LONG DISTANCE DATING TIPS *CROSS COUNTRY*// OUR LOVE STORY PART 4

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  • Опубликовано: 27 авг 2024
  • Sharing our experience with dating long distance and when / why I decided to move across the country to California to be with him! Hope you enjoy :)
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Комментарии • 157

  • @Marie_Garwood
    @Marie_Garwood 4 года назад +230

    Also, I want to hear the story about where Tori tried to kiss Chad and he said no! You hyped it up in previous videos...don’t leave us hanging! 😂

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  4 года назад +39

      that will be in the engagement video hehe

    • @NyabyizaJudith
      @NyabyizaJudith 4 года назад +2

      Yas😂

    • @Catch-qn3xh
      @Catch-qn3xh 2 года назад

      FR? lol Oh my. I'd die if a guy did that to me! lol (Yes, I'm pretty late to the party! :p )

  • @alishaelizabeth1042
    @alishaelizabeth1042 4 года назад +248

    You guys should do a video with Jess and Gabriel Conte!

  • @Marie_Garwood
    @Marie_Garwood 4 года назад +88

    “My baby’s love language is touch, and I’m very blessed by that now.”
    Seriously, so cute! 😍 Also, love the boundary about not talking business after a certain hour!

    • @siennaw6255
      @siennaw6255 3 года назад +1

      Yes! Please talk about love languages, it's so fascinating!!!

  • @suziedeschene5069
    @suziedeschene5069 4 года назад +90

    Never felt so single while watching this video
    the snuggles are everything. Love you guys

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  4 года назад +4

      Suzie Taboh haha awe!!! Have you watching my singleness series videos??

    • @suziedeschene5069
      @suziedeschene5069 4 года назад +4

      Omg yessssss I have what else would I be doing with my life. It’s so rich, so packed with wisdom. Thanks so much Girl God bless

  • @autumnrose8091
    @autumnrose8091 4 года назад +80

    Questions for Q&R! :
    -what were the boundaries in your relationship?
    - when did you say your first i love you
    -how did you know you were in love
    - how did Tori know Chad was the one
    - describe your first kiss
    - did you feel an immediate connection when you first met/ a sign from God that this was 'the one'
    excited for the next video! keep em coming! xx

  • @hiscanvasofgrace3391
    @hiscanvasofgrace3391 4 года назад +54

    Long distance forces you to develop strong communication= key to healthy relationship and marriage!❤️ great advice and insights here

  • @ninigola4
    @ninigola4 4 года назад +34

    Weirdly, before marriage I was a physical touch love language gal, but now I’m quality time! Weird how it changes. Love you guys and your heart for God. Thanks for being a great example!

  • @graceobeng4240
    @graceobeng4240 4 года назад +60

    You guys remind me of Kristin and Marcus! Hope y'all do a video together in the near future.

  • @tabilo2501
    @tabilo2501 4 года назад +20

    My husband I were long distance as well. And both our love languages are touch! Love hearing someone else talk about it! also it really is amazing to experience how much your friendship can grow within a relationship when you’re dating long distance. Thanks for this vid :)

  • @aminaaden5046
    @aminaaden5046 4 года назад +23

    I'm Muslim girl who love to listen to your love story.

  • @good03boy
    @good03boy 4 года назад +16

    Love hearing about y'all love story. A lot of couples rush into a relationship without seeing if they're a perfect match. But you and Chad took y'alls time and it worked out.

  • @erynfaith3869
    @erynfaith3869 4 года назад +14

    My love language is touch with quality time in a close second!

  • @victoriachiliy2436
    @victoriachiliy2436 4 года назад +3

    I never make comments on RUclips! But...
    I think you two are like seriously my favorite couple I have come across and I had to post!! There is soo many channels on RUclips now of couples sharing their stories and being ”influencers.” However, you both have such a uniqueness about you that completely stands out from everyone else!
    I just wanted to encourage you both to continue sharing your videos and love with the world! You are both such a delight to watch and listen to! ❤️

  • @christianmamadiaries452
    @christianmamadiaries452 4 года назад +12

    My love language is definitely acts of service! Especially as a busy mom of 3- whenever my husband helps out around the house I’m so grateful!! You guys should talk about your enneagram numbers too!

