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  • Опубликовано: 18 сен 2024
  • She says her mom needs to grow up! Her mom posts on social media how her children are entirely to blame for their toxic relationship. Can Karamo help heal this family in pain?
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  • @amiblu2u648
    @amiblu2u648 Год назад +1515

    Mom was rough around the edges but you could see her: loving, emotional, protective, charismatic and funny (her lil banter with Karamo was so funny). The tough shell no longer serves her. I hope she can shed it and breathe and truly be at peace with herself because then she’ll find it with her children.

    • @readerscurrent2825
      @readerscurrent2825 Год назад +13

      I know them they we from the same city the mam it's really crazy in she wasn't lying she was shooting at girl

    • @michellemoore7846
      @michellemoore7846 Год назад +7

      the mom here... respect

    • @michellemoore7846
      @michellemoore7846 Год назад +8

      @@readerscurrent2825 Hello and may God bless and everybody in da city know how i feel about the girls, but it's more to the story and I am tired of my kids getting me hurt, locked up,beat up lose friends, all to grow up and disrespect me like I have not been apart of their lives, and loving them top the best of my abilty.. This is just some bs Malika coming at me with, she knows wasup

    • @michellemoore7846
      @michellemoore7846 Год назад

      @@MalikaMoore-wj2dp you are on demon time. You do not do anything for me and i do not want you to, Yes Willim snitched on me and he said something or did something out the wy tp my foo foo so Malika just leave me alone and don't worry about me, you are demonic and hateful and I as your mother have accepTED THIS, SO JUST PRAY AND ASK GOD TO FORGIVE YOU AND MYSELF AND I WILL DO THE SAME... GOOD LORD HEAL NOW... AND CONTINUE TO BLESS MY CHILDREN SO THAT THEY NEVER HAVE TO COME BACK TO MY HOUSE, TO USE ME UP THEN DISREGARD MY PARENTING... AMEN

    • @michellemoore7846
      @michellemoore7846 Год назад +1

      @@MalikaMoore-wj2dp I HAVE LOST SO MANY FRIENDS AND LOVED ONES BECAUSE OF MY CHILDREN..... OOOH LORD HELP ME PLEASE... HEAL MY SPIRIT BECAUSE I REALLY DO NOT LIKE THE FAKENESS IN MY CHILD SHE HAD TO HAVE GOTTEN THAT SHIT FROM HER DADDY SIDE....

  • @christyluv3969
    @christyluv3969 Год назад +779

    It appears the mom wasn't protected growing up. The only way of survival was to fight. She was never held enough, loved enough, and shown that she was enough. Her behavior and things she says that fighting is her way of showing love and protection. She's a big teddy bear under that shell. She's never felt safe to let her guard down to let others in because of her past. I pray they're honest with the therapist and themselves so they can move forward to break the generational curse. I'm so happy for Karamo and his gift for all these families.
    Best of luck.

    • @TheSyngirl
      @TheSyngirl Год назад +12

      This was very well said

    • @rhondaharrera1625
      @rhondaharrera1625 Год назад +2

      Damn you just gave me a therapy session lol. Got me in my feelings.

    • @maurcenawakefield1597
      @maurcenawakefield1597 2 месяца назад

      The mother needs help, and she is bragging like she has been in jail three times
      Wasn't even there for her kids the mother not on drugs now but she have anger issues

  • @Kendallslovejoy
    @Kendallslovejoy Год назад +724

    It’s something about mom that makes me like her. I wish the daughter wasn’t so loud and would listen. They are both broken and hurt. The daughter is trying to break the cycle but at no point should she think she is better than her mom. I think growth is due to us all and no one is ever too old for growth and change.

    • @tresabrown9618
      @tresabrown9618 Год назад +4

      Real Talk 💪

    • @antoinetteallen434
      @antoinetteallen434 Год назад +3

      Me too 😢

    • @Joe-lg1zy
      @Joe-lg1zy Год назад +3

      Well said

    • @a.jbrowne8072
      @a.jbrowne8072 Год назад +7

      Yes, for real. She has given her all to raise her children. 6 children man she has that weight on her shoulders to make sure they are protected. She still carries that burden as mom and now as grandmother

    • @tokill2001
      @tokill2001 Год назад

      Agreed

  • @mimseyrenee2217
    @mimseyrenee2217 Год назад +546

    I really came in here ready to be mad at mom. I walked away totally in love with that woman. She’s a precious gem. And they are gonna work it out. Thank you to the host for making this a beautiful learning experience. LOVE YOU MOM! LOVE YOU SIS! YOU TWO ARE BEAUTIFUL AND YOU WILL WORK IT OUT AS A FAMILY.

  • @julietchilaka2680
    @julietchilaka2680 Год назад +508

    Karamo is a Gem , I hope in his dark days he remembers the Light he has brought to others , and I pray he stays strong.

