The Life of a Trans Woman (Part 1) | Unpacked with Relebogile Mabotja - Episode 2 | Season 1
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- Опубликовано: 2 окт 2024
- Tholang Mostumi shares her life journey as a transgender woman in South Africa.
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Host:
Relebogile Mabotja
Studio Guest: Tholang Motsumi and Seoketsi Mooketsi
Production:
Executive Producers:
Kgothatso Legwale (KG)
Relebogile Mabotja
Content Producers:
Clive Moagi
Zoliswa King
Social Media / PA:
Obakeng Mogafe
Camera Crew:
Series Director:
Thabiso Mofokeng
Camera Operator:
Katleho Tsotetsi
Sound Operator:
Tumi Sekudu
Art Director:
David Arends
Set Dresser:
Edgar Moyo
Make-up Artists:
Merlene Williams
Lesego Tloubatla
Production Driver:
Masene Mogoai Worx
Office Assistant:
Phathisiwe Mkweli
Post Production:
Graphics:
Not A Sausage
Editors:
Pixel Culture
Post Production / DIT:
Tumelo Kgongwana
Such a professional and empathetic approach that Relebogile has in her interviews. So impressed and loving the show. KUDOS!!!!!
And it comes so naturally and effortlessly👌...I admire her 360 degrees🥰
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The world is broad...enx for making us explore the other side...This informative really
Thank you so much for your kind words! I'm thrilled you're enjoying the show.
Please subscribe, if you haven't already!
Relebogile is a great interviewer
I agree with you...we wouldn't be getting so hooked on these stories in the way that we are if it wasn't for Relebogile's knowledge in asking the right questions👌
Thank you! So glad you appreciate my interviewing skills. I aim to bring you the best content! 😊"
I'm binge-watching this show and I'm thoroughly impressed with everything!!!! The production, the set, the topics, your style and the line of questioning. Stellar stellar stuff!!!!
Wow, that’s really humbling to hear. We worked really hard on this. Thank you 🙏🏾
I agree. I started watching this show today and I love everything about this show. Such a great interviewer indeed
Absolutely Amazing Interview!
Popped in my recommendations yesterday, after watching one episode I was compelled to subscribe. New U.K. 🇬🇧 Subbie ☺️☺️
@@relebogilemabotja215, look, I am attracted to you and something must happen
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Is it tolerance that a world be accommodating to have a genderless society? What about the existing landscape where gender is cekebrated and very much part and parcel of the landscape? Why must the world bend over backward to accommodate minority groups?
As freedom goes, each person/group is free to chose the lifestyle he/she chooses, but care must be taken not to impose or foist opinions on others.
Even in the LGBT community, there is an acknowledgement of the difference between sex and gender. Sex is Male and female which is based on biology, gender is what would be called a social construct. What the person at the end is suggesting is that we remove the classification of sex which is what you are assigned at birth based on your biology. How exactly is this beneficial for society? I understand the gender-neutral stuff, but what is the problem with assigning differences between sex, because those different sexes have different biology and will have different experiences based on that biology, therefore for medical reasons you need those classifications in order to address specific situations for those different sexes.
Agree
Also agree
Tholang ke character hle, ke mo rataaaaaaa 😂😂😂😍😍😍😍🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈
Wash y
I am inlove with this show.I am learning a lot.
That's what we intended to achieve with the show so i'm happy to hear this.
Me 2
the question she ask are actually good not meant to hurt but to understand. These questions are what everyone want to know, please do not be offended.
I love this Woman (Tholang) there's just something about her she is soo beautiful ❤️😍
I love her too. I think her spirit is beautiful
Too much 💞
True. She's got a good spirit.
Is he
Trans woman
I think Seoketsi is not here to talk about her personal experiences, she is here to advocate nje...
She's been irrelevant for most of the time
@@theodoramokae7144 is it...! I'm seeing her for the first time
Am actually wondering what she’s talking about kahle kahle. 🤔
She's been been off topic hle
Bruh😅😅
I love Tholang, her colorful personality 💞, side note Sis, I love your earrings 😍 they melt my heart
Relebogile has always been beautiful bathong 🥺
💜
She is extremely beautiful.
I love her..😘 very much beautiful
Yoh, she's absolutely gorgeous!
Tholang is so beautiful. I got emotional
Relebogile you are on to something with this show, it's sooo informative.
Bless up my sister 🙏❤️
Seoketsi, I think it's difficult to interview her. Eish how I wish they could have left Tholang to be the only one interviewed. This Seoketsi should have her day bathong.
