I am dating myself and I love it. I am an introvert and if I have to wait for people to go out and enjoy life, i will end up spending my whole life waiting. Most of the things i like doing can be done alone anyways. Its fun to do it with people but its not things i cannot do alone. I am never at home. Always out enjoying life. Be it at concerts, adventure races, yoga class, travelling, museums, hiking, running errands etc. I just live....
@@kf4395 same! For me Traveling, chilling at home, and living life to the fullest do not require another person. Yes it would be nice but even if I am single my whole life, why should it be any less vibrant and joyful? Take advantage of not having so much responsibility while you can.
Sometimes I feel lazy and I don't make it effort to dress nice and that's when I see a nice person it's hard work to put in the effort to look great every single time we step out the house 🏡
@@HisaLight2mypath all you have to do is keep it simple but cute there's a few video's on how to do that like how to look polished even when going to the grocery store
When Tony described what a woman does after work and on the weekends and then he said “ well maybe he’s a ups delivery guy” I died lollll He described Me 100% I feel attacked 🤣🙄🙊🤦🏻♀️ I work from home and never leave this house ! On top of that I’m like the most introverted person. Goodness gracious! What am I doing?
$#@&*HEY, TONY..PULEASE do some videos for folks my age (45). Married 17 years; now divorced for 5. Idk who, how, when, where to find the one@#$/()!!!@
All jokes aside, this is a really good video! Tony, you may feel a little bit silly about the fact that you even have to speak on these kinds of topics at times, but you are helping more people than you know with these videos… myself included! I learned a lot from this one! Thank you 🙏🏾
Sis i be finding your comments under random faith based channels I watch. Every time I do I smile. ❤️ I cover the works of your hands with the blood of Jesus lovely! Amen 🙏🏾
I'm 20 minutes in. For the women living in fear, my advice to you is to take some self defense classes. When you know how to physically defend yourself you will feel protected everywhere you go🤗
Girl.... how's that gonna work against 2 guys with a gun. 1st guy is the driver, 2nd is the kidnapper. Yall are too naive. It's common for a woman to feel unsafe. These guys blaming women for feeling unsafe and gaslighting them to think theyre crazy when they themselves sit down right away as soon as they see a taller/stronger man. Also, the wouldn't call their daughters crazy at all. As a matter of fact, they'd be the overprotective ones. Men are hypocrites.
Same; and I love cafes! Need to find one near me and set a schedule. I used to go and be super focused on my work( job searching, projects) but maybe if you are just chilling you will look more approachable…
You've also got to be careful if going out with a friend with a Jezebel spirit. That will attract the wrong kind of energy/attention. And you've got my after work weekend schedule down to the T!!! Hahaha🤣🤣 I'll do better.
I feel like good guys have a routine and that’s usually going to consist of working out or maybe at a nice restaurant, church, etc. I’ve ran into some great men walking the trails at my local park and even on some of my solo dates to my favorite restaurant.BUT I definitely suggest staying away from the dating apps 😂
Exactly it's horrible yes some ppl have met their husbands off certain apps but some women really don't know how to use discernment and that could get them in bad trouble on dating apps
@@loismartin9634 not saying that you can’t meet a good guy off of a dating app however a lot of men on there (based on personal experience) have not always been who they say they are or they just want more of a casual hook up. You really have to sift through to find good ones...but that’s just my opinion and experience. I actually have a good friend who met her husband off of Tinder so it is very possible.
Me too!!!! Thats all I’ve been doing, along with Instagram reels .😂Men see us wherever we are anyway. Im not worried about it. Content and peaceful is more enticing right now. 🙌🙏🏻
You have to keep going out and not expecting to meet a man and don't look for him. I was going about my business when I met my boyfriend when his construction company that he works for was assigned to do a job at my place of employment. Before I met him was happy rather I met a man or not
Thats too many men in too little time lol. My daughter worked at the airport for years and she said it was stressful so she wasn’t thinking about any man at any point lol. 🤷🏻♀️
Omg so I went to panera to have lunch, I looked decent, but no makeup and cute sweats....and someone asked me for my number...Idk if anything will come of it but the point is I had someone approach me...All that to say Tony was right lol
Wow! This is me! Friday night (watching your videos) Saturday night (watching your videos) Sunday- online church and watching your videos! LOL! I'm going to create an outdoor schedule right now., lol.
