Demi is just doing damage to our community. She makes us look like attention-seeking weirdos, when we are just normal people who want respect and dignity in society 🏳️🌈
If you identify as being in the lgbt community 🏳️🌈 keep your gender identity /sexuality to yourself (until you’re 25). Financially build yourself so you’re not kicked out, homeless and vulnerable. Focus on your education. Don’t define yourself and publicise your identities. Be strategic.
@@97indianuk I don’t agree with that necessarily, as a bi woman I have to announce to at least some people that I’m bi. I don’t have it as an identifier on socials or anything but it’s important and I’m not gonna keep it to myself until I’m 25. Straight people don’t have to do that. But I agree that if it’s for safety maybe don’t tell those people who could hurt you, being financially independent and educated is very helpful.
Also for everyone reading this please don’t hate Non-binary people. I know people who are NB. They are real and not using it as a “trend” like Demi is. Let’s be able to be compassionate and differentiate the two.
I'm a jamaican woman with a 17 year old son that I see struggling with his sexuallity because being gay is jamaica is so difficult and I feel so hurt for my son because I want to tell him its ok to come out but then I can't guarantee his safety because our society is so harsh o these people, demi is messing with something people has real issues with and that's not cool at all
My daughter put it best when she said we need to start excepting ourselves and others for who we are and stop creating new boxes to separate ourselves. She’d be called a bi or lesbian zoomer but she rejects those labels. She doesn’t need validation from others. She’s awesome.
Demi needs to take a break from social media for at least a year. I swear no one even speaks about her music anymore since she's always trending for literally everything other than that.
it's sad cuz she has the potential to be one of the greatest but she wastes it in dumb shit like this, now people are looking forward to see more of her drama and scandals rather than her music.
Besides literally “Sorry, Not Sorry” and “Confident” I don’t really remember any song from that album or her others she’s forgettable and annoying and childish. I’ve literally never seen or heard about her in the past 6 years besides the time she was on drugs and went to rehab a few years back. She fake and not genuine and very narcissistic. Ps noticed just now that her hair keeps getting more and more ‘07 Britney Spears
Couple of years ago she was a bisexual, then like 2 months back she was pansexual and now she’s non binary. Let this year pass and she’ll pass off herself as an octopus.
Am I the only one that thinks she’s doing it for a straight up shallower reason like to escape the beauty standards that come with being a woman?? Like she’s not comfortable with how she looks?
A video about how to just BE at a party, like party etiquette and socialization techniques would be really fun! Like, you dress up, arrive, walk in, and then... what?
in French, there's literally no gender-neutral pronouns! Every single piece of furniture, everything in your fridge, everything around you is either "un" (masculine) or "une" (feminine), both are the equivalent of "a" (a chair = une chaise, a bed = un lit) so when we translate, we use "it" for inanimate objects but if you're human, there's only he/she (il/elle) even if you're talking to a group of people, they just both become plural (ils/elles) and if there's a mix of men and women, you only use the masculine pronoun, that's how french grammar works. I've done A TON of research and people had to come up with new words/pronouns that didn't exist before and now there's like 10 different variations of non-official pronouns so it's really fucking confusing and I know French is not the only language that works like this so what are we suppose to do?
Almost the same in Russian. We can say 'they' in a gender neutral way but grammatically it is a pain in the ass and makes absolutely no sense. So.. we're like also confused as to how to address Demi now 👀
Thank the LORD!! Shallon you are literally the only sane person on this topic. Thank you for calling out bullshit and not giving into the mob mentality on pronouns.
