Hi, im a girl and my Indian boyfriend just left me for an Indian woman that his family arranged him. He kept blaming me saying i like to fuck around but i didnt. i used to blame his family and cant let go but now i see it's not my problems. thank you!
Many thanks, I have been researching "winning back your wife" for a while now, and I think this has helped. Have you ever come across - Jenaniel Forgiveness Blueprint - (should be on google have a look ) ? Ive heard some unbelievable things about it and my co-worker got amazing success with it.
They will leave again and they have done it before. Look back at history and you will see they walked out on other people as well and they will in future walk out on new people. Let them walk. Let them go...although its hard to accept that someone can just walk out of your life, let them go, life is better this way..
But that's simply not correct. Many people get back together and stay together until the day they die. I understand it's easier to think "It would be the same", and maybe it would be for your case - but there are couples who can work through that and get back stronger.
@@LL-wu5ui there's nothing like working on a relationship..... that's being in prison.... when someone wants to stay , you put in little or no effort at all but they'll still stay. If they don't want to, no matter the effort, they'll leave. Even though I believe some people were not in love initially but can fall for you after you get back together a second time.
@@LL-wu5ui Yeah, like all these super negative people who say you most likely won't get back together, and if you do, it won't last. Basing these off of surveys, which are heavily biased since they only take a small sample size and base it off of that, then pass it off as though it is the truth for everyone and every situation, which it is not.
Sometimes it’s lack of maturity. I know of a couple that were good together, but the timing wasn’t right. They needed to mature more and have more life experience under their belts. They came back to each other 15 years later and they are going strong. If the person is someone that is selfish and entitled, aka a narcissist, that’s never going to work. Kick them to the curb and NEVER look back.
Take it from me, my ex left me 3 times in 6yrs and last time was 8months ago and we were engaged for 2yrs. I treated her amazing. Please trust me if your ex leaves you once and yiu didn't do nothing wrong DO NOT TAKE THEM BACK cause 100% they'll do it again. I'm still devasted and shocked dealing with extreme anxiety and panic attacks everyday and deep depression.
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Perfect timing!! An eye opener for me...i shouldnt wait for him anymore to come back after many times he left me without any reason or fault..thank u so much master mehran..god blessed you..
Here is some info for you in regards to the channel: There are over 1,500 videos on my channel now and I am certain that they will be helpful beyond expectations! :) The secret to manage a break-up and to be able to move on to a happy life is to understand how you are put together and why you feel, act and react the way you do in life. Such knowledge is provided on this channel through numerous discussions ( in videos ), or when live streaming and exploring people's questions and concerns after a breakup, from around the world. You will be perfectly fine once you get to know yourself a lot better! :) Hope you have subscribed and clicked on the bell so you will be notified when I go live. Below is my standard E-mail respond which contains some information in regards to my live talks, how to join in when I have a live talk on RUclips and where to see my site and one on one Skype consultation packages. Please feel free to visit and like my FB page: facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/ where I have my announcements for Live Q & A Talks and place supportive posts and videos. Please let me know which country you are watching the videos from and to which age category you belong to. It would be wonderful if you would share the videos you like on your social media to help others know that there is support after break-Ups and bring more exposure to what this channel is all about. Be good to yourself always. With thanks, Mehran P.S. How to join the live talks: You can join my live talks on Vancouver ( Pacific ) Time zone), Always on RUclips channel: ruclips.net/user/MD007ish or On some days of the week ( Same Time Zone) on my Facebook page: This is how the post looks like for the Live Talk on Saturdays or Sundays which I will post it on my FB page: (facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/) a day or a few hours or minutes prior to the Live Talk: LIVE Q & A on Your Breakup, Your Relationship, Your Psyche & Life. With Mehran D (Author) Unlock Your Mind & Move On! Usually on Friday, Saturday and Sunday 12.30 PM Vancouver time (Pacific), 3.30 PM (Atlantic), 1.30 after midnight (India), Europe 8.30-9 PM, (but it could be earlier in the day), Right here on this link: ruclips.net/user/MD007ish www.MindThatSeeksTruth.com My Instagram: instagram.com/mindseeks/ For Skype consultation: If you would like us to address the certain specific situation you might be faced with, then please visit my site www.MindThatSeeksTruth.com and click on the " Talk to me for consultation " button and see which one of the appointment options are suitable to your needs. I will receive the request through the system and will confirm one of the 3 time and date choices you may choose and will confirm it through e-mail or the Skype address of yours.
now i am feeling so good, even she was told me the problem is with her, not with you but i was fucking madly in love with her, or i think LDR was not her kind of thing as can't fu*k me in video calls so she left to fu*k someone else, so its her problem not mine, even it doesn't matter how good you are, they will left you someday, so focus on yourself, chase yourself not her/him.
Do not use that word ( dumped) against yourself, They were not compatible with you and the relationship did not work, that is all. You go forward and build and enjoy your life and seek more compatible partners. :)
@@davetrottier LOL, then get moving before bigger stick/ kick comes to encourage you more! :) build your life and enjoy your life and be happy about your life including the breakups and whatever stuff in that regards. These are all part of a normal life and nothing more.
I'm on the other side of the fence of this, meaning that I mistreated her. I liked watching this video however, getting more perspective on what's on the other side. I want to learn much more about not repeating any bad behavior towards anybody else. I am learning a lesson
thanks, i really appreciate this video, this is an eye opener to me, i give everything my best for her and she still dumped me, now i'm awake that's not my fault anymore
I've had two major relationships end because i was the one who walked away. Both times they wanted open relationships and I said no, it was against my values. I've struggled with ending the relationships because the men they married are now having a lot more sex than I am lol. But they also have to contend with the fact that their wives are constantly seeking other men. They are fawning over new guys and telling other men they love them. They are exposing the kids to poly life and the kids are not happy. Honestly, I may not be getting a lot of sex, but my heart and soul are not being torn apart wondering why they are constantly seeking others. I stayed true to me. It wasn't me. Thank you.
