p̶o̶v̶:̶ you're parents keep yelling at you (a vent playlist)
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- Опубликовано: 13 май 2024
- timestamps :
0:00 - young - vacations
3:07 - hey kids - molina
6:59 - fallen down - undertale
10:10 - final duet - omori
12:16 - yume utsutsu - lamp
17:31 - jubilee line - wilbur soot
20:38 - for memories - wilbur soot
24:03 - this is home - cavetown
27:47 - you suck × not allowed - tv girl
30:52 - where'd all the time go - dr. dog
34:45 - ykwim - yot club
38:15 - dark beach - pastel ghost
41:54 - mary - alex g
45:10 - what would I do - strawberry guy
49:03 - alone time - temporex
51:23 - summer depression - girl in red
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timestamps :
0:00 - young - vacations
3:07 - hey kids - molina
6:59 - fallen down - undertale
10:10 - final duet - omori
12:16 - yume utsutsu - lamp
17:31 - jubilee line - wilbur soot
20:38 - for memories - wilbur soot
24:03 - this is home - cavetown
27:47 - you suck × not allowed - tv girl
30:52 - where'd all the time go - dr. dog
34:45 - ykwim - yot club
38:15 - dark beach - pastel ghost
41:54 - mary - alex g
45:10 - what would I do - strawberry guy
49:03 - alone time - temporex
51:23 - summer depression - girl in red
*Hallo!*
This is home by cavetown is honestly the saddest song on this playlist :(
This is nice to listen to :)
@@mayuqoyea it represents transphobia if im correct
@@mayuqo no wonder it’s my literal favorite song of all time
I get yelled at by mom everyday and yesterday she even said ✨I am the most selfish person she has ever met✨ because I fell asleep even though she knows I rarely sleep she woke me up by dragging me off the couch then proceeded to scream at me for a whole ✨30 minutes✨ to add to it she never apologizes or cares how shitty it makes me feel. When I try to talk to her she never listens and when she does she plays it off as me ✨"over reacting"✨. Ah yes what a lovely relationship have my mother and me have. Can't wait for todays insults 🤩 If you read it this far sorry that I made you read all that and wasted your time. But thx for listening or technically reading, it means a lot to me and I hope your doing well ❤❤❤❤❤
Hi, my life is pretty similar to yours i think, and don't i'm trying to make your problem inferior than mine, i'm just here to help if you need to vent to me do it anytime yo want, i'll be there
“all children deserve a parent”
“Not all parents deserve a child”
You don't deserve this... ik this is a old comment, but I hope you are doin' better now.
Your mom's not a good person. I know cause I had it the same with my dad, but was also physically abused. I'm so sorry that this is happening to you, and I hope things get better! Stay strong please.
The only words I have
Same
My mom does the same thing and she won't let me explain and she won't let me take anything to help me
My parents yelled at me, without thinking I went straight to my room grabbing my AirPods and phone and listening to music and this popped up and I looked at the title and said “dang my phone really knows me”😂
I hope you situation get better, I know that times can be hard but just know you are strong. You will survive this, You are a warrior and you will come out of this stronger then ever before. Good luck solider.
Same 😂
I mean- my mom is terrible at arguing so whenever I win the argument every other day she makes me sleep on the stairs. No blanket or anything. She honestly never remembers my birthdays either unless my father reminds her. Even so she never lets anyone come over or anything. People call me disrespectful for hating her but they really don't know how bad she is. Another stupid thing is that she blames me on her weight gain because she eats too much.
Same 😂..
Bro same I literally just got yelled at and then this popped up lol 😂
They didn't notice you were crying
They did notice you were sad
They didn’t notice you were tired
They didn’t notice you were alone
They didn’t notice how attentive you were
They didn’t notice how sweet you actually are
They didn’t notice how you try to make others smile
They did notice you failing grades
They did notice your unattractive
They did notice the mean side of you
They did notice all your mistakes
They did notice all your flaws
They did notice that you weren’t good enough for them.
But you stayed strong
You kept going on
You never gave up on hope
You never let then take you down
And you know they wasn’t good enough for you
And that’s what make you stronger
(credits to original writer)
Tysm for reading this ^^
Love it bravo bravo!!
thats for real how it be though.
Fr true
I’ll never give up
Never let you down
I'm crying while I'm reading this comment, thanks. I'm gonna share this comment to others:)
Isn't it so crazy when we cry all night then we act like nothing happened...
for real, I don't know if people can tell if someone cries by looking at their eyes. either my friends don't care, or my eyes are different
I can't cry because as soon as I arrive at hs all my classmates will start talking shit
cant go a day without my mom yelling at me😍
true💗😙
Fr Fr
Same here 😽😽😽
Fr.. I can't either.
Its twinning tho 😍😋
Whenever I do anything slightly wrong, I get yelled at. I'm so tired of this. I just want to not be yelled at for a day.
*Me too, kid...*
fr
Ya…
true...
Same
It’s funny that strangers are nicer n actually understand my pain better then my family n parents
Right?
Yeah like my mom yelled at me for seeing my therapist instead of sh .thank you to my therapist for making my life a little more manageable
Ikr bro
yea my mom keeps saying “you are so much nicer to them have some respect” but then you yell in my face at the slightest bad thing i say.
@@Cutecore_yay145hot take
Your parents didn't deserve your attention just because they guard you from danger and guided you through life
That's parenting
It's what they're *supposed* to do
I mean not like they don't deserve to be given credits but hell naw I'm giving them attention like their the king and queen of England just because they do what they're supposed to do in life
is it bad I cry whenever someone even slightly raises their voice?
we all suffer from a sort of trauma
Not at all..