Tholang is well spoken
Respectfully speaking, it is safe to say believing in trans gender is not believing in God's principles concerning gender , because according to Him, it's either male or female, that's why when a child is born, the "only" thing that will determine their gender without arguments , is their sexuality.
Though He loves us all.
Tholang is absolutely gorgeous and smart! She’s soo well poised and funny! Love her .. ❤️ The show is soo educational! Rele is absolutely amazing , she’s soo empathetic
It warms my heart to hear that you find the show both gorgeous and smart, and that it brings educational value. Your support means the world to us! ❤
Tholang is well spoken and speaks her mind! Actually didn’t knew bout her till I bumped into this episode! What’s her social media handles? Again Relebogile is just good and ask right questions! Something I’ve been missing when I watch some shows! This is so beautiful to watch actually!
Tholang Motsumi I think
I know her from The Way Ngingakhona (reality show on Moja Love)
Seoketsi is also so beautiful and articulate, like she has every word and so much insight, really inspiring 😅🫶🏾
This show is top tier , forces one to be open minded man. Love it❤️
Seoketsi, although a great activitist was not answering the questions posed to her. Or atleast she was in a very indirect way. It was great hearing Tholang's lived experience. Truly educational for all those who do not fulle understand Trans people. Relebogile is a great interviewer. Very knowledgeable on the subject matter.
True. It sounded like she came with a speech of points she wanted to put across. It didnt matter what she was asked. She was just on her speech.
I love watching such shows so I can understand better other people's lives and not to offend any in future, as a straight person,if not exposed to such things mostly I used to react differently but now with such shows and knowledge, am now more comfortable with them and I know they're human beings like me,
Omg I love Tholang! How did I not know of her existence before today?! She’s gorge!!! Inside and out.
Edit: her sense of humour 🤣🤣🤣 boo I wish I could meet this girl irl!
You must check her out on a reality TV show called "The Way Ngingakhona" 🥰
Bathong Relebogile, your interview skills are impeccable 👏🏽
Thank you 🙏🏾💜
😍😩 she is indeed amazing
Seoketsi if off topic, she doesn't answer to the questions asked as for Tholang keep on rising Queen💕
You want is said express,,,not seoketsi way,,,but the end,,is what you wanna hear."'she can experience it any way if she wish too...be careful teasing our sister
@@annekariuki4734 babes I am and did not tease her...
Alright you are an amazing one..babe if you don't mind didn't get the part that you are sorry "'"atransegender you are love.'"forgive me don't mean hurt you darling
@@annekariuki4734 no hard feelings babes💕💕💕💕💕
English subtitles please! You have an international audience who loves your show but misses out on parts of the discussion! #LoveFromZambia 😍
Press cc on the screen it will give you subtitles, though they are not always accurate they do the job.
@@catherinemalope8639 Lol I understand and speak English perfectly well, but it's when they speak their local languages is where I miss some parts of the story. 😂🙌🏽
I agree please let's add subtitles as not everyone understands the local dialect
Tholang is such a treat, she's funny and she has an amazing personality. If I could spend a day with her, huuu it would an amazing day filled with laughter😄
I love her too! She was my fave in that show. So full of life!
There’s two sides to every story. This show is teaching me the other side. Your never to old to learn you keep a open mind and really listen 👂
Seoketsi is not listening to the questions. However I somewhat get what she is saying.
Don't want tell you what you want to hear you way..she is doing it uniquely little by little just listen..you want be all at once owedd by this creation story
To me it actually sounded like she prepared stuff she wanted to put across.
It's the problem of bieng too woke.. I know this type
So we are supposed to go through life pretending God did not specifically create a man and a woman.ok Im out!
Am also wondering, thats why the world is facing so much calamities
AMEN!
We are being forced to affirm the deranged belief of a tiny percentage of the world population. So if one wakes up identifying as a cat, we all accept that.
@@favouredblessed2631
I hear the superficial part of wanting to be a woman - dresses, makeup, boobs, softness, femininity, but is that all that there is to being a woman?
I wonder too
Good question..
It is not all there is to it but what we call gender expression is how we communicate to society our womaness or maleness according to the societal cues that have been accorded to both. So it's not all there is to it but it's usually how one communicates to the world
@@thugpoetic1935 so if a women dressed like men and carried themselves in what society sees as manly than trans wouldn't have a desire to be feminine because to them there'd be no difference - right, except maybe the boobs.
I wonder if they ever consider female biology e.g periods pregnancy?
