Stages of a Mid Life Crisis
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- Опубликовано: 6 апр 2019
- How can you tell if you are having a mid-life crisis? What works to get help?
If you feel like you are ready to take the next step in doing the right inner work for you on your midlife crisis, you can book a midlife crisis evaluation with me or one of our experts here:
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Stages/Steps 1-6:
1 - dissatisfaction with no real reason
2 - superficial things don't help
3 - question everything
4 - don't like what you see, possibly on the outside but definitely on the inside
5 - start to do the deep inner work
6 - transformation beyond your imagination
Dissatisfaction but had a valid reason but...
damn I am already at stage 5
YOU JUST CLEARED EVERYTHING I'VE BEEN GOING THROUGH IN THE LAST 2 YEARS, EVERY SINGLE STAGE YOU DESCRIBED AND RELIEVED TO KNOW THERE'S LIGHT AT THE END OF THE TUNNEL. MAYBE THIS VIDEO IS THE PUSH I NEEDED TO COME OUT OF NO. 5. I WILL FOREVER REMEMBER YOU AND THIS MOMENT. SO THANK YOU FOR MAKING THIS VIDEO AND EXPLAINING THIS SO CLEARLY. GOD BLESS YOU
Very happy that this has helped you to get to Stage 5. That is where the real work begins, and you can either spend a lot of time there (the rest of your life) or get through it quickly by practicing self-healing techniques that work on the core issues. I specialize in teaching people these techniques, curated for their unique midlife crisis issue and their level of experience with meditation.
Please update! Would love to hear how far you've gotten! :)
May I ask how old you are?
@@vikramjain79 160 years old I'm in my third life span middle life crisis... When I get over it I'll complete world reset and redirect the saviour that will kill the coming false messiah
Having been through a midlife crisis and subsequently qualifying as a counsellor, I can say that this is one of the most accurate and condensed descriptions I have come across
I’m dissatisfied with my work hours in healthcare :). I recently went on call. I work the hours I want to work. That small change REALLY helped! Tweak things you can. I find being in nature and journaling so therapeutic. I find that buying less grounds me! I love driving an old car. Maybe it’s nostalgia. I like simpler times and low tech. You communicated mid life concerns well to many people. This is so good! Thank you, thank you, THANK YOU!
Thank you. This put in words what I've been experiencing for a year now. So helpful! Thank you!
I ruined my life. A midlife crisis is terrible. I divorced and sold my house... WHY WHY WHY......
Sarah Steer It sounds like you are in Stage 4 of your midlife crisis, and it is really easy to get caught in negative thinking. The key now is to stop looking at everything that you have lost because if you start doing the deep inner work, you will get way more than you ever lost, and you will look back and see that you deserved so much more than what you thought you did at that time.
@@Theeagleinstitute Hopefully you will consider reconciling with your husband as well. That is the true sign of a person who benefits and matures from such a crisis. The house and other material things can be regained. But relationships are more precious and valuable, especially if there were kids involved. A focus on your individual self is always great. Reconciling and helping other to heal from direct or indirect actions during your crisis is equally important.
@@jjohnson7002 It is always good to wish that people do the inner healing work that a midlife crisis is inviting them to do. It is unwise however to hold up your own progress waiting for somebody that is not going to change. What are you doing for yourself to ensure that you are ready for the kind of loving relationship and happy life that you are capable of?
What were you experiencing with your husband that made you take that measure and what could of helped prevent it? Just wrapping my head around my situation if you could share
I pray my wife doesn't make the same mistake you did because my kids already told me in private that they're going to abandon mom stay with Dad because Mom's more concerned selfish desires rather than what allows them to maintain what's left of their childhood and enjoy having their own rooms in our house.
Thank you so much for this. It has clarified a lot of things for and of me. More power to you!
I have seen many different videos trying to find a truth that explains what have just happened to me in the past 3 years (pandemic incuded) and seeing your video was the icing of my transformation, now I understand what I have been through....it was dark but now I can feel my wings. Thanks a lot. I will love to have a talk with you.
Thank you so much so much I am doing my hour and a half hour walk as I listen to this so excuse my lack of punctuation this video has really enlightened me now I can get over this hump now I know what's wrong with me thank you I am a new subscriber and follow of your show God bless you🙏🏿❤
Thanks Kira. This is great stuff. I have gone through all the stages you mentioned. Really grateful for how u clearly described it for me.
