Worth noting, psychopaths does not feel discomfort when lying, their inner world is very different than neurotypicals, they don't have alot of the signs mentioned in this video, they also are more likely to act out if not believed
I have noticed that liars sometimes gulp before they lie. I found this out because of a situation and exposure of deceptive person. One thing about these kinds of people, they are like robots, they are easy to recognise because of the patterns just like a computer they run programs. The person that has been lying about me always gulps before the lie and then scratches their face ever so slightly. I would watch this pattern over a period of time.
My ex always took a deep breath and then cleared his throat before lying, as though he was trying to slow appear more calm or slow himself down. But it always came across as forced and unnatural. Turns out it's his "tick" when he lies
I call BS on the hand gestures. Shy people don’t like attention and are often accused of being liars when they prefer to be left alone to do live their quiet peaceful life not disturbing people… people’s thoughts disturb them, no excuse to disturb someone else.
What you and many others says about body language does not always apply to persons who have adhd or are autistic. I get annoyed that people think every person react or act the same or have the same body language. Stimming for example is common among persons who have adhd or are autistic and eye contact can be hard for both of them. That does absolutely not mean that they are lying.
Context is key... establish a baseline on what their normal body language is over a prolonged period of time then identify what stressor triggers them and what they do in reaction to said stressor(s).. I'm not an expert but that's what I've learned from YT
Like he said in the video, be nice and normal with them to see what they're like usually then when you bring out the heavy questions/scenarios you can see how effects them
@@skitz-oh exactly its just that so many women wont ask any heavy questions or give their opinions so they never get to see reactions. I get to see them straightaway because I just give my opinions on things and you can see their reactions . Discomfort on their face and they won't engage. They can pretend but the discomfort never lies.
I read somewhere that the first born has a higher chance of being a psychopath. The older sibling usually does seem to lack emotions compared to their younger sibling. Some even bully their young siblings. For no reason...for fun.
I'm such a chump, after a lifetime you'd think you'd know how to spot it. I think we really just want to believe that most people have good intentions and good hearts but unfortunately, that's far from true. The thing is to not assume that everyone is being truthful or lying, find the middle ground bb
Generally you will figure out be it in males or females specially about what they lie,its funny,cunning and at the same time either ridiculous or purely hateful when you figure out
even if a person is relaxed an u ask em a question they will still lie in ur face an Deney it an say that its all in ur head crap talk...if a person is a liar they are a liar doesn't matter what mood u ask them in..an wen u do ask em an they feel that u caught em out they will jst end up screaming an yelling in ur face an say that they didn't do anything knowing u no that they did...
Just because you are forced to scream (or even use force after giving several warnings), doesn't mean you are lying. Sometimes even honest, calm and patient people are forced to scream (or use force) to exert boundaries, when they are outnumbered by liars, narcissists and flying monkeys. Context is the key. You have every right to scream (or use force) if a liar transgresses your boundaries.
I've known a few pathological liars. They were not immediately detectable, and each had their style, but after a long time getting to know them, I realized that each of them had their "tells." One had a regular story about all the women's phone numbers he'd collected that day, but could never seem to produce one on demand. Another had a similar regular tale about random strangers, men and women alike, who approached her just to tell her how beautiful she was. This never happened in my presence. Harmless enough I suppose, until you take it into a marriage, My ex-wife used to get an airy, singsong quality to her voice when she was being deceptive, a detail I discovered too late to save me. When she really needed me to take in the lie, she would massage my bicep in a distractingly pleasing way, the bigger and fouler the pill to swallow, the more intense the kneading. I'm sorry to say that it worked, right up until it didn't. Study the baseline behavior; it will highlight the tells. Trust your gut. If it smells disingenuous, it probably is.
It's difficult to diagnose with so little information, but it's definitely not a good sign. I don't know the context that this person tends to do it, but generally it implies a lack of respect for the other person involved and often a feeling of superiority of the person doing the eye rolling.
When someone rolls their eyes when you make a statement or voice an opinion or at a comment you might make during the course of a conversation it’s a big red flag it means that they are discrediting you They are saying your dumb, your wrong , your comments are not worthy to be noted , it means your useless and you should keep your mouth shut Think of the last thing you did or said before the rolling of the eyes and you’ll soon work out what that person really thinks of you good luck.
@@robertnelson1526perhaps they are signalling to others present to not take what is being said as truth. When my mum with dementia is making up stories about what happened today, l use eye rolling as a signal to let others know what's happening without saying it out loud and consequently triggering an argument. Eg, she's saying she already had a shower today and had her medications... but l've been with her all day, and she has a pattern of hiding the pills and going days without showering. Maybe l need a new signal for the other carers?
You have to consider motive and purpose of lying together with evidence and witnesses. Otherwise a liar will talk you round in circles! Everything else is questionable. E g both an innocent and guilty person might well become loud and animated when defending themselves. Similarly, both might shout over the other and may also present with defensive body language. All there is, intuition .... Also, consider long term behaviours that unfold some time after a crime has been commissioned that might indicate guilt.
