5 SUBTLE Signs God Is Saving You from a Bad Relationship
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- Опубликовано: 5 фев 2025
- Is God trying to protect you from a bad relationship? Is God trying to warn you not to date someone? How will God save you from marrying the wrong person? Here are 5 subtle signs God is trying to protect you from a bad relationship.
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When in doubt, do without.
Ooo I like that
God bless!
Amen
Fuckin 🔥
Amen
It’s taken me decades to finally realizing that my relationships failed because I didn’t go to God for his blessing. Young people go to God and ask for guidance 🙏🏽📿
Thanks for sharing William!
Yes we all need to learn to go to Him, and if He tells us no or to wait. We need to trust Him. Some of us went to Him, but still chose to lean to our own understanding.
Sharply noted although I have used up a few of my lives already
I know Im being protected from someone right now. But it still hurts. I still find myself thinking of her constantly.
I think that’s common...natural even. I get this way also, I just try to occupy my time with something productive(or even just for myself!) when I find myself feeling too down about it.
I no longer try to force what I want (usually it just ends up being what I *thought* I wanted) and instead let God guide me. It made it a lot easier to let go and just take it all in stride...and NOT end up hurt or bitter(:
I hope the best for you!
I have been protected from someone too and just last night I asked God and Mother Mary to show me if I should wait and hope or move.
This morning I woke up to watch this video.
I have my answer I believe.
It hurts but we have to trust God that he knows the best and tgat he wants only the BEST for us. Believe that too ❤️
Yes, it can be painful but obedience is always worth it
After a month u will b good. Put ur time talking to God and he will be there to heal u.
God has better for you try as you can to move on but ask God for strength to move on and to forgive if forgiveness is needed. I know the feeling...release it all to God
How he protected me from a bad man/ relationship, by sending me the man GOD wants me to be with. And that’s exactly what happened and I’m so happy!!
I’m so happy for you! I can’t wait for my turn 🥺
I believe what feels like rejection is often times God's protection 🙏 ♥ 🙌
It's so important not to become bitter and throw walls up around ourselves when we know God is indeed protecting us. Pray for the person because God is protecting you from something that they need prayer for. Guarding ourselves and developing a discerning spirit is vital. With thanks, there we find joy in knowing and seeing how God is for us. We become amazed at how God works in our lives when we allow ourselves to SEE God working in our lives.
Thank you for sharing!
Wow. Love this thank u for sharing 💯
Days ago, I asked God for a chance to date this person. Last night we had a chance to talk and we got to know each other pretty well. I feel like this video was sent now for me to realize that I should stay grounded despite feeling the excitement I have with this person. Thank you for this!
Amen, that seems wise to me :) Be open to it but also guarded early on :)
I got to talk to someone last night also and it just makes me want a relationship with him more. I pray God guides me soon. Of course I see this and hope you're not him. I am also scared I don't want to get hurt again. I will probably not even try now.
@@jamiesearles1986 Perhaps the benefits outweigh the risks? Like Mark said, be open but guarded. Let's get our validation from God, not people. Perfect love drives out fear. ♡
I believe without a doubt #1 was an answer for me to leave my last relationship! I was extremely confused at the time, but it is so clear now that I am in the other side. The best advice I can give from experience is to never stop taking your concerns and questions to God, even when you are not getting answers, and remember that God is not a God of confusion, but a God of peace!!! If continuing in the relationship is causing more confusion than peace.....this could be your answer. It was for me. :) I pray this helps someone!
God bless as you follow the Lord! And thanks for sharing :)
Amen. That is really good advice. Thanks for sharing. God bless you and yours in Jesus name. Amen and Amen.
Ouuu this one is very important!! A lot of the times we can be blinded by what we do not want to see
So true!
