42808 6 месяцев назад

      @@shahriar4706_ I did not mentioned sunnah, rather ummah. Read again. Don’t try to relate what I said with sunnah.

    • @Saa42808
      @Saa42808 6 месяцев назад

      @@batuayde2074 read again but at your will.

    • @batuayde2074
      @batuayde2074 6 месяцев назад +1

      @@Saa42808 I guess you’re implying that marriage in this day and age is done for the purpose of sexual needs when its purpose is actually to raise and strengthen the backbone of the ummah which is the family unit. If that’s what you’re implying then I do agree with you, but it’s not only Muslims. The family unit in general is under attack.