"THE SECRET “ Being Black in Corporate America

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  • Опубликовано: 6 сен 2024
  • A story following an employee who receives startling information that ultimately alters the course of his day.
    Starring: Kornelius Bascombe
    Directed by: Davis Northern

Комментарии • 453

  • @SPTraining_fit
    @SPTraining_fit Год назад +358

    Being black in corporate America means you have to document EVERY-SINGLE-THING, save every single email, watch every little thing you say or do, DO NOT HAVE ANY TYPE OF RELATIONSHIPS IN OR OUT THE WORKPLACE, be extra eloquent, be always on time and maintain a low profile. We as black men are held to a stricter standard in the workplace

    • @tavia20
      @tavia20 Год назад +15

      Well said, brother

    • @truthliesbeneath3134
      @truthliesbeneath3134 Год назад +38

      Us black women have to face the same thing trust and believe

    • @Darnellgenard
      @Darnellgenard Год назад +24

      @@truthliesbeneath3134 true but y’all have more back up y’all ain’t viewed in the same light

    • @truthliesbeneath3134
      @truthliesbeneath3134 Год назад +13

      @@Darnellgenard that’s unfair depending on how the BW looks and not even her resume or skills. There are exemptions to who gets a pass from YT

    • @Darnellgenard
      @Darnellgenard Год назад +23

      @@truthliesbeneath3134 I’m saying the culture defends black women…. As black men were told and shown that we ain’t sht since were boys Im telling you queen the struggle is different

  • @MyThoughtzAndOpinionz
    @MyThoughtzAndOpinionz 2 года назад +188

    Working in Corporate America should be a temporary thing. Just learn the business, then move on to start your own business. But don’t tell anybody what your plans are!!!

    • @amarissharrispurpose
      @amarissharrispurpose Год назад +7

      Currently 🫶🏾

    • @latoriarichardson6754
      @latoriarichardson6754 Год назад +3

      Definitely!

    • @luvbig41
      @luvbig41 2 месяца назад +5

      Moving in silence should be a mantra for Black people especially when surrounded by "Fragility".

    • @4doorsmorewhors
      @4doorsmorewhors 12 дней назад +2

      You know it doesn't work like that? Not EVERYBODY can start a business. Imagine if everyone had a business....

    • @Priceless5799
      @Priceless5799 4 дня назад +1

      Facts

  • @RJ-zu7zj
    @RJ-zu7zj 6 месяцев назад +72

    Finding another job isn’t always the answer, because these patterns are ingrained in most companies

    • @luvbig41
      @luvbig41 2 месяца назад +4

      BINGO!!!! AND to top it off finding another job isn't that easy.

    • @andre1987eph
      @andre1987eph 2 месяца назад +1

      You gotta flip tables man. Jesus flipped tables.

    • @kenediii_ryan
      @kenediii_ryan 19 дней назад

      Going from job to job experiencing the same thing is soul-destroying & decimates mental health. You'd better pick your poison.

  • @theamethyst93
    @theamethyst93 3 года назад +143

    All the white peoples in the comments thinking they can speak on the black experience are sending me 🤣🤣🤣

    • @jaredjames1989
      @jaredjames1989 3 года назад +12

      Man they be all up in african diaspora news channel talking reckless tryna but into convos that don't concern them. Niggas can't have shit. Smh

    • @jermen5137
      @jermen5137 3 года назад +17

      Truly foolish! I see them too. 🥴 and they probably are the same no good ones like in this video.

    • @THEECYBERMACKIN
      @THEECYBERMACKIN 2 года назад +7

      @@floridawater7947 hey white boy chill

    • @you_only_have_4000_weeks
      @you_only_have_4000_weeks 2 года назад

      We are all human white or black and go through our own bs.

    • @luvbig41
      @luvbig41 2 месяца назад +4

      They don't even know 1% of what we go through.

  • @thedhive6512
    @thedhive6512 3 года назад +182

    On my compliance team, according to my performance metrics, I was more productive than the entire team of 14 members. My productivity rating literally stated that I was outworking the entire team of over a dozen people by a ratio of 3 to 1. Not only was I repeatedly criticized for following instructions but I was denied a pay raise that everyone else got. My supervisor told me to reduce my productivity to focus on emails and my manager told me I had job security and that my productivity didn't matter anyway. Literally, on New Years, I was fired for reducing my productivity as requested. Beware the games they play. When you don't pretend to be someone you aren't or take disrespect they see you as a threat and want you gone.

    • @backuph6228
      @backuph6228 3 года назад +27

      Same thing is happening to me, outperform and outwork, yet still fall under the bootlickers. Ask for direction, get told to reduce productivity, and then bam , evidence that youre underperforming. Its a vicious cycle that im not sure anyone can ever beat....

    • @sharifalexander114
      @sharifalexander114 3 года назад +17

      @@backuph6228 I wish you guys the best .. I have a Economics degree 2020.. 2021 all I had was contracts jobs and like 20 interviews with all white people... guess what.. no call backs

    • @thedhive6512
      @thedhive6512 3 года назад +20

      @@sharifalexander114 I literally just graduated with a master's degree and I am applying to jobs that say "master's preferred and I am still getting passed over for people without the education or experience.

    • @augustusbrown5320
      @augustusbrown5320 3 года назад +10

      Fired today🤷🏾‍♂️

    • @sharifalexander114
      @sharifalexander114 3 года назад +11

      @@augustusbrown5320 keep your head high .. more blessing coming your way .. stay positive.. your body is a big source of energy

  • @KC-ke7kq
    @KC-ke7kq 4 года назад +241

    Black professional's career paths are treacherous, humiliating, and humbling. We live this everyday.