Your words calm me down... a young woman left me fir another guy, she has a kid from a previous relationship and the break up throws my heart out... it wasn't long, just 8 months, but it hurts due to the attachment...
@@charlesdc1233 Just remember it isn't you. So many women are broken and influenced by this media hype of having your cake and eating it too. What this ultimately leads to is that the women hit the wall at 40 and can't find a guy to support them as they age. They are left to either become ultra-promiscuous and sleep with the chads who will never stay or be alone. I guarantee that this woman will regret leaving you but it won't be right away. Find your happiness and keep going.
Just got out of a 4 and a half year relationship with a woman who I poured my heart and soul into. And this video makes me feel calmer knowing I will be grow but give the love I know I can to someone who can reciprocate it back.
@@C.macaraeg You are welcomed Cyrone, you will find many many videos on this channel which will help you understand your psyche better and become more and more invincible through knowledge and find your way back to the balance and normality, and on to bigger and better things. You can always join us at the weekly live stream (free) on Saturdays at 1 PM Vancouver time. You can ask your questions based on your situations after break up, or just listen / watch the answer to other people's questions from around the world. We have live stream on Saturdays at 1 PM Vancouver time and again at 9 PM Vancouver time. Let me know your age and which country you are watching the videos from.
Love this video! All the coaches online trying to tell us how we should re-attrect our exes. I really don't get it, if they left us when we did nothing wrong, they will probably do it again. For example, my ex (with BPD) told me she loved me and wanted to have kids together and the next week she broke up with me (she was devestated though) because she wanted to experience other people before setteling for the rest of her life. She also told me that she hoped we could back together in the future when she was done exploring. Well f*ck me haha. If she left me before, she will left me again. We had a realy loving relationship and there was realy a lot positive stuff going on, but still: she chose to leave me so that's the end.
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What if it IS then? I left because I couldn’t trust HIM, but he thought it was all good. He tried to get me back, but he was still lying about stupid stuff. So I didn’t get back, sometimes I wonder if I made a mistake. But I now know that trust is everything. And I could not trust him... just lying all day and insulting my intelligence.
Great video! Your videos have helped me so much. I feel privileged to have found you sir. You speak a hard truth to those in need. Know thyself. Thank you
I'm a fairly competent, intelligent person. I've had some experience in life too but I needed to hear this extremely simple analogy. I played a lot of basketball and imagining myself trying to play with a ball even slightly out of round, under or over inflated, too big or too small simply wouldn't work. I've been stuck on a girl that broke up with me a year ago. Everything you said here fits my situation, I treated her very well. The thing I couldn't see was her. Shes not even close to being a well rounded basketball! I was trying to play basketball with a football and couldn't figure out why it wasn't working.
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i so stupidly let him back and he left me again lol and now hes messaging me saying sorry and i love you after a month of no contact but ill never let him back.
@@mizzcrazygal at least yours wants you back lool girl I called mine yesterday to find out he must of changed his number .I’m in disbelief about to die 😭😩😩.
He left me because he didn’t love me and was moving to another state due to his job. I accepted it and did my best to move on. Once I finally felt that I was okay and hardly thought of him, he called me. I didn’t answer out of fear that I would get hurt again. Now I find out that he got engaged. It hurts and I feel like I’m back to square one. The constant thought of “what if” is bothering me so much.
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My situation has a lot to it but ultimately my ex left me twice because I couldn't sleep next to her. Her snoring was awful and she refused to ever be held accountable for it, or anything really. Her reactions to things were very angry and it turned to name calling and other toxic shit. I eventually had to take space and end it permanently. It became almost like an addiction and the past few weeks have been rough. Feels like a drug withdrawal. But yeah I mostly struggle with the fact she kept saying I couldn't give her what she needed in the relationship and "normal couples" sleep next to each other. But I know she wasn't good for me ultimately. As much as I love her, she isn't what I want in a woman. Way too argumentative and childish in a lot of ways.
I recently went through a difficult breakup. My five year relationship ended a month ago, and it's been incredibly hard. I still have so much love for my ex girlfriend, and I can't seem to get her out of my mind. Despite my best efforts to win her back, nothing has worked, and the thought of being with anyone else feels impossible right now. I know it might sound odd to share this here, but I miss her deeply and can't stop thinking about her.
I completely understand the pain of letting go of someone you love. I went through a similar experience when my 10 year relationship ended. I couldn't imagine my life without her, so I tried everything to rekindle our love. I eventually found guidance from a spiritual counselor, and their support helped me bring her back into my life
Robert come to one of the live streams and regain your balance and enjoy your life . Life is not summed up in one woman or one relationship there are so much more amd so many amazing women out on you r path of the journey of life so stop being like this and move on and accomplish your tasks and be productive and be the man you are and not a....?😃
He moved me to FL after 3 years of dating. Broke up with me after the first month I moved to FL because he realized he wasn’t ready and his mom wanted him to date within his race and didn’t even know that he moved me. I was heartbroken alone in a new city for a year. He called me and begged for me back and I took him back. Broke up with me again after 6 months but blamed it on the fact that I like to drink and he doesn’t drink at all but immediately started messaging the girl who was his “friend” and hooking up after we broke up. Also plenty other girls he admitted to. It’s now been 2 1/2 years and he called AGAIN saying that he had grass is greener syndrome and realized he made a massive mistake and will get a ring right now for me if I give him another chance. Even though I loved him so deeply, I can’t allow myself that disrespect. I just blocked him. Feels FANTASTIC.
i was nice to my ex and everything, but the only difference is I left her, she didnt. I got tired of sacrificing my time and health while receiving not even nice words from her.