I went to a fraternity's Conclave this past weekend. I have never been around that many single, successful black men before. There were some that were there who were married and wanted to "play", but of course I pay those types no mind. All I had to do was like cute and be approachable and I was approached. Very good conversations. I even learned more about stocks and investing from one man. And I have two dates next week 😋
Tony ain't lying tho... my brother(45) told me that I need to go & sit at the sports bar & buy myself a drink and an appetizer & watch the game & men will see me. Just sit & be pretty. Lol...its crazy & I never thought of that but he said sit at the BAR not a table. Its simple but true
My biggest takeaway from this vid is that I gotta position myself and create an outing schedule.👏🏾 Tony' example: *Friday night 6pm to 9pm: social event downtown *Saturday 7am to 9am: Gym 9am to noon: Starbucks Noon to 2 : lunch and walk in the mall *Sunday church Lunch at downtown area
Sitting on the bench “you gotchya lil cupcake”… omg 🤣 this video just made my day. Thank you Tony for reminding us that true honorable funny men still do exist and that positioning can put any dating app to shame. Truly helpful❤
I used to say that these men were scared to approach us until I made myself approachable. smile, be inviting, energy is everything. I've been tore up, running errands, but as long as I was inviting and smiling, men approached. The ones who approach you when you're unapproachable are usually the worst ones.
I went to a downtown concert and outdoor shopping/bars district by myself last weekend. I saw lots of nice looking men by themselves that I would have talked to. At one point I was sitting on an outdoor patio and 2 men also sitting there separately but by themselves that I gave eye contact to and neither said anything to me. The whole time I was out, there were so many men staring at me but not one even said hi. I know that I’m a nice looking women, but I don’t understand what I’m doing wrong that a man won’t even speak. Do they want to be pursued? At the end of the night a man did approach me and we had a nice conversation and he asked for my number. He is not even someone I would normally be interested in but I respect the fact that he approached me and showed interest. I’m confused and definitely not about to pursue a man. Are men that afraid to approach women? I’m tired of the dating scene and haven’t even started dating yet🙄
You sound like you was out there looking into peoples souls! Lol. Them men ain’t know what to think. Jk. But you see somebody came to talk! Keep going out!
@@TonyGaskins 😂. Just trying not to look standoffish and closed off. Not the creepy eye contact, the subtle type. I’ll keep trying! Thanks for blessing us TG! 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
I definitely can relate..the other weekend I went out alone and 1 guy did approach me..but it's so rare when it happens..I starting to think I'm hanging out in the wrong areas.
I hardly ever get approached my random men who are actually *decent* men while out and about. It is always at social events, Meetup’s, places where a group is already socializing with me, because then it is obviously easier for them. Not that it will not happen but this is just the trend I have seen.
I go out by myself all the time! It’s like quality time and a break from work! I am super approachable and just overall happy! I am waiting on God to make me aware of my husband/ send me my husband. I don’t see many God fearing men out. I do not date at all. 30, with no kids and all I get in the DMV area is the ghost affect, I am too different (not aggressive, mean, checking the phones, things I like to do etc.) I am a chef so I can cook my butt off and would love to have a family! I try to go out throughout the week to different places. I do not do clubs and lounges! Maybe I will run into him in the grocery store ( my second home)! Thank you Tony for your advise!
@@AllThingsTiffanyTV Yasss I can’t wait to move! I’m on the west coast not, far from LA. Possibly the worst area to be a single, young black female. But I hear Atlanta crazy too lol
The sad thing is that the girl that sat down at her table to eat may have been single, but Tony, at his table, was married. Single women have to not assume guys are single, when they could be married or in a relationship.
Dear Tony , thank you for this video . I am single and I have been dating myself for quite sometime . I do go out by myself to town areas or malls most of the time . But this video put into perspective things I have been doing wrong . I look dishelved when I go out and also unfortunately now I'm working and studying as well as battling with chronic illness so I know it's not time for me to find a husband . I trust Gods timing is the best for me .
Hi Tony I just started a new hobby roller skating thanks to my 12 year old daughter! I saw so many adults different races, men and women young and old! and it made feel like a kids again. Its so much fun!☺️
My problem is I feel out of place in malls and highly congested areas I feel like I’m under a microscope and I’m an ugly duckling... like no one would find me remotely attractive 😭😭😭 I need a therapist
I know this not where you wanted your life to come to 😂 but I’ll tell you some women are just in a really dark place & this is just a part of pulling them out. Including myself so thank you Tony
This guy is all the way funny!! I was a Lil depressed when I found this video but now I'm cracking up like I'm at a comedy show🤣 ...but he is so on point. But too too funny.!!
