Hiding Behind Transition | A Detrans Story, with Kevin (MtFtM)

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  • Опубликовано: 4 сен 2023
  • Kevin shares his journey into a trans identity, and then to radical self-acceptance.
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Комментарии • 432

  • @manaloola2018
    @manaloola2018 11 месяцев назад +245

    I don’t have words for how many people have been damaged by all this sickness and confusion around gender and the trans industrial complex. It’s staggering

    • @transitionsnc
      @transitionsnc 11 месяцев назад +8

      Agree.

    • @mark4asp
      @mark4asp 11 месяцев назад +13

      "trans industrial complex"

    • @Faith.M22
      @Faith.M22 11 месяцев назад +9

      It’s so heartbreaking. Our youth deserve better.❤😢

    • @transitionsnc
      @transitionsnc 11 месяцев назад +6

      Completely agree.@@Faith.M22

    • @trouper206
      @trouper206 11 месяцев назад +6

      There is such a massive crowd of ppl who don't want to think about this. Who can blame them?

  • @aliceinwonderland1120
    @aliceinwonderland1120 11 месяцев назад +168

    The overlap between cult survivors and detransitioners is striking. The cult excommunicates those who return to their biological gender. The vitriol with which detransitioners are treated by those still involved in the cult is so unfair. All the talk about true self and compassion goes out the window.

    • @iuliana1813
      @iuliana1813 11 месяцев назад +12

      Sex. Biological SEX. NOT "GENDER".

    • @brittybee6615
      @brittybee6615 11 месяцев назад +8

      @@iuliana1813They were never not their biological sex, though. They certainly transitioned from one something to another something…

    • @Gingerblaze
      @Gingerblaze 11 месяцев назад +1

      @@iuliana1813 one is a linguistic term used to refer to the other in the English language.

    • @4651adri
      @4651adri 11 месяцев назад +15

      ​@@brittybee6615Truth is nobody 'transitions' to anything. It's just lifelong damaged people, whether they accept their s ex or not.

    • @brittybee6615
      @brittybee6615 11 месяцев назад

      @@4651adri Look, let’s take all the social aspects and ramifications out of the picture. If you have a guinea pig and administer cross sex hormones with the result that it’s body and behavior patterns shifts to appear more similar to the other sex than it’s own, what would you call that a change in?

  • @karinelaxa959
    @karinelaxa959 11 месяцев назад +228

    Kudos to all detransitioners who are speaking out. ❤ It takes courage.

    • @meretriciousinsolent
      @meretriciousinsolent 11 месяцев назад +8

      Definitely. Particularly when it's not just one chat and done - the online washback is ongoing for these people and they have plenty to deal with.

    • @Faith.M22
      @Faith.M22 11 месяцев назад +6

      ❤❤❤

    • @non_ideological_transexual7414
      @non_ideological_transexual7414 10 месяцев назад +2

      Yes it does , i have spoken to Ritchie in the past & watched many of these interviews . One question that i never hear asked is "where would you be if you had no medical complications " ? There will be many like me in the future still transitioning & thousands of women choosing "elective surgeries" We will need to talk about higher quality standards in surgical skills all round . Even in people like Ritchie's case The Endo did not test for the basics at the start 1) how is the mental response to low, nil testosterone , 2) How is the mental health response to Estrogen initially & at higher levels ? My first Endo was a professor of 30 years , my current one has worked in the area of transitioning for over 20 years in Europe . There are so many things wrong not just endemic belief in blank slateism & gender ideology. Actual medical errors could be addressed but it does not look like there are motivations to do that.

    • @calstonjew
      @calstonjew 10 месяцев назад +1

      I don't respect those whom follow gay trends off a cliff.

    • @picilocarnal
      @picilocarnal 9 месяцев назад +2

      They’re my heroes.🎉❤

  • @sophietemple2728
    @sophietemple2728 11 месяцев назад +95

    So a suicidal person who’d been on a crack bender was approved for irreversible surgery which has got to be one of the most physically demanding surgeries out there. Have I got that right?

    • @transitionsnc
      @transitionsnc 11 месяцев назад +14

      Yes, you are correct.

    • @non_ideological_transexual7414
      @non_ideological_transexual7414 11 месяцев назад +13

      Yes completely no medical gatekeeping

    • @transitionsnc
      @transitionsnc 11 месяцев назад

      It's completely crazy.@@non_ideological_transexual7414

    • @kayla_white01
      @kayla_white01 10 месяцев назад +25

      I was approved to have my penis removed at 17. Now I'm starting to wonder if that was even legal let alone I wasn't in my right mind.

    • @chilo8187
      @chilo8187 10 месяцев назад +11

      @@kayla_white01I’m so sorry 😖

  • @mama-cant-dance
    @mama-cant-dance 10 месяцев назад +27

    I'm a mom with a son lost to this ideology so this really hits home. I cried through this entire video because I MISS my son so bad. I know there is nothing I can do to help him come back but I am waiting, hoping and praying for that day.
    It makes me so happy to see that this dear young man escaped and was able to find his way back to himself and to his family.

    • @BenjaminABoyce
      @BenjaminABoyce  10 месяцев назад +8

      Got bless you and your child.