*it’s just trauma*
Of course it fucking is bro you're supposed to grow out of that when you're six years old
I do this to but i dont think i have trauma also u ok?
especially when my mum does
I can't stand my mom's constant guilt-tripping and gaslighting. Everything is about her, everyone has to make sure SHE is okay. She can get away with saying god awful things about other people but yet she can't handle criticism. I don't know how long I can take being the bad guy of this relationship...
Your mother is wrong, your not the bag guy she is and your sadly and innocent victim. Your amazing and strong and smart and loved and cared for. I hope things get better, Just know that your amazing. Good luck warrior.
I have a mother like that but sometimes I sympathize with her because my whole family has ✨trama✨
So do I sadly 🥲
same but its my dad
You deserve better
Even when they’re not yelling at me, ill just put my airpods in and blast the music so loud until i cant even hear myself think.
I hope things get better, Your a warrior and a strong one to. You are amazing and wonderful trust
me things will get better. Just Rember your loved and cared for and amazing and a warrior. Good luck warrior.
@@Toxic._.GlitCh thank you ❤
If you need to, you can reply to my comment and leave as long a vent as you need I will be happy to listen to you. I'm here for you ♥
@@SammyGravgaard223 thx- but im not that much of a venter- i find no use in it for me- but thx
Don’t you just love it when you finally feel comfortable enough to talk to someone about your feelings(my aunt) and then they just go off and tell your parents everything you said in your vent and now you have to deal with getting yelled at for your feelings and now they don’t trust you and go through your stuff 2/47 and now you have trust issues?
Just me? Okay.
damn not only you went through the same shit but i told my sister
I'm ntoe revelaing my true self (my litteral me, jsut a face of me) because if i do, i will have excatly what you have, good luck tho man.
seriously, parents yell at you for having not "good enoguh" grades (*89*%) so you wnat to study but they don't let you the time to study so ur grades become garbage and they yell at you bfor having bad grades (they know it's their fault, they also have master-psychology degrees)
just me? well ig i shuould not be selfish
@@HexaYoProfessionalHater My parents are literally the same exact thing everything *has* to be an A or else everything gets taken away for not trying hard enough
Dont worry ur not alone but i told my mum and she talked to everyone about my vent, even total STRANGERS and acted like the damn fucking victim 💀💀💀
I just don’t talk I just smoke weed to repress my PTSD and pain I don’t really care if that’s unhealthy and I don’t really care about myself all that much but enough about me I just want to make sure that you’re ok and I want to make sure that you live a good life don’t feel sad I’m sure things will get better because they always do so just put on a happy face but not a brave face because even if you’re sad you were happy once to feel that sadness it’s want makes us human so just stay strong and stay happy even through all the bullshit stay chill 😎
Before I hated going to school but now I don’t wanna get back home because I know my parents would have a ridiculous excuse to yell at me and tell me how disappointed they are of me. Love it!!!!!. 😍😁
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Bruh, I feel you. I hated school, I still think it is a prison, but everyday after school I refused to go home until all of my friends had left. Some of my favorite memories are of staying on an elementary school playground almost until the sun went down playing with one of my friends because their family had car troubles
All the way until I was going into middle school and lost all my friends, I noticed I like school more than home.
“The most painful thing is losing yourself in the process of loving someone too much, and forgetting that you are special too.” “There are wounds that never show on the body that are deeper and more hurtful than anything that bleeds.” “Some old wounds never truly heal, and bleed again at the slightest word.”
I lost myself trying to love my toxic family and it hurts so much trying because they just yell for the stupidly reasons
So true
I lost my closest person to me at 9. I’m 18 now and it still hurts, so I can relate..
Ive never seen anything that i can relate more to than thos comment..
real
When they tell you to act serious but when you do they laugh at you 😻
this comment tho 😃
and call you sensitive and silly like omg
When Fallen Down started playing, I instantly started crying. I'm normally not the kind of person to cry, but I did. My mom won't exactly yell at me, but she says some really insulting things to my face that I can't do anything to change. I just now realizing that she probably says even worse things behind my back. She says I'm just imagining my depression, even though I was diagnosed with it from birth. I've been wanting to move out for so long, but I am way too young for it. I am actually surprised that I am still in this world, alive and breathing. Somehow, without explanation, I can just relate to Fallen Down, especially since Undertale helped me find the softness in my heart I never knew I had. I hope that anyone reading this feels better soon, and are able to continue on and find the good things in life. It might take a while, but believe me, the little happy things you find along the way in life will make it worth while. I you all have a good day.
--Advice from a 13 year-old.
It may be hard, but we just have to get through this somehow. I'm living this life for God. It'll get better.
- a 17 year old
The fact that random people from the internet understand me more than any part of my family is hilarious 💀
I was honest with my feelings today, and I was snapped at in return
I'm so sorry hun
That happened so much when I was younger I just faked it till I make it but years later I'm still not making it at this point and now I don't know the real me heck I don't know or understand my own feelings but I can understand others as if there my own.....
I'm an amazing actor know
Sometimes being honest is hard especially with other people, but there is no stopping what you feel. Just know that things will get better ok. Good luck.
yeah that's bullshit that they tell you to tell them anything and then when you do they snap and yell at you. LIKE YOU LITERALLY WANTED ME TO DO THAT DONT BLAME ME YOU ASKED FOR ITTTT!!!!!!!!!! asshole parents
I thought my parents were the best people for so many years. I realise now that they weren't. They isolated me from the world then told me I was being anti social. They blamed me for things I couldn't control but then blamed themselves for thing I could. I was so confused as a kid. It couldn't understand why I couldn't be better. Why they couldn't just accept I am they way I am and not make me into the perfect version they wanted. But thing are a little better now. Things do get better. Even if its not fully. Things always get a little better in the end. Keep going. If didn't I wouldn't be writing this. Just a little longer. It will get easier. I promise.