Tony you are so funny as do your antics and examples of women's responses. But I really appreciate and respect the info you share with us single women. For women in their 60's like me it is even harder to meet available, decent men. Thanks for caring & sharing your dating tips, and the reality of trying to date in this season. It's a lot of work. I sometimes want to give up but willing to get myself out there after I do some much needed "maintenance on self. God Bless You & Your family. And I just love how you love, respect & cherish your wife. You don't see that too much in your age group 😄
I go out by myself ALL the time! But I'm always in my head , with my to do list etc& very goals driven.I'm introverted , may have to try the laps, round the mall when I don't have a to do list.!!Sounds like a good social experiment.
Without make up, you can look fine too if you have taken good care of your skin and hair ! But yes outfit, even if casual, shouldn't be looking busted.
We also gotta be prepared that every situation just is not going to go our way. I gotta remember to keep my options OPEN & don’t put all my eggs in one basket. I can’t stop watching this videos I feel like I’m more prepared every day 🫶🏾
Every time I look disheveled that's when guys come up to me. I asked my guy friend why he said you look more down to earth and easy to talk to when you do. Plus what you find disheveled guys don't. They all say I am naturally beautiful. I don't wear makeup.
Tony.... Men won't approach me face to face anymore (20 years ago they did). They will approach me on a dating app. They ALL say they don't want to approach women live anymore... afraid of rejection as they note. Men at church have approached me... they think also I'm not single. Honestly, men have a ton of excuses for not approaching women. I'm a baby boomer and men my age have told me on a dating app that I'm young looking and they think I'm not really single. I don't understand why men seem to assume and not have the courage to approach women anymore as they did when 20 years ago. I always look presentable when I am out single, but sadly only the married men will approach. I think they approach as rejection does not bother them. NO, I don't and never have dated married men.
I’m so embarrassed because I literally work from home & go to church on Sunday & be expecting to meet my husband somehow😭😂😂😂😂 Thank you Tony cus I must’ve lost my mind
I ain’t laughed this much in a minute! 😅😆 ALSO: Imma need all of y’all in corporate to cut & send him ALL those checks. 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 ALSO: 🗣somebody send Tony his honorary doctorate 👨🏾🎓😩🙌🏽🙏🏽
Where that little bit of discoloration be. 😂😂😂 On a serious note, great advice! Look into the spiritual roots of yoga though. I would not recommend it.
I want to know why married men can see a single woman's value, and say "you're a good woman", but single men are clueless/ don't see a single woman's value/are blind.
because they are marriage minded and some single men don’t care for marriage no matter how good of a woman you are a man who does not want that doesn’t care
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Lol. Great advice. All I do is stay home. Work from home, Order everything online and have it delivered 😅 Oh Lord! I only go out occasionally. I should get out more at 37
I’m just going to head to Home Depot, Lowe’s, in my tony voice “ thank you Home Depot send me a check. Grab a candy 🍬 bar and walk around act like I’m looking at paint 🎨. Who knows 🤷🏾♀️what might happen.
@@overcomerbtboj you never know men will walk up to you and ask, so what are you trying to do with your house 🏠 what look are trying to going for . Then Boom 💥 there it’ is , heck you might find a handyman. Even if you have to buy the paint or chainsaw or whatever eat the candy bar and keep the receipt and take it back the next day .
" Don't be afraid to date yourself " TG. Being an introvert can be good thing.
True! I go out salsa dancing and I am always alone. Guys always notice this.
I am dating myself and I love it. I am an introvert and if I have to wait for people to go out and enjoy life, i will end up spending my whole life waiting. Most of the things i like doing can be done alone anyways. Its fun to do it with people but its not things i cannot do alone. I am never at home. Always out enjoying life. Be it at concerts, adventure races, yoga class, travelling, museums, hiking, running errands etc. I just live....
@@kf4395 same! For me Traveling, chilling at home, and living life to the fullest do not require another person. Yes it would be nice but even if I am single my whole life, why should it be any less vibrant and joyful? Take advantage of not having so much responsibility while you can.
@@kf4395 same here 😀
Amen!!! I'm doing it now and loving myself 😊 and traveling with myself!
That’s why you should always look presentable and be friendly. Anytime, anywhere you could meet Mr. Right.
Sometimes I feel lazy and I don't make it effort to dress nice and that's when I see a nice person it's hard work to put in the effort to look great every single time we step out the house 🏡
@@HisaLight2mypath all you have to do is keep it simple but cute there's a few video's on how to do that like how to look polished even when going to the grocery store
Great comment!