So I had to come back because I’ve been watching these lie detector videos. The one I just watched after this one said their Number 1 thing to look for is hand gestures. Excessive gestures mean a person is being deceptive. They say excessive hand gestures is how people will release nervous energy when lying.
They might just be releasing nervous energy for other reasons. They might have Asperger's syndrome (autism). People with AS are notorious for exaggerated hand gestures/body language.
You have to consider motive and purpose of lying together with evidence and witnesses. Otherwise a liar will have you well and truly screwed, particularly if the perpetrator is backed up by others with their own agenda/personal axe to grind/ modus operandi... Everything else is questionable. E g both an innocent and guilty person might well become loud and animated when defending themselves. Similarly, both might shout over the other and may also present with defensive body language. All there is, intuition ....
'You can learn how to have comfortable conversation with people where they don't feel nervous, even when you're trying to get personal information out of them'? Wow, that's...um...deceptive at worst, manipulative at best(?). Is this a parody or satire video or something like that?
You have to know what a person's base personality and behaviors are before you can successfully detect deception.
Worth noting, psychopaths does not feel discomfort when lying, their inner world is very different than neurotypicals, they don't have alot of the signs mentioned in this video, they also are more likely to act out if not believed
I have noticed that liars sometimes gulp before they lie.
I found this out because of a situation and exposure of deceptive person.
One thing about these kinds of people,
they are like robots, they are easy to recognise because of the patterns just like a computer they run programs. The person that has been lying about me always gulps before the lie and then scratches their face ever so slightly. I would watch this pattern over a period of time.
My ex always took a deep breath and then cleared his throat before lying, as though he was trying to slow appear more calm or slow himself down. But it always came across as forced and unnatural. Turns out it's his "tick" when he lies
The gulp is a fear response
I call BS on the hand gestures. Shy people don’t like attention and are often accused of being liars when they prefer to be left alone to do live their quiet peaceful life not disturbing people… people’s thoughts disturb them, no excuse to disturb someone else.
Ask a question and the answer goes up in volume out of “normal” state or they give a negative responses to throw off the question….
they also laugh in your face when you ask why theyre lying.. its so discustig .
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My ex would skirt uncomfortable questions by saying 'I dont know about that', 'can we move on already', and change the subject.
Thankfully, that person's your ex now.
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Thanks this was really helpful now im an even better liar 🎉🎉
What you and many others says about body language does not always apply to persons who have adhd or are autistic. I get annoyed that people think every person react or act the same or have the same body language. Stimming for example is common among persons who have adhd or are autistic and eye contact can be hard for both of them. That does absolutely not mean that they are lying.
Context is key... establish a baseline on what their normal body language is over a prolonged period of time then identify what stressor triggers them and what they do in reaction to said stressor(s).. I'm not an expert but that's what I've learned from YT
Like he said in the video, be nice and normal with them to see what they're like usually then when you bring out the heavy questions/scenarios you can see how effects them
look for discomfort like he said, in any context when you have a normal conversation with them.
@@skitz-oh exactly its just that so many women wont ask any heavy questions or give their opinions so they never get to see reactions. I get to see them straightaway because I just give my opinions on things and you can see their reactions . Discomfort on their face and they won't engage. They can pretend but the discomfort never lies.
I was thinking this as well.
Well narcissist rage when caught they get mad like they may hit u
Exactly!
Got backhanded by a chick when I called her out.
Or walks in the door ready to fight.
Sometimes they utilize flying monkeys (who have no business being there to intervene in the conversation) to hit you for them.
What about hiding hands mid conversation.? They were on the desk, and then both went down under the table.
I love your videos, you have so much knowledge and expertise
Thank you, I really appreciate that.
Can relate to that And have come across with people.
I read somewhere that the first born has a higher chance of being a psychopath.
The older sibling usually does seem to lack emotions compared to their younger sibling. Some even bully their young siblings. For no reason...for fun.
I asked my chick some questions and literally did the complete opposite so I think she’s not lying like my mind thinks
I'm curious how a person with dementia would score on your tests?
I'm such a chump, after a lifetime you'd think you'd know how to spot it. I think we really just want to believe that most people have good intentions and good hearts but unfortunately, that's far from true. The thing is to not assume that everyone is being truthful or lying, find the middle ground bb
Generally you will figure out be it in males or females specially about what they lie,its funny,cunning and at the same time either ridiculous or purely hateful when you figure out
even if a person is relaxed an u ask em a question they will still lie in ur face an Deney it an say that its all in ur head crap talk...if a person is a liar they are a liar doesn't matter what mood u ask them in..an wen u do ask em an they feel that u caught em out they will jst end up screaming an yelling in ur face an say that they didn't do anything knowing u no that they did...