Hi Stanslous. Thank you for your compliments. Congratulations if you have made it successfully to the end of Stage 6. In the event that you haven't, you might want to check out my new video on How to Succeed at Each of the 6 Stages of a Midlife Crisis: ruclips.net/video/3uKJl-CNNtY/видео.html
Wow, thanks so much for this, really resonated and i needed to hear it. Thought I’d had mine years ago but that was clearly a warm up, the path out of this makes much more sense now
Midlife crisis doesn't end until you successfully make the inner transformation of all 6 stages. Here is a video that goes into more detail about how to succeed at each stage:
ruclips.net/video/3uKJl-CNNtY/видео.html
You just put this so perfectly, thank you
Yes, this is exactly what you need to do to get through this. Thank you 🙏
So glad I could help. Working on your blind spots with meditation is the fast path to successfully getting through your midlife crisis.
Omg reading it now looks like a reflection of past few years of hurt, depression and struggle. If someone thinks depression can kill people welcome to the big daddy Mid life crisis.. it hits you from all sides..I was in denial for many years but realised during pandemic that it’s real and that’s when it got worst. It started for me at age of 35 and I am now 41. Understandably everyone is different and I moved through stages very slowly . From the stages I can see its stage 5 but Oh my , last 2 years have been so heavy and fuelled more by lockdowns. But so happy to see there is a ray of hope and there is light … a big big thanks for the video. I was literally in tears by the end of it.. and I can say positively that it’s going to come to an end work is in progress for a New ME… wait for it world.. 🙏🙏🙏
Thank you very much for your valuable advice and guidance. They are very helpful.
Thanks I love the way you did this. I have been teaching this topic yet I have been helped so much. I also have gone through this early in my life actually in my late 20s. Thanks for helping me get clarity. Blessings
If you have been teaching this, I have a webinar that would be very useful for you to know about the 4 speeds of human evolution, and which techniques work at each speed. This is geared to spiritual teachers and coaches. If you want more information about how to teach this to others, you can check out the following link: theeagleinstitute.com/4-speeds-of-human-evolution/
Late 20s has nothing to do with this … core is getting old … closer to death … and actually not much time left … googling symptoms leads to such bizarre links! Like … I feel exactly like this … I have this … congrats man … you are pregnant!
Thank you so much for this video. It has brought a sense of calmness to the unsettling emotions I have been feeling, and I have had no one to speak to about it. I hope to reach the point where I am running freely as I feel incredibly stuck, and it hurts. I am sending love, healing, and fulfillment to all those who are experiencing the same.
I turned 37 a few months ago, realized today that maybe I might be going through a midlife crisis.
After watching this, I think it is the case.
It jut occurred to me tonight maybe what I'm going hough is a midlife crisis and just hearing this has brought me a lot of relief and hope. Thank you
Loved this. Like you were speaking to be personally. I'm in the middle steps 4-5ish but so validating and insightful as to what's next. At steps 4-5 it feels a bit bleak and this explained there's better steps ahead
I think my husband is going through this and it ruined my life at 57. I guess he’ll eventually be overwhelmingly happy and I have no retirement and have to work till I’m 70
Hope you’re all better now! Mine is 60 and going through it now and ruing my life! It really sucks!
mediation, gym, walking, talking, eating, are great for me to overcome my problems!
Meditation is the best, and staying in good health. Midlife crisis is not a problem, it is a point in your life where you have to work on your weaknesses or be unhappy. If you are not developing your particular weakness, it doesn't matter what else you do, you still won't feel satisfied, and it is very confusing.
Im somewhere between the stages 5 and 6
really wish I can overcome from the unhappiness
This is some great information! I talked a bit about my experience on a video, but I love how you really get more into the details!
Hi Wholly Susan. Thank you for your compliment. Midlife crisis is a process that is supposed to happen in life for our own benefit to grow. In the case of midlife crisis, doing the inner work, through meditation and self-healing transforms the each person's unique challenge into their path of deepest fulfillment.
Great video. Thank you Doc.
Definitely have been through all this in the last year, had a breakdown changed my job, feeling much better now
If changing your job fixed this, then you are most likely not experiencing a midlife crisis. Changing things externally does not bring satisfaction in a midlife crisis, and that is one of the key signs that distinguishes a midlife crisis from other life problems.
