4 Personality Traits To Make Any Woman Obsessed With You

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  • @JamesPoplawski
    @JamesPoplawski Год назад +3637

    1. Abundance - Have many women that are interested in us.
    2. Mystery - Mystery makes women think about you more often.
    3. Take them through a full range of emotions - Women love to feel, when you make them feel more emotions than anyone else, you become more attractive.
    4. Masculine - When you're masculine and your woman is feminine, she will think about you all the time.
    5. Discipline - Will make you successful, which is attractive. Also, will allow you to have all the other traits on the list.

    • @IgiveyouNONE
      @IgiveyouNONE Год назад +28

      There are 5 traits here

    • @king_kewl19
      @king_kewl19 Год назад +123

      @@IgiveyouNONE damn ur smart

    • @Obergeniesser
      @Obergeniesser Год назад +139

      Thanks a lot man! Saved my eyes 15 minutes from looking at a hairy chest!

    • @Buffbassist69
      @Buffbassist69 Год назад +6

      + don't spend too much time with a woman

    • @Dispensationalism
      @Dispensationalism Год назад +8

      ​@@Obergeniesser 😂😂😂

  • @skortana3760
    @skortana3760 Год назад +2421

    Reject women, embrace God. He will place a good one on your path when time is due. Don't waste your energy and time on women especially when you are younger. Love your mother, father and God instead. Go seek testosterone, go to the gym, fight with friends, explore the world. Go live. Stop being a slave to your flesh's desires

    • @thecrownprince888
      @thecrownprince888 Год назад +186

      Live in your spirit, not your flesh.

    • @Chris.Cubias
      @Chris.Cubias Год назад +99

      Amen brother 🙏🏼

    • @MemesDungeon
      @MemesDungeon Год назад +96

      Mashallah brother

    • @AshenOne_CR
      @AshenOne_CR Год назад +135

      Your flesh's desire is what drives men. I'm sorry, but you won't find a woman to practice with unless you do so. You won't make progress unless you tell yourself " I need to impress this girl." You want to spoil the so-called chosen one from God because you didn't know how to please her? (In non sexual ways, too)
      Not trying to undermine your faith man, I respect it.

    • @marcoslightspeed5517
      @marcoslightspeed5517 Год назад +14

      No bro

  • @kamish2429
    @kamish2429 Год назад +2

    I'm currently not interested at having a relationship, but watching your video for the future is always a good thing.
    This week i started working out thanks a lot man for your advice!

  • @HamzaTheGreat
    @HamzaTheGreat Год назад +6

    Congrats on 1 million, you're truly changing lives of young men

  • @filipepereira5328
    @filipepereira5328 Год назад

    Thanks a lot, for the advice!!! The first time I have seen your vedeos was becase you guess some things that are happening to a lot of people(especially mee). your expirience and your knowledge are suberb, for how painfull the truth actually is you just tell this in a way that i have certainty that this is the reality that i couldnt see.

  • @SpiderGuyIsGoodAtMinecraft
    @SpiderGuyIsGoodAtMinecraft Год назад +1

    I’m 16, got £2000 saved up, should I join hustlers university or is it better for me to invest my time into something else. £50 a month is quite a bit for someone my age, as I don’t currently have a job, however I am willing to learn in order to make money. Just want peoples suggestions

  • @mvp9693
    @mvp9693 Год назад +4

    This is the worst advice you have given to your followers so far.
    All the mysterious, make her cry emotional stuff, to an extent sound like a toxic relationship so bad...
    Instead of sounding like advice for a serious relationship with the mother of your children, it sounds like advice for casual sex, specially the last point where you say you ain't even friend of your couple.
    I think you're taking the "Masculine" stuff too far, and saying stuff a year ago you wouldn't, and it's not necessarily an improvement

  • @legendarypussydestroyer6943
    @legendarypussydestroyer6943 Год назад +1

    Okay as for the second trait. I'm just paranoid she'll assume I'm not confident enough to tell her or assume I'm just weird if I keep evading her questions. Or just assume there's nothing interesting going on with me.

  • @amin_dhou
    @amin_dhou Год назад +1085

    Make your life interesting, build your value, be confident, and especially: be a true gentleman.

    • @LukeSpurgeon.
      @LukeSpurgeon. Год назад +44

      I’m telling you the traditional gentleman is the key. They love it.

    • @firstpitch05
      @firstpitch05 Год назад +11

      @@LukeSpurgeon. thats cap, woman love when you act like you don’t care

    • @manio9722
      @manio9722 Год назад +1

      Ok but what it means to be a true gentleman

    • @amin_dhou
      @amin_dhou Год назад +30

      @@manio9722 Treat her with the respect she deserves. Be polite and courteous. Treat her how you'd like to be treated. A high quality woman will equally respect a gentleman.

    • @amin_dhou
      @amin_dhou Год назад +23

      @@firstpitch05 High quality women truthfully desire love and affection. It's in us to all have this desire, even as men. Of course if you shower them with too much love, they will associate your behavior with other shallow / low quality men that are into them for their sexual appeal. The key is to approach things slowly and ultimately get to a point where you can easily show your true gentleman spirit to the woman you love.

  • @spartanses
    @spartanses Год назад +474

    The only chance you're going to get "abundance" is if you spend the time focusing on yourself. Improving your body, mind, and finances. This improvement gives you more chance of meeting people. And therefore you will have more chance of having this "abundance". This video is more of a guide for those who are already on self improvement. You're not going to get abundance out of nowhere.

