Mastering Your Emotions in Relationships (Bulletproof Vest)

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  • Опубликовано: 2 июл 2024
  • MASTERING YOUR EMOTIONS IN RELATIONSHIPS (BULLETPROOF VEST)
    In this video, I am going to show you the 4 most common pitfalls people make when it comes to managing their own emotions in relationships. These 4 pitfalls are why so many men struggle to become emotionally bulletproof and become a master of their emotions in relationships.
    So if you want to get one step closer to becoming emotionally bulletproof, and become a master of your emotions in relationships - stay tuned!
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Комментарии • 46

  • @cj8122
    @cj8122 2 года назад +39

    I really wish that I could afford the program, but I listen to your videos religiously. I consider you the Master Yoda of relationships.

    • @YourBFFMegan
      @YourBFFMegan 2 года назад +9

      Geoffrey is the real deal. :-) Awesome content!

    • @TheLionhartstomp
      @TheLionhartstomp 2 года назад +6

      Same dude

    • @GeoffreySetiawan
      @GeoffreySetiawan  2 года назад +14

      lol maybe baby Yoda...

    • @FLS713HTX
      @FLS713HTX Год назад +4

      Me too bro, i replay all his videos to catch the principles numerous times

    • @tonyjensen7209
      @tonyjensen7209 Год назад +2

      @@FLS713HTX same. Like you said in a recent comment, "even at the surface level, the content is priceless". (Paraphrased) I've watched Geoffrey's videos over and over just like you. The client interviews are amazing and show how no situation is truly unique. Baby Yoda Relationship Master is turning men back into Jedi's!

  • @oneconscious9667
    @oneconscious9667 Год назад +4

    Told myself I will never “purchase a course” but I really fucking need this. I definitely have a survival mindset

    • @sky.the.infinite
      @sky.the.infinite 4 месяца назад

      Did you? If so, how’d it go/what’d you think?

  • @fifis101
    @fifis101 Год назад +9

    I definitely feel that I'm in the transition. I seem to have many of these aspects and most of the time I handle situations fine but I continue to have weak moments where it all goes out the window. A good thing is that I am aware when it happens, so I'm trying to see it as each time I'm one step closer to gaining full control.

  • @YoMama_JRXC
    @YoMama_JRXC 2 года назад +2

    This was one of your best videos yet! Loved the new edit styles and stuff, makes it so clean. But onto the topic, my ex girlfriend now, who I've mentioned in previous videos, has told me that she is just trying to survive, which is why she would get mad at me for just being around, and no really know why she is mad. Now we do not talk right now and I would love for her to see this video to let her know it'll be ok and that these videos help with mindset. This video helped me understand her view from the surviving aspect, and it makes sense that she wanted to cut me out of her life because she kept getting upset and didn't know why

  • @keyz898
    @keyz898 2 года назад +7

    Saving up for the program but until then, I watch your videos continuously religiously. Awesome stuff as always Geoffrey

    • @GeoffreySetiawan
      @GeoffreySetiawan  2 года назад +2

      Hi Alisha K,
      I love it! You will love next week, I have quite the client story coming out. Stay tuned.

  • @jesselise1996
    @jesselise1996 Год назад

    Your videos are very very helpful, thank you 🙏

  • @elizabethroberts8270
    @elizabethroberts8270 7 месяцев назад +1

    I wish I had found this channel a year ago. Great stuff.

  • @rodriguezperalta3212
    @rodriguezperalta3212 Год назад +1

    Bro you are the best. If I was not trying to get it right to save my marriage I will definitely would like to marry you. Lol. Thanks a lot bud. Cheers.

  • @irenerono7592
    @irenerono7592 2 года назад

    It's helpful.from Kenya

  • @rahuldeb9235
    @rahuldeb9235 2 года назад +1

    Gr8 learning as always. Yeah...the Bulletproofness is not actually guarding u, rather it's making u to "become" that person who can have "controlled compassion" in relationship. And then it gradually becomes part of u and seems to be organic eventually as u proceed...thanks a lot for sharing this

  • @truth10169
    @truth10169 2 года назад +3

    Good video I'm trying to learn to better at controlling my emotions.. Sometimes she say things that makes me angry and confused and it shows on my face and her response is this is the reason why I don't tell I things

    • @GeoffreySetiawan
      @GeoffreySetiawan  2 года назад +2

      Hi dewayne lewis,
      Yes, this is a skill we must master in order to provide the level of safety in a relationship where our partners feel like the can express anything with us and work to win-win solutions. Essentially turning every negative into a positive.
      Here is another good video to view on becoming emotionally bulletproof.
      ruclips.net/video/tp6g9vgOiec/видео.html

  • @SIESA_SQUAD
    @SIESA_SQUAD Год назад

    I have a lot to learn still. And a lot of practice......