In a midlife crisis, the only thing that works is to do the internal work, which at times may lead to changes in a job, or other lifestyle changes, but they only bring relief or satisfaction if you go into your blind spots and heal them. Every person has a different blind spot, which is the thing in life that they avoid. I am going to do a future video on the 12 main blind spots, so subscribe to get notified when it goes up.
Yeah. This is happening to me. 39 looking at 40 soon. Should be happy. Other than a high stress job and the anxiety issues it causes; family, finances and health are all ok. But some mornings I wake up just thinking "WTF am I doing??" It's not easy.
You don't have to tolerate any negative feelings. These are a sign that you need to take action. Stress and midlife crisis can look similar. Often people experience both. A midlife crisis's purpose is for you to evaluate what you are doing because there is a better way for you, where you will feel happy and fulfilled. The midlife crisis process is about going into the parts of yourself that you may not even be aware of that will bring you lasting happiness and a deep sense of authenticity. It sounds like you are in the 4th state of midlife crisis and it is by actively doing the inner work of stage 5 that you will find your answers. We have more free resources on our website theeagleinstitute.com
If you live a really long life, 50 would be more of your mid life. but 40 is still pretty mid-life
@@Antellars That is true, especially as people live longer and longer. The age of approximately 40 for the process of midlife crisis will not change however, because it is triggered by astrology, that happens when the planet Uranus is opposite your birth chart Uranus, which takes approximately 42 years.
I used to think that since I was. Alittle kid. WTF am I doing ... I look at Albert Camus and how he portrays the stranger... That's how I feel. Looking at the outside world like a viewer and not an integrant
My husband died at age 61 hanging out with strippers and doing drugs and having a meaningless rebellion against his family so he had an end of life crisis.
Omg are u ok
I'm sorry to hear, I hope you're ok too
F All of them that have a midlife crisis and abandon their family
damn
Damn
It all started when I was 39 and now I understand the cause for all of it so well after 6 very challenging years.I know who I am and I no longer need a mask or facade.It made me be more authentic and speak my mind…before I was a people pleaser at my own cost.
Omg glad I found this. I’ll be diving deep.
As I wife who’s husband is going through a midlife crisis, it is a nightmare, we are in the middle of a divorce, there’s an affair with a friend who’s much younger than him, abandoned his family. This needs to be said, people romanticize it and it’s horrid.
I am not romanticizing a midlife crisis, or people avoiding their inner growth by acting out, and many people act out in creative ways, divorce, affairs, drugs, additions and other forms of destructive behaviour are far too common because the person having the midlife crisis doesn’t have the skills or doesn’t want to do the spiritual work that causes a midlife crisis. Not everybody has an affair during
Midlife Crisis, some people do the inner work and recognize that the feelings of dissatisfaction are due to their growth journey, which midlife crisis is a part of. So the question is, what can the parters (i.e. wife/husband/ romantically connected other committed relationships) do? First of all, have good boundaries about what is acceptable, and do your own inner spiritual and healing journey. We are coming into a time where more people are realizing that everything in their life is an opportunity to grow. This is not an excuse for bad behaviour, people that have the inner skills tend not to have affairs, or act out in other ways that are common during midlife crisis. I wish you all the best on your inner journey.
Same here. Wife changed appearance, music she listened to, got tattoos, nose ring, cheated on me with a guy, then our 22F daycare worker who now lives with my 2 kids in my old home. It’s a nightmare
@t-pain3343 Sorry to hear that bro. It's not your fault. There's someone out there for you, who is your perfect match. It's just not her.
@t-pain3343 Sorry to hear that bro. It's not your fault. There's someone out there for you, who is your perfect match. It's just not her.
I just did another video on this, hope it helps ruclips.net/video/mI02lq-pltg/видео.html
Thank you, you are a true diamond! xo
Thank you so much for this.....
My niece is throwing away her job, moving out of state, ruining her marriage, selling all her property..nothing I can do.
This channel deserves more subscribers. great content
I quit my job last year, and haven't been able to find what I want to do with my life. I did two courses only to realise I'm no good at what I studied. I hate the way that I look. Very angry with myself and the world. Wish I could run away. Nothing makes me happy, so much confusion that I don't know what stage I'm up to....