  • @sydneyysull
    @sydneyysull 4 года назад +4

    "if I didnt move, I knew I would be disobedient" that has been me when God asked me to move to California to Arizona. That was super hard to move, I am grateful that I did. Because at that time I knew I had to take care of a few things. I'm glad to say that I am doing that. It has not been easy but growth and healing never is, its progress:))

  • @rohneshamhorne
    @rohneshamhorne 5 месяцев назад

    After following you guys for 4 years, it's so much fun going back to see you when you first started. Look how playful you are, I love your love. Your friend, Roh 💛

  • @ivyhines2646
    @ivyhines2646 4 года назад +5

    My love language is quality time with a close second of physical touch. Would love to see a video about that!

  • @vortex719
    @vortex719 4 года назад +3

    Chad you are my hero! Perseverance is all 💪💪💪

  • @o.r.avlogs
    @o.r.avlogs 4 года назад +2

    Quality time and Words of affirmation (mainly). Kinds words can change my whole day😊😊

  • @commonsense6794
    @commonsense6794 4 года назад +1

    In every video he says "I do that all the time" but he never stops doing that!! Whatever "that" is!! God Bless!!

  • @goodnessifebigh4080
    @goodnessifebigh4080 3 года назад +6

    Chad’s thumbnail picture reminds me of the coughing cat meme😂

  • @gretaspringer620
    @gretaspringer620 4 года назад +8

    I Can’t wait till part 5!! I could probably think of question for you guys if u end up doing a Q&R ;) (which would be awesome!) ok I thought of one/two, here is my question(s): What was your guys first impression of each other?? Or: What do u like the most about each other’s personality?😄🤔

  • @syssysmile
    @syssysmile 4 года назад +7

    I found this channel by chance and now I have seen these series and I love you guys because you are so sweet💛
    Now I'll start following you here and on Instagram

  • @leslie117777777
    @leslie117777777 4 года назад +2

    Omg I love y’all! Y’all are literally hilarious and both obviously have such beautiful relationships with Jesus and I love that Y’all share y’all’s honest and raw experiences! Y’all’s love is so beautiful! 💗☺️

  • @lurensbatin169
    @lurensbatin169 4 года назад +3

    Some perks of having accountability. Sometimes God is really speaking through them 💛
    Yes to love languages vid, Tori! 💓

  • @ananyasharma1302
    @ananyasharma1302 4 года назад +5

    for Q 'n' R - how do you guys get through the moments, when one of you is feeling low ??
    also, thank you so much for sharing this amazziingg video ❤🌟

  • @pascalewidmer9683
    @pascalewidmer9683 4 года назад +6

    My first love language is words of affirmation and second physical touch! Feel you!😂💓

  • @Emery3511
    @Emery3511 3 года назад +3

    Ok, I've been watching y'all videos for at least over a year now. For some reason I never saw these love story ones. Now I feel like we're so much a like, my husband and I also did long distance. We also were friends for years first. We also moved to FL recently lol. I also JUST bought that magnolia spray TODAY. I'm laughing.

  • @andreaichavez
    @andreaichavez 4 года назад +8

    Please do the love language video!!! Mine´s also physical touch. :)

  • @abbyfwenzel
    @abbyfwenzel 4 года назад +2

    Physical touch babay! I agree it's so hard for me to hold myself back from my bf but definitely worth the wait

  • @sweetsavory4172
    @sweetsavory4172 3 года назад +1

    I'm so at peace watching this ❤

  • @meganhorton6638
    @meganhorton6638 4 года назад +1

    Girl long distance can be hard. I've been in one for almost two years. Your guy's story is so cute.

