As a man I too faced so much bullying by my classmates because of my obesity and skin colour.. Now I am fit and muscular. Still I am insecure to approach people and became people pleaser.🤕🤕🤕
I can feel you gurl. Facing such scenarios at that age for something that's out of our bounds would really make us question our very existence itself. Every parent/teacher, student, person out there are stuck deeply into social stigmas. It starts from a lighter note of things such ladies are not allowed to sit in front of males at home. But, I'm so glad that you put yourself together and became who you are rn & for talking abt it now! Love your boldness gurl & this broad vision of it impacts the society as a whole 🫰🏻
Same story as u sis - from early puberty to hating school I thought I was the only one from my parents to everyone saw me as a weird when I shared my experience and stood on my values and thoughts Now doing my MBBS, weight in right BMI ,skincare stuff and still improving myself ...better life than my bullies A needed video❤🎀
Once, when I was in 8th standard, I was a little chubby. I was walking alone home from my friend's house, wearing leggings and a baggy T-shirt with my school bag on my back. There's a group of guys, around 22-25 years old, bullied me for wearing that outfit. I ran home feeling insecure and never walked alone on the road or wore anything slightly tight again.
I share this video to my friend. Because she also affected by this issue. One of the important topic that we need to talk more and change this society.
Video full of sensible word.. youtube channel la particular topic pesra madhiri illa direct a friend kita ungaluku upset agara vishyatha share panra madhiri imple and sensible a iruku 👍🏻👍🏻
thank you for talking this out! this video will be a reality check to people i guess, and sorry for the uncomfortableness ! will be more aware of things!! keep going ❤🍻
These words are something that ive always felt that people should know about, people sollura oru varthai epdi receiving person ah affect appude ne theriyama pesuvanga, thanks for making this video and i hope it reaches many people
At some school age I used to be judgemental about people and later realising it was all mistake of me, now i am starting to like people as they are, oru silaruku late ah tha maturity varum pola(me)
I think body shaming is a thing for children's. And the grown-ups should not do it. If they are doing it still? Their brain just got stopped growing.😅 I agree with you👍🏽💯
Relatable talk... Innaiku vara I'm facing some probs still now... I was chubby... Kundu koo nu frnds, thn enna da ellam saapatayum neeye saapudriya? Nu relatives... And thn teenage i lost some weight i became thin, i dont even know how... I did some calisthenics and maintained tht appo vanthu enna da ilaichutte pora, weight podra nu solranga ... Ippo crct aa kondu vanten oralavuku... Now they r saying enna da bailwaan maari suthitu irukka.... I wanna yell at those who make ths sentences: sootha mooditu irunga da naan vera epdi thaan irukanum epdi irunthalum ethaachu sollite irukenga... But i helpless and useless at tht part...payana enakke ivlo hurt aagiruntha... I can understand how much u tolerated those in ur time....
I am bullying by my close relatives at all fell pannadha maamey seme adi tha ingayuu vilugudhu edho edhayo paathu kathudhu nu move on aagi poittey irukkanum 👍🙂👍
school students does not know the cause and effect. They just do the things without thinking about the other person. Only few of them do not hurt or do anything to harm others. It's because they did not taught to respect other students in school or home and also they can't hide things, they just show off not knowing the result. I have also gone through many tough times because of teachers they misunderstood me and punished me for the problems others created and there is no proper communication between students and teachers during my schooling. Teachers only goal is to pass all the students, they do not care about other things. I also looked back at my past several times, i feel it's because of my teachers and my parents, my schooling days are not pleasant. I feel its teachers responsibility to take care of the students mental health and parents support should be needed for the student instead of blaming them
this is really a complex topic. both sides should be educated. even schools. my wife face the same promblem. now my daughter has started to complaint about toilets in schools.