    • @luanao7665
      @luanao7665 9 месяцев назад +4

      It is not an ideology. It is a psychological condition. Both trans and detrans people are valid. Go and love your son/daughter

    • @tablescissors
      @tablescissors 9 месяцев назад +11

      @@luanao7665 - Incorrect, and please do not invalidate that she merely said that she MISSED HER SON, she is mourning, which is also “valid” despite loved ones not given a place to exhibit that without the exact sort of objection and lack of compassion you just exhibited. Now go and LISTEN harder.

    • @tablescissors
      @tablescissors 9 месяцев назад +10

      @@luanao7665 1:25:24 - he states that a therapist in MN, where he is from, is not even allowed NOT to validate that you are trans; that is one very important example of how it’s truly an ideology and not doing what is best for the patient or medicine.

    • @multitablez7825
      @multitablez7825 4 месяца назад

      he said he got his genitals removed and a fake V put in.. did they remove his D aswell? that is crazy.. Kevin glossed over it and didnt provide detail on what "bottom surgery" is. he also said you returned to "normal" after 1 month. Normal? with D gone?

  • @Gingerblaze
    @Gingerblaze 11 месяцев назад +82

    To play this instrument well, is no small feat. To know that wider audiences will be denied hearing his skill and talent due to being cancelled for "wrong think" is quite heartbreaking. Thank you for sharing that tiny excerpt of his playing on your page Ben.

    • @brek5
      @brek5 11 месяцев назад +4

      Yes, the song at the end was unexpected but most welcome.

    • @non_ideological_transexual7414
      @non_ideological_transexual7414 11 месяцев назад

      I was weirded out by it.

    • @hellyeah_ellajane
      @hellyeah_ellajane 10 месяцев назад +2

      I loved that too, it’s neat hearing how his music kept his self-identity cohesive despite other fundamental changes.

    • @non_ideological_transexual7414
      @non_ideological_transexual7414 10 месяцев назад

      Hypocrite cancelling starts with the abuse of censorship because of "offense" Same Same

    • @Gingerblaze
      @Gingerblaze 10 месяцев назад +1

      @@hellyeah_ellajane art, dance, music are intrinsically human and divine.

  • @henningeide8355
    @henningeide8355 11 месяцев назад +67

    I got a sinking feeling when Kevin said he had the so called "bottom surgery." What a horrid thing. I hope he get much joy in life in spite of the physical damage done. Seems like a stand up guy, and he still got some major methaporical balls speaking up.

    • @stud6414
      @stud6414 11 месяцев назад +1

      The cult of eugenics got what they wanted: a castrated, unable to reproduce male of a certain race

    • @non_ideological_transexual7414
      @non_ideological_transexual7414 11 месяцев назад

      Its not a mistake to make because its permanent, done by a good reconstructive surgeon neovaginas are as functional as we need them to be.

    • @joce11
      @joce11 10 месяцев назад +18

      @@non_ideological_transexual7414 To me, that doesn't detract from the reality young folks like Kevin getting surgery done when they shouldn't regardless if there are complications or not. I can't imagine how it must feel to these young people or anyone for that matter to come to the realisation their mistake so to speak is permanent, life altering and I'd imagine in some cases, life shattering. Personally, I'm grateful to have grown up gay at a time when there was no such thing as gender identity. Sad, so sad.

    • @non_ideological_transexual7414
      @non_ideological_transexual7414 10 месяцев назад +1

      @@joce11 That's not my point of course he should not have been operated on . The 2 separate issues ( of complications )are conflated all the time including by benny.
      Also why did benny not ask him if he had complications from the SRS ? Do you understand why i make this point specifically ?

    • @soniaess28
      @soniaess28 10 месяцев назад

      ​@@non_ideological_transexual7414 nonsense

  • @amylynnhunt55
    @amylynnhunt55 10 месяцев назад +24

    So much absolute cruelty aimed at brave people who share detransitioning stories. So just sending love & good thoughts. Thank you.

  • @karenjeanelliott
    @karenjeanelliott 11 месяцев назад +30

    What most impresses me about detransitioners is their honesty. I can learn so much from these amazing people ❤

  • @melmacphee5558
    @melmacphee5558 11 месяцев назад +64

    It takes mega courage to share your deepest and most difficult struggles at this level, on this issue, in this context. Kevin- you have much to be proud of, you are a strong man, and one to look up to. Thank you so very much for putting yourself out there. Your story will give other people questioning their transition the courage to speak out and get help. I wish you much continued growth and success!

    • @calstonjew
      @calstonjew 10 месяцев назад

      It takes shamelessness.

    • @99gypsies
      @99gypsies 10 месяцев назад +1

      Mega courage indeed. What an inspiring man. And an incredibly talented musician. I hope he keeps bassooning for fun. Conservatives love music too!

  • @Krinsta1
    @Krinsta1 11 месяцев назад +33

    Whenever I meet transwomen I feel their "being" a woman is taking on and embrassing all the female stereotypes that I as a biological woman can't identify with at all. I hate shopping for clothes, I don't wear make-up all those media representations of women are so far away from me. I love being a woman and always have. I'm much more than a baby maker and I can change my own tyres. 😊
    Thank you Kevin for sharing your story. You are a musician. 🎉

    • @StormBringer5
      @StormBringer5 10 месяцев назад +13

      My ex transitioned and suddenly he wanted to walk on his tip-toes all the time “like a woman”. He started twirling and letting out exaggerated sighs and doing all this Disney princess bullsh*t that real women never do. He never wanted to be a woman. He wanted to be a fiction of hyper-femininity as presented in media. A lot of trans women obsessed with anime do this too.