Bro same whenever I watch my stuff my dad goes “that’s a little stupid watch something else” and I’m like heartbroken a bit because I like that stuff now I have to put my volume on low so he dosent hear it
it's funny how people on the internet understand you more than the people in your life
Don’t kill yourself. You need to live, it’s not your time. You need to inspire someone. You need to tell your story. If that doesn’t convince you, stay for the 13 year old girl writing this, who feels the exact same but still knows this is normal.
You are loved. Stay, for not only me, but for everyone who you will change in the future, everyone you will inspire and make a better person.
Thank you
Bro thank you for this I also just turned 13 recently too!
Спасибо :3
thank you...from one 13 year old girl to another
omg yeess this comment will make my day thanks buddy!!!!!!!
love when you share how you honestly feel then get laughed at by both of your parents 😍🤩
So true I always get laughed at by my parents it brings my self esteem down. And breaks my confidence
Same my mother even stooped so low as to use my SA as a joke
Things are going to be thought, but you will come out of this mess stronger. I know it will be hard to live trough, living is never easy. But just know that it will get better i promise. Good luck warrior.
I can relate your not alone, and honestly I think it helps a little knowing that there are others going through it as well, so if you need to you can reply to this and tell me how you feel I'll listen promise and I won't laugh or judge I'm open to hear you I know it helps getting it off your chest ♥
@@Kittenclarissa Feel free to reply to my comment on how you feel I would be happy to listen ♥
I literally can’t go a day worrying about my grades or how I’m persevere bc my aunt always yells at me if my grades aren’t higher then an A. She finds it funny that I cry over my grades, I only cry because of the stress I’m out under from it and I can never catch a break from her. She’s the only reason I won’t be afraid to move away to a different place other then here. I’m done with her and I’m only a freshman in high school. Can’t wait till I’m able to drive and have a job
Sophomore here. Life isn’t going to get better for a while. Your not gonna feel ok. Everything will drown you and keep you from the release you so desperately need. What’s worse is some if ur will never go away. But every time you get up, you get stronger. You start ti realize, “ hey this doesn’t hurt as bad as it used to” and your gonna find that progress is going to take years. But it’s worth it. Every second you have that moment of peace you get before fighting again will become something worth living for. Finding a way to live and to do better than just survive. One day you’ll have the love you needed when you were at your worst. And you’ll get to give that love to someone else so that they could be happier than you were. You’ll find what keeps you going. You’ll find your strong, independent, and wonderful as a person. For me, my friends keep me going. They make me better. The happiness of others is what I lean on. Find your passion and your strength. Your already incredibly strong from what you’ve been forced through. Make your life for you and not others
I feel so terrible about myself because of the exact reason then everyone says I’m so very sensitive, I’m not sensitive at all. I don’t get sad over the things I shouldn’t, so that means that they are just truly breaking a strong person.
I feel you man.
@@HomosaurusRex6 I agree with you
Same here if I don’t get a scholarship making college free I might get disowned uhg it sucks that people on the internet understand me more than my parents
Your skin isn’t paper, don’t cut it. Your life isn’t a game, don’t lose it. Remember you are enough. You are a good person. You are not to blame for others actions. I am proud of you for moving forward no matter how hard life gets..
I’ll always be proud of you
Thank you , I needed that🙂
If skin isnt paper why is it so easy to cut? If life isnt a game why do i always feel like im being played with/ toyed with? if i was good enough why would people say im not? if im not to blame then who else could it be? life is shit and its never easy no matter how hard i try.
Sorry i wasted your time but thx for even hearing/ reading me out on this
No
(VENT) 💀💅
Be me a few days ago:
*Talking to friend group about serious topic
*Friend makes a joke causing everyone to laugh
*Laughs with them but tries to keep on talking about the topic
*Friends obviously ignoring me and talking about themselves
*Tries again and gets yelled at for "making everything about yourself."
*Stops talking at all and stays in the background of the conversation listening while my friends talk about themselves.
:[
I am not an expert on friends but I think you should get new ones ): Your current "friends" dont seem to be very much like an actual friend, my reasons are because they say you are making everything about yourself but yet they are the ones talking about themselves, secondly you are talking about a serious topic and they ignore it, did they even mention or ask you if you have been okay while they were talking about themself? I really hope you have tried finding new friends and I wish you the best of luck trying, remember I am not exactly social with people so only think about finding new friends and then try if you want to
Day one of me finding ppl who deserve waaaaay better.
be lucky u even have friends
@@alexzie. OH NU DO U NOT HAVE FRIENDS?! NUUUU ILL BE UR FRIEND 😤
😢
My mother always asks to tell me whats bothering me, what's up with me, and i always say I'm fine ofc. She KNOWS that im not and still tries to ask me to tell her whats on my mind.
And I can't tell her.
Because she gets her feelings hurt so easily.
I can't say...."It's you."
And it freaking hurts.
Same honestly I can't tell her because I am afraid of hurting her. And my dad tells me its not my fault but it really just feels like it is.
Sounds like me tbh
Gosh I can’t say how much I relate. My parents keep asking me if I am okay and what might be bothering me, but at this point I can’t remember anymore. 😢
Yeah I feel the same as you.
i feel the same… i also get hurt easily. my mom gets irritated easily and i know she loves me. but i don’t think she realizes how gross it makes me feel. I love her so much and couldnt live without her but its hard when i do have her… and i want to tell her everything but either it will hurt her or she will try to make the best out of it, and i apreciate it but i just want some empathy…
Vent ig...?
