Why Did You Cheat? One Couple Confronts Each Other On Infidelity | Iris
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- Опубликовано: 9 окт 2017
- From the makers of "Hurt Bae" comes another episode in the "Broken" series, exploring cheating and infidelity. Ana and Ballesa came together to talk about how infidelity impacted their relationship.
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Cheating destroys a persons self worth. Just leave instead of cheating. People suck
MeLIsSa H it really does. It’s so unfair.
Ikr i would disappear if my lover cheated
Humanity is the worst monster
@@sophiayamagughi same
Yeah people suck.Because people only see only one perspective.Yes cheating is fucked up.But she did feel remorse afterwards she did regret it.People sometimes need to learn how to see and understand other perspectives and they need to forgive sometimes.Cause we all fuck up.No Im not saying cheating is alright.Obviously it fucking sucks.But at least in this instant they worked things out and they're now stronger than ever together.And I think thats a win.A win that wouldnt have happened if they let it go and didnt forgive.
I hate how the girl with long hair played the victim when she is the one at fault. The girl with glasses doesn’t deserve this, she was loyal.
Yuna fr
The cheater always plays victim.
She ugly anyways
Facts, I peeped that real quick lol . My head turned to the left like "Oh no she didn't start that victim crap." lol
No she didn't play the victim she was sad that's what it seem to me.... they both love eachother and love therelationship they're in, they both were sad of what they did to eachother
Long haired girl is so manipulative. She's trying to play the victim. She cheated first... You brought this upon yourself.
She's a sket innit
I know it was pissing me off the whole time
Dread when she had the nerve to say, “I died a little inside.” when she realized that she cheated it made me angry. REALIZED?! 😒🙄
Yup
@@tieiatalks She means that she was caught up in that moment and at first she hadnt realized what shed done.I didnt get mad.She said she felt horrible about it.
“When you cheated on me”
First off, they weren’t together anymore, I love how the girl with the long hair is playing victim. Like sweetie everything happened because of your actions
Ikr I hate that
Exactly and instead of continuing it she told her right away, this makes me so mad!
soccerchick9841 they never split up, short haired girl said she needed space but they never specified a break up/break
soccerchick9841 they never officially split one girl just wanted some space
Farah Fabre wanting space is technically wanting to break up. She even said that she was suffocating her
“I was expecting you to yell, and you being silent was so much worse”. That hit me hard.
omg
same ugh
Leah Eteuati yes! I felt that through the screen
That was more scary being silent
Means you're dead to me 😂😂😂
I honestly I hate how the chick with the long hair kept trying to play victim when she’s the one that started this whole cycle.
There is no right or wrong here. :)
The wrong was her cheating in the first place. I’m glad they worked it out and powered through it but she did begin the cycle but it takes real effort to forgive and forget
And her eyebrows reached the start of her nose 💀
@@shortcake8612 okay? Mine do the same. I know you don’t like her, I really don’t too but to make fun of her eyebrows when it’s something she can’t control and other people have the same thing it’s straight up bullying!!
She got an excuse to start the victim
The fact that the long hair girl is acting as if she’s the victim irritates me🤦🏼♀️
Same
I feel no one deserves to be in a relationship with a narcissist they are terrible people that feel entitled thank God for my friend who referred me to an hacker and i was able to hack my narcissist partner's phone, all i did was to share his phone number with (geniustracker) without touching his phone and see all the proofs i needed for a divorce and even terrible things they had planned contact John to help he is a genius. You can text/call +1 (415) 323-6758 or reach him on WhatsApp +1 (724) 330-3252 and also write to Via Gmail (geniustracker701) and don't forget to thank me later...
Typical female trait of not wanting to be accountable.
skittles she was at first not the victim but she became a victim herself when the same thing happened they both were victims
@@makoma_lotus8116 hahaha “typical female trait” you are delusional. it’s not a “female” trait, you must not respect women because plenty of men also have this trait. Any human can have this trait.
Why is cheating becoming a normal thing? Df is wrong with people.
jayley it’s scary isn’t it
Probably because people don’t find love and sex as important and serious as it is anymore. I’m just going off of what has just happened to me. My fiancé, I have been with him since 9th grade and I’m 20 now, cheated on me with a friend we had had since 8th grade and it was cold and calculated and god it hurt and I’m still hurting cus it just happened man. He wanted the sex, drugs, and rock ‘n’ roll with no responsibility, while I wanted kids and a career and be good at what I do some day. I’m a shell now cus of him and my so called friend
I feel no one deserves to be in a relationship with a narcissist they are terrible people that feel entitled thank God for my friend who referred me to an hacker and i was able to hack my narcissist partner's phone, all i did was to share his phone number with (geniustracker) without touching his phone and see all the proofs i needed for a divorce and even terrible things they had planned contact John to help he is a genius. You can text/call +1 (415) 323-6758 or reach him on WhatsApp +1 (724) 330-3252 and also write to Via Gmail (geniustracker701) and don't forget to thank me later...
Well normally people cheat on someone because they abuse them or hurt there kids and abusers definitely deserve to be cheated on but in this case this is just selfishness
People have been cheating since forever. today’s digital age just makes it easier for cheaters to be caught
Cheating isn't a mistake it's a choice. You don't cheat on someone you love .
And your statement is 100% correct. It's actually a fact.
Yes, you can cheat on someone you love. People are complex and they make mistakes. Not all relationships or marriages end when someone is unfaithful. People are not black and white.