Or manipulated by what we think/want to see 🙏
@@tofferarvid6589 yupp
@@GloryEzeude It's also very difficult for ppl who are extremely sensitive like myself I am an empath and find myself falling into being what ppl project onto me so I have to be mindful about staying true to who I am and not becoming who they want me to be or who the portrait me as
@@tofferarvid6589 amen exactly
Every point was confirmation of what God has been trying to teach me the entire time about a person I was in a constant inner battle of “ what if.” I believe my flesh was trying to contradict and have false hope ... while the spirit was teaching me all along. I choose to let go, and let God dictate who He wants me to be with. Thank you for sharing this insightful video as always. You trying are a blessing to all of us!
Thanks for sharing this Ashley!
I know exactly what you mean
I’ve had the same exact feeling about a few men in the past! I have a bad habit of doubting myself, but I am letting God gently and patiently teach me during this season of singleness. A spiritual mentor of mine at church told me something that I am keeping very close to my heart, especially now. She told me to never settle, that if it’s God today, it’ll be God tomorrow, or the next week etc. God’s timing is perfect and I am patiently (sometimes impatiently) waiting for the man God has for me. In the meantime, I’ll wait on the Lord and keep pressing into Him, even when it’s hard. God bless. ❤️
So true! 💯 💯 God won't give us what will choke us.... His a loving father!!
God is good!
Wow! I testify, for sure. I learned all this organically, God is good and knew I wouldn't have listened any other way. It seemed like there was a wall between us, we both loved the Lord, we both got along well, but it wouldn't go farther, no matter what. This caused me to feel insecure and from that I acted out, blamed him. This caused him to see this ungodly side of me and pull farther away. Yikes. Thank you Lord for these lessons & teaching me in such a loving way. It hurt terribly, but the pain drew me right into Jesus' arms. Hallelujah!
Thank you for sharing! God bless!
@@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger God bless you and yours!
Thanks for sharing
#5 was applicable to this person that came back into my life recently. He ended up removing himself out of my life. I deleted his number out of my phone, and have not spoken to him since. Only God knows what the future will hold. I try to put all of my trust and attention on Jesus all of the time. Good video. Thanks for sharing.
My pleasure Ladenna!
God has been protecting me for years. I would like for him to protect me by bringing me the right person now lol
I not even met that person, and i was feeling for it God put in my heart that is in vain. because is not real. the lord speaks in your heart ❤️listen to him🙏🏼 we have wait on God.
God bless!
Life is complex and complicated. It's a blessing to listen to so much biblical content addressed in a gentle, kind and loving way. Thank-you for sharing: it's good to have the male perspective in this manner.❤️😇🙏
My story is complex - like life - because there are so many people, variables and unknowns, yet God knows all. He allowed my life to be directed in such a way as to bring much revelation, knowledge and understanding of the aforementioned in light of the Bible. God has spared good people from horrendous disasters, although He has allowed some terrible suffering in the interim, but still with many blessings to encourage one in the process. He will keep His promises and it will work out for good in the long-run. He sometimes allows people to go through troubles to bring them out of such for good later on: one just needs to lean on Christ and persevere, as it will all work out as we love, obey, trust & follow Jesus Christ, Who is our greatest blessing and comfort in love!💖👑💎🕊💖
God bless you all in the love of Christ!❤️😇🙏
I was crazy about this one girl, but thanks to your videos, I'm going to take things slowly. I think she might be the one, but I learned to guard my heart and most importantly to trust the Lord. I feel like He's shaping me to become a biblical husband - I'm working on my health and looks, because of years of not caring about myself, I'm working on changing job for a better paid one (also, one where I can test my faith daily, a police), but most importantly I work on my relationship with God - there's still so much to learn. I wouldn't want to go fast with this anyway, as this will be my first relationship. I want to know her and befriend her first. I want to make sure she's a Christian too, or at least if I can show her the path and let Christ do the rest :)
Perfect timing AGAIN! 🙌🏽👍🏽
Jesus spoke!
