10 LEGITIMATE REASONS TO LET PEOPLE GO

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  • Опубликовано: 25 дек 2024

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  • @angelajg
    @angelajg Год назад +285

    Notes-
    1. The relationship becomes toxic.
    2. Your personal growth is hindered.
    3. You have different paths.
    4. Betrayal
    5. Incompatibility
    6. They are an emotional drain.
    7. Manipulation
    8. They waste your time.
    9. The relationship is one-sided.
    10. The other person is disrespecting you.

  • @Bells_Ville
    @Bells_Ville Год назад +22

    “someone who betrays you is not going to give you closure”. 💯 I’m glad to hear this

    • @jennyg495
      @jennyg495 Год назад

      Powerful

    • @monadeberry9060
      @monadeberry9060 9 месяцев назад

      Yea that was powerful, someone who betrays you is not going to give you closure, Amen all day

  • @empowered3206
    @empowered3206 Год назад +9

    I will never settle for anything less than God's best!!!! Never.

  • @shirlspark_stardust
    @shirlspark_stardust Год назад +85

    This is a great message my husband has disrespected me several times he stepped outside the marriage cheating ,treating me foul he is a narcissist I let him go I choose to respect myself Bishop RC Blakes has taught me so much.

    • @violetstephanie1
      @violetstephanie1 Год назад +4

      Best thing to do my dear. Let him move on and claim your peace.

    • @keshiaoden1259
      @keshiaoden1259 Год назад

      Awesome Message Pastor R C BLAKES 🙌

    • @weireffie29
      @weireffie29 Год назад

      Great

    • @roslynkelley-world8692
      @roslynkelley-world8692 Год назад

      Amen, my sister l divorced my husband this year September 6 will makes 2 years l've been divorced and he was a Nac as well and Bishop RC Blake helped me to let go and leave my ex-husband also so, who the son has set free is free indeed Glory to God. ❤

    • @djpacoelfuerte9531
      @djpacoelfuerte9531 Год назад +1

      Divorce is not of God. Separation for a while is. Sad

  • @JanelJohnson_RN
    @JanelJohnson_RN Год назад +49

    Reasons to Let People Go
    - When the relationship is toxic (it hurts me to be with you)
    - When your personal growth is hindered
    - When you have different paths
    - When they consistently betray you
    - When you are incompatible
    - When they emotionally drain you
    - When they are a manipulator
    - When they squander your time (dating - if after 3 mos. a guy hasnt articulated that he wants to be in a relationship, move on)
    - When the relationship is one sided
    -When not letting the relationship go disrespects yourself (ex. someone constantly cheating on you)

  • @sarahsmith3016
    @sarahsmith3016 Год назад +32

    I’ve been out of a 13 year emotionally abusive relationship for a few years now and have remained single the whole time. Your channel is the most uplifting/encouraging channel I have found. My standards are SKY HIGH now. Thank you for changing my life : )

    • @Braveh3artGirl
      @Braveh3artGirl Год назад +4

      That’s amazing! I was in one too for 5 and a half years. My suggestion for you is to find God if you haven’t already and ask Him to help you be released from the past soul tie with that person and be redeemed from the abuse ❤ sometimes therapy is really good too because we don’t always see the internal damage that person has done to us

  • @QueenRoe504
    @QueenRoe504 Год назад +93

    This message was for me. I have struggled for years with toxic family relationships. My family is very small, but disjointed. Constant back biting, and emotional turmoil ,has plagued us for years. The disloyalty and betrayel has caused depression and many sleepless nights. God finally blessed me to move away, but I kept going back hoping things would change, but the ugliness always rears its head. I have struggled with survival guilt, so Ive tried to include everyone in my blessings, but Ive been unsuccessful. It has hurt me terribly but I've had to let go. As a southern woman family is everything to me, but peace is liberating. Thanks for confirmation that I've made the right decision❤Thank you pastor🙏🏽

    • @iamTiffanyEmpowermentPodcast
      @iamTiffanyEmpowermentPodcast Год назад +10

      You have took the words out of my mouth

    • @QueenRoe504
      @QueenRoe504 Год назад +4

      @@iamTiffanyEmpowermentPodcast ❤️😢

    • @bridgettetraveler658
      @bridgettetraveler658 Год назад +7

      Sister, for your peace & joy some ppl u must let go! I've let my DNA relatives & I feel so very free. JESUS set me free indeed when I let go of this toxic world & totally gave myself to him. U be Blessed. U may have some lonely days, but peace of mind is worth more than lunacy in fam. Some ppl are in your life to hold u down & hold u back from your destiny!!!