@@shelbyt1626 beeppp. .wrong ..sorry
@@shelbyt1626 if you want to cheat. .Don marry..don't be in a relationship. .simple dear..😊
@@thimitrakipreou1800 Things are not black and white. You're a child :)
of course the one that cheated first plays the victim
Katalina everytime
was thinking the same damn thing! smh
Typical narcissistic bitches smh
Katalina which one?
RIGHT
Long Hair Girl: "When you started cheating--"
Me: Stfu. Stfu right now LOL
Ikr, I said the same thing too
LOL
Ikr
😂😂😂
Why cheat, if you bored with your partner, be honest and go a separate way, a cheater always got an excuse, and will always do it again, once a cheater, always a cheater, is in the blood.
Like seriously.....just he in an open relationship if you don't think you can be faithful
I feel no one deserves to be in a relationship with a narcissist they are terrible people that feel entitled thank God for my friend who referred me to an hacker and i was able to hack my narcissist partner's phone, all i did was to share his phone number with (geniustracker) without touching his phone and see all the proofs i needed for a divorce and even terrible things they had planned contact John to help he is a genius. You can text/call +1 (415) 323-6758 or reach him on WhatsApp +1 (724) 330-3252 and also write to Via Gmail (geniustracker701) and don't forget to thank me later...
That’s not true. I’ve cheated on exes but never on my husband.
Lyan's Life seriously? You don’t TRY to change you just change. Stop making excuses or stay single...doesn’t seem too hard. How could it possibly be so hard just not to do something? Sheesh!
Lyan's Life It’s the “I’m trying to change” part that I don’t get. You don’t try, you DO. You can’t undo what happened but you can choose to do better moving forward. The guilt is a good thing...shows you have a heart. Decide to never do it again and forgive yourself. If you know how bad it feels why would you ever want to do it again? Learn the lesson and grow. Period.
The one with the Glasses deserves so much better..the other just seems really immature and so cold
Cathy D. True
Agreed! Clearly she didn't love the girl with the green shirt. She can find someone who WON'T cheat on her!
Totally agree
Really? I didn't see that at all. I felt like they both made a big mistake, and I thought the one that did it first clearly showed remorse, even after all the time that had passed, you can still see how sorry she is.
People who cheat are immature and cold. Like honestly if ppl habe problems in their relationship, break up first
Why do cheaters act surprised and heartbroken when their partner cheats back on them smh
I agree with you on that like really
Hope Aldana ikr
IKR
@@RZanja Main reason why I don't trust women at all u cheat on a good dude but yet he is another chick a compliment nothing else she want to be in her feelings seriously Fuck u
It's because once you make a new commitment, you hope that together you hold each other to a new level and standard. Once either cheats again, you open up the old wound, and you come to realize that you are not on the same page in your relationship. This is why it can be shocking.
“When I realized what had been done” bro why do people act like they REALIZE they cheated when they knew wtf they was doing that entire time. People who cheat are people who aren’t comfortable being alone. If you can’t handle not seeing your partner when they gotta be away for a hot minute, and you cheat as a result of it- you didn’t love them. I don’t understand the logic of “I couldn’t take the distance” bc even if you couldn’t- if you truly love someone, it’s always gonna be them no matter what. Fuck cheaters.
Even phrasing it that way was so passive! She should have said, “What I had done” and taken active ownership.
That’s your own idea of a relationship. Putting everything in the same category of everyone being monogamous is being dishonest. But i do agree if someone feels like they can’t sustain monogamy they should let their partner know. Polygamy doesn’t mean you don’t love the person. Love comes in different shapes and forms 🤷🏽♀️
WendyCinderea I got no problems with polygamy. In fact, I personally am for it because it makes it so that the people who a polyamorous can navigate the world and pursue their own relationships with 100% authenticity. That’s no issue with me. But I do take issue with people claiming something is polygamy when the other person in the relationship didn’t consent to it. That’s mf cheating.
I feel no one deserves to be in a relationship with a narcissist they are terrible people that feel entitled thank God for my friend who referred me to an hacker and i was able to hack my narcissist partner's phone, all i did was to share his phone number with (geniustracker) without touching his phone and see all the proofs i needed for a divorce and even terrible things they had planned contact John to help he is a genius. You can text/call +1 (415) 323-6758 or reach him on WhatsApp +1 (724) 330-3252 and also write to Via Gmail (geniustracker701) and don't forget to thank me later...
This.
No one:
Literally no one:
The whole comment section:
Long hair girl
Short hair girl
😆😆
@Rius. Zamani well I hope this is not an ad and let me ease your pain by sharing one thing that you have listened probably a million times.. the right one will never leave and never hurt you, even if IT does hurt you IT will also be ashamed and will want to get back to you if IT has the true intentions to. Hope this helped you and made your day better :)
😅🤣
@Rius. Zamani no you didn't
If it's the whole comment section, how come it's "nobody"..???
The girl who cheated, I see no love in her eyes.
Olga rwck it's not authentic.
Well they both cheated but i know who youre referring to
Vi Oig the one with glasses didn’t cheat only the one with long hair did.
Charlotte D They said they took a break and at 4:28 the one with the glasses said she hooked up with someone else, they didn't split, they were still in a relationship together, they just took a break.
i️ mean. didn’t they both cheat
Cheating isn’t a mistake, it’s a choice.
Bingo
Doesn’t mean you can’t love !
emily .... I agree
Facts 👏🏿
Juan Vasquez bull fucking shit. You don’t love someone that you cheat on and hurt like that. Why is that always the male lie Juan?
The girl in the short hair looks hurt, poor thing. Why would someone want to cheat? Unless the relationship wasn’t healthy, in this case that doesn’t seem to be.
It proves that it’s always on the cheater.
Because someone looks good they can’t be cheated on?