    • @IntentionalMKTR
      @IntentionalMKTR 4 года назад +22

      Amen. Our experience is not at all unique, respectively, yet it's such an isolating, lonely feeling to "have a seat at the table"

    • @skylinez4793
      @skylinez4793 3 года назад +13

      The guy in the video should just get a new better paying job. The employer obviously dont respect him and if he stays means “thank you may I have another”.

    • @MrSivram28
      @MrSivram28 3 года назад +18

      Constant harrassment and belittling

    • @Him_Hefner
      @Him_Hefner Год назад +7

      I totally agree with you, it's really like this where I work, I'm the only black man in the department, Grambling State🖤💛 didnt tell me about this . . .SU😂

    • @ULTIMATEUNITED2000
      @ULTIMATEUNITED2000 Год назад +7

      Agreed 110%. We get judged more and have to prove ourselves ten times more. Its unfair society. That's why we see a small percentage of black CEOs. Demoralising

  • @Giogiogio4
    @Giogiogio4 4 года назад +186

    This is why ALL black people need to get together and make their own companies and LEAVE. No more music, Stop making them art and entertainment and go.

    • @wedsarta4345
      @wedsarta4345 3 года назад

      @Rex Winston sus

    • @TayBleezy
      @TayBleezy 3 года назад +3

      YES

    • @TheSeaddy10473
      @TheSeaddy10473 2 года назад +5

      As long as we don't have some our same color doing the very same thing

    • @mikepoor6397
      @mikepoor6397 2 года назад +7

      The problem is that they print the money

    • @kylecusa9192
      @kylecusa9192 2 года назад

      Amen

  • @rasheenwashington5222
    @rasheenwashington5222 2 года назад +66

    This is truly why us as black people need to work together in the corporate world.

    • @djrhhejdcigfvsvn3509
      @djrhhejdcigfvsvn3509 3 месяца назад

      some blacks are toxic too.

    • @WaldoBagelTopper
      @WaldoBagelTopper 2 месяца назад

      But you won’t. You’ll all do the same exact thing you always do- and that’s to cut each other down the second one of you have success. You call each other “sell outs”, “Ckunes”, and “unk-ul Thoms”.
      And then the rest of you are just unprofessional and have shitty attitudes. You get smart with customers and clients. You get smart with coaches and trainers who try to teach you the details of a job. You don’t participate. You behave as if the workplace is a middle school class room. You celebrate those of you who are embarrassments and have no home training. And you discourage those or you who are young and idealistic and tell them that they are sell outs for trying to build a career. That’s why you never get ahead. You don’t support one another.
      And then after you do ALL of that, you all call everyone racist as to why you are not able to get ahead.

  • @10akee
    @10akee Год назад +83

    As a black engineer, I've learned to no longer care about being accepted in "corporate America." Corporations are just a middleman between the consumer and me. So I focus more on trying to cut out the middleman and work for myself.

    • @JoeCnNd
      @JoeCnNd 7 месяцев назад +3

      I'm an older individual, 40, and I was wondering do you think it might be too late to get into engineering? I want to do electrical engineering. Been working on my math for the last few months to catch up.

    • @Goddess_Infinity
      @Goddess_Infinity 6 месяцев назад +2

      @@JoeCnNdyou are still young , it’s never too late . You got a good 30 to 40 years left if lucky .

    • @oyedread
      @oyedread 3 месяца назад +2

      ​@@JoeCnNdskip the bachelor... Focus on the area you want to be part of

    • @andre1987eph
      @andre1987eph 2 месяца назад

      Amen, work for your end client.

    • @oyedread
      @oyedread 24 дня назад +1

      reason I say this... is that you really want to get into what's calling your is it small electronics, the power grid, electric cars... In some cases you may not need the degree but if you do... then you can get the degree and really take the courses around it.

  • @karnez05
    @karnez05 3 года назад +97

    I quit jobs once I dont get what I want, I already know they don't want to give me what I deserve

  • @tallkekepink95
    @tallkekepink95 2 года назад +38

    And God forbid when you speak up for yourself..

  • @crencottrell7849
    @crencottrell7849 3 года назад +194

    Being a brotha in corporate America sucks!!
    Last one to get hired, 1st one to get fired, no matter how good you are at your job duties you're written up/warned/let go/terminated once you make mistakes no matter how forgivable they are, dealing with passive-aggressive Karens and Kens, ugh! I recommend NOT working in corporate America unless it's mandatory 😬🙄😤😖😅

    • @JaBokianism
      @JaBokianism 3 года назад +12

      I'm here because I'm going through this right now 😩😩😩

    • @fromnytomd
      @fromnytomd 2 года назад +7

      You are spot on Cren!!! And it's not just corporate America. I'm dealing with the same crap in the federal government!

    • @EraFitnessify
      @EraFitnessify 2 года назад +10

      I wish the best for you! I'm a black male in the Biopharmaceutical industry making 125K a year. Let me know if you have any questions or comments regarding the topic. Hopefully, I can provide you with something of value.

    • @EraFitnessify
      @EraFitnessify 2 года назад +2

      @DOSGRX any science related bachelor's will be useful. I have a BS degree in nutrition.

    • @djlovely2604
      @djlovely2604 2 года назад +1

      @@EraFitnessify how did you get hired? I get turned down all the time

  • @videxvid
    @videxvid 4 года назад +166

    Remember we will work twice as hard for a fraction of the pay. Their hand claps can’t replace the dollars/pounds you’re worth. 😕

    • @nathc540
      @nathc540 2 года назад +10

      For real. Underplayed and under appreciated

    • @NatTurner328
      @NatTurner328 Год назад

      “Applause” is the word you’re looking for, sweetie.

