Peterson cited research based on SocioEconomic status (position in the whole society). But real powerful factor for our brain is SocioMetric status (position in the local group. For example School class, work place, friend group and so on).
There is a sentence in this video that is misleading: "Women will use markers of wealth as indicators of productive competence." That's true, but a man who is not particularly competent and inherits a lot of money will also attract women. This shows that women are attracted not to "productive competence" but to resources or potential resources. Women who didn't focus on resources in their mates were less likely to produce children who made it to adulthood and successfully reproduced. Physical strength is also a resource, so women find it attractive. It's all about resources, not “productive competence.”
I’m a musician. Take this music out. It’s heavy-handed. Are you here to learn or be entertained? Save the scoring for entertainment. Emotional music distracts from learning from this video. It’s kind of ridiculous
Thank you, it takes from the seriousness of the topic altogether too. “Getting manipulated” senses flare up too… finding it all a bad an idea through and through, might work with empty meaning motivational videos word salads but not here, not this.
You. don't. have. to. be. Numbers don't matter as much as we fear. Top 5% means nothing. I don't have real friends outside of my family, but I know im trying and doing well with what I've got. And I'm grateful for what I've got. Work on your mental health, inner peace, happiness, physical health, knowledge and abilities. Once you start improving even just one or two things in your life, the ball will start rolling and momentum will make it much easier.
@@azarak34 Yes her and her friends also began to kick me in my spine once I curled into the fetal position to protect myself. Women these days are vicious.
She ain’t worth it. How’d you get bullied though at a highschool reunion. What kind of people are you associated yourself with??? May be a blessing in disguise.
It's an extreme sports to be human in this day and age What a sad reality man has created 😢 The hardest thing to be is human, I mean listen to the terminologies and vocabs being used here just to express the unrealistic expectations and insatiable thirst of men and women....geez Am listening and noticing how cautious he has to be to articulate the truth. Being apologetic for the truth, that's still a compromise you know If humans don't deal well with behavioural issues then we have no hope We may as well let robots take over Bad behaviour is bad behaviour Good behaviour is good behaviour You shouldn't struggle to speak the truth if not it is delusional we will all end up in
People often say things because they think it will make their partner happy, also the correlation of its attractiveness to men was nearly neutral, slightly negative. An outlier is possible. What would be much more hard to believe would be a woman just adoring a guy for his lack of competence.
@jorden9821 you're right it's true. I'd been dating my late 😢 husband for several months when we were driving somewhere at @5am (probably goin fishin) and he gently yet quickly swayed to the emergency lane n hit reverse. I didn't ask why I just observed. He had seen (I believe I was falling asleep 😅) a woman and he'd also noticed there was a baby car seat at a glance, so he got out, didn't say much except "ma'am do you have a spare tire"? She opened the trunk n changed her tire without another word. I was able to visit with her n baby while he changed the tire 😊. I left there so proud that he'd chosen ME. I LEFT THERE NOT EVER AGAIN QUESTIONING HOW I FEEL ABOUT HIM. We were married @ 2 years later after a year 💍 engagement. Thank you for reminding me of this. I'd never forgotten it but it's been difficult to think about these types of things. Until NOW. 😊 MANY BLESSINGS TO YOU AND YOURS. ☀️✨️
@@JT-rx1eoI always made more money than my husband, but he took care of house repairs, car repairs, the lawn, and saved us a lot of money by taking care of so many things. He was also super smart and solved a lot of problems. I was always turned on by his way of handling all these things so we had a great physical relationship too. I didn’t care about the paychecks because he certainly did his part.
Insane good talk
Peterson cited research based on SocioEconomic status (position in the whole society). But real powerful factor for our brain is SocioMetric status (position in the local group. For example School class, work place, friend group and so on).
There is a sentence in this video that is misleading:
"Women will use markers of wealth as indicators of productive competence."
That's true, but a man who is not particularly competent and inherits a lot of money will also attract women. This shows that women are attracted not to "productive competence" but to resources or potential resources. Women who didn't focus on resources in their mates were less likely to produce children who made it to adulthood and successfully reproduced.
Physical strength is also a resource, so women find it attractive.
It's all about resources, not “productive competence.”