She cheated too thi
Same way Jay z cheated on Beyonce
Love doesnt love no one!
"I was expecting you to yell...but you being silent, was so much worst."
I feel no one deserves to be in a relationship with a narcissist they are terrible people that feel entitled thank God for my friend who referred me to an hacker and i was able to hack my narcissist partner's phone, all i did was to share his phone number with (geniustracker) without touching his phone and see all the proofs i needed for a divorce and even terrible things they had planned contact John to help he is a genius. You can text/call +1 (415) 323-6758 or reach him on WhatsApp +1 (724) 330-3252 and also write to Via Gmail (geniustracker701) and don't forget to thank me later...
She's playing the victim duh
Dont expect so u dont get hurt,,,but I really wish she just yell so there's no more sentence like that lol
either be loyal in a relationship or don’t be in one????? it’s literally that simple
Food Food . Preach.
Big. Facts.
Preach!!!!! Amen to that!
Food Food 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼❤️
Facts
After a person cheats. It’s never really the same. Scars being bandaged together are still scars bleeding eternally. You forgive but you don’t forget.
jazz minn agreed. Forgiving is not forgetting. -paramore
You don´t forget and you don´t have to. It´s an experience you got with a lot of pain and a broken heart. But forgiving is the best you can do. Hating is the wrong way. Revenge is the wrong way. I can understand if you want to hurt the person as much as they hurt you. But it´s not the answer. Me and my partner often talked about what happened when we got together the second time. It helped so much. Yes the scars are not healed yet and yes they bleed some times. But you both or even you alone can fix this with forgiving and loving.
Trust is like an egg. Hard to obtein, and so easy to break... People must think twice! Don't do to anyone what you wouldn't like someone make to youuuuu
jazz minn y'all so extra omg she just cheated it's not the end of the world holy crap
You explained it perfectly
The girl with the glasses is the victim not the girl with long hair. The girl with the short hair deserves way better. She is a beautiful girl (I don't like but she is pretty).
I feel no one deserves to be in a relationship with a narcissist they are terrible people that feel entitled thank God for my friend who referred me to an hacker and i was able to hack my narcissist partner's phone, all i did was to share his phone number with (geniustracker) without touching his phone and see all the proofs i needed for a divorce and even terrible things they had planned contact John to help he is a genius. You can text/call +1 (415) 323-6758 or reach him on WhatsApp +1 (724) 330-3252 and also write to Via Gmail (geniustracker701) and don't forget to thank me later...
My heart goes out for the girl in the glasses.
I feel no one deserves to be in a relationship with a narcissist they are terrible people that feel entitled thank God for my friend who referred me to an hacker and i was able to hack my narcissist partner's phone, all i did was to share his phone number with (geniustracker) without touching his phone and see all the proofs i needed for a divorce and even terrible things they had planned contact John to help he is a genius. You can text/call +1 (415) 323-6758 or reach him on WhatsApp +1 (724) 330-3252 and also write to Via Gmail (geniustracker701) and don't forget to thank me later...
Alexander Hayward bro you goofy
I think I fell more in love with you even when you weren't there.
Damn.
My
Heart
Leslie Petty RIGHT
💔
Felt that 😔
😭😭
I knew she wanted to say "and I fell less in love with you"
they weren't together after she cheated. so glasses didn't cheat
It sounds like they were still together but taking some distance
“We were on a breaaaaak”
Trinity Smith yes she did. they were still together
Trinity Smith exactly. The long haired one just wants to have 1:1 situation but haha honey YOU were the one who cheated. 0:1
I like how you named her glasses 🤣🤣
A betrayal hurts so much more than a murder .. you get to live the pain..
I feel no one deserves to be in a relationship with a narcissist they are terrible people that feel entitled thank God for my friend who referred me to an hacker and i was able to hack my narcissist partner's phone, all i did was to share his phone number with (geniustracker) without touching his phone and see all the proofs i needed for a divorce and even terrible things they had planned contact John to help he is a genius. You can text/call +1 (415) 323-6758 or reach him on WhatsApp +1 (724) 330-3252 and also write to Via Gmail (geniustracker701) and don't forget to thank me later...
How would you know? I've been cheated on and murdered.. Getting murdered was way worst.
@@HashCorp_ HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH
why cheat? if you love somebody else...
1-) you don’t love your partner
2-) just break up first
You are so right, Jin
It doesnt always work like thay
She didnt love someone else.She loved her.She was just attracted and had a connection with another person and shit happened, but she realized she fucked up.Cheating is horrible but we all make mistakes and i know you're gonna say its a choice but we all make the wrong choices sometimes.
I feel no one deserves to be in a relationship with a narcissist they are terrible people that feel entitled thank God for my friend who referred me to an hacker and i was able to hack my narcissist partner's phone, all i did was to share his phone number with (geniustracker) without touching his phone and see all the proofs i needed for a divorce and even terrible things they had planned contact John to help he is a genius. You can text/call +1 (415) 323-6758 or reach him on WhatsApp +1 (724) 330-3252 and also write to Via Gmail (geniustracker701) and don't forget to thank me later...
Thats what i say 👍🏼👍🏼
Why would u cheat on someone who gave you the confidence to come out wtf is wrong with you ugh
bbeautisdesvaj exactly ...
Bc that's not how life works unfortunately . there are people who have done more for their spouse and done the same thing . doesn't make it right but infidelity will never go away. As a former escort a lot of married men would come by and say they weren't happy but the kids and bills and stuff kept them there and even men who were happy but just get bored of the same old sex. I wouldn't change that experience for the world bc married men shared things with me their wives will never know and it's given me perspective
Why would you ever cheat on someone?!😪
Someone did that to me:(
It’s really messed
Sorry....but I still don't trust the long haired one. Not because she cheated, but her behavior/attitude seems off to me. Just my opinion.
