i love hate. i hate sad. love makes me sad. sad makes me hate. too much hate hurts brain. learn not to love nothing but your life, never just one thing. nothing is perfect…
@@RearAdmiralTootToot Yeah but, I have a blackpilled friend and literally all that is coming out of his mouth these days are the most depressing edgy cringey shit you could ever find on the web. I know some truth lies in there but common you can't tell me there is a theory for every behavior in the world, every behavior has a blackpilled theory. Be yourself, go to the gym, go wrestle and build yourself up and compete hard, is that also delusional for you guys?
@@Shortyfrom110 So he we are muslims you know, he is from the kavkaz mountains, but we all live here in the west europe. After he went there to find a potential wife, he changed completely because he never had any real interaction with girls and the first real experience was very very bad for him. After that he went and asked us all about what this means and all that and began to search redpill content. He went from redpill to blackpill within a month and literally says that you have to be a supermodel if you want your wife to like you or desire you all that crap.
A rule of thumb is you gotta trust the process of improving on any aspect. There are ups and downs but you have to remember why you started in the first place. Keep grinding everyone💪🏼
this guy is bs. if you are short and your face is ugly you can hit the gym all you want women still will not want you. who cares anyway. this guy is just a PUA. preaching to get a wife in 2022. enjoy divorce grape lmao. just get surrogates get rich with hard work and your brain. if you are short and ugly move to southeast Asia or buy a sugar baby. seggs dolls too.
4:49 yeah take responsibility for your life. That's what I'm doing. Tired of living a loser life. I've learned consistent hardwork is the key to success. Thanks for the video man, you're the reason I've started my self-improvment journey 💯
On the other side, if you wanna see the bigger picture, probably around 25% of women are truly hot with no makeup if you think about it. We’ve all got flaws. Don’t be a simp and you won’t play her games.
Even supermodels don’t look good without makeup half the time. We’re all so used to seeing makeup on women’s faces exaggerating the most attractive aspects of them so a woman almost looks plain in her natural state. It’s unfortunate but they’ve only got themselves to blame. It’s like every single man getting a marker pen and drawing on a 6 pack and then women seeing our normal bodies. Just think about how crazy that is for a second, the whole makeup thing. Women literally draw their faces on and get all the benefits of looking that good when every single one of us knows that that isn’t how she actually looks. Lads, imagine drawing a 6 pack on your stomach and drawing a 12 inch dick on your thigh, and then getting treated like you actually have all that. Wow. Women have life on such easy mode when they’re young it’s sickening 🤣🤣
Exactly. Find a woman you're genuinely attracted to. Not just hot in the way you drool and cum in your pants looking at her, because that form of hot is all on the surface for most women. Would you want to be with her if you were blind? If your answer is no, stay away. It's okay to want a beautiful woman; it's not okay to value only outward beauty and not inner beauty, because for many women only one of those remains when she's wearing no makeup, has bags under her eyes from staying up too late, wearing sweatpants on a Saturday morning. If she's truly right for you, you'll still be attracted to her then. And no one's beauty outlasts time. Marrying a woman for her looks is like buying a brand new Ford for its resale value. Reverse the equation. Why would a woman marry an asshole jock with no job, no skills, and a lifestyle that will fatten him up by 30 despite his time in the gym? Be the most attractive version of yourself, in order to attract the kind of woman who completes your life, not your image. Externalizing one's vanity onto their relationships is a recipe for shallow, meaningless "love". You don't want to fuck, you want to be loved (and that love includes fucking). We love to be wanted, and want to be loved. Don't forget that being wanted is supposed to just be a means to end up being loved.
Bro looks meaning nothing, if you let go of this sense of wow this person look good, its just apperaence, does not define anything we just give superfical value to that. Women who let their confidence run on their looks are actually weak inside, because if they looks die through age etc they start to feel insecure, confidence should be derived internally because no one can strip that way, if your confidence is externalized then if you have no money, no fame no attention you will feel worthless, which is just illusory. Find innner love within your self, your worth. Anyhow why put so much focus on women, if one lets the women opinions define ones value then one is enslaved by women as one is with money and sex. This is not fully pointed at you but more of sharing of thoughts.
I want to put this story out there for everyone who has this problem because for me it was very hard to come around to making these types of changes and I can imagine it’s the same for some of you guys out there… I’ve been bullied all my school life because I was “weird” or “different” or “unattractive” and I’ve faced traumatic challenges that warped my psyche to a toxic, self destructive and degenerate mess… after high school I was left in the real world in a depressive state, horrible health and physique, disgusting skin and hair, no style barely enough money to get by. But man let me tell you, it’s not a day that you decide “today is the day I get better” it’s the collection of days and even little moments you take to address the things (however little) about yourself to improve. Fellas I know it’s hard but you need to persevere to make the small, medium or largely impactful changes. Self discipline is what separates the Alpha from the Normies and betas males. Stop comparing yourself to other guys and be your best self because that best self will most definitely be more then enough for not only a partner/s but your own happiness. The key is consistency, perseverance and optimism. No matter how long it takes no matter how many roadblocks no matter how many times you fail yourself and maybe your peers, it’s ok… sacrifice and failure is important, just keep trying and it’ll make more sense and get easier every time you try again… believe in yourself
Thanks man, i realize that what really matters is making little steps and this is like a litle progress but is progress, i some point you will look backwards and realize how many hours you sacrife for being your best self, thanks for sharing your point of view.
Another good way of looking at it is that there are big things in life that we have no control over, however, there may be little things that you have control of that can leverage and push the outcome of the big thing towards what you want. Momentum is also key because it makes the lifestyle change more enjoyable.
Why should i forcefully appear attractive ?? I want a humane/peaceful rejection even if i am unattractive. Rejection is never the problem, it's the humiliating way it's done.
It is sad that you need to use all these visual effects and animations and speak so quickly just to keep the jeffreys interested and not click off the video. I personally miss the days when Hamza would just sit on his bed and give honest no bs advice for a solid 20 minutes. That being said still a great video
Yeah , tbh Hamza's recent videos have been concerning only girls and how to get them, and he has somehow i think deviated from the actual goal, which is men improving themselves for themselves , not because they want attention / validation from women . I think Hamza should try and broaden his videos and speak on topics he did before cause all his recent videos have been somewhat related to "how to get girls to like you ". Just my two cents
@@shaktimaan9628 it’s a group of similar videos instead of just being random. He did some about family, next was video games and wasting time, and these videos are women attraction
So glad I'm married to a woman who actually loves me. I got out of this toxic dating scene just in time but I can remember the words of one of my mentors. (yes, I sought out mentors) An mature "King" mentored me for a year in college and he said, "Son, don't ever forget 80% of women out there want a 'wife,' and 20% want a 'husband.' Those who want husbands 80% want a 'caretaker' and 20% want a 'partner.' If you want to find that 4% Lady you have to be that 4% Man. I didn't find her but she found me. Asking her about what he said she said that she was fed up with idealized representations and wanted something real and started looking for real partner. When she saw me she forgot all about the 'real' men and saw me as idealized. Work yourselves men, work hard (and yes, its more mental/spiritual than physical).