  • @misterj3133
    @misterj3133 2 года назад +27

    This is why blacks need to take our talents directly to the market ourselves. NO employer is ever going to pay you what you are truly worth.

  • @banks615
    @banks615 3 года назад +102

    Been through this before...once I got my last promotion it was my last promotion. In 5 years everyone around me started moving up to senior who has just joined their teams and I was stuck at the associate pay. When I asked about a move up they kept bird feeding me excuses. I left them at a critical time when my manager and 1 of my two co workers quit, I never felt better giving a job notice before. Now i'm making 10,000 a year more with better benefits and twice the paid holidays.

    • @augustusbrown5320
      @augustusbrown5320 3 года назад

      What are you doing now. #Mylimithasended

    • @DeJIMMYJAM
      @DeJIMMYJAM 2 года назад

      Congrats bro on the come up

    • @shareefpeoples5317
      @shareefpeoples5317 2 года назад +6

      I always love to hear about black excellence

    • @shareefpeoples5317
      @shareefpeoples5317 2 года назад +4

      Because usually it comes from a pit of failure or setbacks

  • @GANGSTERTURNJUNKER
    @GANGSTERTURNJUNKER Год назад +26

    This is why I started my own business. I ain’t got to deal with these devil 👿

  • @rdkirk3834
    @rdkirk3834 5 месяцев назад +11

    I retired from a Fortune 50 corporation in 2018, a couple of years before this video was released (it was a second career for me...I had already retired from an Air Force career). We had built up a substantial and effective Black Mafia in the corporation that guided black employees from the mailroom (literally) to the Executive Suite. That had been built even before I got there by some of the earliest black people hired in the late 60s and early 70s. It had benefitted me...I was hired because my mother-in-law went to church with the mother of one of the vice-presidents. He had a job created just for me. That's how the Black Mafia worked. But I discovered by the end of my career there, that younger blacks were not interested in being part of the Black Mafia. For some reason, black people watching out for black people didn't seem to have been part of their nurturing. So, I saw the effective Black Mafia falling apart even before I retired...because young black people didn't seem to think they needed it.

    • @andre1987eph
      @andre1987eph 2 месяца назад +5

      They will learn the hard way.

    • @Stephtheencourager
      @Stephtheencourager 5 дней назад

      Shame! I wish I had that support system in place!

  • @brianhunte269
    @brianhunte269 2 года назад +22

    Yep had a white unqualified guy get a shot before me in a corporate sales position. Today I run my own business

  • @user-zn3pn5uh4h
    @user-zn3pn5uh4h Год назад +22

    You have to fight. Everyday it’s a fight to stay afloat. Be innocent as a dove but wise as a serpent. As a black person, it’s stressful trying to navigate the corporate chessboard. Always seek out help from trustworthy people, make sure you discern, because other black folks is just as nasty and evil. Not all white folks are terrible either, some white executives are always willing to help. I was rescued by one after being under a black manager who promoted every other race except his own.
    My advice is this: be about the action, be bold, fight and go after what you think you deserve. I don’t care how many mistakes you’ve made. Keep on fighting, don’t quit, don’t surrender. Keep pressing forward! BE ABOUT THAT ACTION and not just talk.

  • @KeebasWorld
    @KeebasWorld Год назад +23

    I came to the sad conclusion a few weeks ago that, it is a lose lose situation for many blacks. I had been in denial my entire career. Sad day.

    • @Loveispainj
      @Loveispainj Год назад +2

      I wish you the best. Going through the same thing

    • @paimei1651
      @paimei1651 Год назад +2

      I turned my entire life around only to come to this conclusion also, stay strong.

    • @P8860
      @P8860 5 месяцев назад

      I also was in denial but now live in reality

  • @TrevieTrev
    @TrevieTrev 2 года назад +67

    I go thru this literally everyday it’s tough being a black businessman in America no matter how hard you work

    • @romkew472
      @romkew472 2 года назад +2

      ✊🏿

    • @EraFitnessify
      @EraFitnessify 2 года назад +5

      I wish the best for you! I'm a black male in the Biopharmaceutical industry making 125K a year. Let me know if you have any questions or comments regarding the topic. Hopefully, I can provide you with something of value.

    • @TrevieTrev
      @TrevieTrev 2 года назад +2

      @@EraFitnessify tI appreciate it I’m leaving the corporate world for the military but if you want to connect on LinkedIn or something that’s fine as well.

    • @EraFitnessify
      @EraFitnessify 2 года назад +1

      @@TrevieTrev fantastic. I spend 6 years in the army. They paid for my college. You are on a good path.

    • @TrevieTrev
      @TrevieTrev 2 года назад +1

      @@EraFitnessify thanks I’m gonna do my best. I appreciate the guidance and advice

  • @l-majesty3287
    @l-majesty3287 Год назад +25

    This spoke to every molecule in my being. Thank you for bringing to life the hurt that dies within us everyday. The ending was powerful. It brought me to tears because it's painfully true. The mask we as black men are forced to wear to survive the onslaught of indignities, slights and micro aggressions is awful. I felt seen here. Thank u. Much love to all my brothers.

    • @andre1987eph
      @andre1987eph 2 месяца назад

      When you have righteousness, you dont have to put up with abuse.