    • @RedCardinal4296
      @RedCardinal4296 Год назад +20

      Say that again loud and proud 👏

    • @chandraeason4502
      @chandraeason4502 Год назад +7

      Amen ❤

    • @nqmer
      @nqmer Год назад +4

      we are the crystal gems 🙌😀

    • @officialmau3289
      @officialmau3289 Год назад

      Welcome to Africa you can't talk to your mom like that 😅😅😅even she is an addict but in Africa hell no a parent is always right

    • @julietchilaka2680
      @julietchilaka2680 Год назад

      @@RedCardinal4296 ❤️

  • @Mars_o.g
    @Mars_o.g Год назад +912

    I love this episode 🥺. The mother definitely did some wrong and has a very hot temper but you can tell she loves her daughter. I’m happy they worked things out.

    • @Amberrx
      @Amberrx Год назад +18

      Yup, Believe it or not that’s my Auntie and Cousin, We just got off the phone😃

    • @muragizinourah1042
      @muragizinourah1042 Год назад +2

      My mom is like this one too,I am a Mather of 3,I am 39yrs old!but all of this will be okey when I get $,parents of now days respect a child who gave them$here in Africa!if u have nothing!u re nothing

    • @michellemoore7846
      @michellemoore7846 Год назад +2

      comment respected

    • @mercy6549
      @mercy6549 Год назад +1

      right!!

  • @justIvy98
    @justIvy98 Год назад +402

    My heart goes out to this mother.. her story is much deeper than she was able to express. They need individual therapy and family therapy. May God help them break generational curses they are carrying from prior generational trauma passed down through genetics. I cried so much during this episode my cat came to comfort me.

    • @michellemoore7846
      @michellemoore7846 Год назад +9

      Thank you so much, but God is moving, the healing is definitely coming...

    • @elisegreen8051
      @elisegreen8051 Год назад +2

      My prayers are with you all.

  • @AVBNOW23
    @AVBNOW23 Год назад +98

    Mom needed that hug❤

    • @lartinewilliams2719
      @lartinewilliams2719 Год назад +6

      Children honor thy mother and father thy father that thy day s be may long upon the lord and parents must not provoke their children to wrath either i pray that both of them put God in the midst and worked it out

  • @LR-sf7te
    @LR-sf7te Год назад +411

    Due to being bullied and hurt as a youngster being a protector is the role she's chosen as a momma. Its why she risked it all everytime one of her babies were in trouble.
    Her daughter discovered there's more to it and wants her momma to grow w her.
    I cry with them both and I pray for their growth together and for a peaceful life filled with genuine joy.

    • @TrajaeBJones
      @TrajaeBJones Год назад +14

      Yes I agree . She’s a great mom she is parenting the best way she knows how & doesn’t want her children hurt like she was

    • @yahniadore
      @yahniadore Год назад +6

      Yes God! Strengthen, love and hold them and their family members God! Amen! 💜

    • @sfwatxyo2162
      @sfwatxyo2162 Год назад +4

      Hurt people, hurt people. I wish them all healing.

    • @jessshine9625
      @jessshine9625 Год назад

      I agree...i bet her boyfriend and family started showing her the correct way to love and now she wants that for her mom and siblings. Hopefully with therapy and his loving fam they will all come together

  • @MissDeenaB94
    @MissDeenaB94 Год назад +161

    I’m sorry 😂😂😂😂😂 The mom is funny as hell “you smell so good. Got me all flustered” 😂

    • @tessareneau9677
      @tessareneau9677 Год назад +4

      😂😂 IKR...I'm sweating nosing running all can of stuff "Do I still look good"💀😂😂

  • @blahblahblaaah9464
    @blahblahblaaah9464 Год назад +57

    She’s not a bad mom she’s a hurt mom and hurt people hurt people. Bless them most high and I pray they can make amends blessings to them.

    • @ariamarshall5161
      @ariamarshall5161 Год назад +1

      EXACTLY!!!! Ppl on this thread are projecting. Folks mommy issues are busting thru. She’s not a horrible mom. They hugged, they said I love u MULTIPLE TIMES. Ppl here can’t relate so they are expressing that in the comments due their issues. They simply need therapy to heal separately then they need help in how to communicate. Other than that they seem to be READY to become better.

  • @TheeOriginalLolo
    @TheeOriginalLolo Год назад +46

    Just because the mom has a likable personality to US doesn’t take away what she did to her children. Her daughter doesn’t act like that for no reason, so to people trying to diminish the daughter’s anguish? Stop it. I hope their family heals, there’s so much potential there ❤

    • @zoespeaks7404
      @zoespeaks7404 Год назад +12

      Exactlyyy, the people in these comments are baffling

    • @officialalonzo263
      @officialalonzo263 4 месяца назад +1

      This was 100% relatable😔

  • @mzfancy2241
    @mzfancy2241 Год назад +89

    Man,I cried and smiled with this one😩I hope they're doing well.