I honestly can't believe how good this advice is. Maybe I'm just incredibly lucky, but I've only been seriously committed to Hamza's advice for 2-3 months, and I'm already getting the attention of high quality gym girls. Sincerely Hamza, from the bottom of my heart, thank you, I'm never going back to being a sperge again
Just wanted to say thank you Hamza I’m from Switzerland and started self improvement about 6 Months ago. I have already recognized such a big difference man its crazy. I just got a girlfriend and went from 58 kg at 1.78m height to 67kg. Thanks man self improvement has helped and will continue to help me in the future
Throughout my journey on self improvement, I know I can't date because of one reason: I'm 5'5. The worst part is I can't even date a girl shorter than me because they say they want a guy who's 6ft. I learned how to live without relationships, love, sex, an intimacy and honestly I feel like I've been single for 5 decades of my life even though I'm still 19.
Personally I think most men are able to become attractive to women however this video tries to imply every man can become an adonis, which simply is not true. Sames goes for women, most of them can look attractive if they take care of themselves but only a few are extremely beautiful.
Yes also only 5’6.5 and whilst you can do things to improve height will be a massive negative in a woman’s eyes and incredibly difficult to compensate for as it’s likely you’ll already be dismissed initially
@@nickf619 Yeah well, unless I can adjust my height and grow to 6'0 I can't date. And the whole "you just have to work harder" is honestly I'd say is terrible advice, it's just gonna lead to misery and dating shouldn't have to be so hard, if so then dating a loss cause and you might be just better off without it. It's better to be alone then to stay miserable.
I’m 5’4 and I’ve had 3 girlfriends, one of which I’m with now. Yes height is definitely a major disadvantage in terms of amount of women who will say yes but there is a small percentage of women who don’t care about height at all. You need to max out your looks so you can appeal to as many of those women as possible.
@@colenix9646 To me, dating is the only disadvantage for being short, everything else for instance martial arts, it isn't, plus, I did find some advantages to my height like, high blocks, dodges, sweep kicks, jumping kicks, and takedowns. I feel like anything else can be more achievable than dating. In fact, back in high school I literally proved that fighting is easier than dating.
This is sort of an irrelevant tangent I'm about to go on but I want to truly thank you for making these types of videos. You've helped so many young men out like myself who have a severe lack of friends, money, status, attention from Women, confidence and so on due to society's misleading bluepill information that encourages men to behave like absolute pussys. Ever since I started watching your content, I've seen so much improvement in my confidence, routine, diet, mental well-being and overall quality of life. Bit of a personal example, today I was almost temped to skip the gym due to joint pain from lifting the previous days. I saw this video in my recommendations. Immediately I remembered why I started self improvement as well as why I have to continue persevering and NEVER give up. This motivated me to get off my arse and get straight back to lifting.
Don't forget to be smart about it. If you know you're at risk of injuring yourself, wait for the pain to subside and then go back to doing the heavy stuff so you don't damage yourself more than necessary. Otherwise you're just extending the pain and increasing your chances of getting a more severe injury. Being motivated is one thing, you gotta be smart about it too.
Unfortunately the part of me that makes me unattractive is something I can’t control, and that is my height, but still I won’t stop improving myself and I’ll keep pushing past my limits
being tall is an advantage maybe. but I have friends 5 foot 5 or shorter who get laid so, no height ain't your problem, your insecurity about height is
@@denysbrazovskijd696 that s how u do it, ironically one of my friends joined the police and is short aswell, so u ll have no problems, keep up the good work
OMG his videos are getting better and better everyday this one was brilliant, It made me think of my future , Thanks hamza for all the energy and motivation
I’ve came to a point where women just look and stare at me Im not tall at all I’m 5’7 and I workout, but something that keeps me away from relationships and casual sex was an traumatic sexual experience from a young age. It causes me to get angry where I could hurt the person I’m with because I’m in fear of being that 8 year old on the ground defenseless, this has caused major resentment towards others more fortunate and don’t get me wrong I’m grateful for the blessing god has placed in my life but man I feel empty and honestly jealous because I didn’t have the chance most did I feel ashamed admitting it but I have to be true.
YOU PICKED THE WRONG HOUSE FOOL! -Big smoke. Jokes aside, I also have trauma to overcome. I fear of being falsely accussed of something I didn't do, seen a high school classmate get that. For the past 3 years, I denied my self of chance, after chance, after chance with girls I actually found attractive and awesome people, all because of the memory of my buddy being falsely accussed of a wrongdoing. I now see men and women as the 2 parts of a ticking time bomb ready to explode, men are the powder, women the detonation mechanism. I am 6 foot 1 or 2 inches, been working out for 4 years, am confident that I look really good and got quite the attention, "offers" if you know what I mean and what not from the ladies, but when will this vicious cycle of denying myself of fulfillment of a fundamental need end? I hope it is soon. It ain't rejection I am afraid of, it is the aftermath that could occur if I took the chance. The accussation on my high school buddy was when I was 17. Now I am 20
Hey hamza! You’ve really helped me be enlightened within self improvement. I’ve started a self improvement journey myself, and I haven’t felt this good about myself for years. Thank you mate🙏❤️
I am proud of all this warriors right below, but remember don't let women determine your value, you determine through your efforts and work, it shouldn't be determined by people telling you how amazing you are because thats weak, it comes from i need people to make me feel good about myself, it comes from wanting to be liked. Be your brother, dont give away power to people.
The whole video is basically about work hard to get validation from women and feel worthy..Our worth is defined by the validation we get from women... Typical online sh*t..
I'm not in the 80 percent anymore, maybe last year, but I looked at myself and started going to the gym, lost 30 pounds, gained muscle, started no fap, skin care, and all that stuff. I'm also very confident, and when I look at old pictures of myself, I don't want to go back. I still game and call my friends stuff like that but I try to keep myself in check and go outside sometimes.
Do you care about womens opinions then you have gave all their power away to them. Imagine you work out, your do everything in the world that is good but no women cares about you, if you are a real men, who is absolute confident in yourself you should be fine because you have derived confidence within yourself, but if you do care about women as if they define your value then you will feel worthless. Meaning don't ever baise your sense of worth with women or anybody because that comes from lack, it comes from i need this person to make me feel a men etc.. If course this is not fully pointed towards you, just clarifying something in which you may or may not know, but many men do shit to be liked for women, but that is just giving power away. Just telling you bro you are better then their opinions.
@@nicolasruiz7054 that was honestly a W thing to say shit lowkey got my mindset right I mean I don’t feel like women are above me but sometimes it kinda just happens, like for example what they bring, I find myself wanting a girlfriend just because sometimes I feel lonely and need someone to love me. If a women tells me I look good ima take it to the hurt but if they tell me I look bad i either use that as motivation or I take it personally
Funny thing i learned the other day, women would for the most part be willing to share an Alpha male with other women, cause they prefer to be with the top 20% of men instead of being with the ones that aren't, and the scarcity of Alpha males just makes them be willing to do that, i could be wrong and of course this doesn't apply for marriage but in other areas I've seen it happen quite often.
I can understand why women can't be attracted to obese men, but 80% that is a lot! Like it is not men's fault anymore alone, it is both thier faults now, fault for women for bieng too picky and for men for bieng lazy
Just finished 30 days streak on medito. Extremely proud of myself. My mind much more clear & calm than how it was when i started. Thank you hamza a lot for helping me in these hard times. I have been struggling for last 6 months. The only problem that I am facing now is lack of concentration & memory. How can i fix this?
