So glad you spoke your truth. Hoping it works out for everyone. Wish Tyler told the whole truth the entire time to everyone. Still I’m hoping the best for everyone. But not seeing his kids for over a year is appalling 😢
This is CRAZY! I was totally defending him when I watched the show too. I was like wait, why would anyone ever be upset about someone donating sperm to help conceive 3 children?? But THIS. THIS, omg this is a completely different story!
Im not sure if this helps. It sounds super messy. Living as a 2 parent home, while sleeping together and making babies, while dating other people? All in a span of 2 years? How is this better than a single mom environment.
She also referred to it as "we never really dated." My jaw dropped open. So these days, having sex, living in the same house, and co-parenting is considered not dating? Wowza. Ok. I guess I fall far into the camp of old fashioned then. I appreciated the honesty and vulnerability she had, to share all this info. It's very very sad/tragic all around for 3 children to go through this loss of a father on national tv. I know that "religious people" have been such TERRIBLE hypocrite examples that no one wants what they are selling, but beyond religion is a relationship with Jesus found in prayer. We all need to beg his forgiveness for life choices that go so far against His holy and perfect ways. Then we need to change and committ to live right. Ask Him to teach and guide. Judgement from Him has begun to fall upon America for sin. This is the time where the last calls to repent are being made. Jesus is the ONLY way out of what is coming. I say this in love. I lived a sinful life myself before turning to Jesus and He was merciful to forgive.
there’s no such thing as a man named Jesus that was around the same time as the Bible that is a whole entire lie so if you’re gonna claim religion and you talk about single moms like you better than anybody, at least you can quit praying to the devil because that’s who Jesus is.
HOW did Tyler "help" her and her wife conceive that first baby, tho? If they couldn't afford IVF and all These lesbians were studding him out and it broke them up then he needed a place to stay and she let him, they were playing house until the show Bet he feels more like a fun uncle than a dad, every Pic is playing
Wow! I'm so glad she spoke her truth before the reunion. It appears that Ashley and Tyler got married, so the producers and hosts will protect them and gloss over these issues at the reunion. Tyler's a sick man. And I'm sorry, but Ashley is complicit if he hasn't seen his kids in a year.
Oh please! Bri is not an innocent victim. She cheated on her wife and conceived the twins and the ex wife left and moved to another state after agreeing to co-parent the first child which they both are responsible for Bri confirmed he was a stand up guy and took responsibility all the way up to the time of the show. He didn't even have to help with the first child which he did and I'm sure that's why she opened her legs again to him She wanted him to hide everything from the public and he tried by lying to his fiancee to protect her and the kids and erasing his Facebook, but he tried to give her some form of the truth and came off looking foul He should be held accountable for disconnecting from the twins, but she's the foul one as well and so is his ex wife. She is not a victim He needs to take care of his twins and leave her messy confused azz alone
I’m sorry you are having to go through this. I can only imagine the devastation you must feel. It takes a lot of courage to speak up for your babies and go public when you are not a public person. You never should have been put in this position. Love to your children. They do not deserve the wake of pain that he is leaving behind.
She put herself in this position by asking her best friend to be a sperm donor instead of paying for one and cheating on her wife and not holding her ex wife accountable for co parenting the first child. They are all 3 foul She's not a victim
@@thealchemist333 Don´t try to reason with women who probably have themselves multiple children with multiple baby daddies. They know this woman is not a victim. 😁
@@thealchemist333you have to see the ex wife’s point of view. The reason she’s not involved is bc when they tried their way (sperm donor with Tyler not involved) she didn’t get pregnant. Then she was gon and her (Bri) and Tyler slept together and she ended up being pregnant .. seemingly cheating on the wife who’s left when she was under the impression that she wasn’t pregnant.
@yaasupreme8080 I just saw the ex wife's interview. She hadn't actually left her at that time. She just went away for two weeks and found out Brie was 6 weeks pregnant, so she figured Brie didn't use the turkey baster like they agreed. She also said Brie was physically abusive to her, but since she loved her, she continued the relationship. They all have issues, but Brie is the ringleader Brie admitted to sleeping with Tyler again and instantly wanting an abortion until she found out she was having twins and decided she didn't want the abortion. I don't see how Tyler is the only villain in this. Brie is disgusting
@ agreed but she did mention that she left due to the issues and at the time of her finding out they were on a “break” so since she was 6 weeks pregnant I don’t see the child being the wife’s responsibility is all. As for fault it’s really Tyler and Bri. They’re the only ones but I think Tyler is getting the worst of it bc he asked for this and then abandoned three babies and continues to come in and out of their lives. He can’t keep leaning on the sperm donor narrative anymore bc he asked to be the father of that child and he’s actually the father. So I think it’s quite disgusting he put this on his self and furthered it by getting her pregnant after that. She is just as if not worse bc she’s the woman who bred these children and if you can’t trust him stop allowing him access to these kids. It’s not fair to them
Tyler, be honorable and take care of your kids! Ashley, if you forgive this man, make him man up as a condition for him being in your life. Bri, you're doing the right thing! Who else can I talk to who will never read this? Oh yeah, LIB production, Shame on you! Do better!! These are real people that you are traumatizing!
