9 Biggest Mistakes to Avoid in Your 20s - MY LIFE LESSONS

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  • Опубликовано: 3 дек 2024

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  • @MrHyokil
    @MrHyokil 6 лет назад +167

    Thank you for this amazing content!
    I'll just write down the points that seem important to me :
    1) Health + Time = Luxury
    2) Don't waste your time with wrong people
    3) Don't think that you're too old to learn something new
    4) Dream BIG
    5) Make relationships with people that are more clever than you / make you relax
    6) The world is small

    • @AmericanDreamer
      @AmericanDreamer 5 лет назад +5

      Hi, I just want to tell you, I agree with all, but point 5 is something that could be seen from other perspective. I mean, it is a wise decision to surround yourself with people who are at least at some points wiser/more developed than you but then again - there should be some common ground, some sort of 'connection point' so to speak that will act as glue with paper. It has been my personal experience, when I got to start a conversation with people I look up to and find them so inspiring etc but it seems dead end quite soon and from their side mostly, which makes me super insecure and realize - I cannot truly connect with them and they sense that I'm not on the same wavelength as they are. What would you suggest for this? I do find it a big boost for myself to be in touch with such people, they work as alarm clock for me and I need it, but the relationship is not equal. I mean, at one point I will become more equal to them but while I'm not - how to get that relationship/friendship rolling and healthy and enjoyable?

    • @loviascollection5178
      @loviascollection5178 2 года назад +1

      Waww❤❤❤❤ I love them thank you

  • @hari-codes
    @hari-codes 6 лет назад +21

    Number 7- "...if u haven't called your grandparents or parents *please stop this video right now and call them*..."
    Such an amazing thing to say👏👏👏

  • @nadyada4250
    @nadyada4250 5 лет назад +68

    When u r 20 and everybody get married, it doesn't mean u have to get married too - Marina👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻

  • @itridz5860
    @itridz5860 6 лет назад +48

    I don't smoke, I don't drink and yet I'm not spending my time right but I think this video taught me how to do it!
    Thanks dear !!!

  • @maharshirajchudasama5632
    @maharshirajchudasama5632 6 лет назад +18

    2:18- I started my Company when i was 21.Motivation!

  • @AZKr3w34
    @AZKr3w34 6 лет назад +29

    We think so much alike. I'm so ambitions and seeing my friends already settling in their early 20's is saddening. Where is their drive or passion for something more than just the simple life? I've worked hard and earned an $88,000 scholarship to a private university in NYC and I've been so grateful for the opportunities that arise from just taking simple risks or stepping out of your comfort zone and pushing yourself for your goals and ambitions. Risk is inevitable, so don't be afraid to take risks. Establish objectives and most importantly invest in yourself now. Learn a skill and always have a crave for an increase of knowledge. It's beyond rewarding to see yourself progress and accomplishing your goals then reflecting when you see your old friends, you realize how much you've grown as an individual.
    Just a little long rant from me to you. Marina is right, anything is possible so dream BIG. I'm 20 years old, thanks for the advice Marina your wisdom is free but priceless.

  • @AZ-bq6mg
    @AZ-bq6mg 4 года назад +2

    1. Dream big!
    Are your actions getting you to your Dream Job?
    2. Work hard!
    Use your ENERGY, do A BUNCH OF THINGS at the same time.
    3. Don' think that things have to happen right now!
    Don't compare yourself to anyone, think for yourself.
    4. Compare yourself with yourself of yesterday!
    5. Don't waste your time by hanging out and making frineds with everyone!
    6. Take care of your health!
    7. Don't lose connection to your family!
    8. Don't think you are too old to start something!
    9. Don't offence anyone!