    • @doneforrr
      @doneforrr Год назад

      Alright Gub

    • @astwas
      @astwas Год назад +1

      I agree with his general concepts, but the examples he gives are like a guide for teenagers who want to be a fucbois and they're not gonna work a lot of the times unless he wants to target insecure girls lol
      "Lie, avoid questions, play games, manipulate and make her feel like sht/cry once in a while, be macho and encourage traditional gender roles"🙄

    • @papajohnpackinthatpizza
      @papajohnpackinthatpizza Год назад +9

      @@astwas youre def playing it up a lil bit but youre still right. it isn't very nice stuff to do, but you can't say that he's wrong about the fact that it'll keep them thinking about you.

    • @astwas
      @astwas Год назад

      @@papajohnpackinthatpizza Yeah, they'll think of you as a scumbag bruh lol.
      You can play a bit hard to get, keep a bit of mystery about you, make her laugh and tease her which is all you need to do instead of being a 2 IQ manipulative lying pos. Being a jerk might work in manipulating traumatized insecure women who are desperate but not anyone mature who's seen enough manchildren.

    • @tudor8436
      @tudor8436 Год назад

      @@papajohnpackinthatpizza yes, but it's a bit unnatural and maybe cringe

  • @jerichotonumaipea7429
    @jerichotonumaipea7429 Год назад +139

    No meaningless intro just gets right into it within the first FIFTEEN seconds. Respect. This is good content.

  • @LukeSpurgeon.
    @LukeSpurgeon. Год назад +115

    You know what’s funny? Some guys will literally try to convince you that personality doesn’t matter and GIRLS ONLY CARE ABOUT LOOKS!!! You can tell these same guys have never actually touched a woman before. Gentlemen, remember this: woman respond to how you make them feel. This is why I preach on my channel that the energy you give off is SO important and this ties into your overall personality. Be a positive, fun, gentleman and I GUARANTEE you’ll get more girls. I’ve literally had countless girls approach me and ask for my number and when we get talking they also say they love my energy and that’s one reason why they were drawn to me. Obviously lads looks do matter but take care of the bare basics and stop crying over things you can’t control and you’ll be fine. No one likes hanging around a miserable C*nt, let alone women. More about this on my channel if you’re interested boys. Stay safe👊🏻

    • @mandeepbharj8873
      @mandeepbharj8873 Год назад

      bro your channel is good but icl you need to do your own thing and stop being like hamza

    • @mangakasaide2166
      @mangakasaide2166 Год назад +4

      @@mandeepbharj8873 there can only be one : )

    • @jcc2813
      @jcc2813 Год назад +5

      good self advertisement

    • @lewismountstephens7620
      @lewismountstephens7620 Год назад

      🙌🏻

    • @LukeSpurgeon.
      @LukeSpurgeon. Год назад +10

      @@mandeepbharj8873 I’ve always been like this bro, I respect hamza however I wouldn’t want to be like him. I am my own person.

  • @ericpiralla
    @ericpiralla Год назад +105

    I think that gym is the true game changer: it makes you disciplined, which is attractive, more masculine, confident and more social. It has all the benefits that makes you A LOT attractive. Since I started lifting weights i feel like girls tend to talk with me more, i feel comfortable, i talk with girls and girls talk with me. Hit the gym, watch Hamza videos about diet, exercise, how to build an aesthetic body. You're gonna make it bro ;)

    • @jsgv7935
      @jsgv7935 Год назад +5

      respectfully, don't trust fucking youtubers with diet and nutrition advice unless they have an education fit for it. some are good, like Andrew Huberman for example, but for diet you should just honestly read up on actual scientific articles and/or get books on it, it's simply that important. but the simple stuff is: eat complex carbs so a lot of vegetables and fiber-rich foods also food like brown rice and brown bread/food made with brown flour, oats and potatoes, sweet potatoes are also really good. eat a lot of protein, mainly white meat like chicken and cod for example, also drink more water, eat healthy fats like extra virgin olive oil.
      I would also add to the list; get good sleep.

    • @ericpiralla
      @ericpiralla Год назад +3

      @@jsgv7935You're totally right. I was looking for scientific muscle growth approach too. Regarding the diet I really appreciate your comment, I will follow your advice ;)

    • @jsgv7935
      @jsgv7935 Год назад +2

      @@ericpiralla all right but make sure to read up more on it when you can. I'm just a random person in a RUclips comment section, after all.
      also some additional tips:
      no soda, a lot of people forget to count liquid calories (milkshakes, soda, even most fruit juice you can buy in stores has a shit ton of sugar in it), and by that I don't only mean specifically people who track their calorie intake and expenditure, but also just regular people who forget to account for all the shit the they are _drinking_, not eating.
      take everything you find online with a grain of salt; you will find people advocating for almost every diet, there are studied benefits of the carnivore diet, the vegan diet, the vegetarian diet, the keto diet, and everything in-between. the same goes with drawbacks/detriments.

    • @alexbaggett9062
      @alexbaggett9062 Год назад +1

      It truly is the first big step to sept-improving

    • @abiolaakorede1509
      @abiolaakorede1509 Год назад

      @@jsgv7935 right now i am trying to build a athletic/ aesthetic body what should do

  • @BrojaM50
    @BrojaM50 Год назад +1387

    1. Crippling depression
    2. Obsessive neediness
    3. An obsession with victimizing yourself
    4. Borderline schizophrenia

    • @budgetlifter
      @budgetlifter Год назад +305

      I have all the characteristics of a human being :
      flesh, blood, skin, hair-- but not a single, clear, identifiable emotion,
      except for greed and disgust.
      Something horrible is happening inside of me, and I don't know why. My nightly bloodlust has overflowed into my days. I feel lethal, on the verge of frenzy. I think my mask of sanity is about to slip.