  • @NiaMSnow
    @NiaMSnow 2 года назад +29

    Going through this now! I'm the only black person on my staff and I'm a manager. One of the white manager has been discriminating me and I brought it to hr. At first they were going to do an investigation but little by little they seem to be covering up for her. Mind you, she still holds a job! She hasn't been suspended or anything! I decided to contact EEOC today.
    I work at Kendra Scott Jewelry!
    Smh!

    • @Seizetheday2011
      @Seizetheday2011 2 года назад +4

      Record everything, take notes so have a paper or evidence trail.

    • @NiaMSnow
      @NiaMSnow 2 года назад +4

      @@Seizetheday2011 thank you that's what I've been doing

    • @seensay2132
      @seensay2132 6 месяцев назад +4

      HR is NOT your friend! Nor are they sincerely interested in protecting you and your rights. Talk to a lawyer!

  • @brianwilliams8568
    @brianwilliams8568 3 года назад +65

    Your everyday black men just a smile to white america but at home deep down I’m hurt inside

    • @bekimcolaku5258
      @bekimcolaku5258 3 года назад

      What's better for the country socialism or capitalism do we give black and brown people unlimited money because they're disadvantaged ⁉️

    • @jermen5137
      @jermen5137 3 года назад +1

      @@bekimcolaku5258 yes you do. We will accept.

    • @JaBokianism
      @JaBokianism 3 года назад

      So hurt, very hurt

    • @you_only_have_4000_weeks
      @you_only_have_4000_weeks 2 года назад

      Make the money and save until you can exist. It is your life and don't expect someone else to make you happy.

  • @dexter-charlessutton9458
    @dexter-charlessutton9458 Год назад +24

    This is absolutely true I was 1 of 4 black professionals of 485 individuals. I was also the youngest at 27 where the 2nd youngest being 39 I over preformed, secured capital, process engineered for 323 localities single handedly. I was told people like me do not work in the type of environment by a senior. I was making 83k while EVERYONE made over 160k…. I was fired because my coworker email agencies in my name not using my email but HER EMAIL. She destroyed the excel sheet we used for contacts and blamed it on me… I was working from home and was terminated… I was the only professional with a PMP in a PMO… I had to figure out why I was fired by myself when a hr personal said corrupted excel files and incorrect emails…
    I was discriminated against by racism and agism. However I was also the only member giving executive solutions. Where the senior executives were incompetent..

    • @latoriarichardson6754
      @latoriarichardson6754 Год назад +3

      That is terrible how they treated you and fired you. However, it sounds like you have what it takes to build something better than where you were working!

    • @bretave7379
      @bretave7379 10 месяцев назад

      Aaa-huh.

    • @MsButterscotch13
      @MsButterscotch13 4 месяца назад

      Hope that you sued for the lies they told.

  • @Bigram.sonsun
    @Bigram.sonsun 4 года назад +52

    Him smiling that long made me feel weird AF. Lol

    • @robyearwood76
      @robyearwood76 3 года назад +15

      Try living it

    • @Bigram.sonsun
      @Bigram.sonsun 3 года назад +18

      @@robyearwood76 Lol. Im Black... AF. Been there once.. Never going back. Id rather be looked at as the "Angry Black Guy" if I gotta go through that again

    • @Zlervo
      @Zlervo 3 года назад +3

      Me too

    • @rondonavarro634
      @rondonavarro634 Год назад +1

      yes, its weird seeing yourself at one point

    • @brucepower3429
      @brucepower3429 Год назад

      @@Bigram.sonsun yep true

  • @Kammy_Royal22
    @Kammy_Royal22 Год назад +17

    This short story nailed it! We go above and over and they still look out for their own. Its not fair!

    • @seensay2132
      @seensay2132 6 месяцев назад +1

      This is the game they play.

  • @SwinkMediaHouse
    @SwinkMediaHouse 2 года назад +36

    Wow, I never knew so many people went through this. I worked for an airline company before that has a very racist undertone on the inside, but the catch is you won't see it until you're in a situation like the guy in the video. In a lot of ways, I was him and soon got fed up with the constant gaslighting, lying about raises, watching everybody white get promotions, and the list goes on. To be completely transparent, I worked with some very racist people that would say things about blacks, and then try to make me sign documents to say I wasn't offended. Like it was really that crazy!!
    Starting my own business has been the best thing ever from a mental health perspective. Instead of making these companies rich, why not try it for yourself first. That's something I wish somebody would've told me sooner, but now the cat is out of the bag. These companies don't deserve our talents if they aren't willing to level the playing field and hold everybody to the same standard that they hold you.
    To everyone going through this just continue to hold your head up. Your confidence and intelligence are their biggest fear!s

  • @forthdimension686
    @forthdimension686 3 года назад +56

    Tip#1 Workout everyday and meditate (keep your mind and body aligned and stress free)
    Tip# 2 Dress well and avoid situations that make you look dumb.
    Tip#3 Make allies with other blacks that are trust worthy. (Not all are)
    Tip#4 Work on getting out and working for yourself or working remotely. (Use covid to your advantage) (Also Keep this to yourself)
    Tip# 5 Don't be a victim (it's all in the mindset)

    • @ced2268
      @ced2268 3 года назад +26

      Tip # 6 Start your own business and quit thinking the only way for a black man to succeed in life is by becoming an employee working his ass off for a boss that will never acknowledge his talents.

    • @jermen5137
      @jermen5137 3 года назад +5

      @@ced2268 there you go!! 👏👏👏 I’m all for step 6! Fuck 1-5.

    • @ced2268
      @ced2268 3 года назад +10

      @@jermen5137 Thanks man, never in my life would I ever want to integrate in a system that's designed to take me down, if nobody wants to give you food, you grow your own food, instead of waiting for some stranger to give it to you.