My parents always say that I lie about my trauma because I never tell them where I got it from I always think to myself “I got it from you but I can’t tell you that I’m scared of you”
I also have that too. I never told them tho. I also sh because of them it’s hard to tell them tho
Same my dad is the reason for so many of my fears and trauma yet he always neglects it and acts like mouthing happened
Nothing
Despite the fact you may not want to hear this, but it's for the best that you *do* tell them, if you don't then they'll get worse and worse and eventually at the point you tell them after you've been broken, they'll say you're making excuses.
You *need* to tell them man, the more you lie the less they'll trust. Believe me when I say that you don't want your own parents to not trust you.
@@thecollector4541 I tried once and they were like “oh we don’t understand you you’re talking nonsense” and me being petty I wrote it out in every language and showed them and they just got mad so I kinda just let them do whatever now I don’t care
don't u just love it when the one time you open up... THE ONE TIME... they think you lying, yell at you louder, tell you to stop being manipulative and gaslighting, and then go and cry about why I'm like this. don't you just love that? i'm just so tired, i cant take this anymore. everyone i try and talk to just doesn't understand. I'm sick of this. I'm tired of everything. I'm about to just give up entirely
hey, i hope you're doing better now! i just wanna quickly tell you that there is nothing wrong with who YOU are. you are you and you being you is an amazing and wonderfull thing. I am so incredibly proud of you.
A small vent/rant, feel free to scroll if uncomfortable with such things ❤
[ TW: mentions of SA and yelling ]
I can't fucking stand my mom. She knows she's ment to be a support for me at this time being, listen to me, try to understand my situation - especially after my therapist told her about that I've been SA'd by my father, but no. When I'm emotionally down and basically can barely even talk (= automatically also not wanting to go to school, since there's bullying aswell going on for me...) and she just yells at me for it, like she doesn't know of my situation. Even SHE has gotten a few therapists recommended to her, but guess what? Her short-tempered bratty ass never visited any. I seriously need time to process and let my emotions pass and such, but she just goes over it like it's nothing. Like there's no chance that I could be mentally ill - literally no surprise to me that I can barely talk to her normally or even trust her.
You are literally so brave for going through all of this, I wanna tell you I'm proud. I wanna tell you that there will be better times and you deserve them. It's probably not always easy to hope and believe but know there are always people that care for you.
Do you have a shoulder to cry on? Any best friends? Maybe this will help you a bit.
Lots of support from me, if you want to talk a bit about it, reply, and I'll give you the best advice I can or just listen.
You're not alone (つ≧▽≦)つ
My dad just yelled at me and I open RUclips to this being the first thing to pop up😭😭😭 I’m gonna vent now he picked me up from schools and dragged me around town for like two hours so I wasn’t in a very good mood the whole time. We finally get home and he tells me to plug in salsa machine and my mom put my cat In a cute hat so I wanted to take a picture of it really quick and send it to my friends. He comes in and just burst out yelling at me usually I just stay quiet and don’t say anything but I decided to yell back he told me some very hurtful stuff after that he thinks am trying to play a game with him or something when I was just excited to see my cat. He sees it as a challenge if I don’t Immediately do what he says it’s like he thinks am evil I don’t understand why it’s not like I don’t listen to him. He looks for any reason for him to yell at me just so he can call me a spoiled selfish brat. He snap my phone in half two days before Christmas and all he could say was sorry afterwards like that was gonna do anything
Your going trough so much pain that you don't deserve, your amazing and wonderful. Your father doesn't deserve you, you are to amazing for him. I hope things get better for you. You will come out of this stronger then ever before. Good luck warrior.
I understand what you mean, my dad does the same thing. I cant escape him or anyone who hates me, its like they target me and say HURTFUL things and I start to believe them and bad things happen to me and nobody helps me, the only people who really helped me were my mama, my girlfriend, my cousins family and friends. I think the only people who really care about me is my girlfriend, my cousins family and my friends and my mama.
I’m going through something similar, and I’m terrified of staying with my dad for longer than 1 week since my parents are divorced. My dad also said that I “play with people” (manipulate people to believe my story) when I’m just telling a story of what happened. I’m super lucky tbh since I have a friend and mom who is always there for me when my dad and step-mom become toxic and try to gaslight me. Sometimes I just give in and take the psychological agony that is being told that I’m an ungrateful brat and that I’m wasteful. In return, they are nice to my brother who isn’t questioning when they make him in trouble for something he didn’t do. I take my anger out on him sometimes and yea it’s not a good situation but I feel bad for him but idk what to do so I just hope that I won’t have to walk on eggshells with my dad when I’m with him 🤷🏽♀☹😥😢
@@shyscraper11 dam, I really hope your life gets better. and have you told your mom about it? I think Your mom might help you
@@lumitywenclair-dl9wp thank you, and yes 👍 I told my mom, as she also doesn’t like my dad. I’m mostly just staying because I have a little half sister at my dads, and I don’t want to abandon her. Also, I LOVE LOVE LOVE your profile name!
YALL STOP REPLY TO THIS PLEASE!!!!
@@berkzimo Please don't vent on someone's vent. I'm sorry for you , you are strong so keep it up.
@@-BuryAFriend54. my bad , sorry
@@berkzimo Nah don't apologize ! Ya feeling okay? Need someone to talk??
I'm so sorry that you are going through
My dad always yells at me he cussed me out once
Guys i completed 2 vent playlists are you proud :D
so proud
yeah!
Yes, I'm proud of you!
My goodness, these comments are the most relatable pieces of text I've ever read. I literally started tearing up hearing this playlist, i don't know if it's because it keeps reminding me of trauma, or just that the songs are good.
Asking for the little privacy of having a room to myself, and guess what?