    • @zee4458
      @zee4458 Год назад +2

      Me tooo 😢

    • @UmmJannah5
      @UmmJannah5 Год назад

      ​@@zee4458Same! Especially when the daughter scooted nxt to her mom for a hug🤧mom dukes is sooo funny and I kno she has a good heart. I hope they follow thru with counseling!

  • @dominiquejenkins5495
    @dominiquejenkins5495 Год назад +463

    Idk why but it's something about the mom I like. . She's extremely animated melodramatic and ghetto but she seems like she's a product of her environment.... She had accountability for the most part and super funny .. I don't expect nobody to agree but that's just how I feel

    • @jaeeluv
      @jaeeluv Год назад +34

      💯 Same... She's not that bad. I've seen waaay worse on this show ✨

    • @sheilae.9670
      @sheilae.9670 Год назад +21

      I like the mom, she had accountability and she lives her kids❤❤

    • @jaesweet
      @jaesweet Год назад +7

      I feel the same way too ❤

    • @Rumii.i
      @Rumii.i Год назад +17

      Her only flaw is her characteristics but her heart is definitely in the right place

    • @RedCardinal4296
      @RedCardinal4296 Год назад +5

      These are true facts right here 💯

  • @carlamichelle46
    @carlamichelle46 Год назад +92

    Mama tries to beat everyone to the punch of degrading herself because that's all she's used to...she definitely needs some work, but she's genuine and real. I can see her being a motivational speaker, one day.

  • @GeorgiaWhisper
    @GeorgiaWhisper Год назад +73

    This episode touched some hearts and souls in the audience. I saw them tearing up, squinting their eyes.

  • @kesybaby5382
    @kesybaby5382 Год назад +28

    Mama is a lot but damn you can't help but love her... I'm praying for the whole family...

  • @WhereSheGetsHerConfiDANCE
    @WhereSheGetsHerConfiDANCE Год назад +177

    Real toxic parents wouldn’t even come on the show, let alone admit their shortcomings (aka My Mother). Praying for their healing ❤️‍🩹

  • @elociretim
    @elociretim Год назад +356

    Thank you, Karamo and crew, for sharing a spectrum of vulnerability, womanhood, and motherhood. I pray these two women can heal and mend their inner children. "I would die for my kids!" I hope we learn to live for our children.

  • @sheilawilliams9966
    @sheilawilliams9966 Год назад +71

    This show really touched me because my mother was hypersensitive about someone touching us inappropriately!!!
    As an adult I assumed she had been molested. My first cousin confirmed it at my mother's funeral.
    Talking about family secrets of sexual and physical abuse.
    The problem is when my mother started accusing almost all men of being molesters and calling the police and social services!!!
    I became aware of my mothers mental illness when I was around ten years old .

  • @Mars_o.g
    @Mars_o.g Год назад +63

    You can tell the angry issue the mother has is a block. She’s really loving but doesn’t know how to express it.

  • @maudlyn25
    @maudlyn25 Год назад +83

    She's a wonderful mother inside and out. She just having difficulty communicating and navigating her feelings well. ❤❤❤ I love her

  • @BJ-ib2ub
    @BJ-ib2ub Год назад +30

    She actually is a good mom. She reminds me of my aunties they rough but they love really hard & sometimes it can be a bit much but we all know they mean no harm whatsoever. I'm really happy they worked it out & I hope it stays that way ❤

  • @teetee6456
    @teetee6456 Год назад +43

    When I saw the blond wig, the eye shadow, and lashes reminded me of the project parents of my childhood. Mom isn't that bad, she goes to the limit for her kids just in the wrong ways, I think they will be ok because I still see the love.

  • @jaeeluv
    @jaeeluv Год назад +710

    Wait... She's actually a good mother. Just needs a lil work ✨ Update: FOR ANYONE THAT HAS A PROBLEM WITH WT,F I SAID, GO UNDER MY COMMENT, AND ASK ME IF YOU THINK I GIVE A D,AMN ABOUT WHAT U THINK... 😑

  • @rosemarylopez6287
    @rosemarylopez6287 Год назад +116

    Beautiful episode, not every single family is perfect. Thank you for helping them.

  • @mysticalheiress4362
    @mysticalheiress4362 Год назад +50

    The hug from Karamo sealed it. Such a cool dude! Mom, has been through some things, bullying etc. She's still in that defensive mode. She can learn to let it go and drop the wall She's built. They have some work ahead of them but they're both willing to be mom and daughter and resolve the things that have made the relationship toxic. Best wishes to this family 💞

  • @user-yq5ey3uf1o
    @user-yq5ey3uf1o Год назад +96

    I knew everyone will side with the mom. But I absolutely understand the daughter . Imagine telling your kids you hate them and making them feel like they are indebted to you just cause you have birthed them . And moms like this will gaslight you to the end of the world and their joy is when you argue with them . The psychological ,emotional, social effects it has on the daughter is life damaging . Once you have kids it’s your responsibility to heal yourself from past traumas , If you don’t you shouldn’t expect your kids to stay by your side !!