Yeah it's time for paragraph cmd : Body shaming itha yellarumey avanga life la face panra oru visayootha, naanutha naa tall soo pasanga yella yenna perusu netta innu neraya kuptuvanga valanthathu yenthappu illayeh athu yennoda gen athu puriya almost clg last yr vara time yeduthuthu and teenage la pimples varu yenakkuh neraya yenna pakkaravanga yellaru yennda munchi ippudi irukkuhnu solluvanga taller ah vida pimple tha yenna rompa affect panna visayoo ipo okay sari aagituchu but antha period naa itha nenachu neraya time aluthurukkeh youtube neraya paathu remedy try pannirukkeh that's tough time, But yellarukkuh antha one realisation time varu yenakkuh thaana prlm ivanungalukkuh yenga yeriethu naa yea intha maturity munnadiyeh yenakkuh varleynu rompa feel pannirukkeh, and yella class lauh one boy or girl iruppanga hole class eh avangala pully pannuvanga nickname solli kuptuvanga naa avangala appudi kupta mattah infact yennoda close frd aah vey irunthaalu avangala nickname solli kupta matteh atha naa chinna vayasulayeh learn panna visayoo 10th la kuda naanga oru 4 peru bully guys senthu oru grop aanoo last ah aishu neenga sonningalla pasanga kudatha naa ipo irukkeh one person kuda yenna uncomfortable ah feel panna vaikkalanu sonnathu kekkum pothu rompa hpy ah irukkuh 🥰
Apart from body shaming getting puberty at early age is not a normal thing and don't normalise it If you get puberty at 6th it's solely your side problem or your parents problem made your lifestyle chaotically made you attain earlier puberty (13-16) Is the normal age too much before or after is the individual problem
Bro edha pesnalum normalise pandrom nu Sona ena dhan pesuvanga oruthar . let my lifestyle be chaotic bt what we are concentrating in this video is abt bodyshaming. Hope you know tht 😊❤️
YASS! Insecurities engayo irunthu varala people impose it upon us. I got bodyshamed a lottt! People were like ni olliya iruka ni olliya iruka ALL THE FUCKING TIME. Nalla panunga ka keep goinnn🎀
Sorry to hear about the bullying happened to you. But I started to transform my body and decided to consume healthy diet. Maybe weightloss can transform you to an upgraded version of you which will give more confidence.
Body shaming mariye gay nu solrethum common aahitu varuthu ka 😡 ethe pannalum gay nu solranuhal friend kuda veliye ponalum gay nu than solranuhal adhan ka ore erichal aahuthu 🤬adhe solravuhaluku comedy ah than irukum ana namaku apdi irukkathu ka 🤬😡
@@Mr.oogway-n7f kandipaaa . Ungaluku kadupu avudhu pudikalana nera sollirunga. Most of the people ok with gay jokes and they even laugh at the joke so adhu prechana maari poggala . But it depends
Interesting. Opinion and morals policing built our current society. Sometimes it cross its limit. Matured persons will ignore all these comments on colour, dress or body. Who knows they might have told this with good intentions but due immaturity it might have received wrong. It seems you are like the person who take small things very seriously. I got few comments on my dress. I know my family financial situation. I laugh at them inside Since I got maturity at very young. I compensate my minus with my plus side. I studied well and being topper so I always get respect from many. Few always talk like this due to their immaturity and lack of knowledge. We can’t change everyone and it’s not our work. It’s better to ignore them
@@KarthikeyanThangavel-pl1ek First people react pandradha vechi their are immature nu easya solldringa . Na ena sodlrana be little more sensible when you speak . Sensitive nu solli oruthar feelings ha ipdi pesradhuku why not people can be little more empathetic and sensible while talking. I was sharing my experience and it's way long back so things changes mindset changed . So stop asking people to be mature and be little more sensible ( respectfully)☺️♥️
@ you did not mention in your video that my mindsets has changed now. When it was happened in you childhoods, you friends and classmates also at same maturity. You should have realized that. Nothing to share childhood experiences as memories not as complaints
People dont have rights to comment on your weight, but this world doesn't work that way, people judges, just lose the weight and become fit, coz you itself don't like being fat(for most people), but no one should troll others, im not saying that they were right, but people are wired in their brain to like certain things, like if someone want to select a person as a friend or anything from 10 random people, no one will go for a fat person, this is how this world works, no one prefer fat people. Its also unhealthy. That being said, but no one has right troll or hurt others by saying you are fat and those kinda things.