I have been in this space for last 5 years, I actually cant imagine my life without gym and hard work, reading... I would probably be a little wanker... Guys trust the proces, get your shit together and put in the work.
Everything you've mentioned for self improvement is spot on, but do it for YOURSELF not for someone else. If she (a 5 or 6 tops) wouldn't give you the time of day when you were at the "bottom" 80%, she DEFO doesn't deserve you when you reach your peak.
Personal opinion - don't just be better. Be bitter AND better. Become the version of yourself that can choose. Utilize your bitterness as fuel for your process of bettering yourself. If you are still bitter after the metamorphosis then that shall be yet another nuance in the character you have built yourself!
I love how gigachad went on this one. Honestly since workout regularly. It's like exponential. Muscle grow, confidence skyrocket and women notice that. More than that, quitting social media and porn and dating apps. Leave all the free time to do everything else.
I think everything in life needs a balance. There are those men who don't take care of their looks and appearance and then those Addonis type who becomes too obsessive with their looks...there needs to be a HEALYHY BALANCE.
Just meditate and do the hard work? Read books? Build relations? That is adonissssssss What more do you want? A man who works hard and plays video games?
One of the most important things you didnt say: Take action because it's good in itself. Study, train, work with passion and not to get a prize. The prize will come eventualy, but you should enjoy the prosess, not only aim at the result
Statistically, it is impossible for all of us to be at the top 20% by definition. Don't sell dreams. However, I do agree we should compete and fight for it. There is no other choice. But, we also have to accept that we might fail. We might be extinct. And there is no shame in that if we gave it our best. Accepting it may reduce your bitterness at the face of failure. Go get them boys. Fight for your bloodline as our ancestors did.
While this would be true if 100% of men put effort into bettering themselves, it seems like only a small sub-segment of men really want to better themselves. If you put in the work, I won’t say there is a 100% chance, but 1. There is def at least a 60-70% chance you could be top 20 and 2. You’ll definitely be better off than you were
If you take in consideration the fact that only a small minority of people maybe 5% of the population, if not less watch those kind of videos and from this tiny minority of people only a small number of people will implement the advice Hamza puts out in his channel, long term speaking, then you do actually can be in this 20% of men with not much effort. The majority of people, also known as the mob, is unable of excellence by default. This is what socio-psychological research has proved...
That's quality content! Men need to hear this. Getting in shape was the best thing a did for myself. People love it, they talk about it, they see me as someone who has drive and discipline.
The single most important thing that I needed to hear but never heard was how being happy and being successful are NOT mutually exclusive. You can HAVE the picture perfect life and still HAVE the heart, mind, and soul of gold. There is no need to compromise who you are and who you want to be because true success is what YOU make of it. C'est la vie, kings.
This is actually a good thing because. Men are not supposed to be "attractive" anyway. It is just the modern culture where attractive appeal became primary requirements in the selective process. From workspace to dating.
ayy hamza I'm 16 years old from Indonesia, glad to find your channel, after many videos I started setting a life goal, see you in 5 years where my target is Japan
Thumbs up to everyone trying to improve their lives and helping the entire community as a whole. Anybody who's stuck rn, don't worry bro...you'll make it through. "hard times teaches us the most valuable lessons". We all gonna make it
This is very true. Even though I have a comfortable life and not so strict Asian parents, I don’t want to limit myself to being just like the 80% out there. I’m about to finish my junior year in high school so just looking back at how much I’ve struggled trying to get better in my freshman year, it tells me that it’s better to keep moving forward and create or destroy any boundaries that I need to succeed in this miserable world. I had to face all of those bad times so I could have motivation to keep moving forward even if those qualities of life weren’t so pleasant. I’m telling myself and everyone this because even if you hit a point in life where you feel stuck, doubtful, or even feeling like your not enough, you have to keep moving forward with a drive that would push back anybody who stands in the way. And yeah, there will be times where you’ll grieve over your failures, but the flow of time won’t stop for anyone. So hold your head high and look ahead. If being a leader means helping those in need, then all I can say is that I believe in each and everyone of you guys. And thank you Hamza
Bro, I love you Hamza, this year so far for me has been a really disciplined year and a big part of that disciplined was Influenced by you. I wish you and your family a Happy Eid. Eid Mubarak Brother.
Realistically speaking, 80% of men are considered ugly or unattractive . I am in that 80% . We are not ugly because we are men, we are like that because thats just how things are. However , the biggest loser is someone who thinks being ugly is the end. Don't let your looks stop you from achieving great things. Stay strong my brothers, and keep grinding.
I have become emotional watching this video, because it represents a part of my life, and it's hard. Feeling lonely and not having the relationships you want is enough to make someone's life hell. I'm already making changes and improving myself, going to the gym, running, setting goals, but it is a long term run.
Honestly, this is my opinion and feel free to interject on it, but in my viewpoint being in the 80% of men (by looks) is actually a good thing to start out in! It allows you to really work on all aspects and see the results with women appropriate to how much you have been self improving whether that be physique, social interactions or mindset/mentality. Now opposing that and being honest here, i'd say just based off of facial genetics i have been lucky in that sense that i'd say i am in the top 20% but here's the thing; If my social interactions aren't that good and my calibration is off, a lot of women will still tolerate it (for some time) just because of my looks, but eventually they won't want to tolerate it anymore and will want to leave the relationship(whatever kind that may be) which leaves me feeling like i've been strung along and don't know what went wrong. I feel like self improvement is essential for these kind of scenarios that I and a lot of others have been in otherwise there will be a constant cycle that won't break.
Captain Sinbad talks about this idea in the first episode of his Damaged Men podcast. Like men who are in the top 20% don't have the need to self improve and it can end up causing them to fall behind later on
Yeah, when you're top 20% you have to be very self aware because it may actually be YOU who are tiring and intolerant of the women because you're spoiled for choice. . .LoL You've got to develop yourself so that you're mature enough to choose women based on compatibility factors other than just physical attractiveness. That is indeed why self improvement is essential.
@@flansexovich7757 ahh yeah i stopped playing that game ages ago but still just haven't been bothered to change my profile pic lol - solid advice though, that game is toxic
damn. as a chubby nerd it's cool knowing I'm still in the 20% never had any problem getting women. I think personality is the biggest thing. if you're a popular guy with good social skills you shouldn't have any issues
I'm literally in the gym right now. I speak 3 languages and am learning a fourth. I make good money and I'm saving to start a buisness. I improve for me not for women. Gtfo with that blue pill shit lol. Yall are just hating on another's success
@@ryanmiller3330 no im not hating, the reason i responded like that is cuz you said "if you're a popular guy with good social skills you shouldn't have any issues", its like saying you're good enough if you have that you don't need to improve
I've watched your videos for a while now. I felt the delayed gratification in gym like few days ago, I realized how much i had improved. The feeling is truly amazing. But yeah thanks for the videos you should never stop them.
yeah but that is like saying i need people to make me feel good. So when they dont like you one feels worthless, confidence should come within not by others opinions of you etc.. Not for this to be directed to you, but what you said sounds like i need people to feel liked etc. Its better to workout not to get the attention of girls but for ones own mind kind of thing. Or else you are giving your amazing power away to women.
it's not all genetic it's not not genetic. I've watched hours of hair care videos went to the gym for 3 years and 4 months and tried many styles. researched what type of clothes/styles match my eye colors or skin color. while I do feel better about my body my face is still unlovable. I heard many comments about my underbite wich I tried to change but after research I learned that the only solution is a surgery I cannot afford. same goes for my big nose my huge lips my floppy ears my eyes that are sinking in my head my patterned baldness. my face is just to ugly to ever be loved. with all that said I still encourage everyone to start exercising and taking care of their hygene and style because maybe you won't have the same luck as me and even if you do exercising and taking care of your body will make you feel way better and distract you for the other things you can't do anything about.