1CurlyB agreed
1CurlyB I feel like she wasn’t genuine. She kept blaming everyone, but herself. AND she still hung with the girl The girl with the short hair I feel like she did not technically cheat because you guys were on break.
The long haired one did alot of victim blaming/playing, and never took responsibility is was more like me this & that. "Not hey I fucked up let's work it out, if you want to sleep with someone else I won't be mad"
@@horseboy3269 she still cheated Fuck a break
1CurlyB I can’t stand her either. Something is off about her
In the words of Captain Jack Sparrow.: if you love two girls, go with the second one because if you really loved the first one you wouldn’t have fallen in love with the second one.
For a character like Captain Jack Sparrow, that is one amazing quote
@@miahansen7266 Think we've got to further into the mind of Captain Jack Sparrow. Interesting character and can never fully understand him or his intentions
It might also mean you didn't respect the first one. It's not only about love.
Jack Sparrow never said that. Johnny did
And yes I do know. I've seen the films millions of times
@@thegoat8608 I agree. Very wise.
The girl withe the shorter hair looks so hurt. I hate that the other woman just acts like she was the victim and is completely oblivious to the pain she has brought upon her girlfriend. You should never cheat on a person you love, period.
I feel no one deserves to be in a relationship with a narcissist they are terrible people that feel entitled thank God for my friend who referred me to an hacker and i was able to hack my narcissist partner's phone, all i did was to share his phone number with (geniustracker) without touching his phone and see all the proofs i needed for a divorce and even terrible things they had planned contact John to help he is a genius. You can text/call +1 (415) 323-6758 or reach him on WhatsApp +1 (724) 330-3252 and also write to Via Gmail (geniustracker701) and don't forget to thank me later...
yes..
Am I the only one who thinks the girl with glasses should break up with the other one? She deserves so much better.
And she wasn't really cheating if she wanted a break.
Artemis Han i can see that point of view but idk cheating is cheating, she still was in the relationship (the way i see it)
Artemis Han The heart wants what it wants as sad as this sounds...I don't understand why people cheat if they love the person...why can't you just tell them beforehand and break up before shit hits the fan...but hey...i would never understand people who cheat
Vi Oig i agree if your still in a relationship you shouldn't be seeing other people even if it is a break ...the break is for you to work on yourself and see how can you fix the relationship not move on and sleep with other people cause if that's the case just break up with her don't cheat 😒
WE WERE ON A BREAK
Jcaro omg friends flashbacks
Me and my ex could not sit in a room and discuss our past so calmly we would be ripping eachothers heads off literally
Fluffballz x wasn’t her Ex, so I’d imagine.
I don't think you would rip each other's heads off literally. And one person would have a head...
same
Fluffballz x I feel this. If we did what they’re doing in the video, we’d seriously be screaming at each other and more than likely physically fighting which is so bad. They treated me like complete dirt.
Same here, still together but damn, the past is terrible
why would you cheat on someone you love? sis that's not love. that's called taking someone's heart and breaking it to pieces over a choice you made of not being loyal to them.
So true
No,its possible to love someone and cheat.Everyone is saying cheating isnt a mistake its a choice.Well sometimes wrong choices happen and they're called mistakes.Its possible for someone who cheated to feel remorse.Its possible for everyone to feel remorse and regret about everything wrong that they did.
"I did something unfair"
UNFAIR.... UNFAIR.... YOU BROKE YOUR SIGNIFICANT OTHER.
UNFAIR.....
The girl with the glasses is gorgeous. Also, there was something hauntingly beautiful about this video.
Hazal'ın Kedi Kumu no? Because she’s pretty
Nicole Vergara She is very beautiful even while crying and sad.
Nicole Vergara are you mad?
Nicole Vergara
The 🎶 🎹 music
Its the emotions are so real its like watching an oscar winning scene
I don't like the long haired girl, she didn't and still doesn't appreciate her partner. The girl with the glasses is loyal, and it's nearly impossible to find someone like that these days.
Michelle Tan they both cheated
+average life Can't cheat on a break.
First name Last name ross is that you?
shiryn aringoy LMAO😂😂
First name Last name : Yes you can is considered cheating, if you know you are going to get back with the person why would you go sleep with someone else. What you are just call it a break everytime you want to cheat so is not considered cheating, and then get back with your partner afterwards lol dumb
Tbh the people here that are condoning cheating is really disgusting. Cheating can cause awful emotional, mental, and psychological damage to a person that can be irreversible. Stop protecting cheaters, they chose to cheat on the person they were dating, there are easy solutions to not do that or to avoid it. Just saying.
Yeah thats so true... ironically the one who damaged is the one who faithful :"(
It's sad that cheating has become the norm.
Well, I wouldn't say those solutions are necessarily easy- for many people it seems easier in the moment to get their needs met by cheating than by talking the issues out with their partner. Honesty and vulnerability are scary. However, their partner should be the person they trust the most with these things, and this approach is very destructive in the long run.
This is the reason why I'm afraid of relationships. You get attached, then something happens and then you have learn to adapt without them. It's like trying to live normally again
ugh the girl with the glasses is sooooo gorgeous
Maritza Urbina agreed!
she really is!!!!!!!
I was gonna come in the comments to say "if they're broken up I'll take her! 🙋"
Yes
I'm so gay
you don't cheat on someone you love.
baby ́ Exactly
Mckenzie Preston waaddd uuupp
yes
depends on how u define love
Exactly
Having been cheated on...watching these videos literally brings back every ounce of pain when you see the pain in her face. It never ever leaves you.