@@anishd9699 True . Being healthy and staying fit is more important than anything .can't agree more . But people can just stop commenting someone's appearance based on their looks I guess. If you don't wanna choose fat ones it's okay bt don't hurt them or pass comments that's what we are speaking here . 😊♥️
you had come across of something but thing is human are soical begins like man and woman have different things you life is in your hand not in other thoughts if you gave it to other ther is no peace in your life
Enaku la neriya nadandhuruku, enaku buck teeth chinna vayasula, and obese , dark. So neriya Peru ena velayada sethuka maatanga, enna thoda kooda koodadhu nu class la elarkitayum solitanga, teachers um mae idha ketu sirichaanga.. Now I became a person who cannot socialize well. I am 31 now. Although I corrected my buck teeth with braces, and lost weight, still I find difficult to get validation of beauty from someone, one guy said I look like Henry Cavill in dark skin , I laughed. Enaku date kooda kedaika kastama irku, oru ponum pesa maatikidhu dhu
Sorry to hear about that but one day you will be looked beautiful for what you are with that one right person . You will soon find that right person .Life doesn't stop here . You still got whole life waiting for you.Hang in there with that hope ❤
being fat vs pathologically fat is different . u hv see fat cells - oestrogens cycle. it destroys ur health, and psyc. so YES should not be "pathologically" fat.
@@doctormohamedabduls8848 respectfully what your saying is right . But here I'm talking about the context of bodyshaming which is insulting and hurting someone for their appearance. Yes the health should be taken care of but here we are focusing on people who can't stop commenting on peoples appearance.
Yellam, RUclips RUclips nu kelamburinga, it’s so saturated. Summa oru topic eduthu pesa vendiyadhu. RUclips pakkam vandhale neenga Elam Dhaan da varinga, trust me there’s no change by putting up these videos
right video at the right time, gone through lots of back talks today, i feel bad. but at the end of this video i just got a relief. THANKS AKKOV. (also, u look good today akkov)✨🌿😌🫶
As a man I too faced so much bullying by my classmates because of my obesity and skin colour.. Now I am fit and muscular. Still I am insecure to approach people and became people pleaser.🤕🤕🤕
Neenga fit aanadhe mass dhaa bro😊💪
Yeah don't be afraid to open up anna. And don't be a people pleaser
I can feel you gurl. Facing such scenarios at that age for something that's out of our bounds would really make us question our very existence itself. Every parent/teacher, student, person out there are stuck deeply into social stigmas. It starts from a lighter note of things such ladies are not allowed to sit in front of males at home.
But, I'm so glad that you put yourself together and became who you are rn & for talking abt it now!
Love your boldness gurl & this broad vision of it impacts the society as a whole 🫰🏻
@@shanmuganathanm2384 thank you for you words ♥️🥹
Same story as u sis - from early puberty to hating school
I thought I was the only one from my parents to everyone saw me as a weird when I shared my experience and stood on my values and thoughts
Now doing my MBBS, weight in right BMI ,skincare stuff and still improving myself ...better life than my bullies
A needed video❤🎀
@@gpreethi1006 ❤️❤️lovess
I too gone through body shaming a lot in my childhood...
Your story really hits hard
Stay Strong ❤🩹
@@eee17harishkumar.r69 I'm good , hope you are doing good too . ♥️
Once, when I was in 8th standard, I was a little chubby. I was walking alone home from my friend's house, wearing leggings and a baggy T-shirt with my school bag on my back. There's a group of guys, around 22-25 years old, bullied me for wearing that outfit. I ran home feeling insecure and never walked alone on the road or wore anything slightly tight again.
@@Jessyy_14777 sending virtual hugs , stay strong. reminder: You are beautiful ❤️
@aishutalks29 Right back at ya pookie! 🥺🥹🫂🫂 Sending lots of love and positive vibes your way! ❤️
I share this video to my friend. Because she also affected by this issue. One of the important topic that we need to talk more and change this society.
Hope she is okay ❤
Video full of sensible word.. youtube channel la particular topic pesra madhiri illa direct a friend kita ungaluku upset agara vishyatha share panra madhiri imple and sensible a iruku 👍🏻👍🏻
Aishuu Always speaks from the heart .. society yaaraa neenga 🥹🔪
thank you for talking this out!
this video will be a reality check to people i guess,
and sorry for the uncomfortableness !
will be more aware of things!!
keep going ❤🍻
@@sathishfrancisxavierr5301 ♥️♥️
These words are something that ive always felt that people should know about, people sollura oru varthai epdi receiving person ah affect appude ne theriyama pesuvanga, thanks for making this video and i hope it reaches many people
@@winterbear216 ♥️♥️
At some school age I used to be judgemental about people and later realising it was all mistake of me, now i am starting to like people as they are, oru silaruku late ah tha maturity varum pola(me)
Relatable Aishu...