This video is so on point!! I have been dealing with this since last year with a guy I had a crush on and has some crazy hope of maybe dating him one day. However, this year since COVID hit and I haven’t seen him again, I needed clarification from God as to why I was feeling this way about him. However the answer was right in front of my face and God shielded me all along and I’ve learned not to easily let my guard down when it comes to men and their intentions towards me. I learned to trust in God and learn that I can’t always open that door until I know that the next man is sincere about being with me and that I can have peace being with him because this is what God is allowing. As for that guy, if I ever see him again, I will never open that door to him again!!
I'm so glad this video was helpful to you and relevant!
I was engaged to a woman who kept telling me I was supposed to be married, she was a christian and she would serve God evangelizing and other things, I was drawn by her love for serving God, we then got engaged and about 5 months went by and I was seeing signs that were red flags, also never had any confirmation about our relationship. I ended crying out to God if I was supposed to be in this relationship, the next day the stuff I had at her house was on my driveway and she completely turned on me. Glory to God I would have made a huge mistake marrying her! make sure just because someone seems like a christian make sure its God's will first trust me oh what a bullet I dodged!
Same thing happened to me...accept we did get married...it turned south almost immediately, we are not together anymore
Wow that exactly what happened.. Thank You God for saving me from a bad relationship
It's definitely worth pointing out that just because two people are a bad match for one another, doesn't mean either person is at fault. Sometimes, which I believe you inferred Mark, they are simply each better off with different people. In your example, it was the extroverted Pastor and the introverted mission worker. The possibilities are endless, but we shouldn't take offense when someone cuts the dating period short under such circumstances or if we ourselves feel strongly compelled to do so. It's better to recognize this sooner rather than later. If anything we do each other a favor not to waste anyone's time or lead someone on. They may not be receptive, and it may not be what they want to hear, but we owe it to them and ourselves. Time is too scarce and frankly, it's just the right thing to do.
I agree Victor
Had number 2 happen with two guys I knew. I had godly friends tell me they thought that was because God was protecting me. I’m glad to know that’s also confirmed in God’s word.
Thank you mark. I’ve watched a couple of your videos and this one spoke to the situation I had clearly. Even though I figured it out through lots of prayer for direction and finally accepting that it’s not to be because of personality difference. This has been confirmation that God has been speaking to me the whole time.
I'm so glad it was relevant and helpful to you!
5 SUBTLE Signs God Is Saving You from a Bad Relationship
1. A Non-Answer to Your Relationship Question About Someone that Slowly Causes You to Lose the Possibility of Dating This Person Is Often a Sign God Was Protecting You from a Bad Relationship
( Psalm 139:16 “Your eyes saw my unformed substance; in your book were written, every one of them, the days that were formed for me, when as yet there was none of them.”)
2. If Your Best Efforts to Get to Know Someone Seem to Keep Falling Flat, Sometimes This Is Just the Lord Protecting You from a Relationship that Would Turn Bad
( Proverbs 16:9 “The heart of man plans his way, but the Lord establishes his steps.”)
3. If Your Internal Hope About This Person Always Surpasses Your Internal Excitement When You Are Actually with This Person, This Is Often a Sign God Is Protecting You from a Bad Relationship
(Psalm 32:8 “I will instruct you and teach you in the way you should go; I will counsel you with my eye upon you.”)
4. If You Sense That This Person’s Qualities Do Not Compliment the Call You Believe God Has Placed on You, This Is Often a Subtle Sign God Is Protecting You from a Bad Relationship
( Psalm 138:8 “The Lord will fulfill his purpose for me; your steadfast love, O Lord, endures forever. Do not forsake the work of your hands.”)
5. If You Just Have a Bad Feeling Around Someone, This Could Be God Protecting You from a Bad Relationship
(Romans 12:2 “Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind, that by testing you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect.”)
God bless!