    • @inspector4477
      @inspector4477 Год назад +50

      @@budgetlifter litterly me

    • @sirus312
      @sirus312 Год назад +9

      this is more accurate lol

    • @777edgarzargo
      @777edgarzargo Год назад +76

      literally me after watching fight club, taxi driver, batman and 5 videos of Hamza in a row

    • @vanillabryce2965
      @vanillabryce2965 Год назад +4

      @@777edgarzargo which Batman

  • @MrSQTB_TV
    @MrSQTB_TV Год назад +44

    NEVER heard a man spit soo much FREE game in soo many videos. i spent years learning this ALL on my own and i genuinely would have loved to have videos of someone explaining how to be a man but everything has a purpose i guess and i had to learn on my own. for ANYONE watching this please know this guy is giving out FREE game and you should listen if you wanna start living the life you always wanted!

  • @beltransanchez5571
    @beltransanchez5571 Год назад +35

    A good way to put a woman through the “whole spectrum of emotions” in a natural way is just being honest. If she fucks up or you disagree with her behavior let her know

    • @astwas
      @astwas Год назад +8

      Yeah its a stupid comment to make "her cry" and sht.
      You should take women through different emotions, but not shitty ones.
      #1 is to make her laugh, #2 lots of friendly banter/teasing, #3 surprise/scare her. Its really all that matters.

  • @SussiBaka69
    @SussiBaka69 Год назад +187

    I hope you see this comment hamza and if you do I really just wanna say , thank you for showing me the way to life as a young man, I really needed this channel and I hope you are proud of yourself, you lifted me and a lot of young men when we felt hopeless, lm sure you saved countless lifes and I appreciate you so much for that , but there is always room for more self-improvement stay strong my brothers❤️

    • @plopmomentum7935
      @plopmomentum7935 Год назад +2

      I hope he sees this

    • @superkifgreat24
      @superkifgreat24 Год назад +1

      I'm telling you mystery is how I got my whole class wondering who my Invisible girlfriend is might snatch one from there

    • @Hello_am_Mr_Jello
      @Hello_am_Mr_Jello Год назад +1

      Least racist gamer

  • @Crapcraftofficial
    @Crapcraftofficial Год назад +1

    The video's title is what he was criticising in another video

  • @luiscampos1378
    @luiscampos1378 Год назад +65

    Just finished reading “The way of the Superior Man”. All the stuff you say makes so much more sense now.

  • @acul_nick9131
    @acul_nick9131 Год назад +9

    If a woman cries one day and is happy th other it has nithing its not something good, its called toxic relationship. The reason, why women stay in those relationship is like gambling. You are getting rewarded unexpectedly and that makes the brain more addicted than a known, expected reward

  • @frod3966
    @frod3966 Год назад +60

    Just starting my journey to become more masculine. The consistency and quality of the guidance you give helps a lot

  • @animememes7531
    @animememes7531 Год назад +58

    I can't believe and won't believe if you say "I don't have cameras watching you", you're so relatable to me that I am sometimes left with an awe on my face.
    What you said in this video is so true,
    *Abundance*
    As I am really respectfull but also introverted, I had an abundance amongst the girls of my school, so the girls would talk to me and wanted my no. and all that, But after I started to talk to this one girl who is kinda bitchy but I ignored it as I don't have a lot of friends so I liked to talk to her, she ruined my personality amongst my friend and the others, so now, I sometimes feel like a jefrey in the school XD, but anyways, I am leaving school next year, so Imma try doing all these next year.

    • @petersillius7193
      @petersillius7193 Год назад +4

      No one cares about school but what you achieve in Life. Get started now, seriously. Get steadfast.

    • @itsmattzed
      @itsmattzed Год назад +2

      Do it tomorrow

    • @ayanokouji5784
      @ayanokouji5784 Год назад +2

      Do it today

    • @animememes7531
      @animememes7531 Год назад +1

      @@petersillius7193Thanks.
      yup, I have started to improve myself now, I am building my body, don't get much time for enhancing my skills, but I am doing everything I can, down to the last bit of the time I get a day to do something productive, yes I procrastinate but still I try my best, I am actually very excited to move out next year, Then I'll be able to do everything Hamza talks about, that's why I said that Imma start doing most of what he says next year.

    • @loryhoof
      @loryhoof Год назад

      @@animememes7531 Why not try now and then by time you would have started next year you'd already be up by a lot.

  • @godcomplex8251
    @godcomplex8251 Год назад +39

    Bro getting a woman obsessed with you usually does not end well. If she is obsessed with you she is going to want to interfere with your solitary activities. I think it is not just selfish but borderline narcissistic to think that as a masculine man you NEED to have your woman obsessed with you, that you need to hurt her or make her cry bro that is so fucked up… I’m telling you this as a brother, it’s not ok , and when the breakup finally happens you will be haunted by those memories of her crying over things you said or did

    • @werrutkyupnext
      @werrutkyupnext Год назад +4

      yeah now thinking about you are correct, that's kind of weird

    • @sopaaasports1262
      @sopaaasports1262 Год назад +2

      you're absolutely right

    • @stevenkippax
      @stevenkippax Год назад +7

      It's just about balance, I've unintentionally had the dynamic Hamza talks about here for about 2 years, and I feel terrible for upsetting her and I wasn't very happy in the relationship. I then went into a relationship where we spent all our time together for a solid 5 months (like almost every single day) and I ended up getting heartbroken. So either extreme (being super removed, being super obsessed) will turn out badly. You need to have your mission, discipline, be honest (which means you're not always being nice but you are saying what needs to be said), set boundaries, focus on your mission, understand no one relationship is the be all and end all. But you also need to get to know your partner on a deep level, show some vulnerability now and then, let them in on your mission a little. As an aside, any intellectual woman will find it very attractive if you can have deep conversations with them, and this doesn't have to take away from how feminine they are. And smarter women probably won't go for a guy who never engages in conversation beyond surface level.