Mines back after doing that to me years ago - apologetic genuinely changed… but my god never thought I’lld say this but I just don’t feel the same anymore… & it’s driving her nuts haha I love being single hang in there guys do the work on yourself :)
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At the time you made that decision you believed that that decision was correct otherwise you would not have made such a decision Alberto. So search what was the reason but if you have been an unreasonable person and just did what you did out of ego or other illogical and unreasonable reasons then I am sure you have grown and learned and will do what might be necessary to explain, apologize and make it up to her and see if you can patch up things and stay true to the relationship and do your best to be who you want to be. And if it did not work and she did not wish to get back in the relationship with you, then you still move on and prepare for a better experience with a new and better version of you for the next relationship!
I treated my ex gf like a Queen did everything a man should do for her aka was a gentleman and still got cheated on she hurt me she wanted me back but my feelings weren't there I'ma free agents haha her lost
What if the reason he left me was me. What if I was sabotaging the relationship, treating my ex terribly and even though he warned me he had enough I continued. What than?
I've done this same thing to my ex in our 8 yr relationship. If this was the case they are gone. They feel relief without you. If they come back they may come black because their options has dried up. If you sabotaged the relationship they will fall out of love before leaving you. Their are people out there that will treat them better.... If they do experience issues with the new partner it wont be that hard to deal with because you have made them stronger emotionally for what you put them through
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You are welcomed Elvin. join us at the weekly live stream (free) on Saturdays at 1 PM Vancouver time. You can ask your questions based on your situations after break up, or just listen / watch the answer to other people's questions from around the world. We have live stream on Saturdays at 1 PM Vancouver time and again at 9 PM Vancouver time. Let me know your age and which country you are watching the videos from.
Now my ex and I getting back together is never going to happen. It's been a year and half since the breakup lol. However, to just throw out a comment on this video, I was good to her but I also was insecure and was a verbal ass at times. I've self reflected and grown. I can see why I pushed her away. That also said, she's on her 8th serious relationship and her track record says a lot as well.
I live by the creed "If she didn't want you in her prime....then you don't want her in her decline". My first girlfriend did decide to break up with me after going together for 3 years. Started riding the carosel. later found out that she was pregnant with another guys kid. She married the kids father and then had another kid. I moved on with my life. It was tough because she was my first love but time moves on. Fast forward 20 years later - she's divorced and that same guy she left me for....left her...and remarried someone else. She was left to take care of the kids etc. Her ex later died. So saw her about 2 years ago and she wants us to "be together because it was meant to be." Nope Nope Nope and a billion time no. I don't want to have sex with her and there is no way I would be with her. I have had more beautiful younger and hotter women. Not attracted to her at all and as far as I'm concerned she did me a favor. Again if she doesn't want you in her prime - you do not want her in her decline. Tell exs to kick rocks
Good job, it was meant to be but meant to be not together otherwise you would still be together. So there is no "meant to be" nonsense in this scenario. 😊
Is calling a person names a form of abuse? What if this person, despite the fact that he has asked for forgiveness multiple times in the past, disrespect me whenever he feel like doing it? He never cheated on me. Am I being mean for don't trusting his words anymore and for wanting to have someone in my life who treats me with respect? What would you do? We don't have any kids.
Anything that makes you feel uncomfortable and unsafe, spoken to you condescending, demeaning or disrespectful, are all unacceptable. You should feel protected, and safe and the rest of it is between you and your man to expect and offer and create the harmony you both seek.
if im not stylish guy, tall guy and not skinner than before even comparing me with her ex and this is the reason that she left me.. can i just leave her forever?
Well let her go find what she is looking for as what she is basing her criteria on will always fluctuate and not a solid foundation for a relationship. Move on for reasonable and women who are looking for substance and quality not just looks or fitness level! By the way what is she offering in return?, provides money, looks always fit, always attend to her responsibilities and follows a disciplined regiment? We have live stream on Saturdays at 1 PM Vancouver time and again at 9 PM Vancouver time. You are welcomed to join us and ask your question. Let me know your age and which country you are watching the videos from. Click on the subscribe button and the bell so hopefully you will be notified ( by RUclips) when I go live!
LOL, no as I am invisible on youtube and other channel's with rubbish content are doing great with their views and subscriptions but my channel is invisible. After 9 years I only have23000 subs! 😂 3000 videos and over 1200 live streams! 😊
can you make a video on if the reason was because of you, and what to do then, like what if was my fault she dumped me because i treated her like crap and stuff
One of my exes treated me really good with full support, respect, kindness and we never quarrelled. The only reason why I left was not because of him but I could not lie to myself that I never fell in love with him. Anyway, he is a wonderful person and I really wish him doing all good.
Totally same situatuon. I had a very wonderful guy, however I felt that I am not totally inlove so I had to leave him. He deserves someone better and I dont want for him to waste his time anymore with me.
Okay.... I don't agree. Yes, maybe it wasn't him and maybe it was more her things, that she had to deal with. But the way you said things in that video will just reassure some men into thinking they did nothing wrong and they have no reason to work on themselves. Because at the end of the day she left, because she was missing something and something wasn't right. And that doesn't mean that there is necessarily something WRONG with each of them but still there was something missing in the relationship. Thinking and learning from what that might have been might help for the future
Cases are different its not all the same in every relationship. There are over 3000 videos on this topic on this channel and this may address it in this way but there are others that looks at the break up challenge from different angles. There are many videos that emphasizes the need for personal growth and understanding the issues from the other person's point of view and are helpful in a different way.
I went through the sane thing recently, with a slight difference, she migrated the broke up a few months later....she said it was best for me...lol.... I don't contact her , but I still hav feelings for her..... If she wants me back am not sure what to do....
