Hi Kristin, Thanks for making this video! I’ve been watching you for a couple months now and have learned a lot from your content😊 My boyfriend and I have been dating since we were 13 - almost 10 years now! We’ve managed to grow up and support each other through some hard times during our relationship and he is very good to me. He’s always supporting me and cares about me a lot and I am happy in our relationship. For some reason, I still question if he’s the “right” one for me, and if we’re only content/comfortable because we don’t know what else is out there. I don’t even remember what it’s like to be single since we started dating so young, and I have seen many couples who have been together for a long time get married, have kids and ultimately end in divorces, which leads me to think that just because you date for a long time before committing to marriage doesn’t guarantee a life long relationship. I’ve been thinking back and forth about if we should go on a break or not, and can’t decide. I don’t want to lose out on something very special because I was greedy and just wanted to see what’s on the other side. It’d be so helpful to hear your insight on my situation, thank you!
me and my girlfriend of 5 years are taking a break/on the verge of breaking up. It’s all my fault which makes it even worse for me. I’m toxic and i realized it too late and now i wanna change, but she doesn’t know if she can do it. I’m still deeply in love with her and i need help with how to prove to her i can change. I also want some advice on what i should do.
@@jordankent6170 okay you said you love her ...hope you don't regret it later ...if our conscience is not clear , we carry baggage into new relationships
dolphinrose21 she left me, so what would i have to regret? She showed me her true colors, i don’t even want her back if i’m being honest even though i still have love for her
I don't agree with taking a break in order to explore other people because that does nothing to repair or address the issues in the current relationship. My advice is if either husband/wife or boyfriend/girlfriend wants a break to explore others, just end the relationship and both move on. The other thing is both need to agree on boundaries during the break if one is decided on. Sleeping with other people on a break is not going to help your relationship it will only destroy it.
I'm so happy having back my ex fiance back, after bring separated for 3months All thanks to mr Willson whom held me to get back my ex again I will suggest y'all get help from him and it's works within 4days.
So the guy I have been seeing for 4 months has told me that he feels like he wants to slow things down. Because of the quarentine time we spent a lot of time together but now that his work has picked back up he hasn't put in the effort to really spend time with me. We talk almost every day but if I mention getting together or going on a date he kind of blows it off and just says we will see each other soon. I feel like I am putting more work into trying to make things work than he is. Should I take a step back from texting and talking with him? I have expressed my feelings with him about wanting to see him and how him pulling away makes me feel.
@Kristin Coaching hello Kristin i have questions for you over affairs 1 if someone an affair without sex, is that really cheating? 2 can people have emotional affair with their ex boyfriends and girlfriends behind their husbands and wifes back? What type of affair with only holding hands and kissing and hugging without having sex with them? Thank you for your time and stay safe and well from jess sellars xxxx
My boyfriend wants to take a break because he hast felt happy in a long while, he felt like he gave to others, but got none back. I accept and understand that he needs to only focus on himself. It hurts so much even though it has nothing with our relationship to do with, and I’m scared. I hope that’s normal.
Currently going through this. 2 year relationship. It’s not bc of our relationship it’s for him to focus on himself and put 100% of his energy on himself. Which I understand he wants to do it for him and not for me. I’m hurting. It’s no contact we agreed for a month. I asked if he wanted me to take my stuff and he said no. How is it working out for you?
