+SparklingJuice247 My teenage self is 100% what Adrienne described so I was relating so much to every single thing she said. I was so anxious and hard on myself too. Yet when I look back all I want is to give that girl a hug and tell her to be her own best friend
She didn't want children until her husband had a baby with someone else. Jeannie Mai makes stuff up as she goes through life. Immoral people have no morals.
Now this is my favorite kind of girl chat. Longer than 5 minutes and in two sections. Anyway, Adrienne got R-E-A-L! Then Jeannie went in and got R-E-A-L-L-L-L-L-L-L-L-L-L. Brought tears to my eyes.
I cried at what Jeannie said because that's absolutely how it was for me. You don't understand yourself, so you beat yourself for every flaw. But becoming vulnerable allows you to accept criticism, trials, and flaws the way they come. It allows you to love yourself and life more.
I'm getting emotional over here. I understand where Jeannie is coming from because i used to think that i was ugly as well. Still do sometimes but my self-esteem is not as low as it was when i was a teen. What i would tell my younger self is to love yourself inside and out. & never let anyone walk over you. Fear no one!
+Santricia Jones I feel like you just described me as a teen & even sometimes I even feel like that today! Ugh getting emotional over here! It's so funny how so many of us struggle with the same things!
MIMI232 I once heard someone say, "Whatever you are going through, someone is going through it or has already been through it." It's all part of being a human being and living this thing called life. Sometimes we come across the same battles. I wish you well !!
I could totally see Jeannie being a motivational speaker. She tells the best stories and she's always so positive and genuine. I always love hearing her stories, glad she's on the show.
I was Adrienne back then. I let people bully me, I was scared, shy, & made everyone's opinions matter more than mines. I wish I can talk to my old self, but then again your struggles make you who you are as an adult you learn a lot growing up.
+Leila beautyXx me too. I guess people never talk about anxiety openly because it's considered a taboo thing to admit, but I definitely experience(d) anxiety like on a daily basis when I was younger. Just waking up or going to bed or sometimes just all afternoon. You are far from alone girl
the fact jeannie thought her personality was ugly shes such a kindred spirit i would love to be her friend i love how she looked at adrinne when she was speaking very understanding and empathetic
I used to be so anxious and I worry about what people think of me, I kind of still do it now but much less than before. If anyone worries about what people think about them, trust me! You spend way more time thinking about what they think about you than the reality. They do NOT think about you as much as you think they do. Once you stop caring so much about that and be full of yourself, you REALLY are going to be happy. Stop pleasing people, please yourself first and be happy.
I didn't know much of Jeanie before this show I am so glad she's on here! She always speaks with wisdom. She's a Capricorn too lol so that's even better :)
:D When you are most vulnerable, that is when you are most real. And real is never ugly EXCEPT to people who don't accept you. Allow yourself to become vulnerable, take time to understand it, Because the real you is NEVER ugly - Jeannie Mai to her younger self :D
id say ...listen to your mom and dad...they love you and knows best... and it doesnt matter if u have frends or not... uv got family and God and thats all that matters
+Francine Morris I like how she can be deep without getting emotional like tamera all the time. Its nothing wrong with crying but sometimes everything doesnt need a flood of tears, its just overthetop with tamera sometimes but when tamera is just speaking without all the dramatic tears and being deep I enjoy that.
This show is so special. It goes way beyond what you expect from these panel talk shows like the View or something. You can't find this type of genuine expression and authenticity anywhere else on tv right now.
I hate reading and hardly ever read even one book lol but if Jeannie would write a book I would totally read it. She has the most amazing messages that really stays with me. Jeannie write a book about life and such. :)
Whoo, this was an emotional segment. I would say to myself: even when you think you have it all figured out, you still won't. You'll make a lot of mistakes: forgive yourself. You'll have experiences that rock you to the core, don't let it make you bitter or cynical. You've done bad things but you're still a good person. Forgive yourself. Stop destroying what is left of your heart thinking about things that have broken you. You'll be ok, you'll be ok, you'll be ok...