    • @kmorg2774
      @kmorg2774 Год назад

      Thanks for this advice needed it. Tip #4 is sad but very true unfortunately.

    • @latoriarichardson6754
      @latoriarichardson6754 Год назад +4

      Was it a mindset for those people who were hanging from trees by ropes?
      It's not always a "mindset".

  • @dimnimrod2978
    @dimnimrod2978 2 года назад +27

    I'm white and the best bosses I've ever had are black. Chill, fair, empathetic, and respectful

    • @claudiavalencia2322
      @claudiavalencia2322 8 месяцев назад +4

      I am Hispanic, and I have had 2 black bosses. Very chill and peaceful. Both men.

    • @alancold1427
      @alancold1427 6 месяцев назад

      Unless it’s a blk female , she will hate on the black male to show off for wyt master

    • @juanshaftpatel7488
      @juanshaftpatel7488 Месяц назад

      thats so sad

    • @dimnimrod2978
      @dimnimrod2978 Месяц назад

      @@juanshaftpatel7488 lol

  • @brianwilliams8568
    @brianwilliams8568 3 года назад +52

    Honey I got the promotion with that same smile but deep down inside it hurts when white peoples make us feel small in size

  • @Chicfemme
    @Chicfemme 3 года назад +42

    Why am I sad from watching this. This is so sad what some people have to put up with.

    • @Chicfemme
      @Chicfemme 3 года назад +2

      @Roddy Moe sorry to hear that. It's hard to be a black man.

    • @eaksgeeks8674
      @eaksgeeks8674 3 года назад

      @@Chicfemme it’s not that bad big penis good a sports thing helps a ton

    • @aprilwright3900
      @aprilwright3900 3 года назад +1

      Guess you wouldn’t know

  • @alanneus
    @alanneus 2 года назад +15

    This was very well done, you perfectly captured the black experience of the corporate world.

  • @paimei1651
    @paimei1651 Год назад +6

    I've worked in tech in Corporate America for years. Starting out this was my dream job, but my lived experience has truly been disheartening at times. The same problems with bigotry and racial bias in American society are amplified because of the direct competition for resources. Sadly, this video is a true representation of the black experience in corporate America.

  • @thedonprince7941
    @thedonprince7941 2 года назад +21

    the boss is clearly jealous of him LMAO

    • @tw4943
      @tw4943 5 месяцев назад +6

      MOST of #Them 'are'. and dont be physically FIT and can dress better than them. Story of my entire life

    • @nidiaking
      @nidiaking Месяц назад

      Just like the current manager I work with. Sick.

  • @Scam-ish
    @Scam-ish 3 года назад +26

    lol, I literally knew they were going to tell him it's not in the budget, because that's exactly the excuse I got!

    • @you_only_have_4000_weeks
      @you_only_have_4000_weeks 2 года назад +1

      Don't ask, Listen, you get your raise coming through the front door. I am black older than my all my team but companies pay me more at the front door, not once you get in. Thats call a promotion.

  • @you_only_have_4000_weeks
    @you_only_have_4000_weeks 2 года назад +18

    To all of you: I am black as well. In my opinion, this is something that we must find a way to get past. I've worked for major corporations including some of the ones that all of you have worked for. I even worked where OJ was stationed just to give a hint of my prior jobs. I transitioned into I.T. after obtaining my A+ and Net+ certs. One of the most important things that I've learned in my experience is to adapt, but not sell out my soul for any job, and to realize that all animals want to be close to someone similar to themselves. In the animal kingdom, you don't see cows, hanging with pigs, or blackbirds hanging with white birds, we are no different from what they are, and with that mindset, I've always found a way to survive. Unfortunately, it's truly about survival and if YOU don't like it, then it's time to exit.
    It's sad, but we must learn how to survive. It's tough when you don't have no one similar to you in a position to help boost your career, but ones only to hopefully see you exit. Never give up, never quit until it is on your term, because that is what they want you to do (enough running).
    I use to be a fighter, if a manager tried to write me up, then I'm writing him up too. I'm going to his boss, his boss's boss, and even the owner. I use to fight and fight hard.
    At my previous job, I had the CIO tell my director to write me up because his colleague's wife complained and said that I made a mistake (even though I hadn't made a mistake in IT since I've been in IT) (thank god), my director begged the CIO to not write me up and he didn't listen, so I wrote him up and I wrote him up bad and he downgraded that mess which should never had to happen to begin with, but the good thing is that he was quite for almost 8 months and everyone at this 5 billion a year company in IT that he was over, which was everything from Security, Networking, System Admin, ITAM, Client System, like a one-stop-shop, was finally happy to see him not in everyone else lane.
    Today, I just got a new job making almost 20 grand more a year in IT and corp told them that I was the best and only candidate qualified for the job. I think that I am the first black person who has worked in this facility. Two of the employees there, who are white, got their jobs because a prior manager thought the girl was cute and the other guy went to the manager and ask him to help him get into IT. Yes, the Karens who got a job in IT because they were described as cute or Ken who only had to ask the manager to get in, tried numerous times to go to the manager to get me fired. They even told the director and manager that they are not going to train me or help and they both have all the experience in the department with access to everything. Talking about trying to set me up to fail. They've even left the job, and called off sick so that I can be there all alone (sink or swim), guess what, I knocked it out of the park every time, trained myself. I hope they've all come to realize that we all are dispensable.
    The moral to this story is that we all have unsettling stories to tell, but the main focus is doing the best job that you can and survive.