    • @QueenRoe504
      @QueenRoe504 Год назад +1

      @@bridgettetraveler658 Thanks so much, I appreciate your supportive words❤️

    • @sheilabrown5367
      @sheilabrown5367 Год назад +6

      You are not alone with family issues iam going threw the same thing .

  • @Samara077
    @Samara077 Год назад +47

    Wow !! “ It’s better to hurt in the right direction than the wrong one” this alone brought clarity and healing , Gos bless you Pastor and thank you !

  • @go2yourself
    @go2yourself Год назад +29

    Poison is poison no matter the container...hurt while moving in the right direction not the wrong direction....well stated, thank you Bishop 👍🏽👌🏽

  • @ncollazo7140
    @ncollazo7140 Год назад +17

    Had to remove myself and working on this. The biggest heartache ever. I need prayers, I feel guilty. Coparenting has not being easy. But cheating and the verbal abuse was too much

    • @paulettebrown5717
      @paulettebrown5717 Год назад +3

      My sister you r not alone. If you haven't chosen God. Choose Him now. And if you have draw closer to Him. He will meet you right where you r.

    • @bv459
      @bv459 Год назад

      🙏🙏🙏🙏

    • @delle3955
      @delle3955 Год назад

      🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @carterthegamernoob6128
    @carterthegamernoob6128 Год назад +16

    My Last betrayal was 2020/2021. I cut him off permanently ! It’s over my healing ❤️‍🩹 and closure came from Jesus Christ. I’m healed and I have matured from it.

  • @Charity1277
    @Charity1277 Год назад +14

    I married a toxic man and the pastors just told me to stay in the relationship.i stayed for 5 years and it got worse.finally i said i dont think God would want me to stay here so i left. New beginning. He was constantly yelling and fighting with me. And he was a believer but he had anger problems.and major ocd about how the house looked but it was pretty clean so he had the problem from his childhood.his mother was very abusive and he took that out on me.we had a lot in common but his problem was he just had anger issues.

    • @onevenus6040
      @onevenus6040 Год назад +3

      Those same pastors won't stay with someone who treats them like that

  • @lisafoster3494
    @lisafoster3494 Год назад +6

    WOW you keep reaping disrespect because you are sowing disrespect into yourself..... i felt the earth move on that one!!! Never heard that wow that is a game changer!!! THANK YOU so much for that

  • @TheSecretLifeofAngel
    @TheSecretLifeofAngel Год назад +7

    Block in the name of Jesus 😆 guard your heart ❤

  • @ladyt4478
    @ladyt4478 Год назад +6

    'Let people go in peace." Enough said.

  • @hoped6676
    @hoped6676 Год назад +2

    Where has this Pastor been? I am learning so much from his videos. I'm gaining knowledge that can help me be more sensible in life.

  • @freebird5469
    @freebird5469 Год назад +6

    "Hurt while you are moving in the right direction. Don't hurt while moving in the wrong direction." ❤

  • @Braveh3artGirl
    @Braveh3artGirl Год назад +10

    Please pray for me, i am in this position of growth, my bf is not. We are in a LDR and we have a 2 year old. I’ve been a christian since i was saved at 12, but i did not know who i was and RC has been undoing my brainwashing from the past ❤

  • @bridgettetraveler658
    @bridgettetraveler658 Год назад +23

    You're so very right about ppl learning themselves after 25. GOD tried to reach me early in my teens, but I had too many toxic ppl in my life preventing me from reaching my spiritual destination. They tried to destroy me, but they've only made me stronger. I've learned to be alone without being lonely. I've learned I have the Great Comforter (The HOLY SPIRIT)! This is a beautiful message. Children really didn't ask to come into this world. Parents have a great duty to raise children & we parents should do what we do out of LOVE for our children!!!

  • @michellescott8541
    @michellescott8541 Год назад +8

    Persons drain you emotionally and then when you listen for yrs to all their dramas and you really cared then, they leave you when they no longer need you and go start a new life with someone else.