I grew up having social anxiety around my cousins cause they were always deemed as the cool kids and I was always left out. I tried for years to be included but failed because I felt this urge for them to need to know me because I was afraid they think im not social, cool, quiet when really I’m silly, fun and entertaining. But the anxiety would manipulate the situation and mask who I was. It would make me so mad at myself that I blew it again. But after this video, you really changed my perspective. I dont want to feel the need anymore to care and just do me. Thanks Shallon. Keep doing what you do and speak your truth. ❤️
*Shallon* ... you are forging your own path through authenticity like no other person I've ever seen on this platform. You literally couldn't give a flying fuck who you offend when you're spittin' real bars of truth (and honestly saying exactly what's on everyone's mind anyway). I fucking *love* that you don't bow down and conform to the modern etiquette of inclusion for everyone with constant fake disclaimers and cautiously watching your mouth on tender subjects to avoid offense. You straight up say it with your genuine, unapologetic truth, and that deserves respect. 💯
And they (Demi, Courtney Stodden, Trisha Paytas) still look like cis woman like what you being non-binary for? 😂 i think this person said it better than me: “When you say you're neither a man nor a woman because you don't identify with the stereotypes assigned to men and women that's narcissism. Do you really think all other men and women fit neatly into little boxes, but you're somehow unique and above that? The solution is not a third box, it's no boxes, it's the recognition that male and female are just biological sexes that say nothing of our personality or expression. Non-binaries think they're post-gender but really they're the ones most obsessed with it”
I'm scared it'll make the lgbt community look bad or like a phase, then bigoted parents will say see it was a phase for them so it's a phase for you. 🙄
It blew my mind when the study concluded that likes don’t equal validation. But on some level we KNEW that. Now that we know better, we must give ourselves better!🙌🏻
Shallon. Thank you. For speaking up unapologetically about things that everyday ppl cannot or are too afraid to say. For not cow towing to PC and cancel culture. Continue slayin' ❤
With Demi, I noticed that she blamed her drug addiction and overdose on being closeted non-binary, so then it just sounds like she's trying to find another reason why her shitty choices aren't her fault. I understand that, most of us would welcome a way to escape blame, even without ourselves, for our past regrets, but I feel like it just shows her ongoing immaturity. I don't know how to feel about this whole non-binary thing in general. I don't want to be intolerant, I never want to make people feel they aren't accepted, but it's confusing to me. I understand being born with the wrong gender for how you feel inside, but to feel like neither, I can't wrap my brain around that. Transgender was a thing for centuries before it was accepted, and people just had to live a lie. But this just doesn't seem like something that existed before it had a name, very recently. In a perfect world, everyone would feel seen and included, but it feels like we've entered a really toxic public space where you need to immediately accept and understand this concept that may be entirely new to you, or risk being 'canceled'.
Yes, Shallon! I've been waiting for your thoughts on this. Like anyone else, Demi is allowed to identify as she/they pleases. But her/their announcement of it to the public is her/their latest effort to achieve validation from the world. She's proven herself to be highly insecure in so many not so subtle ways. Also, Shallon, about Demi looking out for "little girls" when she came for the froyo shop: Shouldn't she call them "little humans" instead to fall in line with her own ideas on gender? Just saying. 🤷🏾♀️
She’s a woman when it benefits her to appeal to mainstream liberal feminism, then non-binary when it benefits her to get more attention from the trans trend
Any celebrity who comes out immediately after a scandal of negative press, makes the rest of the community look bad, regardless of their actual intentions it makes it look like they are coming out to get heat off their back
The only part that annoys me is that nobody ever does these things for themselves. It's always associated with an album / movie release or some sales. That in itself should let you know.
it looks like she's having a downward spiral since the yogurt drama and we can't do nothing but see how the trainwreck goes, wish she stepped away from the spotlight and focused on her recovery cuz this desperation for approval is not a good look for her.
This girl is a train wreck, and it keeps going on. It's something new every week, you can't even take her seriously ( By the way Shallon.. I LOVE THE HAIR COLOR)
Warm-blooded peeps: - I don't live for validation. - Let go of the idea that everybody has to see you. - Become bulletproof. - Self-affirmations, self-validatiion such as naming your feelings. -- you can't change what you don't acknowledge and if you're not identifying what these feelings are you're never gonna find a solution. ** Identify what these triggers are. What makes you feel anxious. Stop and be aware! THANK YOU SHALLON!!!
A part of me thinks that she wants to be called they/them is because she can then call people out for misgendering her when they call her Karen after her frozen yogurt dilemma
This morning when I took my shower I was thinking of this exact topic and wondered if you’d do a video on it! And you did! You always hit the mark ✅ ❤️
ugh thank you for covering this Shallon!! I'm a fan of Demi but this is another fad by Demi, every week she comes out with something "new" and "exciting", and it's all becoming so cliche now.. 🙄
I actually feel for this young lady. It’s incredibly clear that she has severe psychological obstacles. She needs significant, long-term, honest help. She’s been not going to get encouragement from those benefiting on the latest story. I hope someone steps in soon.
This is the compassionate take as opposed to the bitchy, toxic, tear people down take. Other people are saying the same about Shallon on the Internet. She seems to intelligent to have this little empathy.
@@sregan5415 it’s hard to have compassion for someone who dosnt want to help themselves and manipulate others for attention. She’s had plenty of opportunities to get help and she’s still using. I completely understand that drug addiction is very difficult BUT it’s not impossible to overcome. Demi has had countless opportunities to get better but she still wants to use drugs so she’s only doing damage to herself and she knows it.
the fact that Demi has been in in-patient rehab how many times, no less has ongoing therapists, life-coaches, sober coaches etc and STILL doesn’t understand the concept of ACCOUNTABILITY is beyond me… just blows me away
I wish nothing but the best to Demi she has been acting up since that dude Wilmer. I dont really know why its so hard for people to love a nice soul like hers. Whatever maybe she should work up on her own insecurities first.. nice video as always!