    • @michiel3333
      @michiel3333 Год назад

      He is right that girls love spikes in emotions, but this is just a inmature way of doing it and creates a unhealthy relationship. You can do this with respect. you can tease her from time to time instead of putting someone down to lift yourself up. You will just look like a big narcissist and that's ugly asf.

  • @Dalpuri_
    @Dalpuri_ Год назад +434

    Men, if you want traumatized women to be obsessed with you, this is definitely the way to do it. The reason why the women you are with find this "full range of emotions" or having an abundance of women attractive, is because they are trumatized themselves and that is all they know of. They become addicted to the constant highs and lows of this sort of dynamic, which is why it becomes so obsessive. This is pretty damaging for women as a whole. If you really want a healthy well rounded woman in your life, you need to focus on yourself, work on yourself, and be a kind and committed man. All feminine women want a secure and mongamous relationship with men. When you really stop obsessing over "oh, why wont any girls want me" and start to just live your best life, naturally women will come to you. Some added bonuses are being hygenic, having a stable job, having a healthy diet, and having good style.

    • @Dalpuri_
      @Dalpuri_ Год назад +33

      I'm pretty sure no well rounded man, wants a toxic women around. This does backfire on you guys ALOT. Eventually after being in this dynamic for awhile things get extremely toxic. She will probably not have any trust in you and it will end in one of those "my crazy ex" stories. This is all with good intentions and constructive criticism, I just don't want the men in our generation to be misleaded. I acknowledge that you all have a difficult time in finding the right person for you.

    • @ilikegeorgiabutiveonlybeen6705
      @ilikegeorgiabutiveonlybeen6705 Год назад +19

      you dont beat her up or insult her and do every other fucked up shit of course wdym???? please process the advise first. he even said "treat her good make her feel excited".

    • @enrater123
      @enrater123 Год назад +5

      @@ilikegeorgiabutiveonlybeen6705 he also said make her angry and make her sad lol

    • @enrater123
      @enrater123 Год назад +11

      @@Dalpuri_ This. I feel like watching these kinds of videos on "how to make women obsessed with you" is a sign of insecurity, like, we just have to be decent men lol, don't even need to be rich or anything. I recommend a video called "The art of being chill" by elisha long, it really talks about how just being a man is enough to attract women, no games, no rollercoaster of emotions

    • @ilikegeorgiabutiveonlybeen6705
      @ilikegeorgiabutiveonlybeen6705 Год назад +3

      ​@@enrater123 you can just say some dumb bullshit from time to time (like intentionally bad joke or something) i don't see why wouldn't it work

  • @tylerdumb6117
    @tylerdumb6117 Год назад +17

    Dear hamza, my name is Tyler and I’m currently at my last year of high school now. I met this girl and she turned out to be very toxic and I became so emotionally attached that I became super unhealthy. Your videos have inspired me so much. Although you are harsh sometimes, you speak truth and have great views. I enjoy watching your videos and I’m no where near being the best version of myself but I watch your videos and hope to implement them into my life. It’s been a few weeks since me and this girl broke ties and I’ve learnt to let go. There is this female and she is very pretty and has no dating history from what I know. She is always polite but I don’t know if it’s wrong to move on after 3-4 weeks after my ex. Me and my friend are starting gym soon aswell and I just want to thank you for making these videos.🙏❤

    • @The7thLove
      @The7thLove Год назад +2

      Hey man, I’m not Hamza, but thanks for sharing your story. Advice-wise, move on as fast as possible. This doesn’t automatically mean get with another girl; just embrace the hurt and use it as starting fuel for your self improvement. You’d benefit greatly by having a long term plan for how you want to set up your life. Sit down with a journal / pen and get into the habit of mindstorming for your reflection and goals (Ex. “How can I double my income by this day next year?” w / 20 good answers). Begin the habits of NoFap, Cold showers, gym, and journaling. Unfollow everyone on socials who don’t bring value to the table. Focus on you. If she tries to come back, don’t let her-that relationship is no longer.
      Some other channels I recommend (no order):
      Captain Sinbad (inspiration / motivation)
      Casey Zander (real talk / hard truths)
      1stMan (work, perspective, real talk)
      -
      You’re not alone Tyler. I’m on this journey too. We all are 🤙🏽

  • @rinakarbu2173
    @rinakarbu2173 Год назад +2

    idk if this will be effective to get mature woman. i think this only relevant to childish,immature,and directionless woman who got no clue how a good man is

  • @MaXTuRn9
    @MaXTuRn9 Год назад +16

    Amazing video Hamza,u released it at that day when i asked this question myself : "why I'm not so popular within the girls? I'm masculine and good lookin what am I missing out?". And that video came right on hand. Thank you Hamza,ur the dad/older broher I wish I had

  • @enra3enra396
    @enra3enra396 Год назад +15

    The problem im having is that there are some girls who like me and i have girls to chill with but the girls i think is really attractive dont like me the way the other do so im kinda confused waht to do .
    Btw love your content after my mom passed and my gf left my i felt teribel you helped my get out of that hole❤

  • @Ussef_Music
    @Ussef_Music Год назад +11

    1-SPIKE HER EMOTION
    2-SPIKE HER EMOTION
    3-SPIKE HER EMOTION
    4-SPIKE HER EMOTION

  • @pilgorsheep4205
    @pilgorsheep4205 Год назад +2

    2 Types of comments:
    1. Thanks Hamza
    2. ☝☝☝ Thanks for your feedback. Tell JIM my trusted investment broker I recommended you for a life changing investment opportunity, I recommend him💯

  • @CedWicked
    @CedWicked Год назад +4

    man I have so much mystery that my crush doesn't even know me

  • @fdrico-
    @fdrico- Год назад +13

    Last month I watched the morning routine video he did 5 months ago, motivated me to turn my 13 year old dumb weak ass into something better, i started waking up at 6:30 am everyday and tried to do 25 sit ups and push ups and every day try to do more, i used medito for 5 mins and slowly got improved my mental health, now I’m a little bit muscular and i am found now attractive by a decent amount of peopel