  • @xtimplays4771
    @xtimplays4771 3 года назад +3

    Compare yourself to yourself yesterday - it is a great piece of advice, so now you know what Im gonna say every day)

  • @hoangphuongthaonguyen9385
    @hoangphuongthaonguyen9385 5 лет назад +5

    It is one of the most amazing and inspirational videos I have ever watched in my life ( I have already downloaded so that I can watch it again whenever I am stuck in a big stuff ) actually, all your advices you gave in this videos are familiar to us and I am quite sure that some of you guys have already heard it before. But the strange is that we never believe in what we know or experience. We absorb other advices more easily than ours and that is the reason why we need marina here. Some of your advices are a little new to me and the rest are the thing I always want to hear. It is absolutely a big motivation for me to move forward. I am just a student in grade 10 from Viet Nam and you know, the study there is put more pressure on us than
    in any other country. I am kind of competitive person and it is so easy for me to change my mind or be affected by other opinion ( a little bit like a pushover guy ) I love the way you edited this video and talk to us gently. All I need when I am stuck in a dilemma is just someone to listen to and has somethings about bias in common. Driving time, wisdom and health on my passion and improving myself maybe the only goal I can not surpass this year. It is time for me to start and live an interesting and balance new life. Love and always subscribe your channel.

  • @thaolinhnguyen6850
    @thaolinhnguyen6850 3 года назад +1

    This video is really amazing. I’m.19 and I learn a lots from your video. Thanksssss

  • @heartloves0321
    @heartloves0321 6 лет назад +3

    You're so positive!
    And these advice is so wise!
    Thank you for sharing❤

  • @bermetumarova4683
    @bermetumarova4683 7 лет назад +23

    That was really useful. I am a teacher and İ am going to show this to my students.

  • @arikunc0r0
    @arikunc0r0 6 лет назад

    so inspiring, Marina. I like this video very much. Never stop learning!

  • @divyasharma8961
    @divyasharma8961 5 лет назад +3

    M of 18 and i think i really lrnd a lot from this vedio for my upcoming yrs .......now i'll make sure that i will use my tym wisely... ...thnqq so much marina...😊😊😊

  • @nathaliapagnoncelli2386
    @nathaliapagnoncelli2386 5 лет назад +1

    please keep up with this kind of videos. I'm 22 and really need the motivational encouragement

  • @nastyadarkred
    @nastyadarkred 7 лет назад +118

    yesterday I saw it in Russian, today - in English, thank you Marina again, you are a great motivation for all of us

    • @st101k
      @st101k 7 лет назад +4

      Всеравно приятно слушать и там и там

    • @DCALC
      @DCALC 6 лет назад +1

      i am looking for her another youtube channel.Do you know where can i find it?

    • @nurbolkaldybayev9984
      @nurbolkaldybayev9984 6 лет назад

      her another youtube channel is Marina Mogilko

  • @ATef-pe8ws
    @ATef-pe8ws 5 лет назад

    The most positive person i've ever seen in my life, big big big up to you marina, just keep this shining smile.

  • @jpfrias5854
    @jpfrias5854 7 лет назад +1

    Marina, thank you for your channel, your knowledge end everything you communicate. I am almost 20 and I truly think likeminded!!!!!!!!!!!! I love people as passionate and as hard-working as you, really. Thank you!!!

  • @MohamedHassan-pj2cl
    @MohamedHassan-pj2cl 6 лет назад +2

    dream big
    work hard
    things dont have to happen now
    compare yourself to just yourself

  • @manhhai7427
    @manhhai7427 6 лет назад +2

    Your english is really clear and easy to listen.
    Btw, almost what your saying is right. Keep it up!!!

  • @martamarques4982
    @martamarques4982 6 лет назад

    Thank you so much, marina, i'm 16 years old, and i've been studying english for 8 months, even don't has confidence for talk with persons who knows english in a level more higher than the my, and today, i read a movie of charlie chaplin to whole my class, i'm so happy, i'm don't more struggle with fears.

  • @rajeshpg99
    @rajeshpg99 3 года назад

    How can I navigate further on your channel, without liking this video - true and straight from the heart. Loved it Marina!