  • @Evowoman1
    @Evowoman1 Год назад +37

    Better late than never. Wonder if I would have listened to you as intently in my 20’s as I am today in my 50’s. Either way, the lessons I’ve learned from digesting your videos now, gives me hope that I will make better choices moving forward. I’ve spent the last 3 years alone becoming the woman I deserve to attract in the right man. Thank you Pastor! Prayers for you and Lisa🙏

    • @jamiewilliams3938
      @jamiewilliams3938 Год назад +2

      Amen 🙏🏽 im right with you !! God bless u on your journey 🙌🏽🙏🏽🦋

    • @Dominicanblk
      @Dominicanblk Год назад +3

      I am there with you as well 🙏🏾🙌🏾

    • @amondinyandat-zw1no
      @amondinyandat-zw1no 10 месяцев назад +1

      Amen exactly my position

  • @connievelez5478
    @connievelez5478 Год назад +5

    They refuse to go, so I go alone, but not really because I have platform's like this that are always helping with personal growth.

  • @mimi4pdx
    @mimi4pdx Год назад +4

    Emotionally draining talking people off the ledge.. that was funny... but true. Let them go. Thank you Pastor.

  • @carterthegamernoob6128
    @carterthegamernoob6128 Год назад +8

    Yes I unfortunately had a child who drained my life it was so sad 😭 the worst part she never listened to myself or my mother. May she Rip 😢. I miss her terribly but I don’t miss the bipolar behavior that came with her drama and lies negativity bad company it was a lot

    • @11GodsGirl11
      @11GodsGirl11 Год назад +1

      😢

    • @ajr7940
      @ajr7940 Год назад

      I'm so sorry 4 your loss💜

    • @godfavoredme1884
      @godfavoredme1884 3 месяца назад

      I dont know what to do . I have a 16yr old daughter. She so disrespecful. Tells me im an idiot. Go kill myself. She hates me. I had a house built 5 years ago. She damaged the house. But holes in the walls. Kicked doors down. I hsve 2000 worth of damage. Im tired i dont know what to do? Any advice

  • @healmyhair.
    @healmyhair. Год назад +20

    True Nola thing! We can not take being disrespected!! Brings out the worst in us

  • @meghanmarshall6687
    @meghanmarshall6687 Год назад +10

    My closure was in my ability to let go! Thanks Pastor!

  • @LadyLaylaC
    @LadyLaylaC 3 месяца назад

    I was born Muslim & your teaching has blessed me so much!, In my ❤ you are MY pastor. Thank you😊

  • @christineanderson-x5u
    @christineanderson-x5u Год назад +2

    Sometimes we are part of the problem. It takes 2 to tango. I'm thinking about friends rather than spouses. Some friends have left me because I was too difficult and demanding, when I was hurting really badly. I realized I would destroy all my relationships so I withdrew from everyone. I'm alot more healed now.

  • @sheliasmith2884
    @sheliasmith2884 Год назад +9

    Thank you so much because of you and Lisa I walked away from a toxic two year situationship.

  • @michellescott8541
    @michellescott8541 Год назад +5

    I love the opening statements about letting people go , where we have to make a choice about either God or something/ someone we put before God.Anything we placed before God is considered our god.Sometimes we put manmade traditions before God .God said if you love me you will keep all my commandments John 14: 15.

  • @connievelez5478
    @connievelez5478 Год назад +5

    I'm exactly there. Holy Spirit used the same scripture for me. I know God closed the door like He did with the five foolish virgins.
    This is my 10th or more confirmation.

  • @nancyamaral5620
    @nancyamaral5620 Год назад +4

    As a clinician I always scheduled the emotionally draining people in the beginning of the week so I could recover at the end to ease into the weekend. Also very clear that family and friends were not clients and that my expectations with them were different

    • @tina8796
      @tina8796 Год назад

      Are you saying you didn't allow your friends and family as patients, or you gave them special privileges. Why would your expectations for them be any different than for others. They're human beings like everyone else.

  • @trilly164
    @trilly164 Год назад +1

    Sometimes your heart has to break for your heart to heal ❤

  • @adellsemper2080
    @adellsemper2080 Год назад +4

    Blessings from the UK. So wonderful to catch a premier with the time difference.