I got yelled at ❤️❤️❤️❤️😊
can’t go a day without getting yelled at for acting as if i am autistic because i *am* autistic 😻
edit over a year later (😭) uhhhh life still sucks for me!!! woo hoo 🎉 i read a lot now so that’s cool ig
Same. My mom has ADHD so she tries to relate to me but its not the same. sorry that you get yelled at for something so stupid like that.
if u need someone to talk to we re here
@@sammy_the_trans yall guys i got both autism and adhd i also got yelled at today
Imagine yelling at your child for being autistic― That's fucking stupid
You are amazing and strong and a fighter. I can tell you are strong I know you'll make it out of this. Rember that people love and care about you. Stay strong warrior, You might feel weak but know you are a champion.
every time i do something slightly wrong i get this dredded feeling in my stomach and i know what’s about to happen , and it’s nothing good
The fact you included Fallen Down and Final Duet means way too much to me
Tysm for this playlist I love it so much
You cannot protect yourself from sadness without protecting yourself from happiness. Tears come from the heart and not from the brain. To have felt too much is to end in feeling nothing. People keep telling me that life goes on, but to me that's the saddest part.
when your mum only talks to you to tell you off or say how dissapointed she is in you :D
edit: HOLY- THANKS FOR THE LIKES
Same.. :')
Fr
Relatable
I know times are tough and it seem like it unbearably hard to live trough at times, But your amazing and your mother is wrong about you. Your amazing and brave, you will come out of this different, but you will come out of this strong. Good luck out there.
Fr
its okay to not be okay, my friend. life happens, and eventually, it all does get better. even on the days where it feels like the universe is against you, i can promise you, it gets better. you will come out the other side a stronger person, because you didnt deserve any of it. we are all so proud of you. your mistakes, your inperfections, and those times where you just dont feel okay and just want to cry. you are human. its okay. you are valid to feel like this, because you have feelings too.
take a deep breath, and remind yourself the reasons your still here, the reasons you deserve to live. whether its your love for your pets or the way that through anything, your friend will do anything to see you happy. whether its the taste of cake or the sunset on a tuesday evening, its valid. you are valid. you are inperfect, because no human is or ever will be perfect. your inperfections are what make you, you, and you should never let anyone make you think otherwise.
You deserve to eat. It gives you energy. You deserve it because you are you, and no one should ever be able to decide what you do with your body. You will never be good enough for their standards, and that's okay. Why should you need their validation? The only validation you need is the validation of being yourself when you look in the mirror. Being happy with yourself is always better than needing others to be happy with yourself. It isn't their job to judge your body, and it never will be. Your body is beautiful the way it is because everyone is unique, even if people can't stand to accept your uniqueness. They do that because they themselves don't feel unique. They feel like they need to be just like everyone else, but they aren't. The only thing they are looking for is their own validation that they lack about their bodies. They wish they were as unique as you are. They wish they didn't want to be like everyone else, so they bash on you for being unique, unlike they are. They will never be able to be like every other person out there, and they will never stop trying. They will never be able to regain that emptiness from the lack of validation they have with themselves, and that's the sad reality of it.
Today my mom was yelling at my sister. My sister was mentioning something about her friend (who is non binary but it wasnt related to the conversation) and out of nowhere my mom yelled "enough woth this they them bullshit, it's infuriating"
I have never been filled with so much anger by anyone ever, she's mentioned it before. She's made her opinion very clear. But in that second I have never wanted to hit someone so much. I've never once felt as furious as I have then.
i literally cant live a day on this horrible earth without my mum having a go at me over anything
yah know wut? hugs for all of you hugs allll around ^^
hehe thank you so much, needed that hug^
@@sleepykarl your welcome love you playlists btw
@@n1ghtmare_w0lf1e thank you a lot! you're really really sweet
I'm good thanks
yes hugs are needed rn
I love how when i try to talk about something about me -like opening up- they always think that I have a problem, or im just faking it. But you know, parents are 'always right'.
My dad keeps yelling at me for the smallest things that aren’t even my fault and that’s why I try to avoid him most of the time. And he thinks he’s so high and mighty for yelling at a kid but he’s just ruining our relationship so congrats to him I guess
cant go a day without my mom , my aunt and my sister yelling at me for no fucking reason😍
It's OK to not feel OK' ...
'You're not alone' ...
'You can move forward in the face of your depression' ...
'I'm here for you, no matter what' ...
'Help is available' ...
'Your story isn't over'
DAWG THIS MADE ME BALLS MY EYES OUT ☹️☹️
@@belenmedina3293 haha, balls.
@@belenmedina3293 sorry
You know what's strange...that strangers can make you feel better than your own family and friends.
i can end my story
I love how ppl on the internet are so much more understanding than usual irl ppl :)
Tired of my dad constantly yelling at me and making me feel worthless just because he's had a bad day or he's sick.. I always have bad days, but I never scream hurtful things at him like that.
Can’t even remember a day when my mom doesn’t yell in the house cause she always yells in anger, I’m quite frightened by her yelling. But I manage it somehow.
She got p!ssed off at my grandma so bad to the point where she cried and yelled so loud that my dad had to calm her down, my mum wanted 🔪off my grandma badly, my dad said people would call the cops if they keep hearing the yelling.
I shuttered in fear when I heard her, i wanted to close my door so badly and cry. I tried to tell my best friends about it by hints but I don’t think it worked, I frogot though. It’s been months. I start fearing the worse when I’m near her, she’s nice at one point but suddenly gets mad one second later.
I have to go through her yelling and anger so much that I don’t want to make my friends parents mad when i go over to their house, they don’t though. I get kinda emotional but don’t show it. That’s all, thank you for reading if you even did.