Omg!! 🤯 I'm actually in a situation with someone. I've been single for 5 years now. The son of my pastor has been asking to date him and have a relatioship. My family has been encouraging me to give him a chance. But when we talked about #4 point you mentioned here. It was very specific. He is extroverted and he says he has been called to be a pastor, I'm introverted and I'm called to be a missionary. We talked about this, but he says he doesn't feel like doing missions but he was going to pray about it. If God makes him feel like he must do foreign missions then he will accept; I dont see myself inside a church my whole life. I inmediately felt frustrated coz I finally decided to give it a chance. But I believe this is a very important point in a relationship. I don't know what to do. 😔
I think it just depends how set you both are on those two very specific futures. It's possible neither of you do either of those things or it's possible you both do them. If you are both forsure committed to both outcomes and opposed to compromising I would not date. If you are unsure of what the future really holds and those are just desires you have but aren't sure if God will really call you to that, then I would date and see what happens. Just my opinion :)
@@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger thank you so much for replying I needed an advise. I'm not sure about him. But when it comes to me. I'm really sure I'm called to be a missionary. I'm about to finish my mission school and I feel really compromised to serve the Lord in this area. The thing is he is not too open to that idea, means he prefers to stay in the local church with his father. I will indeed keep praying and be more cautious about it. Blessings! 🙏🏻 I love this YT channel by the way! 😊
Do what you need to do first
I think the fact that you’re in the EXACT situation he spoke of in this video could be confirmation for what you’re already feeling.
Wowowowow...... that's why..... okay Lord thanks for protecting me... I get it... he isn't the one.
Amen!
I tried with all my might to make things work with a guy I wanted to be with. Even though it hurt very much when it did not work out, I am thankful now that I have nothing to do with him. I took the final step and cut him off completely today. Do I regret it? Not an ounce
I couldn't agree more. May God keep giving you wisdom to teach us all this important issues about life & relationships. Thanks You. God bless you.
I'm so glad you are enjoying the content!
Mine wasn’t subtle God literally ripped me out of a codependent alcoholic relationship by giving me a stroke then a friend of mine told my sister about a domestic violence situation and she pulled the police report and confronted my partner then told the hospital the hospital refused to release me to go home and I had to come home with my parents. That was God!
Thank you God for saving me from a Narcissist. I am still hurt by what he did and is still doing but I know God’s got a man for me and it is not that narcissist.
The timing was spot on but it’s sad that I won’t get to be with her
It usually is! But it’s okay, God will fill that sadness and *she* is out there for you. All in His time ☺️❤️
Take care!!
@@d.l831 Thank you and God bless!
Try to enjoy God and self during this season. Maybe volunteer somewhere, learn how to cook different dishes by watching RUclips videos, seek true healing and self love. If it is meant to be, God will bring it to pass in the right season. If it is not, and He intend you to be with someone else. He will bring it to pass at the appointed time. Just rest in Him and trust the process in Jesus name. Amen.
Yes, it can be hard but over time if you keep following Christ it will get better
Sunday I stopped dating a guy and felt so bad today... Thank you for the video. After this video I think it was the right decision to stopped dating him...
Wow. He does it again
All glory to God!
Thank God
Thanks ! Very relevant to me! I was just wondering about someone this week who is married now , why our dating relationship two years ago just slowly died. And the first 4 of the 5 points you mentioned were exactly like that!
I'm so glad this was helpful Mark!
Satan can bring you someone in the form of a good person (at first). Have discernment and pray over all your relationships. The devil is a trickster and can use someone to destroy you. This message is spot!!🙏
Prayed to God recently about helping me find a believing woman. Some days later a Christain lady who I've been talking to online reaches out to me. Don't know if this is God's answer.
Yes, only time will tell :)
Mark, your videos are always on point! Whenever I have a problem, you seemed to upload videos that could answer them like this one. Thank you a lot! ✨
I'm so glad the content has been timely for you!
Thanks Sir, to be honest I was praying to God about this person whom i met that I was unsure if she is right person for me. Thanks for the information and it help me a lot thank you and God Bless.
You are welcome! All glory to God!
I was talking to a guy last year, despite our conversations it just never went anywhere. I don’t believe that our values were truly aligned. It can be frustrating but it was for the best. I experienced a lot of anxiety and it was actually a blessing!