    • @Krinsta1
      @Krinsta1 10 месяцев назад +6

      @eliza4549 I'm sorry you had to go through that. One day, women will be seen for who we really are. 😀 I did laugh about your story, the idea of a twirling man on the tip toes sighing all the time, thinking that's how to be a girl. What a strange fella your ex is. I hope you found someone nice.

    • @beautifulmermaid718
      @beautifulmermaid718 10 месяцев назад +5

      @@StormBringer5my ex fiancé transitioned as well then De transitioned thankful he only started hormones and didn’t do anything surgical ( I still get sad about thinking of him on hormones he did it 4 years and just stopped this past winter) … however prior to that he had gynecomastia ( male with excessive breast tissue) which has been something he’s always been insecure about. Being on estrogen made the issue worst than before and now he has to bind his breast to live normally. At this point surgery to get them removed is required when before he could go either way as they weren’t this large. I say all that to say as the original poster said I’m a lot like the stereotypical Barbie woman I love nails, shopping and makeup as that’s how I make my living. When I began to have more in depth talks with him and push back saying that though that’s what you see in me that’s not what makes a woman. I’m equal parts girl as I am tough I like bodybuilding, guns, trucks and other “masculine” things, and I love those things just as much or even more than I like my girl stuff. I find that men going through this are literally in an identity crisis and I had to tell him it’s okay to explore feminine things but that doesn’t men you need to “change” into a woman. I would constantly say why don’t you you explore being a man that wears make up or a man that doesn’t dress in what society deems appropriate for men. With the key of excepting the things about you that don’t fit into the norm of manliness but that doesn’t take from you being a man. The way I seen it is he’s not gay, not interested or attracted to men at all so why not embrace the complex man that you are instead of limiting dating and life options by doing something so drastic. I appreciate your comment and the original one

    • @calstonjew
      @calstonjew 10 месяцев назад

      Gays are annoying too.

    • @calstonjew
      @calstonjew 10 месяцев назад

      @@StormBringer5 Women do act silly and shallow though.

  • @gl5616
    @gl5616 10 месяцев назад +28

    I am a fan of Ben, he is a softer version of Dr Peterson, but still very impactful. Get people talking and little interruption. Well done ! Kevin is incredibly talented !

  • @cmmndrblu
    @cmmndrblu 11 месяцев назад +55

    Thank you to Benjamin Boyce and this young man. It's so important that these voices are heard. Xxxxx

  • @AshleyWilliams-xq7lj
    @AshleyWilliams-xq7lj 10 месяцев назад +13

    It's disturbing how easily that active, stubborn boys are misdiagnosed with ADHD/APD. I'm a woman with both of those disorders and wasn't diagnosed until adulthood. It's strange how normal boy behavior is pathologized, while abnormal female behavior is often punished and left untreated.

  • @OboeQueen27
    @OboeQueen27 11 месяцев назад +32

    Kevin! You play the bassoon very lovely. From one double reed player to another- thank you! I know very well how difficult it all is, and that was a lovely performance. Thank you for including it Benjamin!

  • @meretriciousinsolent
    @meretriciousinsolent 11 месяцев назад +25

    I really appreciate how much laughter this guy has as part of his demeanour. It's wonderful to know that's possible in the midst of the maelstrom.

  • @catherinehart3775
    @catherinehart3775 11 месяцев назад +23

    Wow this feels like one of the most important detransitioner episodes so far. Thank you so much Kevin for being so open and vulnerable with sharing your story.

  • @NinjaKittyBonks
    @NinjaKittyBonks 11 месяцев назад +61

    We had bit of a break from the trans stories, so It will be good to be refocused on what is front and center of society today 😢Thank you, Kevin for sharing your story 🐈

    • @EastWindCommunity1973
      @EastWindCommunity1973 11 месяцев назад

      You didn't like that British woman who loves the National Socialists?!

    • @meretriciousinsolent
      @meretriciousinsolent 11 месяцев назад +4

      I really appreciated the last vid with Lesley, that whole idea of "if nobody gets to tell anyone else what to do or believe, how do you mould society towards being better for everyone?" has been rattling around my mind for ages. It also gave me the opportunity to have some really interesting back and forth with my husband which I think is one of the most valuable things I get from content like this.

    • @NinjaKittyBonks
      @NinjaKittyBonks 11 месяцев назад +4

      @@meretriciousinsolent ❤Mr. BenJammin' has had some fascinating guests for many years and why it was so great to have been subd from very early on so I got to see soo many of them.
      .
      This channel is criminally under-subd!

    • @amandafaulks2515
      @amandafaulks2515 11 месяцев назад +3

      I totally agree kitty! I think I saw Benjamin's first video that he released while he was in the cafeteria during the "troubles" at evergreen. And I've been mainly lurking since I sub and watch and like every video and have learned so much!

    • @NinjaKittyBonks
      @NinjaKittyBonks 11 месяцев назад

      @@amandafaulks2515 .... The Kitty asks that you join us in chat, so that I may provide you with a special 🐈head bonk
      .
      I am very good about recalling those of whom I offer special head bonks, but if I should fail to recall, our secret code word to jog The Kitty's memory is "Bonkitty BonKitty bonk" 😸

  • @orboakin8074
    @orboakin8074 11 месяцев назад +32

    Great interview, as always Ben. Also, kudos to Kevin for getting better gradually, not letting this ideology destroy him, and working to improve himself. Double kudos for going into the trades. As someone who aims to go into the Electrical field once I am done with college next winter, this is inspiring to me. I dread ever working in a corporate environment due to how toxic and politicized and unmeritocratic it has become. I have also pretty much seen that guys who work in trades actually do more fulfilling, more skilled, beneficial and lucrative work in a less politicized environment.