@@GabriellaLopezz Hey girl. It was so much going on in his life that I can't say, and we came to the decision that we couldn't stay together. We also have long distance and didn't get the chance to meet cause of Corona, so stuff was way harder. But that does not mean you two will break up. I believe in your relationship. I know it's so hard to only focus on yourself because having a break is so stressful and annoying, but please do. It's so important that you also focus on yourself. I hope everything works out in your relationship! Update me if you want to, and I can't imagine how you feel right now, cause I was so broken and I felt so unsafe during the break because he wasn't with me. Nevertheless, I hope you have a wonderful day and life if we never talk again! :)
@@sofelv6409 thank you 😭 I’m hurting but I’ve been writing letters to help myself feel better. But it’s day 4 and it still doesn’t seem real. I’m sorry for your relationship maybe you two will cross paths again. We haven’t talked since Monday and going from talking everyday to not is so painful. He hasn’t reached out or anything. Makes me feel like I don’t matter. But I’m trying to not let my anxiety take over. Thank you 💗
@@GabriellaLopezz Oh my God I feel your pain and I'm so sorry for you. You seem like such a sweet girlfriend and person, you don't deserve to be sitting there with your anxiety taking over you cause I know how that feels. I know it doesn't feel real right now, and it shouldn't feel real, that's how you know you really care and that it is something to fight for. It is good that you found something to distract you and make you feel better, I used to focus on the positive things he said during the break and talk to people about it, even though it was hard. Hey, you do matter to him, if you didn't matter he would break up with you, and he didn't do that, and he wont do it either! Mine didn't text either at first for a while so don't worry, he is probably trying his best to focus on himself. And that is really good. Just make sure you are around the people who care about you and the people you love during this hard period. We also went from talking every single day to nothing at all, and it was so Godamn hard. It will get easier eventually, the first weeks are awful. The bad thing about my break though and which probably wont happen to you dw, is that he said we wantef a break for 1-2 weeks, but he kept making it longer and longer, and eventually he broke up with me 2 weeks ago by text after two months and a two year relationship, so I'm really disappointed... He already knew what he wanted, but he thought it was hard to to say so putting me through a break for 2 months to only say we can't be together rn was the better option for him. Again I really hope it gets better for you. Try and focus on the positive things he has said. If he is a really honest person then he would already just break up with you rather than taking a break right? So focus on that for example. If he wanted to break up, he would just do that, he wouldn't take a break. Mind you my boyfriend was 17, so insecurities was probably surrounding him A LOT during his decision which is why he kept putting me through the break. And keep doing the things that distracts you or makes you feel better. I played a lot of video games, and went on discord to socialize with people. You are strong and you will get through this! It is not the end for your relationship. Try to distract yourself everyday it really helps to speed up the time. The two months went by so fast for me! It was just the first weeks that was literally like hell :( I hope I helped you somehow, and if you ever need to talk I'm here. Have a wonderful day, you deserve it!
See I have been having some issues in my relationship lately we had a huge argument about me looking at a another girl and it has been a month after that argument but we're taking a break now to work on our issues about me being to less codependent and I do agree but I have been feeling worried about how will this affect us as a relationship in the end and I'm scared of what will happen after words I have also been trying to work on my issues but I'm not sure how to work on being less selfish codependent as and how I can think more and help her in situations with her personal life
I'm so happy having my ex fiance back, after being separated for 4months. All thanks to Mr Ali who help me to get back my ex again, I will suggest y'all get help from him and it works within 3days..
Me and my man had a break for a month. We been abck together for a year. Been better and we can communicate better now. But yeha now since that things are weird and different. He dotn out he is in relationship or anything on social media. He put only one picture of us but then none on his profile but then he used to show me off a lot before that break...his family apparently dont like me anymore..he goes hangout with them by himself when i am at work but then it used to be we go togrther..but then we back to living together. Everything is good. We laugh and he comes home to me evryday but what i dont get is the changes , i dont like
What weight should you put a limit on how long the break should be should there be some rules to the break for far as dating other people communicating please and thank you
What @ sap him I pray for the universe grant your heart desired I know of a great man called Dr wilson who helped in resolving life issues and challenges.....
I'm so happy having my ex fiance back, after being separated for 4months. All thanks to Mr Ali who help me to get back my ex again, I will suggest y'all get help from him and it works within 3days..
hello Kirstin i have questions for you 1 if someone an affair without sex, is that really cheating? 2 can people have emotional affair with their ex boyfriends and girlfriends behind their husbands and wifes back? 3 what type of affair is only holding hands and kissing and hugging without having sex with them? I What your opinion on what should I do with my ex boyfriend from high school he keep asking me out but I really don't what be with him because he two time me with one of my class friends and he touch top of my thigh without my permission and consent? Thank you for your time from jess xxx
I'm so happy having my ex fiance back, after being separated for 4months. All thanks to Mr Ali who help me to get back my ex again, I will suggest y'all get help from him and it works within 3days..
I'm so happy having my ex fiance back, after being separated for 4months. All thanks to Mr Ali who help me to get back my ex again, I will suggest y'all get help from him and it works within 3days..
hello Kirstin i have questions for you 1 if someone an affair without sex, is that really cheating? 2 can people have emotional affair with their ex boyfriends and girlfriends behind their husbands and wifes back? 3 what type of affair is only holding hands and kissing and hugging without having sex with them? I What your opinion on what should I do with my ex boyfriend from high school he keep asking me out but I really don't what with him because he two time me with one of my class friends and he touch top of my thigh without my permission and consent? Thank you for your time from jess sellars xxx
Hi Kristin,
Thanks for making this video! I’ve been watching you for a couple months now and have learned a lot from your content😊
My boyfriend and I have been dating since we were 13 - almost 10 years now! We’ve managed to grow up and support each other through some hard times during our relationship and he is very good to me. He’s always supporting me and cares about me a lot and I am happy in our relationship. For some reason, I still question if he’s the “right” one for me, and if we’re only content/comfortable because we don’t know what else is out there. I don’t even remember what it’s like to be single since we started dating so young, and I have seen many couples who have been together for a long time get married, have kids and ultimately end in divorces, which leads me to think that just because you date for a long time before committing to marriage doesn’t guarantee a life long relationship. I’ve been thinking back and forth about if we should go on a break or not, and can’t decide. I don’t want to lose out on something very special because I was greedy and just wanted to see what’s on the other side.
