Women Are TIRED of Working 40 Hours a Week
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- Опубликовано: 27 сен 2024
- A young woman from TikTok went viral for trauma dumping about being exhausted from working 40 hours per week and barely making enough money to live. I feel for her! She fell for the feminist lie that women can be just like men.
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Plenty of people, not just women are tired of working 40 hour weeks and the extra hour to and back from work. Regrettably we have no choice and put on a fake persona to get by. What's worse is that the money you get from this, just isn't enough to survive. Both man and wife end up working. Society has destroyed the family unit
This girl can easily get a studio apt and have money left over. I also highly doubt she could handle having a husband or children
@@hollystiener16Because THAT wouldn’t be miserable. Working 40+ hours a week and having a rented studio apt to show for it. She’d only be saving maybe $150 a month anyway, they aren’t much cheaper.
Exactly, plenty of men and women in America are burnt out on the standard 9 to 5 work week. There are plenty of thriving first world countries that have 32 hour work weeks and 3 day weekends.
All part of the plan!
It’s the socialist way - they need tax dollars from every possible person to support the system - as well, out of control government spending helps drive inflation -
Working as a teacher 40+ hours got me 3 miscarriages. When the pandemic hit, I got pregnant and was able to keep my baby. He is now 3, and I vowed to never teach again. I was only miserable teaching because of the micromanagement and being treated like a mule when I am getting amazing results with kids. On the other side of this, I am happier.
I quit my teaching job as well to stay home with my 4 kids. It’s not easy but I feel so much better being able to stay home with them when they are sick, having more energy to be with them and watching all the firsts with my 2 youngest. My 3rd child was in daycare for several months and it was terrible, he was constantly sick he almost had to have tubes put in his ears. And I never truly knew what his day was like. Never again.
And teaching really is a calling, I knew I couldn’t be the teacher AND mother I wanted to be with 24 hours in each day, no matter how hard I worked myself.
40 hour work week?? What about the 80 hour work week. People don't understand. Today a woman complained her 65 hour work week was making her unwell. I here this often. The DNC are evil. Fully evil. And 80 hour work week is too much, and it's done. 14 hours a day 6 a week 1/2 for lunch. Work smarter not harder.. the system is rigged for evil to steal every drop . Most people are more than 40 hours for nothing. Facts. The corrupt do their 40 hrs and get paid decently. Value? Evil is valued by the corrupt. How you can make 750k a month working 4 hours a day 😂
I'm happy you were able to have a healthy pregnancy and are home raising your child.
Easier then any other job.
Additionally, women still do the lion’s share of cooking, cleaning, laundry and child care while working . I have said for years that feminism just made more work for us
No. Inflation has.
Just because in your relationship you're a lazy fuck, but you don't speak for all men. I do equal cooking, cleaning and everything else in the relationship with my girlfriend.
Hey you wanted this
@@Jeremy-wp4yh Before inflation, women happily worked 40 hours a week and made tons of money?
@@bosco_sticks no I didn’t. That brainwashing took place before I was born
I wonder if she is speaking about inflation and how expensive life is now. When my parents were younger, they got married out of high school, had kids and bought a home at 25. Those days are over. OVER.
Long over.
She doesn't really understand inflation and the astronomical costs of everything. She married wealthy so out of touch with the real world. Her family are probably making money from property and exorbitant rental costs so when inflation goes up, they just charge more rent.
They’re not over. Other alternatives are available in a young marriage. Combined income goes further. Hook up culture is the obstacle
There are many many more obstacles than hook up culture
@@corrinamaree7294 hookup culture invalidates marriage, which invalidates life. The girl in that video is just depressed. It’s not a feminist issue this time.
Omg this hit home. I told my friends I am not a feminist and I hate that I have to work to survive. I am married and still need to work and it’s absolutely ghetto!! When I told my friends I am not a feminist they looked at me crazy. I rather stay home raise my kids and brunch w my friends w church on Sunday sounds like joy to me.
I hate that for you! What we’re not discussing is married women still working, raising children and cooking plus cleaning!! Why are we NOT having this conversation?! 😩
Everyone has to work to survive! Who do you want to support you financially?
I feel for you that you have to carry that burden because of other selfish people.
Why doesn't your husband provide for you?
You know you can be a feminist and want that too right? Feminism is supposed to be the freedom to do either
I feel like the cost of living is being overlooked in this conversation. No, 40 hours a week isn’t too much, it’s the fact this girl and so many others are spending 60% or more of their earnings just on a rental unit or a bedroom. Nevermind all the other bills and insane cost of food. If we were working 40 hours a week, or heck even 60 hours, and actually had something to show for it at the end of the day it probably wouldn’t be quite so miserable.
Okay, WHAT is she doing where she's only making 2 grand a month?
It is the cost of living for sure, ppl are stretched way too thin.
@@molasorrosalom4846 Shes young. She probably has an entry level job. In entry level jobs these days, most people dont even make $2k a month. Welcome to the modern workforce.
So she's pretty much making $12.25 an hr???
Facts. I'm working and going to the gym. After that... I don't even feel like meeting a potential spouse. Tf we gone do? Both be tired after work to just sit in a box we can barely afford?
Why are we focused on her being a woman, and not focusing on the fact that working 40 hours a week and barely surviving is a huge problem
It’s not just a gender thing
THANK YOU, SIR! 👏Seriously! At the end of the day, as Candace once again fails to realize, it's a CAPITALISM issue...
Ladies, you have been deceived by a demonic lie. We, as women, were meant to be a Proverbs 31 woman. God’s perfect plan. You were sold a bill of goods.
Thank you!!! I’m a woman in my early 30s and loveeee working and having goals that have nothing to do with my family. Don’t get me wrong I love spending time with my family but I have the best of both worlds. I grew up in a household in a 3rd world country and both my parents worked, helped with the house cleaning and the overall chores. They love each other, have been married for 40 years and me and my sister are happy, healthy and functional individuals. Lesson: we didn’t need my mum or dad 24/7 taking care of us. Instead they taught us that working hard for personal goals always pays off and creates a healthy family dynamic. I know of a lot of screwed up people whose mom stayed home because she wanted to control everything and there they are, struggling stills as adults. So ladies if you want to stay home, amazing!! If you want to work and also have a family, also amazing!!! Everything is valid as long as it makes you happy. It’s time to stop generalising Candence
I believe both of you are a bit off the mark. Once 2 incomes became the standard, prices adjusted to the new level of wealth. Yes, inflation. And, yes, because to a point, that is how capitalism works. But in reality, the supply/demand relationship is the ultimate decider. At least in a system where the government allows the natural course to take place, but not once they decree that something needs to be sold over something else (LED bulbs cost a lot more than incandescent bulbs)
However, socialist and communist societies have the same result. Yes, small communes reward the team for their efforts. The hunter shares their meat with the farmer, who shares with the seamstress, who shares with the cobbler, etc. They all build a new house when needed. But the system does not scale up nicely. The "governors" will take a share for their role while not actually contributing anything. Keep scaling up and the problem grows exponentially. Then greed sets in, and ultimately, a dictatorship gets formed.
In the town I live in it has become common to see 3 generation households with both grand parents (in their 50s) and their married child (in their 20s) working while the young wife stays home to care for the children. However, once the grandchildren enter school, the young wife goes to work.
The system is broken. Government has stuck their nose, no, their hand too far into our business. If we were to go back to allowing the economy to self regulate, many of our problems would at least level out and allow the income/expense ratio to become more reasonable.
very few people earn a living wage
This isnt a women issue its just a American Issue we have in general majority of Americans are working 40 hours a week and barely making it by.
A lot of them also are working their first job at 22 years old.
I don't really feel sorry for these medicated entitled brats.
Exactly
No. It's a woman issue. Men aren't complaining like this. Like the host of this show said, men are wired differently. We're ok with working long hours- but the feminism movement poisoned all these women to want to be men. They see being home makers as a form of subjugation, instead of seeing it for what it is- the gender roles between men. Men earn for the home, and women keep it.
Im a man, I work long hours. Im also single, so im exhausted all the time. But I can't get married with women because every woman in America wants to be the CEO of Google. They dont believe in having equal but separate roles. Working together, we would be fine- but feminists have dictated that men and women are not to work together. So here we are.
I know a "masculism" movement doesn't exist that caused this. YES- there ARE economy problems. But the rift is further divided when women are just too "big and bad" to get married. They see it as a form of submission. That's the petty shit that they eat up and let Oprah feed them.
Agreed. That's a huge part of it. Inflation has such a grip on our economy, and everything is going up in price, but wages are stagnating. I remember a time when a family of four could live comfortably on one income. Those days are gone.