I had a Traumatic childhood by everyone around me.
Our society every time being cruel for most people.
Yess sadly
Why blood..... saaaaaame blood ...😂😂😂😂😂 same to you akkkaaaveeee
Needed Topic to talk ✅
I think body shaming is a thing for children's. And the grown-ups should not do it. If they are doing it still? Their brain just got stopped growing.😅 I agree with you👍🏽💯
Relatable talk... Innaiku vara I'm facing some probs still now...
I was chubby... Kundu koo nu frnds, thn enna da ellam saapatayum neeye saapudriya? Nu relatives... And thn teenage i lost some weight i became thin, i dont even know how... I did some calisthenics and maintained tht appo vanthu enna da ilaichutte pora, weight podra nu solranga ... Ippo crct aa kondu vanten oralavuku... Now they r saying enna da bailwaan maari suthitu irukka.... I wanna yell at those who make ths sentences: sootha mooditu irunga da naan vera epdi thaan irukanum epdi irunthalum ethaachu sollite irukenga...
But i helpless and useless at tht part...payana enakke ivlo hurt aagiruntha... I can understand how much u tolerated those in ur time....
@@Tatakae143 stay away from people who make you feel bad for what you are . YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL NO MATTER WHAT ♥️more love
@@aishutalks29 sure ka👍🏾
Edit : wish u a adv Happy New yr
I am bullying by my close relatives at all fell pannadha maamey seme adi tha ingayuu vilugudhu edho edhayo paathu kathudhu nu move on aagi poittey irukkanum 👍🙂👍
8:34 Me too...Fucked Up in School Life 💔
@@lincoln069 sending love ♥️
எதுவும் சில காலம்....🤗
11:30 grief of old memories.
Neingaa sollura Mari than enoda sister school poito vanthu enta sollu va kaKarthu kasatama irukum 😢
@@blkpikfans8268 comfort her , remind her how beautiful she is ♥️
Video nalla irukku vro ❤️🙂👍
I shouldn’t have to say that in this video. But 15:40 this reaction and idk what’s the sound that in bg like a clock sound perfectly synced 😫♥️✨…
Outside people body shaming panna kuda perusa eduthuka mate,, aana veetla parents eh pannuvanga
@@vikneshwaran.p sending love . Be strong ♥️
school students does not know the cause and effect. They just do the things without thinking about the other person. Only few of them do not hurt or do anything to harm others. It's because they did not taught to respect other students in school or home and also they can't hide things, they just show off not knowing the result. I have also gone through many tough times because of teachers they misunderstood me and punished me for the problems others created and there is no proper communication between students and teachers during my schooling. Teachers only goal is to pass all the students, they do not care about other things. I also looked back at my past several times, i feel it's because of my teachers and my parents, my schooling days are not pleasant. I feel its teachers responsibility to take care of the students mental health and parents support should be needed for the student instead of blaming them
Agreeed ❤
Good video🎉. Appreciate❤
this is really a complex topic. both sides should be educated. even schools. my wife face the same promblem. now my daughter has started to complaint about toilets in schools.
