He'll NEVER Fully Invest In You, Prioritize You Or Commit If You're Doing Any Of These 10 Things

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  • Опубликовано: 20 июн 2023
  • Discover ten things you should stop doing immediately with a man if you want him to make you a priority, invest in you and commit in this video with Helena Hart, a dating and relationship coach for women.
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  • @HelenaHartCoaching
    @HelenaHartCoaching  Год назад +7

    This is a clip from a livestream I did five days before my son was born - hope you enjoy it! If you want to learn the secrets to attracting the man you want and inspiring his love, devotion and commitment, get my FREE "3 Keys To Attract The Man You Want" report and audio training here: helenahartcoaching.com/
    To get free access to my latest content, you can follow my “Master Your Magnetism” podcast on Spotify here: open.spotify.com/show/2sQpQcwuijinXm5y8G06O3
    …or on Apple Podcasts here (feel free to leave me a review!): podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/master-your-magnetism-with-helena-hart/id1585522214
    Get your personal dating and relationship questions answered here: helenahart--mcoast.thrivecart.com/feminine/

    • @LisaGemini
      @LisaGemini Год назад

      Congrats on the baby! What's his name? I haven't seen a video from you for months and months but didn't know you were pregnant. God bless you and your little family.

    • @HelenaHartCoaching
      @HelenaHartCoaching  Год назад

      Thank you! His name is Everett - there are photos and videos on my Instagram page: instagram.com/helenahartcoaching/
      I’ve been posting videos on RUclips every week, so if you haven’t been seeing them you may have your notifications turned off. 💜

  • @AC-Empress
    @AC-Empress Год назад +35

    I thought all of these things were how you show you care. As a result, it just had me taken for granted 😟

    • @Braveh3artGirl
      @Braveh3artGirl Год назад +4

      I know how you feel xx

    • @joannedomingo2398
      @joannedomingo2398 Год назад +2

      Me too

    • @juliaskagfjord6207
      @juliaskagfjord6207 Год назад +8

      me too. It really sucks when you start dating and the guy gets turned off, when you are just being kind, caring, genuine etc. Ive given up

    • @HelenaHartCoaching
      @HelenaHartCoaching  Год назад +12

      @@juliaskagfjord6207If a man gets turned off early on when you’re just being yourself, it’s a GOOD thing because you won’t be wasting your time or getting invested in someone who’s clearly not the right one for you. I talk more about that in these videos: ruclips.net/video/9lU97CsjH2U/видео.html and ruclips.net/video/sHR3dJ8QiLA/видео.html.

    • @trianglebook3616
      @trianglebook3616 Год назад +1

      @@juliaskagfjord6207 happens everywhere I'm a homosexual and 47 year old did the same to me I thought he being 12 years older than me would be different

  • @Didi-fr5ic
    @Didi-fr5ic Год назад +12

    I have healed so much because of you're videos, i learned about femininity leaing back and let a man persue , i also learned about men how they work like pulling away etc he came back and asked me on another date , I live my own life etc and I also dont freak out about the texting , i focus on the present moment with a man and ladies dont play hard to get..all the best ladies, learn learn learn

    • @HelenaHartCoaching
      @HelenaHartCoaching  Год назад +1

      I’m happy to hear that, thanks for sharing your experience here! ❤️

  • @juliemulleady7916
    @juliemulleady7916 Год назад +5

    I did all those things lol... you are right the only thing that works is respecting your true self and don't initiate dates!!!

    • @HelenaHartCoaching
      @HelenaHartCoaching  Год назад

      Thanks for sharing your experience and insights here! This video might also be helpful for anyone who can relate: ruclips.net/video/8fo8YRdRIJU/видео.html

  • @juliaskagfjord6207
    @juliaskagfjord6207 Год назад +2

    Stellar and absolutely brilliant advice. We love you Helena!

  • @MonicaSancio
    @MonicaSancio Год назад +5

    Thank you, Helena! These 10 things are key to stay super attractive to men, absolutely agreed! Watching it again, and taking notes!