I can feel you Adrienne because if I will be given a chance to say something about my younger me, I would absolutely say sorry for all the bad things that I've done in my self before.
I really love listening to what Jeannie has to say. Incredibly insightful and well-spoken. Love all the hosts, but you can really feel Jeannie's words and her passion when she shares stories of her life lessons, struggles and triumphs. Keep walking in your truth Jeannie, the real you is beautiful inside and out.
I was just like Adrienne. I didn't know how to say no to ppl. So I did things I didn't want to do. Now that I'm older ik how to say no when I don't wanna do something
Jeannie Mai! Thank you, for that Word, today! You preached girl! Loved every word because it is so true! Thanks, again my sister in Christ and you continue to be you! Beautiful & Wise
That it JEANNIE IS MY FAV!!! Pretty much every ep she brings me to tears!! she is soo inspiring and its funny because i wouldn't think i would connect with her the most but she is just an angel!!! my friend in my head for SURE!!
+BECOMING TIYE because she is so real. She reminds me of good friend of mind, she can be so extra sometimes like Jeanie but she fuckin real as u get and that is why I love her.
Wow Jeanie, thank you so much for sharing that! The essence of your story was truly enlightening..When you began to conclude your story with ''I thought I was ugly, because I didn't understand myself'' was when I started to tear up, because I can relate to this all too well.I'm understanding more through experience that being disconnected to your true self, to your vulnerabilities and everything that makes you human can hurt you, and can hurt the people you love most.The real you is never ugly! and Jeanie you have a beautiful, bright light that permeates!.... also sometimes you preach so hard it sends me in my feels, spiraling into oblivion :D thought I came prepurd this time, ehuhu.
Thank you girls! I love what Adrienne said! You spoke to my soul!!!! I needed that!!!!!!! Thank you I could never thank you enough. I'm 24 and I'm going through that as we speak. I don't know who I am, where I am going, I am scared, but hopeful but I still feel fat and I'm 5'3 and am 118 pounds but I still don't feel skinny!!! 😕
I really love Adrienne's response, how she didn't give a lie to back the smile we all would have mistaken for carefree happiness. There was a back story that not many would have known had she not elaborated on it, thank you for sharing 'cause there a lot of people hiding pain behind a smile, I feel moved to look deeper
I'm a teen right now, pretty young one actually, and I am just like Adrienne when she was younger. Like now, I want to love myself at this age and not waste my youth because of my unhappiness due to a few things happening earlier in life and my anxiety that contributes to that. Hearing Adrienne's advice to herself really helps. Thanks chica ;)
I would tell my younger self you are beautiful, you are important, & don't seek validation from other people. What God has for you is for you, & there's no need for you to worry
I felt what Adrienne said so much 🥺I’m 16 and I’m so anxious. Everyday when I wake up all that’s on my mind is what will my future hold ? and will I be great? I overthink my future so much that it literally stresses me out. And I push myself in school more than I should. I JUST WANT TO BE GREAT!
Adrienne and Jeannie, thank you. I needed this. I'm sorry for the younger ME. I'm sorry that I made you go through all those emotions and anxiety. Worrying about how you look in the mirror and wanting people to admire you. It's alright to be vulnerable. And being vulnerable is where you'll be able to let your light shine.
I would tell myself to do what makes me happy and follow my dreams without settling for anything less than what will make me happy. I also get what Adrienne said about saying no. Took me years to get to that point.
"She was beat from birth, she makes me sick" 😂😂
M Nadia I died on that part
She was bee **
OliviaAlexandra Weber lol she definitely said best 💀
Lunar Eclipse She said beat, it means pretty in terms of make up.
She didn’t lie tho lol
I think Adrienne's sentiments are what a lot of people who are young are going through
exactly
I agree !
+SparklingJuice247 My teenage self is 100% what Adrienne described so I was relating so much to every single thing she said. I was so anxious and hard on myself too. Yet when I look back all I want is to give that girl a hug and tell her to be her own best friend
+Helena This is me at 22
true
the more I watch this show, the more i love jeannie.. she has such a pure spirit!!!! preach girl!!!!