Yeah that's true,it was one person work then it went to two and then it went to two can't make it either. Just sad,I'm just glad I'm retired but I feel for my kids and this generation.its pretty sad.
Women are not tired of working 40 hours a week. PEOPLE are tired of working 40 hours a week. This is not a feminism problem, it's a capitalism problem. Making this a woman's issue invalidates all the men that can no longer support their households on a full time salary.
As a young woman, what else am I supposed to do but work to support myself? Rely on the first man I meet and expect him to pay all my bills? Then you’d get called a gold digger, etc. also, many people right now cannot afford to live off on income alone. I definitely agree that men and women are wired differently, but I think these types of situations have a lot more nuances.
The point is that this was a programming narrative. the reason cost of living increased so much is partly down to an oversupply of labor thus incomes did not increase at a commensurate rate. I think the issue with a lot of modern people not just women, is putting the career above the idea of a family and finding a good man/women. Today people prioritize their jobs who lets face it, of you die will replace you tomorrow
Yes sit homeless and wait for your husband but WAIT you must upkeep your, hair, nails, weight, health and whatever else a man desires lol
@@zainvawda6791good is subjective. This generation has people so focused on their mental health you have definitely raised your standards on what "good " was. People make it sound so easy. Society is creating singlehood not just feminism. You get more for you buck as you stated above when two people are working compared to 1
why are you wanting to rely on your boyfriend for all income? Youre supporsed to rely on him when you decide to have kids/married . you got it all wrong.
It's depend how You do it, gold digger Focus on things not the man, so Focus on him and thats it You can do for ir.
I’m exhausted. Been working every day since 1987. I wish I could afford to just quit and do something worthwhile.
Get a $15 an hour remote job and move to Thailand or Costa Rica. Problem solved.
You should be up for retirement soon huh!? Best of wishes and best of luck! ❤❤❤
Find what you love and grow your own business you can do anything if you want to!
Work is overrated (in present day America).
@@Jesus_Saves_Believersthere is value in work for its own sake. Idle hands are the devil's workshop.
This isn't about men/women/feminism.. The problem is that the wages didn't rise with inflation. Most people have become 'working poor' because of this.
As designed by bankers/corporations. When you hear 'End the Fed', understand this is the reason.
Exactly. Candace is ridiculous.
Well duh when tell women working makes them empowered and double the workforce you cheapen the cost of labor.
It’s true! I finally found a great job with a great wage only to be making minimum wage. Thanks, Newscum:
The wages did not rise because the work force doubled when women entered it and tipped the scales heavily in favor of those doing the hiring. Now we are that same point again. Labor pool is shrinking. Wages are starting to bump up. What happens? Conservatives see the issue but grossly misunderstand the play. "Oh no, look at all of the military aged men coming over the border illegally and the Dems are doing nothing about it!". What they should be saying is "Oh no, look at all of these working aged men coming over the border illegally and the Dems are doing nothing about it!" Suddenly Biden's immigration policy makes sense. Corporate interests are pouring money into the Dems to allow this to happen so they can have cheaper and cheaper labor.
At 76 years old I remember Gloria, and Betty beating the feminist drum. I never agreed with it. Now women stick their children in day care and other peoplevraise their children. Wonder what is wrong with our kids?
They were CIA's operatives. The idea was to break up the family and get women out of the home so they can pay taxes too.
It was easy for them, They were Rich! 😊
Daycare is not a healthy place for a child's psyche imo
You are 100% correct and now many women are paying a severe price. Unfortunately, man can’t get a man to marry tem because they don’t know how to be a wife.
my kids hated daycare. screamed everyday at drop off but i had no choice after leaving my abusive ex husband. i was a stay at home mom when we were together and i loved it.
We weren't meant to work so much.
Everyone is tired because of the poison in our water, poison in our food, unfettered pharmaceuticals, lack of human connection, lack of exercise, and lack of time outside in the fresh air and sunshine! It’s hard to be productive but everything is a choice.
Nah. Not Everyone. Not “Everyone.” /
Our society is broken. There was a time when anyone working a full time job even it was fast food could afford rent in a safe neighborhood and their basic needs met. That isn’t the case anymore. In most states in the USA now unless you have 2 incomes coming in you need to be making $20/hr minmum just to barely get by.
Exactly. I'm so tired of people blaming women and everyone who speaks up. The current cost of living is abnormal. Staying home is taking a huge risk.
@@Jeremy-wp4yh it has become ridiculous. It really wasn’t that long ago that someone right out of high school if they needed to take care of him or herself for whatever reason could go get a 40 hour a week job literally anywhere and they would be fine. They might not have the best furniture or toys and whatnot but they could take care of themselves
Riiiiiiight, Poverty never existed until recently.....
There were no dangerous neighborhoods until recently....
What effect did two income households being the new normal have on the cost of housing? Did it follow that two incomes are necessary to afford a house? Then two cars, for two workers. Then, daycare, too, somebody has to replace the parents. After a time, it's not a choice.
@@molasorrosalom4846 I never said that, I said anyone used to be able to go get a full time job and be able to take care of themself
I am tired but my partner and I can’t afford one of us not working to live here in Vancouver, Canada. You have to have serious ambition and entrepreneurial energy to escape the setup here (allowing foreign investors to ramp up real estate $ and allowing the floodgate to open to immigrants, etc). I’m the daughter of an immigrant and my grandfather worked his butt off to earn his right to live in Canada. As of now our citizenship is just handed out for $$. It’s disgusting what the government has done and is continuing to do here, like giving billions to Ukraine.
You're so conflicted and all over the place, completely missing "topic" at hand.
Topic at hand - "don't go out to any formal job of sorts ... only your husband should ... stay at home cleaning, cooking, taking care of husband and raising children and exclusively breast-feeding them up to at least 6 months".
.... and on "immigrants" ... ah well, a whole lot to unpack there - best I don't even go there
... and it's "husband" ... not "partner".
@@caroln3564 I don't think she's missing the topic, I think her point is that if millions of dollars are spent on wars and other things, one salary isn't enough to provide for a family, so both have to work.
@@MobiltKonto-ju2mv the "topic" is ""women should stay at home ... no matter the "situation" ... it's a man's role to "fight" the "system"""
@@MobiltKonto-ju2mvI could be wrong, but I think the person you're responding to is being sarcastic. It sounds like they're mocking what Candace is saying and how it doesn't apply to everyone's situation, such as OP's, yet it doesn't matter as even then, Candace's is the "only" concrete answer. I don't usually respond to comments, I mostly just read them, but I don't think anyone's going to get the sarcasm anytime soon so I thought I'd point it out. Plus if I'm wrong, I want to know if this person is serious. Because if they are... Whew. 😖
As for the video itself, I don't disagree with anything Candace said, but I did think the video was going to be about why it's hard to live a normal life without working for half of it, not having it specifically be a gender thing because... If it were a man, wouldn't they still have to work that many hours to afford a place to stay? Wouldn't that be draining for them as well, even if they could do it for longer than women?
Totally agree with you
Truth is, 40-30 years ago a regular salary could grant you a normal life, a house and a car. Now you work 40 hours a week and you can barely eat and pay the bills. Feminism has nothing to do with that. Blame low salaries and the increasing cost of life instead.
Thank you
Yeah and most the boomers got fat and no soul but hey they got a house and car easy
Biden
It technically flooded the job market which made it where companies no longer needed to pay men a fair wage to support a family. The other half of the population entered the workforce causing excess workers which drove down wages.
You are not kidding. I chose to stay home with my child and got so much crap from my professional friends. Years later you can tell who was home and who wasn’t. I would do it all over again. We sacrificed the material things and no one ever knew. We are now living better than most.
Right on - I did the same thing - no regrets - would do the same thing again
Why is everyone saying that staying home is less work????
I had 5 kids, no help from husband. It was hard work and long hours. But, having experienced going to a job and doing the same thing every single day, I have to admit that I preferred staying home and taking care of my kids and cooking and cleaning etc. At home I was in charge, not some egomaniac boss at work.
👏🏽 it is complete hard work!
A lot of countries in Asia, South America too a lot of these women work full time and take care of the kids and the household too. God bless em incredibly hard-working 👏
@DCB938 the point is not housework, but doing a regular job AND housework at the same time. Worse if u gave kids. People were not designed to work 18 hours a day and sleep like 4 hours per night. That's the life of moms who work nowadays.
Harder - monotony can get to you, but you see the effort of your work, and it comes with a much better retirement plan.
I don't think anyone's questioning whether a responsible mother's duty is somehow or more less worthwhile or saying its just laying around, but on the plus you're your own boss and it's just a different thing than carrying shingles up a ladder all day, it just has a different quality to it than blue-collar work. I've stayed home to watch my gf's kids and its just very different, no one (I hope no one) is trying to belittle it--especially not while trying to encourage it. The world depends on it, in some sense, if the kids are raised entirely by daycare and then school I think the next generations are in for some flak.