I can totally relate to that,,
Thank you 🙏 ❤️
Helpful. Thank you!
Thank you.
For me, it's been mostly about dealing with abusive childhood trauma instead of suppressing. Highly recommend any form of inner child healing, which seems to be bringing me resolution (finally!) You wouldn't think that accepting it wasn't your fault and forgiving yourself for getting smacked would make you more satisfied with your current life and trigger better communication patterns with your husband, but for me it did! Also, physical decluttering and learning about minimalism brought me so much relief.
Hope u r ok
Great butterfly analogy! Authenticity! A foreign concept to me that I’ve kept hidden for fear of criticism/rejection from others…Transformation beyond my imagination…Love that concept! Thank you for providing direction and hope…💗
Thank you so much for this
You're so welcome! Let me know if you have any other questions about how to succeed at midlife crisis and get to the end of stage 6 successfully.
You are very helpful.
Thank you so much. As a future OTA this is a great resource.
Thank you.This is very useful for me.I was wondering why such a good topic such this is not presented at high school,university or work place.
Thank you soooo much for this video. I’m in tears because I thought something was REALLY wrong with me. I have a history of schizophrenia in my family and was worried it was happening to me. But my tears are joyous, because I now understand that I’ve been going through a MLC….Although I just turned 50, I’ve been having these thoughts/feelings for over 5 or 6 years. Im at stage 4 and ready to enter stage 5 with the help and guidance of a therapist!!!! Thanks again🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿
Midlife crisis is spiritual, so unless your therapist is enlightened, they won’t be much help to go beyond stage 4. All the techniques that get to the end of midlife crisis are specific to erasing your personal karma faster. Only about 1 in 1000 succeed at their midlife crisis without specific spiritual techniques that remove the effects of karmic blind spots.
Hello Keira (hope I have written your name correctly),
first of all thank you so much for all the informations. It really help me to see the situation of the man, who I just met 3months ago, clearer.
We had a beautiful time together and we were very close
Hi Xuan Anh, my name is Kira Leskew, and I am so glad that you are seeing things clearer! Let me know if you have any other questions. You can check out our website theeagleinstute.com for more resources on midlife crisis and other topics to propel your personal growth.
I wish you every happiness and success as you continue to grow.
Thanks Kira. Im 33, and this video helps a lot!
Hi Mauricio Cardenas, at 33, you are too young for a midlife crisis, because it starts at age 36, but you might be having your Intuition awakening which can feel like a crisis. If that resonates with you and you want to try it out, you can connect with me on LinkedIn.
Oh yeah, amazing that a loving man can just up and leave his wife, his family and everything to travel round the country in a camper van! I don't think there's nothing glorious and amazing about that
Thanks
Life wasn't great in my 30s. I was dealing with a family issue, but I seemed to be quite resilient. Then things started to fall apart. I was made redundant. My mother died of cancer and I've had some real problems with property. Now I'm mid-40s and life has lost all meaning. Reality feels broken and I don't see a future worth living.
My mom died of cancer, also. It's tough to deal with but it gets easier, slowly. I'm 50 and I had to find a new purpose so I disagree with some of the things the Canadian lady said. I try new things and it does sometimes work. I stay in shape. I work on getting over regret in my life-that is a big one. I maintain relationships with friends and talk about these things with them, too. I try new activities (learned to play guitar and do it frequently). I travel as much as I can. Try volunteering with the homeless or veterans. I do care packages for homeless people at Christmas (I'd like to do it more often). I'm a religious person so I feel that I have a purpose in God but not everyone feels that way and I understand that so you'd have to find peace in your own way.
I always assumed I'd be dead by 30
basic summary...
signs and stages of a mid-life crisis:
1. dissatisfaction for no reason
2. superficial things dont help
3. starting to question everything deeply
4. you dont like what you see, who you are or what you have
5. deep inner-work and healing
6. groundbreaking transformation beyond your imagination
she summarizes them at 12:19
Ik this sounds like a funny joke but I feel this right now
When will my transformation come
Thank you so much
I hope the transformation part is true because the rest outright sucks. Its miserable. Feels like tons of regret and a clock that ran out. Just defeated and a life that is zero as Id hoped. Top that with babies leaving the nest. Just gonna crawl back in my hole.