Mehran jan I have a question My ex went back to her ex We had a very good chemistry she loved me and wanted me to get engaged to her At a point. I wasn’t a simp I treated her like a gentleman, her ex was abusive and he cheated on her at a stage Everything was perfect between us no fights nothing mo signs of lacking in anything But one day she just broke up with me And left.without a reason I told her all the best and haven’t heard from her in 4months What are your thoughts would she come back? I was never needy I never begged or pleaded for her to stay Please Answer Mehran Jan 🙏
Hello Al, Even if she comes back do not accept her as obviously she is not reliable and suitable for the kind of person you are. Usually these sort of women have no real roots and have psychological shortcomings about their own worth and values and gravitate to assholes as they feel lack of real values that only fulfilment of their ego makes them worthy and since her ex had cheated on her then she may be feeling rejected and in pursuit of proving to the cheater that she is better than the one he cheated on her with...these are all her problems and best to let her go as she is not accustom to love, order and gentlemanly values. This is on her and not you and with such people regardless of how much good you do for them and how much class you show them and how well and respectful you treat and interact with them they never find their balance as they internally are weak minded and low self esteemed and low class with values that are very different from you. I need more detail to be able to be on target and accurate in regards to this. You might want to go on my site and make a Skype appointment for us to discuss it in more detail. let me know your age and which country/ city you are watching the videos from.
@@alzzz2332 You need to go on my site www.mindthatseekstruth.com and make a consultation appointment and then once the registration comes to my email I will send you Skype connection invitation and we can set up the exact time and day for the consultation.
I was hurt after my father died and took it out on my bf. I abruptly ended the relationship. However, we got back together and have been married for 5 yrs. So, every situation is different. This advice is good for some but not every relationship.
Yes of course there are always exceptions but in most cases in this time in history, considering cultural and social changes in values and standards of quality in human relations, this is accurate.
If you really insist on getting your ex back. I can recom'mend you to a man| who heIped me bring my ex back, he can aIso heIp you without delay just as he did mine
Not acceptable Ngala. A man must never retaliate towards a woman physically in any shape or form. That is neither brave, honourable nor it is acceptable among the men who consider themselves strong and real men. I suggest to you always protect women and never raise hand on a woman or a child. You will always feel more manly and stronger if you never physically raise hand on a woman or a child.
How can i do no contact to my ex girlfriend and she has a new relationship after we break up 1 week later. We live the same house. We rent the same room. Its hard for me to see her she always chatted her new boyfriend in front of me she always talk how good her new bf and she told me that her body its not mine anymore and belong to her new boyfriend and it hurts. What should i do? Please help me coach. Thank you.
1- fart 2- fart 3- fart 4- r u serious? 5- why u are making your self busy? 6- move on bro and don't look back just walkway 7- don't ever contact her ever never 8- love your self and be the bad boy and don't give a single fuck
What is in her body that you think it can stop your enjoyment of life and so many amazing women and pleasures they offer in more ways than just body pleasure? Is she the only woman on earth? The source of her power and importance is not in her but in your desire for her and that desire is only lust as if she does not offer whatever you think she can offer to you then what good is she to you? then move on and find a woman who wants to be with you as then that woman is far more valuable than the the one who does not offer you that what you want. The source of her importance is you, give it to someone else and she will have no more importance when you desire some one else.
I understand "if it's not you - you can't control it". But the rest is simply not correct. Many people get back together and stay together until the day they die. I understand it's easier to think "It would be the same", and maybe it would be for many cases - but there are couples who can work through that and get back stronger.
This is about the people who have already tried and did their best to keep it together and make it work but eventually after all that having tried and did not work then this is when you watch this video. It's not about when the couple have not tried and done their best to make it work.
Lovev's life true love Never die I know a great and powerful healer that can get back your ex or crua without delay Just forever within 48hours he helped me too immediately
Its Rizl this video is mostly about not getting back with the side that initiates the breakup. If you were abusive ( as you put it) or at fault then you know what you should do and a sincere apology and taking responsibility for the way you treated your partner is just a beginning!
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Hi, im a girl and my Indian boyfriend just left me for an Indian woman that his family arranged him. He kept blaming me saying i like to fuck around but i didnt. i used to blame his family and cant let go but now i see it's not my problems. thank you!
I refuse to believe anything in this. Because it sounds like bullshit. Ya big phony
Done
especially if they left you for someone else taking them back kills all respect and attraction
The respect and attraction are gone the moment the relationship is over.
BINGO 🎯
Never take something you threw away back from the garbage can. It will be the same trash, but now it will smell worse.
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Many thanks, I have been researching "winning back your wife" for a while now, and I think this has helped. Have you ever come across - Jenaniel Forgiveness Blueprint - (should be on google have a look ) ? Ive heard some unbelievable things about it and my co-worker got amazing success with it.
@@tetonaconbitcoin8513 you're a sucker for punishment
Maybe if human beings were inanimate and dead objects. They are living souls.
They will leave again and they have done it before. Look back at history and you will see they walked out on other people as well and they will in future walk out on new people. Let them walk. Let them go...although its hard to accept that someone can just walk out of your life, let them go, life is better this way..
youre sooooo right about that
What if you are the one who broke up? Your comment is one sided
If you're the one who broke up, there is obviously something wrong with you.
@@rubio9478 I disagree with you, I broke up with my boyfriend because his behavior was toxic for me, he didn't leave me any choice
@@shikadaikobutsu3414 I don't know what your situation is, but I was actually referring to when toxic people were doing the dumping.
Why do people want their ex back. Things will clearly not work out, they’ll just stay stuck in same patterns
Is it dependency?
But that's simply not correct. Many people get back together and stay together until the day they die.
I understand it's easier to think "It would be the same", and maybe it would be for your case - but there are couples who can work through that and get back stronger.
@@LL-wu5ui there's nothing like working on a relationship..... that's being in prison.... when someone wants to stay , you put in little or no effort at all but they'll still stay. If they don't want to, no matter the effort, they'll leave. Even though I believe some people were not in love initially but can fall for you after you get back together a second time.
@@LL-wu5ui Yeah, like all these super negative people who say you most likely won't get back together, and if you do, it won't last.