I’m 65 and worked 2 jobs. One job was 1 hour commute away from my home and my 2 young daughters. My husband worked 3 jobs and we worked. I left every morning at 6 am and didn’t get home til 6pm. Had my daughters to feed, bathe, and get 5 seconds with them. It was so very hard. We did it. Then, my husband died overseas. I had to tighten my belt and become a single parent. God makes a way. I’d do it all again for my daughters.
@@politicsfan1931 It's the liberals with mental issues that's the problem!
65 year old? You’d be retired in my homeland and living your life. America is a concrete jungle
You are blessed to have no health problems. Young people have all kinds of disabilities
Wow ❤
@@libertykim6438 because of our horrible healthcare
She better get use to it and save for old age. I am 78. SS doesn't even cover my rent so I work full time job to pay utilities and eat.
Danggg
Good God Almighty. Have mercy on you (and me).
Does your full time job make you enough where SS takes away what pitiful little they give you already - so essentially 2 steps forward, 1.5 steps back?
That's damn near criminal >:(
That's so sad. I admire your strength to keep going, I hope some solution presents itself to you.
The woman who has a job telling women they aren't naturally suited to having a job makes no sense to me.
LMAOOO right
I consider myself a conservative but I can’t handle this narrative. When I was 5 I didn’t know anything about feminism and I wanted to be a dr or a lawyer. So many reasons women should work mainly for the safety of her and her children if something happens to her husband
Candace does not have a normal job, she does her own thing. The main issue I have is the idea of telling woman they'll be happy in a 9-5 style job. My grandma had made her house into a bed and breakfast with her husband and of course was a major part of running it and thus was decently wealthy but... The idea of clocking in and out of more "formal" or jobby type jobs, especially blue collar, I feel is a disservice to probably, 80-90% of women. Drilling the idea that they're made for that. I don't know I picture my sister or my mom and then I picture the construction site, it feels like there's something wrong and twisted about trying to put them there. A doctor or a lawyer or something like that, I personally don't see any issue with that kind of job, though more hard-liners will argue for the family, I'm looking purely at what is conduscive to the general body type and I guess... "general spiritual nature" (I don't know how else to put it) of a woman.
@@michellesmith7363Are you a doctor? I want to avoid people who can't reason logically. You seem not to get what the problem is (some women can be like men, but insisting all of them be like men was the problem). A lot of women worked before feminism but a majority were okay staying at home. Now most think it is a problem. A lot of cheap labour because of women+plus immigrants is what is making it hard for wages to rise with inflation.
She has a much more flexible schedule than a person working a 9 to 5 or 8 to 6 corporate job.
I feel like I learnt this lesson very early on in my career. In my 20s I noticed older women higher up then me giving every waking hour to their jobs. Leaving child care to daycare or minders. And yes they had fancy cars and lovely holidays and their kids wore designer clothes but that wasnt important to me.
I left my full time job. Went part time as a receptionist. Moved back in with my parents for 10 years, helping my mum with my grandmother. I got married 5 yrs ago and immediately had 2 children, 3rd on the way and my husband and I agreed I’d be a stay at home mum. I love it. I absolutely love it. And while we don’t drive new cars, hv a huge house, go on holiday every year and my children wear second hand clothes, I could not think of a better way to live such a simple life. I’m so happy not striving to be the next best thing.
Your comment was pure gold to me Jessica because you get it. I'm almost 66 and I was a stay at home mother and being pampered meant nothing to me either, my job and what I cared about was having healthy happy children but believe me I was also feminine and you can do that without a lot of money. My children have grown now, I have 2 boys and a girl and my daughter is also a stay at home mother, who bakes, takes care of her family, helps her husband, raises chickens, ducks, sheep, grows vegetables, etc. It's a rewarding life.
@@personofearth5076What is your problem with women working?
@@debayanpal3181 Hear what she said and don't pick a fight.
She’s doing it all wrong. Denounce your us citizenship move to Mexico. Come back illegally. Then you’ll be set.
Dangg
Sad but true. As a disabled Somalia USMC combat vet - really nice to hear VA is cutting my treatments to help offset care for illegals. Happened as soon as he took office and knew then it was a matter of time - although I figured he was going to use it for urban inner city minorities and women, you know, at least US citizens.
I live on the border 😊 easy access
Western culture plays a big role too. We are trained to believe that we HAVE to be self sufficient otherwise we are losers. You don't have your own car in your 20s ? Loser. Dont have your own place? Loser. Whats that ? You don't have the money? No worries just take out loans and go into debt. At least people will think you are a cool success now. In my culture family comes first. Generations live together. I'm an adult and i live with my parents. To the west I'm a loser but I don't struggle financially and to keep it real who knows how much time my parents will have on this earth.
I'm 40, full time worker and mom to a 20 month old. It's exhausting and draining.
its exhausting, the 40hr work week is out dated and not realistic in this time period we live in. Because not only are we exhausted by the work, the work itself has gotten more complicated and technology has brought more problems to our life in general.
Technology was suppose to relieve pressure from our life, but now technology has overcome us and made us work for it! And I mean that in the way it does not cooperate, has made thing harder to do! Constant upgrades make you have to learn more, communication has deteriorated because of it, mistakes happen more often because of it etc, I can go on and on how technology has a made a mess of our lives.
Anyone else feel that Candice missed the full point of what the girl was saying? I think the girl was actually asking and saying was WHY ANYONE has to work in order to have a home. Why are humans forced to work? Because we were NOT BORN to work for the majority of our lives only to retire at an old age and barely have any time for ourselves.
Agree! The powers that be made us modern slaves.
Why do you believe that you are entitled to the product of someone else's labor for free? Someone has to work to produce the raw materials, build the house, and then maintain the house (generally a whole bunch of somebody's actually). If everyone just gets a free house and food and nobody works, then where are the food and houses going to come from without anyone laboring to produce them? You must be either a little child or mentally deficit to make such an asinine argument.
amen and ditto.
Doesn't Candace herself also have a job?
You realize that capitalism or not people always worked in order to survive right?
When I was a child my mother worked as my parents were divorced. I had a friend who's mom was always home. I came home to housework and lazy brothers, and my friend came home to snacks help with homework and a clean house. I would have loved to have my mom at home.
I worked for my dad since 14, my sister would do housework, would trade places, but at the same time would never want her in those conditions. Antiques are heavy, disgusting, cut up your hands when moving them, the area we moved them was soggy and dark and smelled like decay, it was cold, would not want my sister working in that dusty environment. It got us sick all the time, especially in the winter.
So hear me out, how about women who live alone, widowed or older. I mean they need jobs. Its not a feminist thing. Its a basic human need to funtion in society.
They need jobs to be happy, or to have money? If you're saying just for human/social needs, yeah there are female-oriented social-type jobs, less work and moreso interaction--for that. I've worked as a cashier which is extremely easy, basically workless-work that's great just for interaction. If you're saying work at that age for money itself, well a retired person would hopefully be taken care of by their pension/kids/etc. at that point but in today's society I know that's becoming less and less common.
I'm 46 and I live alone. I would love to have someone provide for me so I can play housewife but I'm past my peak now. So I do what I have to do survive and function in society. I was married before but he wasn't happy that I brought home the bacon when he lost his job and had to look after our son. Resentment creeped in and that was the end of that. We're still on friendly terms these days but if he hadn't taken it out on me when he lost his jobs, then we might still be together and i would have someone to split the bills with.
@@Ashtarot77or if you hadn't worked at all. You would love to play housewife though you had the opportunity and did not. You would not trust a man to do this, stop.
@@NickMak-m2c Do you think jobs like being a nurse or a doctor are "less work"? Lots of women work in such jobs. Yes, they are different from e.g. work in construction, but probably equally demanding in a physical way. Women are different but really not "too weak" to work.
@@FoxySocks I don't think work as a doctor or nurse is equally as physically demanding as almost any position besides a foremen. You're in doors, in air conditioning, the most physically demanding things I've seen in a hospital might be moving someone down the hallway, which is wheeled. You're on your feet, yes, but being on your feet and running around is not anything like shucking shingles up a ladder for 8 hours straight in the heat of summer or the cold of winter. Just working in doors makes a massive difference. Being a construction worker makes moving furniture an easy job. I've worked in old people homes before and it was many times over, easier than moving a 50 lbs. worth shingles up a ladder even once much less all day. Landscaping was even harder than working in care, for me, and landscaping is a breeze next to construction. I don't really think people appreciate how difficult extreme labor is. Yes you get the elements but most of what you carry is just on your back and you stay almost exclusively on one level besides hills and such.