@@andi8717 this is me lately I'm 41, just being so distastfyed with everything. I'm asking my self is the life I'm supposed to lead. What is help me is puring my heart to God 🙏 asking him to guide me in this confusing time in my life😣🙏
41 years old. Looking at my life like wtf. The feeling is horrible.
When will it end?
The mid life crisis.
Thanks! so ... i am near to the End. Cool. I look forward. I see my self between 5 and 6. So satisfying to hear all that what i had to deal with. I feel theres just one Topic left in what i want to change .. but i am working on it .. :-)
Hi, glad that you are getting to near the end of your midlife crisis, the topic that you need to change in your blind spot. Transforming your blind spot into your strength is the only thing that will end your midlife crisis. Otherwise stage 5 continues for the rest of your life. If you are confident that you know what your blind spot is, you will love our upcoming course Introduction to Succeeding at Midlife Crisis for Busy VIPs. It was designed to give you the techniques that you need that help at every stage of a midlife crisis, combined with a deep dive on each of the stages so that you don't miss any part of the transformation process. It starts on Thursday and the classes are taught LIVE by me in a private environment where you can ask questions and get feedback. You can check out this link for details:
www.midlife-crisis-success.com/sales-page1618094496591
Totally on point. Each stage describes what I'm going through. I have more work to do.
Thanks, reach out if you want to learn faster ways to move to the end of midlife crisis successfully
@@Theeagleinstitute Lately I've been looking for good/constructive/healthy examples online and irl. Do you have any before/after videos you could share?
With my wife, it's me, myself, and I.
The marriage team player mode is over, im going out tonight without you.
Amazing Ma'am.
I think each one of us at some point undergo this..To identify it and act aptly is important. Your video is sureshot preview of midlife crisis.
Thanks a tonne for sharing
Thank you for your compliments. Just to let you know, knowing the steps isn't enough to get you through it, you have to succeed at each of the stages to move to the next one. I mad a new video on this, so that people would understand, you can watch it here:
ruclips.net/video/3uKJl-CNNtY/видео.html
I had this at 40,i know someone at 70 etc says im young. But i found it a change,weight,health etc. People saying im old etc. It is a shock 40 i know theres people 100.
Clarity at last! Female, 46, perimenopause setting in, so many unconformities, regrets and insecurities hitting me left and right… my hair is thinning, my appearance is not as fresh and youthful… I know I have a good solid relationship and yet I find myself questioning whether or not I’d be better off being free (which I know I would regret and that is the battle between logic and change right there!!), and being fucking depressed from dusk till dawn…
Glad I watched this video because I was able to Rick every single box and now I at least know it will pass at some point and I am not losing my mind. Thank you!!!
It only passes if you do the inner work. Which means techniques that are designed for midlife crisis. Midlife Crisis: How to Succeed at Each Stage
ruclips.net/video/3uKJl-CNNtY/видео.html
ty. i thought i was on a spiritual journey lol. i am at a stage of grieving the loss of the old physical appearance. but i am simultaneously transforming also. i am divorced which makes it worse, as i desire a younger woman.
I am 44, and at stage mix of 2/3/4. I hope crisis would get over one day.
Hi Saurabh Gupta. Your midlife crisis only gets completed when you do the right techniques to eliminate your blind spot. The good news is that it doesn't really take very much to get it done compared to the struggle that you are going through now and that you will go through if you don't deal with it. If you want resources for this, go to theeagleinstitute.com.
You called it. I have worked through all stages and feel as if I am halfway through stage 6.
I think my job has had a negative effect on me more and in return it slowed down me though the stages.
What was your blind spot? How is your success coming though your blind spot? Did you watch my video on your North Node? That is the only way to succeed with your midlife crisis, and for the transformation to be effective.
So true
This video just threw me into a full blown midlife crisis I wasn't in before the video. I just ordered a corvette online and shaved my balls.
My crisis is very bad because I never had a youth!.....I was robbed of all the rights of passage of youth by debilitating social anxiety! and now I'm in a rock bottom depression because it's too late!.....I still have powerful momentum from the goals and dreams of my youth that have hit a brick wall and I don't know where to go from here because I have to reimagine my whole identity!....middle aged me does not fit into these dreams!I don't know who I am or where I belong!