SPOILER ALERT! This is horrible. Ashley was deceived. With his lying history, I bet he never fessed up and that she is finding all of this out in real time. The tea is that she married him and is pregnant! If true, I can’t even imagine the depths of her pain and regret.
This is so irresponsible for all parties involved. Kids aren't like owning pets. Get a dog if y'all cant stay together and make it work. "We agreed that we were going to keep dating other people." Whaaaat???? Mistakes mistakes mistakes, & of course the kids are never considered.
It’s possible he did tell Ashley behind the scenes, but had reason to believe the baby’s mother would be embarrassed by some of their relationship or that he believed that she did not want his fatherhood known publicly-so they agreed to change the story a bit together on camera. We don’t know. Both he and the two mothers were careless and not particularly organized in creating a secure life for their children. I don’t trust a single one of them and I very much doubt the whole truth came out of any individual. She’s being calm and civil, but so was he. Who the heck knows. It’s up to Ashley to decide and up to us to support that poor woman in whatever instead of ripping her apart if she doesn’t do what we want her to. She has people who really know her to speak truth into her life if she needs it. Nobody on social media is going to have that job.
To anyone watching this - Jessie Woo did a live yesterday on youtube with Bri’s ex wife (this persons ex wife) and the ex mentioned Bri ofcourse left out that she had s*x with Tyler concieved the babies without her knowledge and abused the ex wife physically. She spilled so much more tea than Bri is telling 😮😬
Wheeewww lord, all 3 of them kids have been thru nothing but a bunch of mess, constant change & confusion! From the time of conception up until now! 🤯 I feel bad for the kids & them only; this whole situation is just ghetto smh
So he saw them the day before he left to go on the show. And he told her to her face that he didn't know if they knew what he looked like, on camera. Either he is a monster who abandoned his kids for a woman who he lied to about said kids, or the woman in question is aware of the truth and pushed/accepted him disowning his own kids
Why do I feel like she had him come up with that lie on camera so she could just ride off into the sunset with him or at least thinking it would make her look better
Yh, I feel like it’s the latter. Ashley seems to be a pick me girl. She knows the truth and just wants to run off to the sunset with him/only accepting him if he disowns his kids! Either way, she’s stupid to stay with him!
Maybe crazy to others but I’m I hearing this right you asked him to help you and your partner have kids he did and he wanted to help you because the person you choose jump ship nd left you a single mom!! He felt bad cuz it was his donor that produced them nd Stepped up to help , but now he can’t live his life nd you want child support ? In my opinion he should have never step up at this point !! I’m In fertility there is a such thang as known donor and unknown nd it’s lots of paper work!! This all doesn’t add up
Why did the ex-suddenly up and leave? Why was the relationship so “rocky”? Did the ex "discover" something? Because “planned” vs “unplanned” doesn’t mean both pregnancies weren’t the result of sexual intercourse. It appears: Tyler helped Baby Mama “get pregnant” (however that happened the first time) and within 9 months her relationship blew up. Again see “rocky”. California Ex leaves and files for full custody. A bold move given the biological circumstances. Tyler pops back into the picture to “help out again” here. California Ex exits and drops petition for custody. “Somehow” Baby Mama ends up pregnant with twins and Baby Daddy ends up on a reality dating and marriage show. These “best friends” lived together, had sex together, created three new lives together, but Baby Mama wants to hang her truth on the fact that they “never officially dated”. Jeepers! Sometimes people just make their lives complicated. If these folks had lived their “truth” they wouldn’t be in this mess. People act like there was this bizarre nebulous line in which Tyler wasn’t the father of these kids and something suddenly changed and now he is the father. He was always their father. But-but-but! We have created this odd aspect of society where “you are what you choose to be” and he has chosen to no longer be their father. And according to the dictates of said society: We are supposed to honor his decision. Perhaps California Ex should be paying child support? Can any man who donated sperm claim not to be a father? When grown folks willingly make their lives this messy and complicated, they shouldn’t be surprised by mess and complication.
This outcome is why some people say that men and women who are attracted to each other cannot be "best friends" or even just friends. Cimplications almost always arise and unwanted children (by either parent) become the undeserving victims. Also, if a woman who identifies as l*sbian has intercourse with and conceives children with a man, is she really truly a l*sbian? Or is she a converted straight woman or "pan" if she never goes back to women? 🤔
she didn’t have to explain herself. Tyler never discussed of her or their kids, let alone the kids names. She could have stayed anonymous to the public. Like girl, if no one knows who you are why does it matter what’s being said.
I don't feel for the adults but why have kids with a man who you called your "best friend" and co-parent while living together but seeing different people is insane.
Although this is a very complicated situation for everyone involved, you did an amazing job of telling your truth. Stay strong and grounded for yourself and your family. Everything will work out as God intends for it to be.
Tyler spoke to Ashley about having 9 kids together before the news of his 3 children came to light. This must be confusing to Ashley. I feel for her. I'm watching the reunion tonight abd we'll see how it unfolds.
His finances are about to change after his court date. He’s beyond trash to deny their existence and how deeply he has been connected to them. *The day before leaving for Love Is Blind* His children need him and their mother physically, emotionally and financially. Ashley is an involuntary step mother of 3, whether she likes it or not.
