I’m 63, and at this point in my life I don’t have much interest in anyone who avoids looking me directly in the eye or avoids conflict at the expense of the truth. Body language is a pretty reliable indicator of lying. It’s important to refrain from justification and making excuses for others. I wish I’d learned that lesson at a younger age-but better now than never. Stay stoic and strong everyone!
I wish I had recognized this in people earlier as well. I turned 58 this month and I'm currently dealing with someone who I've been partnered with for a year and a half and I cannot truly say we've had one really deep conversation. I will not go into attachment styles but if you know anything about him I'm sure you know what I'm dealing with. I've seen so many inconsistencies in behavior, including body language over the course of our relationship and am just now letting myself accept it for what it truly is, lying. I will use the word deceit for a lot of the behavior because I like to differentiate lying and being deceitful lying to me is you are doing it like straight to my face consciously wine deceive is like you're lying to me but you're also lying to yourself and you probably done that your whole life and may not realize how you are coming off to the world at large.
Hmm.......I've encountered quite few people that could look you In the eyes and lie without batting an eyelash. Especially my last 2 exs. I have hard time trusting anyone anymore. And anymore one intentional lie I don't have much to do with them anymore. Rather clean my toilet than be in the presence of dishonest people. Better is an honest enemy than a lying friend
This video is a valuable reminder that honesty isn’t just in what we say, but also in subtle signals and unspoken gestures. Sometimes, the smallest changes in behavior are the clearest signs of deception - truly profound and practical. In life, facing the truth is never easy, especially from those we trust. This video offers insight into recognizing deception in a nuanced and rational way, helping us build relationships based on sincerity and trust.
If we are observant and subtle, we can easily recognize the other person's lying behavior through physical expressions such as: eyes, behavior or emotional attitude at that time! However, don't be too sensitive or you will become suspicious! That's why a stoic person always aims for subtlety and silence! Thanks for the information from the video!
I totally understand why you love your dog soooo much !! I feel exactly the same way about human beings around me. At work out on the streets and everywhere I go.
The video does a fantastic job of encouraging viewers to hold others accountable for their behavior. It’s a powerful message that emphasizes the importance of confronting avoidance and defensiveness, ultimately leading to healthier relationships built on honesty.
Deflection, yes is a clear sign.. Another one -- Especially those people who keep silent when you ask them a question...they are feeling guilty or simply they know the truths will damage a other individual whom they are trying to protect...and you are not important to them.
Close family members betray you the most, like my malicious narc sister, triangulation, word salad, boring monologues, NEGATIVE, ungrateful, in denial, fraude in new energy contracts of our mom & stephdad just to get a bonus, opportunist pathological liar, envy, hate (devil's advocate), not able to love others, selfish, ruining birthday & Christmas parties, using your weakness pushing your buttons on purpose, using flying monkeys, devaluating others, focused on others instead of looking inward. Overall dumb unhappy people, constantly looking for validation, copy cats of empaths, materialistic, living in a fantasy world. Blaming others for their chaos created. My stephdad never looks you in the eyes, shaking your hand (red flag).
@jacquelinevd.... Sister you nailed it!! 💯. Bad when family members are narcs. Its even more painful being married to one. Having TOTAL TRUST in someone, only to find out they've been deceiving you for 34 of 37 yrs being married is quite damaging. Healing is the NEXT OBJECTIVE. Stay strong. You deserve all the happiness life can hold. HONESTY is paramount. ❤
My sister too 😢 pathetic 🙄 WE DON'T TALK ANYMORE FOR THIS REASON BECAUSE I CAN'T STAND FAKE UNREALISTIC PEOPLE THAT ARE FAKE I LOVE ❤️ PEOPLE WHO ARE HONEST AND REAL WITH ME OTHERWISE I WALK AWAY AND I ALSO DON'T LOOK BACK OR GO BACK ANYMORE IT'S CALLED SELF RESPECT AND SELF WORTH 🎉🎉
@@WendyCarstens hi Wendy, went no contact as well forgood now. Malicious people are experts in manipulation skills as from childhood trauma, they chose to be a narcissist. I chose to be an empath people pleaser and need self-love. Not easy as mom passed away on September 11th 2024 I chose not to invite my hypocrite fake sister to the funeral. Where was this monster all these years, inaware that our mom nearly died twice in January and March to May 2024. My evil sister is a psychopath with Hoarding Disorder and abandonment issues. Strange this self-sabotage and focus to destroy family members out of envy and a hidden agenda to inherit her dads real esrate in Paramaribo and mom's finances. How did my sister know mom would die in her bed? She practices black magic, or winti voodoo.