    • @HelenaHartCoaching
      @HelenaHartCoaching  Год назад

      You’re welcome! ❤️ The two tips I shared at the end of this video should also be helpful: ruclips.net/video/fzyjMlOD3oc/видео.html

  • @miathompson1172
    @miathompson1172 Год назад +2

    Another great video….brilliant advice… 🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸

  • @joannedomingo2398
    @joannedomingo2398 Год назад +4

    I needed to hear this. ❤

  • @peggystone7921
    @peggystone7921 Год назад +3

    I always go with my gut instinct it works

  • @teenafrench7236
    @teenafrench7236 Год назад +3

    You have no idea how beautiful you are🎉 Great video❤

  • @BL-N3xus
    @BL-N3xus 7 месяцев назад

    That was great advice. Spot on! However, most women these days have two kinds of standards, one for the men they're sexually and physically attracted to and the other for the men they're are not.

    • @HelenaHartCoaching
      @HelenaHartCoaching  7 месяцев назад +1

      Thank you! Yes, I actually talked more about that in my latest livestream: ruclips.net/user/livegQNmkJHeNxo?si=qgXX6udgStjfkvBO

  • @jennalavena
    @jennalavena 7 месяцев назад +1

    good morning Helena! what do u mean “don’t apply a tactic to get what u want from a man” because i find myself not chasing men in order for them to chase me and i consider that applying a tactic; love ur videos😊

    • @HelenaHartCoaching
      @HelenaHartCoaching  7 месяцев назад +1

      Thank you! ❤️ Great question - my latest livestream should help give you some clarity: ruclips.net/user/livegQNmkJHeNxo?si=MpPDbepu2dsXHaYG
      …and I’d also highly recommend checking out these videos: ruclips.net/video/PEJ98MwHVTo/видео.htmlsi=VNAhw6leBBAcieIN and ruclips.net/video/PNgNAfSNG1A/видео.htmlsi=MxasLW2YROWdaWh5.

  • @costelloandlizzievolk2233
    @costelloandlizzievolk2233 Год назад +3

    Totally needed to hear this right now as I am in this position with a man, and it doesn’t feel good. Do we say something to him about it or just quietly move on?

    • @HelenaHartCoaching
      @HelenaHartCoaching  Год назад +4

      While every situation is different, the outcome is likely going to be the same no matter what you do - so I’d follow your intuition there. 💙

  • @christinewyndham-woodroffe9422
    @christinewyndham-woodroffe9422 Год назад +8

    Wow! When you see the reallity of the actions of the man you are describing here, he sounds horrible and selfish. Why would you want to be with someone like that? I hope none of us will be so unlucky to meet the man with all ten traits at the same time. 😂 Joking apart it is an eye opener but when you are emotionally involved you don't always see it. Thank you Helena from UK

    • @HelenaHartCoaching
      @HelenaHartCoaching  Год назад +1

      You’re welcome! Thanks for sharing your takeaways here. 💜

  • @Jess-wk5jo
    @Jess-wk5jo Год назад

    Hi Helena i have question for you over affairs .
    can people have affair or cheat on someone without never never having no sex?

    • @Didi-fr5ic
      @Didi-fr5ic Год назад +5

      Yes emotional cheating , you leave that person very quickly

  • @belladatu1434
    @belladatu1434 Год назад +2

  • @alizjean8970
    @alizjean8970 Год назад +2

    I was made a mistake, can you give any advice to move on as I have anxious attachment

    • @SimplyNobel
      @SimplyNobel Год назад +3

      I know how you feel! I went through an anxious attachment faze with a man at the end of last year and through much of this year. It took a while for me to detach (and for him to understand that I really meant it when I said goodbye).
      Maybe we will be friends again maybe not but for now I need to focus on myself and my own life and happiness! Focusing on him was only bringing me down and holding me back.
      You will feel much happier and free'r when you start bringing the focus back to your own life. Start doing all of the things you love again! I recently started doing that and sharing my journey on my channel.
      It's only early days but I feel like I'm finally past the emotional suffering stage. Past the back and forth yo-yo'ing. I feel like I have my power back. That's more important than any man! 🥰 There is always light at the end of the tunnel! Make yourself your number one priority! All the best 😊💛