It’d be so helpful to hear your insight on my situation, thank you!
me and my girlfriend of 5 years are taking a break/on the verge of breaking up. It’s all my fault which makes it even worse for me. I’m toxic and i realized it too late and now i wanna change, but she doesn’t know if she can do it. I’m still deeply in love with her and i need help with how to prove to her i can change. I also want some advice on what i should do.
Talk to her show her this comment or express everything you said here. Buy her a gift and a sorry card and give her a kiss
go for couples therapy and if you can't afford it, you can get an older and wiser friend to mediate till your issues are resolved.
dolphinrose21 we broke up 4 months ago, i think it’s safe to say it’s over lmao
@@jordankent6170 okay you said you love her ...hope you don't regret it later ...if our conscience is not clear , we carry baggage into new relationships
dolphinrose21 she left me, so what would i have to regret? She showed me her true colors, i don’t even want her back if i’m being honest even though i still have love for her
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I don't agree with taking a break in order to explore other people because that does nothing to repair or address the issues in the current relationship. My advice is if either husband/wife or boyfriend/girlfriend wants a break to explore others, just end the relationship and both move on. The other thing is both need to agree on boundaries during the break if one is decided on. Sleeping with other people on a break is not going to help your relationship it will only destroy it.
I'm so happy having back my ex fiance back, after bring separated for 3months All thanks to mr Willson whom held me to get back my ex again I will suggest y'all get help from him and it's works within 4days.
I was in the same difficulties before he helped me few days ago.He will definitely help you he have solutions to all problem... 🏃♂🏃♂🏃♂
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So the guy I have been seeing for 4 months has told me that he feels like he wants to slow things down. Because of the quarentine time we spent a lot of time together but now that his work has picked back up he hasn't put in the effort to really spend time with me. We talk almost every day but if I mention getting together or going on a date he kind of blows it off and just says we will see each other soon. I feel like I am putting more work into trying to make things work than he is. Should I take a step back from texting and talking with him? I have expressed my feelings with him about wanting to see him and how him pulling away makes me feel.
Same here and he asked for a break.
@Kristin Coaching hello Kristin i have questions for you over affairs
1 if someone an affair without sex, is that really cheating?
2 can people have emotional affair with their ex boyfriends and girlfriends behind their husbands and wifes back?
What type of affair with only holding hands and kissing and hugging without having sex with them?
Thank you for your time and stay safe and well from jess sellars xxxx
My boyfriend wants to take a break because he hast felt happy in a long while, he felt like he gave to others, but got none back. I accept and understand that he needs to only focus on himself. It hurts so much even though it has nothing with our relationship to do with, and I’m scared. I hope that’s normal.
Currently going through this. 2 year relationship. It’s not bc of our relationship it’s for him to focus on himself and put 100% of his energy on himself. Which I understand he wants to do it for him and not for me. I’m hurting. It’s no contact we agreed for a month. I asked if he wanted me to take my stuff and he said no. How is it working out for you?
@@GabriellaLopezz Hey girl. It was so much going on in his life that I can't say, and we came to the decision that we couldn't stay together. We also have long distance and didn't get the chance to meet cause of Corona, so stuff was way harder. But that does not mean you two will break up. I believe in your relationship. I know it's so hard to only focus on yourself because having a break is so stressful and annoying, but please do. It's so important that you also focus on yourself. I hope everything works out in your relationship! Update me if you want to, and I can't imagine how you feel right now, cause I was so broken and I felt so unsafe during the break because he wasn't with me. Nevertheless, I hope you have a wonderful day and life if we never talk again! :)
@@sofelv6409 thank you 😭 I’m hurting but I’ve been writing letters to help myself feel better. But it’s day 4 and it still doesn’t seem real. I’m sorry for your relationship maybe you two will cross paths again.