I loved the hypothetical situation. 😂
:)
You can't want anything in the flesh too much. Whatever you want too much, you repel. People have to be walking towards each other. Not one person walking away and one person going after them.
“Whether your bad feeling about this person is the Holy Spirit or just your personal preference, either way, this is a sign you should not proceed with this person.”
THIS is what I needed to hear. I have a friend who is a good Christian man, my parents adore him and wanted me to pursue some thing with him… But I literally feel a pull away from anything romantic with him.
As friends it was fine and I was comfortable, but once I realized he was interested in me as more than friends, I just had this gut feeling that I could not proceed and I didn’t know what it was. He’s a great guy, great qualities, strong Christian, strong man, but I just couldn’t get my head/heart around it. People around me were telling me that it was just me being afraid To let go and allow myself to be treated right. But I know that’s not it. It’s something deeper… Visceral even. It was just a gut feeling I had not to romantically pursue this person. It’s nice to know that I’m not the only one who thinks my gut feeling alone is more than enough.
I get what you mean. Just because someone is a single Christian guy, that doesn't mean we should marry asap. The gut feel might be due to something bad that you don't know about, or simply God has other better plans for each of you.
I'm so glad this was helpful to you!
Thank you God really helps me when I feel curious as to why it didn’t work out
I have been hearing about personal preferences a lot here lately.
Nailed this as usual. Good point
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Amen!
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Amen!
this is all so true God may just be teaching you to something and i know it sucks it sucks for me too i thought i was going to get something i was friends with a girl really good even and slowly she just faded away talked less and blocked me finally and no i was not toxic or doing anything wrong obviously i screwed up too but we all do and its sad now but in the end i know God got someone better from me so i can't really feel down :D
I really needed to hear this, I have been in my head about why we have a on and off
Communication..
Everything was so amazing then it’s like I have lost basically all connection..
Couldn’t understand it at all I know what he says happened but is it really????
So now I understand completely thank you God..
Thank you for posting all this for people like me..🙏🙏🙏🙏
Im in the same boat but I've been told he isn't ready to date again bc he lost his wife a year ago.. but yet he try and ask a woman out at his work who he find attractive but she shut him down. Hmm... 😒
@@Harvester2222 I understand completely best thing I think
Just me tho is to be there for him but don’t expect anything
In return..
That’s just me tho..
I wish you all the best..
🎄🙏🎄🙏
@@joycewelsh1375 yes and I have been there for him. But I'm growing to like him alot. More than I need to right now bc I took some time away to focus on myself too bc in spending time w him, I realize there were some things I had to deal with that basically manifested while we were just spending time together. I am praying for him. He said he was going to take time too to focus on him as well. I am REALLY not trying to expect anything from him. I mostly care about his soul. Bc he is not saved. I believe God has been persueing him but he is not listening. He had a heart attack then his wife died and his only son nearly died, all in 1 year 😱 Thank you so much. God bless you Joyce 😇
I'm so glad it was helpful!
What if your seeing things in his personality . But getting turned off by them?
Relationships are optional so if you don't enjoy him romantically then it's best to get out before you get in even deeper. On the other hand, everyone has things we don't enjoy about them so it really just depends on what you want. If you are wondering, "I wonder if there is someone better out there" and those feelings don't go away, it's probably time to move on
Very good, I love this video, Amen to that!
So glad it was helpful Victoria!
My Husband is not Proactive and he always blames me for letting it fall flat, I get tired of being the one to suggest we go out and to choose the restaurant
Is it also possible to have a negative feeling or like be skeptical but you should actually give them a chance? Isn't it also possible for the devil to let you have some sort of negative feelings towards someone to keep you away from a Godly relationship?
I need to know this too! Like will there be some kind of warfare to keep 2 ppl from dating in the future? 💔😭 going through this now...