    • @NikkiKNuvo
      @NikkiKNuvo Год назад +12

      Nah.. you need to make peace with your own situation. I know what that's like too..... NOTHING my biological mother can say will ever excuse what she did to me growing up. But *this* woman... she's not like that. She has purity in her. She has accountability.. but she has trauma also. this isn't the low vibe narcissist who gaslights. This is a real woman with real demons she fights every day - ESPECIALLY when her own children are involved. She's not low like your mother. You will benefit from learning the differences.

    • @user-yq5ey3uf1o
      @user-yq5ey3uf1o Год назад

      @@NikkiKNuvo the fact that your face is swelling as the years go by is what low , eat a salad damn

    • @ThatgirlisSpicy97
      @ThatgirlisSpicy97 Год назад +3

      @@NikkiKNuvowhy would you call their mother low. Speak your opinion without the wickedness.

    • @hearme4581
      @hearme4581 Год назад +1

      @@ThatgirlisSpicy97She must have hit a nerve

    • @tkhachi
      @tkhachi Год назад +3

      I agree. When a person has the mom's traits, they are very likable to most people. They can manipulate and act to the point where only the people closest to them see the day in and day out drama and chaotic environment they create. Yes, clearly, the mom had a bad upbringing, but it was up to her as an adult to turn that around before bringing children into this world or at least before they become adults. The daughter also had a rough childhood. The mom continuously made the wrong choices and couldn't provide guidance. One time in prison is not necessary for most of us to take a good, hard look in that mirror, let alone three. Daughter is obviously trying to do better, brought her mom to the show, and is begging for them all to get professional help. She is also trying to maintain the relationship with her mother. The majority of the comments are quick to pity the mother and call out the daughter, and that's sad to me, especially with the basic facts we got. Not to mention that recovery from addiction is a lifelong discipline. I hope that they get the help they need and can have a flourishing relationship, husband and grandkids included.

  • @aprilpinketon2567
    @aprilpinketon2567 Год назад +144

    They're hurting their Mom, by being disrespectful and living recklessly. Mom is trying to keep her kids safe the best way she knows how. I see myself in her so much. She is such a sweet soul with a tough exterior.

    • @meyontheslayer1167
      @meyontheslayer1167 Год назад +11

      This my mom know the story before y’all judge

    • @Melace002
      @Melace002 Год назад +1

      And like TF they said you’re disreputable

    • @Melace002
      @Melace002 Год назад +1

      @@meyontheslayer1167 And like TF they said you’re disrespectful

    • @meyontheslayer1167
      @meyontheslayer1167 Год назад +2

      @@Melace002 it’s the fact you don’t know us or our family but think you got the right to say something about me

    • @user-xz1rr4ib8s
      @user-xz1rr4ib8s Год назад +4

      U don't know her 💀

  • @tolungia
    @tolungia Год назад +39

    I really feel for the mother because she has had to be so strong for her children and they disrespect her. That drives a mother crazy when you do all you can to protect and provide. Growing up in a rough city women have to go hard especially when raising young men. You have to be strict but don’t want to give abuse that you felt as a child. But sometimes when you spare the rod, you spoil the child. The daughter is angry because she is progressing in life and knows her mother has potential but when she recommends things to her mom she becomes angry. That offends the daughter (entitlement) and causes her to be disrespectful. God bless them both. 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @WerewolfofEpicness
    @WerewolfofEpicness Год назад +33

    that mom should honestly be proud of herself

  • @_Bianca32
    @_Bianca32 Год назад +21

    They literally had me CRYING 😢

  • @Renee302976
    @Renee302976 Год назад +26

    I was in tears watching this, I'm praying for this mother and daughter. As a single mother myself, I can definitely relate

    • @sharongakii46
      @sharongakii46 Год назад

      As a single mom of a 4 yr old girl now am scared 😢

  • @velirod8700
    @velirod8700 Год назад +41

    Another touching episode - so many mothers and daughters need healing including myself and my mother - wishing you them all the best

  • @jobeinspires05
    @jobeinspires05 Год назад +16

    oooohhh I'm in tears... Jesusss...cover and help heal them.. this is real...I feel where this mom is coming and the daughter..my mom use to be out there and I had to take on the responsibility of growing up fast... and sometimes we don't know the tools to get through to each other...as they talk to each other.. I'm crying because I had to heal from my hurt....and I'm praying for ya'll and I love this mom because she is real...but that HUG was needed......thank ya'll for being vulnerable because the broken communication is going on with a lot of families.

  • @RedCardinal4296
    @RedCardinal4296 Год назад +56

    This is my mother in actual reality. SMFH 😒🙅‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️ So I can definitely relate to this absolutely 💯

    • @1991Meka
      @1991Meka Год назад +6

      God bless you. I hope you don't have to deal with a toxic mother.