    • @meretriciousinsolent
      @meretriciousinsolent 11 месяцев назад +3

      That part made me yearn to get back to making stuff. I really need to block some time out to work on my handsewing and making the little things I've had in my head for ever. I feel so much better when I use my mitts!

    • @orboakin8074
      @orboakin8074 11 месяцев назад +1

      @@meretriciousinsolent Great stuff, friend.

  • @Reet64
    @Reet64 10 месяцев назад +10

    Truly wish the best for this young man. Admitting our mistakes, especially such profoundly life-altering mistakes, is never easy. He's done that with grace and I hope he lives long and prospers.

  • @genalee5211
    @genalee5211 11 месяцев назад +51

    Everyone should read the book “As nature made him” about David Reiner a twin raised a girl because of a botched circumcision. Very heartbreaking for sure. David would be rolling in his grave if seeing what is happening now. He would be horrified 🥺🤬👺☠️👿

    • @kathyflorcruz552
      @kathyflorcruz552 10 месяцев назад

      The most sickening thing is that story is used AS AN EXAMPLE OF SUCCESS to push this butchery in medical schools & colleges pushing the fake gender identity/ideology courses. Same with Kinsey - which if you look into the data gathered you see evidence of actual sexual child abuse of babies in there. That's the ONLY WAY they could have gotten their disgusting data to publish.
      John MONEY basically abused both boys to the point they both ended up committing suicide.

    • @winniecash1654
      @winniecash1654 10 месяцев назад +1

      It's a very sad story.

    • @savethetomboys815
      @savethetomboys815 10 месяцев назад +4

      Both Reimer twins lives ended tragically because of the abuse they endured by Dr. John Money

    • @customera7945
      @customera7945 10 месяцев назад

      David and his twin were molested and groomed by Dr. Money and both killed themselves.

    • @dorasneddon774
      @dorasneddon774 9 месяцев назад

      Especially because the lies psychologist, John Money, who advocated for this course of action, told in reporting his 'research' as being a roaring success. He was a deeply damaged and warped individual who got himself into a position where he could experiment as he did to prove his theories about gender, masculinity and femininity (as divorced from actual sex). Many trans ideologues and activists either don't know or actively ignore the discredited and, frankly, warped, sick and abusive origins of their belief systems. Others actually applaud Money - hard to believe. He and the other "sexologist", Kinsey, were both child sexual abusers and quite sadistic with it. Sickening.

  • @AndyJarman
    @AndyJarman 11 месяцев назад +27

    The way that woke has recently captured orchestrial music makes me think it is a class struggle more than a left eight struggle.
    Kelly Jay Keen has raised this idea before. Woke being a "luxury" belief.

    • @inkoftheworld
      @inkoftheworld 11 месяцев назад +10

      For real though. If one of your biggest "problems" is being "misgendered" you have it pretty good...

    • @non_ideological_transexual7414
      @non_ideological_transexual7414 10 месяцев назад

      @@inkoftheworld For real if it bothered you because you had severe gender dysphoria then that would not be " pretty good".

    • @non_ideological_transexual7414
      @non_ideological_transexual7414 10 месяцев назад

      She didn't originate the thought .

    • @angelamckavanagh4696
      @angelamckavanagh4696 10 месяцев назад

      In what sink hole estate type school do you think this ideology surfaces? I’m betting none.

    • @non_ideological_transexual7414
      @non_ideological_transexual7414 10 месяцев назад

      @@angelamckavanagh4696 At the risk of being censored again by the overlord sensitivity queen it is the teachers & psychologists dominated by women from Eds dominated by women . From women it's 'welcome ! " and men it's "are you sure about this ?"

  • @genalee5211
    @genalee5211 11 месяцев назад +11

    “Pretending something that I wasn’t” Bingo!!

  • @stacypastry2440
    @stacypastry2440 11 месяцев назад +12

    Nice to meet Kevin. I hope he leads his best life moving forward!

  • @bee-eu6cg
    @bee-eu6cg 11 месяцев назад +22

    Your so good at interviews. Enjoying this. So honest.

  • @almagoh8436
    @almagoh8436 10 месяцев назад +7

    I want to thank you Kevin and all detransitioners who speak up, cause this takes a ton of courage and generosity, to raise your voice and become a reason for society to wake up. Without you, we wouldn't know very essential information in this issue. Thanks to you we as parents are learning new ways to combat and possibly defeat the woke hydra. I truly appreciate you and wish you the very best.

  • @jennytr5056
    @jennytr5056 11 месяцев назад +12

    Kevin is a genuinely good man. Courageous and of good heart. I am so grateful for his generosity in sharing his story. Thank you so much for including the music at the end - really moving.

  • @hellyeah_ellajane
    @hellyeah_ellajane 10 месяцев назад +8

    Thanks for including the performance clip at the end, I loved seeing Kevin in his element with his bassoon.
    It’s really lovely how his music was the cohesive force of self-identity throughout many paradigms and other forms of self-expression.