I'm so sorry... Just remember, things will get better, you are always able to make them better! You may not be able to fix this situation, but you can try to maintain your mental health and get away from everything you don't like, when you're older. To not be in contact with her in the future, and to not be around her a lot right now to not feel worse. Maybe, try to meditate or tell someone you trust about the situation! You don't have to bear it all alone... Good luck, and remember, things will get better!
You get a hug (つ✧ω✧)つ
my mom yelled “you don’t forget to call your boyfriend right?” at me over me forgetting to lock the door and i snapped at her. guess who’s getting her phone taken 😂
i just got in a fight with my mom about how my bf had a soccer game next to my granmas house and she ridiculed and teased me to my point in tears about how i was being a bad gf cause i wasent in the mood to go to his game, now she literaly blocked everyone except for her and my dad on my contacts :(((
To everyone who is doing homework, leave the chat, breathe slowly, take a sip of water, and focus
To everyone who is trying to sleep, leave the chat, grab a blanket, and get the rest you deserve.
To everyone who is feeling sad, grab a snack, get some water, get a blanket, and write down your thoughts. When you're done, lay down, and get some rest, no matter the time.
To everyone who is creating, you got this. Your art is amazing. Remain in your flow and get stuff done!
was not expecting final duet to play, I go cry now.
this is true, i keep in getting talks and yelled at maybe thats why i dont like loud noises.
I hope things get better, just know your amazing and cared for. Good luck out there brave warrior
Same
I'm tired of it, sometimes I feel like I wanna run away and go missing.
But Hey its only a feeling right. Not like I'll do it yk.
I tried that once, Don't do it 😍🙏
@@sammy_the_trans lol
i felt this on a godly level.
i felt this on a godly level.
Thank you, kind soul, for finally making a vent playlist that isn't the same 10 songs everyone adds
“Sadness is also a kind of defense.” - Ivo Andrich.
“Our sweetest songs are those that tell of saddest thought.” - Percy Bysshe Shelley.
“Sadness flies away on the wings of time.” - Jean de La Fontaine.
“Sad hurts but it's a healthy feeling.” - J. K. Rowling.
I almost cried listening too this I looked this playlist up because I loved these songs but I saw the title and I balled
Yeah. "Almost"
Best vent playlist yet, you're amazing man
yesterday, I was on call w/ one of my friends and their parents started to yell at them mid call..I felt so bad, because I knew being yelled at can be scary.
Hey you! Yes you the person reading this right now! I just wanted to tell you, it's going to be okay, no matter how hard it is right now for you it will be okay, I believe in you that you can push through! Its okay if you fail, its okay if you make a mistake, it's all okay, you're just a human you maybe aren't capable of doing something and thats completely okay, just believe in yourself, even if you fail or mess up many many times thats okay just get up and try again! Keep trying don't give up! You can do it! I believe in you that you can achieve your goals, that you can find the right people, that you can get out of your toxic household, I believe that you can do whatever your heart desires, but it may take a lot of time, don't go hard on yourself, its okay to take some time, just believe in yourself and try your best, even if you keep falling keep trying, just don't give up and you'll succeed! You are capable of doing anything and don't listen if someone says that you aren't, you are a beautiful, smart, great, amazing, powerful, strong being and you just have to believe in yourself! Don't let people put you down, fight for appreciation from other people and it will really pay off! Stay safe out there! I love and believe in you!❤️♥️💓💗💝💖
Also if you'd like to vent feel free to vent in the replys of this comment and I'll try to comfort you, I may not be the best in that subject but I'll try! ❤️
Thanks sm for this. I've been having constant fights with my mom lately.. I just have angry outbursts out of my will and then I realize what I did and start crying. Then my mom screams at me. "DONT TALK BACK TO ME!" "ILL GIVE YOU A REAL REASON TO CRY!" It just hurts. I can't control my anger anymore and I need help but she keeps dismissing that. I cry all the time about it, how I'm not normal and I can't listen. I feel not up to the standards my mom set which are very low. I'm just turning into an angry mammal, unable to communicate my feelings. Sorry. I'm just really tired.
@@anticicle.( Sorry its a bit long)
I advise you to try to take a break from school or work, try to get some rest and do something that brings you joy, try to relax and just be in your own personal little buble for some time. Try to let your mind free and try to forget at least for a moment about the anger and fight and all the hard things in your life. If you like and enjoy being in nature/ in the outdoors then maybe take a long walk or go to a place like a park, a pond, forest or any place that you like being at. If you prefer being indoors then do something you like doing indoors like for example drawing, dancing, pottery, singing, watching videos, do whatever that gives you joy and doesn't currently feel to draining or that it will take away too much energy. If you like hanging out with friends or family maybe ask whoever you like hanging out with to hang out of course if you have the energy for it. If you like anything else do that if you have the energy for it. But before doing something just get some rest, make yourself comfortable and relaxed, maybe eat something you like and drink lots of water. After you get some energy and you think you're rested enough try talking to your mom anf try to work things out with her. Thats my advice and I completely understand that it sometimes things can be like that and that's okay, just rest your mind, realise as much negatively out your head and once you have enough energy and you think you'd be capable of trying to fix the issue that has been going on go for it. I think this will be the best for your mental health and for your relationship with your mom. Just remember that it's okay to take a break, that you're just a human and that sometimes you get tired and iratated and that's normal, your feeling are valid and you don't need to go hard on yourself. I hope this helped, I wish you the best of luck and I believe that you can do it. Gl!❤️
Thank you so much. I will definitely get some rest and plan ways to relieve stress, your the best.