@@hadassaheritage I don't know if I'd call it strange, maybe, that the relationship felt more Godly with an atheist, but ig it was because he was open to God and your beliefs, even though I wouldn't reccomend dating an atheist any at all, but that was your past and he has accepted God now. Thanks for sharing your story, not sure rn how it may help me, but it may, so thank you. Interms of your situation though, he has a gf, even if you guys may be together, not sure if you should sit and wait for him (if you are) because it'd be like waiting on him to break up with her, and as I said, even if you guys will be together, don't think that would be right and they may not break up too, we don't know rn. So just relax, wait, listen to God, as you already are. And many of Mark's videos may help you in some way, so you could watch some more for answers, if you haven't already. Remember to seek based on God's will and not want you want amd your desires, unless those desires are also of God.
Idk if you're saved and baptised, or you're only saved and not baptised and vice versa. I would recommend doing both first, not to get a partner but overall and then God, by His will, will lead you to a man that is also saved and baptised, because that is the TRUE Godly relationship. Maybe I helped. God Bless.
@@hadassaheritage The warfare that happened in the beginning, remember he was an atheist, you were a Christian. I don't know if that's the good type of warfare like you guys were meant to be together and the devil was trying to keep you guys apart, because it wouldn't have been a Godly relationship, so I would say that was an act of God. Him accepting God now, idk, just hold on amd keep seeking dear.
No, it's not possible if you are following the Lord. If God wants you with someone you won't have a negative feeling for this person that does not go away. Sure we have bad feelings about everyone at times. But you will want to be with the person God has for you
@@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger Ok, thx
Thank you.
You're welcome!
My husband is 2 different people, he is outgoing and professional at his job, except at home he is sleeping all the time and only helps when he knows someone might be coming over
Lol Mark you scared me putting videos in this video. I’m used to the people being still but when the woman started blinking at 4:08 I was startled! Hahaha, thank you for your hard work and please stay humble
Lol! That’s funny! All glory to God!
@@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger amen! Wishing you and yours a merry Christmas!
I am in a distant relationship right now, we been together for a year now, i prayed about this girl and been getting some wierd vibes sometimes and sometimes some good signs but I am not sure if she is the one for me but yet i still love her.
If you're getting weird vibes, it's best to step back. A relationship ordained by God will not give weird vibes. You will feel peace and security with someone sent by God. Cheers!!!
Then why did God make me like them, if we weren’t gonna get together in first place?
You have free will.
Remember God is a gentleman, He doesn't make us like or dislike anyone. Nothing wrong with having crushes/feelings for people, but God does allow us to go through certain cases so that we can seek Him more. Ive dated people that I liked and seemingly liked me, but when I kept seeking God He showed me why these people were not good for me or my relationship with God, no matter how much I liked (or even loved) them. Heartbreak isn't easy, what I felt during these times is much better than marrying the wrong person.
Yes there were many times I was like God what was the point?? Wasted time, heart, efforts, even money. But it helped me also see what I do and don't want in a relationship, as well as what I'm worth.
Don't give up and dwell on the "failed" relationship. God wants the very best for you, let Him surprise you.
@@hadassaheritage 100%!!!
@@hadassaheritage oh ok thanks
Maybe because we need to realise our true potential and in order to attain that, we have to go through certain experiences, so that when we learn our lesson, we learn it for a lifetime.
I ÁBSOLUTELY AGRÉÉ 🙏🏼 in my case, I ÁBSOLUTELY ADÓRE and APPRÉCIATE my friend...but I cán’ t even be friends with him because it hurts my husband. No one else except the Lord will understand. But believe me, the Lord understands. It HÓNESTLY ÍSN’t that my friend isn’t WÓRTHY ENOUGH...in fact it’s the ÓPPOSITE. But SÓ ARE my PRÉCIOUS husband, whom I LÓVE AND HAVE LÓVED my WHÓLE LIFE...and I CÁN’t hurt his heart...I just trust that hat if the Lord wants me together with my DÉÁR brother, that He knows what He is doing.
