INFJ: The HIDDEN Reason Toxic People Hold You Back
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INFJ: The Real Reason Toxic People Always Misjudge You
Are you an INFJ who feels misunderstood by toxic people? 🌟 In this video, we explore why INFJs often get misjudged, especially by toxic individuals. Learn how your deep emotional strength and unique INFJ qualities can help you navigate these challenging situations.
INFJ Life Coach Lesson: Feeling drained by toxic connections? INFJs possess a unique ability to see beyond the surface and deeply understand others. However, our empathy can sometimes draw us into harmful relationships without our awareness. How can we discern who is truly toxic in our lives? It's time to stop expending our energy on those who deplete us and start channeling our efforts into creating the life we've always envisioned. This video is the perfect answer to your burning question!
🌿 What You’ll Learn:
1. The psychological reasons toxic people underestimate INFJs.
2. How to harness your INFJ personality traits for self-protection.
3. Empowering advice on dealing with toxic relationships.
If you’ve ever felt like others just don’t get you, this video is for you! Subscribe and join the INFJ community for more empowering content.
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What’s been your experience with toxic people? Have you ever realized someone was holding you back, and how did you handle it? Let’s talk about how we, as INFJs, can break free from these draining relationships and reclaim our energy! 💬👇
I have been in a one-sided relationship so I know what it is and I do everything I can to not allow myself to obsess someone with my standards. Wanting to „polish“ someone to what I think can be his better version, never again.
Yeah. So I think this is a consistent battle for the INFJ. I call it “chewing the cud”. We must stop ourselves from going over the details in our minds: “again and again and again”.
In my journey the answer is trust. Trust myself. I considered it well enough to decide.
Can you make video about the INFJ subtype and how to know which one we are ?
Absolutly, even an understanding heart grows tired of being always understanding and never understood. 👌
“Mentally remove from your mind, people who are not adding to your life.” So hard for the INFJ.
I am feeling so old!!! There was a day a long, long time ago when people loved watching MTV to watch a Southern girl sing about craving a toxic guy on a motorcycle! 😁 That said, stay in the NO DRAMA ZONE and hang out with people who are good to you. You cannot pick family but you can certainly pick your job, your hobbies, your profession, your school, your residence, your professionals to help in life, and most importantly your friends. Pick wisely and look in the mirror for solutions when not happy. Adulthood is the time to fix all issues to improve regardless of the past.
I quit trying to "fix" toxic people a while ago. I realized I was wasting my time and energy. I actually was dumb enough to date some. Even married / divorced one. Realize your own worth and stay focused on your own mission.
Finally got my divorce papers from mine as well. Sigh.
"...stay focused on your own mission." The best advice.
This! Only took me a few years to realize this and to get out of any of those relationships.
Good for you 🎉god bless 🎉@@theADHDinfj
@@theADHDinfj congratulations. It gets better.
It has taken me decades to allow myself to feel my rage over stuff. It's totally a necessary part of healing & growth, so I was handicaped till retirement when I finally started the real work. Learning how to demand to be treated with respect made my life much less complicated now. Thx!❤️🔥
I'm actually INTJ but with super feelings and empathy. I'm starting to just kind of walk away from anything that doesn't completely align with me and the energy I truly am.
I'm currently working in the service industry. In the high season, it's basically work to exhaustion, eat, sleep and repeat. I could deal with that if I had a hard working and compassionate team. One day, I told a colleague who has been sitting idly at her desk most of the day while I was on my feet dealing with customers that I'm feeling dizzy and sick (from exhaustion) and asked her what to do. She told me coldy: "Then leave, I don't want to catch your illness." This inhumane statement really opened my eyes and I was thinking to myself "What the f... am I doing here?" I'm currently looking for another job, as I know from comparison how good a worker I am and that this team doesn't derserve me.
Good for you!
Leave and get a job where you are accountable for your own efforts. Your results will speak forever themselves.
Thank you for this pep talk and helping me not slip back into compassion, forgiving and “water under the bridge” mode. It’s costing me… and I’ve already given 30 years of that to my sister.
This also happens with family members too.I'm going through this with them😢
While I’m not an overly religious person, I can thank my Source yet again for showing me something that I’ve sought an answer to. Wenzes, your vids always resonate astoundingly with me and this one was no exception. Thank you so much for sharing your insight, as this speaks directly to my heart. I know now what needs to be done, the trial is getting the nerve to do it.
