Our tips on a SUCCESSFUL RELATIONSHIP | Loumed

Поделиться
HTML-код
  • Опубликовано: 18 окт 2024

Комментарии • 80

  • @mad4raisins
    @mad4raisins 2 года назад +208

    I think Ahmed is very lucky to have Louisa, she comes across sweet and joyful. mashallah tabarakallah

    • @nogobaladosso7138
      @nogobaladosso7138 2 года назад +22

      I would say they are both lucky to have one another
      Cause the way you say it it’s as if Louisa wasn’t lucky to have Ahmed.
      (It’s juste a remark, dont take it wrong. I hope I didn’t offended you. If so I apologize)

  • @splash6133
    @splash6133 2 года назад +69

    1: Always tell the truth
    2: Be able to correct each other
    3: Discuss/express feelings, don’t disregard your spouse’s feelings
    4: It’s more important to admit you are wrong than it is to prove that you are right
    5: Help each other out. Do what your spouse likes (notice the little things they enjoy)
    6: Beware of fitna. Protect your marriage from unnecessary outside input
    7: It’s ok to disagree (disagreement can facilitate your growth)
    8: Learn to forgive each other. We are all human beings and we all make mistakes!
    9: Listen to your spouse. Run everything by each other and follow structure
    10: Don’t fall into the trap of media! Not all men are trash, and not all women are trash either
    11: Go out of each others way to give each other gifts, even if they are small
    12: Quality time - take time out for each other!
    13: Instead of looking for the negatives, appreciate all the positive things your spouse does for you
    رَبَّنَا هَبْ لَنَا مِنْ أَزْوَاجِنَا وَذُرِّيَّاتِنَا قُرَّةَ أَعْيُنٍ وَاجْعَلْنَا لِلْمُتَّقِينَ إِمَامً

    • @Bu.T.F.I
      @Bu.T.F.I Год назад

      Jazakallahu khairan for this!

  • @leenabazeed6436
    @leenabazeed6436 2 года назад +118

    may allah protect your marriage and grant you al firdous🤍

  • @AhmedQuthb
    @AhmedQuthb 2 года назад +57

    I'm like 19 and not even married yet. Wallahi you guys are one of the few People who's gonna save my marriage In Sha Allah ta'ala! May Allah grant all Single Believers Righteous Spouse & Children. آمین :)

  • @aliahmahmood8507
    @aliahmahmood8507 2 года назад +8

    Bro even if you’re not married apply these rules to your friendships and other relationships because we’re supposed to keep our relationships with everyone good.

  • @dolcevita2009
    @dolcevita2009 2 года назад +78

    As a Christian I feel exactly the same way, the best thing to do is not to let anyone have a say in your relationships. My husband is Muslim and I firmly believe as the bible explains that the man is the head of the home. I also think it is important to always ask your husband. Since I started my relationship with my husband, every time I do something people always tell me for sure he makes me do it, if I dress modestly, which I did before, then for people he is the one who makes me do it, absolutely everything is criticized, things that I really didn't pay attention to, at one point I started to listen to those external voices and I questioned myself if it was true what they said and I realized that no, that I love dressing like that, that the changes I have made in my life make me happy and that if I do things for him that makes me happy.

  • @wardaachat8033
    @wardaachat8033 2 года назад +40

    Since Sunday I was literally checking everytime I went on RUclips if you guys uploaded a new vid, and now alhamdoulilah you guys did post! May ALLAH bless you two and your relationship❤

  • @baebae5189
    @baebae5189 2 года назад +46

    it was a very educative video, even though i'm not planning to get married any time soon i think it's important to learn

  • @Gigi-fj9jv
    @Gigi-fj9jv 2 года назад +15

    May Allah put barakah in your relationship and grant you happiness ❤️❤️

  • @nandeska3962
    @nandeska3962 2 года назад +20

    Yea im still at step one, to find a husband when your an introvert..

  • @hannahchoudhury1350
    @hannahchoudhury1350 2 года назад +3

    two and a half years strong, and forever to go in’sha’allah 🤍 such a beautiful marriage ma’sha’allah Allah humma barik 🤍

  • @adilyok
    @adilyok 2 года назад +28

    Get well soon Ahmad akhi May Allah give u shifa
    İ do really love ur chemistry guys it's lit and of course Louisa's laugh is iconic
    Solid one

  • @rosalinejones812
    @rosalinejones812 2 года назад +6

    Ma Sha Allah may Allah SWT bless you both abundantly and your marraige Ameen. May the smiles on both of your faces always remain and brighten up your life ameen. It was such a cute moment when Ahmed said " you are going to be a baby momma and I''ll be a baby baba..." and louisa laughed and Ahmed stopped whilst goofily looking at louisa with adoration.