Damn man that hit home. My mom is an abusive narcissist so just imagine all things traumatizing whenever she's around hah.hah.ha.. last night she traumatized me again. And my older sister as expected, did nothing coz she doesn't care. There and then, my eyes were opened to the reality that I no longer know her nor acknowledge that she is my mother. When I was a lil kid I dearly loved my parents. Then they changed and slowly their true colors were shown. Just because we're no longer little kids... And I decided that I am getting out of here no matter what. Whatever it takes. To whatever end. I am gonna be free from them. And be my own person. I'm gonna go rouge. Thanks for believing in me internet bestie✊
Lots of love💕🌼✨
@@livyy2431 I believe in you that you can get out of there, you're a strong, smart, beautiful person that is capable of achieving their goals and I believe in you that you can get out of your toxic household. It may take some time so don't pressure yourself to do it fast as possible, these things take time and as long as you believe in yourself you can do it! Do it at your own paste, I recommend you make a plan how you will get out of there and what will you do after. But for the time you spend still in your toxic household, don't let the trauma get too deep, it may be difficult but try to fight and push through, I believe that you can do it! I wish you the best of luck and I am rooting for you and I believe in you that you can do it! Stay safe out there and try not to lose hope there is always a light at the end of the tunnel! Good luck!❤️💗💖
No because my parents actually yelled at me last night
Btw love your playlist’s you do !
u get a hug
@@n1ghtmare_w0lf1e Ty
@@Balloonveryepicfr of course
Your amazing and your parents just don't see that. Your a brave and smart person and your loved and cared for. I hope thing for you get better, Just Rember your amazing and i am proud of you. Good luck solider.
@@Toxic._.GlitCh Tysm I needed that ❤❤
(this is my first vent 🙂)
I....I always been yelled at when they don't even know what I've been tru.....
they don't even care...they forgot about me a lot of times and even forgetting me at school...they don't even know I've been raped by my brother...and i was only 5....a fricking 5 year old....
I wish they could understand us....anyway have a good day🙂
and the person who make this ...thank you❤
I am so sorry. You can do this I believe in you! I wish parents could understand us too sadly they won't
i honestly find comfort in these videos, they help me get through things
times aren’t tough, im just not used to them being normal
Oh damn that’s sad and also good that there being normal
Guys..I know that's not enough but I love you . I'm proud of you . I'm proud of your doing everything . And you're always be in my heart . I love you..
thank you very much i love you and i am proud of you aswell
Ah yes, I don’t think you would love me at all if you met me
@@rosemary_the_elf4771 then lets met! Do you have an Instagram account?
@@LumosTalks You're welcome ! This is make me so happy
i finally feel in peace with this playlist . . .thank you so much
I've never seen summer depression in a playlist before!! Thank you for adding it, because I almost forgot that song even existed.😭
I remember listening to these a lot because I never had a good relationship with my mother AT all. I still don't if we're being honest but It's getting so much better than how it used to be. It's also not easy knowing I only have one parent instead of two, I never grew up with a father figure at all so I only grew up knowing my mother instead of my father. Looking back on all of these playlists I guess it's not really useful when it comes to me crying about my mom since I have nothing to cry about now. It's more useful using them for when it does get hard to cry. I've cried so much that it's hard to even let down a single tear without it being me just crying instead of genuinely crying and showing emotion (If that makes sense.) Although the relationship with my mom is getting better, my mental health is still shit and I'm failing all my classes once again. I'm losing more and more close friends but that's okay, I finally found better friends who also have the same interests as I do. I finally found my home and found what I'm interested in. :)
its okay im here for you friend♥
same, i understand your pain
Stay strong
We are all here for you.
“Gone from our sight, but never from our hearts.”
“Our thoughts and prayers are with you.”
“I wish you healing and peace.”
“I hope you feel surrounded by much love.”
“We are so sorry for your loss.”
“We are thinking of you during these difficult times.”
so many years of thoughts and prayers. fucking sick of it
can't they do anything more????????
The thing about loving someone, is that yelling at them only feels good while you're doing it -- as soon as they're gone, all you want to do is take it all back. - Lauren Barnhold
perfect playlist for me since I get yelled at a lot.
My mom and dad are calling me a bitch, mistake etc. And after that they will go to my younger brother and tell him he's amazing. Why did I deserved that? They literally can say that they doesn't love me, they also said to me that they would be happy if I died;/
Last week, after school, I've told my mom that I think I need to see psychologist, she started to yell at me that I'm just the last thing she ever wanted in her life, she also told me that I can't have any problems because I'm 14, and I can write, read etc. Like bruh. And after that I was crying, for like 2 hours, and after that all night. I just need someone who will show me love, and won't leave me. Why no one loves me? Why no one wants me here?
Also sorry for all grammar mistakes, english is not my native language. Hope you'll have a great day
When you can afford it ditch them and don't look back
I'm so sorry about that. I got teary eyed reading this.
Please be ok where ever you are and remember to take care of yourself! You got this buddy 🥺😤
You're parents are abusive, please tell people. Things can get better for you if you just speak up. Goodluck 💝 you deserve sm better and you're worth sm more than they make you feel. Tell yourself that everyday "i am worthy " and you'll eventually start believing it. It's true, please never forget that, and you're so so brave. Virtual hugs
No I hope u have a better future and I Care even tho I'm a stranger on RUclips I CARE ABOUT PEOPLE WHO R HURT.
Im so tired of my dad, he’s always yelling and shit even though I give him all the signs of depression ed and all, I even told him to search on Google but he just keeps thinking I’m lazy
I love listening to vent playlists while studying and crying my eyes out soon after😍😍😍
My parents yell at my for my failing grades even though I try my hardest they still think I’m not good enough, so now I think I’m not good enough for anyone or anything, thanks mom and dad 😊
Hello stranger
Let me just say, I feel you. I've heard it helps when you're struggling to know you're not alone in your struggles. So here I am.