  • @jess1ic5a
    @jess1ic5a 4 года назад

    Quality time is my top love language! It's funny because physical touch is the lowest of lows with me and I think it's just a testament to the uniqueness of us as individuals and the creativity of God.
    Also, just found your channel and can't stop watching! Keep shining for Christ

  • @catelyngonzales6421
    @catelyngonzales6421 2 года назад

    My love language is 1. Words of affirmation
    2. Physical Touch 3. Quality Time 4. Gifts of Service 5. Gifts. I hated saying goodbye to my husband who was my boyfriend at times. We saw each other everyday but it was still hard and I cried every time.

  • @JMKrech
    @JMKrech 3 года назад +1

    Loved this series! God bless y’all!

  • @AndreaFalet
    @AndreaFalet 4 года назад +1

    my fiancé and I a month into dating did long distance and even now he lives an hour and a half away so we are doing a long distance engagement. you guys remind me so much of us😭

  • @sarahmorthorst8957
    @sarahmorthorst8957 4 года назад +1

    Thank you for telling your story. I can see myself and my story in so much of it, and its so inspiring. Keep up what you're doing.

  • @royanreimer9652
    @royanreimer9652 3 года назад

    My love language is quality time! I loved reading the books! Both marriage and singles edition! Totally changed how I live my life with the people around me

  • @claubit32
    @claubit32 3 года назад +3

    Chelsea seems really great! It’s amazing to see a cool young lady, on fire for The Lord!✝️❤️

  • @nataliemontes1666
    @nataliemontes1666 4 года назад +3

    U guys are the best i love your vids iv been waching them

  • @travlizadventures4754
    @travlizadventures4754 4 года назад

    Thanks so much for sharing. Gives me hope as I have been on a LDR for 2 months.

  • @meganwhite2142
    @meganwhite2142 4 года назад +4

    Oh my lanta I love you two ❤️

  • @emmajaneclayton3538
    @emmajaneclayton3538 4 года назад

    My love language is words of affirmation! You all are SO great! Love this love story

  • @julialowery
    @julialowery 4 года назад +4

    Question for the Q&R:
    How did you know y’all were in love?

  • @chloefischer4143
    @chloefischer4143 4 года назад

    I get different results every time! Physical touch, words of affirmation and acts of service.

  • @nidaanemer4752
    @nidaanemer4752 4 года назад +1

    Chad viewed my story once on instagram and ive been watching them since then

  • @vivianbuitrago7239
    @vivianbuitrago7239 4 года назад +1

    This was just amazing!!!

  • @Emery3511
    @Emery3511 3 года назад +1

    My husband and I did long distance for 1.5 year. Success.

  • @sharoneagle6452
    @sharoneagle6452 4 года назад +6

    Question for Q&R: Could you recommend some good books to read to prepare for marriage or relationships?

  • @frankyb4249
    @frankyb4249 4 года назад +2

    New subbie:)!! I could literally listen to y'all all day long!!!

  • @sharon1046
    @sharon1046 4 года назад +1

    Can't wait for the next video!!! 😆💕💕💕

  • @theagoartstudio2333
    @theagoartstudio2333 3 года назад +1

    TRUE!!!! me and my husband were both physical touch and indeed very difficult! Good thing my husband does actually most of the intentional distancing! Coz me can't resist! hahaha
    Really great to have a man in the engagement/boyfriend stage who Protects your purity!

  • @briannaschatz2960
    @briannaschatz2960 3 года назад

    Yes show us your prayer closet!
    Love language: Quality time then Physical touch :)

  • @brianchin526
    @brianchin526 3 года назад

    Found your channel very recently. Wow. For Chad to find, date, then marry a healthy beauty queen AND a Christian, whose love language is touch?! Yes. Please. Addicted.

  • @JMKrech
    @JMKrech 2 года назад

    Loved re watching this!

  • @jonathancant2031
    @jonathancant2031 3 года назад

    My love language is physical touch with words of affirmation as a second. My girlfriend’s is also touch with quality time and words of affirmation. I also love the question game.