Stop watching them "news" !!
Stop falling asleep to Lifetime!!!
Scurred frfr SMH
This true
When Tony described what a woman does after work and on the weekends and then he said “ well maybe he’s a ups delivery guy” I died lollll He described Me 100% I feel attacked 🤣🙄🙊🤦🏻♀️ I work from home and never leave this house ! On top of that I’m like the most introverted person. Goodness gracious! What am I doing?
You should try meetup groups at least!
As an older woman (45) I feel the "downtown area" is NOT the scene for people my age. It's all college kids.
$#@&*HEY, TONY..PULEASE do some videos for folks my age (45). Married 17 years; now divorced for 5. Idk who, how, when, where to find the one@#$/()!!!@
Theee most introverted 🙋🏾♀️ 💯 😭
Me too I work from home. When I worked for the hospital men would approach all the time but I wasn’t ready but now that I’m open I just sit at home 😒😂
I know Tony is trying to help us, but his acting cracks me up! 🤣🤣🤣
Mad funny
Huhlarious!!!🤣🤣🤣
Yes lmaooo
The acting is spot on.
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Right😂🤣! Tony got Game in this video😉!!
Where are the men who say "hi my name is so and so, you are beautiful may have a moment of your time"... it's literally that easy.
Aww right? A young drive-through guy told me my eyes were beautiful while I was pulling through Taco Bell. Made me feel so good!
@@jenniferthompson5146 I can so relate. If only they knew.
@@jenniferthompson5146 very
Lol on the contrary, I feel like that is the dumbest question ever. They already have the moment if I stopped to listen 🤌🏾🤦🏾♀️
It's coz Y'all don't position well yourself.just
do what Tony says and watch the fireworks!
Pro tip: Get OUT of the house!!
I'm an introverted and quiet guy, and that would be the perfect setup for me at the mall. I'm not afraid to strike up a convo in the right setting.
I so agree. It just has to be the right time and place! 🌻
If you’re one of the good guys Tony speaks of, good to see a guy chiming in and co-signing his teaching tonight.
That’s right!!!!
I say go for it!!! Just AlwayS be alert....and mindful..but Yeah..GO FOR IT 💯
I agree with Jacqueline 😉 shoot your shot!!
All jokes aside, this is a really good video! Tony, you may feel a little bit silly about the fact that you even have to speak on these kinds of topics at times, but you are helping more people than you know with these videos… myself included! I learned a lot from this one! Thank you 🙏🏾
Ok ok lol....why i feel thi man talking bout me
Ditto!!!
“If you scary you need to pray” pahaha 😂😂😂😂
Hey Breeny happy to see you here ❤
Sis i be finding your comments under random faith based channels I watch. Every time I do I smile. ❤️ I cover the works of your hands with the blood of Jesus lovely! Amen 🙏🏾
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"I'm afraid to go out by myself, then you are afraid to date." TG
Facts
People like me,,,afraid to go out alone
I'm 20 minutes in.
For the women living in fear, my advice to you is to take some self defense classes. When you know how to physically defend yourself you will feel protected everywhere you go🤗
Thanks
I got the blicky lol
@@danypooh1617 send me one
No woman can take a guy, no matter how many self-defense classes she has take.
Girl.... how's that gonna work against 2 guys with a gun.
1st guy is the driver, 2nd is the kidnapper. Yall are too naive.
It's common for a woman to feel unsafe. These guys blaming women for feeling unsafe and gaslighting them to think theyre crazy when they themselves sit down right away as soon as they see a taller/stronger man.
Also, the wouldn't call their daughters crazy at all. As a matter of fact, they'd be the overprotective ones. Men are hypocrites.
I think I must be going to the wrong Starbucks 🤣
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I heard that Lady!!!! Me too
Me too! 😄
My problem is I always go to the drive thru. I don't want to go in.😩😩🤦♀️
Same; and I love cafes! Need to find one near me and set a schedule. I used to go and be super focused on my work( job searching, projects) but maybe if you are just chilling you will look more approachable…
You've also got to be careful if going out with a friend with a Jezebel spirit. That will attract the wrong kind of energy/attention. And you've got my after work weekend schedule down to the T!!! Hahaha🤣🤣 I'll do better.
@@LA-wv7gf yes!!!!!!! I think we all know someone like that. I be like that's them, that's not me. Lol. I don't want to have to explain.