Meee toooo
Lola Williams yaaas
yess i love her
Me too
Lola Williams she’s my fav along with tamera she’s a cutie
“The real you is never ugly” -Jeannie
Still tugs at my heart
Betzabe Rosipko yes💙
Jeannie is very articulate! Beautiful words.
+Destiney Uzaka My thoughts exactly..so articulate!
She didn't want children until her husband had a baby with someone else.
Jeannie Mai makes stuff up as she goes through life. Immoral people have no morals.
Now this is my favorite kind of girl chat. Longer than 5 minutes and in two sections. Anyway, Adrienne got R-E-A-L! Then Jeannie went in and got R-E-A-L-L-L-L-L-L-L-L-L-L. Brought tears to my eyes.
Preach
I want to like it but it's at 666 likes and I don't want to ruin that 😂😂
Sometimes real is ugly some people are REAL psychotic and always try to blame everybody else for their actions
I really appreciate Jeannie's mindset.
I'm Adrienne, always wondering about the future!
leaderoftheworldputin I needed this thank you ❤️
I cried at what Jeannie said because that's absolutely how it was for me. You don't understand yourself, so you beat yourself for every flaw. But becoming vulnerable allows you to accept criticism, trials, and flaws the way they come. It allows you to love yourself and life more.
I'm getting emotional over here. I understand where Jeannie is coming from because i used to think that i was ugly as well. Still do sometimes but my self-esteem is not as low as it was when i was a teen. What i would tell my younger self is to love yourself inside and out. & never let anyone walk over you. Fear no one!
👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
+Santricia Jones I feel like you just described me as a teen & even sometimes I even feel like that today! Ugh getting emotional over here! It's so funny how so many of us struggle with the same things!
MIMI232 I once heard someone say, "Whatever you are going through, someone is going through it or has already been through it." It's all part of being a human being and living this thing called life. Sometimes we come across the same battles. I wish you well !!
Amen yes!! I feel the same way
I feel the same way, you are right
Jeannie is truly my pastor, my mentor, my friend and my spirit animal. Write a book and fix my life already, please & thank you.
I could totally see Jeannie being a motivational speaker. She tells the best stories and she's always so positive and genuine. I always love hearing her stories, glad she's on the show.
I love her!
Lmao 3 years ago I called Jeannie my pastor & spirit animal 🥴😂 what a time to be alive.
Fatima Mohammed Lol! Thank you, I’m hanging in there 💕
“Real is never ugly except to people that don’t understand you.”
Love yourself and be real❤️✌️
Brave is the new beautiful
❤️
I love this
I was Adrienne back then. I let people bully me, I was scared, shy, & made everyone's opinions matter more than mines. I wish I can talk to my old self, but then again your struggles make you who you are as an adult you learn a lot growing up.
That Jeannie Mai ! That woman is not only multi talented, but is wise as a tortoise
Jeannie is truly beautiful through and through
+Jackie Mann yesssssss love what she said
I really love JM!
She's really a gem. It's hard not to love her
that Rabbit is a hero of the day
As a 19 year old, this show helps me ALOT! I love The Real! Jeannie touched me here lol!
I didn't know anyone else felt anxious every morning I always feel like tht just anxious on what the day has in hold.
I do...every single day
+Leila beautyXx It worked out for Adrienne in the end, so I'm sure it can also worj out for you! :)
+Enjinks Thankyou!
Me too! And I never know why but I just do.
+Leila beautyXx me too. I guess people never talk about anxiety openly because it's considered a taboo thing to admit, but I definitely experience(d) anxiety like on a daily basis when I was younger. Just waking up or going to bed or sometimes just all afternoon. You are far from alone girl
the fact jeannie thought her personality was ugly shes such a kindred spirit i would love to be her friend i love how she looked at adrinne when she was speaking very understanding and empathetic
This is not the right job for Jeannie....she need to be in somebody's church cause she was preaching today
Yes, she gives great advice anyone can relate to. She should be counseling.
Exactly!
Foreal!
+dj_oldskool Most deep cohost in my book. I love all of them but sometimes I feel like Jeannie is on a whole different level of what being real is.