    • @RedCardinal4296
      @RedCardinal4296 Год назад +1

      @@1991Meka I won't

    • @_london4762
      @_london4762 Год назад +3

      Mines too 💔💔💔 you don’t down talk your kids you lift them up help them grown

    • @RedCardinal4296
      @RedCardinal4296 Год назад +1

      @@_london4762 true

  • @bronzedgold
    @bronzedgold Год назад +28

    So much love between these two. I hope they can both find peace with each other ❤❤❤

    • @michellemoore7846
      @michellemoore7846 Год назад +2

      there will never be any peace until i find out about my grand daughter, this is the exact reason my daughter was over talking me, she didn't want anything aired out she continued to bash me but william her boyfriend has done something to my grand daughter

    • @TasteMyRainb0w
      @TasteMyRainb0w Год назад

      @@michellemoore7846 I was wondering why you were so concerned about your grandchild like that. I had a feeling there was more to it. I hope it's not true, but if you think or know he has done something to your grandchild the authorities should be called to investigate.

  • @SkeemzGQ8
    @SkeemzGQ8 Год назад +12

    This woman grew on me, I wish them well and hope they fix it because they seem genuine

  • @JG_SmileSOBright
    @JG_SmileSOBright Год назад +28

    I ❤ the mama! She's a real one 💯

  • @crazymusicgrlcheesecake
    @crazymusicgrlcheesecake Год назад +12

    I legit cried when the daughter hugged the mom.

    • @michellemoore7846
      @michellemoore7846 Год назад +2

      My daughter is fake.... This story wasn't even suppose to be this fake man, My daughter and William know exactly why i am angry right now.. thanks for your comment

    • @awkwardsanchez6231
      @awkwardsanchez6231 Год назад

      @@michellemoore7846 is it really you? Seriously?

    • @michellemoore7846
      @michellemoore7846 Год назад

      @@awkwardsanchez6231 yes

  • @andrealewis8556
    @andrealewis8556 Год назад +17

    I pray they can work it out. They love each other. Her moms had to be the protector even when she felt mistreated. I pray they can build a bond that wont ever break again🙏🏽

  • @elizabethhernandez6732
    @elizabethhernandez6732 Год назад +14

    I love how the mom didn’t hesitate when Karamo asked her if he could offer her therapy and she said “no” it was the cutest funniest thing ever. I was honestly expecting to get angry at the mom but she was so sweet and it’s understandable as to why she was the way she was. ❤

  • @coreyjoyner
    @coreyjoyner Год назад +7

    When mama started to say, “You just…” then said, “WE just got something going on.” REAL

  • @bardot23bn
    @bardot23bn Год назад +19

    Mom been through so much to where she fears for her children...her expression of love and her mothering is different.... but it's genuine...may God bless them both🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @ChristSaves88
    @ChristSaves88 Год назад +7

    Their hug and embracement had me in tears. 🥺 Praying for their continued healing. 🙏🏾❤

  • @maryu2864
    @maryu2864 Год назад +18

    I’m in tears our culture and generation need this show

  • @mirahnaj7978
    @mirahnaj7978 Год назад +10

    this show is so much better then shows like steve wilkos & maury . Karamo does not exploite his guest or try to embarass them & always shows real love & respect . I love this show so much , its real & as a young black woman .. i can relate to a bunch of the situations on this show . Sometimes I even take his advice for myself , So thank you so much Karamo ❤

  • @TheJawn_G
    @TheJawn_G Год назад +34

    I resignate with this relationship, if I brought my mom on here , it would be the exact same episode! We need help❤

  • @mamabear3217
    @mamabear3217 Год назад +5

    People think drugs is just about getting high people self medicate for anxiety, grief, worry , abuse and when they do not have tools for therapy or coping skills they use what they have...she a survivor she survived now its time to thrive and live❤

  • @inglewoodhoneyhoney321
    @inglewoodhoneyhoney321 Год назад +4

    Damn, had me crying at work. I lost my momma 5 almost 6 years ago. We weren't perfect but I miss her alot and that hug and kiss at the end got me.

  • @chanelwest3641
    @chanelwest3641 Год назад +6

    I know a Good Mother when I see one and she is one Blessing to the both of them ❤️

  • @bestkksser
    @bestkksser Год назад +21

    Dear Person That's Reading This You May Be Goin Through Something But God Got U He Didn’t Bring You This Far To Quit.We Don’t Know Each Other But I Wish U All The Best In Life 2023 And Beyond.🇧🇸❤️

  • @Dntfqwitme
    @Dntfqwitme Год назад +9

    Her mom is so sweet I’m sorry I love her they all just been through the ringer and need help ❤

  • @agelessbeautee5.04
    @agelessbeautee5.04 Год назад +26

    The love is definitely there, I feel it thru the tv…..the therapist will help to heal the familial relationship

  • @jaeeluv
    @jaeeluv Год назад +144

    Ain't nothing like a toxic parent 💔

    • @alziedownes1955
      @alziedownes1955 Год назад

      🙉😭😱😨🤮.

    • @RedCardinal4296
      @RedCardinal4296 Год назад +5

      True

    • @victoriarisings1111
      @victoriarisings1111 Год назад +24

      Parents don't have all the answers. The biggest part about growing up is realizing they're trying figure things out just as we are.