I think we must have the same sister. All of the above plus ....... Not just Christmas or birthdays, but if someone had an achievement, we never ever had a special dinner to celebrate, because it would upset her too much and the dinner would be ruined anyway. One time something very special happened at school. I came home and told my mom, she was upstairs and listening and just about blew the house apart with her rage over how I'm always bragging, only told my mom in private. Also snooping, eavesdropping, spying, trying to get some kind of dirt on others. As an adult would try to bond with others and get them to drink and then press with personal questions. Actually took notes during personal phone conversations. (Glad I never drank with her, but knew others who did). Oh and suicide faking, as a manipulation. Self feeder, if there's only one left, she will take it, even if she doesn't really want it, just so someone else doesn't get it. Also stealing. One year all the gifts she gave to others for Christmas were stolen and she got caught and we returned them to the lady she worked for. Also stealing in such a way that someone else gets blamed. I didn't see lying in your comment, I guess that goes without saying, ha, ha, ha Haven't spoken to her in years, life is so much nicer.
I, too, lost a son to a health issue. What I needed was close conversation. What I got was being avoided by the group as individuals. They were trying us as if we were being judged. They were in a place where the other party - including me - needed 😢unvarnished integrity from their answers. There was not enough substantive content in the exchange to be worth the effort we were struggling through.
Not making eye contact doesnt mean you're a liar.i had a scar on my neck.or no sleep.eyes looked tied.or trying to look out for kids running around.white lies are good.sometimes they're needed.
Some of this is not necessarily true because I do become extremely defensive after I have had to explain myself over and over because the person doesn't like my explanation or I have to prove myself for not doing something that I didn't freaking do to begin with all the time I do get very very defensive and it's not because I'm guilty or shame it's because I'm freaking tired of having to explain myself for s*** I didn't do
The best lie 50 years ago.Wifey rings the pub,asking is my husband still at pub tea is ready..barmaid would say let me check...she would tell wifey "He has left here".and hubbie is still sitting at bar drinking.
This game is a scam. They literally just have mostly bots you fight against. And if you start winning too much. Then they team you up with the worst of the bots. All there reward give aways are a joke the only way you can win one of there give aways is buy spending money. There code or algorithm Is designed to make sure no one is winning anything. Literally I had direct shots right between the eyes, or middle of the chest with one of the strongest guns on the game from the recommended distance and it wouldn't even count it. The literal game itself is designed to make players get upset so they'll spend money. Your guns will start to shoot slower for no reason. Your shots won't count. And they'll put you up against a bot account with almost the best gear and robot on the game. After all if they used the best stuff they had all on one of there own. Then that would leave nothing able for someone to buy inorder to win.
Honestly, I’ve seen this happen with a girl and a guy, the guy was telling elaborate stories and usually what goes on in my mind is. Just how much bullshit is this person gonna talk about to impress this girl in front of them? And this girl can pretty much see right through it, and she even made comments on it.
I’m 63, and at this point in my life I don’t have much interest in anyone who avoids looking me directly in the eye or avoids conflict at the expense of the truth. Body language is a pretty reliable indicator of lying. It’s important to refrain from justification and making excuses for others. I wish I’d learned that lesson at a younger age-but better now than never. Stay stoic and strong everyone!
@@allisonnovak500 my stephdad Shakes peoples hand and doesn't look them in the eye. He mixes reality with fantasy I noticed at age 29
Yes, absolutely, we should never ignore what body language is saying.
I wish I had recognized this in people earlier as well. I turned 58 this month and I'm currently dealing with someone who I've been partnered with for a year and a half and I cannot truly say we've had one really deep conversation. I will not go into attachment styles but if you know anything about him I'm sure you know what I'm dealing with. I've seen so many inconsistencies in behavior, including body language over the course of our relationship and am just now letting myself accept it for what it truly is, lying. I will use the word deceit for a lot of the behavior because I like to differentiate lying and being deceitful lying to me is you are doing it like straight to my face consciously wine deceive is like you're lying to me but you're also lying to yourself and you probably done that your whole life and may not realize how you are coming off to the world at large.