Basing these off of surveys, which are heavily biased since they only take a small sample size and base it off of that, then pass it off as though it is the truth for everyone and every situation, which it is not.
Sometimes it’s lack of maturity. I know of a couple that were good together, but the timing wasn’t right. They needed to mature more and have more life experience under their belts. They came back to each other 15 years later and they are going strong. If the person is someone that is selfish and entitled, aka a narcissist, that’s never going to work. Kick them to the curb and NEVER look back.
Take it from me, my ex left me 3 times in 6yrs and last time was 8months ago and we were engaged for 2yrs. I treated her amazing. Please trust me if your ex leaves you once and yiu didn't do nothing wrong DO NOT TAKE THEM BACK cause 100% they'll do it again. I'm still devasted and shocked dealing with extreme anxiety and panic attacks everyday and deep depression.
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Thank you I appreciate it, I'm 36 from Toronto
I will follow your advice
I am not going back to him.never
Thanks you my ex is begging me to take her back. This helps me know I shouldn’t
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Perfect timing!! An eye opener for me...i shouldnt wait for him anymore to come back after many times he left me without any reason or fault..thank u so much master mehran..god blessed you..
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@@MehranDadbeh thank u so much my master mehran
now i am feeling so good, even she was told me the problem is with her, not with you but i was fucking madly in love with her, or i think LDR was not her kind of thing as can't fu*k me in video calls so she left to fu*k someone else, so its her problem not mine, even it doesn't matter how good you are, they will left you someday, so focus on yourself, chase yourself not her/him.
Based on experience, this is true on every level. Thanks mehran jan
You are welcomed Babak jaan
Ex is Exit
My Ex is complicated,
I never ever go back 🚫
Dumped 4 times in 2 years for reasons that had nothing to do with me... another spot on video Mehran.
Do not use that word ( dumped) against yourself, They were not compatible with you and the relationship did not work, that is all. You go forward and build and enjoy your life and seek more compatible partners. :)
Mind That Seeks Truth! Thank you for your knowledge! Your the kick in the butt I’ve been needing 🤪
@@davetrottier LOL, then get moving before bigger stick/ kick comes to encourage you more! :) build your life and enjoy your life and be happy about your life including the breakups and whatever stuff in that regards. These are all part of a normal life and nothing more.
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I'm on the other side of the fence of this, meaning that I mistreated her. I liked watching this video however, getting more perspective on what's on the other side. I want to learn much more about not repeating any bad behavior towards anybody else. I am learning a lesson
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So very true...i needed to hear that...perfect timing. Thank you so much Mehran.
You are welcomed Carpe Diem
thanks, i really appreciate this video, this is an eye opener to me, i give everything my best for her and she still dumped me, now i'm awake that's not my fault anymore
good now you can begin to live :)
I've had two major relationships end because i was the one who walked away.
Both times they wanted open relationships and I said no, it was against my values.
I've struggled with ending the relationships because the men they married are now having a lot more sex than I am lol.
But they also have to contend with the fact that their wives are constantly seeking other men. They are fawning over new guys and telling other men they love them. They are exposing the kids to poly life and the kids are not happy.
Honestly, I may not be getting a lot of sex, but my heart and soul are not being torn apart wondering why they are constantly seeking others.
I stayed true to me. It wasn't me.
Thank you.
Your words calm me down... a young woman left me fir another guy, she has a kid from a previous relationship and the break up throws my heart out... it wasn't long, just 8 months, but it hurts due to the attachment...
@@charlesdc1233 Just remember it isn't you. So many women are broken and influenced by this media hype of having your cake and eating it too. What this ultimately leads to is that the women hit the wall at 40 and can't find a guy to support them as they age. They are left to either become ultra-promiscuous and sleep with the chads who will never stay or be alone. I guarantee that this woman will regret leaving you but it won't be right away. Find your happiness and keep going.
Just got out of a 4 and a half year relationship with a woman who I poured my heart and soul into.
And this video makes me feel calmer knowing I will be grow but give the love I know I can to someone who can reciprocate it back.
Thank you so much. The video was much appreciated.
@@C.macaraeg You are welcomed Cyrone, you will find many many videos on this channel which will help you understand your psyche better and become more and more invincible through knowledge and find your way back to the balance and normality, and on to bigger and better things. You can always join us at the weekly live stream (free) on Saturdays at 1 PM Vancouver time. You can ask your questions based on your situations after break up, or just listen / watch the answer to other people's questions from around the world. We have live stream on Saturdays at 1 PM Vancouver time and again at 9 PM Vancouver time. Let me know your age and which country you are watching the videos from.
Love this video! All the coaches online trying to tell us how we should re-attrect our exes. I really don't get it, if they left us when we did nothing wrong, they will probably do it again. For example, my ex (with BPD) told me she loved me and wanted to have kids together and the next week she broke up with me (she was devestated though) because she wanted to experience other people before setteling for the rest of her life. She also told me that she hoped we could back together in the future when she was done exploring. Well f*ck me haha. If she left me before, she will left me again. We had a realy loving relationship and there was realy a lot positive stuff going on, but still: she chose to leave me so that's the end.
She came back just to leave me again.
Yes, I was nice.
I was totally powerless in this relationship. Horrible feeling.
Very true thank you for the video...same thing happened to me treated her well in all areas ,but she still left me..
Glad you enjoy the video and find it helpful William.
I like this guy, he reminds me of uncle Junior on the Sopranos....."Don't ever regret anything you ever did".
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Great short video…and informative! Thank you…You made it more clear why I won’t go back to my Ex-Wife.
What if it IS then? I left because I couldn’t trust HIM, but he thought it was all good. He tried to get me back, but he was still lying about stupid stuff. So I didn’t get back, sometimes I wonder if I made a mistake. But I now know that trust is everything. And I could not trust him... just lying all day and insulting my intelligence.