    • @Sammsoi4124
      @Sammsoi4124 Год назад +1

      I am 13 too!! I am changing from right this moment

    • @Sammsoi4124
      @Sammsoi4124 Год назад +1

      @Sniper yes bro😌💥💥💥💥

    • @EpicMinecraftFail
      @EpicMinecraftFail Год назад +2

      ​@Sniper you're still a child

    • @fdrico-
      @fdrico- Год назад +1

      I know it’s stupid for someone younger to give advice but you still have a lot of time left :)

  • @rior3369
    @rior3369 Год назад +18

    Damn i needed this, was always awkward around women but im trying to be more outgoing thanks to you. very grateful to you

  • @finnmiller8992
    @finnmiller8992 Год назад +12

    Thanks hamza! Always the advice we need. Your videos have really improved in quality and the overall beneficial value.

  • @Yintebeats
    @Yintebeats Год назад +2

    7:01 hamza what do you mean make her cry. That's coming across as abusive

  • @hello201014
    @hello201014 Год назад +3

    Personally, I feel the tips you mention are great for maintaining attraction, but after some time, if you're too mysterious, it can be misconstrued as you not willing to open up about yourself.
    I do agree that your tips do work, but at some point I think you have to let some of the mystery go.

  • @basedchad615
    @basedchad615 6 месяцев назад +1

    Hey Hamza, thank you for all those tips. I have been through a rough patch since my gf took her own life but i just realized she was with me because i sparked all emotions 😂 Disgust, Fear, sometimes a shock or some mystery... Its just so amazing what you can achieve when you look average but do those things. Thank you Hamza 🦁💪

  • @Gemthrone24
    @Gemthrone24 Год назад +3

    Bro please focus on LOYALTY towards our Girlfriends..cuz rhe thigs you are teaching is only use to the men who are single...pls throw a light on LOYALTY AND HOW TO SUSTAIN A RELATIONSHIP

  • @sarukoweebo2777
    @sarukoweebo2777 Год назад +2

    how to exactly answer the question " what have you done today"

    • @spunkymaniac9312
      @spunkymaniac9312 Год назад

      .maybe just answer it , don't make it a boring answer, but also don't make it a bullshit answer that has nothing to do with anything

  • @chachu666
    @chachu666 Год назад +6

    A lot of people will say this is toxic masculinity but what this man is saying is ABSOLUTELY fucking true.. I've been similar with my women for past 9 years and I'm 24 years old now. A lot of people will say I'm simping and stuff but it's just that she's obsessed with me and she's told me that. The reason for that is because I treat her right and she does the same back to me. Hamza keep succeeding homie!!

  • @killerx4538
    @killerx4538 Год назад +1

    Whan hamza says "then there is you"
    US:Ayo why you looking at me??😂

  • @maxjamesmoser
    @maxjamesmoser Год назад +22

    I agree 100% that self-discipline makes you more attractive, but I disagree that women need to be "obsessed" with you. That seems to me to be a narcissistic trait and will end up in toxic relationships that are not sustainable for the woman or yourself. Rather, focus on showing respect to her while maintaining your own path. I usually agree with most of the things you say, and I'm sure you help a lot of young men who are lost and need some guidance and direction, but "playing" with a woman's feelings will always end badly.

    • @bellaloita
      @bellaloita Год назад

      Exactly. Thank you. As a balanced woman, last thing on my list is to be obsessive over a man. If you want a quality woman, she will not have this trait nor will she want this type of energy in her life. This will only attract toxic women. If I ask a man what he did today and he responds “ lots” I instantly loose attraction. If he can’t have a healthy conversation and is trying to make himself look more interesting thinking that playing with my mind will entice me.. I don’t think so. I’m usually fast to not respond after that. This truly is terrible advice. Just be on a mission to be your best self, that’s all a quality woman wants from you.

  • @bilalkhares4932
    @bilalkhares4932 Год назад +6

    I think as men we make these mistakes because we want the opposite of what Hamza is suggesting in women. We don't want a woman with abundance, is mysterious, we definitely don't want a woman who gives us too much of a range of emotions because we want peace (I would also be careful of this with women because it can get too much for women too, especially non-toxic women), obviously we don't want a masculine woman and I think generally we don't care about a woman's discipline.

  • @kalninsky
    @kalninsky Год назад +4

    I can see people using that analogy on mystery quite literally. "What have you done today?" "Lots." *proceeds to sit in awkward silence for 30 seconds*

  • @weraz286
    @weraz286 Год назад +8

    I am a 23 woman, came across this and felt the need to comment especially with the first two mentions (abundance and spiking the full range of emotions); some of this comes across as almost playing and making the opposite sex “crazy” about you, hinging into the player territory, and sure thing that can get you girls but, speaking for women like me who are looking for a genuine long term relationship I have never indulged a relationship with a man did not show me that they are are wholeheartedly into me. I don’t want to waste time with someone hesitant or someone who has the full spread of choice (our society is too focused on “the grass is greener” and forever swiping), i’d rather him show me he is actually focused on me, THAT will be attractive to the right person (especially if yes you are masculine, working on improving yourself and are in a good place in your life, happy single but looking for someone to share life with). If a man answers my “what have you been up to?” with “lots,” that minimal thoughtless answer will be less attractive to me and I will ultimately lead me to pull away as it flags to me that I do not have their interest.
    Felt the need to write this as I feel this way of portraying ourselves as “too cool for school” is great for perhaps picking up a few women but it won’t get you the right one; one that will look at you and fall in love with the real you. There are complexities in dating of course and there is a balance between sharing too much… but to the men reading this, if you genuinely are interested, show it. The right woman will love you for it.