1:33 “i think I fell more in love wit u , even tho u weren’t there” damn them words hit me 💔💔
Cheaters are hella selfish man
Vaneexx R right? You either love one or you love the other
They both cheated kinda so they might be made for each other.
Ssweet - Disposition how did the girl with glasses cheat??
They are, Heartless creatures.
Didn't you watch the whole video tho? When the other girl cheated, they didn't break up all of a sudden. The Long haired girl tried to fight for their relationship, but the one with glasses instead pushed her away, hung out with a certain person, and they eventually hooked up, even though these girls were still in a relationship. :/
The long hair girl is highkey annoying me like fr
Bagel Almighty ikr I was mind blown at how she just didn’t give a fuck
looks like kylie jenner
ikr
Yes she is an annoying b word
Literally same 🙄🙄🙄
i don’t understand how you could cheat on someone you “love”. i rlly don’t
I feel no one deserves to be in a relationship with a narcissist they are terrible people that feel entitled thank God for my friend who referred me to an hacker and i was able to hack my narcissist partner's phone, all i did was to share his phone number with (geniustracker) without touching his phone and see all the proofs i needed for a divorce and even terrible things they had planned contact John to help he is a genius. You can text/call +1 (415) 323-6758 or reach him on WhatsApp +1 (724) 330-3252 and also write to Via Gmail (geniustracker701) and don't forget to thank me later...
It’s because she really didn’t love her. Because you could love someone, and not be in love with them.
The one who care the most always gets hurt
*“I was expecting you to yell, and you being silent was so much worse”*
learn a lesson from this.
YUUUUUUUUUUUUP!!!!!!!!!!!
FACTSSSSSSS
Exactly!!
i wish i could press love on this comment!
3:15
the fact the you face timed her with the person that you cheated with is just awful. You may not have known it was going to happen but you just finished facetiming your lover so wouldn't that click something off in your brain, and remind you that hey I love this person I need to stop whatever I'm doing as it could escalate. I honestly have no respect for cheaters.
Bri Ludwig RIGHT !!! She did her so wrong in my opinion. Then she continued to hang out with the person she messed around with.
exactly actions always speak louder than words
Yet she acted so hurt the girl with the glasses cheated. The girl with the glasses even said sorry about I️t, long haired chick didn’t say shit about being sorry, just kept putting the blame on her poor ex girlfriend, who by simply looking at her I️ can feel the pain she feels
Bri Ludwig I agree I have a boyfriend he loves ME for ME and accept ME for who I am I love him for him I would never cheat on him and he would never cheat on me we are loyal and honest with each other
Yes I am so happy for you love. You deserve the best.
You can’t love somebody if you don’t love yourself. If you love yourself you don’t cheat, because you are cheating yourself. Moral of the story ~learn to love yourself before starting a relationship
Bobby & Louise Papillons very well said!
Dumb
I don't love myself, no wonder I don't love anybody else. At all.
That had nothing to do with the video but true
I don't love myself yet, but i swear to you i love my partner, and i would never cheat on him.
I don't get why are you saying i can't love anyone if i don't love myself
What if i find love my self love by loving someone?
“We were on a break!” -Ross Geller
Your comment is underrated.
Honestly I know they're both at fault, but I feel like the long haired girl really fucked up. I kinda feel like the short hair one got used. It was hypocritical when long hair was acting super upset that her girlfriend cheated when she was literally the one who put a wedge in the relationship. She cheated when she got the opportunity, out of the blue. Her girlfriend cheated when they were kinda on a break, but because she was sad and hurt and I don't think their situations were comparable.
Manisha W i agree like the girl with long hair didn’t even seen rly interested in the relationship in this video either like she acted so cold when they were talking about her cheating but act upset when glasses didn’t even rly cheat like man tf she’s so selfish
I totally agree I feel like short hair girl is just getting used like a damn guinea pig by the long hair girl who is really damn weak and not committed to the relationship
The long haired girl cheated rather than just talking to her girlfriend, but the short haired girl did it while she thought they were having a break. Not to mention she was heartbroken. I’m not defending cheating, but she technically didn’t cheat if they really were on a break.
Manisha W I know right? And then she has the audacity to say "this made me question our entire relationship." Seriously what a bitch. She made me angry
WORD! When the long hair girl said "i knew you had cheated on me" i'm like the fuuuck gurl?!? It was necassary for the short hair girl to do that in order to heal her self and let go. Gosh. These cheaters nowadays...
The girl with glasses deserves so much better oh my god, I honestly don’t believe cheaters ever change like sorry, sometimes it’s just in that persons nature to be polyamorous
Ericaa people who cheat and polyamory are two very different things and have nothing to do with each other
both girls cheated tho. The other girl didnt step up and be the bigger person, but she either took revenge, or just complete forgot the other girl.
Ericaa 'Cheater' isn‘t a character trait. It has to do with each relationship individually.
mask boi no i think the long haired girl is manipulative, the other girl did because she was vulnerable and hurt. But long haired girl was playing victim and making all the other girls fault.
Love Yoirself exactly
Whys the long haired girl trying to act the victim? Like she done it first! And then the short haired girl ended up apologising first? Nah
I feel no one deserves to be in a relationship with a narcissist they are terrible people that feel entitled thank God for my friend who referred me to an hacker and i was able to hack my narcissist partner's phone, all i did was to share his phone number with (geniustracker) without touching his phone and see all the proofs i needed for a divorce and even terrible things they had planned contact John to help he is a genius. You can text/call +1 (415) 323-6758 or reach him on WhatsApp +1 (724) 330-3252 and also write to Via Gmail (geniustracker701) and don't forget to thank me later...