We haven’t talked since Monday and going from talking everyday to not is so painful. He hasn’t reached out or anything. Makes me feel like I don’t matter. But I’m trying to not let my anxiety take over. Thank you 💗
@@GabriellaLopezz Oh my God I feel your pain and I'm so sorry for you. You seem like such a sweet girlfriend and person, you don't deserve to be sitting there with your anxiety taking over you cause I know how that feels. I know it doesn't feel real right now, and it shouldn't feel real, that's how you know you really care and that it is something to fight for. It is good that you found something to distract you and make you feel better, I used to focus on the positive things he said during the break and talk to people about it, even though it was hard. Hey, you do matter to him, if you didn't matter he would break up with you, and he didn't do that, and he wont do it either! Mine didn't text either at first for a while so don't worry, he is probably trying his best to focus on himself. And that is really good. Just make sure you are around the people who care about you and the people you love during this hard period. We also went from talking every single day to nothing at all, and it was so Godamn hard.
It will get easier eventually, the first weeks are awful. The bad thing about my break though and which probably wont happen to you dw, is that he said we wantef a break for 1-2 weeks, but he kept making it longer and longer, and eventually he broke up with me 2 weeks ago by text after two months and a two year relationship, so I'm really disappointed... He already knew what he wanted, but he thought it was hard to to say so putting me through a break for 2 months to only say we can't be together rn was the better option for him.
Again I really hope it gets better for you. Try and focus on the positive things he has said. If he is a really honest person then he would already just break up with you rather than taking a break right? So focus on that for example. If he wanted to break up, he would just do that, he wouldn't take a break. Mind you my boyfriend was 17, so insecurities was probably surrounding him A LOT during his decision which is why he kept putting me through the break. And keep doing the things that distracts you or makes you feel better. I played a lot of video games, and went on discord to socialize with people.
You are strong and you will get through this! It is not the end for your relationship. Try to distract yourself everyday it really helps to speed up the time. The two months went by so fast for me! It was just the first weeks that was literally like hell :( I hope I helped you somehow, and if you ever need to talk I'm here. Have a wonderful day, you deserve it!
@@sofelv6409 more than you know. Thank you so so much. 💗💗💗💗
See I have been having some issues in my relationship lately we had a huge argument about me looking at a another girl and it has been a month after that argument but we're taking a break now to work on our issues about me being to less codependent and I do agree but I have been feeling worried about how will this affect us as a relationship in the end and I'm scared of what will happen after words I have also been trying to work on my issues but I'm not sure how to work on being less selfish codependent as and how I can think more and help her in situations with her personal life
Did it work out in the end
If your separating and living together what’s your suggestion for that?
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Me and my man had a break for a month. We been abck together for a year. Been better and we can communicate better now. But yeha now since that things are weird and different. He dotn out he is in relationship or anything on social media. He put only one picture of us but then none on his profile but then he used to show me off a lot before that break...his family apparently dont like me anymore..he goes hangout with them by himself when i am at work but then it used to be we go togrther..but then we back to living together. Everything is good. We laugh and he comes home to me evryday but what i dont get is the changes , i dont like
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What weight should you put a limit on how long the break should be should there be some rules to the break for far as dating other people communicating please and thank you
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I ask my husband why don't you talk to and he will tell me that he has nothing t talk about and he had cheded on
what do you do if you decided to take a break for the unhealthy reasons because you didn't communicate the healthy reasons
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I'm so happy having my ex fiance back, after being separated for 4months. All thanks to Mr Ali who help me to get back my ex again, I will suggest y'all get help from him and it works within 3days..
hello Kirstin i have questions for you
1 if someone an affair without sex, is that really cheating?
2 can people have emotional affair with their ex boyfriends and girlfriends behind their husbands and wifes back?
3 what type of affair is only holding hands and kissing and hugging without having sex with them?
I What your opinion on what should I do with my ex boyfriend from high school he keep asking me out but I really don't what be with him because he two time me with one of my class friends and he touch top of my thigh without my permission and consent?
Thank you for your time from jess xxx
I'm so happy having my ex fiance back, after being separated for 4months. All thanks to Mr Ali who help me to get back my ex again, I will suggest y'all get help from him and it works within 3days..
whatsappin him
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I'm so happy having my ex fiance back, after being separated for 4months. All thanks to Mr Ali who help me to get back my ex again, I will suggest y'all get help from him and it works within 3days..
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Aww thank you! You can do it!! Persistence pays off. I appreciate you watching and showing support. I wish you the best with your channel.
hello Kirstin i have questions for you
1 if someone an affair without sex, is that really cheating?
2 can people have emotional affair with their ex boyfriends and girlfriends behind their husbands and wifes back?
3 what type of affair is only holding hands and kissing and hugging without having sex with them?
I What your opinion on what should I do with my ex boyfriend from high school he keep asking me out but I really don't what with him because he two time me with one of my class friends and he touch top of my thigh without my permission and consent?
Thank you for your time from jess sellars xxx