  • @sgwiedenheft
    @sgwiedenheft 4 года назад +1

    Physical touch and quality time!

  • @emmam3416
    @emmam3416 4 года назад

    so good love it so encouraging can't wait what is next!!

  • @natecheverri3440
    @natecheverri3440 4 года назад +1

    LOVE LOVEEEE THIS!!! Watching you from Colombia, South America!! Ok, you forgot to tell the story of Tori wanting to kiss Chad!! Also, could you do a video of boundaries on a Christian relationship???

  • @karen_hockaday
    @karen_hockaday 3 года назад

    I agree with Chad, y'all should do a video based on the timeline 😀!! Woopwoop

  • @anabelespinal3707
    @anabelespinal3707 4 года назад +1

    i love you guys together!!!!!

  • @sarahkoestler5072
    @sarahkoestler5072 3 года назад

    OK, I just have to share my experience with you guys thus far...recent subsciber and I am binging your guys' love story. I hve already bought Boundaries, and the workbook, (thanks Chad) and 31 Prayers for my Future Husband (thanks Tori) and my current crush lives in LA while going to school but is from here WA state. We have known each other for 5 years now and he "mentor zoned" me years ago but I am still hopeful. I love all that you guys have shared and what I have seen thus far, keep it up and your story and energy for one another is inspiring!! BTW, he comes home today and we will be having lunch next week, with another friend/chaperone, of course!;)

  • @Shermaine29
    @Shermaine29 4 года назад +1

    Both of you are so cute!! And my love language is words of affirmation :)

  • @Joybutterfly1977
    @Joybutterfly1977 4 года назад

    Love you guys love story!!! I always had a wall up to move far away from familiarity and family but if he was that intentional with me, well then maybe... something to pray about.

  • @sydneyysull
    @sydneyysull 4 года назад +2

    my love Lagrange is: quality time and touch

  • @cbebop5
    @cbebop5 4 года назад +6

    Thanks for sharing your story! Can you share your relationship timeline? I.e. how long you dated before getting engaged. How long you were engaged before getting married. How long you've been married?

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  4 года назад +5

      Sooooo we were friends for years but by the time we "officially" started dating it was about 8 months until we got engaged, then we were engaged 5 months, and now we've been married almost 8 :)

    • @cbebop5
      @cbebop5 4 года назад +2

      @@ToriAndChad thank you for replying! Your answer is mindblowing, because the way you love eachother looks like a love that is crisp and new. It's like you're freshly newlyweds. So beautiful! May God continue to bless your marriage in Jesus name.

  • @sharon1046
    @sharon1046 4 года назад +7

    Chad & Tori & Turtle 🤣🐢

  • @jenpony
    @jenpony 4 года назад +3

    i love you guys ur so great

  • @kennethmanos
    @kennethmanos Год назад

    Ok, am I the only one wondering where they got those 3 hanging pics made from? Those are so unique way of sharing your story on the wall. I'm single and ready to mingle at the moment but those caught my eyes. I'm just getting prepared for when God brings my wife. Where can i buy some of those one day?

  • @karen_hockaday
    @karen_hockaday 2 года назад

    I love your t-shirt Tori!! Where can I get one!??💗

  • @franciscacarvajal5837
    @franciscacarvajal5837 4 года назад +1

    How you guys overcome problems together, I mean disagreements and things like that? Love from Chile 🇨🇱❤️

  • @jlv61560
    @jlv61560 3 года назад +1

    Amen on the communications thing. If you can't talk about things before you're married, what makes you think you'll be able to afterwards?

  • @lilyderouen6887
    @lilyderouen6887 3 года назад

    I love y'all! So much great advice! :)

  • @maphik9305
    @maphik9305 3 года назад

    I just love how Tori jumped on the bed with Chelsea's Hand there on the side. Lol 😂 it's soo cute🤩🤩🤩

  • @amarsidiq4085
    @amarsidiq4085 4 года назад

    Can you make a video of the hardtimes you have been through like you heartbreak,misunderstandings yh such topics please n how to overcome such situations. Great work guys your videos are soo inspiring❤💪

  • @abbeystokoe9230
    @abbeystokoe9230 4 года назад

    Yes!! Please do a video on love languages. Mine is touch as well and it is so hard...