Cheaters always play the victim. Saying things like, “you didn’t love me enough”, “you didn’t give me what I needed”. Cheating isn’t just having sex with someone else, it’s betraying the person you promised loyalty to. It doesn’t just go like “oh they cheated! Guess I’ll get over it!” It’s a pain in your heart for the rest of your life, remembering the person you loved was with someone else. It makes you sad, mad, depressed. So don’t ever cheat. Because it *hurts*
When she said, "You still hung out with her," I lost every ounce of respect I had left for the girl on the right instantly.
I know, right
If my girlfriend face timed me introducing me to a girl she was about to hook up with I wouldn't even give her the ability to apolagise I would cut ties so quick because you don't cheat on somebody you love
Happened to me! Hahahaha And after seeing how things were going to unfold at the end... Even although it hurted, I removed myself from the relationship before being cheated; without drama o disclaims... Just moved on. I wasn't going to live that experience! His ego was hurted 'cause it was me who left him, and started to be cruel, so I decided to cut contact to protect myself! Cried a lot hahaha I still do! Cognitive disonance... Who you believed to know is an unknown person! But it was the wiser choice I think. He cheated every girlfriend that he had on the past, so some things never change. I love him so much, and I wish him all the blessings and happiness. But I want it for myself too.
It was like 6 months ago! It hurts a lot, but it's for a bigger purpose. Life unfolds itself in magical ways when you decide to let go what drains you, and choose to love yourself first.
Cheers to all of you who are going through this rigth now. You are worthy of all the abundance and love that life wants to give you. Just open your hands, let go what doesn't make you happy, and stay there until you get all the love that you deserve. Brave souls!
Ina Garbé You’ve got a strong heart
Cheaters don’t apologise. They don’t say sorry. End of.
Well said. That short haired girl deserves much better.
SHE KNEW WHAT SHE WAS DOING. She Faced X Her For ACCEPTANCE & APPROVAL OF ALL POSSIBILITIES. Which In Turn Is Even MORE Fkd Up!!.
It really warms my heart to see, they overcome the cheating. Even when the long haired girl is at fault , and both of them cheated, their love for each other still seems to be very strong. That's beautiful.
My ex cheated on me too, but when he told me he still loves me, I decided to fight for us. But in the end, he came up with another excuse to “take a break”. And I just realize, he didn’t love me, he cheated because he fell out of love but was too much of a coward to tell me . It’s devastating honestly
The girl with glass is just perfect !
Fr
Exactly
Right she is just amazing
shes so beautiful !!!
I feel no one deserves to be in a relationship with a narcissist they are terrible people that feel entitled thank God for my friend who referred me to an hacker and i was able to hack my narcissist partner's phone, all i did was to share his phone number with (geniustracker) without touching his phone and see all the proofs i needed for a divorce and even terrible things they had planned contact John to help he is a genius. You can text/call +1 (415) 323-6758 or reach him on WhatsApp +1 (724) 330-3252 and also write to Via Gmail (geniustracker701) and don't forget to thank me later...
Is it wrong to be mad that they're still together? Seriously, I wouldnt want to be in that relationship anymore.
no its not wrong, becouse i wouldnt ever be in that relationship either i agree with you
Hodan yup
Dear, if you love a person, you fight for that. Yes, you can take bad decisions, but love remains there. If people were like in this times and just walk away, no one would ever be happy. Love is a process made by our brains, we cannot stop it, it's not a choice, it's inevitable. So if they decided to remain together, it's because they knew that those love hormones weren't the only ones keeping them together, their hearts did it as well.
@@hime5727 first sentence is so wrong. No you fucking don't. Being hurt this deeply, especially by the person you love is just cruel. Most people wouldn't want to fight for something that's already dead and ruined, despite of their hurting heart. When one partner cheats on the other, the other has probably lost all of their trust in them. And after they break up, of course it's gonna hurt because the love is still there, however, the pain and betrayal is also there. It all depends on the situation and especially on the people, but fighting is not always the right thing to do. Sometimes, you have to let go. Even if it's the person you love or once loved that you have to let go of.
In conclusion, no, you don't fight. Most people don't fight. And that's okay and only natural. Fighting for the person you love is not always as romantic as it sounds. It can be a huge mistake, especially a dumb one. It can have a toxic end to it. And when it's toxic, letting go hurts less than holding on. And then the person can heal.
I would have 0 problems cutting someone off who cheated. For me to let down my walls and trust this person and they break that? Nope. People who say "just wait until you're in that situation, easier said than done": nope. I don't have to wait to be there to know what I would do. Good friends have broken my trust and I cut them off at the second. Wouldn't be any different just because I'm romantically involved with the person.
I personally have cut friendships for being betrayed but I have stayed in a relationship for a year more after they cheated in different ocasions multiple. So Im going to say easier said than done. 🤷🏻♀️ Everyone is different and sometimes the ppl you expect to stay are the ones that leave the fastest after something like that
@@magsc.1945 I feel no one deserves to be in a relationship with a narcissist they are terrible people that feel entitled thank God for my friend who referred me to an hacker and i was able to hack my narcissist partner's phone, all i did was to share his phone number with (geniustracker) without touching his phone and see all the proofs i needed for a divorce and even terrible things they had planned contact John to help he is a genius. You can text/call +1 (415) 323-6758 or reach him on WhatsApp +1 (724) 330-3252 and also write to Via Gmail (geniustracker701) and don't forget to thank me later...