  • @fish-on1679
    @fish-on1679 Год назад +1

    Jeffrey which books do you recommend that helped you reframe your mind this way? Any Greek philosphers or anything of the sorts

  • @tomphu1304
    @tomphu1304 2 года назад +2

    that analogy tho 10/10 @10:33

  • @jerongunn4416
    @jerongunn4416 2 года назад +5

    Hey Geoffrey, So I've followed all of your advise, sadly for me I cannot afford the program. My Wife has finally opened up to me about that she is re-thinking her decision. I feel like I've adapted most of what you have taught from your free videos on youtube. About Untethering, Being Bullet Proof, and Start with Safety and Trust. Do You have any comments or a video I may could use at this time when The things you teach actually start working?

    • @GeoffreySetiawan
      @GeoffreySetiawan  2 года назад +2

      Hi Jeron Gunn,
      Glad you are finding my videos helpful. I want you to review this playlist and see from my clients when they started to see these changes and what they tell you what you must do in order to have your partner to want to start feeling your changes.

  • @GeoffreySetiawan
    @GeoffreySetiawan  2 года назад +4

    Hey guys hope this was helpful! Leave me a comment with your thoughts? Be sure to check out my brand new masterclass on the 5 Proven Steps to Rebuilding Your Relationship/Marriage. (Warning: Spots are limited)
    💪 Here is the link to the MASTERCLASS! -> relationshipsmastered.com/masterclass
    🎁 Download the FREE GUIDE! -> relationshipsmastered.com/healing-partner-emotions
    🎉 To see how all my clients have achieved massive success through dire & hopeless circumstances, click here! ruclips.net/p/PLQ8tvyhQlPzsNm-vC_g_8SWGcJRngefgU

  • @sherececocco
    @sherececocco Год назад

    I knew that people can't make people feel anything. I have been saying this for years and my people don't agree. Thank you for helping me feel less crazy and lonely.

  • @joannariseley2132
    @joannariseley2132 6 месяцев назад

    Is it okay to be so overwhelmed when you have 4 kids and doing it alone. sometimes it’s hard and you just want to cry, does that mean I’m not bulletproof then. I don’t understand. 1 adult with 4 kids is not easy.

  • @rookie6112
    @rookie6112 Год назад +1

    Hi Geoffrey, your videos are very helpful and eye opening for me. I have a question, me and my girlfriend (6 years together) are currently on a break to decide if she wants to continue her life with me.
    I know that she loves me, but she also mentioned that I am not her ideal type in terms of character or practicality in terms of finance/job/hobby. However, we are very happy together and can seem to live with each other pretty well aside from the occasional explosive quarrels which I think is solvable from your videos.
    Do you think it is “healthy” or the “right choice” for her to continue the relationship even though I am not her ideal type?

  • @cali224
    @cali224 2 года назад +3

    My partner asked for space “pause in the relationship” last week. It’s long distance, we usually see each other once every month. However , I have been getting the “hot/cold” treatment. She sends me texts to see what I am up to. And randomly pics of her day for some kind of reaction despite me also respecting her space. Is she ready to come back ?

    • @Handle6278
      @Handle6278 2 года назад

      I'm going through the same thing right now haha it's hard to get answers for this type of relationship because it's long distance. Your partner ignoring you is only ignoring the phone or message.

    • @Jonathan-ko6hf
      @Jonathan-ko6hf Год назад +1

      No, what is happening is she is trying to comfort herself and you throughout the breakup. This is a promising sign that she still loves you but you need to be clear that the relationship is either in a break or its not. The limbo is not worth it

  • @lilwamz3
    @lilwamz3 2 года назад

    My partner is a 47 year old woman going threw menopausal emotional detachment / depression and has threatened to leave so how would this work for me ?

    • @GeoffreySetiawan
      @GeoffreySetiawan  2 года назад

      Hi wvpapabear2,
      Since this is what you and your partner are going through I think this video below will be eye-opening for you.
      ruclips.net/video/wRxMS4Qlu4Q/видео.html

  • @Christian_counsel
    @Christian_counsel 11 месяцев назад

    Good video but you need more examples.

  • @elizabethbarnett2981
    @elizabethbarnett2981 Год назад

    I'm married to a man that has cheated, lied, hides stuff, and is an alcoholic with a very addictive personality. Is there any therapy that accepts insurance that you can refer me too? I value your videos. I just need guidance. He says he wants to be sober and is getting help. However; I caught him hiding alcohol and he now is calling me controlling and blames me for everything. He works long hours and I only see him on the weekend and he says I smother him. I give him everything and he still treats me as a problem.

    • @GeoffreySetiawan
      @GeoffreySetiawan  Год назад

      Hi Elizabeth,
      I'm afraid I am not able to give you any referrals on this one.
      But I can send you one of my favorite stories with a student of mine Liam Rose. He too battled many of the things that you listed in your comment above.
      You can check his story out below.
      ruclips.net/video/LSs7y0s0gYg/видео.html

  • @chitos2132
    @chitos2132 Год назад

    Can i seek reassurance from my ex or is that something I should leave out while I continue to practice this process?

    • @GeoffreySetiawan
      @GeoffreySetiawan  Год назад +1

      Hi ChitoS,
      You tell me. If your partner assures you, will you keep going? What if they don't, will you still keep working?
      So then what does it change and what message does it send if I am "disappointed" if they do not assure me?

  • @sherececocco
    @sherececocco Год назад

    Purple elephant