Great video! Your videos have helped me so much. I feel privileged to have found you sir. You speak a hard truth to those in need. Know thyself. Thank you
You are welcomed Jc
i like your excellent way of cutting to the chase and being direct and outspoken. well said!
Glad you liked it!
Case in point, your ex isn't a good person and is completely fucked up in the head. 😊
This helped me out so much!! Thank you!!! You’re definitely a wise old man!
You're very welcome!
I have watched a million videos and they never said this one point that you made! Your advice can also be vice versa! Thank you so much Sir!
I'm a fairly competent, intelligent person. I've had some experience in life too but I needed to hear this extremely simple analogy. I played a lot of basketball and imagining myself trying to play with a ball even slightly out of round, under or over inflated, too big or too small simply wouldn't work.
I've been stuck on a girl that broke up with me a year ago. Everything you said here fits my situation, I treated her very well. The thing I couldn't see was her.
Shes not even close to being a well rounded basketball! I was trying to play basketball with a football and couldn't figure out why it wasn't working.
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Thanks, I needed to hear this today. What you saying makes sense.
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i so stupidly let him back and he left me again lol and now hes messaging me saying sorry and i love you after a month of no contact but ill never let him back.
Yeah girl, I hope soon you'll meet someone that treats you the way you deserve ♡
SAME he begged for me to take him back then broke up with me five days later . I hope he comes back again so I can reject him this time 🙄
@@brielleharmony7568 oh good luck :) i messaged my ex back like an idiot cus i was feeling alone, so he still thinks im obsessed with him lool
@@mizzcrazygal at least yours wants you back lool girl I called mine yesterday to find out he must of changed his number .I’m in disbelief about to die 😭😩😩.
He left me because he didn’t love me and was moving to another state due to his job. I accepted it and did my best to move on. Once I finally felt that I was okay and hardly thought of him, he called me. I didn’t answer out of fear that I would get hurt again. Now I find out that he got engaged. It hurts and I feel like I’m back to square one. The constant thought of “what if” is bothering me so much.
Always mind the good reason why your ex is not worth it,, move on life isn't nobody's home. So enjoy your fucking moment without an excuse
Thank you sir .straight to the point
Please continue doing this, your voice is soothing and your words are wise, All my questions got answered. ❤️
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Very good advice! Thank you much!❤
Thanls a lot man! Good metaphore. Greetings from 🇲🇽
after 4M of NC, i don't want that anymore
Hello Cesar, l Kno of a man in Los Angeles 🇺🇸 that can stabilize ur relationship 💯💯💯
Cos am a living testimony 🖕🖕🖕🙏
you,re a man of experience & knows the game
Stop looking back,move forward I don’t understand the exes obsession wanting your old life back,move on
as a basketball player initially i was like this is not a good comparison but i actually loved the comparison by the end
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Great video Mehran 👍
Glad you watched it.
The Ball is My Court i know The Truth and trust no body Love No new boyfriend
My situation has a lot to it but ultimately my ex left me twice because I couldn't sleep next to her. Her snoring was awful and she refused to ever be held accountable for it, or anything really. Her reactions to things were very angry and it turned to name calling and other toxic shit. I eventually had to take space and end it permanently. It became almost like an addiction and the past few weeks have been rough. Feels like a drug withdrawal. But yeah I mostly struggle with the fact she kept saying I couldn't give her what she needed in the relationship and "normal couples" sleep next to each other. But I know she wasn't good for me ultimately. As much as I love her, she isn't what I want in a woman. Way too argumentative and childish in a lot of ways.
Lol, completely understandable. Some people simply can not accept their limitations yet they expect extra ordinary recognition of their good traits.
What’s the big deal but some of those snore strips and move on💤
Mehran jan merci for this video. Helps out a lot!
I recently went through a difficult breakup. My five year relationship ended a month ago, and it's been incredibly hard. I still have so much love for my ex girlfriend, and I can't seem to get her out of my mind. Despite my best efforts to win her back, nothing has worked, and the thought of being with anyone else feels impossible right now. I know it might sound odd to share this here, but I miss her deeply and can't stop thinking about her.
I completely understand the pain of letting go of someone you love. I went through a similar experience when my 10 year relationship ended. I couldn't imagine my life without her, so I tried everything to rekindle our love. I eventually found guidance from a spiritual counselor, and their support helped me bring her back into my life
By the way, how did you find a spiritual counselor, and how can I get in touch with them?
His name is Fatherabulu, and he's an incredible spiritual counselor known for helping restore relationships.
Thank you for sharing this valuable insight. I just looked him up, and I'm genuinely impressed.
Robert come to one of the live streams and regain your balance and enjoy your life . Life is not summed up in one woman or one relationship there are so much more amd so many amazing women out on you r path of the journey of life so stop being like this and move on and accomplish your tasks and be productive and be the man you are and not a....?😃
I like this huy he is so truthful
He moved me to FL after 3 years of dating. Broke up with me after the first month I moved to FL because he realized he wasn’t ready and his mom wanted him to date within his race and didn’t even know that he moved me. I was heartbroken alone in a new city for a year. He called me and begged for me back and I took him back. Broke up with me again after 6 months but blamed it on the fact that I like to drink and he doesn’t drink at all but immediately started messaging the girl who was his “friend” and hooking up after we broke up. Also plenty other girls he admitted to. It’s now been 2 1/2 years and he called AGAIN saying that he had grass is greener syndrome and realized he made a massive mistake and will get a ring right now for me if I give him another chance. Even though I loved him so deeply, I can’t allow myself that disrespect. I just blocked him. Feels FANTASTIC.
Good proud of you.
Thank you so much for this video
U hit the nail on the head boom
i was nice to my ex and everything, but the only difference is I left her, she didnt. I got tired of sacrificing my time and health while receiving not even nice words from her.
same and there's nothing wrong with walking away from someone that didn't deserve you
Same here. Samething.