    • @VIGHTWENiNithanXD
      @VIGHTWENiNithanXD Год назад +5

      You're the exception not the rule

    • @CommanderTexas
      @CommanderTexas Год назад

      Wrong. Don't listen to this boys. Women want the opposite of what they tell you they want. This girl is still looking for Chad I guarantee it boys.

    • @brumbrum987654321
      @brumbrum987654321 8 месяцев назад

      ​@VIGHTWENiNithanXD you're a virgin who knows absolutely nothing about the rule

  • @neonsky595
    @neonsky595 Год назад +4

    “What have you done today?”
    “Reap the benefits of my hard work.”

  • @astwas
    @astwas Год назад +2

    "So what are you doing today"
    "Lots"
    "?? Like what" - they're not allt gonna be giggling like a schoolgirl lol
    What do you say then? You can't just avoid an entire broad topic by ignoring her question, you'll just come across as a bucket.
    Potentailly appear embarrassed/insecure about his life activities by obviously avoiding the question, or appear shady as if he's doing sht with other girls - jealousy won't work here but having female friends in your circle is what wil keep them interested instead.
    No intelligent mature woman will want to date a guy who can't answer a simple question and hides his daily activity. I feel like you'd be shooting yourself in the foot.
    You should be honest but maybe not tell everything, you can talk about litreally having done chores, buying groceries or w/e, so you appear as a grown independent responsible man, and then talk about being busy with some friends to keep it vague and curious enough.
    But it starts with actually having hobbies and doing interesting things frequently so you don't have to create a fake identity on the verge of exposure.

  • @anandhusathyaseelan5544
    @anandhusathyaseelan5544 Год назад +6

    Am glad i found a mentor like you on internet....the tips that you gave through this video are exactly what's going on in my life 😁🙌🏻

  • @Blackness_78
    @Blackness_78 Год назад +1

    If you have mystery won’t girls think your cheating on them or something ?

    • @Orya.e
      @Orya.e Год назад

      yeah and that's good. per say. you want her to think you have an abundance. if she's worried you're cheating on her that's good for you, it would make her more obsessed.

  • @Dondlo46
    @Dondlo46 Год назад +10

    Holy shit your advice mixed with your comedy works so well, everything you said literally printed in my brain, thank you.

    • @neburarerreh4958
      @neburarerreh4958 Год назад

      You'll just forget about it in a few hours :V

    • @Dondlo46
      @Dondlo46 Год назад

      @@neburarerreh4958 what do you mean I remember and think about it almost every 30 minutes, basically obsessed over it

    • @IssaMeZane
      @IssaMeZane Год назад +1

      @@neburarerreh4958 Not if he’s written it down.

  • @rdkc9818
    @rdkc9818 Год назад +2

    think some points in this video are a bit of a reach... maybe works on low IQ women mostly.

  • @justalexgaming2232
    @justalexgaming2232 Год назад +4

    Bro thx for all the help I have like 30 girls numbers in my phone an I never texted one of them, they always want to be around me even when I just lay in there lap for half an hour,they always feel disappointed when I don't hug them, they want to share me with each other. An im 15 years old, I can easily get a girl if I want,I'm always working out,sometimes I just tell them I'm broad
    So I have to go do something, the pain on there faces,just priceless,always Crying about why I don't wanna spend time with them, my guy friends always say I'm gay because I have alot of girls around me,just laughing at every joke I make

  • @dannymarcinko6790
    @dannymarcinko6790 Год назад +1

    This isn’t your best work. Being mean / neglectful (having “abundance”) is not beneficial to building positive relationships

  • @validaze6985
    @validaze6985 Год назад +5

    Not to brag (yet I am) my energies are perfectly polarized that everyone is kinda just the same to me. Not in a bad way but in a relatable one. There been maybe 3 girls I’ve liked all my life and I’m 17. Maybe I should let go more and not be serious with them all the time. I guess it’s okay to make Jokes and say no. I’m realizing more and more everyday life can be a dream game if you make it that way. It’s saint serious. Thanks Hamza for the past year you’ve have helped to awaken myself. Now it’s time to awaken others. Me and the men of the world give thanks you.

  • @stephenhawkins9476
    @stephenhawkins9476 Год назад +2

    Still love him though, it's just more and more of his talks are giving more Andrew Tate/Sneako vibes in clean and nicer packaging. The whole Alpha Male thing is DUST!!

  • @cibko
    @cibko Год назад +75

    Hamza, I'm 33 (not your crowd) but there is another level to relationships when the girl is actually your friend and on the same intellectual level. When she actually helps you grow, gives useful advice. Yet you're still masculine, and she's feminine. You'll grow bored of women that just "spend time in the kitchen" and interest you in only "play time and intercourse" 1-2h hours a day, trust me.. I hope you find a woman that will take your relationship to that other level.

    • @lakshayaggarwal3426
      @lakshayaggarwal3426 Год назад +7

      exactly

    • @riskyshot6096
      @riskyshot6096 Год назад +1

      yeaaa hes indirectly telling you to sleep with a woman and never see her again.....lol

    • @beefmomma
      @beefmomma Год назад +8

      I agree. But it’s part of the evolution. Eventually you get over sleeping with random birds and you just want a nice normal gf. (Don’t find one on tinder though)

    • @CommanderTexas
      @CommanderTexas Год назад

      If you make her your friend she'll friend zone you

    • @SimonesBlankCanvas
      @SimonesBlankCanvas Год назад

      agree

  • @thekeyofj8930
    @thekeyofj8930 Год назад +191

    You are changing my life. I am literally 16 years old! and have never had more than one girl talking to me at once with no mystery and the wrong dynamic. Now I have been able to have an abundance of options (Women wise), make myself more masculine, make better money decisions, and began a insane journey of self improvement. All of this because of you from a few months of your videos and listening to you on spotify. God Bless you Hamza

    • @animememes7531
      @animememes7531 Год назад +14

      Great you found out about all these way ahead of your peers, brother, if you keep on following these, you'd definitely be the Adonis amongst your peers.