Seoketsi's response to were you born a girl or boy was really uhmmm lol.. "it's a baby"? Lol nah fam
😂😂😂😂
😂is not Make Sure Fam!
😂is not Make Sure Fam!
This show is everything
She's so fierce. She's a force. I hope she remains protected from hate crime 🧡
I got to learn that gender identity doesn't always corelate with sexual orientation. Hence a person can be transgender and still have the same sexual orientation as before.
I'm all for the LGBTQ + community. I support them 💯. If you are a transgender or transexual especially, I'm sorry but not sorry to say... you owe it to your prospective sexual partner to let them know who and what you are. When you don't, you are violating their sexual autonomy. To tell them after you've gotten physicall, is all sorts wrong and would be upsetting to anyone.That's coz you've robbed them of their right to make an informed decision of whether or not they want to get in bed with you and therefore victimising them sexually. If it's out of fear of rejection that you do it, my advice would be not to do it, why would you want to be with someone who doesn't want you anyways. 😳
You hit the nail on the head 💯💯💯
This is profound.
truth
Struggles of being trans, it’s the coming out.
Wow Tholang you express yourself so beautifully I like how you are articulate. I just love you 💖💖💖
Such a great show, with a very broad topic. I think our generation needs more of these. Very educational, stretching the narrow mind🙌
I’m probably tone deaf too and need education because I think the questions being asked are what I’ve always been curious about
CHILLERS lets mark the register #forthesake of the Podcast
Ska e duba 🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂
I died 😂😂😂
Tholang exceptional child... may god keep you for others.. you know yourself galfrend
Relebogile you're a very good interviewer...you ask the questions that we really wanna know. Love you
Thank you so much for your kind words! I'm thrilled to hear that you enjoy the interviews and find them insightful. Your support means a lot. Love you too! ❤"
I make sure to watch these videos while online to always leave a like because wow your topics are always sensible and absolute pleasure to watch and hear different views, stories. Aus'Lebo you do the most by sharing these stories absolutely thank you.
Why is this not on dstv catchup? I am thankful for this platform. You are doing a great job Relebogile, kudos!
She really is so hot 🔥🔥🔥
So today I learnt there's a difference between gay and trans.. thanks Relebogile and your guests
brilliant, brilliant interview. all three of these ladies are PHENOMINAL💘
These things have to happen, in order to make sure the Antichrist is comfortable in this world. People have to make a lie the truth! May this man find healing in Jesus name. God loves you!
Tholang is not a man please. Don't misgender to suit your Christian agenda.
@@leratoHD He is a man and please do not try to manipulate the truth!
What an insightful and informative discussion 👌
🙏🏾
I love her energy. I'm smiling from ear to ear, just listening to her story.😃
Relebogile, thanks for the show. Looking forward to more intriguing topics😊
Thanks for watching!
He
Her ?
Seoketsi makes me want to look up for my English teacher 25yrs later after high school...her vocabulary though is something out of this world l need to listen to her with a dictionary by my side....🤦🤦🇿🇼
Seopower is so well spoken and articulate. She expresses herself so well with such good vocabulary. I'm learning.
She really is that and so much more!
He is saying nothing though.. What articulation are you speaking of?
@@Isaiah--vj2xu look a transphobe🤣
Can we please get subtitles for the parts that aren't in English? 😔
New follower from Kenya. Love your interview
This channel is treasure ❤️💯
She has so much fire,
my God! I love love her!!
A whole 5 year old attracted to a full grown man that's where I got lost 😞 huh
Some where only watching peppa pig and playing with barbie at that age.
The Importance of growing up with a Disciplined Caring Father to teach and give direction is very important..to curb such
Lol Bo wasn't a fully grown man at that time.
Learning to understand each an make a world a better place. Rebulega matlho ganyane ganyane, big up ausi Relebogile.😚
Tholang is beautiful
Relebogile's interviewing skills 😍❤🖤
Wow I learned soooo much from Tholang and Seoketsi!! Relebogile you are a treasure, you brought so much grace and education in this interview.
The world is not gender-.less
The world is gender-less. What it is not is sex-less. So I don’t see a problem with assignment of sex at birth. What we could do better is give gender neutral names
@@nkosiyazisukazi3927 no hun.
