All mother's should teach their daughters these lessons. A lot of women just don't know better. And if you don't know better, you can't do better. Thank you for you time and help with this video!
I am totally unrespected. Feel like I'm walking on eggshells. Always being corrected even on how to properly put something in the trashcan! You are correct 100%.
We all respect our spouses…we just need to be careful of when we become impulsive or angry…or overwhelmed…etc… of what we say or don’t say out of anger.
This was immensely helpful to me. Growing up in a home that lacked these examples and instruction left me I’ll equipped. I’m sure it partly contributed to my marriage failing, and yet it’s such essential information for life. The women’s movement did not help in this regard. I was never a libber but the influence takes hold without proper guidance.
Thank you for this. I have a hard time understanding what respecting spouse means in this sense. I never considered that it's disrespectful to "correct" and "improve" him. Since we were dating, we've helped each other but we started young. And as we age I have to learn to let go more because he is super capable of doing what he needs to without needing me to remind him. I help him and he does need me as a wife but not as a mother. Love these topics and I'm learning so much 💕
Thank you so much for this. Especially the examples, they are very helpful. I've read and heard about being respectful and try as I might, I still offend him...often. Today I saw for the first time (in 30 years) how my desire to "do for him" was seen as controlling, and then I get my feelings hurt. I never asked him what he wanted. He shared that's all he asks is for me to ask him, rather then take it on myself to decide for him. Thank you so much. May God bless you.
I guess there's a difference when husband asks you for help with something or if you offer to help with something rather than telling him how it should be or that what he's doing could be this or that way.
This goes both ways... but i can see the way it affects men is more destructive to the marriage. I'm totally turned off by my wife. She wants affection and for me to be manly and sweep her off her feet. I thought I was just lazy but now I understand. My masculinity feels destroyed by her constant criticism. I've told her this many times that I feel overly criticised. It feels like it's none stop. I can't do anything right so now I don't bother. I don't take the initiative because it'll always be wrong. I WANT to feel the masculine urge to sweep her off her feet.i want to lead her.. but I can't do it. I just can't force it. I think it's gone too far now. I haven't even got enough initiative to end it. She can just live in misery with a shell of a men until she can't take it. Meanwhile I'll just keep working on myself and maybe one day someone will accept me how I am.
2 months of my wife treating me with disrespect and choosing partying over family has destroyed 18 years and our family unit. Her friends have done the same to their husbands. They egg each other on. Now acting as a victim with no accountability.
the Bible teaches that the husband is supposed to submit to his wife and obey her just as much as the woman should her husband. every teaching should be balanced and talk about responsibilities on both sides, otherwise it is harmful and deceptive
Good girl Although I will say respect is earned, not given. If your woman disrespects you it's your duty as a man to make her respect you. If she still won't, tell her to pound sand
The man is the driver, the woman is the passenger. But no matter how the man drives or what he drives, the woman will grab the wheel and crash the car. Doesn't matter what driving style he has. The man can drive the speed limit, have a full tank of gas, have a great car, drive in the safest possible way while obeying all laws, and she will take the wheel while screaming "I DON'T LIKE THE WAY YOU DRIVE!!" And destroy the vehicle. And then she will blame the man for all of it.
I've seen many men do these things you mention....it goes both ways.....too much emphasis on the woman to change something or be the effect somehow. But when I really think about this I realize ALL the men who I NEVER once acted the ways you mention is becus of him. The man leads, not the woman. Women respond largely to a man. Too many are always trying to change women how they act. He's the leader,let him lead and teach him how to treat women properly instead of blaming women all the time becus that's what is really going on
It's not just about women respecting men. Men must love women. But when you respect your husband, he will love you. And when he loves you, you will respect him. In marriage we are servants. We are serving each other. If both have selflessness in mind, to serve each other always as Christ did, that selfish attitude will start to diminish more and there will be more peace in Christ.
You refuse to accept your responsibility in relationships and that's why you don't get it your blaming others this will insure that you will never have the relationship you truly desire. Trust me I had to learn how to be the man my wife needed it's hard to swallow that pride but not doing it will destroy you. Humbling oneself actually inspires personal growth
Wives if ur husband is asking u to invest $300,000 on a wrong property. Yell n scream n correct him. Plz a man ego should not be on high pedestal. If man is making bigger mistakes speak up. I have seen many men's making stupid business decisions if u have expertise in business . Plz speak up nicely...if he does not listen yell at him to shake him that he is doing a blunder
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All mother's should teach their daughters these lessons. A lot of women just don't know better. And if you don't know better, you can't do better. Thank you for you time and help with this video!
I am totally unrespected. Feel like I'm walking on eggshells. Always being corrected even on how to properly put something in the trashcan! You are correct 100%.
He will give you the world when you respect him wisely 💯
That's very wise thinking. So many men suffer from their wife's disrespectful behaviour and yearning to be treated like you explained.
AS A 39 YR/O AFRICAN AMERICAN SINGLE & NEVER BEEN MARRIED WOMEN, THANK YOU FOR THIS!!! VERY WISE WOMAN!!!!❤❤
We all respect our spouses…we just need to be careful of when we become impulsive or angry…or overwhelmed…etc… of what we say or don’t say out of anger.
Disrespect destroys the treasure of marriage because it devalues the recipient.once you devalue someone you are no longer equal but unbalanced.
This was immensely helpful to me. Growing up in a home that lacked these examples and instruction left me I’ll equipped. I’m sure it partly contributed to my marriage failing, and yet it’s such essential information for life. The women’s movement did not help in this regard. I was never a libber but the influence takes hold without proper guidance.