The fact that he has disowned his children and was not honest about this part of his life says a lot about what kind of man he is. Shame on him. My father has also abandoned most of his kids - myself included - and I have zero respect for him
Soooo he’s a liar? Roger that. I feel bad that Tyler did not give Ashley the opportunity to have all the facts before committing to three step children and she has none of her own.
It makes perfect sense. She's just conveniently leaving out why her wife left. I bet it had something to do with Tyler, because as soon as she was out of the picture they're living together and having more children
Yall need to go watch Jessie Woo interview with her ex wife. She ALLEGEDLY was smashing Tyler all along, she got pregnant the first and second time through seggs. She was having 3somes with Tyler and she was physically abuse to her ex.
I’m so sorry for you and your children. He’s a dead beat . Any man who can just drop his kids are not worthy of anything . I will pray for you and your babies
“He could’ve just gone in the show and not mentioned the kids at all instead of pretending to not be involved” how the hell did you expect that to work when he got married? Especially since you’re taking him to court? I’m sorry, Tyler is absolutely a liar and is in the wrong too but this woman seems reckless and is not using her brain. I feel so bad for the kids
This is a very complicated situation and Tyler should’ve just been honest from the start. I will say this, the first child he had with her was considered a sperm donor if you listened to what she said from beginning. He was helping them have a child. Circumstances changed when her partner left. The twins they had together seem as if they were trying to be a couple at some point. All and all this situation can be fixed if all parties are willing to just move forward and help raise the children. It may be complicated but it’s not the end of the world at all.
Don't operate out of anger and disappointment. You do what is right. It will hurt the kids more than him. Honor your feelings just don't move from that space. I hope there was clarity after the reunion for us as to why he did it.
ASHLEY NEEDS TO PUT ON HER TENNIS SHOES AND RUN LIKE HELL.... IF THAT MAN TREATS HIS OWN KIDS AND BABY MOTHER LIKE THAT, WHAT MAKES YOU THINK HE'S GOING TO TREAT THE NEW WOMEN ANY BETTER??? HE IS BROKEN
If he is paying child support you can't legally change the twins last name. I know this because my oldest child's mother didn't want his last name changed but I had it changed in court once I started paying child support and it was nothing she could do about it. Now if you want the last name changed you might can do it if he terminates his parental right and you terminate the child support.
Since we are the speaking our truth era, waiting for her ex wife to come forth and also speak her truth. All i see is a scorned ex. Why didn’t she speak her truth a year ago when he cut her off?
@@simonehere9454her wife left her because she cheated on her and conceived the twins. Both women were dirty. The ex wife didn't even stay in the same state to co parent The mother is foul as well. She's not strong and she's not a victim. Her weak azz cheated
What’s crazy is that this lesbian woman only went down this path because her woman left her while she was pregnant. When we start there, something is telling me a lot is off with this situation. You had the sperm donated the first time by him and your wife in the middle of that left you. Then y’all had twins. It’s way more to this story and Tyler probably didn’t want to tell it all on TV. He’s bogus for disowning his kids. Always 3 sides to the story
Sounds like Tyler got caught up in the pods and fell in love. Then he didn't tell the truth. This is sad. The children need a father. Karo was a donation, and the twins were an accident. Now that he wants to build a traditional family he is leaving the kids behind.
she's such a great woman well articulated and mature. We all believe you ! You are a good mother ! One chance your kids have you to protected them. If Tyler have a heart. i think he will reconnect will her and his kids. People on the internet should continue to tell him that he took the wrong decision. Later he will be thankful! i think Ashley doesn't help him to see his kids, She could give him an ultimatum. Like you take care of your kids or i divorce. Seriously! he don't need to abandonned his 3 kids! he will make money for his fame now. He is a father he need to find way to provided for all of his kids!! Normally men don't abandonned their children because of a new relationship !!
I’m missing the point of how this is good for the kids. There is nothing private about you if you are willing airing your business like this. What are you hoping for here? Something is just off here. Something is off about you & Tyler infact.
This is a mess now children are involved! Yall all need to figure this out for the sake of these kids who are going to be traumatized if this is not resolved.
I think she’s claiming child support because Tyler played Dad in these children’s lives and then decided to dump them out of no where! He’s done worse to three kids by abandoning them, it would’ve been better to be raised by a single mother from the get go! Ashley’s a complete. Idiot for staying with Him! If he can just lie and suddenly dump his own kids, how is he going to be faithful , responsible or reliable man for Ashley? Ashley’s STUPID! PERIOD!
This man is DEPLORABLE. If this is all true (which I believe you), I can’t really think of much else in regard to reality tv worse than what Tyler has done. Girl, I wish you THE BEST OF LUCK, your kids as well. I’m seriously sick to my stomach watching this video. If the Love is Blind producers/makers don’t address this? I honestly feel like they’re just as disgusting as Tyler is. THIS. IS. UNACCEPTABLE!!!!!!!!!!!
Plot twist. Her and her baby daddy planned it all out for clout to get paid from the show and what not to pay for kids. Which hey i cant be mad at it if it feeds the kiddos.
So...Did anyone catch the fact she said they stayed together BEFORE he left and had been there since she had the son? Now, how does he owe child support?? Back child support at that! Alright. Make it make sense now. Sounds like someone is chasing clout at this point. Last but not least, what is she defending herself on? He never said anything offensive towards or about her. Hmm. Sounds like someone needed their 15 mins of fame. I want to add HE made himself responsible for the son. The twins are his only TRUE responsibility according to this scenario. There are some lies in her story. Period. He ain't shit either for lying period.
