My Wife Doesn't Want To Be Intimate Anymore | Paul Friedman

Does your wife doesn't want to be intimate anymore? Watch Paul gives you some helpful advice and checklist that you can follow and use on this issue.
If your wife doesn't want to be intimate anymore, what you're really saying because you're a man as your wife doesn't want to have sex with you and there are different reasons for this. There are some that are superficial but important and then there are the deeper reasons that are much more important, and probably exist regardless so let's talk about the superficial reasons first.
Because like I say, and I'm just going to give you a checklist. We're not going to spend a lot of time on it and then we're going to go into what I think is much more important. Number one,
do you just rush her into it? Because women are not like men, very few. They don't get horny and want to jump in the rack. It isn't like in the movies. A woman's idea of pre-sex is talking being heard eye contact engaging so she can relax her natural biologically induced barriers for her protections and then moving into sex based on love, not based on physical desire. This is a huge
difference between a man and a woman.
Typically is that men want to get off. Women want to be held and connect and this is usually the biggest problem, and the biggest reason, the superficial reason. Then there's another, number two is cleanliness. It's not like women like the Tarzan smell. When I was a kid that was like a thing that kids, male kids understood that women like a man, how he smells after gym class. It
isn't true.
Women want you to have a clean body to smell nice, to be clean, have your teeth brushed, your hair should be nice. You should be clean, shaven unless you have a beard, it should be
properly trimmed and like that so that's number two. Number three, is it shouldn't follow any kind of argument? Intimacy does not come after an argument. This idea of makeup sex is BS. It's just not true, it's not realistic. Going back to point number one, there's a few other things the time and place. Most women are exhausted at the end of the day and contrary to what most people say
well. You should try and plan it for another time -- that's nonsense. It doesn't matter if she's tired.
If you approach it correctly she'll be untired so it's a matter of learning how to engage sexually with your wife on a different level. A level of intimacy which brings us into the much more important aspects of this and the reality of it.
So having sex is biologically driven but that gets rather old because what happens is we have this expectation that is realistic of connecting, and sex should be used as a connection between two souls that's its purpose for human beings. Not entertainment, not to get off not as fun and
all that stuff people who do that end up draining themselves. They end up experimenting with
multiple partners even going to swinging clubs and it just sucks the life out of you. All those things end tragically.
Trust me. I've been at this for 20 years. I've never heard of a couple going to swinging parties
whose marriages last because it means that they don't see sex correctly. The reason they don't see sex correctly in the context of marriage is because no one has ever taught this. We don't learn when we're kids that we're souls who have a body and a mind or any of the good stuff that falls under that big umbrella. So here's the deal, marriage has a couple of promises that are attached to it. One is for increasing happiness on a daily basis, that's one of the promises of marriage.
You got married to be happy and the other is that you would feel unconditional love or marital love. However, you want to call it but a love where the heart opens, it's not in the mind. It's in the heart if you understand these two principles which most people don't. Then you can plan your marriage, plan your actions, plan your efforts, and also be aware of things that would undermine
happiness and love, and then you could have a great marriage. But we're not taught these things
so usually, women are not interested in intimacy anymore because it's not intimacy. It's become
sex and sex by itself gets old. Sorry, it does on the other hand if you know what you're doing. I can promise you that you will have more sex than you know what to do with, but getting there from here requires step one acknowledging that you never knew these things that I just mentioned,
And that you should learn them and two, progressing in the direction you're a human being. You don't change like that and progressing in the right direction. Now don't get scared. I don't mean this is going to take you 10 years to get there. It's not like becoming a saint once you start
moving in the right direction. The results come fairly quickly so you got to do something about it.
Watch the video for more.
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