Wenze's I concur I don't like "bull,baggage,drama,games/lies,excuses,stories,whatever/time,energy,motion,vampirism" of me.I'll do the infamous INFJ doorslam.Wenze's I like your guidance Wenze's.Wenze's I thank you for you Wenze's.Jerome❤❤❤
Wenzes your words are a gift. Yes, to this! Timing is perfect. I appreciate that you not only identify the issue, our patterns, with such clarity of understanding, but then offer a path to resolution. Words of anger that we say to ourselves so that we can actually experience it, and stop the rumination (and second guessing) loop. You get it because you have been there. Thank you 🙏
Thank you for this. I learned these lessons the hard way, and I recently ended a toxic relationship of 10+ years. But I was left feeling MAYBE I could have made it work, if only I'd done things differently. But, no, nothing would have changed. My mistake was in not acknowledging my anger and honoring it -- too busy neglecting myself in order to tap into their energy. This video was perfectly timed, from my perspective. Thanks again.
9:24 ❤that Lily Allen song, upbeat and accurate
Wenzes energy these days >>>>>
"Toxic! Period!"❤😊
Tedious is a good word.
Thank you! I find your videos so helpful.
I literally cannot believe how in depth you’ve touched on this exact conflict I’ve had in my head for literally 2 years straight since leaving an 8 year relationship I was so attached to that was ultimately horrible for me. I’ve imagined having a private session trying to formulate the right question wondering if you’d understand where I’m conflicted, and here you are just exactly saying what I’ve needed to hear. And I’ve told myself the same, but it was hard to give myself permission to think about him negatively. Hopefully now I’ll feel more justified in allowing myself to see things how they really were
I had to cut someone out who was entirely unappreciative and disrespectful ugggggh acknowledgement of that lack of integrity and morals the lying and mean comments-toxic. Admitted to myself they were not what I thought. As sad as it was to accept that - done.
Wenzes!!! Damn, this is so good! Exactly what I needed to hear to help myself heal and move on. Thank you!
Cut the bs and there is no more bs
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Ambiguous relationships are more draining than toxic ones. Lose the friendenemies
Those are the people That gets us in trouble - So true 😘.
Thank you, beloved! :)
“Bye bye idiot” I wish 😅
Go with your gut (intuition).
What about the own family, parents, kids, sibilins ...?
First thing that popped into my mind as well
Have the same question....moved away from Narc husband and now dealing with boundaries with Borderline mother
Wieso sprichst du mir immer so aus der Seele?
The video I needed to see today
Im at Bye Bye idiot faze after subjecting myself to abuse and stupid shit that shouldn't happen. Too much crap just to have somewhere to live
Go Wenzes, it's your birthday :)
I’ve not met many people I feel really comfortable with. And if I met one I went onto distant as I don’t to bother them knowing how I am. The people who are around me are basically those who want to and I started to accept them. Even if they are somewhat toxic by nowadays therm. They are just as broken as I am myself. They do respect me though.
Bye. Is a complete sentence.
A LITTLE BIT wenzel THAD MUST BE AN UNDERSTATEMENT ‼️ 4:14
ENFJ too💯🙏‼️
Not to distract from the valuable content ❤ but I love your eye makeup 😂
😏 thanks
Yet im the hater or im insecure ?? Yea ooookkkk
Wenzes i really need your advice on something private , is there any way we can talk before tomorrow , i promise i will make it short x
Love the growth and you sunshine.Do you want from an I?N f j into being a sigma female. And I appreciate UB and U for others.You are sigma Males kind of girl.👻✍️👑😜🤪🤣😂♥️👽
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I only CAN have 💯compassion NOW 4 my boss 🖕
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AFTER 👈my boss🖕 (who I almost lost my job 2🖕 ) is losing her job and is going 2 leave the building 🖕😊👉
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next time try using eft techniques as you sing that FU song....you can learn them from free, I got lots of free info and I don't spam. Also lots of good links to others you can learn at. See how fast you feel ok and it won't come back to mind as much either. I find letting go very easy when using eft techniques. @Wenzes- INFJ LIFE COAH