  • @maillemacanaugh1841
    @maillemacanaugh1841 10 месяцев назад +5

    The second he said he was obsessed with playing bassoon as a middle school child my mind went to Asperger’s/autism

  • @gooeyrhubarb1593
    @gooeyrhubarb1593 11 месяцев назад +20

    Beautiful bassoonery! ❤️👏❤️

  • @kchart47
    @kchart47 11 месяцев назад +10

    Thank you, Kevin, for so generously and bravely sharing your experience. I wish you all the very best life has to offer. I hope that your new path is filled with joy, love and meaning. Stay busy…stay healthy

  • @GordieGii
    @GordieGii 11 месяцев назад +15

    My daughter wanted to be an electrician, but there was an entrance test, and she didn't have enough grip or wrist strength. She took up rock climbing, but ultimately followed a more traditionally female oriented career. (but still does rock climbing)

    • @NinjaKittyBonks
      @NinjaKittyBonks 11 месяцев назад +3

      @GordieGii .... Proud Daddy ❤

    • @GordieGii
      @GordieGii 11 месяцев назад +8

      @@NinjaKittyBonks She's great. I just wish she didn't trust the government so much.

  • @transitionsnc
    @transitionsnc 11 месяцев назад +18

    Great interview. I really appreciate Kevin's honesty.

  • @jeng3609
    @jeng3609 10 месяцев назад +10

    This is the most powerful interview I've seen of yours, Benjamin, or probably ever. Thanks. I feel really bad for him, but grateful that he is still around after all that he's been through.

  • @truthmighthurt
    @truthmighthurt 5 месяцев назад +2

    Your story Kevin was heartbreaking for me as a mom.
    I know your story doesn't end here and I will add you to my prayers as you have so much healing to go through. God will use you as a light that will save others from this darkness in our world.
    "Be strong and courageous." (Joshua 1: 9)
    God bless you for being so brave to tell your story!

  • @pointcuration1278
    @pointcuration1278 11 месяцев назад +19

    Commenting for the algorithm. Really good interview.

    • @NinjaKittyBonks
      @NinjaKittyBonks 11 месяцев назад +3

      @Pointcuration1278 ... That's MEOWgorythm 😾
      😸

    • @S.G.W.Verbeek
      @S.G.W.Verbeek 3 месяца назад

      ​@@NinjaKittyBonks😸

    • @NinjaKittyBonks
      @NinjaKittyBonks 3 месяца назад

      @@S.G.W.Verbeek 🐈head bonk

  • @PlaceboDomingo
    @PlaceboDomingo 11 месяцев назад +10

    Thank you for this generous and candid interview, and beautiful bassoon playing at the end!

  • @AndyJarman
    @AndyJarman 11 месяцев назад +12

    Thank you kevin. So important to hear stories like yours. The motivations of MtF teenagers receives scant attention and appears to be less understood

  • @AlabasterClay
    @AlabasterClay 11 месяцев назад +7

    The music was heavenly---wow. Thanks so much for including that.

  • @Jazzinger
    @Jazzinger 11 месяцев назад +18

    please don't stop doing what you do so well. These interviews are very much needed and right on; the way you communicate with your guests and they with you. I appreciate these even more having these youth gender explorers in my company where I teach. We are not allowed to communicate with them about this subject and are told to be very aware and use the correct pronouns. It's even more difficult when one has a background in counseling :-( Fabulous insights every time. Thank you Ben and Kevin!

  • @blakechristy1472
    @blakechristy1472 10 месяцев назад +6

    Wow, that performance at the end was amazing! I have a newfound respect for the bassoon!

  • @Amber24426
    @Amber24426 8 месяцев назад +4

    I appreciate Kevin sharing his experience, but it seems he still has much masked pain to sift through. I don’t see much “levity” here but rather thinly veiled despair at what is and what can never be.
    I don’t fault Kevin for this, of course- I think coming on here and being 100% vulnerable would be hard as hell, and he certainly doesn’t owe us a vulnerability that he might not have even forged with himself yet.
    I don’t know. I feel sad for Kevin and I guess I just hope that he is working to grieve this all in his personal life, without the facade of hollow laughter to placate himself with.
    Just remember Kevin… your feelings and your pain matter. It’s okay to not be okay, even though feeling not okay can be one of the worst feelings in the world. I hope you can continue to connect to your story and yourself as you further integrate your history into your current self-conceptualization. I hope too, that on the other side of grief, you are able to find peace and pride in what and who you truly are.

  • @clarebear764
    @clarebear764 11 месяцев назад +12

    Wishing you the best life ever Kevin

  • @kathyflorcruz552
    @kathyflorcruz552 10 месяцев назад +6

    Not to take away from Kevin at all. I'm glad he's on here. The more the better!! There's another guy who has a channel who has accepted he's stuck in detransition & is as honest as it gets about what took him to this point: Shapeshifter. He's flamboyant as heck, but honest about it all. Has guests as well who also discuss this awful situation. The more the word gets out about how it affects so many young people in so many ways the better. It's not just in American schools, it's also elsewhere but HERE they get "affirmed" whether parents know or not more & more under liberalism. Blaire White has guests with different perspectives too. She transitioned & is happy about it but is STILL learning about the dangers of the drugs that doctors never told her about and she didn't just jump into it like they're doing to children now. She has guests who also discuss detranzing & the war against them. It's really a cult of hate.