42 may be young if youre kickin back watching your kids grow up or waiting for grandkids or whatever......but for someone whose still as lost as he was at 17 and trying to become capable of having the life I want.......I'm really on the ropes here!
First of all, take the pressure off. Many people achieve great things and realize their dreams later in life. Anxiety can also be overcome, with practice, and one of the best things to stop the anxiety cycle in the body is breathing techniques, combined with forgiveness, which is something that many people are not aware of. The next step is to start to look for things where you are doing positive things in your life. It is amazing how quickly positive things can happen by combining these 3 powerful techniques.
It's just nice to know I'm not crazy. I got divorced. Became homeless. Grace of God and a friend she got me through it
I made a video on this to help explain. ruclips.net/video/mI02lq-pltg/видео.html
I’m 31 and I think I’m going through this. I hated my job and was drained mentally and physically. I don’t wanna be bothered, barely can eat, I put my phone on dnd. I’m so stressed out and never felt like this a day in my life. I’ve had dream careers and I can’t seem to get there. Recently just started up my own business but I still feel like I don’t want anything right now. I’ve thought about suicide tbh
I hope all is well just take control of your mind
This is just a moment things will change
1. General Dissatisfaction for no apparent reason.
2. Superficial things don’t work. Changing things on outside don’t always work. Partying, drugs, excessive exercise, taking it out in those around you.
3. Start to question everything. Why am I in this relationship, marriage, job?
4. You don’t like what you see inside/outside. Who am I?
5. Deep internal work. Find the cause.
6. Transformation beyond your imagination.
The deep internal work is practicing techniques that erase the cause, and "finding it" is not necessary and can even hold you back for years. I regularly train people that can clearly talk about "why" their pain in happening, but they are stuck, and often have been for 10+years by the time they get to working with me. Depending on the meditation background that a person has, this can start with forgiveness process, include techniques that develop your awareness of your default behaviors that transform them at the same time, to advanced techniques that change how you react to situations in a fraction of the time that it takes with attempting to use mental processes, such as talk therapy and mental analysis. If you want to learn how to do this for yourself, you can schedule an evaluation here:
theeagleinstitute.com/kira-schedule-call/
I had first identity crisis in teenage (mum died) , next in 20s (millennial anxiety) and 3rd one 2 years ago when my dad died- at 36. The process sounds like exactly what I went through. I don't think I'll have midlife crisis. No need to buy a flashy car and date a teenager. 😄
Lol
I think I am going through this.
So mid life crisis is not so bad after all 😍😍❤
i think my wife is going through a midlife crisis , as a husband what if anything can i do to help her. she told me nothing she needs to do this on her own!
Thanks for the video, I definitely recognise a lot of this within myself. However I'm stuck on 5, I just don't know what to do to work on myself or what would help...
Hi Chris, you can book an evaluation with me here to see what your next best step is:
calendly.com/kira-eagle-1/evaluation-midlife-crisis-or-stress
I'm 49 . Been dealing w this for about a yr. I think I'm in stage 3. Questioning everything ... Went on antidepressant don't feel like it's better. I made a call to set up appt w a therapist. I feel like a crabby old geezer just cranky ...
We keep thinking we can fix things. Only God can make a true difference, trust Him.
My Husband i think is going thru this and he deni
es it thinking he is dying etc!!!!! He is not working and says he cant go back to work because his head hurts!!!!
Im only 28 and it is happening to me, i lost my job, cant find new job for now, lots of debt, i got a 4 year old daughter and wife dependent on me, very heavy feeling, i got nowhere to go, i know i cant blame anyone but myself, i tried everything in my power but it seems destiny is against me ... I need shoulders to depend on ... Huhuhu
But you must be between 40-60 … as you must be female to pregnant … regardless how many similar symptoms you discover!
Mid life crises is lack of self love.
not true. i've done plenty of self care and self love. mid life crisis is ego death / dark night of the soul and if you want to overcome it you must be disciplined in what you know your supposed to be doing rather than what you want to be doing. Its no longer about happiness and play its about doing exactly what you are meant to do here on earth. you must follow that path to have peace.
no
You're lost.
Sounds like what im going through right now, am thinking whether is it associated with depression? How does the two differ?