@@doctormohamedabduls8848 hope she speaks for the cause or you 😊♥️
10:53 Truee Lines 💯📈🗿
Yeah it's time for paragraph cmd : Body shaming itha yellarumey avanga life la face panra oru visayootha, naanutha naa tall soo pasanga yella yenna perusu netta innu neraya kuptuvanga valanthathu yenthappu illayeh athu yennoda gen athu puriya almost clg last yr vara time yeduthuthu and teenage la pimples varu yenakkuh neraya yenna pakkaravanga yellaru yennda munchi ippudi irukkuhnu solluvanga taller ah vida pimple tha yenna rompa affect panna visayoo ipo okay sari aagituchu but antha period naa itha nenachu neraya time aluthurukkeh youtube neraya paathu remedy try pannirukkeh that's tough time, But yellarukkuh antha one realisation time varu yenakkuh thaana prlm ivanungalukkuh yenga yeriethu naa yea intha maturity munnadiyeh yenakkuh varleynu rompa feel pannirukkeh, and yella class lauh one boy or girl iruppanga hole class eh avangala pully pannuvanga nickname solli kuptuvanga naa avangala appudi kupta mattah infact yennoda close frd aah vey irunthaalu avangala nickname solli kupta matteh atha naa chinna vayasulayeh learn panna visayoo 10th la kuda naanga oru 4 peru bully guys senthu oru grop aanoo last ah aishu neenga sonningalla pasanga kudatha naa ipo irukkeh one person kuda yenna uncomfortable ah feel panna vaikkalanu sonnathu kekkum pothu rompa hpy ah irukkuh 🥰
Sending you lots of love brother ❤😊
@aishutalks29 yeh yennoda cmd ah insta story pottrukkinga paathey 😭
Your views are very clear.
What will be your reaction if your relations or your parents see this video ? Will their ideology change ?
@rakshithvenkataramani-s8x may be . I have always talked for myself in home . So they know ♥️
@ awesome
Apart from body shaming getting puberty at early age is not a normal thing and don't normalise it
If you get puberty at 6th it's solely your side problem or your parents problem made your lifestyle chaotically made you attain earlier puberty
(13-16) Is the normal age too much before or after is the individual problem
Bro edha pesnalum normalise pandrom nu Sona ena dhan pesuvanga oruthar . let my lifestyle be chaotic bt what we are concentrating in this video is abt bodyshaming. Hope you know tht 😊❤️
@aishutalks29 that's what I said if it's body shaming don't indulge the puberty topic inside or else atleast u can hide when you did attain puberty
Noo friends life will be happy
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Nalla Video 👍
@@asjaysan ♥️
I was fat i was thin iwas bald i was shamed all along after a point it didn't ecen scratch me so just live with it i guess
@@nas3434 may be but don't let people let you down just with their words . hope you are good and happy ♥️
akka bg music enga ?
@@red_velvet57 yedhuku potutu nu vitennn
video sound kami ah iruku
Next video la seri aidum 😊
@@aishutalks29 Cheers
YASS! Insecurities engayo irunthu varala people impose it upon us. I got bodyshamed a lottt! People were like ni olliya iruka ni olliya iruka ALL THE FUCKING TIME. Nalla panunga ka keep goinnn🎀
@@Brahmibanter loves 💕
@@Brahmibanter Ada negala I too watched ur videos . Nalla pesringa theliva ♥️fan Moment enaku 😂
@@aishutalks29 aiyoooo akkaa 🥹❤️
5:15 azhuguringla🥺?
@niveshdhanaraj cha cha kanu verkudhu
@@aishutalks29😫💔…
@@aishutalks29Akka relatable
Grind
Yeah 😮💨
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Sorry to hear about the bullying happened to you. But I started to transform my body and decided to consume healthy diet. Maybe weightloss can transform you to an upgraded version of you which will give more confidence.