    • @simoneclayborn5607
      @simoneclayborn5607 Год назад +9

      I love your tenacity, and perseverance, truly, but the goal is to thrive, not survive. We've been just surviving long enough.

    • @winefinekee
      @winefinekee Год назад +2

      I love this!!!

    • @seensay2132
      @seensay2132 6 месяцев назад +1

      💯💯‼️🙌🏾

  • @Aprelknight
    @Aprelknight 3 года назад +42

    This is really helping people through the pain thank you for the content

  • @seensay2132
    @seensay2132 6 месяцев назад +3

    This is damn near a religious experience coming to find this space and all the comments validating EVERYTHING I’ve experienced for 22 years. Sadly, I’ve spent too much time gaslit by family, friends and colleagues who either couldn’t relate or, had no direct experience and couldn’t offer any helpful advice on how to navigate CorpAm. I learned to be strong eventually and trust my first instinct for people and situations. That’s been the best protection though I’m STUNNED this isn’t a well publicized dialogue in our community. Now, I tell every Black college grad or professional entering these spaces who will listen what to anticipate and watchout for.

  • @johnnymcarr
    @johnnymcarr 2 года назад +8

    I can’t even get a job in corporate America, I got a masters, did 5 years in the marine corps, and still can’t find a job that pays more than 12.35$.

    • @you_only_have_4000_weeks
      @you_only_have_4000_weeks 2 года назад +1

      What did you get your masters in? Also, try getting your IT certs and if you DM me I will show you some quickness about it. With a masters you should be working for a hospital

  • @tymisshajackson3308
    @tymisshajackson3308 6 месяцев назад +2

    The "smile" brought tears to my eyes. That cut so deep.

  • @FINANCIALNEWSNSOLUTIONS
    @FINANCIALNEWSNSOLUTIONS 3 месяца назад +2

    That's not how we act. I am very blunt and straightforward. I show my worth, and let it be known there are other companies. Handle your finances well and know your stuff all the way to the millions. Don't kiss anybody's ass.

  • @racheljordan1591
    @racheljordan1591 4 года назад +27

    Love this message! Everyone needs to watch!

  • @tytorrance96
    @tytorrance96 4 года назад +25

    Wow masterfully done

  • @SlimMix1996
    @SlimMix1996 2 года назад +10

    I am fucking going through it right now at the shitty office I work at. Only black guy at the moment, but willing to stick through until my clothing business takes off. Great movie. Loved it.

    • @you_only_have_4000_weeks
      @you_only_have_4000_weeks 2 года назад +4

      Stay mentally tough, survive and don't worry about what people think

    • @Christopher-tr1xu
      @Christopher-tr1xu 3 месяца назад

      ​@@you_only_have_4000_weeks that is the key..everything you just said 💯💪🏾

  • @jiveturkey9078
    @jiveturkey9078 Год назад +4

    After a few years of being black in corporate America, I wish this wasn't true.

  • @dejesus32
    @dejesus32 Месяц назад +1

    The salary bump thing is crazy. Reminds me of a time my white female counterpart in the company walked into my office crying. She closes the door and is in tears. I'm confused as hell so I ask her what's going on. She says, she got a raise but knows she doesn't deserve it. She sees that I'm working hard doing more than 3 people's jobs and it's not right. At the end of the year they gave me a $5k raise, which, if you know taxes is nothing. I tripled the company's revenue in one deal and somehow still ended up on a PIP. No wonder Black small business ownership is on the rise.

  • @alexanderceas
    @alexanderceas Месяц назад +1

    literally my first day at work staring at myself in the employee restroom - fake it till you make it

  • @NettechZelkova
    @NettechZelkova 3 года назад +11

    Showing all of his teeth 🦷

  • @Mandarinagent
    @Mandarinagent Год назад +3

    I had to learn Mandarin just to get a job as a janitor. 23 years later, I’m the property manager. It didn’t come without battle scars, shrapnel wounds and plenty of days like this.

  • @dre.supreme
    @dre.supreme Год назад +12

    Never call another man "boss".

    • @Oracleofcrows
      @Oracleofcrows Год назад +4

      I never have. That's not anyone's job title.

  • @AntonioDavisJr
    @AntonioDavisJr 4 года назад +51

    The Mask is strong in those Corporate stratosphere

    • @brandonjones2878
      @brandonjones2878 3 года назад

      Deep

    • @bekimcolaku5258
      @bekimcolaku5258 3 года назад +1

      Corporate America is a bunch of babies real job is plumbing electrician construction they couldn't do that if their life depended on it 👊

    • @brandonjones2878
      @brandonjones2878 3 года назад +3

      @@bekimcolaku5258 I’m a plumber myself. I rather be in corporate America.

    • @bekimcolaku5258
      @bekimcolaku5258 3 года назад +6

      @@brandonjones2878 working in corporate America is good money but they can let you off of a drop of a dime being a plumber electrician a carpenter a garbage man you're guaranteed a job

    • @augustusbrown5320
      @augustusbrown5320 3 года назад

      You need to have a skill in my opinion. We set the tone for everything ❗️

  • @rudygoofysrh
    @rudygoofysrh Год назад +2

    Wow!! Great work on exposing the experience of working in Corporate America. Great work explanation!!! Spot on 🎯🎯🎯

  • @fly3xzistence
    @fly3xzistence 3 месяца назад +3

    Why deal with the headache I rather work in the fields than be in the big house

  • @you_only_have_4000_weeks
    @you_only_have_4000_weeks 2 года назад +7

    You got the job because you earned it. Maximize your salary when you negotiate at the front door and if you don't want to risk it then you should try to accept whatever you see once you get into the company. A reputable company will pay you close to your worth to get you. I'm making 20 thousand more than I thought I would be given.

