When the narcissist first started going "silent" I couldn't understand why she was behaving like that....I later found out she was planning her exodus and the discard! So sneaky! 🐍
My ex did this and worse to me for years, we eventually split up, I was devastated. She got back in contact after a year of silence and is now ignoring me again. I'm not interested in a relationship like this anymore. I'd rather be alone. She can just f off.
My problem is that I fell in love with the love bomb and would like to sit and talk like that with a human again. I lived with a narc wife for 22 years and I'm so glad she left me one morning.
This video clarified so many things for me Clarice, thank you. 14 months of confusion & cognitive dissonance after being brutally & cruelly discarded & now I’m starting to see what was really going on.😮
I just got the point where I just didn't care anymore when my mother gave me the silent treatment. She did it so much I just stoo caring, but she did do a lot more crap to hurt me. I just couldn't care anymore. I didn't have the energy.
There is a song , written some time ago … ‘ It’s so funny how we don’t talk anymore’ ….. the lyrics are perfect in their expressions…just as your assistance is today. We have so much suffering it really shows how Very Insecure THEY really are …we have to be stronger. 🙏🏼 Please …. ❤️
My narcissist daughter goes silent to punish me. We communicate only through texts. I also go silent to punish her, and believe me, it does just that because when I go silent on her, she doesn't get supply from me and she will try hard to talk to me again. I live 1000 miles from her, so she can't do much to me and she has already isolated and smeared me, and I don't care when she does STFU so she's played all her cards with me.
You know something is brewing when narcs go silent, and they are usually plotting and scheming their next move. In some cases, a narc's silence is their way to solely focus on themselves mentally and emotionally because in spite of narcs interacting with others and craving narc supply from them, they still need solo time with themselves to recuperate and recharge--we all do. However, when non-narcs engage in the silent treatment to recharge and solely focus on their mental health needs, it becomes a problem, and a cause for concern for narcs because they sense losing narc supply. Narcs will criticize others for silent treatment practices and use it against them by implying that something has to be wrong with an individual, because they're not fully engaged and emotionally detached. This frightens narcs and invokes fear because they may sense that someone is plotting against them, and narcs need to know what that person is thinking at all times, so that they can be one step ahead in the scheme of things. This explains why narcs are always asking others "what is wrong, are you okay? etc.,because they want to be warned beforehand in order to protect their fragile ego or evading consequences for their actions.
I've asked several guys and girls "did I do something wrong?" They all say, "Oh nothing, we're good." The silent treatment isn't good for anyone. Ask some of the American POW's in the Korean War. Some just curled up and died of loneliness and despair I suppose.
Okay so this ‘silence’ must be different from the narcissist who is perpetually silent with their partner in the way they never open up, connect, make you feel irrelevant/invisible, etc. whereby being completely opposite with their enablers. This ‘silence’ is because they know we know their scheme. (Not to confuse the two ‘silent treatments.)
I feel my son is a narsasist… he has accused me of being one, but no indication of his reasoning for making that connection. I consitintaly review what I have done. Researched the characteristics, I don’t really see myself having them. He gave me hope with the promise that we needed to talk last sept. No communication since… I have tried reaching out. He has completely cut us off… we don’t even know where he lives…. I have just resolved myself to never having another interaction or conversation. But I always desire some sort of reuniting… it’s very confusing.
I'm dealing with two narc women. One of the girls got extremely angry with me for saying no to her sexual advance. Since then she has been interfering with my life. If I dare to talk to a girl in our recovery group she will almost immediately go talk to that girl and cause her to not talk to me again. She has also forbade me to ever talk to her again. I tried good morning once and that was not a good idea. The two narcs silent treatment does affect me, I have gone from being a sort of footloose and confident guy to not being able to talk to most people in the group. If I ask if they'd like to talk or tell me what the problem is they usually say..."Oh nothing, we're good." Bullshit!
Hi, firstly thank you so much for helping me get out of my NPD relationship through understanding NPD, but how does one stop intergenerational passing down of shitty NPD behavior
I am in love with a narcissist girl she always give me silent treatment... And i thought i am the main problem and i hurt her again and again...and feel guilty always
The silent treatment is a blessing. Use it to heal
When the narcissist first started going "silent" I couldn't understand why she was behaving like that....I later found out she was planning her exodus and the discard! So sneaky! 🐍
This is one of your best ones. I'm a victim of narcs and have learned a lot, but need to be reminded every so often about their dirty little games.
Same here!
My ex did this and worse to me for years, we eventually split up, I was devastated. She got back in contact after a year of silence and is now ignoring me again. I'm not interested in a relationship like this anymore. I'd rather be alone. She can just f off.
My problem is that I fell in love with the love bomb and would like to sit and talk like that with a human again. I lived with a narc wife for 22 years and I'm so glad she left me one morning.
@@markh4926 same here Mark. Maybe you will again, but next time it will be sincere and everlasting. Not a fake act from a superb actor.
Thank you .called narc out on bs . Getting silent treatment. Me . Giving it right back . Peace
The narcs silent treatment backfired. It showed me he wasn’t worth chasing after so I blocked him and went no contact.