Everyone is tired of working 40 hours a week which is why France has a 35 hour week. Maybe we as a people should reconsider the necessity of the 40 hour week. perhaps look at a shorter work week. Maybe an increase of wages. Perhaps by providing an incentive to businesses that do, or government subsidization of wages (company pays part of the hourly wage/salary government pays the rest), companies not paying wages at all and instead wages are payed by democratic industry groups as in you work for a company and the companies in that industry pay the industry group which in turn allocates those payments to labor as a wage, or perhaps something else entirely. The way we currently do things is not the right or wrong way. It is simply a way of doing things. The current method is not perfect and while it has many wonderful outcomes it also has lots of unfair and absurd outcomes. There are no rules in business and work except those that we create and whether our rules are good or bad are entirely based on the criteria we choose to judge the outcomes by.
I’m so blessed to have a husband that works very hard for our family to provide for us and I have the blessing of staying at home with our children and raising them. I went to college and had the career for a couple years and decided it wasn’t for me. I wasn’t happy. We made a collective decision for me to stay home. He has deep admiration and respect for what I do and openly admits being a stay at home mother is the farthest thing from easy. As I feel the same about him and what he does for our family. He supports me no matter what I choose to do. Shocking we share the household responsibilities, sometimes he even picks up extra chores like dishes, dinner and laundry when he realizes I have had an extra hard and busy week running the kiddos around or if I am just having an off day. “Traditional” marriage works, you have to have a genuine love and respect for your spouse and what each other brings to the family. Some days I may do more and other days he may do more. But that doesn’t matter. It truly is team work and without both of us our family wouldn’t be what it is.
God bless you guys 🙏🏼
Until you get divorced, which I hope you never have to do.
good for you, glad you married someone who can appreciate your role.
Uh-oh! Candace & Matt got played! Brett Cooper covered this, including the more truthful follow-up the girl posted. She works from home, boyfriend still lives there and pays half rent, and she recently took almost 2 weeks off. This was all about her getting clicks/reactions, and is just another reason I’m glad I don’t have Tik Tok!🤦🏻♀️
That explains the 2 bedroom apartment. I was thinking, if it’s just her, why doesn’t she get a 1 bedroom and save herself some money.
@@kristinazubic9669 Exactly. My jaw DROPPED when she admitted it all in the 2nd video. Then I was angry. Half truths are dishonest. 🫤 There are people really struggling, to pay rent or mortgages, feed their kids, keep gas in their car and working 40+hrs a week without the luxury of working from home.
This was just wrong.🤦🏻♀️
@@kristinazubic9669 Or get a housemate to share the costs.
@@kristinazubic9669why does she have two bedrooms with a boyfriend??
@@ASmith-jn7kf if she works from home, one’s probably an office
Here Candace is again telling women to stay home while she's working for Ben shapiro when she should be on maternity leave 😂
Danggggg
Thinking the same thing. She surely works a full-time job with 3 small children, an infant included. Is no one paying attention to the woman spreading this message? A WORKING mother
💯 exactly. Why don't Candace stay home and stop working when she doesn't have to? She has a rich husband. Yet she is working up to a week before and a week after she gives birth on all her pregnancies.
Candace work through all her pregnancy and leave her kids with nannies. She is married to a multi millionaire and still won't give up her podcast. She is a hypocrite
I don't know why people think being a home maker isn't hard work. I stayed home with my four kidss, breast fed, cooked. Cleaned, bathwd. Home schooled, taxied, nursed two very sick kuds. Nursed kuds when they had the normal illnesses. Maybe for some who are in an economic status or fewer children, and so on might be easier. But day after day if this with few beeaks is a hard and nobel contribution.
It’s harder to be a stay home mom if you really do a good job at it. Shoot I worked harder at home being a stay home mom than I ever did at working a regular 9-5 . 9-5 came with breaks and lunch breaks, being a stay home mom didn’t and it definitely didn’t end at 5 not start at 9 . Try more like started at 6am and ended at 8pm and sometimes not even then if the kiddos got sick. God bless u
Yup theres no breaks, no home time. Its 24/7! And I was put down by my father in law when my kids were little, rolling his eyes about mothering being a job, right in front of my mother in law who works and busts her ass for her family and she didnt say a thing out of intimidation! I'll never forget it
Being a housewife is way harder than my 9-5 ever was. It never ends, no clocking out and lucky to go the bathroom without a hand under the door.
Yup... It would be nice if it was subsided because it's a lot of work. I don't regret a moment. But very challenging on one income but my children and their friends knew I was available for them, to help them navigate through the years~
It's DEFINITELY not easy. It's even harder than many jobs...but I'm telling you. It's different in a way that women are psychologically happier with. Personal experience. We have to push back and let society know that women should be free to work as they wish to because not everyone wants or can be a mother/wife......but if you are a stay at home wife and mother....that is a job in and if itself. I'll make a sandwich ANY DAYYYYYYY
This generation is so weak, I still work 42 hours a week and have two days off. At 62 I am happy as can be.
People like you who say that are absolutely delusional to think that the economy is the same as it was 40 years ago
@@proud.delusion.enjoyer you sound weak!
@mp3_girl. Grow up, it's people like who feel you deserve more for doing less.
@@MegaCangriima we aren’t tryna sound weak we just want what y’all have long time ago it hard rn every generation speaking out on this but we weak at least we aren’t weak as you are tf wrong with you it not us being lazy rent going high and it unaffordable
@@MegaCangrii I’m a full-time college student working two jobs but yeah I guess I’m just not working hard enough! 😃
The reality for many is that they can't be housewives or SAHM. It takes a lot for a partner to earn enough to support a family on a singular income and not everyone has that privilege.
The majority of women today have zero clue of the amount of backbreaking work that women had to do 100 years ago. On top of caring for children in a much more dangerous environment than we have today.
We have to work far less hard than ever before for our daily needs, yet the majority whines about it.
Because the money is useless and doesn't keep up with inflation. So there's no incentive.
This has also made men more dependent on women and a much weaker man.
Be so fr
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I'm sorry, we're not made for this! We're made to survive and enjoy life. I feel you! Over here, 2 jobs, barely surviving, soul- dead. And still having to make sure my family doesn't die. It's not fair, and it's unnatural. We have become incredibly unbalanced.
Humans are made for work. Humans have been grinding merely to exist for centuries. We actually do way less work than our forefathers.
Most of us live better lives than the kings of the ancients.
You fought for this though, queen! Now you must enjoy your prize lololol.
@nealmccoy5727 I did not fight for this, idiot. Nor did my mother, grandmother, nor orphaned great grandmother who was orphaned at 7, married at 11, had 14 children with an abusive idiot. None of us fought for this, but we deserve respect and rights and love. Check yourself, before you wreck yourself, honey.
You're on Prison Planet!
@@nealmccoy5727 How did she fight for this? You really think the average person that just grows up in the world and lives there life "fought" for the way things are? Not only did she not choose for things to be like this, neither did I, nor you. Or did you, let us know.
I feel NOTHING for them,this is EXACTLY what they said they wanted! EQUALITY RIGHT 🤷
The problem is not just working 40 hours, but the duration of the commute and how close to home a marketplace and a grocery store are. I live 100meters from where I work and a grocery store is 50m from me. In the evening, I dont know what to do with myself half the time, but time flies somehow nevertheless. It's best to live as close to your job as possible, like a priority for a comfortable life.
This commentary is completely tone deaf. What does feminism have to do with this? And who said she was a feminist? And even if she is, that's not the primary issue here. Most people are living paycheck to paycheck. The cost of everything is going up, but none of the wages are. Housing is ridiculous, and these insane prices have created a severe housing instability conundrum that they're trying to overcharge their way out of. It's not gonna work when they either can't fill all these units that have been purchased by greedy corporations, or they end up having to spend so much money in trying to have people legally evicted because no one can afford to stay. The food prices are going up. Gas is as high as ever. This does not include any utility bills or emergency funds for car repairs. I haven't even touched on any outstanding debts. And I make pretty good money, but it still doesn't go very far. Most of us are just working to pay rent.
It does contribute though, if a large amount of women quit to stay hoke with their children their would be more income and jobs to go towards men who need to support their families. The job market is flooded with twice the needed workforce
Candace is so out of touch because all her life she's just tried to ride and get money is a sleazy way. First by suing her school FOR RACISM (that thing she says doesn't exist anymore), then saying crazy things online to get money then chasing white men and finally marrying a rich dude. She has a nanny and an entire back up team. She is delusional .