Remember the show only shows us what they want us to see which is a lot of drama. Amber and her husband Barnett from Love is Blind confirmed the producers twist the story line. For all we know,Tyler might have already told Ashley the truth behind the scenes.
I thought about that, too. I wonder if he lied on camera to protect them, but privately told Ashley the truth? It doesn't excuse dropping his parental responsibilities, I wonder why he'd do that if having 2 parents was so important to him? Very weird and very messy. I feel sorry for the kids.
I knew he was lying when he said he doesnt know if the kids know what he looks like...Highly unlikely given that they had 3.So after the 1st, the baby never seen him, then the 2nd and 3rd too?...Yea right. He was just saying whatever.Plus he never said how the pregnancy happened on camera...You could tell it was the good old fashion way...wow...
I'm not saying anything about her situation, but what I'm realizing is that the formula God created of a man and woman married for life builds the best and strongest foundation on which for children to grow and thrive.
Dude basically 💩💩💩 on his close friend for someone he just met.. he could have or should have just been straight up about the situation or not speak on it since it is an entanglement..
Bri had a wife, wife left so she decided to engage in recreational unprotected sex with her heterosexual friend. If you are not heterosexual young lady stay in your lane and not have recreational sex with your friend. Sadly it’s the kids that were not thought of when you did this. Now this man who never wanted to be a father but took on the responsibility for her friends sake is tied to support and care. L er t the courts decide that. If this man is not wanting to be in their lives- you got this, raise them on your own and not give any access to your precious babies to someone that will not be happy supporting them. Support needs to also include care - he’s trying to have a wife and family of his own, not go to your kids soccer games. You have a very messy situation that threatens his success at his own marriage. This is coming from a single parent that raised 4 You got this; kids first, let go of the drama.
She is very well spoken without adding any negativity.
Did he really think we wouldn’t find this out?? He lied on one of the biggest shows out right now. What a joke.
Why are these adults so wreckless? I feel sorry for the kids.
Reckless
Tyler needs to support these children financially and emotionally. Three children.
Tyler is a liar he could just told the truth
So glad you spoke your truth. Hoping it works out for everyone. Wish Tyler told the whole truth the entire time to everyone. Still I’m hoping the best for everyone. But not seeing his kids for over a year is appalling 😢
"It's complicated " took a whole other level
This is CRAZY! I was totally defending him when I watched the show too. I was like wait, why would anyone ever be upset about someone donating sperm to help conceive 3 children??
But THIS. THIS, omg this is a completely different story!
Im not sure if this helps. It sounds super messy. Living as a 2 parent home, while sleeping together and making babies, while dating other people? All in a span of 2 years? How is this better than a single mom environment.
She also referred to it as "we never really dated." My jaw dropped open. So these days, having sex, living in the same house, and co-parenting is considered not dating? Wowza. Ok. I guess I fall far into the camp of old fashioned then.
I appreciated the honesty and vulnerability she had, to share all this info. It's very very sad/tragic all around for 3 children to go through this loss of a father on national tv.
I know that "religious people" have been such TERRIBLE hypocrite examples that no one wants what they are selling, but beyond religion is a relationship with Jesus found in prayer. We all need to beg his forgiveness for life choices that go so far against His holy and perfect ways. Then we need to change and committ to live right. Ask Him to teach and guide. Judgement from Him has begun to fall upon America for sin. This is the time where the last calls to repent are being made. Jesus is the ONLY way out of what is coming. I say this in love. I lived a sinful life myself before turning to Jesus and He was merciful to forgive.
@@ChristianOne Tyler prayed all the time while lying to Ashley so I don't think Jesus is gonna be any help here 😂
@@Chibbykins Oh gosh, I guess he was one of those hypocrites I was talking about. How sad!
there’s no such thing as a man named Jesus that was around the same time as the Bible that is a whole entire lie so if you’re gonna claim religion and you talk about single moms like you better than anybody, at least you can quit praying to the devil because that’s who Jesus is.
HOW did Tyler "help" her and her wife conceive that first baby, tho?
If they couldn't afford IVF and all
These lesbians were studding him out and it broke them up then he needed a place to stay and she let him, they were playing house until the show
Bet he feels more like a fun uncle than a dad, every Pic is playing
Why would anybody put themselves in this situation, I don't feel sorry for her one bit sounds like they played him
IUI? Maybe 🤔
To my knowledge insemination doesn't require a hospital or medical bills. You can do this at home.
He was clearly having intercourse with her and she had 3 kids to him
Wow! I'm so glad she spoke her truth before the reunion. It appears that Ashley and Tyler got married, so the producers and hosts will protect them and gloss over these issues at the reunion. Tyler's a sick man. And I'm sorry, but Ashley is complicit if he hasn't seen his kids in a year.
How is she complicit if she thinks that the kids don’t know what he looks like?
The reunion has already been filmed - last week. It'll air on the 23rd. They won't be addressing any of this.