    • @szynszyl1029
      @szynszyl1029 Год назад +9

      YO I'm also 16 and on self improvement for like 2 months. Doing progress in the gym and thinking more like a man was the best thing that changed my life. Thank you Hamza

    • @khakipeach2128
      @khakipeach2128 Год назад +7

      I’m 16 as well. I’m trying to start a business, get into stocks more, go to the gym, etc. If I remember, I’ll update you guys a few months from now

    • @bhappys
      @bhappys Год назад +5

      turning 17 soon, starting to work on myself

    • @animememes7531
      @animememes7531 Год назад +3

      @@khakipeach2128 Make a reminder on your calender, Most of the people forget to tell their stories, And in turn you'll feel responsible too cuz you'll know that you have made a statement in front us.

  • @brunokardos3910
    @brunokardos3910 Год назад +4

    I have tried that my girl must have all kind of emotions, good and bad. It worked. Before this She was obsessed with me but now it is on a different level.
    It was hard for me at first, but I did it.
    "Fake it till you make it" is pretty accurate.

  • @thegoldenwolf3737
    @thegoldenwolf3737 Год назад +21

    Thank you Hamza! THANK YOU! You have changed my life bro! Now i have confidence of a teen and i am good. I start to do many things out of my house like painting, fight with sword and Gym. Thank you. I start to talk with the people and the class! :) Thank you again!

  • @Keksde
    @Keksde Год назад +1

    So is this channel turning into "Do this to attract girls" channel?
    Why is everyone so obsessed with getting girls. Can you not simply do something or change something about yourself because it's good for you, period?

  • @swapnanilchakraborty198
    @swapnanilchakraborty198 Год назад +3

    The most practical channel I've ever seen on self development..... Thanks, big bro..... Love from India

  • @AamirK11
    @AamirK11 Год назад +1

    Gotcha same thumbnail uploaded for today’s video 😉

  • @Claudiugh10
    @Claudiugh10 Год назад +3

    Just got back from a 10 km run and now i can watch this,feels good man

  • @100pmistry
    @100pmistry Год назад +2

    8:03
    Bro, no offense but you’ve got to watch your words a bit more. Anyone can clip this and make you look bad.
    I don’t want to see you get Andrew Tate Cancelled.

    • @kmo.8409
      @kmo.8409 Год назад

      The whole bonus points are heavily inspired from tate

  • @PianoDawg1620
    @PianoDawg1620 Год назад +3

    i think hamza is becoming the thing he hated

  • @Mxtrixonyt
    @Mxtrixonyt Год назад +4

    As a 13yr old these vids really helps me with the future so thanks hamza 👑

  • @bota96783
    @bota96783 Год назад +1

    What kind of relationship is that lol.
    So you can't even talk with your girlfriend in a serious deep way? Why I would even want to have a relationship with a person who I can't be genuine and just "play"

  • @NavidTalk
    @NavidTalk Год назад +3

    My opinion
    1 believe on your mind
    2 positive thinking
    3 make good habits
    4 talk and do don't promise if can't do 😎

  • @szymonwabik
    @szymonwabik Год назад +2

    I've seen a post on FB where an entire audience is seating in metaverse goggles and Zuckerberg was walking alongside them. This created a question in my head - if meta will work like it's said to be, will finding Adonises and Anastasias be easier since Jeffreys will focus mainly on the fictional world? I know it will be hard as fuck to 'unjeffrey' yourself in this situation, but won't the majority of valuable people stay in the real world and use the beautifulness of it?

  • @RealVergilSparda
    @RealVergilSparda Год назад +4

    As someone who scares and hurts women, I can confirm

  • @keeganwilson7017
    @keeganwilson7017 Год назад +5

    Thanks for the advice Hamza. I started casually seeing this girl and I've been pondering what my next move is going to be. after watching your video and your saying that you need to keep it mysterious I stared at my wall and came up with exactly what I needed to say to arouse that mystery. Thanks and God bless

  • @mariomailath1849
    @mariomailath1849 Год назад +6

    I have one Problem with the "stay mysterious" Thing. How do you do that without lying or when living together? I hate lying therefore I dont say I did lots when in Reality I just worked out, Studied and worked like Almost everyday

    • @Ray-tf5wu
      @Ray-tf5wu Год назад +3

      not oversharing

    • @mariomailath1849
      @mariomailath1849 Год назад

      @@Ray-tf5wu good point

    • @veryryan9771
      @veryryan9771 Год назад +3

      This should push you to pursue new things whilst not telling her, let her find out by herself.

    • @exoticindiaa
      @exoticindiaa Год назад

      Don't act like a goofball, talk with a slight smirk on your face

    • @smudgerbugg
      @smudgerbugg Год назад

      When living together. None of this applies. This videos is designed to help someone get a woman’s attraction.

  • @shashwatnandan5083
    @shashwatnandan5083 Год назад +1

    Earn money and work on your fitness you don't need to see this video.

  • @gavin3415
    @gavin3415 Год назад +4

    Hamza - the big brother everyone needs

  • @gabrielebianchi5286
    @gabrielebianchi5286 Год назад +2

    I like to think that when he says “click and watch this video right now” at the end of a video is just a test to forge our discipline to not stay any longer on yt

  • @Agnirets
    @Agnirets Год назад +6

    I love you Hamza, you’re helping me through tough times.