Tony and his impressions of women is Hilarious!!! The discoloration of the butt cheeks took me out😂😂😂😂
I feel like good guys have a routine and that’s usually going to consist of working out or maybe at a nice restaurant, church, etc. I’ve ran into some great men walking the trails at my local park and even on some of my solo dates to my favorite restaurant.BUT I definitely suggest staying away from the dating apps 😂
Exactly it's horrible yes some ppl have met their husbands off certain apps but some women really don't know how to use discernment and that could get them in bad trouble on dating apps
@@PassportBrosAndBlondeManWeaves that part lol
So what's wrong with dating apps?
@@loismartin9634 not saying that you can’t meet a good guy off of a dating app however a lot of men on there (based on personal experience) have not always been who they say they are or they just want more of a casual hook up. You really have to sift through to find good ones...but that’s just my opinion and experience. I actually have a good friend who met her husband off of Tinder so it is very possible.
@@missjadabeta I feel you. And yes, we do have to be very careful but that's with dating period in today's world. Have a blessed evening sis 😄
At this point I'm much more content sitting at home watching Tony's videos than actually going out on a date!
Me too!!!! Thats all I’ve been doing, along with Instagram reels .😂Men see us wherever we are anyway. Im not worried about it. Content and peaceful is more enticing right now. 🙌🙏🏻
Now don’t get me wrong. I like Tony and all but I don’t mind going on a date with a normal man.
I feel u 😁
So, Tony was talking about y’all staying home watching his videos? 🤣🤣🤣
9:24 -9:35 TONY!! 🗣The shade lol!! That darn butt discoloration is a struggle though 😪😂
Lol shoot!!!! Shot aha
Ok. That made me mad like why are you looking so hard bruh 🤨
ikr!
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Thank you Tony Gaskin for posting consistently and providing this God given content for free. You’re saving so many women. Thank you! 🙌🏾
He & his wife are great blessings to us today 🙏 very much needed as God long sense knew we wanted & needed now!!!
This is another sign that I need to go out and be seen.
Same..😏
Looking all dehydrated, not thirsty 😂🤣
A little parched there huh? Lol funny
😂😂🤣🤣🤣
I was dying 😂😂 he really is so funny
🤣I had to comment again...I laughed so much in this video
We are in the same boat Ashleen… I thought I was tripping
That means you have a good sense of humor! Bless y’all!
He is too dang funny! 😅🤣
Guys have always called me cute instead of hot.. I use to think it was a bad thing.. But now I'm content with that 😊
Cute means your face is more child like it's not a downgrade by any means
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"...did we call you?..." 😂😂😂 I had a friend like that, till I realized she was toxic.
That part was so funny!
Yup! Sounds like a joke but it’s an actual anecdote! 🙄🤦🏻♀️
Lol. Read this as he said it🤣🤣🤣
You have to keep going out and not expecting to meet a man and don't look for him. I was going about my business when I met my boyfriend when his construction company that he works for was assigned to do a job at my place of employment. Before I met him was happy rather I met a man or not
Exactly people are so caught up with the idea and stressing themselves out. Enjoy life as you go
Comfortable
Cute &
Classy
I'll keep that in mind, before stepping out the door.
The men can be found at Home depot. I promise you there was a parade of all shapes colors and sizes. I was like 🌞🌞🌞
I use to work there hated the company that's another story but my male customer's were fine with good careers lol
lol
Good to know, new Friday plans lol
It’s the orthopedic shoe leaning to the side for me 😂
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Ikr 🤣🤣🤣 Bro Tony is to funny
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"You're a diamond but you keep wearing that brown bag outfit." 🤣🤣🤣
Tony, can you ask your wife to do 1 or 2 sample outfits for a couple different age groups. Please, lol. Just a thought.
Yaaas!
I done dropped my phone laughing at you Tony 🤣 Got me cackling at midnight
Truth!!!
I know right
I work at the airport and meet men every 10 minutes. Tony just help A sista out 😂😂 start Christian matchmaking
Thats too many men in too little time lol. My daughter worked at the airport for years and she said it was stressful so she wasn’t thinking about any man at any point lol. 🤷🏻♀️
I work at the airport and only CBP officers approach me and all of them show red flags at first conversation
Yeeees, this would be awesome.
Omg so I went to panera to have lunch, I looked decent, but no makeup and cute sweats....and someone asked me for my number...Idk if anything will come of it but the point is I had someone approach me...All that to say Tony was right lol
Home Depot
Carwash
Gas station ⛽
Grocery store
Gym
💯🙏 Bless everyone
Home Depot and grocery store AMEN! Never too dolled up for these places
The car wash! Yes! 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
Wow! This is me! Friday night (watching your videos) Saturday night (watching your videos) Sunday- online church and watching your videos! LOL! I'm going to create an outdoor schedule right now., lol.