I read somewhere that Ashley is pregnant
Oh please! Bri is not an innocent victim. She cheated on her wife and conceived the twins and the ex wife left and moved to another state after agreeing to co-parent the first child which they both are responsible for
Bri confirmed he was a stand up guy and took responsibility all the way up to the time of the show. He didn't even have to help with the first child which he did and I'm sure that's why she opened her legs again to him
She wanted him to hide everything from the public and he tried by lying to his fiancee to protect her and the kids and erasing his Facebook, but he tried to give her some form of the truth and came off looking foul
He should be held accountable for disconnecting from the twins, but she's the foul one as well and so is his ex wife. She is not a victim
He needs to take care of his twins and leave her messy confused azz alone
If she is ok with him not being in his children's lives than she is a red flag as well.
I’m sorry you are having to go through this. I can only imagine the devastation you must feel. It takes a lot of courage to speak up for your babies and go public when you are not a public person. You never should have been put in this position. Love to your children. They do not deserve the wake of pain that he is leaving behind.
She put herself in this position by asking her best friend to be a sperm donor instead of paying for one and cheating on her wife and not holding her ex wife accountable for co parenting the first child.
They are all 3 foul
She's not a victim
@@thealchemist333 Don´t try to reason with women who probably have themselves multiple children with multiple baby daddies. They know this woman is not a victim. 😁
@@thealchemist333you have to see the ex wife’s point of view. The reason she’s not involved is bc when they tried their way (sperm donor with Tyler not involved) she didn’t get pregnant. Then she was gon and her (Bri) and Tyler slept together and she ended up being pregnant .. seemingly cheating on the wife who’s left when she was under the impression that she wasn’t pregnant.
@yaasupreme8080 I just saw the ex wife's interview. She hadn't actually left her at that time. She just went away for two weeks and found out Brie was 6 weeks pregnant, so she figured Brie didn't use the turkey baster like they agreed.
She also said Brie was physically abusive to her, but since she loved her, she continued the relationship.
They all have issues, but Brie is the ringleader
Brie admitted to sleeping with Tyler again and instantly wanting an abortion until she found out she was having twins and decided she didn't want the abortion. I don't see how Tyler is the only villain in this. Brie is disgusting
@ agreed but she did mention that she left due to the issues and at the time of her finding out they were on a “break” so since she was 6 weeks pregnant I don’t see the child being the wife’s responsibility is all. As for fault it’s really Tyler and Bri. They’re the only ones but I think Tyler is getting the worst of it bc he asked for this and then abandoned three babies and continues to come in and out of their lives. He can’t keep leaning on the sperm donor narrative anymore bc he asked to be the father of that child and he’s actually the father. So I think it’s quite disgusting he put this on his self and furthered it by getting her pregnant after that. She is just as if not worse bc she’s the woman who bred these children and if you can’t trust him stop allowing him access to these kids. It’s not fair to them
This woman is awesome. I hope she has support in her life to help with the kids.
I think this lady fell in love with Tyler… it doesn’t excuses Tyler’s lies but 🤷🏽♀️
Tyler, be honorable and take care of your kids! Ashley, if you forgive this man, make him man up as a condition for him being in your life. Bri, you're doing the right thing! Who else can I talk to who will never read this? Oh yeah, LIB production, Shame on you! Do better!! These are real people that you are traumatizing!
SPOILER ALERT!
This is horrible. Ashley was deceived. With his lying history, I bet he never fessed up and that she is finding all of this out in real time. The tea is that she married him and is pregnant! If true, I can’t even imagine the depths of her pain and regret.
This is so messy for the kids :/
Indeed
Yeah I feel so bad for them. To ghost your kids for a tv show is diabolical especially since she was supportive with his decision to go on the show.
This is so irresponsible for all parties involved. Kids aren't like owning pets. Get a dog if y'all cant stay together and make it work. "We agreed that we were going to keep dating other people." Whaaaat???? Mistakes mistakes mistakes, & of course the kids are never considered.
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This is soo unfortunate, Side thought: Is it possible Ashley is finding out about all of this just now like all of us?
I hope he told her the truth off camera
@@TLG2211 I think it’s very possible.
No she knows bc he’s been exposed for a long time!
That's a thought. Hmmm....
I believe she knows and has encouraged his behavior. Possibly even demanded the situation!@@scribblerofdreams
I'm verrryyy happy she did this video❤❤❤❤
It’s possible he did tell Ashley behind the scenes, but had reason to believe the baby’s mother would be embarrassed by some of their relationship or that he believed that she did not want his fatherhood known publicly-so they agreed to change the story a bit together on camera. We don’t know. Both he and the two mothers were careless and not particularly organized in creating a secure life for their children. I don’t trust a single one of them and I very much doubt the whole truth came out of any individual. She’s being calm and civil, but so was he. Who the heck knows. It’s up to Ashley to decide and up to us to support that poor woman in whatever instead of ripping her apart if she doesn’t do what we want her to. She has people who really know her to speak truth into her life if she needs it. Nobody on social media is going to have that job.
To anyone watching this - Jessie Woo did a live yesterday on youtube with Bri’s ex wife (this persons ex wife) and the ex mentioned Bri ofcourse left out that she had s*x with Tyler concieved the babies without her knowledge and abused the ex wife physically. She spilled so much more tea than Bri is telling 😮😬
She did say that she conceived them naturally and implied she and her wife were at odds or separated
Where’s the link!