  • @Florida_Woman
    @Florida_Woman 11 месяцев назад +16

    Kevin, you and your story are really interesting. Thank you so much for the interview. I appreciate it. ❤

  • @customera7945
    @customera7945 10 месяцев назад +3

    Thank you for a great show. Wishing Kevin love and happiness. I pray his journey leads him into the arms of the Lord who has saved him for His higher purpose. ❤️

  • @Faith.M22
    @Faith.M22 11 месяцев назад +8

    I’m happy you are alive Kevin.❤ God has a plan for you. You are loved.

    • @Faith.M22
      @Faith.M22 10 месяцев назад +1

      @@Hades5412ok. One can’t force someone into believing. You have to experience it for yourself.

    • @winniecash1654
      @winniecash1654 10 месяцев назад

      ​@Hades5412. Are you sure you aren't, with a name to identify with as Hades? Sounds like some kind of reference to eternity, if only on a subconscious level.

    • @winniecash1654
      @winniecash1654 10 месяцев назад

      @@Hades5412 I was thinking it could be a game character. Lol. Hallucinations? What are you seeing?

    • @winniecash1654
      @winniecash1654 10 месяцев назад

      @@Hades5412 ok, fair enough. I'm a believer, I've seen and have encountered spirits, and that's the reason I was asking.

  • @Liisa3139
    @Liisa3139 11 месяцев назад +5

    Loved the music. Don't ever give it up, even if you are not playing as your main profession.❤

  • @angelamckavanagh4696
    @angelamckavanagh4696 10 месяцев назад +4

    This interview drew me to tears, I hope Kevin gets all his desires fulfilled.

  • @luludee1300
    @luludee1300 11 месяцев назад +6

    Wow, that was beautiful piece of music at the end! Great playing Kevin!

  • @AndyJarman
    @AndyJarman 11 месяцев назад +10

    1:23 what value does trans bring the world.
    I think effeminate men and masculine women bring humour and a generosity of spirit to the world. This is one of the greatest values the margins give us.
    Challenging borders and assumed understandings of situations remind us not to be so arrogant. Loki was more than a clown, he was a trickster.

    • @Gingerblaze
      @Gingerblaze 11 месяцев назад

      The trick now, is realizing that the majority of people encompasse traits of both sexes. Those men and women who are extremely masculine or extremely feminine in all areas are the anomoly.

    • @4651adri
      @4651adri 11 месяцев назад +4

      We all have a bit (or a lot) of masculinity and femininity, it's normal! The problem is woke people are making it an identity issue.

    • @StormBringer5
      @StormBringer5 10 месяцев назад +1

      I do think trans people allow us push the boundaries of masculinity in women and femininity in men. It doesn’t mean that anyone is changing genders. But I think it helps other people find more freedom of expression.

  • @isabellak1394
    @isabellak1394 10 месяцев назад +4

    These people are so brave, and they are cult survivors, I've heard this many times listening to these traumatic stories. The truth is truly the thing that makes us free and open for healing ❤ 🙏 God bless Kevin and you Benjamin for giving these people a voice.
    It is for freedom that Christ has set us free. Stand firm, then, and do not let yourselves be burdened again by a yoke of slavery. Galatians 5 🌷🤲

  • @stvbrsn
    @stvbrsn 11 месяцев назад +11

    5:18 I’m loving the image of someone handing a bassoon to a four year old.

  • @synesthesiagirl
    @synesthesiagirl 10 месяцев назад +4

    I'd really love to see more of Kevin's bassoon performances. I really hope and pray for his future happiness and wellbeing.

  • @basscataz
    @basscataz 10 месяцев назад +7

    I've been following your channel since you've started talking about Evergreen. I watch nearly all of your detrans content now. You are doing great work.
    There are many common threads in these stories. One that I keep noticing is the seeming unprofessional and downright ridiculous way that healthcare "professionals" have gone along with this hysteria. (I understand the etymology of the word and didn't choose it to be cheeky, hysteria is the best word I can come up with).
    Who will ever pay for this?
    I know that we, in the solzhenitsyn sense, are all responsible for this. But, the people who head our medical ethics boards, along with our universities and boards of education are, in my eyes, criminal. I'm not saying that we should put them all in prison, because that wouldn't happen. Not ever.
    But these people need to be permanently removed from power and prestige.
    It isn't up to me to decide what they deserve, but they need to gtfo.

  • @teelurizzo8542
    @teelurizzo8542 11 месяцев назад +11

    Thanks for sharing another great interview. 5:42 = Shostakovich's Symphony no. 9 is indeed a great piece of 20th century classical music.

  • @georgieriggs3728
    @georgieriggs3728 10 месяцев назад +5

    I am so glad that I do not go through this. I am a transsexual woman. However, as somebody who fight with gender desphoria and at 40 years old, I decided. This makes me sad that a young person has destroyed their life.😢😢

  • @danjohnxo
    @danjohnxo 11 месяцев назад +5

    Thanks for sharing your story Kevin. Wish you all the best!
    Another great interview Benjamin.

  • @true2theoryapriori497
    @true2theoryapriori497 11 месяцев назад +5

    Thank you for including the music at the end! Hope more of these stories will be heard.

  • @northwestcarpenter
    @northwestcarpenter 11 месяцев назад +5

    Absolutely amazing Benjamin! Well done brother, keep at it 😊❤️

  • @pseudonamed
    @pseudonamed 9 месяцев назад +2

    Thank you for being so open and sharing your story.

  • @user-rv7ph1jl5y
    @user-rv7ph1jl5y 9 месяцев назад +3

    9:36 mins in.. Geesh! Benjamin really knows how to squash a young person's dreams. You are likely still a talented musician and caN make space for your music if that's what you love.. Keep on playing my friend. ..