I feel no one deserves to be in a relationship with a narcissist they are terrible people that feel entitled thank God for my friend who referred me to an hacker and i was able to hack my narcissist partner's phone, all i did was to share his phone number with (geniustracker) without touching his phone and see all the proofs i needed for a divorce and even terrible things they had planned contact John to help he is a genius. You can text/call +1 (415) 323-6758 or reach him on WhatsApp +1 (724) 330-3252 and also write to Via Gmail (geniustracker701) and don't forget to thank me later...
Pluttskutt I said the same thing. Then it happened. Kids involved. Then it is no longer just about you and him 💔
You described me perfectly, thank you. There is no way I'm forgiving betrayal, ever. I honour my interpersonal relationships and expect the same treatment, if they can't reciprocate then it's cool, they made their decision but they're OUT of my life. No second guessing, nothing.
Fool me once, shame on you; fool me twice, shame on ME.
Plenty of decent people out there worth my time and love.
My mom always reminds me and my 3 siblings that if you really love someone, you will do everything in your power to do your best to prevent hurting your partner.
The long-haired girl has no right to be upset with the short-haired girl for hooking up when it seemed they were taking a break because SHE cheated on HER
Yes she had a right to be upset and hurt.Because she's human.She didnt blame her or was mad at her.She was just hurt and she has a right to just like everyone.Obviously she loved her,she cheated but she loved her.
Exactly
@@AlexCrl200 No, you don't cheat on someone you love
that girl with the long hair is so irritating
Mary R how is she annoying u
I agree
I find her infuriating too-largely because she won’t take agency. She says “what had been done” instead of “what I did”🙄
The fact that the short haired girl apologized about cheating and the one who started it first didnt say anything. Shes playing the victim. Short hair girl should leave her!!
I thought this was a prison interview. Also, the long haired girl is so breezy about it all and then pretends to be involved when it’s about her hurt.
“ I fell in love more with you even though you weren’t there “ & the first thing she said was “ idk” , the girl w/ the long hair doesn’t deserve the girl w/ the glasses
This was another cut.Its a video its not the whole thing,it was a different cut and she said ''i dk if I should get into the details'' because it was painful for both of them.
IT IS A CHOICE , not " a mistake" .
but then again, i have been in her situation .. i didnt cheat tho .
wdym? someone cheated on you, and playd the victim?
I agree
Just like being gay is a choice.
Matt Diaz being gay isn’t a choice
When the short haired girl apologized I wanted to die. She was so hurt. She doesn't deserve to be manipulated by someone she loved.
“not at all, you didn’t run through my mind at all. this was for me.” ouch. that’s worse than the actual cheating honestly.
fuckin hate cheaters bro
idk bro same
yeah ..
idk bro mannnnnn
Same
Same.. I don't know why people do that. That's so sad and ridiculous.
feel like short hair girl, Ana? deserves way better. I couldn't trust a damn thing the other one was saying. She's seems far too narcissistic to give two shits about anyone else but herself. Everything said and done demonstrates a severe lack of respect.
But both cheated
Qawserftgyuh R glasses girl didn’t really cheat? They were technically on a break so..
Ana probably was cheating too, you dont know shit lol
Rosay Ramos you don’t know the full story either
“Did you realize you cheated on me” damn the chick with the glasses is so pure. I hope she finds someone who appreciates and respects her
2:48 “you still hung out with her”
me: “YOU STOOPID”
This is so sad. This is why I have trust issues
Carrie R same
lc0806 not me lol I’m too loyal and too nice
Eyad Khalil too bad not all people are like that 😞 even if you’re loyal your partner might turn out to be a Dirty liar.
SAME
Carrie R ikr finding the right one out there in the world is hard finding someone loyal,caring,and someone that will love you and you only
I’m sorry but if you can give your body to someone else, while you are with someone...that’s not love. That’s not even close to what love is. If she truly loved her she wouldn’t have even thought of another person. People have “love” all messed up these days. No one can tell me that’s love.
BodyMod Lover that is... so true, I just don't understand how someone could do that to the one they "love". The simple fact of picturing myself with anyone else than my partner makes me want to cry.
BodyMod Lover I agree with you! I think you can love someone as a person but if you were to cheat on someone, you don’t love them fully or are in love with them. That destroys someone inside and you can’t be in love with someone you can easily destroy.
these days it's just lust
That’s lack of respect towards your partner.
BodyMod Lover yeah you're right anytime I've been in love my eyes didn't wander at all... I had no interest in anybody else absolutely none
My husband and I have been together for 4 1/2 years. In the first 11 months he was an addict and he cheated a few times, we’ve been perfect since then. People can change for the ones they love.
Cheating isn’t a mistake.
It’s a choice.
Oh my fucking God Im so tired of seeing that.Cheating sometimes is a choice that you dont care about.Sometimes its a mistake.Mistakes are wrong choices in a way.Like isnt it possible for a human being to do something bad and then realize oh damn I fucked up.Its not really that different.It is possible to feel remorse and regret for something fucked up you did,cheating included.
"I love you but I'm gonna cheat on you and honestly I dont care if you get hurt, then I'm gonna accuse you of cheating when we take a break even though this is my fault but I need to blame someone else" is the vibe I got from this video
me too :(
Nf
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Bitch got the audacity to play victim
I feel no one deserves to be in a relationship with a narcissist they are terrible people that feel entitled thank God for my friend who referred me to an hacker and i was able to hack my narcissist partner's phone, all i did was to share his phone number with (geniustracker) without touching his phone and see all the proofs i needed for a divorce and even terrible things they had planned contact John to help he is a genius. You can text/call +1 (415) 323-6758 or reach him on WhatsApp +1 (724) 330-3252 and also write to Via Gmail (geniustracker701) and don't forget to thank me later...