It's all a matrix to keep everyone separated. We're in a system that encourages us to be the biggest consumers when we can barely afford the cost of living. Only the government and corporations benefited from encouraging women to be independent instead of being with family. I laughed at the woman who cried about work because we all deal with this daily. I wonder if she's searching for solutions to her problems 🤔🤔
@praireoak You want women to stay home and not work? I'm assuming the men will all then go back to financially supporting their families 100%. A lot of women are not opposed to that, and a lot of men are not doing that. Especially in minority households.
@@antoinewarren8869 You wanna know what I find funny? That non-traditional men expect traditional wives. If you don't want a wife with a career, that means the man should be the breadwinner. Their wives should not be paying bills. They should be cooking, cleaning, and rearing children only. You can't force women out of the house to get jobs when it benefits the family as a whole. And then say, "My bad. We need y'all back at home and in the kitchen!" Then, when times get hard you expect these same women to work and contribute to the household. You can't have it both ways. Do you work, make the money, and provide for the family or not.
I usually agree with you 100% Candace, and funny enough, I agree with your take on traditional roles between men and women.
However, I would like to challenge you, as I sense a bit of double talk. You are stunningly talented and I am sure hardworking. To be as good as you are comes hand-in-hand with hard work and commitment. You are not exactly a “trad wife” but heck, even the “trad wife” characters on TikTok are not traditional wives, their social media platforms, production and editing content, is a job or business in itself.
So I am wondering if you can tell us what the model looks like for you as a wife and mom who is clearly, professionally speaking, a successful and hardworking mom?
It’s difficult to trust anyone who is preaching one message but living another.
Still love ya 😘 XoXo
*EDIT* I feel like yesterday’s episode (Feb 29, 2024) was made just for me! I got a direct answer to my question from Candace 😝
Women typically had jobs unless they were part of the upper class. Feminists make it seem like women never worked. Women absolutely did work; they just did jobs that could be done from home while caring for children since public school wasn't a thing.
Her model is one of being a hypocrite. Candace preaches from her internet pulpit about "the feminist lie" yet she most definitely has a nanny while she watches her checks roll in from her CAREER.
I don’t think tending to your family means not having a side hustle/ interest of your own. Especially in the times we’re in today where there are many options for women to branch out. She’s saying women need to realize their innate abilities and focus on those strengths as opposed to trying to be the opposite gender. That doesn’t mean let go of your own interests or hobbies you might want to do on the side (such as having a talk show). I understand where you’re coming from, but even traditional wives from centuries ago would have something for themselves on the side even if it was from the house, for their own pleasure and to help expand their minds
@@diadels.3639 I understand what you’re driving at but the honest truth is that this is NOT a side hustle, Candace has a full on career and this is where I feel like some dishonesty is in the conversation. If we are being honest here, Candace’s colleagues are men - Matt Walsh and the others on DailyWire. She is as successful as they are in this media career. So, does that mean that the men at DailyWire are doing side hustles and hobbies? Or do they have media careers which allow their wives to be at home with the kids? See how that logic doesn’t really work? Unless we are saying for Candace it’s a hobby but for her colleagues this is a career? How does that work? 🤔
@@politicsfan1931 exactly
Poor kids and any one else that are feeling this way. May God bless you and give you the strength and rest that only He can give you, in Jesus name. Matthew 11:28-30
I work 30 hours a week with my part time job and go to college full time. I understand her pain. Inflation, higher prices, and horrible leaders in America have damaged our economy. Everyone’s mental health seems to be declining. No one is happy anymore.
I disagree that this is a woman’s issue. This is an everyone’s issue.
The issue is that these days everyone wants it all perfect at the start, don't want to wait for a new sofa, or a better car, etc. I'm a 65 yr old woman, but my first apartment was when I wed, basic one bed and all donated furniture from friends and relatives. We both worked, we walked to work. When we parted company, (he turned out to be a violent drunkard) I downsized to a bedsit because it was what I could afford. I could've gone back to my parents but at that stage I wanted my independence. So I worked hard, got a job i really enjoyed, got promoted, lived within my budget and kept good friends. I had choices and, thank God, I had good people around me. Just sold my own business and retired!! Happy days!
You still don’t understand why are people still working at 50 and 60 please explain why work is the only thing y’all think about.
Factz
I got another note too. Most single mothers are hard on their daughters, but let their sons live live there till they’re over 30 years old. This would never happen when men in their lives. I don’t understand why women have a soft spot for their young son and not the daughters I’ll never understand because you’re supposed to prepare both of your children for life at around 12 to 13 years old to be on their own by the time they’re 18 to 21 years old…just saying
hopefully more dads start being responsible. its still 50% their responsibility for how the kids turn out
What about single father that is being soft to their daughter, well, the statement in tv say 'daddy's girl', so ssame with mommy's son, so it affect by tv, so what ya say is not base on natural, but influence by tv, so what is natural single father and natural single mother? How they interacts?
@@khaliffoster3777 That’s understandable but fathers have an unfathomable way of teaching both boys and girls what it’s like in the real world and most girls don’t stay home till they’re 30. They usually leave home at around 18 with a good head on the shoulders with a father in their life on what the world is about, it makes them headstrong, boys as well. Men do tend to have that daddy’s little girl in his heart of course, but we still teach them about how men can be and only a woman can teach a girl how women are towards each as well as a man can teach a boy how men are and our experience of women and what to watch out for…for, men just have a different way of explaining it than women do…we get right to the heart of the matter. No sugarcoating it
@@up-uw4op This is very true, but it all changes with the mother. Most of the time the mothers don’t allow fathers to see their children and it’s expensive and a tough battle to get that 50%. It takes a good woman to do something to fix that (no courts) Keep in mind, the court system is all for women, and always against men…we’re just a $$$ to them women most of the time. Child support wasn’t created to support children… it was a substitute It was an option that most women took because they didn’t want to get along with the men. I’ll bet you know who assumes full control over the child after a break up or divorced…yes, always the woman, and we have to fight for everything and end up with nothing and broke from court cost 90% of the time because it’s a corrupt court system…and it should never be taken to court anyway It should be voluntary for the woman and the men to get along enough to share custody 50-50, but it never works that way…”dangling a carrot in front of your face”
I was actually referring to as a single mother as opposed to a mother and father in the same home and how beneficial it is to have both parents in their lives, due to two sided teachings and preparing them for the world, isn’t that the whole point of raising children besides enjoying them as children, you still have to prepare them for the real world
I have worked from 16 to 60, worked to two weeks before my due date and went back 3 months after birth of my kids, I worked fulltime, shift work as a nurse, still did the majority of cooking and childcare, but my husband helped with cleaning and did all the gardening.... but I also renovated the house (painted, got in plumber's and tilers, carpet layers, etc) and took the kids to sports, etc... I worked flat out all my life, and find retirement a bit boring, but my body is worn out, I do have to rest now and enjoy my last years....people nowadays are used to drive through, fast foods, instant everything, and are not conditioned to survive now when they have to actually work, to move and keep going, no wonder obesity is the world's biggest issue. If people got on with the work, they wouldn't have time to be crying on tictoc about having to do something like 'care for their own kids, clean their own house, and go to work to earn their own money'... insist that your husband pull his weight around the house, and when kids are old enough, they should also be expected to help clean the house, they live there, they help make the mess!!
But... these women aren't suddenly interested in husbands and raising children and taking care of a home. That's different than, I'm tired of working and I haven't even worked that long, just rather NOT. These are people who simply don't want to work, and it's not just young women but young men, also.
One thing doesn't necessarily lead to another. Lazy happens.
That's what I mean, these people are whining about working 40hrs a week???
Also, why did she get a two bedroom apartment???
And what job is she working where she's only making two grand a month???
This is true
Our relatively easy lives and modern conveniences growing up has made us weak. We shouldn't blame the boomers for current work conditions, but rather for not showing us the value of hard work, patience, and endurance through hardship.
Any women who doesn't want to work only 40 hours a week, certainly wouldn't want to work even harder at home with kids. Men and women today don't want to work, especially compared to how much our ancestors worked.
We need to learn how to appreciate good, honest work for its own sake again.
These "lazy< people need to come with me to a poverty country, and live there for 1 year. They will _never_ complain again. Even (like me) if they embrace poverty, they will either stay, or go back to riches and not complain. I think the issue is: people are spoiled - they have never had a "hard day". I've worked all day - with blisters, and you can't "quit" .... and we hope to find water ... but we eventually do, and the blisters eventually go away. Then another hardship happens, but that's life. it builds character, and _contentment_ . Have a great day, Elles 🙂
A lot of people have spent their entire lives being told about rights and political feel-goodism. A lot of people would agree to the concept that you should have accommodation and a liveable income and choose to work if you want to. But in the end, you either work to pay your way OR you expect someone else's work to support you (making you functionally a parasite). For a lot of human history, people worked to stay alive. And they didn't necessarily have rewards of home ownership or nice vacays. If you were a serf or a slave, you worked with limited prospect of a picket fence. And working down a coalmine would have been INTENSELY BRUTAL. I don't know if coalminers went back to their hovels and said "thinking about it, I don't get enough leisure time". So they must have had something else going on in terms of motivation.