Mines back after doing that to me years ago - apologetic genuinely changed… but my god never thought I’lld say this but I just don’t feel the same anymore… & it’s driving her nuts haha I love being single hang in there guys do the work on yourself :)
Mines? English please not Ebonics.
What if she lost her husband less than a year ago and got into a relationship with me then realized that she's not ready? 🤷🏾♂️
come to my live streaming (on youtube)e today around 12 noon Vancouver time and I will address it.
Wow ♥️the exact answer I wanted
best advice ever
thank u so much! real talk 100
My man........... you fixed my day :)
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She left me and then ghosted me one week got back accepted her because I love her so much never loved so much a person in my entire life
I really needed this... Thanks
You're so welcome!
Every relationship is different.
Thank you, this helps a lot.
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What if it was you? And then realized your mistakes?
At the time you made that decision you believed that that decision was correct otherwise you would not have made such a decision Alberto. So search what was the reason but if you have been an unreasonable person and just did what you did out of ego or other illogical and unreasonable reasons then I am sure you have grown and learned and will do what might be necessary to explain, apologize and make it up to her and see if you can patch up things and stay true to the relationship and do your best to be who you want to be. And if it did not work and she did not wish to get back in the relationship with you, then you still move on and prepare for a better experience with a new and better version of you for the next relationship!
I needed to hear this.
Thank you! I needed this. 🙏
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Never Go back to the SCENE OF THE CRIME
Five months later and I finally found the way to stop my ex pandemic boyfriend from contacting every time I start meeting people and dating😁😁😁
I treated my ex gf like a Queen did everything a man should do for her aka was a gentleman and still got cheated on she hurt me she wanted me back but my feelings weren't there I'ma free agents haha her lost
What if the reason he left me was me. What if I was sabotaging the relationship, treating my ex terribly and even though he warned me he had enough I continued. What than?
I've done this same thing to my ex in our 8 yr relationship. If this was the case they are gone. They feel relief without you. If they come back they may come black because their options has dried up. If you sabotaged the relationship they will fall out of love before leaving you. Their are people out there that will treat them better.... If they do experience issues with the new partner it wont be that hard to deal with because you have made them stronger emotionally for what you put them through
Thank you 🤟🏻❤️
I was very nice, kind & respectful to my ex.
He still left me.
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Thank you, Sir!
You are welcomed Elvin. join us at the weekly live stream (free) on Saturdays at 1 PM Vancouver time. You can ask your questions based on your situations after break up, or just listen / watch the answer to other people's questions from around the world. We have live stream on Saturdays at 1 PM Vancouver time and again at 9 PM Vancouver time. Let me know your age and which country you are watching the videos from.
Aloha!
Aloha John, how is everything in my adopted home town beloved Hawaii Islands?
True wisdom
Now my ex and I getting back together is never going to happen. It's been a year and half since the breakup lol. However, to just throw out a comment on this video, I was good to her but I also was insecure and was a verbal ass at times. I've self reflected and grown. I can see why I pushed her away. That also said, she's on her 8th serious relationship and her track record says a lot as well.
Always multiply her body count with 3.
I live by the creed "If she didn't want you in her prime....then you don't want her in her decline". My first girlfriend did decide to break up with me after going together for 3 years. Started riding the carosel. later found out that she was pregnant with another guys kid. She married the kids father and then had another kid. I moved on with my life. It was tough because she was my first love but time moves on. Fast forward 20 years later - she's divorced and that same guy she left me for....left her...and remarried someone else. She was left to take care of the kids etc. Her ex later died. So saw her about 2 years ago and she wants us to "be together because it was meant to be." Nope Nope Nope and a billion time no. I don't want to have sex with her and there is no way I would be with her. I have had more beautiful younger and hotter women. Not attracted to her at all and as far as I'm concerned she did me a favor. Again if she doesn't want you in her prime - you do not want her in her decline. Tell exs to kick rocks
Good job, it was meant to be but meant to be not together otherwise you would still be together. So there is no "meant to be" nonsense in this scenario. 😊
Is calling a person names a form of abuse? What if this person, despite the fact that he has asked for forgiveness multiple times in the past, disrespect me whenever he feel like doing it? He never cheated on me. Am I being mean for don't trusting his words anymore and for wanting to have someone in my life who treats me with respect? What would you do? We don't have any kids.
Anything that makes you feel uncomfortable and unsafe, spoken to you condescending, demeaning or disrespectful, are all unacceptable. You should feel protected, and safe and the rest of it is between you and your man to expect and offer and create the harmony you both seek.
so true!
if im not stylish guy, tall guy and not skinner than before even comparing me with her ex and this is the reason that she left me.. can i just leave her forever?
Well let her go find what she is looking for as what she is basing her criteria on will always fluctuate and not a solid foundation for a relationship. Move on for reasonable and women who are looking for substance and quality not just looks or fitness level! By the way what is she offering in return?, provides money, looks always fit, always attend to her responsibilities and follows a disciplined regiment?
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I think this video just bankrupt all the RUclipsr giving advise on getting ex back.
LOL, no as I am invisible on youtube and other channel's with rubbish content are doing great with their views and subscriptions but my channel is invisible. After 9 years I only have23000 subs! 😂 3000 videos and over 1200 live streams! 😊
Thankyou
can you make a video on if the reason was because of you, and what to do then, like what if was my fault she dumped me because i treated her like crap and stuff
Thank u
One of my exes treated me really good with full support, respect, kindness and we never quarrelled. The only reason why I left was not because of him but I could not lie to myself that I never fell in love with him. Anyway, he is a wonderful person and I really wish him doing all good.
You did in not fell in love with him coz he treated you right and kindness. Period -
@@mahmouda4962 correct. If he abused her she would be in love. Never marry, this is for most every women's character.
Totally same situatuon. I had a very wonderful guy, however I felt that I am not totally inlove so I had to leave him. He deserves someone better and I dont want for him to waste his time anymore with me.