Oh yeah that what I was thinking! This lady and tyler cheated she is bi and now wants tyler for her kids and herself on the side! Yuckkk
Where’s the link I knew she full of shit tooo
He really got a stud pregnant lmaooo
A beautiful stud. He gets brownie points for that.
I gotta pardon all crimes off the strength of this. Trophy unlocked
Wheeewww lord, all 3 of them kids have been thru nothing but a bunch of mess, constant change & confusion! From the time of conception up until now! 🤯 I feel bad for the kids & them only; this whole situation is just ghetto smh
“Ghetto” sounds kinda harsh…How about “ratchet? 😂
@DMMcCann 😂😂😂 well yeah I guess ratchet is good, it isn't as harsh 💀
O M G my jaw dropped 😢 thank you for sharing the truth
One more thing…The difference between dating a man with zero kids, vs one kid vs THREE is massive. Poor Ashley - girl you got duped.
Dude has a serious problem. You disown your kids to meet somebody thru a wall. Coward
So he saw them the day before he left to go on the show. And he told her to her face that he didn't know if they knew what he looked like, on camera. Either he is a monster who abandoned his kids for a woman who he lied to about said kids, or the woman in question is aware of the truth and pushed/accepted him disowning his own kids
Why do I feel like she had him come up with that lie on camera so she could just ride off into the sunset with him or at least thinking it would make her look better
Yh, I feel like it’s the latter. Ashley seems to be a pick me girl. She knows the truth and just wants to run off to the sunset with him/only accepting him if he disowns his kids! Either way, she’s stupid to stay with him!
This saying that he didn't know them was addressed in the reunion. It was for the cameras
Both of them are wrong
100%
Maybe crazy to others but I’m I hearing this right you asked him to help you and your partner have kids he did and he wanted to help you because the person you choose jump ship nd left you a single mom!! He felt bad cuz it was his donor that produced them nd Stepped up to help , but now he can’t live his life nd you want child support ? In my opinion he should have never step up at this point !! I’m In fertility there is a such thang as known donor and unknown nd it’s lots of paper work!! This all doesn’t add up
Why did the ex-suddenly up and leave?
Why was the relationship so “rocky”?
Did the ex "discover" something?
Because “planned” vs “unplanned” doesn’t mean both pregnancies weren’t the result of sexual intercourse.
It appears: Tyler helped Baby Mama “get pregnant” (however that happened the first time) and within 9 months her relationship blew up. Again see “rocky”.
California Ex leaves and files for full custody. A bold move given the biological circumstances.
Tyler pops back into the picture to “help out again” here.
California Ex exits and drops petition for custody.
“Somehow” Baby Mama ends up pregnant with twins and Baby Daddy ends up on a reality dating and marriage show.
These “best friends” lived together, had sex together, created three new lives together, but Baby Mama wants to hang her truth on the fact that they “never officially dated”.
Jeepers! Sometimes people just make their lives complicated.
If these folks had lived their “truth” they wouldn’t be in this mess.
People act like there was this bizarre nebulous line in which Tyler wasn’t the father of these kids and something suddenly changed and now he is the father. He was always their father.
But-but-but! We have created this odd aspect of society where “you are what you choose to be” and he has chosen to no longer be their father. And according to the dictates of said society: We are supposed to honor his decision.
Perhaps California Ex should be paying child support?
Can any man who donated sperm claim not to be a father?
When grown folks willingly make their lives this messy and complicated, they shouldn’t be surprised by mess and complication.
Well said
Absolutely spot on! Play with fire and you'll get burned. Y'all were living together and playing house - to what end? Hard to have any sympathy
👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
Preach!!
@@ask_why000 bravo… this comment is superb. Couldn’t agree more overall. Thank you for sharing your perspective. So refreshing to read.
This outcome is why some people say that men and women who are attracted to each other cannot be "best friends" or even just friends. Cimplications almost always arise and unwanted children (by either parent) become the undeserving victims. Also, if a woman who identifies as l*sbian has intercourse with and conceives children with a man, is she really truly a l*sbian? Or is she a converted straight woman or "pan" if she never goes back to women? 🤔
I'm so sorry that you have to explain yourself to this extent
she didn’t have to explain herself. Tyler never discussed of her or their kids, let alone the kids names. She could have stayed anonymous to the public. Like girl, if no one knows who you are why does it matter what’s being said.
She was betrayed in so many ways . I’m so sorry for everyone involved , especially the kids .
I don't feel for the adults but why have kids with a man who you called your "best friend" and co-parent while living together but seeing different people is insane.
Although this is a very complicated situation for everyone involved, you did an amazing job of telling your truth. Stay strong and grounded for yourself and your family. Everything will work out as God intends for it to be.
He said he didn't know if the kids knew him
Tbh if bri hadn't been ashamed of being bi instead of full lesbian I imagine all of this wouldn't have happened
Tyler spoke to Ashley about having 9 kids together before the news of his 3 children came to light.
This must be confusing to Ashley. I feel for her.
I'm watching the reunion tonight abd we'll see how it unfolds.
So he’s been married for a year and haven’t taken care of his children ⁉️🥹This is crazy 🤦🏽♀️
His finances are about to change after his court date. He’s beyond trash to deny their existence and how deeply he has been connected to them. *The day before leaving for Love Is Blind*
His children need him and their mother physically, emotionally and financially. Ashley is an involuntary step mother of 3, whether she likes it or not.