I don't think it's the whole story. When the american dream was on offer, people did have clearer motivations. Even coalminers might have got to hang out with their buddies (and get black lung together). An abstract job where you're a cog in a machine you don't understand is going to be rough. And when you're tired, being told that there's complex economic theory isn't going to help you. A complex story about competing with China isn't going to make you feel much happier about being handcuffed to your work desk.
I am no femenist.The truth is we all want to stay at home and raise our kids. But you are a stay at home mom and completely dependent on your husband.If something goes wrong you will be broke and on the streets. Life is not a fairytale.Us women are capable to be employed and still be a good active Mother to our kids. My Children are proud of me working hard and always have time for them.
Then why don't Candace stay home and stop working when she doesn't have to? She needs to take her own advice. She has a rich husband. Yet she is working up to a week before and a week after she gives birth on all her pregnancies. Her kids are with nannies while she does her podcast
@@monas Not the same. Candace works for herself. The videos make money for her, even while she sleeps. Not the same as a 9-5. You don't get that luxury working for someone else. Can she just stop altogether sure, but technically it isn't a job. It's a hobby and she's getting paid for it.
@@kimberlythomas3943 Candace is a feminist. She complains about career women but she herself is one. Stop being bias, the same rules go for her as she puts on other women who are not as fortunate as her. She needs to stay home with her toddlers instead of leaving them with nannies, and put the mic down chasing career when her husband is already wealthy and stop being an attention seeker.
@@kimberlythomas3943 What she is doing is a job. She is taking time away from her toddlers and travelling all over the place chasing career. She is literally the feminist she talks about
@@kimberlythomas3943 You are being bias. Candace is the feminist she speaks badly of. She chases career instead of staying home with her toddlers, she leaves them with nannies.
I can't feel sorry for a young woman who is crying for having a job, two full days of free time, a 2 bedroom apartment and a phone. She is definitely not going to bed hungry and has clothes on her back. She is privileged and ungrateful for the opportunities she has. The unemployment rate in South Africa is around 40% for 25-34 year olds. Those who are employed have to provide for their disadvantaged families who were affected from Apartheid. Nevermind afford a privileged lifestyle. Pull yourself together girl, it's not that deep. You got this.
Maybe she has a mental illness and this is too much pressure for her? Maybe she has a horrible boss that is bullying her and she can't stand it no more. Don't judge when you don't know. Having a job is not automatic happiness.
By this logic women shouldn't be working at all. We should all be homemakers and birth babies. By default that means not even looking at men who can't afford to have stay-at-home wives. Are you ready for that conversation? I believe y'all call those women who seek financial stability and resources golddiggers for not entertaining men without a certain income. And then you start preaching about partnership and how people should work together to build something. Which one is it? Because by this logic men who don't have it shouldn't have any access to women until they can provide accordingly, and women shouldn't have to work as long as she chooses wisely. I'm okay with doing it that way. Just don't come back later trying to shame women who only seek out men of means. What's the point of having someone to struggle with? Not to mention procreate with.
THIS
With what your saying...men who dont have much money should not have a wife? Then with that thought, there are going to be many many women without a husband and still trying to make it in the world on their own.
@@hardeavers8645 There are many many women without a husband, do you think their Tinder date will marry them? if they are lucky they will marry them but it will end in a divorce, hopefully with a kid on the side to fuck up the next generation.
All that means is that you have to be with a man who works and when he doesn't let him find work, apply for aid in the mean time and he will find work again. I stay home with 6 and just like people in the past, you work with the income you have and sacrifices it's not about having a certain amount of money and God will provide, the more we have the more He provides through one person.
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I was 24 when I had my 1st son, as single , working ,mother! When I was 28 had my 2nd son with my now husband of 16 years, who later was not able to work anymore! So, as a wife , mother of two kids had to support my family! Not to mention I had my 3rd blessing son at 41 yrs. I am the happiest I have ever been! I still work , clean , shop, cook, and play and enjoy my family EVERY DAY! I would not change a thing!!! Thank you God for my life!!!
Also, housing prices are through the roof, especially on the west coast. A full time good paying job will get you a one bedroom apartment.
I work a less than a 40 hour week, still considered a full time employee, im the only provider bc my husband is disabled and we still cant make ends meet. My only thought is making rent. Wtf is the embezling government doing to help me when i supposedly make to much money to get any assistance? My kids are grown so its just two people here. How are we to survive in this economy?
My youngest is in college and I have a serious empty nest. I cannot go back to my job I left to homeschool her. I’m grateful that my kids are doing well. I have to head back to college at 57. They say homeschooling my child is worth college credits as well as being an education advocate. Constantly I’m bombarded with questions from working women about what would happen to my life if my husband leaves me. Honestly it low key worries me. He is still out there working with working females that feel superior to me. Just my thoughts.
They do feel superior! Even at 57 theyre harassing you when you have decades marriage and grown a** kids! I am a babysitter and working mothers can be so awful
You know that old meme about how the mind of a woman is like a computer with 20 open tabs at once? I think the reason it's so hard for women to work these officey 8-5 jobs is that we really need to be able to shift gears constantly through the day. Not just, we CAN shift, but we MUST shift. Being chained to a laptop doing more or less the same project or task all day long is a kind of torture. Imo.
Men can zone out to one thing all day long. That's why you can't talk to them while they're watching something. They don't have the other tabs open. Laser focus. All day focus. Deep focus. It's so important. But so is what women are good at, running the absolute myriad other things that keep our society functioning, from the Home level out. We are the jugglers. We need more than one ball to juggle all day or we break down. Again, just my opinion.
Part of the reason men are able to do that is because they have a woman at home. Whether that's their mother, their wife, a maid, if you speak to single fathers that work and keep a home, and their kids, they'll say the same things as these women do: They're exhausted. That's because we're supposed to have a shared workload, women keep the home and men provide for it, while men are out earning women are cleaning their clothes, cooking their food, running their errands. They can do that, because he provides for them, and he can provide because she's managing life and family. It's natural; and how it should be. The only issue is now the economy forces both into the workplace, and the natural roles don't adjust with that... the women burn out and leave, and I hear it all the time. Traditional means traditional: Men provide, women keep home. Not men provide, women provide and keep home. That's not traditional.
Wrong!! I'm a 67 year old who raised 5 boys alone,worked 69 hours a week. Woman never paid a dime in support!!
Why do women always insist on trying to talk about what men are up to and what the have going on ? Men have been fending alone for themselves since the beginning of time, please stop making excuses here. How many societies do we see men travelling and working long hours for crummy pay by themselves with no woman in sight? We are built for this existence, most women simply are not.
Why do women always insist on trying to talk about what men are up to and what they have going on ? Men have been fending alone for themselves since the beginning of time, please stop making excuses here. In how many societies do we see men travelling and working long hours for crummy pay by themselves with no woman in sight? We are built for this existence, most of the opposite sex simply are not. I work and cook for myself and I have never, ever even thought about complaining about it.
Ok, what about men keep home and women provide? Will men get tired? You say shared workload that men need for home, but at work, there is no shared workload but men will not get tired, but woman need shared workload at work to feel satified, but at home the share workload's is not need, since the work is non-emotional, and the home is emotional, so woman work more in connect to emotional and man work more in connect to logical. So, men need woman for emotional stuff, not that men are bad, but emotional cause men to get tired, unlike logical, same with woman in opposite way. Different mentally lead to different tired in body, well, not body since men can keep going since men are stronger but mentally tired is higher than body.
Its the best way. When I became a single mom due to failed marriages (unfortunately one was abusive & both cheaters), it was so hard to do it all. Thank God for my parents who helped me in many ways, including financially if things happened like my car needed repairs. Dad would split the repair bill.
The answer why could be because this young woman may be high madking undiagnosed autistic (like me).... who knows what else? I was finally diagnosed at 54 after autistic burnout. It took years. Overwhelming and exhausting.
I could see that being true.
As asian woman i still live with my parents so my money not go for the rent
It's wasted a lot of money to pay for rent
It's normal in asian to live with your parents until you married
I’m a highly educated conservative woman. I am lucky to work from home and my company pays a good salary, but at 37 I am tired. I have been looking for a good godly and hardworking man to lean on and would love to have a family and be a stay at home mom. That feels like my calling or desire. But, all the men I’ve been dating are fools and losers. Even the ones that are good on paper.