@@Erity Girls are afraid and disgusted by almost everything so don't worry about it too much Also, perhaps you are only suffering from an obsession, and people in reality do not care much, and also the appearance of a man is just a secondary thing. Try to improve your financial or social condition, your social standing, or obtain an education, or something else.
I literally haven't talked to even one woman outside my family this year, I have no social media besides YT and I see like 1 girl of my age per week. I used to have a good amount of friends and had multiple girls crush on me when I was 15/16yo, but during the last 1,5 years I've progressively become more and more isolated to a point where I'm basically alone at 17, I spend all of my time on self-improvement and my startup. My question is, how the f do I fix this? I have no friend circle, and like I said I have no social media besides YT.
Bro I feel you , all you have to do is start small , take a 30 minute walk , and just talk to people for the sake of it , don't expect anything from anyone and just enjoy doing what you are doing and be grateful you have something to do , not so many people your age can plan on starting a business , so do the hard work even when you don't feel like kkkkkk 😂😂
Try to befriend strangers. I'm serious. Sometimes when most of my friends are busy but I really wanna go out, I go out and take a ball or something similar. I go to somewhere where I can do this activity and I think people who also enjoy it would be there. (ex. Football stadium) Then I just ask random people "Hey, you up to play?" Some of them will say no and that's ok. Some might say yes, you will have a good time then afterwards you can ask that person for their number so you both can play that thing or do that activity. Then that person might introduce you to more people who share the same interest.
At least you had girls that liked you. I was never able to experience that, and i am almost 19. I don't think i ever will, i don't even consider that as a possibility.
so I guess we gonna ignore the fact that most women are not high quality either, and I don´t mean that just physically they have vast amount of issues such as: daddy issues, bipolar disorder and any other psychological or emotional harm / damage done to them. PS: if your message is that men should take responsibility for their body, health, mind, goals, activities etc. then the same applies to women aswell, Im no fan of double standarts, regardless of how many people get pissed about that.
And 98% of them are over 5'10 too. No gym for height, face and race. The 3 things that determine 95% of your success with women. Sure self improvement is good but don't expect to have a harem of women when you build a bit of muscle
@@gigachad7205 for some of us surgery is the only solution to get a better rating, and luckily I only need a rhino or a chin implant to balance the side profile. Also I am gonna get my eyelid exposure fixed. All this can be achieved before 24-25 and luckily there is still some time to flourish.
"Hate is a place where a man who can't stand sadness goes." - Kentaro Miura
Use hate as fuel
It's still a better place than sadness though
@@clevelandsavage exactly. Why should others feel comfortable when you’re not
i love hate.
i hate sad.
love makes me sad.
sad makes me hate.
too much hate hurts brain.
learn not to love nothing but your life, never just one thing.
nothing is perfect…
truly a wise man
The production quality in this video is insane. The amount of time and effort put in by the editor(s) is honestly insane and mind blowing.
Editor are full time sick kents
right??
this shit is childish
They are too much edited...
@@marcel_sx then watch his unfiltered channel
"Taking away a man's hope is a sin" hamza, thank you
What is it when someone blows smoke up your ass?
Unless that hope is a false hope, in which case it would be a favor.
@@RearAdmiralTootToot Yeah but, I have a blackpilled friend and literally all that is coming out of his mouth these days are the most depressing edgy cringey shit you could ever find on the web. I know some truth lies in there but common you can't tell me there is a theory for every behavior in the world, every behavior has a blackpilled theory.
Be yourself, go to the gym, go wrestle and build yourself up and compete hard, is that also delusional for you guys?
@@thepr1ntgnome430 what he be saying
@@Shortyfrom110 So he we are muslims you know, he is from the kavkaz mountains, but we all live here in the west europe.
After he went there to find a potential wife, he changed completely because he never had any real interaction with girls and the first real experience was very very bad for him. After that he went and asked us all about what this means and all that and began to search redpill content.
He went from redpill to blackpill within a month and literally says that you have to be a supermodel if you want your wife to like you or desire you all that crap.
A rule of thumb is you gotta trust the process of improving on any aspect. There are ups and downs but you have to remember why you started in the first place. Keep grinding everyone💪🏼
this guy is bs. if you are short and your face is ugly you can hit the gym all you want women still will not want you. who cares anyway. this guy is just a PUA. preaching to get a wife in 2022. enjoy divorce grape lmao. just get surrogates get rich with hard work and your brain. if you are short and ugly move to southeast Asia or buy a sugar baby. seggs dolls too.
Factual💯
And that’s why we are on self-improvement! 😎
Might as well do it too I've been losing weight after changing my diet drastically.
@@manwhoismissingtwotoenails4811 If you don't mind me asking what does your diet consist of
Who tf is we? Minus niggAhaaaaaas
@@theemache If you're not on self improvment, why are you watching this video?
I'm gonnnna selfimproooveeee
Reeeeeeeeee
4:49 yeah take responsibility for your life. That's what I'm doing. Tired of living a loser life. I've learned consistent hardwork is the key to success. Thanks for the video man, you're the reason I've started my self-improvment journey 💯
Your channel is so underrated and your videos are awesome 👌 I will support you man.
Man your channel is soooo underrated. Your videos are inspiring dude. Keep it up 🔥
On the other side, if you wanna see the bigger picture, probably around 25% of women are truly hot with no makeup if you think about it. We’ve all got flaws. Don’t be a simp and you won’t play her games.
Lol! 25%? Hardly 5%😂
25%? You’re being generous
Even supermodels don’t look good without makeup half the time. We’re all so used to seeing makeup on women’s faces exaggerating the most attractive aspects of them so a woman almost looks plain in her natural state. It’s unfortunate but they’ve only got themselves to blame.
It’s like every single man getting a marker pen and drawing on a 6 pack and then women seeing our normal bodies.
Just think about how crazy that is for a second, the whole makeup thing. Women literally draw their faces on and get all the benefits of looking that good when every single one of us knows that that isn’t how she actually looks.
Lads, imagine drawing a 6 pack on your stomach and drawing a 12 inch dick on your thigh, and then getting treated like you actually have all that. Wow. Women have life on such easy mode when they’re young it’s sickening 🤣🤣
Exactly. Find a woman you're genuinely attracted to. Not just hot in the way you drool and cum in your pants looking at her, because that form of hot is all on the surface for most women. Would you want to be with her if you were blind? If your answer is no, stay away. It's okay to want a beautiful woman; it's not okay to value only outward beauty and not inner beauty, because for many women only one of those remains when she's wearing no makeup, has bags under her eyes from staying up too late, wearing sweatpants on a Saturday morning. If she's truly right for you, you'll still be attracted to her then. And no one's beauty outlasts time. Marrying a woman for her looks is like buying a brand new Ford for its resale value. Reverse the equation. Why would a woman marry an asshole jock with no job, no skills, and a lifestyle that will fatten him up by 30 despite his time in the gym?