Hmm.......I've encountered quite few people that could look you In the eyes and lie without batting an eyelash. Especially my last 2 exs. I have hard time trusting anyone anymore. And anymore one intentional lie I don't have much to do with them anymore. Rather clean my toilet than be in the presence of dishonest people. Better is an honest enemy than a lying friend
I don’t speak your language
So you unhinged me in the s response your e been seeking
Be happy in your bubble
I’ve moved on
This video is a valuable reminder that honesty isn’t just in what we say, but also in subtle signals and unspoken gestures. Sometimes, the smallest changes in behavior are the clearest signs of deception - truly profound and practical. In life, facing the truth is never easy, especially from those we trust. This video offers insight into recognizing deception in a nuanced and rational way, helping us build relationships based on sincerity and trust.
If we are observant and subtle, we can easily recognize the other person's lying behavior through physical expressions such as: eyes, behavior or emotional attitude at that time! However, don't be too sensitive or you will become suspicious! That's why a stoic person always aims for subtlety and silence! Thanks for the information from the video!
I ALSO LOVE ❤️ AND TRUST MY DOGS 🐕 MORE THAN PEOPLE 🎉❤😊 ANYONE ELSE AGREE WITH ME IT'S MORE PEACEFUL ✌️ ❤🎉😊
ABSOLUTELY!My 3 girls 🐕🦮🐕🦺 give nothing but true, unconditional LOVE ❤️ ❤❤
I’ve always felt more connection to nature, to my dogs… Then most of humanity… Always
I totally understand why you love your dog soooo much !!
I feel exactly the same way about human beings around me. At work out on the streets and everywhere I go.
We human beings are very complicated creatures. 😂😅😂
It’s my cat for me !❤❤
The video does a fantastic job of encouraging viewers to hold others accountable for their behavior. It’s a powerful message that emphasizes the importance of confronting avoidance and defensiveness, ultimately leading to healthier relationships built on honesty.
Deflection, yes is a clear sign..
Another one --
Especially those people who keep silent when you ask them a question...they are feeling guilty or simply they know the truths will damage a other individual whom they are trying to protect...and you are not important to them.
Thank you very much for this lessons.I. like them, cause i Learn a lot.i can recognize some of the items by soe people.Thank you so much.
My Husband did all these signs when he was having an affair.
Damn shame how many males are trash
Trust ONLY GOD & MY DOG
I'm nearly 50 and i only recently learned to save advice unless I'm asked for it!
Fortunately, i see through psychopaths. Psychopaths don't change
A bit wordy, but fantastic info! Thanks!!! ❤❤❤
We're once again be reminded by The Power of Now....
"Wealth consists not in having great possessions, but in having few wants." - Epictetus
the truth
Close family members betray you the most, like my malicious narc sister, triangulation, word salad, boring monologues, NEGATIVE, ungrateful, in denial, fraude in new energy contracts of our mom & stephdad just to get a bonus, opportunist pathological liar, envy, hate (devil's advocate), not able to love others, selfish, ruining birthday & Christmas parties, using your weakness pushing your buttons on purpose, using flying monkeys, devaluating others, focused on others instead of looking inward. Overall dumb unhappy people, constantly looking for validation, copy cats of empaths, materialistic, living in a fantasy world. Blaming others for their chaos created.
My stephdad never looks you in the eyes, shaking your hand (red flag).
@jacquelinevd.... Sister you nailed it!! 💯. Bad when family members are narcs. Its even more painful being married to one. Having TOTAL TRUST in someone, only to find out they've been deceiving you for 34 of 37 yrs being married is quite damaging. Healing is the NEXT OBJECTIVE.
Stay strong. You deserve all the happiness life can hold. HONESTY is paramount. ❤
I Have also faced this. But all things aside, I hope you find your peace with your family and loved one. God bless you.
My sister too 😢 pathetic 🙄
WE DON'T TALK ANYMORE FOR THIS REASON BECAUSE I CAN'T STAND FAKE UNREALISTIC PEOPLE THAT ARE FAKE
I LOVE ❤️ PEOPLE WHO ARE HONEST AND REAL WITH ME OTHERWISE I WALK AWAY AND I ALSO DON'T LOOK BACK OR GO BACK ANYMORE
IT'S CALLED SELF RESPECT AND SELF WORTH 🎉🎉
@@WendyCarstens hi Wendy, went no contact as well forgood now. Malicious people are experts in manipulation skills as from childhood trauma, they chose to be a narcissist. I chose to be an empath people pleaser and need self-love. Not easy as mom passed away on September 11th 2024 I chose not to invite my hypocrite fake sister to the funeral. Where was this monster all these years, inaware that our mom nearly died twice in January and March to May 2024. My evil sister is a psychopath with Hoarding Disorder and abandonment issues. Strange this self-sabotage and focus to destroy family members out of envy and a hidden agenda to inherit her dads real esrate in Paramaribo and mom's finances. How did my sister know mom would die in her bed? She practices black magic, or winti voodoo.