I am 32. Never split the rent with a partner. Never had a partner. Humanity is not this.
Add 5 years and you're in my position
I don’t think it’s about men and women being designed a certain way. I think it literally boils down to how parents are raising their kids and what they teach them. For example, the majority of boys are typically not raised the same way as girls are and vice versa. Hence why it “looks” like men are supposed to be doing a certain thing while women should be doing other things.
I would say most of that video of why she would be exhausted just simply goes back to we as a society just spend too much time on technology which overloads our brains and we go through dopamine depletion. With no dopamine and watching nothing but other peoples highlights, work is no longer rewarding as well as a lot of work doesn’t pay enough for people to afford to live single lives or alone.
This debate always goes back to men and women should be doing assigned gender roles, but I feel like what is happening right now is more based on people are simply put, exhausted due to overstimulation of their brains. We are all absorbing too much information.
Been telling a lot of peeps that if they truly do not understand the meaning of "For Entertainment Purposes Only!" Then just throw your device(s) away. Cause you're right on so many levels. They just gotta get into their own groove and it'll be okay! Have a blessed one! ❤️❤️❤️
@@maddiesenator5491 Yes we are different, however it shouldn't affect you not knowing how a laundry machine and an oven or a car operates.
I raised my kids in the 90s early 2000s I was able to keep a full-time job and still do my motherly duties. Now I've taken on my two grandchildren. I have no money we're broke all the time I work part-time making sure that the kids get to school appointments after Day School events. I would not be able to do this without the help of my husband😢😢😢😢
Yep, feminists just made life for women harder by 10 fold. Now we work full time, do 3/4 of the child rearing, house cleaning, laundry, schooling, extra curricular activities etc.etc. Most men work 40-60 hours a week and come home to a cooked meal, clean clothes, clean house, happy kids.
I'm 50yrs & working non stop since I was 16yrs! Used to work in my mid 20's 48 hrs just so my husband at the time could afford our home.. Today , I'm exausted & wishing I can retire but no way I can! Or I be homeless 😪
Yep, people can't retire like how they did thirty years ago.
I have been working like that for just about 50yrs now. There have been times when I still couldn't afford to live on 40hrs. So either worked a lot of overtime or a 2nd job. Right now my niece is working 2 full-time jobs. So to answer the young girls question.. yes! You are expected to work like that for the rest of your life. It's awful but unless she finds a good man with a good job, this is her life...
I agree but most black women don't have that luxury Candace.
All woman need to close thier legs until they are married. Choose a man who has the same goals as you and drop tbe others early in the dating and remember keep your legs closed until the right man with what you wants comes around. No more praising the celebrities and the whore life they live
Candace Owens married a multi millionaire and still continues to work. Yet telling the rest of us women who are not as privileged as her to quit our jobs. 😂
She is preaching to the choir. I hate working I would much rather be a stay at home wife and mother.
Candace should take her own advice. But instead she is leaving her kids with nannies while she is pregnant to go her podcast
I have mixed feelings. I've seen the hardships and struggles many women face if they don't have skills in the job market. I enjoy my work but I know my family is my first priority. I think people need intact support systems, which is why I think we should normalize multi generation homes. Especially where living on one income just isn't feasible for so many.
Thiss 👏🏾👏🏾! I think just having a balance helps, period. I’ve heard of PLENTY of SAHM who are exhausted bcs their husbands don’t even help them at all with domestic care (laundry, cooking, childcare, etc). As a society, we have been socializing boys to not see domestic care as a priority. As a result, a generation of uninvolved and emotionally immature men have been created. What wife wants to clean up after an adult toddler husband 🙄. So even if women were to stay home, will they get a fair load of the household duties??? Studies show that having equal share impacts the quality of marriages too. Let’s not assume that women are natural caregivers and better at cleaning bcs it’s in their DNA… they’re just deemed better at it bcs they’ve practiced it over and over again bcs they HAD TO. Domestic work is a SKILL that is sharpened over time.
And I’m with you on enjoying work… as a pediatric oncology RN, I love my job! I love that I’m able to make a difference in the lives of my families and have my own life be changed by them. It’s so rewarding. How on Earth would I able to pay my bills as single women without a job and without a man to provide for me?? Make it make sense lol 😂
Why did she get a 2-bedroom apartment if she is living alone?
Right, she can get a roommate to split the bills with, or simply downsize to a cheaper one bedroom or studio.
Today's younger generation is just straight•up SOFT & DISILLUSIONED ...
Not sure if I hear "feminism" in her voice as opposed to her just not wanting to work to pay for her to live in life ... I believe if you came across a man saying the same thing ~ we'd call it 4 what it is and that's being lazy ...
“Today’s generation” as if the massive inflation and underpaid and overworked people doesn’t affect everyone.
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Lazy? She’s literally working 40 hours a week and is barely making enough to survive. There’s a bigger problem here and it isn’t her being lazy.
Yea and let’s be honest explain why tf do we have a Government and taxes…. And a president. Do you think god put us here to be slaves? I think working is good but life should be free choice and experience. Lazy yea maybe but telling us to work and still can’t afford basic needs is ridiculous.
We aren’t making enough money inflation is up and not our wages but we’re lazy f u
40 hours a week isn’t hard. Try working 60-70 hours a week then complain
Good thing most men don't complain otherwise women would get the ick
And that doesn't include the commute!
Try working 100 hours a week until you pass away and then complain.
Been there
Good thing most men don't complain about working otherwise they would give women the ick
Yeah i dont feel bad for any of them. Equal share of rights, equal share of the misery.
I don’t believe that everything is attributed to feminism. In this short clip of the young girl speaking, I didn’t hear of anything insinuating that is her issue. I can see that even if she is to be a stay at home mom she would still need to “work” at home because being a stay at home does require work even though it is rewarding work. Men or woman are not meant to be lazy, both are designed to work. She would also need to become stronger to be a stay at home mom as well because working with kids (especially if there is more than one) and the tasks involved running a home is not for tears and it will get frustrating. Woman do “work” actually more than 40 hours a week at home.
It is ok for a woman to work. Biblical speaking woman are called to different purposes, in the house or out. You are given what you can handle. Her main priority though is to her home and as such she never forgets that.
Based on what I heard in the video, I can understand the pay not equating to her living standards. It is becoming increasingly expensive to live. But that is a problem hopefully she can ask her parents to help her solve. She seems young and in my opinion not quite ready for marriage anyway. I believe she will be ok and she will grow to become a strong woman.
It’s not so black and white. What happened is that there were a lot of women stuck in an abusive relationships and unhappy marriages because they could not make enough money on their own. Where we shouldn’t aspire to go after a career and not care about caring for our own family, we need to have a back up. I’ve had two long term failed relationships and I’m glad I was able to have well paying jobs to fall back on because or else I’d be stuck accepting a horrible situation. I would love to find a good man that I could be completely feminine with and that I can cater to and have him protect and provide for me and our family.
I’m glad you at least recognize why women had to have a way to support themselves.
@@terence.jthank you so much! ❤
@@fuhgetabatit1051 Yes❤
I'm 26 and I manage women in a medical call center. When I tell you, only a handful work a full 40 hour week it's sad. They complain about not having enough money to pay bills etc but they call out alot. We can't fire them because there isn't enough to maintain our metrics. It's SAD. Then they say, "men have it easy". We do everything we can to make things better for us and the ones we love.
It is MEN that have built the infrastructure.
This is more about the insane economy than about feminism. There are more women in the world than men therefore some women will be left without a man to marry and work while they stay home and take care of the home/kids. Even if feminism didn't exist and women had to rely on getting married, there's literally not enough men to go around. The young lady is expressing what we, men and women, are all feeling. It's too expensive to afford basic necessities. Everything keeps going up except for wages. It bothers me that Candace is turning this into something it just isn't.
This young woman bemoans being barely able to afford her two bedroom apartment. Right out of lsw school in my first law job i was happy to have the EFFICIENCY apartment i could afford. I didnt buy my first "starter house" until 14 years later.
We are all slaves to this system we get paid less and they take 37% of your pay.. I respect a woman who takes care of her family but find something you love and make a business out of it
Why? Even a women running a business out of the home can't make a profit due to government red tape. The days of being able to get raw materials and make it cheaper than what gets shipped from China are long gone.
It's not a feminist lie! Most of the women I have met in my life had careers, a lot of them were working moms (husband and wife worked together to provide and take care of the home and kids. They would explain to me how they managed their time and schedule). They did not complain like a lot of young women today, because there was no reason to. Gen Z is being brainwashed into attending post-secondary school, even if we don't need it. Older Gen Zers are coming out of college or university exhausted, a lot in serious debt, and entering a society that is more expensive than when their parents were young. Plus, since women are more emotional, they are more likely to express their feelings on social media.