THANK YOU FOR NOT ABIDING TO THAT BULLSH*T!!! It takes guts to make a video like the one you just have and for that I have even more respect for you than I had before.
amen and hallelujah to everything you said in this video!!!!! i feel like you read my mind. and especially thank you for being the first one i've heard on the internet for saying, yes you can be who you want to be and refer to yourself however you want, but asking the rest of the world to bend to it and just KNOW how to refer to someone is asking a lot.
All these stupid labels people use to define who they are to fit in. I can’t take it! Just be you. Stop ordering yourself like a coffee at Starbucks: Tall, decaf, cappuccino. (Reference from You Got Mail)
Shallon, you should be a required course beginning in middle school! I am probably way older than your average Shallagator, but it’s never too late to learn valuable life and relationship skills! Thank you so much Shallon, you are truly brilliant! And beautiful!
🤣 omg you are completely right. When i saw she was non binary i just rolled my eyes. I could see it coming once she cut her hair. This one loves a label 🙄 and changes her mind every 5 minutes x
Also are we watching the process of you going back to a ✨✨bottle blonde✨✨ in real time? If so , this is proof that YOU CANT be a platinum blonde or even an ash blonde in 1 day ....
The difficulty is that there are people who are actually trans and than people doing it for attention. It makes me really feel bad for real trans people because now people don't take them seriously.
People don't realize that identifying as nonbinary is so sexist in what it assumes about other women. Demi claims that because she doesnt enjoy being hyper-feminine and sexualized then she must not really be a woman. What happened to women being able to have any number of interests or presentation and still being proud women? I have a theory that Demi is using gender identity to cope with sexual trauma and distance herself from being female. Demi, Trisha Paytas, and Courtney Stodden all have this past in common and all claim to be nonbinary.
My mom predicted this and she predicted something else that I won't say because that would be horrible. Everyone wants attention, but to need it is toxic. Unfortunately this generation especially is all about the alphabet community and the attention they seek.
the LGBT community are not all a bunch of attention seekers, that is just a loud minority, the majority of us just want to live our lives and mind our business like everybody else
@@agathachris9722 I think people in general care about what ppl think to a certain extent. Stop making a huge generalization on one community. Very ignorant.
I saw this headline and my eyes rolled so far back into my head that I’m not allowed to drive anymore without medical intervention 🙄🙄🙄🙄 Alas, whatever does one *do* without talent or relevancy? Why, do exactly what Demi does ofc, ie freak out over yogurt while shilling for flat tummy tea, and playing spin-the-wheel of gender in the most public way possible 🙃 ...Shallon is on point, as per usual. Love it.
I think there are some real nonbinary people who feel a disconnect when it comes to seeing themselves as a man or a woman. But some people I feel think they are nonbinary just because they aren't the "typical" man or woman. but then that pigeonholes and women. We can be men and women but be into a variety of things even if it may be "atypical" for us.
As someone who struggles with a ED it is a really good advice expresing how I feel and saying it out loud to understand what it's going one instead of having a crisis over a cookie. Would you make a video about EDs? I am a medical student but it is always a cool thing to have a different point of view and I love your videos!
Yall failed english grammar classes i guess if someones gender is not known english grammar suggests using they them pronouns suppose you see someone left their phone who you dont know wouldn't you say someone left their phone because you dont know what gender the person is Yall want to blame english because of your own bullshit Its so easy to accomodate to gender neutral pronouns its not rocket science unless yall are dumb Nb people only want to get treated equally as anyother cis person
Im not a native speaker too and since the beginning i've been told that when someone's gender is unknown i can use "they" and im pretty much used to this grammar rule. So i dont know what you're talking about:/
Demi is just doing damage to our community. She makes us look like attention-seeking weirdos, when we are just normal people who want respect and dignity in society 🏳️🌈
If you identify as being in the lgbt community 🏳️🌈 keep your gender identity /sexuality to yourself (until you’re 25).
Financially build yourself so you’re not kicked out, homeless and vulnerable.
Focus on your education.
Don’t define yourself and publicise your identities. Be strategic.
@@LP-ux3os I’m saying be yourself privately until you have enough money to live life on your terms. Without risk of violence, abuse or death.
@@niamhallan straight people have privilege and won’t get kicked out the house for being gay/lesbian/transgender/non-binary.