I think we must have the same sister. All of the above plus ....... Not just Christmas or birthdays, but if someone had an achievement, we never ever had a special dinner to celebrate, because it would upset her too much and the dinner would be ruined anyway. One time something very special happened at school. I came home and told my mom, she was upstairs and listening and just about blew the house apart with her rage over how I'm always bragging, only told my mom in private.
Also snooping, eavesdropping, spying, trying to get some kind of dirt on others. As an adult would try to bond with others and get them to drink and then press with personal questions. Actually took notes during personal phone conversations. (Glad I never drank with her, but knew others who did).
Oh and suicide faking, as a manipulation.
Self feeder, if there's only one left, she will take it, even if she doesn't really want it, just so someone else doesn't get it. Also stealing. One year all the gifts she gave to others for Christmas were stolen and she got caught and we returned them to the lady she worked for. Also stealing in such a way that someone else gets blamed.
I didn't see lying in your comment, I guess that goes without saying, ha, ha, ha
Haven't spoken to her in years, life is so much nicer.
Since the death of my son I battle to look people in the eye. That does not make me a liar ...
I am so sorry to hear about your loss. Please take care of yourself.
I, too, lost a son to a health issue. What I needed was close conversation.
What I got was being avoided by the group as individuals.
They were trying us as if we were being judged.
They were in a place where the other party - including me - needed 😢unvarnished integrity from their answers. There was not enough substantive content in the exchange to be worth the effort we were struggling through.
Speak the truth even if your voice shakes.
9:24… 😂 Jake sounds like my landlord. 🙄
Not making eye contact doesnt mean you're a liar.i had a scar on my neck.or no sleep.eyes looked tied.or trying to look out for kids running around.white lies are good.sometimes they're needed.
There is only ONE SIGN: The mouth opens.
Thats true.
It depends on what their intentions and motives are for asking that question
And when they do ask a question, always respond by why are you asking the question first to see where they’re coming from as well?
The lies NEVER STOP😂😂😂LIES COVERING NEXT SET OF LIES😂😂
Thank you Gods blessings in Jesus name amen
Some of this is not necessarily true because I do become extremely defensive after I have had to explain myself over and over because the person doesn't like my explanation or I have to prove myself for not doing something that I didn't freaking do to begin with all the time I do get very very defensive and it's not because I'm guilty or shame it's because I'm freaking tired of having to explain myself for s*** I didn't do
❤this
No need to watch this video to know. When someone Envy's you they could never genuinely like you let alone love you. Don't let these videos fool you.
The best lie 50 years ago.Wifey rings the pub,asking is my husband still at pub tea is ready..barmaid would say let me check...she would tell wifey "He has left here".and hubbie is still sitting at bar drinking.
It is as if the barmaid is "paid" to lie!!
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This game is a scam. They literally just have mostly bots you fight against. And if you start winning too much. Then they team you up with the worst of the bots. All there reward give aways are a joke the only way you can win one of there give aways is buy spending money. There code or algorithm Is designed to make sure no one is winning anything. Literally I had direct shots right between the eyes, or middle of the chest with one of the strongest guns on the game from the recommended distance and it wouldn't even count it. The literal game itself is designed to make players get upset so they'll spend money. Your guns will start to shoot slower for no reason. Your shots won't count. And they'll put you up against a bot account with almost the best gear and robot on the game. After all if they used the best stuff they had all on one of there own. Then that would leave nothing able for someone to buy inorder to win.
Silence and non response means
A big f…. You. So pay attention or you will get messed up in the head
Never walk away from someone who is angry with you.
Oh, so when the going gets tough just stick around and see what happens?? What is that going to accomplish?? Better to let cool heads prevail!
Fortunately, they will walk away. You don't have to walk away
Honestly, I’ve seen this happen with a girl and a guy, the guy was telling elaborate stories and usually what goes on in my mind is. Just how much bullshit is this person gonna talk about to impress this girl in front of them? And this girl can pretty much see right through it, and she even made comments on it.
Seem Familiar? Kamela