The fact that he has disowned his children and was not honest about this part of his life says a lot about what kind of man he is. Shame on him. My father has also abandoned most of his kids - myself included - and I have zero respect for him
What a tangled Web we Weave😮
tangled and messy!
As we conspire to conceive 😮
Soooo he’s a liar? Roger that.
I feel bad that Tyler did not give Ashley the opportunity to have all the facts before committing to three step children and she has none of her own.
Wow! Disappointed! Tyler is a liar. Those poor children. I'm so sorry to hear that!
Well why did he go on that show In the first place..They need to vet people more instead of getting anyone to fill slots..😏
She is full of shit too. Bye. I hate when people bring innocent kids into these messy behind situations.
Yes...she took her donation and now wants support
tyler may be a liar but this story doesn’t make sense
at all!
It makes perfect sense. She's just conveniently leaving out why her wife left. I bet it had something to do with Tyler, because as soon as she was out of the picture they're living together and having more children
She obviously is bi-sexual and her wife didn’t like it 😅
Those babies are lucky to have you, Mumma ❤️ xx
LIB has to do a better more extensive backround check on these people… cause WTH!?!?
indeed
Probably intentional
I HOPE THE PRODUCERS OF LOVE IS BLIND SEE THIS & GET HER ON THE SHOW, THAT'S THE BEST REVENGE IN MY EYES.
They're the reason for the lies. They keep the truth away from the viewers.
Good lord what messy people.
F upped and dragging kids through their slop.
Zero respect for Ashley if she stays with him knowing he abandoned his children!
Yall need to go watch Jessie Woo interview with her ex wife. She ALLEGEDLY was smashing Tyler all along, she got pregnant the first and second time through seggs. She was having 3somes with Tyler and she was physically abuse to her ex.
yes, I watched it! Those poor kids, this is so so messy
I’m so sorry for you and your children. He’s a dead beat . Any man who can just drop his kids are not worthy of anything . I will pray for you and your babies
“He could’ve just gone in the show and not mentioned the kids at all instead of pretending to not be involved” how the hell did you expect that to work when he got married? Especially since you’re taking him to court? I’m sorry, Tyler is absolutely a liar and is in the wrong too but this woman seems reckless and is not using her brain. I feel so bad for the kids
This is a very complicated situation and Tyler should’ve just been honest from the start. I will say this, the first child he had with her was considered a sperm donor if you listened to what she said from beginning. He was helping them have a child. Circumstances changed when her partner left. The twins they had together seem as if they were trying to be a couple at some point. All and all this situation can be fixed if all parties are willing to just move forward and help raise the children. It may be complicated but it’s not the end of the world at all.
Feel so bad for her and the kids. I dont understand why he had to lie like this.
Don't operate out of anger and disappointment. You do what is right. It will hurt the kids more than him. Honor your feelings just don't move from that space. I hope there was clarity after the reunion for us as to why he did it.
ASHLEY NEEDS TO PUT ON HER TENNIS SHOES AND RUN LIKE HELL.... IF THAT MAN TREATS HIS OWN KIDS AND BABY MOTHER LIKE THAT, WHAT MAKES YOU THINK HE'S GOING TO TREAT THE NEW WOMEN ANY BETTER??? HE IS BROKEN
If he is paying child support you can't legally change the twins last name. I know this because my oldest child's mother didn't want his last name changed but I had it changed in court once I started paying child support and it was nothing she could do about it.
Now if you want the last name changed you might can do it if he terminates his parental right and you terminate the child support.
Since we are the speaking our truth era, waiting for her ex wife to come forth and also speak her truth. All i see is a scorned ex. Why didn’t she speak her truth a year ago when he cut her off?
you called it! Jesse Woo interviewed her
Some men are so darn disappointing. The kids do not deserve this. The mother is being strong and standing for her babies ❤
Did you hear her? Her WIFE left her meaning a women did her dirty.
@@simonehere9454her wife left her because she cheated on her and conceived the twins. Both women were dirty. The ex wife didn't even stay in the same state to co parent
The mother is foul as well. She's not strong and she's not a victim. Her weak azz cheated
@@simonehere9454 the ex wife couldn’t co-parent because Tyler forced her out of custody for the kids
What’s crazy is that this lesbian woman only went down this path because her woman left her while she was pregnant. When we start there, something is telling me a lot is off with this situation. You had the sperm donated the first time by him and your wife in the middle of that left you. Then y’all had twins. It’s way more to this story and Tyler probably didn’t want to tell it all on TV. He’s bogus for disowning his kids. Always 3 sides to the story
Sounds like Tyler got caught up in the pods and fell in love. Then he didn't tell the truth. This is sad. The children need a father. Karo was a donation, and the twins were an accident. Now that he wants to build a traditional family he is leaving the kids behind.
she's such a great woman well articulated and mature. We all believe you ! You are a good mother ! One chance your kids have you to protected them. If Tyler have a heart. i think he will reconnect will her and his kids. People on the internet should continue to tell him that he took the wrong decision. Later he will be thankful! i think Ashley doesn't help him to see his kids, She could give him an ultimatum. Like you take care of your kids or i divorce. Seriously! he don't need to abandonned his 3 kids! he will make money for his fame now. He is a father he need to find way to provided for all of his kids!! Normally men don't abandonned their children because of a new relationship !!