Be the most attractive version of yourself, in order to attract the kind of woman who completes your life, not your image. Externalizing one's vanity onto their relationships is a recipe for shallow, meaningless "love". You don't want to fuck, you want to be loved (and that love includes fucking). We love to be wanted, and want to be loved. Don't forget that being wanted is supposed to just be a means to end up being loved.
Bro looks meaning nothing, if you let go of this sense of wow this person look good, its just apperaence, does not define anything we just give superfical value to that. Women who let their confidence run on their looks are actually weak inside, because if they looks die through age etc they start to feel insecure, confidence should be derived internally because no one can strip that way, if your confidence is externalized then if you have no money, no fame no attention you will feel worthless, which is just illusory. Find innner love within your self, your worth. Anyhow why put so much focus on women, if one lets the women opinions define ones value then one is enslaved by women as one is with money and sex. This is not fully pointed at you but more of sharing of thoughts.
I want to put this story out there for everyone who has this problem because for me it was very hard to come around to making these types of changes and I can imagine it’s the same for some of you guys out there… I’ve been bullied all my school life because I was “weird” or “different” or “unattractive” and I’ve faced traumatic challenges that warped my psyche to a toxic, self destructive and degenerate mess… after high school I was left in the real world in a depressive state, horrible health and physique, disgusting skin and hair, no style barely enough money to get by. But man let me tell you, it’s not a day that you decide “today is the day I get better” it’s the collection of days and even little moments you take to address the things (however little) about yourself to improve. Fellas I know it’s hard but you need to persevere to make the small, medium or largely impactful changes. Self discipline is what separates the Alpha from the Normies and betas males. Stop comparing yourself to other guys and be your best self because that best self will most definitely be more then enough for not only a partner/s but your own happiness. The key is consistency, perseverance and optimism. No matter how long it takes no matter how many roadblocks no matter how many times you fail yourself and maybe your peers, it’s ok… sacrifice and failure is important, just keep trying and it’ll make more sense and get easier every time you try again… believe in yourself
Thanks man, i realize that what really matters is making little steps and this is like a litle progress but is progress, i some point you will look backwards and realize how many hours you sacrife for being your best self, thanks for sharing your point of view.
Another good way of looking at it is that there are big things in life that we have no control over, however, there may be little things that you have control of that can leverage and push the outcome of the big thing towards what you want. Momentum is also key because it makes the lifestyle change more enjoyable.
@@jowildcat40 this is a very good point
Yep
Why should i forcefully appear attractive ?? I want a humane/peaceful rejection even if i am unattractive. Rejection is never the problem, it's the humiliating way it's done.
It is sad that you need to use all these visual effects and animations and speak so quickly just to keep the jeffreys interested and not click off the video. I personally miss the days when Hamza would just sit on his bed and give honest no bs advice for a solid 20 minutes. That being said still a great video
Go to his second channel he does vids like that
Just lay your phone screen down and listen to what he says
Yeah , tbh Hamza's recent videos have been concerning only girls and how to get them, and he has somehow i think deviated from the actual goal, which is men improving themselves for themselves , not because they want attention / validation from women . I think Hamza should try and broaden his videos and speak on topics he did before cause all his recent videos have been somewhat related to "how to get girls to like you ". Just my two cents
@@shaktimaan9628 it’s a group of similar videos instead of just being random.
He did some about family, next was video games and wasting time, and these videos are women attraction
@@shaktimaan9628 actually hamza explaind bout this on his second channel
So glad I'm married to a woman who actually loves me. I got out of this toxic dating scene just in time but I can remember the words of one of my mentors. (yes, I sought out mentors) An mature "King" mentored me for a year in college and he said, "Son, don't ever forget 80% of women out there want a 'wife,' and 20% want a 'husband.' Those who want husbands 80% want a 'caretaker' and 20% want a 'partner.' If you want to find that 4% Lady you have to be that 4% Man. I didn't find her but she found me.
Asking her about what he said she said that she was fed up with idealized representations and wanted something real and started looking for real partner. When she saw me she forgot all about the 'real' men and saw me as idealized.
Work yourselves men, work hard (and yes, its more mental/spiritual than physical).
I honestly can't believe how good this advice is. Maybe I'm just incredibly lucky, but I've only been seriously committed to Hamza's advice for 2-3 months, and I'm already getting the attention of high quality gym girls. Sincerely Hamza, from the bottom of my heart, thank you, I'm never going back to being a sperge again
Congratulations bro, even tho I don’t know you Im proud if you, hopefully your proud of yourself as well
@@donpablitojuarez4640 I am, and I'm greatful for your kind words
@@vikinglife3983 no problem brother, keep it up
Daily dose of Hamza to reassure me that I can be a better young man.
The editing on this video is just top-tier!
“Time is going to pass by anyway” - That hit me dude
Just wanted to say thank you Hamza I’m from Switzerland and started self improvement about 6 Months ago. I have already recognized such a big difference man its crazy. I just got a girlfriend and went from 58 kg at 1.78m height to 67kg. Thanks man self improvement has helped and will continue to help me in the future
Vo welem kanton bisch?
Throughout my journey on self improvement, I know I can't date because of one reason: I'm 5'5. The worst part is I can't even date a girl shorter than me because they say they want a guy who's 6ft. I learned how to live without relationships, love, sex, an intimacy and honestly I feel like I've been single for 5 decades of my life even though I'm still 19.
Personally I think most men are able to become attractive to women however this video tries to imply every man can become an adonis, which simply is not true. Sames goes for women, most of them can look attractive if they take care of themselves but only a few are extremely beautiful.
Yes also only 5’6.5 and whilst you can do things to improve height will be a massive negative in a woman’s eyes and incredibly difficult to compensate for as it’s likely you’ll already be dismissed initially
@@nickf619 Yeah well, unless I can adjust my height and grow to 6'0 I can't date. And the whole "you just have to work harder" is honestly I'd say is terrible advice, it's just gonna lead to misery and dating shouldn't have to be so hard, if so then dating a loss cause and you might be just better off without it. It's better to be alone then to stay miserable.
I’m 5’4 and I’ve had 3 girlfriends, one of which I’m with now. Yes height is definitely a major disadvantage in terms of amount of women who will say yes but there is a small percentage of women who don’t care about height at all. You need to max out your looks so you can appeal to as many of those women as possible.
@@colenix9646 To me, dating is the only disadvantage for being short, everything else for instance martial arts, it isn't, plus, I did find some advantages to my height like, high blocks, dodges, sweep kicks, jumping kicks, and takedowns. I feel like anything else can be more achievable than dating. In fact, back in high school I literally proved that fighting is easier than dating.