  • @VT08-766
    @VT08-766 Месяц назад +1

    The long claps in that like we first landed on the moon 🤣

  • @yolandagadsden57
    @yolandagadsden57 4 года назад +13

    Wow! Deep but so true...this is insane

  • @EM-eb1lf
    @EM-eb1lf 4 года назад +20

    Nailed it. Is someone spying on me?

  • @brandonjones2878
    @brandonjones2878 3 года назад +10

    I’m going threw this has we speak. White boy gets promoted because we want to (try) him. After I been busting my ass for years (7) and he works 6months to get the position he don’t even qualify for. I literally sold millions every year shit stupid

    • @EraFitnessify
      @EraFitnessify 2 года назад

      I wish the best for you! I'm a black male in the Biopharmaceutical Sales industry making 125K a year. Let me know if you have any questions or comments regarding the topic. Hopefully, I can provide you with something of value.

    • @you_only_have_4000_weeks
      @you_only_have_4000_weeks 2 года назад

      Do you have yor degree and does he have his degree? Whites will always promote and uplift their race and they are supposed to do that just like we should as well. But we have an act for tearing us down too.

  • @ToddJohnstonXTSales
    @ToddJohnstonXTSales 2 года назад +10

    I was working on a GED and was scared I may not pass so I thought I might get a smart friend to help me cheat to pass so I asked him , His response was, would you be okay with knowing you really didn't achieve this on your own like your not smart enough to do it, just like people who get jobs because they are Black as if blacks were no smart enough. He help me study and I passed on my own And yes I felt proud of myself. By the way my friend was black . Later I asked him about this reverse discrimination thing. He said he refused to apply at a job the gave him special treatment or consideration because he was black as if he was not smart enough. Then he said just like I said to you Todd if I helped you cheat to pass you would never know if you could do it on your own. so he wasn't taking the easy hand out job because he was black because he would always wonder if his color got him the job or his ability. Then He said it's a matter of Integrity and pride

  • @dawnnburwell3491
    @dawnnburwell3491 7 месяцев назад +1

    Your thoughts are on point! Your advice on point! The facts you stated are truth. But nothing has changed since I left corporate forty years ago and it won’t…start your own business/firm

  • @keenanwilliams538
    @keenanwilliams538 Год назад +3

    Let's create our own corporate America! Let them have the bureaucracy and office politics. They extract 13 TRILLION from us annually, so "we broke" is NO LONGER a valid excuse!

  • @michelleforte8669
    @michelleforte8669 Год назад +6

    I resigned with a letter on Tuesday January 18, 2023 at 10:00am CST. I'm moving on to something else. It may or may not be better, but I'm moving on. #TiredOfWearingMyMask😔😖😣😞😤😫😪😡

  • @luvbig41
    @luvbig41 2 месяца назад

    I was waiting for the Facade to break. Bravo on this skit. Explains our experience in corporate perfectly. Could be on top of our game all we want.....someone else undeserving will get the raise just for showing up.

  • @shiminicholaskomane8829
    @shiminicholaskomane8829 3 года назад +18

    You should be happy, people like you don't get opportunities like this, wow what a condescending speech.

  • @tygerflex77
    @tygerflex77 Год назад +2

    Thank you for this short life experience brother, as it is , its already hard being black let alone being given a fair chance to show what you can posiblby do with your skills and capabilites.

  • @mortalzeus6519
    @mortalzeus6519 3 года назад +5

    “Bidding time, and hiding strength.” - Deng Xioping -

  • @robinabernathy2829
    @robinabernathy2829 3 года назад +9

    Towards the end it seemed like he had a lot of silent rage building up. It can turn into another incident like when that fired doctor came to his old job and shot up the place, killing multiple people.

    • @THEANIMALCHIEF
      @THEANIMALCHIEF 2 года назад

      As far as mass shootings go I'd be more afraid of white kids tbh

  • @Producerukoh
    @Producerukoh 2 месяца назад +1

    We seek the safety of a paycheck over our own self-respect.

  • @stickman20121
    @stickman20121 3 месяца назад

    Wow... Powerful, eye-opening and most insightful. Thank-you so much! For this could not have come at a better time. 👍🏽

  • @kierrabrossette2117
    @kierrabrossette2117 Год назад +3

    I am a senior majoring in Mechanical Engineering, young black woman. I have a job interview for Cisco Systems for a hardware engineering position in San Jose salary range is 81k-113k. I previously worked for Apple, idk what to expect but i for dam sure not accepting anything under $100k salary. Idk what to expect

  • @sunpeople_productions
    @sunpeople_productions 3 года назад +18

    Man make that money and start your own business in 4 years problem solved

    • @jeremiahj3565
      @jeremiahj3565 3 года назад +2

      Yep!

    • @MrSivram28
      @MrSivram28 3 года назад +3

      That's if he lasts that long. These whites don't want blacks to have anything

    • @kurisu3000
      @kurisu3000 3 года назад +3

      @@MrSivram28 They can't stop you from owning your own business.

    • @user-fb8bo3ys2f
      @user-fb8bo3ys2f 3 года назад +10

      Not everyone is meant to be a business owner. Nor do people have any ideas on what they're business would even be if they were to start one. We need to stop this "forced entrepreunership" culture. Cut that shit out.