@@97indianuk I don’t agree with that necessarily, as a bi woman I have to announce to at least some people that I’m bi. I don’t have it as an identifier on socials or anything but it’s important and I’m not gonna keep it to myself until I’m 25. Straight people don’t have to do that. But I agree that if it’s for safety maybe don’t tell those people who could hurt you, being financially independent and educated is very helpful.
Also for everyone reading this please don’t hate Non-binary people.
I know people who are NB.
They are real and not using it as a “trend” like Demi is.
Let’s be able to be compassionate and differentiate the two.
I'm a jamaican woman with a 17 year old son that I see struggling with his sexuallity because being gay is jamaica is so difficult and I feel so hurt for my son because I want to tell him its ok to come out but then I can't guarantee his safety because our society is so harsh o these people, demi is messing with something people has real issues with and that's not cool at all
Damm sis was engaged, bi, pan, the frozen yogurt scandal, and now she’s non-binary.
It’s a lot lol
She buusssy
All in a year
i wonder what she's gonna come out with next.. 🧐
@@mastermindbarbie me too, when you keep doings these things like her it doesn't feel autentic at all, you sound insecure, attention-seeker
My daughter put it best when she said we need to start excepting ourselves and others for who we are and stop creating new boxes to separate ourselves. She’d be called a bi or lesbian zoomer but she rejects those labels. She doesn’t need validation from others. She’s awesome.
Wow. That’s impressive, inspiring and motivating. Good for her.
Demi needs to take a break from social media for at least a year. I swear no one even speaks about her music anymore since she's always trending for literally everything other than that.
it's sad cuz she has the potential to be one of the greatest but she wastes it in dumb shit like this, now people are looking forward to see more of her drama and scandals rather than her music.
She does everything but that.
She can’t. Because the likes and the “go off queen” comments are how she fills her cup. She’s so desperate for validation. It’s actually really sad.
And that is so embarrassing, to be an artist but never being acknowledged for your art... it's like how people only see selena as justin biebers ex
Besides literally “Sorry, Not Sorry” and “Confident” I don’t really remember any song from that album or her others she’s forgettable and annoying and childish. I’ve literally never seen or heard about her in the past 6 years besides the time she was on drugs and went to rehab a few years back.
She fake and not genuine and very narcissistic.
Ps noticed just now that her hair keeps getting more and more ‘07 Britney Spears
I'm sick of Demi, I'm sick of the eyebrows , I'm sick of the haircut, the shoulder pads, & the attention seeking , I 👏🏾 HAVE 👏🏾HAD👏🏾IT! 👏🏾
Lmfaooo same girl same 💀
😂 underrated comment
The shoulder pads were the last straw for you huh 😂
Same.. ughhh
I lost it at shoulder pads 💀💀😂
You’re not respecting her pronouns “I don’t respect her at all” 🤣😂🤣😂🤣
“You’re not respecting her pronouns!”
“I don’t respect her at all!
Shannon I fell out 😂
AAAAAHhahahahahha
Lol
👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
Demi Lovato is those aunties who randomly come out with the most attention seeking ideas and doesn’t think about the consequences
Couple of years ago she was a bisexual, then like 2 months back she was pansexual and now she’s non binary. Let this year pass and she’ll pass off herself as an octopus.
Who knows tomorrow she'll say she identify as a giant panda 🙄🙈
She is having an Identity crisis at light speed and for the world to see.
Nop she is a social leatch,,, benefiting from other hard work, struggle, journey...
Am I the only one that thinks she’s doing it for a straight up shallower reason like to escape the beauty standards that come with being a woman?? Like she’s not comfortable with how she looks?
I think she has BPD she literally has all the symptoms and that’s the vibe I get. People with BPD have identity crises
You always know that when Demi chops off all of her hair, she’s back in a downward-spiral...
it's a pattern it seems, just like Britney Spears and Katy Perry when they shaved their head off they were in a downward spiral.
I saw a comment about Demi’s hair reminding someone of Jim Carey’s character in Dumb & Dumber .... and now I cannot unsee it!! 😱
A video about how to just BE at a party, like party etiquette and socialization techniques would be really fun! Like, you dress up, arrive, walk in, and then... what?
in French, there's literally no gender-neutral pronouns! Every single piece of furniture, everything in your fridge, everything around you is either "un" (masculine) or "une" (feminine), both are the equivalent of "a" (a chair = une chaise, a bed = un lit) so when we translate, we use "it" for inanimate objects but if you're human, there's only he/she (il/elle) even if you're talking to a group of people, they just both become plural (ils/elles) and if there's a mix of men and women, you only use the masculine pronoun, that's how french grammar works. I've done A TON of research and people had to come up with new words/pronouns that didn't exist before and now there's like 10 different variations of non-official pronouns so it's really fucking confusing and I know French is not the only language that works like this so what are we suppose to do?