“We will get there when we were meant to get there”…beautiful words
Wow. So many women need to hear this. You are the "Man Whisperer"
Thank you for this explanation. I know I have work to do ...its hard not to tell a man what to do...especially when you think it would benefit him.
It goes both ways...he need to respect u as well.
Thank you for this. I have a hard time understanding what respecting spouse means in this sense. I never considered that it's disrespectful to "correct" and "improve" him. Since we were dating, we've helped each other but we started young. And as we age I have to learn to let go more because he is super capable of doing what he needs to without needing me to remind him. I help him and he does need me as a wife but not as a mother. Love these topics and I'm learning so much 💕
Thank you so much for this. Especially the examples, they are very helpful. I've read and heard about being respectful and try as I might, I still offend him...often. Today I saw for the first time (in 30 years) how my desire to "do for him" was seen as controlling, and then I get my feelings hurt. I never asked him what he wanted. He shared that's all he asks is for me to ask him, rather then take it on myself to decide for him. Thank you so much. May God bless you.
"unintentionally" ? Are you kidding? The disrespectful behavior of most women is MOST CERTAINLY NOT " unintentionally done"....
Wise words.
Every woman that is interested in marriage needs to watch this. It's disheartening to see your husband acting man outside but resigned at home
This was very nicely done!
This is great. Thank you!
I deal with this so bad and can’t get my wife to understand
Thank you for this. I realize Ive been failing as a wife in these ways. I am going to change though. Thank you!
I showed my wife a couple of these Videos and all it did was piss her off and start an argument.
I guess there's a difference when husband asks you for help with something or if you offer to help with something rather than telling him how it should be or that what he's doing could be this or that way.
Im a Roommate, a Handyman, Plumber, Carpenter, Go For, and a chauffeur. Lover and companion were removed from the list.
Then why provide all those services? Remove them from the table and see how it works out.
This goes both ways... but i can see the way it affects men is more destructive to the marriage. I'm totally turned off by my wife. She wants affection and for me to be manly and sweep her off her feet. I thought I was just lazy but now I understand.
My masculinity feels destroyed by her constant criticism. I've told her this many times that I feel overly criticised. It feels like it's none stop. I can't do anything right so now I don't bother. I don't take the initiative because it'll always be wrong.
I WANT to feel the masculine urge to sweep her off her feet.i want to lead her.. but I can't do it. I just can't force it.
I think it's gone too far now. I haven't even got enough initiative to end it. She can just live in misery with a shell of a men until she can't take it. Meanwhile I'll just keep working on myself and maybe one day someone will accept me how I am.
U r already looking for a better option brother. Ur brain is already out of the marriage. Let her go and find someone too.
Treating a man's mom like shit; even ONCE, is a real relationship killer ladies. Wanna ruin your marriage?, disrespect his Mother.
Unintentionally? Right. Sure.
This is so powerfully Important
2 months of my wife treating me with disrespect and choosing partying over family has destroyed 18 years and our family unit. Her friends have done the same to their husbands. They egg each other on. Now acting as a victim with no accountability.
Accountability is kryptonite to women.
The most important thing for women in a relationship is love . For a man it’s respect.
I loooove this! ❤
the Bible teaches that the husband is supposed to submit to his wife and obey her just as much as the woman should her husband. every teaching should be balanced and talk about responsibilities on both sides, otherwise it is harmful and deceptive
My wife says she knows she's a bad wife and she doesn't seem to want to do anything different....lucky me
Wives are always on giving end
Powerful may God help us 🙏
Good girl
Although I will say respect is earned, not given. If your woman disrespects you it's your duty as a man to make her respect you. If she still won't, tell her to pound sand
And how do you go about “making “ her respect you.
So if I messed up so much already, how do I rectify it?
The man is the driver, the woman is the passenger. But no matter how the man drives or what he drives, the woman will grab the wheel and crash the car. Doesn't matter what driving style he has. The man can drive the speed limit, have a full tank of gas, have a great car, drive in the safest possible way while obeying all laws, and she will take the wheel while screaming "I DON'T LIKE THE WAY YOU DRIVE!!" And destroy the vehicle. And then she will blame the man for all of it.
Excellent teaching. Thank u for uploading this
thank you these woman must know what you so you will weep last days 7 woman 1 man punishment by god
I've seen many men do these things you mention....it goes both ways.....too much emphasis on the woman to change something or be the effect somehow. But when I really think about this I realize ALL the men who I NEVER once acted the ways you mention is becus of him. The man leads, not the woman. Women respond largely to a man. Too many are always trying to change women how they act. He's the leader,let him lead and teach him how to treat women properly instead of blaming women all the time becus that's what is really going on
It's not just about women respecting men. Men must love women. But when you respect your husband, he will love you. And when he loves you, you will respect him. In marriage we are servants. We are serving each other. If both have selflessness in mind, to serve each other always as Christ did, that selfish attitude will start to diminish more and there will be more peace in Christ.
You refuse to accept your responsibility in relationships and that's why you don't get it your blaming others this will insure that you will never have the relationship you truly desire.
Trust me I had to learn how to be the man my wife needed it's hard to swallow that pride but not doing it will destroy you. Humbling oneself actually inspires personal growth
@@Irishman9271 I wish all men reason like u thanks for understanding.
Wives if ur husband is asking u to invest $300,000 on a wrong property. Yell n scream n correct him. Plz a man ego should not be on high pedestal. If man is making bigger mistakes speak up. I have seen many men's making stupid business decisions if u have expertise in business . Plz speak up nicely...if he does not listen yell at him to shake him that he is doing a blunder
Ask u to invest $300000 ??? Are u high ???
Please seek therapy and father figure offline. 😭