Lol really
Jeannie better come through with today's gospel. I can't wait for part 2.
Lmao, Tamar killed me when she said, "C'mon somebody, you better be an evangelist."
Jeannie stay with the word lmao.
+Keith P. Exactly! She came through. Love her.
Adrienne looked like such a baby...all pure and innocent looking.
You took the words right out my mouth.
Younger Jeanie looks like Brenda Song from the suit life of zack and Cody
Skyler Arias-Lopez no she don't! what bc she is Asian so all Asian look alike!!! I love Jeanie but Brenda is beautiful
Marian Nimoh no, it's not about all Asians looking alike. it's about these specific Asians looking alike so chillll.
Sky Lopez yess i said that too 😍 this was the comment i was looking for she really does
Jeannie Mai played "London" on the show, Suite Life of Zack and Cody.
Jaiden Jefferies lol no she didn’t 😂
I used to be so anxious and I worry about what people think of me, I kind of still do it now but much less than before. If anyone worries about what people think about them, trust me! You spend way more time thinking about what they think about you than the reality. They do NOT think about you as much as you think they do. Once you stop caring so much about that and be full of yourself, you REALLY are going to be happy. Stop pleasing people, please yourself first and be happy.
Very well said!👏🏽
TWOO PARTS ! Wow its Christmas.
lmbo yesssss
Right!!
I just need Jeanie to be my friend tbh.
Same!
Yes!!!
fr!!
Beyonce never ages 😍 but Jeannie you betta come through with this gospel preaching evangelist today hunny got me all emotional 😢🙌
lol
WOW, JEANNIE NEVER FAILS TO LEAVE ME SPEECHLESS. SHE HAS SUCH AN AMAZING SOUL!
"C'mon Jeannie! You betta be an evangelist!" Ha right. She was doing some major preaching and she always is when it comes to deep topics.
I am proud of y'all for finally posting a segment instead of a micro clip.
amen to that✋
I quote Tamar " jeannie You better be an evangelist" 🙌
Yo!!! I cannot with Tamar lmbo!! She said, "Come on somebody! You betta be an evangelist!" That girl is hilarious!
Lately I've pray to always grow with a heart of understanding. What Jennie said, PA wow! "Real is never ugly to the people who understand you."
Not gonna lie this got me teary, Jeannie and Adrienne are so empowering can't wait to see the others. : )
Tamar said " c'mon somebody you better be an evangelist "
😭 I loved this segment.
"She was beat from birth. She makes me sick!" LOL!!!
I didn't know much of Jeanie before this show I am so glad she's on here! She always speaks with wisdom. She's a Capricorn too lol so that's even better :)
Alexis you never seen her TV show forgot the name but she was doing stuff in fashion and make overs..... look it up lol !!!!!
jeanie just needs to be a preacher, I would be at her services giving hella offerings
+Mic'a Sahara That is why she needs kids, my God she would give her children great enlightenment about life. She would be a wonderful parent.
What did adrienne mean when she got her teeth fixed.. her teeth look perfectly fine
carlytaco1 she chipped her two front Teeth when she was younger
:D When you are most vulnerable,
that is when you are most real.
And real is never ugly EXCEPT to people who don't accept you.
Allow yourself to become vulnerable,
take time to understand it,
Because the real you is NEVER ugly - Jeannie Mai to her younger self :D
id say ...listen to your mom and dad...they love you and knows best... and it doesnt matter if u have frends or not... uv got family and God and thats all that matters
Yass 😍😍
hell yes!!!!
soo true
not most parents.
well it is wat I would say to my younger self about my folks... however i understand not all parents
I love jeannie she my favorite at of all of them you better preach jeannie
I love Jeanie too but to be fair, she and Tamara are both my favs on the show. You can always count on Jeannie to be both funny and deep! Love her!
+Francine Morris I like how she can be deep without getting emotional like tamera all the time. Its nothing wrong with crying but sometimes everything doesnt need a flood of tears, its just overthetop with tamera sometimes but when tamera is just speaking without all the dramatic tears and being deep I enjoy that.
antincia foster mine too
This show is so special. It goes way beyond what you expect from these panel talk shows like the View or something. You can't find this type of genuine expression and authenticity anywhere else on tv right now.