Almost the same in Russian. We can say 'they' in a gender neutral way but grammatically it is a pain in the ass and makes absolutely no sense. So.. we're like also confused as to how to address Demi now 👀
Same in spanish
Well said!!!!
The problem is she’s self-absorbed not self-aware.
Thank the LORD!! Shallon you are literally the only sane person on this topic. Thank you for calling out bullshit and not giving into the mob mentality on pronouns.
i know right!!
I grew up having social anxiety around my cousins cause they were always deemed as the cool kids and I was always left out. I tried for years to be included but failed because I felt this urge for them to need to know me because I was afraid they think im not social, cool, quiet when really I’m silly, fun and entertaining. But the anxiety would manipulate the situation and mask who I was. It would make me so mad at myself that I blew it again. But after this video, you really changed my perspective. I dont want to feel the need anymore to care and just do me. Thanks Shallon. Keep doing what you do and speak your truth. ❤️
Demi must be exhausting to be around
I was just saying this to my friend. She’s so urgh! And yes, so tiresome to be around.
She's insufferable but won't realize it because everyone else is wrong 👍
Energy vampire for sure.
i know right!!
@Nena Linda An hour? 10min with me...
I've been waiting for this video😂😂 as soon as I saw the headline I just thought to myself: "Shallon is gonna have a field day"😅😅
Omg same 😂 I thought of Shallon immediately
Same. I wanted to tag her in the news article ASAP as i saw it lol
Are we the same Hannah I legit just came to write this comment
😂😂😂 you know it.
Hahaha good one ☝️♥️
*Shallon* ... you are forging your own path through authenticity like no other person I've ever seen on this platform. You literally couldn't give a flying fuck who you offend when you're spittin' real bars of truth (and honestly saying exactly what's on everyone's mind anyway).
I fucking *love* that you don't bow down and conform to the modern etiquette of inclusion for everyone with constant fake disclaimers and cautiously watching your mouth on tender subjects to avoid offense. You straight up say it with your genuine, unapologetic truth, and that deserves respect. 💯
This non-binary they/them celebrities trend is definitely getting embarrassing. Pretty soon no one will take them seriously anymore
It’s just such a desperate attention grab so cringed.
And they (Demi, Courtney Stodden, Trisha Paytas) still look like cis woman like what you being non-binary for? 😂 i think this person said it better than me:
“When you say you're neither a man nor a woman because you don't identify with the stereotypes assigned to men and women that's narcissism. Do you really think all other men and women fit neatly into little boxes, but you're somehow unique and above that?
The solution is not a third box, it's no boxes, it's the recognition that male and female are just biological sexes that say nothing of our personality or expression. Non-binaries think they're post-gender but really they're the ones most obsessed with it”
I'm scared it'll make the lgbt community look bad or like a phase, then bigoted parents will say see it was a phase for them so it's a phase for you. 🙄
There are actual LGBT people who are suffering...this is not a trend. I’m not even LGBT- it’s just so crystal clear that this is disrespectful.
@@tiamystic And Halsey!
A new haircut, tattoo and pronouns can't replace therapy.
This right here👆🏽👆🏽👆🏽
Exactly, she’s running away from her problems
Shallon this haircolor looks STUNNING on you 😍
I NEED that hair colour 😍
this is her best color!
Ok
OMG SHALLON THIS IS YOUR BEST HAIR YET
Correct
Love the hair!
We should refer to her as Froyo from now on
Yes I love it 💀
With victim and attention-seeking as her preferred pronouns. 😁😁
She’ll always be “poot” to me
@@joneekoning9127 Gerorge W Bush might call her pootie poot, like he calls putin.
Z
The last part of your video about social media and validation was so powerful it really resonated with me and made me feel better. Thanks Shallon!
It blew my mind when the study concluded that likes don’t equal validation. But on some level we KNEW that. Now that we know better, we must give ourselves better!🙌🏻
Ahh yes, Demi, the pick-me-queen herself.
Shallon, you’re lookin’ like a Southern belle today
She is.
I love how you spit facts and your opinion in the most entertaining way
Shallon's pause and side eye when reading Demi's statement said everything I feel. I guess Demi will be making another documentary now.
Shallon. Thank you. For speaking up unapologetically about things that everyday ppl cannot or are too afraid to say. For not cow towing to PC and cancel culture. Continue slayin' ❤
With Demi, I noticed that she blamed her drug addiction and overdose on being closeted non-binary, so then it just sounds like she's trying to find another reason why her shitty choices aren't her fault. I understand that, most of us would welcome a way to escape blame, even without ourselves, for our past regrets, but I feel like it just shows her ongoing immaturity.