  • @Sophy2001
    @Sophy2001 7 лет назад +6

    These were great advise! Keep them coming. Maybe in the future, when you are 37, you cold give your point of view on what to also avoid in your 30's.

  • @braaheltahir6979
    @braaheltahir6979 6 лет назад +3

    you are absolutely right 6:50
    as prophet Mohammed said: "There are two blessings in which many people incur loss. (They are) health and free time (for doing good)" so invest it in the best way u can

  • @rohangeorge2966
    @rohangeorge2966 6 лет назад +14

    Thank you for clearing my doubts about relationships...I am 19!!! I was too confused and felt too weird about not being in a relationship when I was in my early 19. Now ,in my mid-19, I realise that it is not important...

  • @sautaecaterina2533
    @sautaecaterina2533 6 лет назад

    you have no idea how much i needed these pieces of advice right now (i'm almost 21). this is the first comment that i have ever made on youtube and I just wanted to thank you so much for sharing this video with us. you are amazing and all i wanted to tell you is don't you ever lose your kindness. Thank you from the bottom of my heart for inspiring me!

  • @benjiemaedc
    @benjiemaedc 6 лет назад +1

    Hi Miss Marina. I'm Benjie Mae Dela Cruz from Philippines. I just really want to learn how to speak English fluently. I mean I can write and talk in English but I felt like that it wasn't good enough. That's why I search how to speak English confidently. Until I saw your channel. I thought your channel will just help me how to learn more about English but it's not what I expect. Upon watching your videos I found some videos like this that really inspires me. This is an eye-opener and a reminder for me. I have learned a lot from some of your videos that I already watched and I wanted to watch more of your videos and learn from it. I now loving to learn more and explore things that will help me in the future. Thank you miss Marina. You are one of an instrument of God. 😉😊

  • @walkerpaulp6526
    @walkerpaulp6526 4 года назад +4

    I'm not 20, I'm 17 even though I've watched this video, 'cause from now on I'll do this everyday to reach my lovable aim

  • @haymanhp
    @haymanhp 3 года назад

    It's so nice to watch your old videos, Ms. This video is very useful. Thank a million.

  • @thingsbyestefy9349
    @thingsbyestefy9349 4 года назад +1

    I have become 19 and the 20s seem so scary thank you out of all the advice videos I've seen this is by far one of the most helpful ones

  • @Overnighttrip
    @Overnighttrip 6 лет назад +1

    I m happy to hear ones life experience and how they realized, because it makes my life more complicated for the next step.

  • @omarmohmedomarahmed1236
    @omarmohmedomarahmed1236 5 лет назад +1

    I am in love with this girl and her style of speaking

  • @MahaLakshmi-mk1wc
    @MahaLakshmi-mk1wc 5 лет назад +2

    Waah , your speech was really amazing and highly motivated and the one you said about to cherish our loved ones when they are near is absolutely right.

  • @gurusowmith8368
    @gurusowmith8368 4 года назад

    Mam I am living in India and I watch some of your videos and I liked your way of teaching. It's so easy as you talk freely. And your expressions are so cute. Keep those expressions and smile, in your face in any situation. Thank you for your wonderful teachings and your suggestions to the world wide people.

  • @Mohan_Singh_Bisht
    @Mohan_Singh_Bisht 4 года назад

    A woman who is a inspiration to others
    Thank u for this video

  • @milopengyum
    @milopengyum 7 лет назад +17

    Its not about studying but what you want to do in life. Dont study till your mid 20s and realize you have been getting As but no idea what the real working world is like. To spend the next 5-10 years figuring out what is it that you want to do by then you are in your mid 30s. Earning money n getting As is important but theres so much more to it. Be a Michael Jordan, an all rounded player.