Yeahhh sure I believe in that too ❤
Body shaming mariye gay nu solrethum common aahitu varuthu ka 😡 ethe pannalum gay nu solranuhal friend kuda veliye ponalum gay nu than solranuhal adhan ka ore erichal aahuthu 🤬adhe solravuhaluku comedy ah than irukum ana namaku apdi irukkathu ka 🤬😡
@@Mr.oogway-n7f kandipaaa . Ungaluku kadupu avudhu pudikalana nera sollirunga. Most of the people ok with gay jokes and they even laugh at the joke so adhu prechana maari poggala . But it depends
1:52 crt ka 😢
Hlo🎉
Interesting. Opinion and morals policing built our current society. Sometimes it cross its limit. Matured persons will ignore all these comments on colour, dress or body. Who knows they might have told this with good intentions but due immaturity it might have received wrong. It seems you are like the person who take small things very seriously. I got few comments on my dress. I know my family financial situation. I laugh at them inside Since I got maturity at very young. I compensate my minus with my plus side. I studied well and being topper so I always get respect from many. Few always talk like this due to their immaturity and lack of knowledge. We can’t change everyone and it’s not our work. It’s better to ignore them
@@KarthikeyanThangavel-pl1ek First people react pandradha vechi their are immature nu easya solldringa . Na ena sodlrana be little more sensible when you speak . Sensitive nu solli oruthar feelings ha ipdi pesradhuku why not people can be little more empathetic and sensible while talking. I was sharing my experience and it's way long back so things changes mindset changed . So stop asking people to be mature and be little more sensible ( respectfully)☺️♥️
@ you did not mention in your video that my mindsets has changed now. When it was happened in you childhoods, you friends and classmates also at same maturity. You should have realized that. Nothing to share childhood experiences as memories not as complaints
Akka moustache aa shave pannunga kaa
@@Thaaipaalthirudan ila thambi enku valaka asai 😊
Body shaming is not correct akka
Thin are fat it's not cool 👎
People dont have rights to comment on your weight, but this world doesn't work that way, people judges, just lose the weight and become fit, coz you itself don't like being fat(for most people), but no one should troll others, im not saying that they were right, but people are wired in their brain to like certain things, like if someone want to select a person as a friend or anything from 10 random people, no one will go for a fat person, this is how this world works, no one prefer fat people. Its also unhealthy.
That being said, but no one has right troll or hurt others by saying you are fat and those kinda things.
@@anishd9699 True . Being healthy and staying fit is more important than anything .can't agree more . But people can just stop commenting someone's appearance based on their looks I guess. If you don't wanna choose fat ones it's okay bt don't hurt them or pass comments that's what we are speaking here . 😊♥️
you had come across of something but thing is human are soical begins like man and woman have different things you life is in your hand not in other thoughts if you gave it to other ther is no peace in your life
Yes later realised that I'm just sharing how it felt and my childhood experiences. Now we all grown up and know how to handle 😊❤
I can't understand ur language 😢😢
This video is in tamil . If you can't understand tamil let me know so that will soon try adding subtitles 😊
@aishutalks29 thnx sister
I just want to watch this vdo
Enaku la neriya nadandhuruku, enaku buck teeth chinna vayasula, and obese , dark. So neriya Peru ena velayada sethuka maatanga, enna thoda kooda koodadhu nu class la elarkitayum solitanga, teachers um mae idha ketu sirichaanga..
Now I became a person who cannot socialize well. I am 31 now.
Although I corrected my buck teeth with braces, and lost weight, still I find difficult to get validation of beauty from someone, one guy said I look like Henry Cavill in dark skin , I laughed.
Enaku date kooda kedaika kastama irku, oru ponum pesa maatikidhu dhu
Sorry to hear about that but one day you will be looked beautiful for what you are with that one right person . You will soon find that right person .Life doesn't stop here . You still got whole life waiting for you.Hang in there with that hope ❤
being fat vs pathologically fat is different . u hv see fat cells - oestrogens cycle. it destroys ur health, and psyc. so YES should not be "pathologically" fat.
@@doctormohamedabduls8848 respectfully what your saying is right . But here I'm talking about the context of bodyshaming which is insulting and hurting someone for their appearance. Yes the health should be taken care of but here we are focusing on people who can't stop commenting on peoples appearance.
@@aishutalks29 . Yeah.. that's a thing to be considered.
Yellam, RUclips RUclips nu kelamburinga, it’s so saturated. Summa oru topic eduthu pesa vendiyadhu. RUclips pakkam vandhale neenga Elam Dhaan da varinga, trust me there’s no change by putting up these videos
@@zaynmalik4103 na change kaga podren nu modha sollave ila adhuthu avlo kadupa erundha pakadhinga bro 🙂↕️❤️
Hi my Name is Myshoe . if your Name is Ishoe
Same happens to thin people also..aana its not taken as seriously compared to fat shaming🥲
Yeahhh
right video at the right time, gone through lots of back talks today, i feel bad. but at the end of this video i just got a relief. THANKS AKKOV. (also, u look good today akkov)✨🌿😌🫶
♥️♥️
Akka finally bought a mic🫠… Btw without seeing the video and context i am posting this comment. Apologies for that
Ipium vangala 🙂kadan vangikren mic ha