    • @tamikabrown8539
      @tamikabrown8539 Год назад +3

      Wheww, chile. Amen

    • @denfolo5224
      @denfolo5224 Год назад +9

      Yep. I am fine with falling birth rates. Procreating should be an informed decision.

  • @mimivstheworld5160
    @mimivstheworld5160 Год назад +151

    i’m glad they worked it out and they’re both understanding each others pov. the daughter should stop talking while her mom is talking tho

    • @KTQ333
      @KTQ333 Год назад +10

      This would be my exact comment. The daughter should've hushed and listened more to get some understanding about her mother's behaviors

    • @MissDeenaB94
      @MissDeenaB94 Год назад +14

      True. But you have to keep in mind she’s doing what she learned. They both are seeking help, which is beautiful. And trust me… I come from a household my mother still till this day as a 28 year old woman with 2 kids, does not play that so I get it 😂😂😂 Just.. as the elders, they have to learn to listen to their kids and the kids have to understand where the parent is coming from.

    • @michellemoore7846
      @michellemoore7846 Год назад

      hello hun there has been nothing worked out, my daughter is fake, i still don't know what's going on wor what happened to my grand dughter i tried protecting my grand daughters reputation but Malikas fiance boyfriend whatever the hell he is, is a rat and a child predator...

    • @ay-shaamasih9270
      @ay-shaamasih9270 Год назад +1

      and vice versa!!

    • @TasteMyRainb0w
      @TasteMyRainb0w Год назад

      I agree. She talk too much. I know she hurt but she needs to learn when to be quiet.

  • @msveee4553
    @msveee4553 Год назад +42

    Ooohhh....This episode had me in tears. Not easy, well done ladies, well done Karamo!

    • @nicolagordon6490
      @nicolagordon6490 Год назад +1

      🤝🏾

    • @michellemoore7846
      @michellemoore7846 Год назад

      My daughter is a damn fake... Will is a predator and a snitch and Malika knows why i was mad, and she brought me out to the show, she protecting Will

  • @b.u.dmusic9424
    @b.u.dmusic9424 Год назад +29

    There's something about that mother that I just adore. The daughter? Not so much

  • @a.jbrowne8072
    @a.jbrowne8072 Год назад +7

    I see a mother that had 6 kids that has been through alot for her kids. A mother that gave her all for a child that did not appreciate her. A mother that is a MOTHER . That has gone to the the streets for her children. But I feel like she needs to let them go. Let them go and live her life. Beautiful ending

  • @maryu2864
    @maryu2864 Год назад +8

    Genuine hugs soothe difficult situations ❤. I love Karamo to pieces

  • @prettygirltee8
    @prettygirltee8 Год назад +4

    All the mom want is something her mother never gave her that’s all. I feel that she think she’s losing her children. This may not be all but this is something I see and feel. May GOD be with this family 🙏💝🙏.

  • @khiyaduo
    @khiyaduo Год назад +5

    There are soooo many families like this or similar children raising children but wasn’t raised properly to raise there children (blind leading the blind) it’s happening everywhere I feel counseling should be given to all families in need of it there’s so much money in the gov they need to provide counseling to families in need of it I bet that would help tons of families in America

  • @journeywithjesus
    @journeywithjesus Год назад +5

    Karamo, I am thank God for you. The work that you and your crew do for people. You sit quiet and listen to people and show that you are there for them is amazing. This is one of the best shows that i have ever watched. God bless you.

  • @rachelbona9925
    @rachelbona9925 Год назад +7

    Was beautiful how they came to terms with each other, they just needed a pair of hearing ears to sort this. Agree with Mom's comments on how Mr Karamo dealt with the whole story, so beautiful to watch☺

  • @ceomafdet
    @ceomafdet Год назад +9

    I'm glad they both agreed to therapy because this was a lot that couldn't be unpacked in just 20min

  • @Regina11225
    @Regina11225 Год назад +6

    Awww the mom so reminds me of myself. I been through a lot and as a woman from a more rough environment you have to adapt to survive. Especially raising children alone it’s a lot and can cause a lot of misguided anger… but kudos to them for getting to a starting point of change and she’s very lucky to have a mother that goes so hard for her bc everyone doesn’t have that 💕

  • @Datonekid101hundred
    @Datonekid101hundred Год назад +5

    This mother has an anointing on her and a story to tell

  • @jazzyjennshighway
    @jazzyjennshighway Год назад +29

    I tell you I was leaning on the daughter side at first until I really listened to the mom and understood the “why” was of her actions . It was out of pure protection for her kids. I sympathized & cried like a baby bc I felt the mothers love for her kids and grandkids. She’s rough around the edges but she is a true ride or die mom at the end of the day & some ppl don’t have that for a mom. I feel like my mom would go to jail too for me and my brothers lol 😂 play with us if you want too. She very beautiful lady on the outside but baybeh don’t play with her kids or grands. You wouldn’t see it coming. So kudos to both the mom & daughter for embracing at the end. And to Karamo bc like the mom said he can definitely tap into what’s going on and his approach with it is why ppl are receptive on both sides