I don't know how to feel about this whole non-binary thing in general. I don't want to be intolerant, I never want to make people feel they aren't accepted, but it's confusing to me. I understand being born with the wrong gender for how you feel inside, but to feel like neither, I can't wrap my brain around that. Transgender was a thing for centuries before it was accepted, and people just had to live a lie. But this just doesn't seem like something that existed before it had a name, very recently. In a perfect world, everyone would feel seen and included, but it feels like we've entered a really toxic public space where you need to immediately accept and understand this concept that may be entirely new to you, or risk being 'canceled'.
Yes, Shallon! I've been waiting for your thoughts on this. Like anyone else, Demi is allowed to identify as she/they pleases. But her/their announcement of it to the public is her/their latest effort to achieve validation from the world. She's proven herself to be highly insecure in so many not so subtle ways. Also, Shallon, about Demi looking out for "little girls" when she came for the froyo shop: Shouldn't she call them "little humans" instead to fall in line with her own ideas on gender? Just saying. 🤷🏾♀️
She’s a woman when it benefits her to appeal to mainstream liberal feminism, then non-binary when it benefits her to get more attention from the trans trend
Any celebrity who comes out immediately after a scandal of negative press, makes the rest of the community look bad, regardless of their actual intentions it makes it look like they are coming out to get heat off their back
The non-binary crowd do a great job of making themselves look bad, they don’t need a celebrity’s help!
Says I don’t want to be labeled and then proceeds to label herself non binary! 😂
The only part that annoys me is that nobody ever does these things for themselves. It's always associated with an album / movie release or some sales. That in itself should let you know.
As a trans person I totally get where Shallon is coming from!
it looks like she's having a downward spiral since the yogurt drama and we can't do nothing but see how the trainwreck goes, wish she stepped away from the spotlight and focused on her recovery cuz this desperation for approval is not a good look for her.
She's just an all-around terrible person.
What yogurt drama?
@@ajat3202 lol that was around a month ago. Type “honest” (a channel) on RUclips and watch his video regarding it he breaks it down well...
At 3:16 when she said my preferred gender pronouns are “CA CAW CA CAW CAAAAW!” I LOST it 😂😂
LHello I’m krrr kkkkkkrrrrerrr kkkkkk”
Me too🤣😂😂😂
I died at that age I lived for it hahaha
I’d pay for a face to face chat with Shallon and Demi. Set up the patreon and make it happen.
Yes!!!! I'd pay to see that
Demi needs more "Shallon's" in her life and less "yes people", if she wants to get better..
I think I would actually pay for that too!
This girl is a train wreck, and it keeps going on. It's something new every week, you can't even take her seriously ( By the way Shallon.. I LOVE THE HAIR COLOR)
she's heading on the same path as Lindsay Lohan and Britney Spears.
I’m honestly surprised Demi hasn’t called herself a POC
@@glutenfreetaquito562 dude 😂 the day is still young lol
You are the big sister I always wanted growing up! Thank you for everything Shallon!
I can't remember the last time she was news because of her songs
That moment when you read the news headline and immediately hear Shallon’s “No, baby girl, it doesn’t work like that” in your head😅
She keeps proving to the guys she dated that they dodged a bullet.
Warm-blooded peeps:
- I don't live for validation.
- Let go of the idea that everybody has to see you.
- Become bulletproof.
- Self-affirmations, self-validatiion such as naming your feelings.
-- you can't change what you don't acknowledge and if you're not identifying what these feelings are you're never gonna find a solution.
** Identify what these triggers are. What makes you feel anxious. Stop and be aware!
THANK YOU SHALLON!!!
Side comment- for someone that hit the drugs hard, Demi’s skin is really nice 😂
Shout out to her glam team that Im sure has to cover her up with layers of make-up.
Have you seen her without make up recently? Not pretty
Make up and lightening does wonders
She can’t keep anything personal.. that’s what is super cringe... you’re allowed PRIVACY Demi 🙄🥴
at this point she just can't
Tbh i think she’s doing hardcore drugs again and not telling anyone because she made an entire series and an album about it 2 seconds ago.
It's not that she thinks she can't..it's that she doesn't want to. She craves the attention too much.
I agree with you all!
A part of me thinks that she wants to be called they/them is because she can then call people out for misgendering her when they call her Karen after her frozen yogurt dilemma
Exactly! Another thing about victimhood.
As SOOON as I saw this headline, I first rolled my eyes and then immediately thought “I can’t WAIT to see Shallon make a video about this”.