  • @mothergoose3766
    @mothergoose3766 10 месяцев назад +1

    I am just so grateful for his willingness to show up and have this raw conversation...it is so helpful for others still navigating the quagmire and for those trying to help them

  • @tashag1798
    @tashag1798 5 месяцев назад +3

    thank you for the stories ❤ my 19 yo son is on dysphoria nowadays for 9 months.. I don't know what will happen to him after .. but with your stories I see there is a hope and and I pray he will not have any op😥

  • @half-bakedpotato1078
    @half-bakedpotato1078 10 месяцев назад +3

    What a delightful human being! Thank you for sharing your story.

  • @amandarecoveryjones8216
    @amandarecoveryjones8216 9 месяцев назад +2

    Goodness he's been through so much. Incredible what the human body can endure. Thank God he's here with us today ❤❤❤❤

    • @tablescissors
      @tablescissors 9 месяцев назад

      And all needlessly, all because he didn’t seek out conventional or appropriate therapy, instead the system enabled him to transition without question or proper analysis. Even as he tells us all this, he still can’t give us the facts about the molestation that could help so many other victims out there - he just skimmed over it (although there is a huge link to drug abuse, molestation, and trans).

  • @scarba
    @scarba 11 месяцев назад +9

    Your backdrop is very cozy Benjamin

  • @WeartheGoodSocks
    @WeartheGoodSocks 9 месяцев назад +2

    1:28:05 "When you focus on yourself, you will have suffering." Thanks for that reminder.

  • @user-tf2rj2jm2n
    @user-tf2rj2jm2n 11 месяцев назад +3

    This is a brilliant interview.Enraging and insightful.

  • @bad-girlbex3791
    @bad-girlbex3791 11 месяцев назад +13

    An accomplished musician AND an electrical engineer? Having such different skillsets that many people only find themselves able to focus on one or the other...that's really cool, Kevin. I'm really sorry that you found yourself unwelcome in the more artistic community, colleges and orchestras and I really hope you're still able to just play for the pure enjoyment. The world will never be short of guys who know how to fix electrics (my other half studied electrical engineering himself and I feel so much more safe and secure knowing he's on the case in our house!) though, so lots of luck to you in your new field of employment, and thank you for taking the time to share your story with Ben. You've definitely been through the wringer over the past years, so I guess it's time to become happily boring, simple living folk lie the rest of us. It might not be exciting or get you a Bud Light sponsorship, but you'll find lots of people who respect you for telling your truth....and knowing that you're on hand whenever they need you wire up their kitchen extension. Long may the magnificence of mundanity (sprinkled with the magic of music for pleasure) continue! x

  • @user-vx8rg8wh8k
    @user-vx8rg8wh8k 11 месяцев назад +10

    🆘🆘🆘🆘They took down Exulandic’s channel.
    DONT STOP BRINGING THESE STORIES!!!

    • @BenjaminABoyce
      @BenjaminABoyce  11 месяцев назад +3

      What does Kevin have to do with that?

    • @alh915
      @alh915 10 месяцев назад +1

      Probably only that Exulansic looks into the reality of the damage done by medical transition. She focuses on the science of hormones and surgery in some gruesome detail.

  • @MrFard666
    @MrFard666 10 месяцев назад +1

    It's really refreshing to hear someone so honest with themselves. I think we need more people like that in general.

  • @ghislainehubbard2792
    @ghislainehubbard2792 5 месяцев назад

    Thank you for being so honest and open. So glad to hear at the end that you've found your path. It always seems interesting to me that when I listen to detransitioners I hear honesty and genuineness. I find people who are genuinely likeable; the same doesn't seem to be true of when I listen to the TRA lobby.

  • @jayterra2060
    @jayterra2060 3 месяца назад

    Wow what an amazing courageous man. Beautiful interview! Thank you!

  • @SB-no7tq
    @SB-no7tq 11 месяцев назад +2

    Thanks Kevin,great interview

  • @Zzyzzyx
    @Zzyzzyx 11 месяцев назад +15

    9:00 I would have hoped that the only gatekeeping around concert bassoonists would be talent. Instead of politics or reputation (other than reputation of talent). 🙁

    • @virginiacharlotte7007
      @virginiacharlotte7007 11 месяцев назад

      Must be all of those pesky US high school marching bands! - more bassoonists per capita compared to other nations ?

    • @Gingerblaze
      @Gingerblaze 11 месяцев назад +1

      It was usually class and access to opportunity and education.

  • @azsunburns
    @azsunburns 10 месяцев назад +11

    There aren't enough tears. In sorrow or joy, his tender voice loudly rings like warning bells. Yet again, I'm reminded of Richie Herron's heartbreaking story.
    True words - parasitic, lemmings off a cliff, cult, driven by big money & bigger narcissistic egos.
    How people can watch what is happening and not see this 🌈 embodiment as the demonic blood & sex sacrifice cult that it is, mind-boggling.
    This young man is ripe to connect with his Creator 👑

  • @henningeide8355
    @henningeide8355 11 месяцев назад +16

    Kevin, you're still a bassoonist :) It's a rare thing to be virtuoso at an instrument, and music is a thing that can help others too, it doesn't have to be an ego thing. I hope you write some tunes, and that you continue teaching in some capasity.