  • @adelinesadventures5196
    @adelinesadventures5196 4 года назад

    My love language is physical touch and quality time so long distance because of Corona has been TOUGH haha but I agree we have grown in our friendship a lot without temptation and it’s been beautiful!

  • @irinapitsul9666
    @irinapitsul9666 3 года назад

    My love language is acts of service, whereas before it was gifts. :)

  • @shaughnsmit2076
    @shaughnsmit2076 4 года назад +1

    Thanks for the video guys, loved it! It is so cool to hear how God moved in your lives.
    My love language is also touch with quality time a close second.
    Q+R : Chad how did you prepare and invest in yourself for dating and building your character that is close to God's heart. (ex. a favorite resource(book/author/speaker))
    Also 2nd part, things you did to build your identity in God, that the relationship didn't change who you are and the modeling that has a reputation to put pressure on your identity.

  • @issamoodbruh2230
    @issamoodbruh2230 4 года назад +1

    9:45 the mic 🤣🤣🤣🤣❤❤❤

  • @gretam2150
    @gretam2150 2 года назад

    Spending time together and physical touch are mine :)

  • @sugarrain5923
    @sugarrain5923 4 года назад +2

    You are so cute together. Bebezzzzz 😄Greetings from Switzerland 🇨🇭

  • @angelavanoosten1
    @angelavanoosten1 4 года назад

    Ioving to binge thisss

  • @sarahottavis9268
    @sarahottavis9268 4 года назад +2

    Love this! Also, love your hair Tori. :) Is your hair naturally wavy?

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  4 года назад +4

      its naturally kinda of straight and frizzy lol I normally waved it a bit with a thick curling iron :)

  • @alyssastegall6128
    @alyssastegall6128 4 года назад +1

    My love language is physical touch also! :)

  • @karolinak6616
    @karolinak6616 4 года назад

    You guys should really do a video on how Chad came to Christ. Love you guys and your story!!

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  4 года назад +1

      oh it's for sure happening!

  • @emilymadden1537
    @emilymadden1537 4 года назад

    Tori!! My love language is physical touch too haha

  • @sarahmacjones
    @sarahmacjones 4 года назад

    Mine is definitely touch and words of affirmation

  • @sgwiedenheft
    @sgwiedenheft 4 года назад

    Q&R question: What advice would you give to those waiting for the right person?

  • @shammah4374
    @shammah4374 4 года назад

    pleeeaasseee do a lot of videos with jess & gabe 🥰😍🥰

  • @LO1990LO
    @LO1990LO 4 года назад

    Can you do the video you mentioned ? About love language please!

  • @tusekilejoy
    @tusekilejoy 3 года назад

    Please do a video on love languages😩😋❤❤❤

  • @ghee-ann7753
    @ghee-ann7753 4 года назад

    Love language: touch as well haha! You guys are so cute & fun!

  • @cookiesncoffee6252
    @cookiesncoffee6252 3 года назад

    Hi Tori, u mentioned about journaling and praying, did u pray for/ make a list of your future husband before u even met him?

  • @chinsanpigs
    @chinsanpigs 4 года назад

    Where is your shirt from? I love it!

  • @jadealexander8233
    @jadealexander8233 2 года назад

    Praise God

  • @shelbyalbert4936
    @shelbyalbert4936 3 года назад

    My love languages are physical touch and quality time.

  • @sydneykorte517
    @sydneykorte517 4 года назад

    Words of affirmation is mine!

  • @angelasantiago7797
    @angelasantiago7797 3 года назад

    Do a love languages book !

  • @jesuslovesyouandI
    @jesuslovesyouandI 3 года назад

    Love language video pleaseee