  • @ItsPookieB
    @ItsPookieB Год назад +26

    I pray that when my daughter grows up she sees me as a strong independent women ❤

  • @1993kennyb
    @1993kennyb Год назад +54

    Can the daughter shut up? So I can hear the mother. She had her turn

    • @ren9285
      @ren9285 Год назад +3

      No

    • @ren9285
      @ren9285 Год назад +10

      Her mother doesn’t deserve that, look at what she did to her daughter

    • @1993kennyb
      @1993kennyb Год назад +7

      @@ren9285 I don't agree with the mother but let her talk. It's annoying af to keep cutting someone off

    • @bmarie1001
      @bmarie1001 Год назад +4

      I think the daughter is so used to being cut off that being on the show and getting the opportunity to actually be heard she may have gotten a little overzealous. If you look at the rest of the clip, the mother was talking over her AND Karamo, lol

    • @ScorpioBeauty
      @ScorpioBeauty Год назад

      This!

  • @shantaemcdaniel5086
    @shantaemcdaniel5086 Год назад +1

    Baby I felt when momma said I can't sleep from think about my kids she is and amazing momma

  • @cleopatra-noge
    @cleopatra-noge Год назад +5

    Firstly there’s no parenting school, as a mother I didn’t even know what i was doing, and I still. but I’ve done a great job so far, my daughter is now in high school and I’m so proud of me. I know it would kill me to have my daughter raising her voice at me like that regardless of my sins, your growth shouldn’t give you the authority to do so. We go through so much to keep our children alive but for them to growing up and thinking they have the authority to disrespect us! It’s not the way

  • @stefaniesmith2886
    @stefaniesmith2886 Год назад +1

    I can feel momma cause I have nobody and I'm everything to my kids. Their daddy, momma, grandma, grandpa, nurse, doctor you name it. So we have to be strong for everybody. I get momma and it brought tears to my eyes cause I feel her pain.

  • @javonbrooks3043
    @javonbrooks3043 Год назад +6

    I love them and I believe they are going to be okay. It's a whole lot of love here

  • @yocastabelliard
    @yocastabelliard Год назад +1

    Awww there’s still love here.I pray for their healing.

  • @karolrenee5497
    @karolrenee5497 Год назад +4

    Aww this made me emotional and I NEVER cry!! (Thats my issue) I love seeing mothers and daughters actively resolve their past conflicts for the betterment of the future!! Kudos and my God bless them both!!!!

  • @hellothere8347
    @hellothere8347 Год назад +1

    They love each other! This is beautiful! A lot of parents say I’ll go to jail for my kids but don’t mean it she really about it for hers and all you can do is respect it

  • @mechellesonnier5445
    @mechellesonnier5445 Год назад +6

    I so am not siding with the daughter on this one, she won't shut up!!

  • @TheJocha31
    @TheJocha31 Год назад +5

    Tearjerker!😢 great ending and to see the mom soften up to her daughter...was sweet. My own mother is a hard cookie too, but being the baby of the crew and always talking to my mother, i always understood her reasoning. Also, my mom never yelled or went off on us, but if you were not her children or husband, good luck to you. Great segment!

  • @rhondathavirgo
    @rhondathavirgo Год назад +6

    I love Karamo and his show and how he mediates well to get to understand people

  • @MrKlyrix
    @MrKlyrix 3 месяца назад

    Omg I can't explain it but I LOVE the mother ....she is the most sweetest/meanest person I've seen on this show. You can see clearly that she's been thru so much and that she truly cares for her daughter...but hurt people hurt people. There's hope with these two. May God bless them

  • @lumbeemamacimaglia9850
    @lumbeemamacimaglia9850 Год назад +13

    Karamo always got me cryin (in a good way) I wish I could have a conversation with him. This episode was great. Mama was real and allowed herself to open up. It's hard to do that sometimes, especially if you have felt that your feelings don't matter or if your riddled with shame or regret or pain and feel like you don't deserve to speak your truth. I pray that they keep their bond and grow together. Have a great week y'all ❤️

  • @keisham846
    @keisham846 Год назад +5

    This was very tough to watch but this happens in our community alot. People dont wont to go to therapy because they feel like it's a waste. This reminds me of me and my mother relationship I cant talk to her either. In our community everything is going to be ok and they try to sweep things under the rug. I love that they broke generational curses on national tv I'm so happy.

  • @princesski7
    @princesski7 Год назад +58

    some parents simply don’t deserve to have any children. grow up!