    • @alizjean8970
      @alizjean8970 Год назад +1

      @@SimplyNobel thank for your comment I will try 😊🙏

    • @SimplyNobel
      @SimplyNobel Год назад +1

      @@alizjean8970 It's not easy I know! But you're stronger than you think you are! 🥰

    • @tetianalavrynovych8361
      @tetianalavrynovych8361 Год назад +3

      I’m the same way, specially hard to have secure attachment style if you partner is more avoidant. So far I have made lots of progress; but definitely It’s a work!

    • @HelenaHartCoaching
      @HelenaHartCoaching  Год назад +2

      The second half of this podcast episode will be SO helpful for anyone who’s in a situation like that - you can listen to it on Spotify here: open.spotify.com/episode/6hK6nLgTg87hKEuF4obqB3?si=fl0qpD7CQ_6_KrOQFrNoUA
      …or on Apple Podcasts here: podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/master-your-magnetism-with-helena-hart/id1585522214?i=1000613616281

  • @kristinebeyond
    @kristinebeyond Год назад +6

    How’s ur baby!!!?

    • @HelenaHartCoaching
      @HelenaHartCoaching  Год назад +18

      He’s great, he’ll be nine months old tomorrow! 🩵 There are photos and videos on my Instagram page: instagram.com/helenahartcoaching/

    • @kristinebeyond
      @kristinebeyond Год назад +6

      Oh, beautiful! I’ll check it out! I just gave birth two months ago!

    • @HelenaHartCoaching
      @HelenaHartCoaching  Год назад +7

      @@kristinebeyondAww congratulations!! 💖

  • @melissabarrett3088
    @melissabarrett3088 10 месяцев назад +1

    ❤❤

  • @aazmeer1000
    @aazmeer1000 Год назад

    How is yr cat

    • @HelenaHartCoaching
      @HelenaHartCoaching  Год назад +1

      He’s doing great! 🐱 There are photos and videos on my Instagram page: instagram.com/helenahartcoaching/

  • @instanta2693
    @instanta2693 Год назад +2

    What if I’m with a man (I’m 28 and he 43 and together since 3 years) and he lied to and cheated on me behind my back during the first year (don’t know beyond that…) but we’ve been living together since 2 years and I am crazy for him and we just moved to a new country where he got a new job (he’s a bit of a workaholic but it’s in an area that also interests me, gaming). Please share your thoughts…

    • @emilymuniz2496
      @emilymuniz2496 Год назад +5

      Why are you settling with a man who cheated on you? Dont tolerate bad behavior. 😢Girl, I can imagine the amount of hurt you must have felt. You are in your prime years! go out on circular dating, and you will find an amazing, healthy, masculine man willing to provide and take care of you. ❤

    • @winxclubstellamusa
      @winxclubstellamusa Год назад +3

      This story has ALL of the red flags, OMG… Please make sure to hide your passport and ID from him at all times and NEVER give him any access to your money. Countless other women have been trapped and isolated by their abusive partners in foreign countries and even their original country’s embassy can’t do anything to bring them back. And you already know in your heart of hearts that you are in danger. Best of luck!! You will need it.

    • @IamBarati
      @IamBarati Год назад +3

      Find yourself a young man

    • @joandonnelly1754
      @joandonnelly1754 10 месяцев назад +2

      Wow! Way too many red flags! Move out, dump him, block and delete. Don’t share your plans with him, just move on with your life. Oh and for heaven’s sake, after you heal, start dating men your own age!

    • @lechewinggum8491
      @lechewinggum8491 4 месяца назад

      How are you doing now?