  • @hu1902
    @hu1902 Год назад +2

    Remember, don’t become too mysterious or you’ll turn into collage moistcritikal

  • @mmindset24
    @mmindset24 Год назад +5

    Truthfully, I am going through that exact thing right now with one girl that I am speaking to, my needy tendencies has me hooked to completely expose myself to this girl who hasn't replied to me, I thank you Hamza for the reminder to stay on the straight and narrow.

    • @renjiaow3742
      @renjiaow3742 Год назад +4

      Focus on enjoying doing what you enjoy to do, don't waste your time chasing them. They'll come into your life naturally if it destined.

    • @mmindset24
      @mmindset24 Год назад +2

      @@renjiaow3742 thank you bro

  • @blackdeath1886
    @blackdeath1886 Год назад +2

    Will try this on grandma 👍

  • @thomassalahub8219
    @thomassalahub8219 Год назад +3

    Damn, the like-view ratio though. Tells a lot about Hamza and his message.

  • @kapsalon1235
    @kapsalon1235 Год назад +4

    I finally had the confidence to aks my crush on a date. She said yes. I’m going to use this tips to make her obsessed with me 😎

    • @veryryan9771
      @veryryan9771 Год назад +1

      Congrats bro, but remember when times get rough, don’t abandon the relationship, build it.

    • @neburarerreh4958
      @neburarerreh4958 Год назад

      2 weeks in she's probably going to be thinking about other guys anyway. But whatever :V

  • @Jeffstrongman12
    @Jeffstrongman12 Год назад +2

    I dont agree with everything hamza ,if she gets tie obsessed she wanna be involved in everything with ya there's need to be balance and people in the chat ofcourse hamza gives alot of good points to get women but the best point is to work on ya self and everything will come !! I dont agree that she fully needs to be obsess with you she needs to have her own life our else their will be problems too ,everything is balance is life !!

  • @tariqx9785
    @tariqx9785 Год назад +6

    W hamza

  • @nikibyalo260
    @nikibyalo260 Год назад +3

    Also "Humility" can be in the list

  • @ismailshoukry1059
    @ismailshoukry1059 Год назад +2

    Dont be selling Iman’s $2k course when you know thats not the answer for young men who want to build

  • @ekziii2835
    @ekziii2835 Год назад +4

    Hamza thank you I'm not near completion with my self-improvement journey but the relationship you are talking about in this video of masculine and feminine energy is the one I have and I'm so thankful I used to date tomboys and always obsess over girls but I followed your advice and finally, I'm happy with my relationships and my girl is always thinking about me and calling me but im to busy working out or making money instead of just playing video games and watching tv.

  • @mrmoggergaming
    @mrmoggergaming Год назад +1

    Hamza is quite literally my online father.

  • @ismailshoukry1059
    @ismailshoukry1059 Год назад +4

    Hamza you have truly helped me a lot in my life. Thank you man.

  • @UnKnOvvNPeRsOnA
    @UnKnOvvNPeRsOnA Год назад +1

    I'm going to guess without looking at the comment section that's just people pretending that they're Adonis and, the advice isn't for them an it's for everyone else lol.

  • @HeroJoshua
    @HeroJoshua Год назад +7

    W

  • @rojcouz2267
    @rojcouz2267 Год назад +2

    im short and ugly its over for me

  • @energy-tunes
    @energy-tunes Год назад +3

    You really fell off

  • @nolimit_MPD
    @nolimit_MPD Год назад +1

    "Its not ok ok to hurt her but you should feel to do that"
    W rizz

  • @ganeshmidde5487
    @ganeshmidde5487 Год назад +3

    I am being like you were wn you living Jeffrey life style. I do watch your videos, doing my research but after sometime i am going back to Jeffrey mindset. I feel like I am left behind in the life. There's no one who gonna help me on this 💔 ~hamzafam

    • @nini-tu9gs
      @nini-tu9gs Год назад +1

      you're right, no one will go towards you to help you. It's your role to go towards other if you wand and need guidance. Join the discord, talk to friends.

    • @ganeshmidde5487
      @ganeshmidde5487 Год назад

      @@nini-tu9gs oh i didn't see.. thanks for reply.. but i don't have any idea about discord... How it's gonna help???

  • @Mayhem665
    @Mayhem665 Год назад +3

    hamza givin us daily advice on how to be better men. what a big honour to be watching his videos.

  • @skywin592
    @skywin592 Год назад +2

    She: (Sleeping 😴)
    Me: Okay time to Scare her

  • @micahstanley1175
    @micahstanley1175 Год назад +6

    Hamza, thanks so much for your content. You're saving lives out there!

  • @alexbaggett9062
    @alexbaggett9062 Год назад +1

    Where’s Jeffery and Adonais??

  • @nickp3949
    @nickp3949 Год назад +14

    If you’re just starting out with this, obviously you can’t have abundance yet. But I think having discipline and being mysterious are good starter tips. And from there you can build confidence, which in turn will make you more masculine and you’ll be able to make her feel emotions more, which will make her want you, which will start giving you abundance.
    It all starts with discipline. Discipline is something literally anyone can do.

  • @ootdbyjane
    @ootdbyjane Год назад +1

    I usually like your content. I love masculine energy, but I think you took it a bit too far with the "range of emotions" point. A lot of young men take your advice, and this is a bit of a dangerous viewpoint. Yes, mystery is important. It's exciting and creates a nice dynamic. However, no woman can display her feminine side with a man who "hurts" her in this sense. This can lead to abuse, which I'm sure you wouldn't want to encourage. Part of being masculine is providing security and a woman, a high-value woman at least, doesn't feel safe with a man like that. Obsession in itself isn't a sustainable feeling; the relationships you're referring to often end, they don't last. She eventually loses attraction. A high-value woman cannot be nurturing towards a man who disrespects her. You can be playful and mysterious without being disrespectful. This is an important distinction.