So true or say thhey dont want to talk about it! Especially in a gf/bf relationship
Just because you are forced to scream (or even use force after giving several warnings), doesn't mean you are lying. Sometimes even honest, calm and patient people are forced to scream (or use force) to exert boundaries, when they are outnumbered by liars, narcissists and flying monkeys. Context is the key. You have every right to scream (or use force) if a liar transgresses your boundaries.
I've known a few pathological liars. They were not immediately detectable, and each had their style, but after a long time getting to know them, I realized that each of them had their "tells." One had a regular story about all the women's phone numbers he'd collected that day, but could never seem to produce one on demand. Another had a similar regular tale about random strangers, men and women alike, who approached her just to tell her how beautiful she was. This never happened in my presence. Harmless enough I suppose, until you take it into a marriage, My ex-wife used to get an airy, singsong quality to her voice when she was being deceptive, a detail I discovered too late to save me. When she really needed me to take in the lie, she would massage my bicep in a distractingly pleasing way, the bigger and fouler the pill to swallow, the more intense the kneading. I'm sorry to say that it worked, right up until it didn't.
Study the baseline behavior; it will highlight the tells. Trust your gut. If it smells disingenuous, it probably is.
I feel like my boyfriend is lying. He always has a fake yawn when he tries to tell something
correction body language is not universal. Autistic body language is different to neurotypical body language.
I am dating someone who constantly rolls his eye and I just don’t understand why he does it so often.
It's difficult to diagnose with so little information, but it's definitely not a good sign. I don't know the context that this person tends to do it, but generally it implies a lack of respect for the other person involved and often a feeling of superiority of the person doing the eye rolling.
Does he wear contacts? Could be the reason
I think it’s called contempt.
When someone rolls their eyes when you make a statement or voice an opinion or at a comment you might make during the course of a conversation it’s a big red flag it means that they are discrediting you They are saying your dumb, your wrong , your comments are not worthy to be noted , it means your useless and you should keep your mouth shut Think of the last thing you did or said before the rolling of the eyes and you’ll soon work out what that person really thinks of you good luck.
@@robertnelson1526perhaps they are signalling to others present to not take what is being said as truth. When my mum with dementia is making up stories about what happened today, l use eye rolling as a signal to let others know what's happening without saying it out loud and consequently triggering an argument. Eg, she's saying she already had a shower today and had her medications... but l've been with her all day, and she has a pattern of hiding the pills and going days without showering. Maybe l need a new signal for the other carers?
You have to consider motive and purpose of lying together with evidence and witnesses. Otherwise a liar will talk you round in circles!
Everything else is questionable. E g both an innocent and guilty person might well become loud and animated when defending themselves. Similarly, both might shout over the other and may also present with defensive body language.
All there is, intuition .... Also, consider long term behaviours that unfold some time after a crime has been commissioned that might indicate guilt.
What about psychopaths. Can’t they avoid these sign of body language?
So I had to come back because I’ve been watching these lie detector videos. The one I just watched after this one said their Number 1 thing to look for is hand gestures. Excessive gestures mean a person is being deceptive. They say excessive hand gestures is how people will release nervous energy when lying.
They might just be releasing nervous energy for other reasons. They might have Asperger's syndrome (autism). People with AS are notorious for exaggerated hand gestures/body language.
It's also self comfort
TRUTH
You have to consider motive and purpose of lying together with evidence and witnesses. Otherwise a liar will have you well and truly screwed, particularly if the perpetrator is backed up by others with their own agenda/personal axe to grind/ modus operandi...
Everything else is questionable. E g both an innocent and guilty person might well become loud and animated when defending themselves. Similarly, both might shout over the other and may also present with defensive body language.
All there is, intuition ....
Amazing
BS totally
Is Iyanla Vanzant deceptive? #IyanlaFixMyLife
" It's not a lie, if you believe it" - George Constanza
'You can learn how to have comfortable conversation with people where they don't feel nervous, even when you're trying to get personal information out of them'? Wow, that's...um...deceptive at worst, manipulative at best(?). Is this a parody or satire video or something like that?
Says palms up is deceptive, holds one palm up the entire video.
His palm is not flat though, which makes a huge difference
And it's "palms" up...not one hand
@@kileensmith5134 ok… ok…. “Two palms up in concession”.
Yes it is distracting
Wow
you move your hands to much when you talk -- it is distracting from the point you are verbally trying to get over to the viewer.
Let me tell you how to lie to anyone. Make yourself believe the lie you're telling, and no one can figure it out. You're welcome.
Lack of eye contact,distracting attention
This guy who is talking in the webinar right now he’s a liar
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Get to the point kmt
Maybe the truth might be paranormal. and inductronation from common education interferes,
LMAO
This is a bad video. This guy is lying to us about liars.
All you have to do is watch Republicans politicians especially Trump
Not true.
You mean Kamala and Biden....well any democrat
When it comes to body language one size does not fit all ,different cultures different body language .
Easy, are they a lawyer, judge, da, cop, etc? Boom lying
Wth is this comment, so person that is not in that profession can't lie in their private life??!
My x friend is habitual lyer