  • @افراحابراهيم-ن4ن
    @افراحابراهيم-ن4ن 2 года назад +10

    Jazakallahhu.. may allah swt cure who ever is sick ameen ya rabbalalmeen. Pls more videos..
    Ur video's just are happiness alhamdulillah

  • @sumayyah_ibm
    @sumayyah_ibm 2 года назад +15

    ❤☺
    Allahumma barek alaikum wa alayna
    Love your videos :)
    Puts a smile on my face each time 🥰✨

  • @sumaiyahmaraicar8660
    @sumaiyahmaraicar8660 2 года назад +6

    May Allah swt grant you both endless barakah in your marriage and protect you both 🤍

  • @AchansDigitalDiary
    @AchansDigitalDiary 2 года назад +8

    beautiful marraige, SubhanAllah💕

  • @road2jannah978
    @road2jannah978 2 года назад +2

    mashallah!!! also Louisa is glowwwwing mashallah

  • @Hell0nabs
    @Hell0nabs 2 года назад +3

    May Allah SWT protect you both and strengthen your bond

  • @tahiiyah
    @tahiiyah 2 года назад +4

    Thank you for uploading stillll, been waiting for one!!!

  • @rosolhamdi6128
    @rosolhamdi6128 2 года назад +3

    I loved this so much Allahumabarek lakom 🥰And may Allah grant you shefa💖

  • @AB-kj1yb
    @AB-kj1yb 2 года назад +7

    WHEN AHMED SAID BABY BABA I DIEEEEED

  • @chaymaag03
    @chaymaag03 2 года назад +4

    اللهم بارك لكما -
    Super beneficial, I had prepared pretty much the same rules for once I get married. It was very helpful to hear examples and tips based on experience.
    Again,
    بارك الله فيكم.

  • @Dalia-xp6dk
    @Dalia-xp6dk 4 месяца назад

    They are so blessed to have eachother allahuma barik

  • @mariamrizwanajameel7998
    @mariamrizwanajameel7998 2 года назад +3

    Nice video MaShaa Allah... Btw, where is ur intro? U used to have it in ur older sit down videos. I kinda miss it tbh.

  • @kevserina
    @kevserina Год назад +2

    and now we know why we only see their heads :")

  • @naawrrrrr
    @naawrrrrr Год назад

    Agreeing w/ Louisa. It’s the deliverance. Sometimes the message is misunderstood cuz of the tone and the sentence structure hahah

  • @Halom49
    @Halom49 2 года назад +3

    Ahmed is more wise while sick 😂😂

  • @optaaaaaaaa
    @optaaaaaaaa 2 года назад +4

    looking forward to the PS5 unboxing video

  • @lilmsshorty234
    @lilmsshorty234 2 года назад +9

    The prophet SAW used to help his wife around the house :)

    • @sayeeed1303
      @sayeeed1303 Год назад

      It is the wife's obligation to take care of the household. Khadija RA helped our Prophet financially. Does that mean every Muslim wife have to do the same?

  • @hassounaboudj5495
    @hassounaboudj5495 2 года назад +4

    The best couple ever ❤ mashallah

  • @fatoumarong3337
    @fatoumarong3337 2 года назад +7

    You guys are the best 🥰so educating 😍

  • @SHEZXP123
    @SHEZXP123 2 года назад

    Masha'allah, Allahumma Barik Lahu. This was a really insightful and understanding video. May Allah bless you both, ameen🤲🏼❤️

  • @maryamyusuf5812
    @maryamyusuf5812 2 года назад +3

    Loved the part where yourll spoke about gender roles in deen... So many people shy away from this topic because the media blasts you for going against toxic feminism... Our deen is perfect we are not.

    • @toobad9295
      @toobad9295 2 года назад

      there is no such thing as 'gender' roles in Islam, the only 'role' there is, is the husband providing and protecting