I’m missing the point of how this is good for the kids. There is nothing private about you if you are willing airing your business like this. What are you hoping for here? Something is just off here. Something is off about you & Tyler infact.
I am very sorry about that
Wow what a mess of a situation . I always say the truth is best tho smh
This is a mess now children are involved! Yall all need to figure this out for the sake of these kids who are going to be traumatized if this is not resolved.
I think she’s claiming child support because Tyler played Dad in these children’s lives and then decided to dump them out of no where! He’s done worse to three kids by abandoning them, it would’ve been better to be raised by a single mother from the get go! Ashley’s a complete. Idiot for staying with Him! If he can just lie and suddenly dump his own kids, how is he going to be faithful , responsible or reliable man for Ashley? Ashley’s STUPID! PERIOD!
This is so much worse than we could ever imagine.
Is Tyler the biological father of the twins??
yes
Was he financially supporting his kids prior to going on the show?
Unfortunate but this is why u need to have a plan prior to just having children in a arrangement lol
Poor kids are gonna be so confused about everything
Wow I hope his wife sees the type of man she's with because it could easily happen to her.
“ fame “ will make you do crazy things
I wish people took the lives of children more serious. 😢
This man is DEPLORABLE. If this is all true (which I believe you), I can’t really think of much else in regard to reality tv worse than what Tyler has done. Girl, I wish you THE BEST OF LUCK, your kids as well. I’m seriously sick to my stomach watching this video. If the Love is Blind producers/makers don’t address this? I honestly feel like they’re just as disgusting as Tyler is. THIS. IS. UNACCEPTABLE!!!!!!!!!!!
Plot twist. Her and her baby daddy planned it all out for clout to get paid from the show and what not to pay for kids. Which hey i cant be mad at it if it feeds the kiddos.
Thanks for sharing.
Wow the truth is so much different than the show.
He is such a liar.
Abandoning his kids, he is adding to number is single moms.
and as a woman who had no kids, I would not want to date some one in the situation. And I hope this goes much better, but this sounds super messy.
This is why he was crying so much on the show….
So sorry for your pain for you and your children.
It’s unfortunate that he couldn’t be a man with good honor.
Tyler is diabolical 😅😅😅
So...Did anyone catch the fact she said they stayed together BEFORE he left and had been there since she had the son? Now, how does he owe child support?? Back child support at that! Alright. Make it make sense now. Sounds like someone is chasing clout at this point. Last but not least, what is she defending herself on? He never said anything offensive towards or about her. Hmm. Sounds like someone needed their 15 mins of fame. I want to add HE made himself responsible for the son. The twins are his only TRUE responsibility according to this scenario. There are some lies in her story. Period. He ain't shit either for lying period.
I understood it as she corrected herself to be specific, she wants child support for the year that he has not been there. Maybe I missed something?
Remember the show only shows us what they want us to see which is a lot of drama. Amber and her husband Barnett from Love is Blind confirmed the producers twist the story line. For all we know,Tyler might have already told Ashley the truth behind the scenes.
I thought about that, too. I wonder if he lied on camera to protect them, but privately told Ashley the truth? It doesn't excuse dropping his parental responsibilities, I wonder why he'd do that if having 2 parents was so important to him? Very weird and very messy. I feel sorry for the kids.
It never made sense for him to say he helped his BEST FRIEND have kids and we were supposed to believe they've never saw him. Ik that was a lie 😂
This is Sad at every juncture...
I knew he was lying when he said he doesnt know if the kids know what he looks like...Highly unlikely given that they had 3.So after the 1st, the baby never seen him, then the 2nd and 3rd too?...Yea right. He was just saying whatever.Plus he never said how the pregnancy happened on camera...You could tell it was the good old fashion way...wow...
Keep us out the group chat. 🤗 he is a deadbeat as we knew before you introduced yourself.
Ashley betta Anul that marriage and run 🏃🏾♀️➡️
Tyler's children don't deserve this! He needs to grow up, ask his children to forgive him, pay child support, and be the father they deserve.
Wow they was supposed to be at wedding this is wild
I'm not saying anything about her situation, but what I'm realizing is that the formula God created of a man and woman married for life builds the best and strongest foundation on which for children to grow and thrive.
Typical Bible thumper bro was laying it on thick I'm not surprised at all
He wasn't supposed to be involved
I mean dang why couldn’t he just say that. Smh
Dude basically 💩💩💩 on his close friend for someone he just met.. he could have or should have just been straight up about the situation or not speak on it since it is an entanglement..
Bri had a wife, wife left so she decided to engage in recreational unprotected sex with her heterosexual friend. If you are not heterosexual young lady stay in your lane and not have recreational sex with your friend. Sadly it’s the kids that were not thought of when you did this.
Now this man who never wanted to be a father but took on the responsibility for her friends sake is tied to support and care. L er t the courts decide that.
If this man is not wanting to be in their lives- you got this, raise them on your own and not give any access to your precious babies to someone that will not be happy supporting them. Support needs to also include care - he’s trying to have a wife and family of his own, not go to your kids soccer games. You have a very messy situation that threatens his success at his own marriage. This is coming from a single parent that raised 4 You got this; kids first, let go of the drama.
Clean up on aisle 3! 📣