  • @kellypolfleit3942
    @kellypolfleit3942 Год назад +4

    Seems like to me there has been a lot of people betraying and ignoring, hopefully the clouds will break apart soon

  • @tracylondon844
    @tracylondon844 Год назад +7

    LET PEOPLE GO IN PEACE!🙏❤

  • @kaeliarobinson3108
    @kaeliarobinson3108 11 месяцев назад

    Early Childhood Education is an energy taker but we have more understanding for them. Grown ups, not so much......

  • @debrasmith6989
    @debrasmith6989 Год назад +1

    Hello thank you Lord for the word that I am about to receive in Jesus name my name is Debra Jordan I live in Newnan and I just want you to know I thank you for what you've been teaching me in the word and glory be to God

  • @oklo3321
    @oklo3321 Год назад +4

    What touched me rev was the confusion of spirituality and the poison nature. I have to release my mom and my immediate family and that’s been tough but I went 6 months and felt actually better. I feel guilted to the word honor your mother and father.. how do I honor her while letting her go?

    • @Karsyn_Marie
      @Karsyn_Marie Год назад +2

      My pastor just talked about this. He said you distance yourself for your own sanity. That is apart of honoring them because your protecting them from what they could get if you allow them to keep hurting you.

    • @onevenus6040
      @onevenus6040 Год назад +1

      Establish and maintain firm boundaries

  • @AfrikaJohnson
    @AfrikaJohnson Год назад +12

    Thank you @bishoprcblakes and Lisa Blakes. This message came right on time. Your teachings have helped me so much. With all these other platforms out there that is causing division and toxicity in our community. And tearing down women. You lift us up. I truly appreciate and value your platform that’s pouring into women. ❤❤❤ I went and purchased some of your books on audible and I will continue to support you.

  • @shanellgriffin4262
    @shanellgriffin4262 6 месяцев назад

    I got a whole Heap out of this!! Thank you so very much.. Bishop Blakes!! GOD Bless & Keep you always!! SHALOM!! 🤗🙏🏾💪🏾

  • @angelinamcclain9256
    @angelinamcclain9256 Год назад +3

    Good evening Rev. Blake amen amen I Declare and Decree this message. This is where I am at today. Period letting go of people places and things that are in the way of my personal growth. My children my grandchildren. Come church folk also. Neighbor's toxic situations all the above

  • @angelinapeterson9106
    @angelinapeterson9106 Год назад

    Hallelujah. Hurt while you’re moving in the right direction. Don’t hurt while moving in the wrong direction

  • @spiritualwordstoencouragea7953
    @spiritualwordstoencouragea7953 Год назад +5

    The Lord surround you with His favor as with a shield along with your families, friends and ministry.
    Bishop Blakes, God's mighty hand be upon you and your wife and families. always.💚

  • @esthergdn3722
    @esthergdn3722 5 месяцев назад

    That's true, some parents manipulated their grown children, by putting to their face all they did for them since they are baby!

  • @akpenguin1859
    @akpenguin1859 Год назад +4

    If I let everyone go like this I will have no one in my life haha

  • @estherwangui4274
    @estherwangui4274 Год назад +3

    I just love u.u r a legitimate spiritual dad

  • @ShonellisMusicEntertainment
    @ShonellisMusicEntertainment Год назад +1

    Its only lonely between levels, not lonely at the top!!!Yesss!!
    Mighty words RC Blakes!!🙏❤

  • @janhunnicutt8648
    @janhunnicutt8648 8 месяцев назад

    Thank you, your messages help affirm that I’ve done the right thing in my journey of healing and becoming
    healthy.

  • @Kimmypooh2627
    @Kimmypooh2627 7 месяцев назад

    Omg! Pastor Blake preach! Especially the last one - SELF RESPECT ✊. Yep I am definitely OUT!

  • @nicoleml4491
    @nicoleml4491 4 месяца назад

    I'm in this position. Been married for 9years and I feel like we're not equally yoked..

  • @MzTrinaTrina
    @MzTrinaTrina Год назад +1

    That person is my mom right now and it breaks my heart but I always leave her company feeling upset / hurt and emotionally/ verbally abused . I let her Go

  • @turner2952
    @turner2952 Год назад +8

    Thank you, Pastor Blakes for another awesome video!
    We can make it, just us and God. I am to the point in my life where I just want to be alone with God. People will suck the very life out of us if we allow it. I especially love that video "Toxic Empathy", and will go back and watch it over and over again any time I feel the urge to "help" someone financially that doesn't know how to manage their money wisely. My mother used to tell me not to impose on anyone. In other words, never ask anyone for anything. She taught me to be very independent, trust myself and God. To be responsible.