  • @الحمدلله-د6ع6م
    @الحمدلله-د6ع6م 2 года назад +8

    اللهم صل وسلم وبارك على نبينا محمد اللهم صل وسلم وبارك على نبينا محمد

  • @Cadaur
    @Cadaur 2 года назад +4

    Loved this :), as always

  • @raheemah8017
    @raheemah8017 2 года назад +3

    Ya always be speaking facts 💯💯!!!💕👍

  • @cheima7737
    @cheima7737 2 года назад +1

    I’M SORRY HE SAID BABY BABA I’M ACTUALLY DYINGGG😭😭😭😭

  • @9SCORPIO
    @9SCORPIO 2 года назад +7

    Step 1: Get married
    Nahhh tooo much effort

  • @aboutaisha1235
    @aboutaisha1235 2 года назад +2

    May Allah bless your marriage

  • @salinakashif5902
    @salinakashif5902 2 года назад +2

    Allahuma barik 🤍🤍

  • @periii9014
    @periii9014 2 года назад +4

    I wish it had Turkish subtitles please🌙

  • @ikhlastrikimahd7963
    @ikhlastrikimahd7963 2 года назад +1

    MachAllah may Allah protect your marriage! 🤍

  • @ahmetgunnar
    @ahmetgunnar 2 года назад +4

    Bro Ahmed, I’d sell you my Ps5😂😂

  • @basakmed
    @basakmed 2 года назад +2

    Love youuuu ❤️

  • @Midgethunter07
    @Midgethunter07 2 года назад +4

    Get him a PS5!

  • @shahisthabanu292
    @shahisthabanu292 2 года назад +1

    Your lady is understanding and sweet
    That's why r u happy dear
    U both r respecting each other in good manner
    But in reality it doesn't happen in other couple
    After 10 years later we will see

  • @fatimaha3686
    @fatimaha3686 2 года назад +2

    I understand the orange thing cuz why does the peel proper get under your nails and everything

  • @samari5812
    @samari5812 2 года назад +1

    Mashallah 💜Baraka allahu lakouma

  • @propertyofallah3838
    @propertyofallah3838 Год назад +1

    17.12 remember there is no harm in joking as Long as it is truthful
    Mu’awiyyah ibn Haydah reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “Woe to one who tells lies to make people laugh. Woe to him! Woe to him!”
    Source: Sunan Abī Dāwūd 4990

  • @MohamedShou
    @MohamedShou 2 года назад +6

    Mashallah but how long where they married for? I feel like they still look new to married life? I personal would have waited 5 to 10 years and then give advice on how to have a successful marriage 🤷🏾‍♂️

  • @جنانالحلواني-س4ف
    @جنانالحلواني-س4ف 2 года назад

    ولدنا ربي يحفظه 🤲🏼🇱🇾 وكنتنا❤️🫶🏻

  • @salmanuur-bu3od
    @salmanuur-bu3od Год назад

    الله وحفظك ❤❤شوق مسطف❤❤

  • @faiza2601
    @faiza2601 2 года назад +1

    Wa aleykum salam wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuhu

  • @bushradjadi4307
    @bushradjadi4307 2 года назад +3

    Allahoma barek lahoma ❤️❤️

  • @selina241
    @selina241 2 года назад +1

    Walaikumsalam

  • @razorramone8125
    @razorramone8125 2 года назад

    You guys have still not said why you moved to Turkey….

  • @noooooooorieh
    @noooooooorieh 2 года назад +1

    ok what happened to giveaway 👀

  • @zeinabzeinab7667
    @zeinabzeinab7667 2 года назад +4

    Super educatieve

  • @kaylagerakios9431
    @kaylagerakios9431 2 года назад

    Where is Ahmed’s shirt from?!

  • @krushkrushemz1718
    @krushkrushemz1718 2 года назад

    walaikum mussalam

  • @zaynahzin969
    @zaynahzin969 2 года назад

    جزاكم الله خيرا

  • @youtubihor6922
    @youtubihor6922 2 года назад

    Make the translation

  • @fatimaghada3918
    @fatimaghada3918 2 года назад

    لويزا احسك حامل

  • @az71003
    @az71003 2 года назад

    0:05
    I didn’t know women also wear thoubs

  • @TolerantAcceptingModernCommuni
    @TolerantAcceptingModernCommuni 2 года назад +10

    I'd give it a couple years and a couple of kids before advising on a successful marriage.

    • @LOUMED
      @LOUMED  2 года назад +36

      We are speaking from our experience and what works for us inshallah once we have kids well continue doing what we’re doing … then we’ll do a part two and update you 😂😂 but always remember you can learn something from anyone don’t be so quick to shun others 🤍

    • @salinakashif5902
      @salinakashif5902 2 года назад +10

      Stop invalidating their experience go hate on someone else tolerant accepting modern community not really following your name. Some people can’t advise with years of experience in life others have amazing advice in their short time in dunya. Plus don’t have to have kids to have a successful marriage y’all y’all are being disrespectful. May Allah guide us all.

  • @y308A
    @y308A 2 года назад

    Free PS5