Also, your FUCKING HAIR 😍
Same with the eye roll
I just want to know how you speak all your thoughts in one take so flawlessly.
Can we get a video on how to be a good speaker?
Yesssss
Shallon you make me so happy. I swear I've become so much more confident and HAPPY since watching your channel
Themi Lovato 😂
I'm hollering 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I can't breathe 😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@Jasmin-rb2ob this is the funniest thing!!!! 😂🤣🥴😹🙈
This made my entire week
This morning when I took my shower I was thinking of this exact topic and wondered if you’d do a video on it! And you did!
You always hit the mark ✅ ❤️
Shallon says it how it is she doesn't jump on bandwagons and isn't afraid to express her opinion x
Maybe be she needs a confidence boost because she has such a terrible haircut.
OMG!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
It’s truly hideous! But she could afford a good wig, so I guess she likes it 😆
i know right!!
I am so sick of Demi news she wants attention so bad
Remember when she said she was bipolar and then changed her mind because it did not fit her narrative anymore 🙄
LOL she actually did that? Thank god I live under a rock
Really?!
Yeah she did claim she was bipolar for years and then in her new documentary she said she was misdiagnosed
@@afrocentral6063 🤣🤣🤣 omg
True and she's not been the same since she stopped bipolar medication and treatment
Yesss! Thank you for being brave enough to speak honestly about this topic. Thats why you're the best Shallon! Love you❤️
ugh thank you for covering this Shallon!! I'm a fan of Demi but this is another fad by Demi, every week she comes out with something "new" and "exciting", and it's all becoming so cliche now.. 🙄
First of all, you look absolutely amazing! You are literally glowing. And secondly, I never clicked so fast.
I actually feel for this young lady. It’s incredibly clear that she has severe psychological obstacles. She needs significant, long-term, honest help. She’s been not going to get encouragement from those benefiting on the latest story. I hope someone steps in soon.
Demi herself is benefiting off the latest story. She always pulls some shit when she has new stuff to promote. 😐
This is the compassionate take as opposed to the bitchy, toxic, tear people down take. Other people are saying the same about Shallon on the Internet. She seems to intelligent to have this little empathy.
@@sregan5415 it’s hard to have compassion for someone who dosnt want to help themselves and manipulate others for attention. She’s had plenty of opportunities to get help and she’s still using. I completely understand that drug addiction is very difficult BUT it’s not impossible to overcome. Demi has had countless opportunities to get better but she still wants to use drugs so she’s only doing damage to herself and she knows it.
Unless you have two heads on your shoulders, I won’t call a single person "they". For my own sanity
Same
Are you going to do a video on Rihanna and ASAP Rocky dating?
I saw on Shallon’s IG she had a poll regarding them so I hope so!
she mentioned at the end of this video that she will
the fact that Demi has been in in-patient rehab how many times, no less has ongoing therapists, life-coaches, sober coaches etc and STILL doesn’t understand the concept of ACCOUNTABILITY is beyond me… just blows me away
You know anything Shallon talks about relating to Demi is gonna be good !! 🤣👍👍👍
Haha yes she's always so hilarious!!
I wish nothing but the best to Demi she has been acting up since that dude Wilmer. I dont really know why its so hard for people to love a nice soul like hers. Whatever maybe she should work up on her own insecurities first.. nice video as always!
THANK YOU FOR NOT ABIDING TO THAT BULLSH*T!!! It takes guts to make a video like the one you just have and for that I have even more respect for you than I had before.
Thank You for seeing and speaking the truth and doing it so well.
"Miami Vice garage sale of crap" 🤣💀
Shallon, your snark is so hilarious!!
Oooooo yasss🤣😂🤣😂
You’re totally right, real people struggle or can’t afford the therapy they need, and Demi has an abundance of resources!
"you grow up you don't grow down babe, idunno about that one..." LMAOOOOOOOOOO
Shallon’s perspective and truth saves me from the brink of insanity. My pronouns are ka/kaw
amen and hallelujah to everything you said in this video!!!!! i feel like you read my mind. and especially thank you for being the first one i've heard on the internet for saying, yes you can be who you want to be and refer to yourself however you want, but asking the rest of the world to bend to it and just KNOW how to refer to someone is asking a lot.
This honestly might be my absolute favorite video of yours yet...Gold nugget after freaking gold nugget of life-bombing truths! Love it 💕
All these stupid labels people use to define who they are to fit in. I can’t take it! Just be you. Stop ordering yourself like a coffee at Starbucks: Tall, decaf, cappuccino. (Reference from You Got Mail)
I saw this news on Twitter and immediately anticipated your response on it.