This is sort of an irrelevant tangent I'm about to go on but I want to truly thank you for making these types of videos. You've helped so many young men out like myself who have a severe lack of friends, money, status, attention from Women, confidence and so on due to society's misleading bluepill information that encourages men to behave like absolute pussys. Ever since I started watching your content, I've seen so much improvement in my confidence, routine, diet, mental well-being and overall quality of life. Bit of a personal example, today I was almost temped to skip the gym due to joint pain from lifting the previous days. I saw this video in my recommendations. Immediately I remembered why I started self improvement as well as why I have to continue persevering and NEVER give up. This motivated me to get off my arse and get straight back to lifting.
Don't forget to be smart about it. If you know you're at risk of injuring yourself, wait for the pain to subside and then go back to doing the heavy stuff so you don't damage yourself more than necessary. Otherwise you're just extending the pain and increasing your chances of getting a more severe injury.
Being motivated is one thing, you gotta be smart about it too.
Bruh women go through the same things... Men are kinda pathetic that men have gone down this path lmao
@@misstigerbubbles Most women aint shit thats why
@FireEmeralds76 lmao you have no idea what people face everyday, everyone is raised and socialised differenly lmao.. stop your sexism it's boring
@FireEmeralds76 self-improvement is self improvement.... Not gender lmao
Unfortunately the part of me that makes me unattractive is something I can’t control, and that is my height, but still I won’t stop improving myself and I’ll keep pushing past my limits
being tall is an advantage maybe. but I have friends 5 foot 5 or shorter who get laid so, no height ain't your problem, your insecurity about height is
@@diegodiego9593 fortunately for me, getting laid isn’t a priority, it’s to join the marines and I’m tall enough for that, so I’m fine.
@@denysbrazovskijd696 that s how u do it, ironically one of my friends joined the police and is short aswell, so u ll have no problems, keep up the good work
@@diegodiego9593 yeah I’ll do that, good luck with any goals that you have
2:56 bro caked up
OMG his videos are getting better and better everyday this one was brilliant, It made me think of my future , Thanks hamza for all the energy and motivation
@@betos-08 yeah he himself said " my videos will be spergy" So Watch Hamza Unfiltered
@@betos-08 I meant the editing, content is good as always
Yeah that sucks man I'm 6'3 but never saw any girl attracted in me in either middle or high school.
Stop caring about attracting girls coz it's just impossible. Go to the gym improve ur health skills etc and forget about dating BS.
@@abdulla1655 That's what I'm doing
@@generalkaboom6642 Excellent
I’ve came to a point where women just look and stare at me Im not tall at all I’m 5’7 and I workout, but something that keeps me away from relationships and casual sex was an traumatic sexual experience from a young age. It causes me to get angry where I could hurt the person I’m with because I’m in fear of being that 8 year old on the ground defenseless, this has caused major resentment towards others more fortunate and don’t get me wrong I’m grateful for the blessing god has placed in my life but man I feel empty and honestly jealous because I didn’t have the chance most did I feel ashamed admitting it but I have to be true.
try deep journaling and get a therapist to help w the trauma
YOU PICKED THE WRONG HOUSE FOOL! -Big smoke.
Jokes aside, I also have trauma to overcome. I fear of being falsely accussed of something I didn't do, seen a high school classmate get that. For the past 3 years, I denied my self of chance, after chance, after chance with girls I actually found attractive and awesome people, all because of the memory of my buddy being falsely accussed of a wrongdoing. I now see men and women as the 2 parts of a ticking time bomb ready to explode, men are the powder, women the detonation mechanism. I am 6 foot 1 or 2 inches, been working out for 4 years, am confident that I look really good and got quite the attention, "offers" if you know what I mean and what not from the ladies, but when will this vicious cycle of denying myself of fulfillment of a fundamental need end? I hope it is soon. It ain't rejection I am afraid of, it is the aftermath that could occur if I took the chance. The accussation on my high school buddy was when I was 17. Now I am 20
BRO. IM 5'4
I'm sorry you experienced that man
what exactly happened with you, and your casual sex when you were a child?
Fr every Hamza vedio makes me realize i was thinking the wrong way all this time like theres fog around my mind was blinding my brain
these edits are just too good bro 🤣 i’m laughing and improving at the same time
Hey hamza! You’ve really helped me be enlightened within self improvement. I’ve started a self improvement journey myself, and I haven’t felt this good about myself for years. Thank you mate🙏❤️
I am proud of all this warriors right below, but remember don't let women determine your value, you determine through your efforts and work, it shouldn't be determined by people telling you how amazing you are because thats weak, it comes from i need people to make me feel good about myself, it comes from wanting to be liked. Be your brother, dont give away power to people.
The editing is insane
The whole video is basically about work hard to get validation from women and feel worthy..Our worth is defined by the validation we get from women... Typical online sh*t..
im not going to change my whole lifestyle just to be attractive i do my own thing and i have people in my life that love and care its not necessary
Happy eid mubarak hamza. I'm grateful to have you alongside my journey for this ramadhan. Much love man!
man this editing is madness
I'm not in the 80 percent anymore, maybe last year, but I looked at myself and started going to the gym, lost 30 pounds, gained muscle, started no fap, skin care, and all that stuff. I'm also very confident, and when I look at old pictures of myself, I don't want to go back. I still game and call my friends stuff like that but I try to keep myself in check and go outside sometimes.
Do you care about womens opinions then you have gave all their power away to them. Imagine you work out, your do everything in the world that is good but no women cares about you, if you are a real men, who is absolute confident in yourself you should be fine because you have derived confidence within yourself, but if you do care about women as if they define your value then you will feel worthless. Meaning don't ever baise your sense of worth with women or anybody because that comes from lack, it comes from i need this person to make me feel a men etc.. If course this is not fully pointed towards you, just clarifying something in which you may or may not know, but many men do shit to be liked for women, but that is just giving power away. Just telling you bro you are better then their opinions.
@@nicolasruiz7054 that was honestly a W thing to say shit lowkey got my mindset right I mean I don’t feel like women are above me but sometimes it kinda just happens, like for example what they bring, I find myself wanting a girlfriend just because sometimes I feel lonely and need someone to love me. If a women tells me I look good ima take it to the hurt but if they tell me I look bad i either use that as motivation or I take it personally
chad
cope
@hamza, I fucking love you, man. I’m 22, found you at 20, and made so much of progress, it’s baffling. Fucking love you, man.
“Time is going to pass by anyway”
I felt that on a different frequency‼️🥲
What was the context of that ? Did he mean life of 80% men is useless
Funny thing i learned the other day, women would for the most part be willing to share an Alpha male with other women, cause they prefer to be with the top 20% of men instead of being with the ones that aren't, and the scarcity of Alpha males just makes them be willing to do that, i could be wrong and of course this doesn't apply for marriage but in other areas I've seen it happen quite often.
This is true 💯
I find all that insecure.
To hell with alpha male.
Imagine working out, eating healthy and taking care of yourself for decades only to be desired by women. Dark times indeed...
I can understand why women can't be attracted to obese men, but 80% that is a lot! Like it is not men's fault anymore alone, it is both thier faults now, fault for women for bieng too picky and for men for bieng lazy
we get desired by men too dw
facts but you dont only do it for them
heheh. harsh but true
That's why the latter's not worth it
Just finished 30 days streak on medito. Extremely proud of myself. My mind much more clear & calm than how it was when i started. Thank you hamza a lot for helping me in these hard times. I have been struggling for last 6 months. The only problem that I am facing now is lack of concentration & memory. How can i fix this?