Acceptance and forgiveness is the most perfect revenge.
LoveMe,com ? To whom?
Justin 😂😂
Justin LOL
Hayden Chisum no shit. that is thr point. to do it for yourself and that is the best revenge. to let it go
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If you cheat on your boyfriend/girlfriend you never really loved him/her
Not true.Not true at all.
Alex L. It’s very true.
Alex C this is true, what are you talking about 😒
I can take my partner telling me they don't love me anymore and want to break up, I can't take cheating.
The short hair girl is very attractive..
i guess im gay now
martinezandy15 ill be gay too but im a guy :v
Maybe cus she looks like a dude i feel like dude looking lesbians are cute too
@@aurorah2677 lol is that what they call them?
@@nataliahall236 oh, I didn't know that, thank you for saying it, english is not my native language so that kind of words are difficult to learn. Thank you ♡
She's hella fucking cute 😔❤❤
Every relationship gets boring and it will get boring after you've been together for years. It's always fun in the beginning. It's always exciting when you're getting to know each other. It's always thrilling to chase one another. Eventually, it gets hard. Eventually, it becomes difficult. Eventually, it drains you. That's when people tend to quit and go look for someone else because "the spark is gone" and they want to feel wanted and admired and loved again. But listen, that's not how it's supposed to be. No, that's not how it works. It doesn't have to be that way. Even when it does get boring, that's when you're supposed to remember why you're with that person in the first place and it's never too late to find that happiness that you both once found together because the truth is, it's always been there and it never left. Even when it feels like feelings are fading, that's when you're supposed to know how much this person means to you and what losing them would be like because being able to love someone even when they're being hard to love shows that your feelings never left. Even when it feels like you're done, that's when you're supposed to realize that no matter who you're with, it's always going to get "boring" so you might as well be with someone who's willing to love you unconditionally and never give up on you.
Mïkëy Tëddyßëãr Lör Mikey you have a way with word that shouldn’t be wasted........??? Author of a novel maybe......Poetry???........Just saying.....
Just reading some of your texts made me want to let you know ....you r great at writing.......if u didn’t know, seriously.
lmao who hurt you
rihanna hassan right
Mïkëy Tëddyßëãr Lör well worded 💯
Write a book Bc you're preaching
If someone cheats, it was never love. Respect yourself and leave. Never talk to them again.
You never cheat on someone you love to the fullest period. 💯
Am I the only one crying? That girl in the glasses deserved so much better, but I am glad they came to a conclusion and wish them the best for the future
Oh my god the cheater better shut the hell up. "when you cheated on me" umm wait.... You were the one who cheated don't play the victim.
Say that again
I feel no one deserves to be in a relationship with a narcissist they are terrible people that feel entitled thank God for my friend who referred me to an hacker and i was able to hack my narcissist partner's phone, all i did was to share his phone number with (geniustracker) without touching his phone and see all the proofs i needed for a divorce and even terrible things they had planned contact John to help he is a genius. You can text/call +1 (415) 323-6758 or reach him on WhatsApp +1 (724) 330-3252 and also write to Via Gmail (geniustracker701) and don't forget to thank me later...
If you really love you don't cheat.
*” i think i fell in love with you even more even though you weren’t there “*
and someone cutting the damn onion again
I had no idea their story would end the way it did. Well done, video editor. :)
I really wish them the best.
TheMovieMyLife Why are you on every corner of youtube, like i literally see your comments everywhere !!!
Kai Raza same
Kai Raza Is it really such a big deal if she is?...each to their own.
If you're saying you see her everywhere...you are everywhere.
Alexa shut up
Insecurities will always be there once your partner cheats on you.
M수민 oh yesss they’ll be there forever even with next partners which sucks and I have also been cheated on multiple times
That was powerful cheating is difficult to accept but to get through it together is a whole other level! That’s their love you learn and you move forward to do better and become better.
there's a deep hole in my heart watching this. my mom cheated on my dad and i saw her text messages while she was planning to meet that man. i decided to tell her first and she gave her part of explanation. i now have decided to not tell anything to my father or brothers. but it's very stressful for my mental health. hope no child has to go through something like that. it makes hard for a person to believe in true love.
I hope you alright mabey you should write your feeling down it may help you feel better
I know it was a while ago now but I'm so sorry that you were put in this situation. that sounds so stressful and it shouldn't be a burden that you have to carry. I hope that you're doing a lot better now ❤
Once a cheater always a cheater. Silence is the best weapon
Cheaters are narcissists and manipulative people, do not ever give a second chance. If they did it once, they can do it again.
Miriam Baylon yes thank you
They only think in the moment of fun and adrenaline. Theyre selfish. Thats why they become cheaters. I hate that. Theyd fuck with anyone they have a good time with. A bond doesnt matter; its just a label to someone they can call their partner. And at the end of the day when you leave them, they act like you were the one who walked out but when in reality they were the ones who betrayed you first. Theyre whores. I can never understand their form of "love".
Everybody different everybody as there reasons so till you been in a situation don't judge.
Purple Bell Unicorn I agree with you, but most of them are like that ):
Though I agree 100% that you should never give them a second chance. I disagree that they are always narcissistic.
I was that person when I was younger. I did it because I needed validation, I felt worthless and intimacy gave me "value".
People like to pretend that relationships are so simple when they’re not. They’re messy, people are messy, situations are not perfect. No one is condoning cheating. Obviously it’s bad but life is not black & white.
Completely agree
0:27 subtitles think your a monster lmao
L Vela made me laugh