  • @adachannmentalhealthcrisis
    @adachannmentalhealthcrisis Год назад +4

    Fantastic! Excellent quality talk as always! Thank you so much!

  • @mychannelafc
    @mychannelafc 11 месяцев назад +1

    14:00 clouds

  • @highlypricedroyalty16
    @highlypricedroyalty16 Год назад +1

    This has been a challenge I have been struggling with. Am trusting God to help me walk away from what does not serve me... Thanks Pst

  • @monadeberry9060
    @monadeberry9060 10 месяцев назад

    The message through the Holy Spirit, was the icing on the cake, confirmation, thank you Bishop

  • @yolandoakomolafe7363
    @yolandoakomolafe7363 Год назад +5

    I'm so glad Pastor Blake has been speaking about what is plaguing us as "Belivers" been follow all his messages lately. Listening at work. Very enlightening ❤❤❤

  • @roslynkelley-world8692
    @roslynkelley-world8692 Год назад

    Freedom looks so good on us thank you, Jesus.😂❤

  • @mstnicole907
    @mstnicole907 Год назад +4

    Good morning/ afternoon everyone! ❤

    • @AfrikaJohnson
      @AfrikaJohnson Год назад

      Good morning beautiful.
      Blessings in abundance to you and your family.

  • @annaa6259
    @annaa6259 Год назад +5

    Another amazing teaching. I will approach next man with notes I learned from RC over 2 years. I intend to find husband❤

  • @Barbarayoutification
    @Barbarayoutification Год назад +4

    In awe!!! This is sooooo good!! Wow!!

  • @dianedorney5147
    @dianedorney5147 Год назад

    This really helped me to also deal with forgiveness, which is hard, but to view it as getting rid of toxic influence is easier...

  • @monadeberry9060
    @monadeberry9060 9 месяцев назад

    Letting go is enough closure

  • @aliciafranco321
    @aliciafranco321 Год назад +3

    Thank you pastor Blake's this perhaps is the most important video I have seen yet. Throughout the video I just kept saying oh I love you pastor Blake's I love you for being so honest thank you thank you from the bottom of all of our hearts! I have never had anybody speak such honesty and wisdom to me in my whole life. Once again thank you from the bottom of my heart, loved the video.

  • @terrymoore5000
    @terrymoore5000 Год назад +4

    THANKYOU HOLY ONE 👑 MY KING OF GLORY FOR ALL THY MANY BLESSINGS!!! I LOVE YOU WITH ALL MY HEART, MIND, SOUL, BODY AND STRENGTH THAT YOU GIVE TO ME MY ONE AND ONLY TRUE LOVE ❤️ AND GOD OF MY LIFE. MY GOD ANSWERS PRAYERS!!! AMEN IN JESUS CHRIST NAME 🙏🏼❤

  • @jennahm207
    @jennahm207 Год назад +3

    Thank you for your insightful messages! They are a blessing:)😇

  • @hannahbrown5069
    @hannahbrown5069 Год назад +1

    Yeesss and Amen!🙏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾…

  • @michellescott8541
    @michellescott8541 Год назад +1

    Even persons in your church maybe on different paths as you are, sad but true where you have to let them go because they are not align with you spiritually and you notice this when you start seeing them outside of church wear and they ask you for a date.Amazingly sad what you see and hear from them.Especially when they suppose to know better.

  • @Barbarayoutification
    @Barbarayoutification Год назад +1

    watching for the 4th time today, yes, it's that good!!

  • @RealLadi228
    @RealLadi228 Год назад +1

    I choose GOD 🙏
    Freedom=PEACE

  • @Unebellecreole
    @Unebellecreole Год назад +4

    Thank you so much, Paster Blakes. I needed to hear this today.

  • @rachelgriffin4659
    @rachelgriffin4659 Год назад +1

    Thank you, Thank you, Thank you.