Stress, burnout and depression can look and feel similar to a midlife crisis. The difference is whether what you are experiencing is due to a lifestyle issue or due to the natural process of midlife crisis. Depression can frequently be reduced or eliminated with changes on the outside of your life, or your routine, and by just changing your thoughts to more positive ones, step by step.
With a midlife crisis, you can be totally positive, have a fabulous diet, get great sleep and have no other issues, and it will happen anyway to get you to work on your weaknesses.
Regardless of whether you are having a midlife crisis or feeling depressed, it is recommended that you practice simple techniques that improve your mental and emotional state.
We have a quiz "Stress or Midlife Crisis?" on our website theeagleinstitute.com to get you started. You can also find more resources there.
You can get through this, and you don't have to stay depressed, or struggle with a midlife crisis. There is happiness on the other side, if you practice the right techniques.
Are you given any kind of award or certificate when you complete each stage and if so where would I pick that up or could Amazon drop it off . But at my grandmas trailer because we dont get mail anymore because my dogs are going thru mid life crisises.
Yes X 1-5. I feel like I am suffocating with not knowing how to move forward in this transition. How?
So what if you know exactly what you need to do in order to "transform" yourself, but you don't have the support of your spouse? I love my husband dearly, but after 12 years together, I am ready to have a little bit of space from my in-laws (they live 10 minutes from us) and have a shorter distance between us and my own parents (who are currently 4 hours from us). I know I would be a happier/less cranky wife and mother if we relocated, but my hubby wants to stay put. I feel so lost about what to do 😞 I know what would make me happy, but is it worth it if my husband isn't as happy because of it??
My latest crisis is missing my midlife crisis.
Can you suggest a book to help with step 4?
I got really high last night and the certainty of my own death really hit me. Absolutely just rocked me. I'm pretty sure I had something like a panic attack. My heart was racing and my entire body was shaking, but I still found joy in the absurdity of doing a silly dance to a song. Existence is wild. I'm still shaken up. My heartrate has calmed down but for the first time in my life I'm afraid of death and missed opportunities. I feel like I've been going through these stages without really understanding them or putting them into words, then suddenly I woke up and realized I needed to enter stage 5 or there would be consequences. This shit sucks but it's really comforting that everyone goes through it. Tomorrow is never promised, so we must do what we can today. I've never gotten therapy but the first thing I did this morning was reach out to my work about what options our insurance provides. No one is going to do the hard work for me, so it's time to get off my ass and build something that brings myself and others joy.
Sounds like you hit that first dab a bit too hard 🤣
You are awesome! You and Jordan Peterson should meet and do a talk together. Help Millennials succeed, overcome and live the dream.
Male, 34, currently stuck at stage 5. My issues seem to stem from childhood (adoption, immigration, some abuse) and unstable self identity. Do a lot of introspection but can't get clarity about certain issues (relationship with bio parents). Any tips appreciated. Good luck to you all!
Hi G, thanks for your comment. Understanding does not bring healing, although at times it may help. I highly recommend doing Ho'onoponopono, the more extended versions that erase the family pain from your consciousness. If you want help with that, you can check out our website theeagleinstitute.com/help-my-midlife-crisis/
For most people, especially with traumatic childhood events (and adoption is definitely traumatic, even if the experience in the new family is positive) some on-going inner work is required. The good news is that with dedication, you can get to a place of peace with the past, including any abuse. You can be free of this in this lifetime if you choose to do the inner work, which is self-healing and meditation, not just reflection. We teach processes that work up to 1 million times faster than just doing introspection to heal and erase the negative effects of past experiences.
Do the silence retreat with the Art of Living foundation and meditate deeper. Deep down there is just love peace and joy
I believe someone close to me is in the dissactification stage and it is sad to watch. They are making many changes all at once and not sure where it will end up.
Here is a longer video in what to do at each stage: Midlife Crisis: How to Succeed at Each Stage
ruclips.net/video/3uKJl-CNNtY/видео.html, but as for you, trust that going through midlife crisis will help them to develop their blind spot into their strength, if they choose to deal with it. People must allow themselves to get to stage 3, of nice they realize that changing things doesn’t bring satisfaction or relief.
Just one question: why should I think I'm a "beautiful, luminous being"?
Oh good.
I'm entering stage 5.
Almost there
Great, how is it going? Do you know the techniques to break through stage 5 and 6?