  • @jordigarcia3875
    @jordigarcia3875 7 лет назад +1

    I find your videos always quite inspiring! 23 y/o from Spain and yes, rose wine is essential to survive in 20s. Study for GMAT with a glass of wine is the next level

  • @PaletaLee
    @PaletaLee 3 года назад

    The first part of this video isn't actual anymore.
    I used to feel bad for so much partying I did on my 20es, I did lose some opportunities due to that.
    But now, 10 y later, COVID made feel like that was the best choice of my life and I feel so sorry for the today's 20yo kids who won't be able to have it... Now I am on my 30s and more mature, really happy to have enjoyed my younger days and having no excuses to work hard and becoming a home body where I am, because it's all that's left for doing now.

  • @camilita10sanchez
    @camilita10sanchez 5 лет назад +1

    Hello!! I'm 23, I finished my degree last year and I just returned from Philadelphia after 5 months studying an extra semester in college. And I was just thinking... omg what am I going to do now with my life? Like... I planned to have a sabatic year after my studies, but now I'm doing nothing, I've been spending my time on Instagram!!.... This video has been really helpful to motivate myself. Thank you!!!

  • @universebcapatel5751
    @universebcapatel5751 5 лет назад +1

    I saw your some video which are very useful to me to improve my english

  • @sinahejazi251
    @sinahejazi251 2 года назад

    Wow! Very valuable and inspiring! U made my day. Thank u & happy new year!

  • @tahmasptariq1865
    @tahmasptariq1865 4 года назад

    One of the best didactic videos on RUclips! Kudos to you

  • @zazinteractive
    @zazinteractive 6 лет назад

    Agreed with everything but the part about only spending time with people that will provide you value.

  • @jaroslavvana1426
    @jaroslavvana1426 6 лет назад

    I do agree with you. This is your first video I have seen so far and you seem to be a really clever young lady.

  • @Ly_Warrior
    @Ly_Warrior 3 года назад +1

    Great advices 💙 thanks marina.

  • @JerreHui
    @JerreHui 2 года назад

    You are a great mentor in this video, this is a great contribution to the society, some people are really need it out there, sometime they need to wake up their mind really think twice, because, the time does not go back, the discipline is the KEY thing!
    Thank you so much!

  • @novice4605
    @novice4605 4 года назад +1

    Thank you marina and I learnt a lot from you . I'm following what you are saying .

  • @dee9981
    @dee9981 7 лет назад +6

    Your videos always motivate me!!
    Thank you Marina. From Japan

    • @greenbranch8383
      @greenbranch8383 7 лет назад +1

      Daichi Yukinawa
      Greating from Kurdistan to Japan
      I love Japanese .
      God bless you all .

  • @midori.baudelaire
    @midori.baudelaire 7 лет назад

    Marina, you are my motivation boost. Please keep recording such a video like this!

  • @anthonytran7002
    @anthonytran7002 6 лет назад

    Amen. You're right, my "sister" Marina. The POWER of Now. Enjoy life ( living a well balanced life ).

  • @jamaicatadeo4237
    @jamaicatadeo4237 5 лет назад

    You are such an inspiration, Marina.

  • @ramansaini4239
    @ramansaini4239 4 года назад +2

    That moment when she says to quit this video and call your grandparents... Lovely

  • @krutikaverma8002
    @krutikaverma8002 4 года назад

    Thanks a lot for insights!! You are a true inspiration!!

  • @boredbeingbored894
    @boredbeingbored894 6 лет назад

    I totally agree- so much more energy when you are in your 20s

  • @fatemehb8585
    @fatemehb8585 5 лет назад

    Every little sentence u said was very helpful to me , Im 19 , just started my medical school & I 've been feeling so confused & messed up these days , I was thinking that Im too old , most of my friends are in relationship but Im not , Thought I have to give up all my dreams BC every body thinks Im too rebel & my dreams can never come true ,even my mom ... thank u so much for making this vid , love from Iran 💕💕💕u are amazing 💪💪

  • @MuhammadAhmed-wh5kv
    @MuhammadAhmed-wh5kv 5 лет назад +2

    That was really great, thanks a lot!
    Hope you the best!