I’m a musician. Take this music out. It’s heavy-handed. Are you here to learn or be entertained?
Save the scoring for entertainment. Emotional music distracts from learning from this video. It’s kind of ridiculous
The music also makes it harder for anyone with any type of hearing impairment to understand the words.
Thank you, it takes from the seriousness of the topic altogether too.
“Getting manipulated” senses flare up too… finding it all a bad an idea through and through, might work with empty meaning motivational videos word salads but not here, not this.
The music in the background is really annoying.
*As someone who isn't a high socio-economic status man, I'm honestly considering unaliving myself. We can't all be in the top 5% of men.*
That should not be a consideration at all you just need to find joy in yourself first and build confidence on it your opportunity will come
You. don't. have. to. be. Numbers don't matter as much as we fear. Top 5% means nothing. I don't have real friends outside of my family, but I know im trying and doing well with what I've got. And I'm grateful for what I've got. Work on your mental health, inner peace, happiness, physical health, knowledge and abilities. Once you start improving even just one or two things in your life, the ball will start rolling and momentum will make it much easier.
Yep, some gotta be at the bottom
I hope you find peace bro.
Probably just come back in the same situation after the reboot, the only way out is through.
So is this why my wife left me after I was bullied at my highschool reunion 🙄
How the fuck would you let someone bully you at a high school reunion.
@@jensgronning4436 Well, maybe I could have handled myself better if my wife didn't give the bully so much ammunition to humiliate me with.
Uff, that had to feel terrible. Yeah, partner destroying your social proof (even out of ignorance) is deffo a red flag.
@@azarak34 Yes her and her friends also began to kick me in my spine once I curled into the fetal position to protect myself. Women these days are vicious.
She ain’t worth it. How’d you get bullied though at a highschool reunion. What kind of people are you associated yourself with??? May be a blessing in disguise.
Happened to me. Be sure, fellas.
As long as a guy is kind and has good dental/oral hygiene he would have a chance to at least find SOMEONE who is compatible
It's an extreme sports to be human in this day and age
What a sad reality man has created 😢
The hardest thing to be is human, I mean listen to the terminologies and vocabs being used here just to express the unrealistic expectations and insatiable thirst of men and women....geez
Am listening and noticing how cautious he has to be to articulate the truth.
Being apologetic for the truth, that's still a compromise you know
If humans don't deal well with behavioural issues then we have no hope
We may as well let robots take over
Bad behaviour is bad behaviour
Good behaviour is good behaviour
You shouldn't struggle to speak the truth if not it is delusional we will all end up in
This is hard for me to believe. My husband’s really liked y ability to make money through work.
People often say things because they think it will make their partner happy, also the correlation of its attractiveness to men was nearly neutral, slightly negative. An outlier is possible. What would be much more hard to believe would be a woman just adoring a guy for his lack of competence.
You can make the most progressive women swoon just by being competent enough to change a tire 😅 and that's from experience.
@jorden9821 you're right it's true. I'd been dating my late 😢 husband for several months when we were driving somewhere at @5am (probably goin fishin) and he gently yet quickly swayed to the emergency lane n hit reverse. I didn't ask why I just observed. He had seen (I believe I was falling asleep 😅) a woman and he'd also noticed there was a baby car seat at a glance, so he got out, didn't say much except "ma'am do you have a spare tire"? She opened the trunk n changed her tire without another word. I was able to visit with her n baby while he changed the tire 😊. I left there so proud that he'd chosen ME. I LEFT THERE NOT EVER AGAIN QUESTIONING HOW I FEEL ABOUT HIM. We were married @ 2 years later after a year 💍 engagement. Thank you for reminding me of this. I'd never forgotten it but it's been difficult to think about these types of things. Until NOW. 😊 MANY BLESSINGS TO YOU AND YOURS. ☀️✨️
It's science so believe it. In your case, did your husbandS 😂 still always make more than you? Still maintained more wealth?
@@JT-rx1eoI always made more money than my husband, but he took care of house repairs, car repairs, the lawn, and saved us a lot of money by taking care of so many things. He was also super smart and solved a lot of problems. I was always turned on by his way of handling all these things so we had a great physical relationship too. I didn’t care about the paychecks because he certainly did his part.