  • @RRonco
    @RRonco 10 месяцев назад +5

    You can see how well his embouchure is developed from how he speaks & smiles - Double Reed Club 4 Lyfe!

  • @BelissaCohen
    @BelissaCohen 11 месяцев назад +3

    Quite the ending! What a lovely man.

  • @diemturner5755
    @diemturner5755 9 месяцев назад

    A big thank you to Kevin for being so willing to speak as clearly as he can at this stage about his experience (his own understanding of it is, judging by some of his responses, understandably, incomplete). And thank you Benjamin for being a great interviewer. Your focus is clearly on listening and not speaking, which is clearly demonstrated by your ability to linger on the interviewee having completed what they said for 5, 6 maybe 10 seconds and not feel the immediate urge to speak (or at least not exhibiting the urge). This conversation is as terrifying as it is illuminating.
    Thank you and Godspeed,
    Diem

  • @genalee5211
    @genalee5211 11 месяцев назад +6

    Affirming healthcare is BS🤬

  • @treesart6914
    @treesart6914 10 месяцев назад +5

    Omg, poor dude, yes, sue the bastards!!
    And all of this was actually set in motion by one molester....!

  • @slampersand3145
    @slampersand3145 10 месяцев назад +2

    Kevin, i love your spirit. Your calm and kind just emanate from you. I'd love to be your friend.

  • @janeatkinsonvivacristorey3622
    @janeatkinsonvivacristorey3622 11 месяцев назад +2

    Your guest has a great laugh! He seems so happy 😊

  • @experiencemystique4982
    @experiencemystique4982 11 месяцев назад +13

    Thanks for the honesty both, thanks for the interaction, but as an adult living on 2023, I'm revulsed on how this works, I'm revulsed of so much abuse, attack, control and manipulation.

    • @bee-eu6cg
      @bee-eu6cg 11 месяцев назад +6

      I agree so many young kids and young adults are being let down by so called caring psychologists and the trans community and misguided adults. It's very toxic and it's an awful time for youngsters. They are being manipulation.

  • @bellelacroix5938
    @bellelacroix5938 10 месяцев назад +6

    Kevin's insight re: self-awareness now is more developed than most people will reach in a lifetime. I wish him further expansion, and also joy. Big hug *

  • @goldenglowladore3842
    @goldenglowladore3842 10 месяцев назад +1

    Kevin,I love his laughter and giggle.
    You're an awesome, sincere young man. Bright future ahead. I want to look into...baphoon... 🎶 (thats not the word.. I have ADHD too...) ... whatever the instrument you play.
    Thank you for admitting and sharing the joys snd struggles!

    • @tablescissors
      @tablescissors 9 месяцев назад +2

      That giggle came often at inappropriate time, it’s a psychological tell; it’s not a good sign. Kevin still has far to go psychologically to understand himself and his impulses and it seems he suspects that as well.

  • @rebeccawhitney235
    @rebeccawhitney235 11 месяцев назад +3

    Powerful 🙏

  • @winniecash1654
    @winniecash1654 10 месяцев назад +1

    The beginning put thoughts in my head of "here kitty kitty kitty." Ok, now I'll listen to the show.

  • @derekb4977
    @derekb4977 10 месяцев назад +2

    The title is so accurate it's a mask over you're real body and sex, it's a surgery husk like Frankenstein syndrome.

  • @markcroydon3195
    @markcroydon3195 10 месяцев назад +1

    It is great to hear that you have been saved from the horrible "Gender ideology" and all the terrible unnecessary drugs and surgery that were destroying your body.
    You are beautiful and worthwhile and accepted and valued as a woman and that is worth celebrating.
    I hope you have a wonderful life and use your story to stop any other people from being coerced, seduced, tricked or forced into damaging their body (and mind) to try to change their "Gender" to validate the evil authoritarian "Gender ideology".

  • @digitaltango
    @digitaltango 10 месяцев назад +3

    Interesting to look at the different reactions to the hormones; males experience depression on the estrogen and females experience euphoria and aggression on the testosterone.
    It's horrific that these practices are even allowed.

  • @genalee5211
    @genalee5211 17 дней назад

    God bless this man having the courage to share his story. Hopefully it helps people male & females in right direction away from evil trans agenda. 👿☠️😡

  • @sweetthunderoflove1
    @sweetthunderoflove1 10 месяцев назад +5

    Not all the LBGT communities are against detransition. I understand what's happening and don't believe children should transition. You still have support over here. It's not us or them.
    Thanks for your story.

  • @mohammadwasilliterate8037
    @mohammadwasilliterate8037 9 месяцев назад +2

    *After all that, his family was right, they told him not to transition, said he is male and don't do anything he will regret, and look now.* 🧐😎🧐

  • @karenlynch5684
    @karenlynch5684 8 месяцев назад

    Thanks!

  • @nprovazi
    @nprovazi 11 месяцев назад +8

    Boyce, PLEASE, invite Ariel Pink for a talk! Please research him. It would definitely be interesting.

  • @terryblais9128
    @terryblais9128 10 месяцев назад +1

    Im sorry for the incredible inner turmoil that this guy is bottling up still. I hope that he can actually find peace eventually. I reccomend strongly he emerses himself in forest or nature setting as often as he can it is the best therapy.

  • @AndyJarman
    @AndyJarman 11 месяцев назад +4

    47:30 Gnostic trans-substantiation.
    Transhumanism as a means of escaping from the confines of society's expectations.