  • @lugao7785
    @lugao7785 7 лет назад

    Вас люблю!!!!!
    A 22-year-old- messed up girl just watched your videos!! Love your passion and your thoughts!!!
    Hope your channel gets better and better and give me more power of working hard in life❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @didicam9548
    @didicam9548 6 лет назад +16

    My goal is learn speak English very good, because I would want study the university on USA

  • @lavanyaarts887
    @lavanyaarts887 4 года назад +1

    You motivate me a lot mam. Thank you so much.

  • @cortesdoserjaopedreiro
    @cortesdoserjaopedreiro 3 года назад

    Very good tips Marina. Thanks!!

  • @julianolima2343
    @julianolima2343 7 лет назад +2

    Hi, Mari.
    Thank you very much for sharing your valuable life lessons and personal experiences with us. I am sure that these tips will contribute to increase my chances of being very successful.

  • @ФирдавсФайзиев-щ2я
    @ФирдавсФайзиев-щ2я 3 года назад

    I wish i had known and heard your words when i was in my twenties. Now i am too old. Your words ring really true. Anyways a worthywhile remainder to keep in mind. Rise and shine! Never say that you are too old, you are too young. You are full of energy and enthusiasm. Cheers!

  • @jellygurl27
    @jellygurl27 6 лет назад

    I am 29 and I agree with all the things you said. esp keeping in touch with friends and family.

  • @angelina.20307
    @angelina.20307 3 года назад

    u are so special > i watch u every single day .. since 2 months

  • @professionalchongloi6674
    @professionalchongloi6674 6 лет назад

    Marina
    Your inputs on sharing your experienced are very insightful. And I admired the energy and enthusiasm you had. Starting your own Company at such a young age. I think you are courageous girl with a kind heart.

  • @madridista1902
    @madridista1902 7 лет назад +49

    please stop reminding me that i'm in my 20s. i'm wasting my life.

  • @supunfdo4605
    @supunfdo4605 6 лет назад

    This is a very interesting and valuable video. Nice to meet you Marina. Good luck.

  • @bedramtamang1439
    @bedramtamang1439 6 лет назад

    Love you Marina, Touched.

  • @moemyintthuzarlwin1971
    @moemyintthuzarlwin1971 4 года назад

    Hello!
    My lovely teacher,i'm 20 and i have to do many stuffs in my future life, so,i'm always keep on hoping and trying 😊

  • @karribrahmateja2334
    @karribrahmateja2334 5 лет назад

    Thank u marina this video made me motivated after a long time and i love to see these kinds of videos

  • @Alchemist_171
    @Alchemist_171 6 лет назад

    I had perfectly nice time listening to this and my day will certainly be more productive. Thank you.

  • @happinesstshepiso9258
    @happinesstshepiso9258 3 года назад

    Amazing Content Linguamarina... I just subscribed now on your channel but I'm enjoying it already... Thanks✊🏽

  • @dsanmiguel40
    @dsanmiguel40 6 лет назад

    you are precious being full of knowledge i love your personality and wisdom

  • @smaranikabanerjee8991
    @smaranikabanerjee8991 6 лет назад

    I really have watched lots of your videos on different stuffs but this video is really the one I was looking for, thanks :)

  • @TheJirator
    @TheJirator 3 года назад

    This is the smartest video on RUclips, period. I'm not in my 20s anymore and I learned all these points the hard way. I plan to show this to my kids in couple of years hoping it could help them avoid learning everything by their own experience :-)

  • @marydary8820
    @marydary8820 3 года назад +1

    Hey there!
    I’m very thankful for such a great video!!
    I’m 17 now but it still so useful for me, your words had touched my heart and motivates me to achieve my goals
    It may sounds weird but loads of time l keep thinking that I’m old enough to dream big and to follow my dreams but now I know that it was absolutely wrong
    Every time I’m gonna remember your words I’ll pray for you Marina❤️
    I thank you from all of my heart ❤️

  • @bashanborfrankysyiemlieh8022
    @bashanborfrankysyiemlieh8022 4 года назад

    Thanks for this video marina it's really inspiring ..