Lol girls, she looks really pretty 😂😂😂😂we have to step up our game. 😳😳😳😳😳She is beautiful ❤️🤣
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She's gorgeous hey 😅😍
I wish more schools were safe havens like that
As a tomboy woman and becoming very confused because most people they look at me and they judge my movement and my tracing as a gay person, , , , And this has made me to sit down and reflect. Am I really gay or Im stright person? And very confused. I've been now single for the past two years
You're tomboy and that's ok. Being GNC doesn't make you trans. Normalize GNC men and women.
Tomboy is not gay. Don't listen to those voices. You're a woman who enjoys being free, nothing wrong with that.
Soooo glad there is sonewhere i can catch up the show. 😁😁😁😁😁
Glad you could catch up!
“And it hangs” 😂😂
😂😂😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣sent me off
😂😂😂 Eyyy
Rele I must say you are gifted 🤲🏻🙌..This is everything
I love how she talks. Her accent but also how she articulates. She reminds me of the lady from Orange is the NEW black.
I love her confidence 😍😍
Relebogile yr show is very informative n it is the best- l am addicted to it -Thanx
I am left with one exam and I see I have alot of catching up to do 😂. I Love you and your show 🥺♥️
👉👈
Hha at 5 people were attracted and falling in love 😏..yekan ukubukisa izingane izitori zabantu abadala
Tholang will always be a force
how about Tholang Regina Motsumi?
Can we talk about how they want to infringe on REAL WOMENS RIGHTS??? We not ready for that one are we.
Tjo im glad someone mentioned that, he is still a man by DNA and as such he knows nothing about being a woman and wat women go thru especially during pms
They'll have REAL WOMEN RIGHTS if and only if they the change their chromosomes to XX
Tholang...Tholang...Tholang, how many times did i call you 😂😂, i love you, can we be friends!
Uhm let's face it they are not females
😂😂😂😂
Lebo you truly a good interviewer!! You know how to interact with different personalities and dig deep.
Plus keep your cool.
Btw you always look amazing 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
Your makeup artist and stylist always do the things 😩😩
This show is so interesting 🤗
Literally every story !!!!
Here to catch up so I can watch the recent episode with understanding ❤
How I like this woman 👩 Tholang,she is an entire mood
We grew up together in a small town called allanridge nyakallong .
At free state
can we talk about how gorgeous Tholang is 😍
Sis . We're here😊💛👌
Tholane is so beautiful and has confidence that most women lack
Aiii the second interviewer wasn't answering the questions🤔☹️
I looveee this show, Relebogile you're the best!!! 🙌 🤙 🙌
Tholang is such a looker 😍
“And It hangs”😅
Tholang, ke morata!
Tholang is such a character, i love her, shes just a mood more then anything....
she is so beautiful
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Hmmm so you are trying to say God Yaweh made a mistake of creating Adam MAN and Eve WOMAN. GOD made a human called man and woman. Sorry you cannot tell a doctor not to say boy or girl baby. Its up to any person who choose to change . But you cannot tell us not to say boy or girl. You cannot impose your lifestyle on us. Plus nobody should attack people who are transgendered or gay. However I refuse to agree to this kind of narrative in telling us that a doctor must not say a boy or girl to the husband and wife. Men and women have different biology in that when a man is sick treatment for his body will be different from treatment for a woman's body. If you want to ensure you have correct dose of medicine you have to identify the sex you came into the world with boy or girl ensure correct treatment. There doctors can only succeed by identifying what sex we biologically are. God created boy and girl. God never makes a mistake. God has given us all free will. So your decision is up to you. I will defend the creation of God always. It takes a man and a woman to make a baby and we all know this. So please answer how you came into this world. I repeat your life style is your choice but you cannot change the society that God has created. The world will never be genderless. What does that mean? What kind of confusion is this? God does not judge and loves us all. Trans or not. However his creation will never change.
You are so gifted Kelebogile, you are such a good interviewer, you follow up with questions so brilliantly, so deep and educative, you ask difficult questions about the topic so easy to the interviewees.
Did you change your chromosomes?
Why are asking such questions I'm going to report now
Tholang is a beautiful lady
Can we talk about how beautiful the host is ?😍😍😍😍
Thank you! I'm glad you appreciate the show. Let's continue to celebrate beauty and diversity together. 😊
I love love Seoketsi. We come from the same town (Schweizer-Reneke) and I’ve had a chance to chill and have a conversation with her. She’s indeed powerful.
Abomination 😂😂😂 another one abandoned by the dad, and grows up to be a disaster so.
Relebogile 🙌🏽🙌🏽♥️♥️🔥🔥
Tholang is so genuine and authentic. I really like her. Wow! ♥️🙌🏽