Grades do not define you. Everyone acts like your grades will define the rest of your life. In middle school, grades don't matter at all. In high school... Well, as long as you try your best, what more can you do?
You are not walking around with a giant A, B, C, D, or F on your face. You are more than your grades.
You are good enough to do whatever you've been put on this earth to do, whatever that thing may be.
It's been a few months since you've commented, and I hope you're doing ok. I hope you see this, and I hope it helped, maybe? We're all out here trying to sink or swim. Best of luck stranger ❤
Finale duet started playing and I just cried
God I wish it stopped at parents
It's not even funny anymore. I'll get yelled at by my parents yeah but it goes on to my siblings(one older, one younger), some not so good friends, and even my grandma. The only people who are actually decent to me is my grandpa(who I'm not even related to bc my grandma remarried), my besties, and my lover. I love all of them but my emotional state has been so destroyed I can barely trust anyone anymore. I wish I wasn't here, I wish they didn't need me, I wish I/they wouldn't feel bad for me if I died. I'm trying my best but no one even notices. They expect me to be the stable one even though I'm falling apart too.
Thank you for reading and you aren't responsible for my feelings i just needed to vent instead of bottling it up.
hi, just wanted to ask if it got better. sorry for what you went through, hope you're doing okay now!
I’m proud of all of you for feeling safe enough to share your experiences here, even just talking about it can be a tough task for most and I’m so happy we can all connect and support each other. I hope someday you’ll all have hope for what’s to come. I used to be in toxic and unsafe households and I’ve been through my worst but things got better. I cut all contacts with my dad and rebuilt my identity as myself. It might seem impossible but it does get better, you might have to go through the hardest to get there, but all the crap does eventually stop. My mother would always tell me that how you think does affect reality. At first, I didn’t listen, I didn’t want to believe it because I felt comfortable in my self-hatred and discomfort but she was right. I simply started by acknowledging my own boundaries and not pushing myself, you don’t have to start by the end result. It’s all about baby steps. For example, when I made a mistake, instead of insulting myself and thinking that my parents were right and that I wasn’t good at anything, I just thought that those are normal and that I can always redeem myself or just didn’t thinking anything at all and brushed it off. I started with what didn’t take efforts and then it slowly turned into a habit. And remember, it can be external, sometimes you need to change your environment to feel better internally; dumping judgmental friends per say. I can understand that if it’s from your parents and that you can’t just leave your household, things are a lot more complicated but you just have to wait until you’re 17-21, that’s a very small portion of your life and I’m sure you’re capable of making it until then. It’s gonna be tough but try to get all the support you can, from your friends or a teacher from school, and if you have access to one; a therapist. I’m not a professional, I’m barely a teenager but I want everyone here to have hope, and be optimistic about the future. It’s one of the most important thing. I love you all and I hope you’ll all get to experience the joy of being alive ❤❤❤
Oh wow coming back to these songs after so long hits different
bro decided to put the finale duet and fallen down to make me die from how sad these songs make me
My parents literally yelled at me like a few hours ago and then this came up in my recommendations
This is good vent Playlist because it both helped me get everything out and then made my relaxed
i love your playlists so much :)
I begged my mom to let me do homeschool and she told me to suck it up and I need to learn to deal with the world .
My mom ripped me away from my life. She told me my depression is because of school. Yet she wants me to stay with HER all day every day when she has a baby that I always have to care for. I don’t mind caring for the baby, but how does she expect me to stay at home all day?
Lol that’s besides the point. Although we want the opposite, I know exactly what you mean.
Thx for this play list I might replay this so I can finish my fire wings that as time goes on they get blacker and blacker because they don't have enough energy to make it glow red to show how much you care and ready to give up
I always look for good playlists like theses and I can never find any. I feel like this specific one just fits any mood and isn’t sosososos sad
I don’t know about you guys but the Omori duet always gets to me. Like I was in the middle of drawing and no joke broke into tears
i love this playlist! gaming with this playing is so relaxing for some reason
This really helped me cry my bff had just left me… and my mom is forcing me to move by the end of this week…i just have so much on my shoulders it’s alot..
Holy shit, a playlist that has fallen down, AND final duet at the same time :0 I'm in love.
I always get scolded by my dad because of some small things that can easily be fixed. I don't understand what I did wrong and I'm trying to survive this because I'm so tired of this and I can't take it anymore. I just wanna cry so bad because I just hope he stopped drinking for once and it's literally not my fault I'm like this.
“Don't give up when dark times come. ...
“The sky is everywhere, it begins at your feet.” ...
“Stop feeling sorry for yourself and you will be happy.” ...
“I've got nothing to do today but smile.”
“Nobody is superior, nobody is inferior, but nobody is equal either.
Thank you for the kind comments
6:59 - хоть в этой песни и нет слов, лишь мелодия, она заставляет меня плакать и вспоминать времена когда всё было лучше, я не смогу простить много людей за то что они сделали со мной, как бы я не хотела
My parents always yell at me whenever there home for the simplest mistakes I make, I'm glad they aren't home often anymore.
dude the final duet always makes me burst into tears
thank you, this playlist helps me so much
while listening to this i had 2 panic attacks it was really horrible it's sad to go through this and wonder if you're really doing well but i know i'll be better i just need to vent my sadness and anger.
hey! i hope that you're doing better now.. just keep in mind that its okay to fall down sometimes, i believe in you and i believe that you will get up again. I'm so incredibly proud of you for making it through another day, you can do this stranger
Homeboy is such a moron she has panic attacks when she can just relax
Even though I’m late, i just wanted to say, thank you. I needed this.
Oh and I subscribed :) I’m surprised i never came across your channel before.