  • @julianmartin9206
    @julianmartin9206 6 лет назад

    These are some really practical tips, spot on! thanks for the awesome content

  • @ziyaaimery1271
    @ziyaaimery1271 4 года назад

    I am 16 now & I am here for my 20s😊 thanks u so much for sharing your experience

  • @hayatgisim7218
    @hayatgisim7218 6 лет назад

    I just like every single thing about you thanks for all your videos every time I learn something new from you

  • @warriorfb2010
    @warriorfb2010 7 лет назад

    This is just the video I needed to watch. Going to follow through.

  • @seoulfulstories_
    @seoulfulstories_ 7 лет назад +8

    In short i wanna say, this video is awesome......

  • @dyahhayudwihapsari7941
    @dyahhayudwihapsari7941 6 лет назад

    Hi Ms Marina. So glad to know u as a positive influencer on utube. Ur contents are all good and i jst cnt stop watching them to improve and motivate me in many sides. Warm regards from Indonesia! Terimakasih🖤

  • @sreasylearningenglishhouse5742
    @sreasylearningenglishhouse5742 3 года назад

    You are really inspiring for women. I will try to do something for myself. Thank you for letting us amazing videos

  • @silentwatcher1455
    @silentwatcher1455 5 лет назад

    I am fascinated by your determination , having goal and direction in life. Great ambition means good life, great result.

  • @rupamverma9347
    @rupamverma9347 6 лет назад

    Hi marina
    This is amazing video. You outlined almost all the mistakes that people usually make these days.

  • @olanpardede
    @olanpardede 4 года назад

    You are so good as your motivation!

  • @yashmehta9225
    @yashmehta9225 7 лет назад

    Absolutely correct its so nice of you... this things gonna completely work in our life ...

  • @mahmoudmagdy8383
    @mahmoudmagdy8383 6 лет назад

    That video literally has changed my mindset,thanks a lot

  • @ravienne3156
    @ravienne3156 5 лет назад

    This video is super helpful. I'm 18, so it's good to be warned to not make mistakes like some people do.

  • @seiji_toeic
    @seiji_toeic 6 лет назад

    Thank you so much! I really got inspired I'm 20 now Ive been learning English I'll use this energy to learn English to have fun in the future You are a so awesome hard worker I'll do my best to become like you

  • @jonathan2715
    @jonathan2715 6 лет назад

    thanks you! i love you so much Marina

  • @tahminaaktertahin8582
    @tahminaaktertahin8582 4 года назад

    Thanks to give such a nice advice.... really love you 😘😘

  • @user-in8pl4qp9o
    @user-in8pl4qp9o 6 лет назад

    Thank you for such an amazing video...I loved the way you share your experience.

  • @mercytouthang9019
    @mercytouthang9019 4 года назад

    What a great advice from you! Marina❤️❤️

  • @ExploreThyself
    @ExploreThyself 6 лет назад

    I like your honesty. Nice content. Thanks

  • @mamiendo3911
    @mamiendo3911 6 лет назад

    Every single your video inspires and motivates me💕
    Thanks a lot!

  • @robertoeduardonavarromendo8980
    @robertoeduardonavarromendo8980 2 года назад

    Every time, I watched your videos, I understand you better :)

  • @rafaelunilagoced
    @rafaelunilagoced 7 лет назад

    This video was awesome!!! The very best!!! Thank you!!! I'm 37 and still learning! Always 😍

  • @neharajput9687
    @neharajput9687 3 года назад

    Thank you Marina for your valuable knowledge.. 😄