I went to a fraternity's Conclave this past weekend. I have never been around that many single, successful black men before. There were some that were there who were married and wanted to "play", but of course I pay those types no mind. All I had to do was like cute and be approachable and I was approached. Very good conversations. I even learned more about stocks and investing from one man. And I have two dates next week 😋
Yas girl
👍🏽
Rock that sis & be blessed!!!!
Give us an update!
10months later here, Update plsssss💜💜
Tony ain't lying tho... my brother(45) told me that I need to go & sit at the sports bar & buy myself a drink and an appetizer & watch the game & men will see me. Just sit & be pretty. Lol...its crazy & I never thought of that but he said sit at the BAR not a table. Its simple but true
My biggest takeaway from this vid is that I gotta position myself and create an outing schedule.👏🏾 Tony' example:
*Friday night
6pm to 9pm: social event downtown
*Saturday
7am to 9am: Gym
9am to noon: Starbucks
Noon to 2 : lunch and walk in the mall
*Sunday
church
Lunch at downtown area
True. I need to leave the house unless I want to date the UPS man
🤣🤣😂 Leave the orthopedic shoes at home.
then I can't walk and lose weight;)
Send him a check Starbucks!!!!
Sitting on the bench “you gotchya lil cupcake”… omg 🤣 this video just made my day. Thank you Tony for reminding us that true honorable funny men still do exist and that positioning can put any dating app to shame. Truly helpful❤
“I did not want my life to come to this”. Lol 😂
I fully understand... I've always had so many men after me. I don't even know what happened now. Lol
This video literally just made me realize how much I stay at home.
We have a christian cafe here in my town so guess what I'm doing every Friday! okay now I'm excited LOL
I used to say that these men were scared to approach us until I made myself approachable. smile, be inviting, energy is everything.
I've been tore up, running errands, but as long as I was inviting and smiling, men approached. The ones who approach you when you're unapproachable are usually the worst ones.
I could seriously listen to Tony all day, even if it’s been said before. He’s truly heaven sent🙏🙏
I went to a downtown concert and outdoor shopping/bars district by myself last weekend. I saw lots of nice looking men by themselves that I would have talked to. At one point I was sitting on an outdoor patio and 2 men also sitting there separately but by themselves that I gave eye contact to and neither said anything to me. The whole time I was out, there were so many men staring at me but not one even said hi. I know that I’m a nice looking women, but I don’t understand what I’m doing wrong that a man won’t even speak. Do they want to be pursued? At the end of the night a man did approach me and we had a nice conversation and he asked for my number. He is not even someone I would normally be interested in but I respect the fact that he approached me and showed interest. I’m confused and definitely not about to pursue a man. Are men that afraid to approach women? I’m tired of the dating scene and haven’t even started dating yet🙄
You sound like you was out there looking into peoples souls! Lol. Them men ain’t know what to think. Jk. But you see somebody came to talk! Keep going out!
@@TonyGaskins 😂. Just trying not to look standoffish and closed off. Not the creepy eye contact, the subtle type. I’ll keep trying! Thanks for blessing us TG! 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
I definitely can relate..the other weekend I went out alone and 1 guy did approach me..but it's so rare when it happens..I starting to think I'm hanging out in the wrong areas.
@@Shayvideos1 I don’t get it. 🤦🏽♀️
I hardly ever get approached my random men who are actually *decent* men while out and about. It is always at social events, Meetup’s, places where a group is already socializing with me, because then it is obviously easier for them. Not that it will not happen but this is just the trend I have seen.
I go out by myself all the time! It’s like quality time and a break from work! I am super approachable and just overall happy! I am waiting on God to make me aware of my husband/ send me my husband. I don’t see many God fearing men out. I do not date at all. 30, with no kids and all I get in the DMV area is the ghost affect, I am too different (not aggressive, mean, checking the phones, things I like to do etc.) I am a chef so I can cook my butt off and would love to have a family! I try to go out throughout the week to different places. I do not do clubs and lounges! Maybe I will run into him in the grocery store ( my second home)! Thank you Tony for your advise!
Omg there’s zero men I’m interested in in my area. And I was out and about before covid! Giving up on men here lol I’m moving out of state.