    • @yaggipope5117
      @yaggipope5117 Год назад +15

      Did y'all watch the same video she was accountable for her action she said it she's hurting you don't know what she's been through haven't walked a day in her shoe put your quick to judge at least she was bold enough to bring her business to the internet for people like you to see to try to tear her down at the same time she admitted her wrong and I'm proud of her for that All you see is what you see that's in front of you you don't know the many years

    • @michellemoore7846
      @michellemoore7846 Год назад +1

      Yeah like you, do you have any? What sacrifices have you really made to survive? TELL ME NOTHING ABOUT PARENTING UNTIL YOU ARE ONE

    • @yaggipope5117
      @yaggipope5117 Год назад +1

      Facts

    • @michellemoore7846
      @michellemoore7846 Год назад

      @@yaggipope5117 THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR YOUR SUPPORT.. GOD IS WATCHING AND HE IS UP HIGH LOOKING LOW, HE SEES WHAT'S GOING... Thank you again sweetie

  • @prettyvampire6670
    @prettyvampire6670 Год назад +4

    My huggies goes to that guy who was super emotional 😊

  • @chocol8dread1
    @chocol8dread1 Год назад +4

    I ❤KARAMO he has such a gentle spirit!

  • @Mattyd0997
    @Mattyd0997 Год назад +1

    Omg that’s a good mother right there! I wish I had a mother like that!

  • @lifeofdonesty2168
    @lifeofdonesty2168 Год назад +3

    This made me cry , I love this for the family . I love my black community . The bond always been there - you gotta let go of that hurt and love each other . Love goes far ❤

  • @brittanybonet
    @brittanybonet Год назад +19

    This is EXACTLY what I’m going through with my mom, minus the hateful words. It’s just silence for years.

    • @DavTec1
      @DavTec1 Год назад +3

      We're so many in this .... specially with our African moms.. or Afro - American ! I'm born in Kenya , living in Vienna Austria , I'm all grown, I have my family. Mum took me here with her when I was a Teenie. She keeps insulting , saying I should be thankful I'm in Europe ! Really??? After she brought me here and kicked me out at 16., to keep her marriage!!! Now it's silence since 2 years !!!!

    • @jacklinechacha5012
      @jacklinechacha5012 Год назад

      ​@@DavTec1 hugs 🫂🫂🫂❤❤❤❤❤❤

    • @riamzriricamaron6508
      @riamzriricamaron6508 Год назад +1

      Going through the Same shit

  • @canwebehonest4once740
    @canwebehonest4once740 Год назад +318

    The daughter is just as toxic to the relationship as the mother . That girl couldn’t be quiet to save her life

    • @FelixlovesGod
      @FelixlovesGod Год назад +17

      Right like shut up for a second

    • @Slayqueen7393
      @Slayqueen7393 Год назад +102

      When your in a toxic household you have no right to speak about your feelings at all, so her being on this show actually gave her a chance to talk about it. It’s not being toxic at all.

    • @ameenahmorris610
      @ameenahmorris610 Год назад +16

      Well did you see her mama?

    • @juanitasalazar6860
      @juanitasalazar6860 Год назад +11

      Ya, bcuz she her doughter. Duuu.

    • @sydthekid3849
      @sydthekid3849 Год назад +30

      ​@@FelixlovesGoda child learns from their environment

  • @nickifresh7362
    @nickifresh7362 Год назад +1

    Something about mama she made me cry she really love her kids and sometimes kids does test your gangster so I understand her

  • @opulence_prime
    @opulence_prime Год назад +6

    I know Karamo is an openly gay man but that hug would have had me flushed too. I’m so glad they had this breakthrough.

  • @heluvs_teee
    @heluvs_teee 9 месяцев назад +1

    Her Fiancée Is The Guy Everyone Needs❤️

  • @nicolagordon6490
    @nicolagordon6490 Год назад +9

    I really do like the mom.
    Unity is strength❤

  • @JaDeButterfliesAreFree
    @JaDeButterfliesAreFree Год назад +2

    11:05 that's a beautiful moment. Everyone that appears to be bad ain't bad.

  • @spreadmorelove5235
    @spreadmorelove5235 Год назад +4

    i don't care what no one say, the mother is angry and guarded but I can see that she is a very adorable, loving, caring person underneath her protective shields. She has that 'thing' that pulls on your soul. May her and her family win all of their battles!

  • @augustmoon9973
    @augustmoon9973 Год назад +18

    I bet mom has had personal trauma that she hasn't been able to work through, but when you fail to be accountable for your actions & keep on blaming everyone else but yourself, thats a problem for anyone who wants to move forward. Hopefully, the show is going to be a great starting point to start healing. Wishing these ladies the best!❤

  • @leahgichira254
    @leahgichira254 Год назад +54

    To be honest she's a good mother 😢

  • @missstuff08
    @missstuff08 Год назад +3

    I'm rooting for them! The love is there. They just need to listen more.

  • @onyijenny
    @onyijenny Год назад +16

    I still look good?😂😂

    • @tanialambert8465
      @tanialambert8465 Год назад

      Did she ever look good though when she came on the stage with that hideous wig, lashes and eyeshadow 🤔 I liked her but I couldn’t look past that 🤦🏽‍♀️