Hey Shallon, would love a "how to be confident in front of the camera" video.
Please can you just drop me a message on WhatsApp let's talk or you can text +16784595421
Shallon, you should be a required course beginning in middle school! I am probably way older than your average Shallagator, but it’s never too late to learn valuable life and relationship skills! Thank you so much Shallon, you are truly brilliant! And beautiful!
Is it just me that cannot concetrate on the topid cause shallon's hair color is so in harmont with hair dress and background?🤩 she's like a goddess xx
Give yourself the validation 😌💕 create your own self esteem from the inside and quit seeking it through outside means or people
WHEN I READ THE TITLE I WAS ROOOOLLLLINGNGGG the shaadeee llmaooo
🤣 omg you are completely right. When i saw she was non binary i just rolled my eyes. I could see it coming once she cut her hair. This one loves a label 🙄 and changes her mind every 5 minutes x
Also are we watching the process of you going back to a ✨✨bottle blonde✨✨ in real time? If so , this is proof that YOU CANT be a platinum blonde or even an ash blonde in 1 day ....
I’m completely here for the daily videos, I keep coming back everyday and I will until shallon quits which I hope is never 😘
The difficulty is that there are people who are actually trans and than people doing it for attention. It makes me really feel bad for real trans people because now people don't take them seriously.
People don't realize that identifying as nonbinary is so sexist in what it assumes about other women. Demi claims that because she doesnt enjoy being hyper-feminine and sexualized then she must not really be a woman. What happened to women being able to have any number of interests or presentation and still being proud women?
I have a theory that Demi is using gender identity to cope with sexual trauma and distance herself from being female. Demi, Trisha Paytas, and Courtney Stodden all have this past in common and all claim to be nonbinary.
Finally someone said it!!!👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
My mom predicted this and she predicted something else that I won't say because that would be horrible. Everyone wants attention, but to need it is toxic. Unfortunately this generation especially is all about the alphabet community and the attention they seek.
the LGBT community are not all a bunch of attention seekers, that is just a loud minority, the majority of us just want to live our lives and mind our business like everybody else
My experience with them is, they claim to want to mind their business yet are concerned with what everyone thinks about them.
@@agathachris9722 I think people in general care about what ppl think to a certain extent. Stop making a huge generalization on one community. Very ignorant.
Someone commented on another post saying “okaaaaay Themi Lovado” 🙈
This video is super helpful. Thank you so much Shallon
I saw this headline and my eyes rolled so far back into my head that I’m not allowed to drive anymore without medical intervention 🙄🙄🙄🙄
Alas, whatever does one *do* without talent or relevancy? Why, do exactly what Demi does ofc, ie freak out over yogurt while shilling for flat tummy tea, and playing spin-the-wheel of gender in the most public way possible 🙃
...Shallon is on point, as per usual. Love it.
Shallon looking like Life Coach Barbie! 💕
I think there are some real nonbinary people who feel a disconnect when it comes to seeing themselves as a man or a woman. But some people I feel think they are nonbinary just because they aren't the "typical" man or woman. but then that pigeonholes and women. We can be men and women but be into a variety of things even if it may be "atypical" for us.
please do a video on Hugh Jackman's marriage... or Catherine Zeta Jones marriage...
Shallon, my goodness you look out of this world stunning! 😍
“My pronouns are ka ka ka ka kawww”🤣
Lost it! 🤣😭
Warm colours are very nice on you! Like everything about your video. Good job!
As someone who struggles with a ED it is a really good advice expresing how I feel and saying it out loud to understand what it's going one instead of having a crisis over a cookie. Would you make a video about EDs? I am a medical student but it is always a cool thing to have a different point of view and I love your videos!
Shallon I love your hair in this video! That colour really suits you☺️
The whole "they/them" usage for a single person is so confusing for me as someone who has learnt English as a second language! Doesn't make any sense.
It doesn't make any sense to us native speakers either.
Yall failed english grammar classes i guess
if someones gender is not known english grammar suggests using they them pronouns
suppose you see someone left their phone who you dont know
wouldn't you say someone left their phone because you dont know what gender the person is
Yall want to blame english because of your own bullshit
Its so easy to accomodate to gender neutral pronouns its not rocket science unless yall are dumb
Nb people only want to get treated equally as anyother cis person
@@gurudattachaware2589 That's some irony right there...
Im not a native speaker too and since the beginning i've been told that when someone's gender is unknown i can use "they" and im pretty much used to this grammar rule. So i dont know what you're talking about:/
@@gurudattachaware2589 you’re not writing sentences correctly (no punctuation) and yet you’re insulting other people’s grammar....