@@bluesign3034 I totally understand. and it just felt so released after the leaving
Ex is Ex. Hi honey bye 👋
Okay.... I don't agree. Yes, maybe it wasn't him and maybe it was more her things, that she had to deal with. But the way you said things in that video will just reassure some men into thinking they did nothing wrong and they have no reason to work on themselves. Because at the end of the day she left, because she was missing something and something wasn't right. And that doesn't mean that there is necessarily something WRONG with each of them but still there was something missing in the relationship. Thinking and learning from what that might have been might help for the future
Cases are different its not all the same in every relationship. There are over 3000 videos on this topic on this channel and this may address it in this way but there are others that looks at the break up challenge from different angles. There are many videos that emphasizes the need for personal growth and understanding the issues from the other person's point of view and are helpful in a different way.
I went through the sane thing recently, with a slight difference, she migrated the broke up a few months later....she said it was best for me...lol.... I don't contact her , but I still hav feelings for her.....
If she wants me back am not sure what to do....
Mehran jan
I have a question
My ex went back to her ex
We had a very good chemistry she loved me and wanted me to get engaged to her
At a point.
I wasn’t a simp I treated her like a gentleman, her ex was abusive and he cheated on her at a stage
Everything was perfect between us no fights nothing mo signs of lacking in anything
But one day she just broke up with me
And left.without a reason
I told her all the best and haven’t heard from her in 4months
What are your thoughts would she come back? I was never needy I never begged or pleaded for her to stay
Please Answer Mehran Jan 🙏
Hello Al,
Even if she comes back do not accept her as obviously she is not reliable and suitable for the kind of person you are. Usually these sort of women have no real roots and have psychological shortcomings about their own worth and values and gravitate to assholes as they feel lack of real values that only fulfilment of their ego makes them worthy and since her ex had cheated on her then she may be feeling rejected and in pursuit of proving to the cheater that she is better than the one he cheated on her with...these are all her problems and best to let her go as she is not accustom to love, order and gentlemanly values. This is on her and not you and with such people regardless of how much good you do for them and how much class you show them and how well and respectful you treat and interact with them they never find their balance as they internally are weak minded and low self esteemed and low class with values that are very different from you. I need more detail to be able to be on target and accurate in regards to this. You might want to go on my site and make a Skype appointment for us to discuss it in more detail. let me know your age and which country/ city you are watching the videos from.
@@MehranDadbeh
Where is the link for the Skype
Thank you Mehran jan
@@alzzz2332 You need to go on my site www.mindthatseekstruth.com and make a consultation appointment and then once the registration comes to my email I will send you Skype connection invitation and we can set up the exact time and day for the consultation.
@@MehranDadbeh
All paid for one hour call
Thanks
I was hurt after my father died and took it out on my bf. I abruptly ended the relationship. However, we got back together and have been married for 5 yrs. So, every situation is different. This advice is good for some but not every relationship.
Yes of course there are always exceptions but in most cases in this time in history, considering cultural and social changes in values and standards of quality in human relations, this is accurate.
Where is the #2 video?
I took him back and he just quit again! Not the third time learnt my lesson
If you really insist on getting your ex back. I can recom'mend you to a man| who heIped me bring my ex back, he can aIso heIp you without delay just as he did mine
Wh'atsap him for heIp
What If she was verbally abusive and you retaliated physically?
Not acceptable Ngala. A man must never retaliate towards a woman physically in any shape or form. That is neither brave, honourable nor it is acceptable among the men who consider themselves strong and real men. I suggest to you always protect women and never raise hand on a woman or a child. You will always feel more manly and stronger if you never physically raise hand on a woman or a child.
Listen to old people, they wise as fk. Been thought a lot.
Who you calling old? Lol 😀🤙☕️
How can i do no contact to my ex girlfriend and she has a new relationship after we break up 1 week later. We live the same house. We rent the same room. Its hard for me to see her she always chatted her new boyfriend in front of me she always talk how good her new bf and she told me that her body its not mine anymore and belong to her new boyfriend and it hurts. What should i do? Please help me coach. Thank you.
1- fart
2- fart
3- fart
4- r u serious?
5- why u are making your self busy?
6- move on bro and don't look back just walkway
7- don't ever contact her ever never
8- love your self and be the bad boy and don't give a single fuck
What is in her body that you think it can stop your enjoyment of life and so many amazing women and pleasures they offer in more ways than just body pleasure? Is she the only woman on earth? The source of her power and importance is not in her but in your desire for her and that desire is only lust as if she does not offer whatever you think she can offer to you then what good is she to you? then move on and find a woman who wants to be with you as then that woman is far more valuable than the the one who does not offer you that what you want. The source of her importance is you, give it to someone else and she will have no more importance when you desire some one else.
thx..
You're welcome!
I will gladly allow my ex to return the day she finds a natural way to put the shit back into the horse.
Hello what's app a (Dr Wilson) so you can get back your love ex he helped me few days ago restore back my husband who left me with kids okay
He is best when it comes to recovery relationship
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its still painful 3 months on i would get back with her though
What if she been with someone else would you still get back with her
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Wowwwww
Old man are more wise and clever.
Who you calling old Pankaj? 😎☕️🤙
I understand "if it's not you - you can't control it".
But the rest is simply not correct. Many people get back together and stay together until the day they die.
I understand it's easier to think "It would be the same", and maybe it would be for many cases - but there are couples who can work through that and get back stronger.
This is about the people who have already tried and did their best to keep it together and make it work but eventually after all that having tried and did not work then this is when you watch this video. It's not about when the couple have not tried and done their best to make it work.
@@MehranDadbeh Okay, thank you for clarifying. I got the wrong idea.
I think I made a mistake haha
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What if I was abusive some times?
Its Rizl this video is mostly about not getting back with the side that initiates the breakup. If you were abusive ( as you put it) or at fault then you know what you should do and a sincere apology and taking responsibility for the way you treated your partner is just a beginning!