I want to move out of Atlanta so bad
@@AllThingsTiffanyTV Yasss I can’t wait to move! I’m on the west coast not, far from LA. Possibly the worst area to be a single, young black female. But I hear Atlanta crazy too lol
@@1novabella I'm thinking that too, girl. I live near LA too and this is not an area made for a single, available Black woman!
"Like a little Yorkie" 🤣you are such a comedian I could not stop laughing this whole video (A++ advice btw)
The sad thing is that the girl that sat down at her table to eat may have been single, but Tony, at his table, was married. Single women have to not assume guys are single, when they could be married or in a relationship.
Tony you are hilarious!
Ingrid said it best!!! I’m rolling 😂🤣
Without even trying 😭😭😭😭😂😂😂
Dear Tony , thank you for this video . I am single and I have been dating myself for quite sometime . I do go out by myself to town areas or malls most of the time . But this video put into perspective things I have been doing wrong . I look dishelved when I go out and also unfortunately now I'm working and studying as well as battling with chronic illness so I know it's not time for me to find a husband . I trust Gods timing is the best for me .
The lifetime, pink key chain with the pepper spray that’s so me, jokes have me rolling 😂. Mr/Mrs Gaskins at my wedding 🥳🍾
Why you don't do a match making show again frfr. Or start a dating series
Girl can we pre sign up like… lol
I wouldn’t take a home girl. If he approaches you or her and you both find him attractive it could be a whole problem. 😂
“If you scary. You need to pray.”
Ha ha 😆 🤣
Starbucks, need to send you that check.
Hi Tony I just started a new hobby roller skating thanks to my 12 year old daughter! I saw so many adults different races, men and women young and old! and it made feel like a kids again. Its so much fun!☺️
My problem is I feel out of place in malls and highly congested areas I feel like I’m under a microscope and I’m an ugly duckling... like no one would find me remotely attractive 😭😭😭 I need a therapist
The more you go out, the more comfortable & less self-conscious you’ll be. Keep going! 💕
Understanding the battle is half the process of winning ... think of the nicest parks, lakes, and waterfronts and enjoy yourself there...
@@hymnodyhands parks and waterfronts good start. I’ll challenge myself to have a coffee date by myself
It’s sad when you are sitting in a room full of people and they are all busy scrolling through their phones.
I know this not where you wanted your life to come to 😂 but I’ll tell you some women are just in a really dark place & this is just a part of pulling them out. Including myself so thank you Tony
This guy is all the way funny!! I was a Lil depressed when I found this video but now I'm cracking up like I'm at a comedy show🤣 ...but he is so on point. But too too funny.!!
“This a WHOLE dissertation nih…somebody gimme a doctorate…” 😆😂🤣…gotta love TG…LOL.
I think this video is to find white collar men. Tony can you please make a video on where to meet blue collar men.That’s my preference.
Tony you are so funny as do your antics and examples of women's responses. But I really appreciate and respect the info you share with us single women. For women in their 60's like me it is even harder to meet available, decent men. Thanks for caring & sharing your dating tips, and the reality of trying to date in this season. It's a lot of work. I sometimes want to give up but willing to get myself out there after I do some much needed "maintenance on self. God Bless You & Your family. And I just love how you love, respect & cherish your wife. You don't see that too much in your age group 😄
I go out by myself ALL the time! But I'm always in my head , with my to do list etc& very goals driven.I'm introverted , may have to try the laps, round the mall when I don't have a to do list.!!Sounds like a good social experiment.
Not Tony imitating the woman reacting to the man in the parking cause she falling asleep to Lifetime movies 😂😂😂
“To where dat little bit of discoloration be..” I just hollered!!! 🤣🤣🤣
Without make up, you can look fine too if you have taken good care of your skin and hair ! But yes outfit, even if casual, shouldn't be looking busted.
We also gotta be prepared that every situation just is not going to go our way. I gotta remember to keep my options OPEN & don’t put all my eggs in one basket. I can’t stop watching this videos I feel like I’m more prepared every day 🫶🏾
Not a “friend that act like a guard dog” 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Every time I look disheveled that's when guys come up to me. I asked my guy friend why he said you look more down to earth and easy to talk to when you do. Plus what you find disheveled guys don't. They all say I am naturally beautiful. I don't wear makeup.
This man has me cracking up all the time. I swear I tune in for the comedy.
This was hilarious!!! Tony said "He didn't want his life to come to this" to have to answer this question!!!
I will be going to Starbucks every day.
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I need to start then sheesh!
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Please update us!
