You are punishing him for the actions of his father. I don't agree with how it was handled cause there's tons of people with that diagnosis who live normal lives. The approach was extreme. You've been with him 4 years an everything was great until u read the diagnosis. Childish response
The squirrels he killed wasn’t his father’s doing. The way he treated his colleagues wasn’t his father’s doings, him keeping his diagnosis wasn’t his fathers doings, him saying “why couldn’t you have said so on the phone rather than fro waste my time in RL?” Wasn’t his father’s doings either. You give him too much credit and this guy not enough accountability. Go and be with a psychopath yourself! Psychopaths can’t really love people, they can only play pretend. Who would want that? Cause soon as she looses the value for him she might end up like those squirrels. I read about how serial killers are born everyone started small by killing animals, before they killed humans. His word on not becoming like his father means nothing, especially in the face of him being unable to love someone. Her safety is ultimately more valuable than loyalty towards him. Funnily I think the psychopath bf would probably understand this better than you, because he has lost value in their eyes by being unable to be “good”, unable to love her and being unable to make her feel save with him.
Yeah, you should never be with someone if you have to question if they would ever hurt you or lie to you.
Sounds like she has a diagnosis too
Listening to the conversation it’s hard to know who’s the psychopath
You are punishing him for the actions of his father. I don't agree with how it was handled cause there's tons of people with that diagnosis who live normal lives. The approach was extreme. You've been with him 4 years an everything was great until u read the diagnosis. Childish response
The squirrels he killed wasn’t his father’s doing. The way he treated his colleagues wasn’t his father’s doings, him keeping his diagnosis wasn’t his fathers doings, him saying “why couldn’t you have said so on the phone rather than fro waste my time in RL?” Wasn’t his father’s doings either. You give him too much credit and this guy not enough accountability. Go and be with a psychopath yourself! Psychopaths can’t really love people, they can only play pretend. Who would want that? Cause soon as she looses the value for him she might end up like those squirrels. I read about how serial killers are born everyone started small by killing animals, before they killed humans. His word on not becoming like his father means nothing, especially in the face of him being unable to love someone. Her safety is ultimately more valuable than loyalty towards him. Funnily I think the psychopath bf would probably understand this better than you, because he has lost value in their eyes by being unable to be “good”, unable to love her and being unable to make her feel save with him.