We’re all gonna make it brah🔱💪
0:22 hamza thought we wouldn't notice the upper left 🧐
Tf is that!?
Hamza, you’re inspiring beyond belief, and I wish you only the best in life.
I have been in this space for last 5 years, I actually cant imagine my life without gym and hard work, reading... I would probably be a little wanker... Guys trust the proces, get your shit together and put in the work.
hamza u changed my life. Without u i dont think i would be on this planet anymore. Your the dad ive never had.
Jesus loves you brother ❤️
Everything you've mentioned for self improvement is spot on, but do it for YOURSELF not for someone else. If she (a 5 or 6 tops) wouldn't give you the time of day when you were at the "bottom" 80%, she DEFO doesn't deserve you when you reach your peak.
The edits were on another level today 🔥🔥🔥
Personal opinion - don't just be better. Be bitter AND better. Become the version of yourself that can choose. Utilize your bitterness as fuel for your process of bettering yourself. If you are still bitter after the metamorphosis then that shall be yet another nuance in the character you have built yourself!
Damnnn, that editing was insanely great
I love how gigachad went on this one. Honestly since workout regularly. It's like exponential. Muscle grow, confidence skyrocket and women notice that. More than that, quitting social media and porn and dating apps. Leave all the free time to do everything else.
These Edit and animations have gotten so much better.
damn i fr needed this video in my life, like really. I am really grateful that i found your channel and you giving young people guidance.
The worst is that not all men will be part of that 20 percent, some will still be below average.
Video is over edited but lowkey made it really enjoyable to watch felt like a movie 😂
This guy's editor is goated
You can't become one of the top 20% men by gaining muscles
best edited video yet
I think everything in life needs a balance. There are those men who don't take care of their looks and appearance and then those Addonis type who becomes too obsessive with their looks...there needs to be a HEALYHY BALANCE.
Just meditate and do the hard work?
Read books? Build relations?
That is adonissssssss
What more do you want?
A man who works hard and plays video games?
actually you describe women between body positivity and esthetic surgery
Don’t disrepect Adonis like that. Adonis IS the balance
That's a weak thought pattern that results in mediocrity.
@@themarathoncontinues4211 no
I think that a 1 h playlist of hamza saying motivational words would be great to listen to while studing or working out
Don’t improve yourself for some girls that use 80 tons of makeups with high ass standards
Do it for yourself.
Cope
“High ass standards” the bar is literally on the floor dude. If you can’t get female attention it’s probably because you’re creepy and/or a bad person
women are not the goal, but the by-product of your hard work.
One of the most important things you didnt say:
Take action because it's good in itself. Study, train, work with passion and not to get a prize. The prize will come eventualy, but you should enjoy the prosess, not only aim at the result
ahhhh
the animated scenes are on point
exceptionally well made
Statistically, it is impossible for all of us to be at the top 20% by definition.
Don't sell dreams. However, I do agree we should compete and fight for it. There is no other choice.
But, we also have to accept that we might fail. We might be extinct. And there is no shame in that if we gave it our best. Accepting it may reduce your bitterness at the face of failure.
Go get them boys. Fight for your bloodline as our ancestors did.
Agree here ,Regardless it's far better for be "better than bitter" in regards of these situations.
In the past men would fight to their deaths. There was no acceptance of failure, only death. No fighter starts with a mentality of ‘I could lose’.
While this would be true if 100% of men put effort into bettering themselves, it seems like only a small sub-segment of men really want to better themselves. If you put in the work, I won’t say there is a 100% chance, but 1. There is def at least a 60-70% chance you could be top 20 and 2. You’ll definitely be better off than you were
My main point is that there's a thin line between positive mindset, and delusion. Let's not cross it.
If you take in consideration the fact that only a small minority of people maybe 5% of the population, if not less watch those kind of videos and from this tiny minority of people only a small number of people will implement the advice Hamza puts out in his channel, long term speaking, then you do actually can be in this 20% of men with not much effort. The majority of people, also known as the mob, is unable of excellence by default. This is what socio-psychological research has proved...
This is the best one. The ending specifically.
2:13 never expected to see F1 on here lol
He showed lerglerg trying to overtake kmag in Miami
That's quality content! Men need to hear this. Getting in shape was the best thing a did for myself. People love it, they talk about it, they see me as someone who has drive and discipline.
The single most important thing that I needed to hear but never heard was how being happy and being successful are NOT mutually exclusive. You can HAVE the picture perfect life and still HAVE the heart, mind, and soul of gold. There is no need to compromise who you are and who you want to be because true success is what YOU make of it. C'est la vie, kings.
That edit of Jeffreys arm at like 0:15 is fucking GOLD
This is actually a good thing because. Men are not supposed to be "attractive" anyway. It is just the modern culture where attractive appeal became primary requirements in the selective process. From workspace to dating.
ayy hamza I'm 16 years old from Indonesia, glad to find your channel, after many videos I started setting a life goal, see you in 5 years where my target is Japan
Love you Hamza, bro you have inspired so many guys and keep doing so
convinced me with these crocs
Thumbs up to everyone trying to improve their lives and helping the entire community as a whole. Anybody who's stuck rn, don't worry bro...you'll make it through.
"hard times teaches us the most valuable lessons".
We all gonna make it
This is very true. Even though I have a comfortable life and not so strict Asian parents, I don’t want to limit myself to being just like the 80% out there. I’m about to finish my junior year in high school so just looking back at how much I’ve struggled trying to get better in my freshman year, it tells me that it’s better to keep moving forward and create or destroy any boundaries that I need to succeed in this miserable world. I had to face all of those bad times so I could have motivation to keep moving forward even if those qualities of life weren’t so pleasant. I’m telling myself and everyone this because even if you hit a point in life where you feel stuck, doubtful, or even feeling like your not enough, you have to keep moving forward with a drive that would push back anybody who stands in the way. And yeah, there will be times where you’ll grieve over your failures, but the flow of time won’t stop for anyone. So hold your head high and look ahead. If being a leader means helping those in need, then all I can say is that I believe in each and everyone of you guys.
And thank you Hamza
Most copinggg yt
Dude this new editing is killer. Props 2 the editors. Dayum
Bro, I love you Hamza, this year so far for me has been a really disciplined year and a big part of that disciplined was Influenced by you. I wish you and your family a Happy Eid. Eid Mubarak Brother.
The thing is if we get into the top 10-20% of men we can start to help heal society and fix all the problems we’re facing now
I think confidence can likely make up for lack of looks.
Confidence really does go a long way.
no it don t
Lol that’s some naive thinking bro
Definitely, Quasimodo was the most confident, attractive guy I’ve ever seen 😂
Lotta blackpillas in dis comment section
Ignore them brahs
Lets take a moment APPRECIATING ALL THE GODDAM EFFORT IN HERE LIKE DAM the editing and everything is on top! You’re a god.
I would be VERY CAREFUL, if I were you, to use God's name as a curse word
Realistically speaking, 80% of men are considered ugly or unattractive . I am in that 80% . We are not ugly because we are men, we are like that because thats just how things are. However , the biggest loser is someone who thinks being ugly is the end. Don't let your looks stop you from achieving great things. Stay strong my brothers, and keep grinding.