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
I wish I was strong enough to do that 😔
Action Speak Louder Then Word's,
Wow ! You are waking a lot of sleeping giants and I love and appreciate this powerful information, Ty from the bottom of my heart ❤.
This video clarified so many things for me Clarice, thank you. 14 months of confusion & cognitive dissonance after being brutally & cruelly discarded & now I’m starting to see what was really going on.😮
I just got the point where I just didn't care anymore when my mother gave me the silent treatment. She did it so much I just stoo caring, but she did do a lot more crap to hurt me. I just couldn't care anymore. I didn't have the energy.
Run! They are clowns!🤡🤡🤡👈🏻 my ex is a covert vulnerable narcissist sociopath. He tried to ruin me and I turned the tables onto him. Game OVER-😵💫👈🏻
There is a song , written some time ago … ‘ It’s so funny how we don’t talk anymore’ ….. the lyrics are perfect in their expressions…just as your assistance is today. We have so much suffering it really shows how Very Insecure THEY really are …we have to be stronger. 🙏🏼 Please …. ❤️
My narcissist daughter goes silent to punish me. We communicate only through texts. I also go silent to punish her, and believe me, it does just that because when I go silent on her, she doesn't get supply from me and she will try hard to talk to me again. I live 1000 miles from her, so she can't do much to me and she has already isolated and smeared me, and I don't care when she does STFU so she's played all her cards with me.
You know something is brewing when narcs go silent, and they are usually plotting and scheming their next move.
In some cases, a narc's silence is their way to solely focus on themselves mentally and emotionally because in spite of narcs interacting with others and craving narc supply from them, they still need solo time with themselves to recuperate and recharge--we all do.
However, when non-narcs engage in the silent treatment to recharge and solely focus on their mental health needs, it becomes a problem, and a cause for concern for narcs because they sense losing narc supply.
Narcs will criticize others for silent treatment practices and use it against them by implying that something has to be wrong with an individual, because they're not fully engaged and emotionally detached.
This frightens narcs and invokes fear because they may sense that someone is plotting against them, and narcs need to know what that person is thinking at all times, so that they can be one step ahead in the scheme of things. This explains why narcs are always asking others "what is wrong, are you okay? etc.,because they want to be warned beforehand in order to protect their fragile ego or evading consequences for their actions.
I've asked several guys and girls "did I do something wrong?" They all say, "Oh nothing, we're good." The silent treatment isn't good for anyone. Ask some of the American POW's in the Korean War. Some just curled up and died of loneliness and despair I suppose.
Thank You Clairice, for putting this needed topic out! Love your videos!!
ITS TERRIBLE TO BE LIVING WITHOUT A SPINE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Silence can rip a man's spine right out like a zipper. I'd rather slap fight a porcupine.
Always spot on, Clarice!
Thanks for being here
Suffer or for effect.
They got skills to bring you down but never join with. Their own form for dish me outs.
You can pleasure them, that they relish.
I hope is for their silent treatment to leave me alone 😂because they will not come back this way,, super empath💪
Okay so this ‘silence’ must be different from the narcissist who is perpetually silent with their partner in the way they never open up, connect, make you feel irrelevant/invisible, etc. whereby being completely opposite with their enablers. This ‘silence’ is because they know we know their scheme. (Not to confuse the two ‘silent treatments.)
@Doppelgänger: Which version is anguish silence?
Honest Truth. GREAT JOB!!
Emotional detachment is the goal.
You have said it all , God bless you
I feel my son is a narsasist… he has accused me of being one, but no indication of his reasoning for making that connection. I consitintaly review what I have done. Researched the characteristics, I don’t really see myself having them. He gave me hope with the promise that we needed to talk last sept. No communication since… I have tried reaching out. He has completely cut us off… we don’t even know where he lives…. I have just resolved myself to never having another interaction or conversation. But I always desire some sort of reuniting… it’s very confusing.
Thank you sis 😊. This is my brother to a T. He is now giving us the silent treatment. He gives us anguish by manipulating and it is very destructive.
I'm dealing with two narc women. One of the girls got extremely angry with me for saying no to her sexual advance. Since then she has been interfering with my life. If I dare to talk to a girl in our recovery group she will almost immediately go talk to that girl and cause her to not talk to me again. She has also forbade me to ever talk to her again. I tried good morning once and that was not a good idea.
The two narcs silent treatment does affect me, I have gone from being a sort of footloose and confident guy to not being able to talk to most people in the group. If I ask if they'd like to talk or tell me what the problem is they usually say..."Oh nothing, we're good." Bullshit!
well said ! 🎉
Thanks for listening. :)
Ty
Hi, firstly thank you so much for helping me get out of my NPD relationship through understanding NPD, but how does one stop intergenerational passing down of shitty NPD behavior
I am in love with a narcissist girl she always give me silent treatment... And i thought i am the main problem and i hurt her again and again...and feel guilty always
Clarice can you discuss How the Narcissist behaves at events?
That is something I have touched on here and there. Please see this video it may give an idea. ruclips.net/video/leDDeS6hjIs/видео.html
Just curious. If I become a basic member, how much you get out of it
RUclips takes 30%. So that would be around 1.39.
Remember, only the one who is being controlled by controller, has the power to control the one who is controlling!
Read it again!