Y’all a mess 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Tony.... Men won't approach me face to face anymore (20 years ago they did). They will approach me on a dating app. They ALL say they don't want to approach women live anymore... afraid of rejection as they note. Men at church have approached me... they think also I'm not single. Honestly, men have a ton of excuses for not approaching women. I'm a baby boomer and men my age have told me on a dating app that I'm young looking and they think I'm not really single. I don't understand why men seem to assume and not have the courage to approach women anymore as they did when 20 years ago. I always look presentable when I am out single, but sadly only the married men will approach. I think they approach as rejection does not bother them. NO, I don't and never have dated married men.
🤣🤣😂😂 Not the fillers and the bootey cheeks 🤣😂 I’m laughing so much. The advice sounds pretty common sense to me. Maybe I’m old school, that’s why. 😊
Don't know where to start brother Tony you have me cracking up 😁😁😁🤣 your talking facts tho
Gotta hate this ghosting culture smh!!
‘You a diamond now, but you keep putting on that brown bag outfit!’ 🤣🤣😂 You are too much Tony!! So real! 👏🏽
I’m so embarrassed because I literally work from home & go to church on Sunday & be expecting to meet my husband somehow😭😂😂😂😂 Thank you Tony cus I must’ve lost my mind
Almost every video you crack me up, I know ya wife be weak at you lmaoooo omg 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Yeah..U right Tony G. about doing your "own stuff"....
But that "security guard" tho 🤓🤓....🤣😩🤭🤣🤭🤣🤣🤭🤣🤭🤣🤭🤣🤭🤣🤭
Tony is always right on time
What about making a video about where men can find a good women?
Tony what if he is a good guy but his family is jealous or toxic. Like Meghan Markle situation?
“Why you got that creepy lil van??” 😂 😵
🤣🤣🤣😂 “If you scary then you need to pray.” 🤣 “Single as a $1 bill!” 🙈Laughed way too hard the entire video! 😂 this is too much lol
Not the bump in the hair...🤣 Don't look like BAPS, Cinderella, Easter, or Mary Etta...
I agree Tony. Your shoe game got to be on point.
The shoes are important. They make or break an outfit
I ain’t laughed this much in a minute! 😅😆 ALSO: Imma need all of y’all in corporate to cut & send him ALL those checks. 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 ALSO: 🗣somebody send Tony his honorary doctorate 👨🏾🎓😩🙌🏽🙏🏽
Specifically...somebody at the School House needs to send it 😂😂😂😂😂😂
@@TBear02 😂😅
Where that little bit of discoloration be. 😂😂😂
On a serious note, great advice! Look into the spiritual roots of yoga though. I would not recommend it.
Can’t live scared, real talk. Just have pepper spray and live😊 your face when impersonating women is hilarious 😆
Hello Mr. Tony!! I enjoy watching your videos and I appreciate all the advice you share!! Thank you ☺️
I want to know why married men can see a single woman's value, and say "you're a good woman", but single men are clueless/ don't see a single woman's value/are blind.
Exactly
Right
That's how they got married in the first place, they knew how to value a woman lol
@@cringeproof100 👏👏👏
because they are marriage minded and some single men don’t care for marriage no matter how good of a woman you are a man who does not want that doesn’t care
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I’m convinced my husband is in the US. Just need Biden to open the borders 🙈
Lol
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The borders wide open right now hunny just come in through Mexico they will welcome you right in , no questions asked
He’s not here Sis! Trust me! I’m just kidding! (Kinda)
Lol. Great advice. All I do is stay home. Work from home, Order everything online and have it delivered 😅 Oh Lord! I only go out occasionally. I should get out more at 37
dating myself today!! im going to sit right in the food court and just observe with my cinnebon 😄
I'm coming to shoot my shot. Just tell what you will be having on!
I’m just going to head to Home Depot, Lowe’s, in my tony voice “ thank you Home Depot send me a check. Grab a candy 🍬 bar and walk around act like I’m looking at paint 🎨. Who knows 🤷🏾♀️what might happen.
“Act like i’m looking at paint” 🤣😂🤣- seriously though i do need to get out and may try that too
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@@overcomerbtboj you never know men will walk up to you and ask, so what are you trying to do with your house 🏠 what look are trying to going for . Then Boom 💥 there it’ is , heck you might find a handyman. Even if you have to buy the paint or chainsaw or whatever eat the candy bar and keep the receipt and take it back the next day .
Lol… I met someone from Home Depot, but it didn’t work out. He was looking for a hookup. But there’s a lot of men in there.
Exactly!!!