Nope, it's a feminist lie
Because women are more emotional WOW 😂
I agree with this!!! I was raised if you dont work, you dont eat😂😂😂 its to expensive to sit at home, at least in my situation
@@kenarios Who cries more? Men or women?
Before feminism, society operated under a simple dynamic. Men would go to work at the company. The company understood that the man needed to support not just himself, but his wife and kids. So they would pay him the equivalent of $100k per year. So all men who had a full time job were viable mates. What it took to be a potential husband was simply being able to hold down a full time job and be able to not spend every penny you had. But once feminism came into place, the company said "alright, well if you're wife is working, then we don't need to pay you $100k per year. Instead we'll give you $50k, and if you want a family then your wife has to go out and get the other $50k.", well that's not how women are hardwired.
A woman wants a man who is effectively better than them. Which is why you have countless women out there who would rather die alone and living hard lives (like the girl in this video), rather than "settling" for a guy who also makes $50k per year. Which would funnily enough put them in a 6 figure household. Because that's not how women think. Women don't want someone who they can financially compete with. Couple that with the sexually liberal way of people today, and you'll quickly find that the rare girl in the office is the one who ISN'T sleeping with someone in management. At my office there is only ONE girl that isn't having sex with anyone at work. And that's the girl in H.R. And most of the women at my job are married women. How sad is that?
This is not the way human beings are meant to be. And even as the West is falling people will foolishly stand by this madness as if it's perfectly fine. And you'd think that the older generation of women who are now dying alone would come out and tell their younger counterparts that they were misled and wrong about how they lived their lives. But no, they are doubling down on it and their hatred of men is astounding.
I read your entire post and I liked it. Very interesting and well said
She would be whining about staying home and raising a baby too..............
Everybody is tired of working 40+ hours a week with little to no time for themselves, not just women. And it pretty much takes two incomes to make ends meet nowadays for the average couple.
I'm going to tell you my sister lived off student loans just to get a job that someone else could easily be grandfathered into and the money is the same I could make if the right company gave me the chance.
The only difference is the assload of student loan debt she owes. I won't do it because you aren't guaranteed a spot at the table you serve but don't sit at.
There's nothing more stressful than owning money you haven't worked for yet.
Then your children are passed down debt they know nothing about yet and can't even work towards.
I have never worked 40 hours a week it's always been 120 or more.
There are only 168 hours in a week. If you are only getting 48 hours or less outside work that is not enough to manage household responsibilities and raise a family. Especially the later. If you sleep only 6 hours a night that leaves you less than one hour a day for quality family time, chores, and eating - and cooking is going to take the lion's share of that roughly 6 hours remaining time. That's not living, that's merely existing.
I have 226 K in student debt, all gone thanks to the current administration's SAVE plan.
It's called wage slavery
Yep
Rent the 2nd room..or just move out into a nice small town out of the shit holes..❤
OPTION 3 . My mother raised 5 kids and worked over 40 hours a week. Superwoman.
So now you have a young man and a young woman working 40H a week and don´t have any extra money to enjoy themselves, and by a miracle they find each other. They start to live together and realise that they have a little extra cash if they continue to live in a 2 bedroom apartment. Then they have kids and the pressure of capitalism comes again and this time with a vengeance. The mother needs to stay at home to feed her child, and they live of of one income. Tensions are growing, system is falling apart. In this world, unless one of them had climbed the corporate ladder, they will be doomed. The solution is not simple, it is not socialism, it is not communism or any other system of social economics that we have had, but a new one that will carve a new way. If we as a civil society cannot get together and discuss the problems and try to find solutions then the solution will eventually find us and it wont be pretty. As thing are today, it´s like Kid Rock has sung: "Money ain't shit to me, But I gotta make a lot just to be free". That´s the capitalism for ya. ;)
Maybe it’s just me ,but the older women I have spoken to … said women’s right was the best thing to ever happen for women!!! They explained how badly men treated you because they knew they had the upper hand . Women was abused but couldn’t leave because they had no money . Women was cheated on but couldn’t leave . And most women husbands would give them the bare minimum financially.. thrn take the rest of the money spending on alcohol and other women … when that money could have been spent in the home . But people don’t understand until you have a controlling crazy husband .. that you will appreciate women’s right .
True
Include (and keep) a Man who will reside, preside, and provide- and the tears will stop. You’re welcome.
Why does it have to be that though??? What about the women WHO DONT WANT A MAN??????
They can post videos just like the woman in this one.
@aprilgibson817 you either work hard or find someone else to work hard for you. That's how it's always been throughout history.
Maybe a husband could be the main breadwinner. Maybe you tax the rich or redistribute wealth so you don't have to work as hard. But don't expect them to willingly let you redistribute their wealth to you when you didn't work for it. Or you could force slaves to work for you.
Or maybe, just do that hard work. Nothing wrong with the grind for an honest living. We don't work as hard as our ancestors, yet can expect a higher quality of life with many modern conveniences. Most of us aren't fetching water from the river in the morning or chopping wood for the winter, while also trying to provide a service to make a living wage.
Life is a grind, and the universe isn't going to care if it is easy or hard. It's up to us to enjoy it or not, which might just be enjoying the simple things in life, like time with family or a good cup of coffee in the morning.
Most people work 60-80 hours per week… at least me and the people that I know! It’s how you make good money
That's not living
No the heck they don’t. Every time I thought I needed to work more hours to pay for life I went back to school and got a better degree. I’m not saying that works all the time I’m just saying you have to find a way to be worth more without having to work 80hrs a week. That’s ridiculous
That sounds miserable af. I work part time for fun because my husband works from home and makes enough to cover everything and im still tired.
@@Jeremy-wp4yh I’ve been doing it my entire life! The taxation in our Beautiful Country ( and I do believe it’s the Best and strongest country in the world) is over 50% if you take Everything into count that we are taxed on which is actually Slavery and NEEDS to be changed IMMEDIATELY! It wasn’t intended to be that way after WW2 but here we still are! We have to work a ton to be considered lower to middle class! It’s all I’ve ever known! Blue Collar til I die and I love this country! GOD BLESS AMERICA 🇺🇸
@@4lizlemon 👏A USEFUL degree
Like, mechanical engineering 😉
Then, you dont have to work twice the average to make the “good money”
I call BS that the 40 hour work week is from 'feminism'.
Its for tax purposes, man or woman, work a 40hour week.
Don't conflate issues Candice, it muddies when you are right about an issue.
How do you expect a human to function without working? Society has geared it that way. That is the issue here, not the women who fought to be able to vote, take out a loan, and own a home.
I work 60 hours a week. Is that not common in USA.
I feel the need to share my perspective as a stay at home mom of, now, over 10 years. I agree with everything you’ve said, but even staying home in today’s society is not the same as it used to be. A lot of stay at home mothers feel very isolated, and unsupported, and I believe it’s because of the structure of society now. It used to be that since most mothers stayed home, moms could all get together, they had community, and they felt so much more supported. I know I struggled for the first several years with my mental health. That’s not me complaining, this was just my experience. I was the only one of my friends who stayed home, and I was the only mom on my street who stayed home. Even in my church family, virtually all the moms of young children worked. I needed other moms in my life, I needed to be able to ask them for their advice, or if something I was dealing with with one of my children was normal or not. I needed to feel like I had other people in my life who understood the season of life I was in, and could help me feel not so alone when I felt overwhelmed by mothering 3 toddlers. All of that said, I’m so glad I’ve stayed home with my children, it has been the greatest blessing of my life, to watch them grow, and learn, and be there for all of their milestones. I would do it all again if I could.
Wow people really need to learn history because 40 hours a week has not always been the standard!
I am pretty sure something to the tune of 6 twelves or more then 12 hours in a day used to be the standard
@@EXQUISITEMADyou used to just work sun up to sunrise prior to warehouses etc so ya
Like that in asia.
@@batboy555That makes sense. Vietnamese people work their asses off, i know that
I really can't believe she's whining about being an adult......
Ohbwell, she can always do Onlyfans.
@@EXQUISITEMAD Do I need to spell it out for you, can you not research anything on your own? The strikes over unfair work conditions started many decades before Henry Ford.
I hate working 40 hours a week too, but we all just have to suck it up and do it. Our current economy doesn’t give most of us much choice.
My father has worked continuously since 1972. In 2022 he celebrated 50 years of working. He is 75 now and still works! In fact during his lifetime he worked two jobs for a period of 30 years. I have zero sympathy for these cry babies.
Thankyou Candace. You have no idea how important this is for humanity.