Well it sounds like is not something bad, only a difficult stage in life.
Hi Iris, it's not bad, but you have to do something about it for it to go away, which is the inner transformation work. If you don't do the inner transformation work, you will struggle for the rest of your life. If you want to succeed at midlife crisis, there are certain techniques that work really quickly to help you move through it, otherwise you just repeat the same things in your life that are making your feel dissatisfied,. I suggest that you watch my new video on How to Succeed at each of the 6 Stages of a Midlife Crisis. Here is the link:
ruclips.net/video/3uKJl-CNNtY/видео.html
I’m 18 and I’m going through all of this, currently at stage 4-5. Gawd damn I feel like I’m going crazy lol
This happens if you google symptoms without using your brain … age … new physical limitations … limited remaining time for change … and you not being allowed to go certain ways as you are too old are essential, too!
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I'm about to turn 40. I have been wondering what my midlife crises should be. Any suggestions?
Hi thank you for explaining, do you know how a spouse can cope/connect with a wife going through everything you explained, she has changed so much, she doesnt want nothing to do with me, our marriage was fine not perfect but fine or so I thought.
Hi, great question, and something that many people ask. I know that this can be challenging for many people, not just the person experiencing the midlife crisis. Midlife crisis is a very personal process because each person is getting in touch with things about themselves that they were blind to or avoiding in the past. The process works faster when the person going through it actively participates and is open to the changes that it brings. You can never to do the inner work for the other person, but you can love them and accept them and tell them that you support the growth that they are going through. Just because she doesn’t want anything to do with you right now doesn’t mean that it will always be that way. If she does the inner work, she will come out the other side with a deeper understanding of herself, and that is a much better place to have relationships. In the meantime, develop yourself, love yourself, and know that this isn’t personal. This is a great opportunity for both of you and look for the benefits for both of you in this process.
@@Theeagleinstitute MY WIFE WANTS A DIVORCE , I AM IN PIECES . ANY ADVICE PLEASE
Get into marriage counseling. There is a much more serious underlying issues.
Read Through The Dark Woods. I know its on Audible. It will shake loose what's happening underneath.
@@puffywaun2966 MY WIFE WONT GO ANY WHERE WITH ME, SHE IS DONE ! BUT PEOPLES FEELINGS CHANGE,I AM LIVING ON HOPE .
I think its over. She realised she stopped loving you and you bore her.
also known as a SPIRITUAL AWAKENING. Bless everyone on their journey, be strong loves.
I really need help with that it has a lot to do with that I about my life I was abused as a child and i feel like itcause me to have a learning disorder, as a child I still suffer from it until this day from time to time, and i ended up running the streets and i fond my way in prison on top of everything , iv been out 22 years an im happy im free but live has realy been a struggle I'm 52 years old now and sometimes i fill like my live is over im living off of SSI and it's not enough I just don't know what to do sometimes I feel like I'm drowning
Although this sounds like a crisis, it isn't a midlife crisis. I highly recommend getting Louise Hay's Book You Can Heal Your Life, or any of her teachings. It is totally possible to improve your life in ways with higher morals and feel much happier and fulfilled.
Midlife crisis is facing the part of yourself that needs to grow and evolve in this life, and when people avoid it, they feel an emptiness that can't be fulfilled until they address their midlife crisis theme (everybody has a midlife crisis them), which if you are curious you can check out on one of my other videos.
I smoked a cigarette, got stuck in the throat, and since then these have been problems. For 6 months I have been thinking that I will die. I feel very weak and dizzy. What can I do to get well?plz help me 🙏
Beyond the obvious "Andropause" I pretty much skipped over this whole event. When I turned 50 (53 now) my life got better in every way. However part of it is becoming a member of club MGTOW currently on Monk Mode for the time being.
The conclusion I'm come to with all of those questions is "why even bother anymore? none of it mattered then, why would it years from now. We all die and the legacy is ultimately meaningless, why even bother with any of it anymore good or bad.
Hi Jaret, it does matter. Your growth in this life is what matters and it is the growth that will bring you meaning. I get it, it can be hard if it seems overwhelming. There is a big difference between non-attachment to an outcome and not caring about anything. I highly recommend some loving-kindness practice for yourself because it is reliable in lifting the feelings of apathy.
How does one get help from you or your team? The links seem to not work for me.