We've dated for 6 years. I knew that he and i weren't going to last. But it's been 3 months since we broke up, and i still struggle with hurting when i think about us (more like, lack thereof). I knew in my heart this was God's will. But i still hurt. Do i lack faith?
God bless.. as humans we will always hurt with wrong decisions as a reminder. If you believe in your heart that its Gods will then you have faith. Without hurt theres no growth. The Lord will restore you.
"we will always hurt with wrong decisions as a reminder" Indeed, I do need the reminding. :O
I praise God for using your encouraging words, brother@@JulioPerez-bl5xd!
Your welcome. God bless.
3 months is not too long, but keep working on moving on. This may help: ruclips.net/video/UU1jzHPXpDc/видео.html
Don't marry them without going to God first
If God gave us free will why would He interere in our personal relations?
Nice vid this
really helps
Wow...none of these apply, thank goodness. I do believe that the HOLY SPIRIT will give you discernment about people. If we listen to it, that is! 😊😂😆😇
God bless!
Also, how do I renew my Favor with the Lord after I did not head his warning to not be with this person?
Sounds like something I went through. I fell for her strictly because of the sex and her looks. We were not compatible after our electrophoresis test, some stuff I found out and the warnings from my family and friends, plus I noticed controlling and arrogant behavior from her but otherwise ,I felt like we connected very deeply. However,we moved in together and I realized we kept fighting more and she hardly ever said sorry. I started to withdraw and build walls and she "lovebombed" me
Dont move together before a marriage
@@malonetravis5785 I know. We'd done customary wedding and still had to do civil and church weddings. So in a sense I thought we were "married"? I felt that all three steps ought to be completed first but also I was under so much pressure from her and her family to take her ( I now realize how ridiculous it sounds )
Some i dont agree..like all my friends from high school amd college are married and have kids.. I graduated in 2010 11 years have gone and all of them well most of them are married amd im still herr trying to find the one.. And each one is the same cycle.. People leaving me.. And im tired of it!! Why cant i be happy, why cant i be married right now?? I thougbt i would have been by now in a nice home car career.. Amd i have t achived nothing right now
If a girl approaches you and you miss the chance to get her number does that mean she wasn’t the right one for you?
no, that's too simplistic :) You could always meet her later. But even if you did get her number that would not be evidence she is the one for you. I would avoid asking "is she the one?" too soon :)
@@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger great answer :)
I'm afraid of bad relationship.
is it applicable to marriage?
I dont accept BS ... or 3rd party that‘s why its a No no to me... the title relates to me I dont want to encounter that anymore... 2 women and 1 man.. Im single and I dont want to be in that relationship
God bless Cecilia as you follow the Lord!
Hallelujah
God is good!
When we have the Holy Spirit and the person we are with is not at all interested in the things of God our spirits do not connect, leaving us with a sense that something is not right, even if they claim to be a Christian.
Proverbs 31 woman .
What does scripture mean when it says romance is optional
Marriage is just for those who want it, it's not a command to all Christians
Thank you for the clarification
Can i watch people play Among us on youtube please give me a true answer
Wait?
I disagree with the phrase "that getting married is an option for Christians, and that the person wanted to have a spouse" Some people don't want to get married and have no idea that God has someone for them of the opposite sex, not all but for most Christians God has predestined them to be with a spouse and The Lord will put them together. Example: Adam did not ask for a wife but God have him Eve. God knew what he needed to help him with work in the garden and for companionship. Humans were meant to procreate, have companionship with the opposite sex, and to fulfill God's assignments on the earth whatever that task may be. In addition the animals were already coupled up in pairs male and female of their kind. Then there was Abraham and Sarah, Issac and Rebecca, Jacob and Rachel even though Jacob desired Rachel when a man is destined to be with a woman God will make him desire her, and out of Jacob's and Rachel's marriage came destiny "God's fulfilled plan" the birth of 2 of the 12 tribes of Jacob...
Now I have no desire to date. No desire to marry. Every desire to be celibate. I want to be single forever. That's the best protection I can think of!
Do you still feel that way?
Thank you