I have become emotional watching this video, because it represents a part of my life, and it's hard. Feeling lonely and not having the relationships you want is enough to make someone's life hell. I'm already making changes and improving myself, going to the gym, running, setting goals, but it is a long term run.
how is it going ?
Honestly, this is my opinion and feel free to interject on it, but in my viewpoint being in the 80% of men (by looks) is actually a good thing to start out in! It allows you to really work on all aspects and see the results with women appropriate to how much you have been self improving whether that be physique, social interactions or mindset/mentality. Now opposing that and being honest here, i'd say just based off of facial genetics i have been lucky in that sense that i'd say i am in the top 20% but here's the thing; If my social interactions aren't that good and my calibration is off, a lot of women will still tolerate it (for some time) just because of my looks, but eventually they won't want to tolerate it anymore and will want to leave the relationship(whatever kind that may be) which leaves me feeling like i've been strung along and don't know what went wrong. I feel like self improvement is essential for these kind of scenarios that I and a lot of others have been in otherwise there will be a constant cycle that won't break.
I doubt you're in the 20%. Lol
Captain Sinbad talks about this idea in the first episode of his Damaged Men podcast. Like men who are in the top 20% don't have the need to self improve and it can end up causing them to fall behind later on
an advice for you, stop playing league
Yeah, when you're top 20% you have to be very self aware because it may actually be YOU who are tiring and intolerant of the women because you're spoiled for choice. . .LoL
You've got to develop yourself so that you're mature enough to choose women based on compatibility factors other than just physical attractiveness. That is indeed why self improvement is essential.
@@flansexovich7757 ahh yeah i stopped playing that game ages ago but still just haven't been bothered to change my profile pic lol - solid advice though, that game is toxic
Props to the editors
damn. as a chubby nerd it's cool knowing I'm still in the 20% never had any problem getting women. I think personality is the biggest thing. if you're a popular guy with good social skills you shouldn't have any issues
bro that s bluepill
so you're saying no need to self improve?? thats a bad message dude
@@kaandx2731 basically bluepill
I'm literally in the gym right now. I speak 3 languages and am learning a fourth. I make good money and I'm saving to start a buisness. I improve for me not for women. Gtfo with that blue pill shit lol. Yall are just hating on another's success
@@ryanmiller3330 no im not hating, the reason i responded like that is cuz you said "if you're a popular guy with good social skills you shouldn't have any issues", its like saying you're good enough if you have that you don't need to improve
I've watched your videos for a while now. I felt the delayed gratification in gym like few days ago, I realized how much i had improved. The feeling is truly amazing. But yeah thanks for the videos you should never stop them.
just imagine how good you could look now if you started a year ago. You don´t have to be great to start, but you have to start to be great.💪💪
yeah but that is like saying i need people to make me feel good. So when they dont like you one feels worthless, confidence should come within not by others opinions of you etc.. Not for this to be directed to you, but what you said sounds like i need people to feel liked etc. Its better to workout not to get the attention of girls but for ones own mind kind of thing. Or else you are giving your amazing power away to women.
Compete, strive, achieve
Not gonna lie, I genuinely feel like putting the work in to get those lightning mcqueen crocs one day. 5:16
I just Love how the videos are made the editors are ruling
it's not all genetic it's not not genetic.
I've watched hours of hair care videos went to the gym for 3 years and 4 months and tried many styles. researched what type of clothes/styles match my eye colors or skin color.
while I do feel better about my body my face is still unlovable. I heard many comments about my underbite wich I tried to change but after research I learned that the only solution is a surgery I cannot afford. same goes for my big nose my huge lips my floppy ears my eyes that are sinking in my head my patterned baldness. my face is just to ugly to ever be loved.
with all that said I still encourage everyone to start exercising and taking care of their hygene and style because maybe you won't have the same luck as me and even if you do exercising and taking care of your body will make you feel way better and distract you for the other things you can't do anything about.
@@Erity
Girls are afraid and disgusted by almost everything so don't worry about it too much
Also, perhaps you are only suffering from an obsession, and people in reality do not care much, and also the appearance of a man is just a secondary thing. Try to improve your financial or social condition, your social standing, or obtain an education, or something else.
man this editing is levelling up
Hate to break it to you, but until they ban Soc Med, Dating Apps, & possibly makeup : It's Over Buddy Boyos
The editor god PAID, sheeeeesh
I literally haven't talked to even one woman outside my family this year, I have no social media besides YT and I see like 1 girl of my age per week.
I used to have a good amount of friends and had multiple girls crush on me when I was 15/16yo, but during the last 1,5 years I've progressively become more and more isolated to a point where I'm basically alone at 17, I spend all of my time on self-improvement and my startup.
My question is, how the f do I fix this? I have no friend circle, and like I said I have no social media besides YT.
Bro fuck ppl get your bread up and start dating when your 20 we aren’t missing out on anything
Bro I feel you , all you have to do is start small , take a 30 minute walk , and just talk to people for the sake of it , don't expect anything from anyone and just enjoy doing what you are doing and be grateful you have something to do , not so many people your age can plan on starting a business , so do the hard work even when you don't feel like kkkkkk 😂😂
Try to befriend strangers. I'm serious. Sometimes when most of my friends are busy but I really wanna go out, I go out and take a ball or something similar. I go to somewhere where I can do this activity and I think people who also enjoy it would be there. (ex. Football stadium) Then I just ask random people "Hey, you up to play?" Some of them will say no and that's ok. Some might say yes, you will have a good time then afterwards you can ask that person for their number so you both can play that thing or do that activity. Then that person might introduce you to more people who share the same interest.
Lift weights, improve yourself, go outside more
At least you had girls that liked you. I was never able to experience that, and i am almost 19. I don't think i ever will, i don't even consider that as a possibility.
Hamza this might be one of your best videos.
it's a total coincidence that just so happens that 80% of men are shorter than 6 feet
1:00 That walk though, subbed
so I guess we gonna ignore the fact that most women are not high quality either, and I don´t mean that just physically they have vast amount of issues such as: daddy issues, bipolar disorder and any other psychological or emotional harm / damage done to them.
PS: if your message is that men should take responsibility for their body, health, mind, goals, activities etc. then the same applies to women aswell, Im no fan of double standarts, regardless of how many people get pissed about that.
the editing on this video is amazing
what an interesting coencidence that the men that are in the 20% all have attractive faces. Still the same looks dont matter shit lmao
This dudes whole channel can be summed up in 4 words, “lift weights eat clean” lmfaoo it’s crazy how people think this is the end all be all
And 98% of them are over 5'10 too. No gym for height, face and race. The 3 things that determine 95% of your success with women. Sure self improvement is good but don't expect to have a harem of women when you build a bit of muscle
@@gigachad7205 for some of us surgery is the only solution to get a better rating, and luckily I only need a rhino or a chin implant to balance the side profile. Also I am gonna get my eyelid exposure fixed. All this can be achieved before 24-25 and luckily there is still some time to flourish.
@@gigachad7205 also, about the height thing. It is so true, anyone under 5 10 is subhuman, luckily I'm 5 10 the only average thing going for me.
@@geoffjeff6016 you can rather watch theQOVES
Studio instead of this useless self improvement videos
The Editing Are Improved, Thanks My Brotha