I hate reading and hardly ever read even one book lol but if Jeannie would write a book I would totally read it. She has the most amazing messages that really stays with me. Jeannie write a book about life and such. :)
Whoo, this was an emotional segment. I would say to myself: even when you think you have it all figured out, you still won't. You'll make a lot of mistakes: forgive yourself. You'll have experiences that rock you to the core, don't let it make you bitter or cynical. You've done bad things but you're still a good person. Forgive yourself. Stop destroying what is left of your heart thinking about things that have broken you. You'll be ok, you'll be ok, you'll be ok...
You're comment really spoke to me! Thanks
Yes.... basically what I would say to myself
Wow Jeanine was so beautiful when she was young. I don't understand why she didn't like her picture.
Yeah. She looks better with black hair
+amysorel12 Yeah, I like her with black hair too. I dont know why any Asian would want dye their beautiful silky jet black hair, its too beautiful.
She said it wasn't really about looks for her more so about how she treated herself and the people she dated that made her feel ugly.
Aww Jeannie is soooo reaaaalll, this was a great segment
I can feel you Adrienne because if I will be given a chance to say something about my younger me, I would absolutely say sorry for all the bad things that I've done in my self before.
Jeanie just made me cry 😭 how relatable...
Oh I cried too!! Both Adrienne and Jeannie's stories 😭😭
Jeannie is so deep,, it takes a lot of courage to say u thought u were ugly and overcame that thought 💯
I can tell Tamara will cry even before I see her lol
I can't 😂
She didn't actually lol
Lolllll I said this 😂😂😂😂
What Jeannie said hit me. Jeannie always have the best advice. Just good things to say in general. She's the type of person you need in your life.
Wow Jeannie, that's deep.
i wish i had a friend like jeannie
I would tell my younger self to stop trying to please everyone and just be happy with yourself
+dj_oldskool same
The Velveteen Rabbit was one of my favourite childhood books, so massive respect to Jeannie for mentioning it. I love her unique message. :)
Adrienne's talk really hit home for me, I felt like I was hearing my future self talk to me now if that makes sense
I really love listening to what Jeannie has to say. Incredibly insightful and well-spoken. Love all the hosts, but you can really feel Jeannie's words and her passion when she shares stories of her life lessons, struggles and triumphs. Keep walking in your truth Jeannie, the real you is beautiful inside and out.
YASSS jeanie you always have something that moves me. Don't waste your gift, you better become an evangelist
Adrienne needs to tell herself NOT TO GET A BOOTY TATOO.
Fo real lol
"the real you is never ugly" thats beautiful
I really love this show , jeanie and Adrienne dropping knowledge
Jeannie has such a beautiful spirit and a dope personality.
Jeannie didn't change at all. Asians don't raisin !!
Olivia. they do tho
I was just like Adrienne. I didn't know how to say no to ppl. So I did things I didn't want to do. Now that I'm older ik how to say no when I don't wanna do something
THE REAL YOU IS NEVER UGLY 💙💙💙💙
Jeannie Mai! Thank you, for that Word, today! You preached girl! Loved every word because it is so true! Thanks, again my sister in Christ and you continue to be you! Beautiful & Wise
Damn Jeannie and Adrienne, back at it again with the giving me life, warming my heart and making me wish to be y'all. Y;all better preach that gospel
That it JEANNIE IS MY FAV!!! Pretty much every ep she brings me to tears!! she is soo inspiring and its funny because i wouldn't think i would connect with her the most but she is just an angel!!! my friend in my head for SURE!!
+BECOMING TIYE because she is so real. She reminds me of good friend of mind, she can be so extra sometimes like Jeanie but she fuckin real as u get and that is why I love her.
+BECOMING TIYE Always supporting her co-hosts, never shady. She's that chick.
Best clip ever so empowering .