  • @anabella4296
    @anabella4296 Год назад +3

    Thanks Bishop 🙏🙌 Can you please do a topic on grieving on the passing of a loved one and how to explain to younger children. Especially when they ask where do the go after death. Thanks ‼️🙏🙌💜💛

    • @thespot2035
      @thespot2035 Год назад

      You can tell them that God needed them back and He'll take care of them! Then find something to help them keep in touch eg a memory of a beautiful place to help them associate the absence,

  • @csgang3023
    @csgang3023 6 месяцев назад

    We are so glad to have u pastor 🙏☺️ I can't explain in words.. ty for doing the Lord's work 😊

  • @kmbrlia
    @kmbrlia Год назад +2

    GRATITUDE 🙏🏽✨

  • @teresaellis9842
    @teresaellis9842 Год назад +2

    Block and KIck Rocks with No Socks

  • @Noratheskindoc
    @Noratheskindoc Год назад +1

    You are such a blessing to my life. Thank you for this message.

  • @nomadqueen1111
    @nomadqueen1111 Год назад +3

    Powerful and Timely message, Bishop! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @Blessed75463
    @Blessed75463 Год назад +2

    Wow Bishop Confirmation!! Thank you, once again for this fruit!!!🙏🏾🙌🏿

  • @ms.savvyms.baddie4801
    @ms.savvyms.baddie4801 Год назад +1

    POWERFUL SO NEEDED THIS BISHOP!!! THANK U SO MUCH FOR ALWAYS POURING INTO ME..

  • @ARS-6760
    @ARS-6760 Год назад +2

    My mother.😢

  • @blaaahblahh
    @blaaahblahh Год назад +3

    This message was for me!!! THANK YOU PASTOR! :)

  • @carolreid3049
    @carolreid3049 Год назад +1

    Thank You Bishop for your wholesome, wise Teaching. May the Lord God Bless You and first Lady Blakes real good. On Time Word. 🙏🏽❤

  • @prettynatural1973
    @prettynatural1973 Год назад +1

    Thanks for covering this topic.

  • @maidinthamiddle
    @maidinthamiddle 2 месяца назад

    The most powerful part of the story between Samuel and Saul, is when Saul falls at Samuels feet and grabs a hold of his robe and it rips and Samuel looks down and says something like, that is how God has separated from you.

  • @ladyvance1434
    @ladyvance1434 9 месяцев назад

    Amen, Bishop!

  • @lwarfield52
    @lwarfield52 Год назад

    Thank you Bishop and First Lady Lisa. 😘♥️

  • @lavernelangston2938
    @lavernelangston2938 Год назад

    This was for me thank you Jesus this is what in am going trough thank you holy spirit I can walk away.

  • @shanellgriffin4262
    @shanellgriffin4262 6 месяцев назад

    Let it go

  • @rosalysmartinez2153
    @rosalysmartinez2153 Год назад +2

    This is such a powerful video 💯 Overflowing wisdom and revelation!🙏🕊️

  • @Barbarayoutification
    @Barbarayoutification Год назад +3

    This is so valuable!!!!!

  • @ketoles7777
    @ketoles7777 10 месяцев назад

    TY for this 🔥 Wisdom. Poison is Poison

  • @shanellgriffin4262
    @shanellgriffin4262 6 месяцев назад

    Preach Bishop Blakes!!

  • @thelmadouglas8942
    @thelmadouglas8942 10 месяцев назад

    You’re right Bishop
    Been there to with the narcissistic people using or trying to use me sex money and even down to conversations
    I’ve learned a lot listening to to you
    Weather a man or just so call friends

  • @keepingthefaithalive
    @keepingthefaithalive Год назад +3

    Thank you Bishop for this timely word was much needed for me 🙏🏽

  • @gladyshowell8421
    @gladyshowell8421 Год назад

    Thank you Bishop Blakes for all your profound and inspiring messages. They are always heartwarming and comforting to our souls. Blessings to you and family.

  • @MartyMar-yk1ik
    @MartyMar-yk1ik Год назад +2

    Thank you so much for this!!! ❤️❤️

  • @shanellgriffin4262
    @shanellgriffin4262 6 месяцев назад

    You telling the whole truth

  • @anicialugo8997
    @anicialugo8997 Год назад

    Whoever breaks me can't heal me and whoever contains me can't set me free would you explained RC Blake's jr. And in this aspect this is very true and in this is deep cuz I have gone through this over and over again with different types of people in different types of relationships