    • @augustusbrown5320
      @augustusbrown5320 3 года назад +3

      @@user-fb8bo3ys2f Correct

  • @jjblueflame
    @jjblueflame 3 года назад +2

    Thank you, this was powerful! 👏👏👏

  • @ebe-hero7052
    @ebe-hero7052 2 года назад +2

    Blacks need to support black businesses. That the solution.

  • @hove785
    @hove785 2 года назад +3

    ...just got fired by my new Asian manager, I feel like its semi-personal...

  • @OfficialRomeM.
    @OfficialRomeM. 3 года назад +9

    Wow the mask !!!! Definitely understand!!!!!

    • @NiaMSnow
      @NiaMSnow 2 года назад +2

      exactly!!!

  • @RylzRiles
    @RylzRiles 7 месяцев назад +2

    Newsflash brother it aint no secret *EVERYBODY KNOWS*

  • @buyunostore
    @buyunostore 6 месяцев назад +1

    That's why I started my own biz. I remember how it was. Nope not for me.....

  • @JemHadar422
    @JemHadar422 Месяц назад +2

    The SECRET study STEM. Stay out of marketing and sales.

    • @paulmateen5416
      @paulmateen5416 11 дней назад

      …absolute truth.

    • @johnelway9879
      @johnelway9879 8 дней назад

      Even in some STEM fields the top usually board are whites the second level are asians and Indians then black

    • @Priceless5799
      @Priceless5799 4 дня назад

      Trust me it’s even worse in STEM

  • @ThrowedYoungPlaya1
    @ThrowedYoungPlaya1 2 года назад +6

    I went through this exact scenario in real life. Its a very much real thing.

  • @saxenas
    @saxenas Год назад +3

    u should've asked your boss why amy got the raise

    • @Oracleofcrows
      @Oracleofcrows Год назад +3

      You can't whine. You get the message and strategic exit. You get the experience and achievements you need to get and get a better job offer.

  • @AzanAhmath144
    @AzanAhmath144 8 месяцев назад +2

    You don’t have to sell out to work in Corporate America. Be yourself have some damn dignity, integrity and self respect.

  • @kountryboy5149
    @kountryboy5149 4 года назад +16

    Reality

  • @brianhunte269
    @brianhunte269 2 года назад +2

    Black men leave corporate america and start your own business

  • @andre1987eph
    @andre1987eph 2 месяца назад

    Ive been flipping tables like Jesus at the Temple since I was put in a children's home in 1975 at age 9. Im not going to stop now. Bump all that noise. Protip: use Ai to construct all your corporate written communications, resumes, cover letters.

  • @TheSeaddy10473
    @TheSeaddy10473 2 года назад +5

    I just went through and experience that no matter what I said it was and issue or if I didn't say anything it was and issue

  • @Still-Learning
    @Still-Learning 7 месяцев назад +1

    "It's not what you're called, but what you answer to that tells the world how you expect to be treated." -SL
    Which psychological, neurological, or physiological systems require "being Black" in order for them to function as nature intended?
    In other words, what part of your body is actually "Black?"
    For the sake of accuracy, please....DO NOT refer to skin tone.

  • @Lavonne1
    @Lavonne1 3 года назад +4

    This has happened to me for the past 3 years.

    • @EraFitnessify
      @EraFitnessify 2 года назад

      I wish the best for you! I'm a black male in the Biopharmaceutical industry making 125K a year. Let me know if you have any questions or comments regarding the topic. Hopefully, I can provide you with something of value.

  • @anson_carter
    @anson_carter Год назад

    Message received. This was very informative and I will strive to achieve this until the day I die. Take a deep breath boys and always look for better opportunities never settle for anyone or anything. Rule 1. Smile and wave boys smile and wave.

  • @chasityiler
    @chasityiler 4 года назад +12

    Nailed it!!!

  • @user-lc4gr8nx2j
    @user-lc4gr8nx2j Месяц назад

    Meanwhile blacks in Europe: “you American blacks even have career paths?!?”

  • @lijah9249
    @lijah9249 3 года назад +10

    Powerful

  • @darilhoward3398
    @darilhoward3398 4 года назад +6

    nice vid!

  • @thenbenagcz3931
    @thenbenagcz3931 4 года назад +4

    You should rise your voice and fight it up eaven if you have to fight a company at court

  • @frontstreetdon6398
    @frontstreetdon6398 3 года назад +8

    Deserve a reward for this

    • @KorneliusBascombe
      @KorneliusBascombe  3 года назад +4

      Thanks!

    • @frontstreetdon6398
      @frontstreetdon6398 3 года назад

      @@KorneliusBascombe This was me like all 2020 after being passed up for promotions but also being told my performance was spectacular.

  • @jameswalker3729
    @jameswalker3729 5 месяцев назад +1

    Damn, I thought dude was gonna break his teeth.

  • @TBEASTchannel
    @TBEASTchannel 2 года назад +1

    Powerful message

  • @romkew472
    @romkew472 2 года назад +1

    That handshake thooo LMAO!!

  • @blacklyfe5543
    @blacklyfe5543 2 года назад +2

    Why is he smiling so hard lmao

    • @kcmark3
      @kcmark3 2 года назад +6

      Everybody wants an executive level six figure job. It’s nice if you are white and can be yourself and get promoted and make personal connections with the executive leaders, however, for a black man you have to “play the game” by putting on a mask and pretending to be a “cookie cutter” guy who works hard, likes golf, has a perfect family, and is always happy because the moment you speak in Ebonics, talk about poverty/family issues, or express a range of emotions you become the stereotype and will be fired or never promoted…..

  • @Still-Learning
    @Still-Learning 7 месяцев назад

    This should be titled..."Being treated like you are "Black" in corporate spaces."