I would tell my younger self "I Love You." Thank you ladies for sharing. :-)
Wow Jeanie, thank you so much for sharing that! The essence of your story was truly enlightening..When you began to conclude your story with ''I thought I was ugly, because I didn't understand myself'' was when I started to tear up, because I can relate to this all too well.I'm understanding more through experience that being disconnected to your true self, to your vulnerabilities and everything that makes you human can hurt you, and can hurt the people you love most.The real you is never ugly! and Jeanie you have a beautiful, bright light that permeates!....
also sometimes you preach so hard it sends me in my feels, spiraling into oblivion :D thought I came prepurd this time, ehuhu.
jeannie is beautiful inside and outside. a genuine person with good heart for people
Jeannie's spoke to me the most. I'm going through that phase now.
I love these ladies... I'm still trying to love myself. These ladies make me feel there is hope
You spoke to my soul
Thank you girls! I love what Adrienne said! You spoke to my soul!!!! I needed that!!!!!!! Thank you I could never thank you enough. I'm 24 and I'm going through that as we speak. I don't know who I am, where I am going, I am scared, but hopeful but I still feel fat and I'm 5'3 and am 118 pounds but I still don't feel skinny!!! 😕
As much as y'all don't want to believe it, Adrienne and Jeannie summed up my life in less than 6 minutes.
I really love Adrienne's response, how she didn't give a lie to back the smile we all would have mistaken for carefree happiness. There was a back story that not many would have known had she not elaborated on it, thank you for sharing 'cause there a lot of people hiding pain behind a smile, I feel moved to look deeper
I love jeannies young wisdom - she always has good stories 👏🏽👏🏽
I just adore Jeanie so much. I needed that so much! 💕😭🙌🏽✨. God bless her!
Jeannie always keeping it real
😂😂😂😂I love Tamar ..."c'mon girl you better be an evangelist 😂😂😂😂"
People always pick on Tamar but I LOOOOOVE her! There's nothing like too extra. I love how she talks. I think she is a good person at heart
I’d tell myself that I am worth it and I am smart and worthy of a bright future. To love myself deeply and forget men until I got myself together.
I'm a teen right now, pretty young one actually, and I am just like Adrienne when she was younger. Like now, I want to love myself at this age and not waste my youth because of my unhappiness due to a few things happening earlier in life and my anxiety that contributes to that. Hearing Adrienne's advice to herself really helps. Thanks chica ;)
I can relate so much to Adrienne 😪😁
"You probably weigh 3 pounds more than that picture" 😂♥️♥️♥️♥️❤️
I would tell my younger self you are beautiful, you are important, & don't seek validation from other people. What God has for you is for you, & there's no need for you to worry
I felt what Adrienne said so much 🥺I’m 16 and I’m so anxious. Everyday when I wake up all that’s on my mind is what will my future hold ? and will I be great? I overthink my future so much that it literally stresses me out. And I push myself in school more than I should.
I JUST WANT TO BE GREAT!
Jeannie been dropping that knowledge since the pilot season! Cmon Evangelist!
I'm this close on balling my eyes out...I love them so much
When Tamar said yes “You better be an evangelist “😭😂😭she is so funny man !
Adrienne is a true New Yorker when she said "Been like"
They've definitely discussed this topic before but wow I was really touched by Jeannie, so insightful and wise.
Adrienne and Jeannie, thank you. I needed this. I'm sorry for the younger ME. I'm sorry that I made you go through all those emotions and anxiety. Worrying about how you look in the mirror and wanting people to admire you. It's alright to be vulnerable. And being vulnerable is where you'll be able to let your light shine.
I would tell myself to do what makes me happy and follow my dreams without settling for anything less than what will make me happy. I also get what Adrienne said about saying no. Took me years to get to that point.
Jeannie made me cry
Adrienne saying thank God I got my teeth fixed. Girl ur teeth were perfect and bright white !!!! They didn't even need to be fixed !
Goodness me I love Jeannie Mai! She always speaks right to my spirit!!! Hallelujah, you better preach hunny!
I love it when Jeannie speaks!
i loved Jeanie's advice. I totally agree with her.