How to hold your sticks (for the absolute BEGINNER)

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  • Опубликовано: 20 ноя 2024

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  • @ramonalfaro3252
    @ramonalfaro3252 6 месяцев назад +27

    You are The Man, Stephen! At 56 I take pride in being open to letting anyone regardless of age teach me something. I find the more I check my ego the more I learn.

  • @KKmovesToMars
    @KKmovesToMars 5 месяцев назад +74

    Day one with a pad and 2 sticks. Every song is a song I cannot play yet 😄

    • @MavyestWavy
      @MavyestWavy 3 месяца назад +1

      How's your progress looking? Hope you didn't give up!

    • @YayoPortillo
      @YayoPortillo 3 месяца назад +2

      You and me 😀

    • @backpain8688
      @backpain8688 3 месяца назад +1

      awesome

    • @luisutil9070
      @luisutil9070 2 месяца назад +3

      I've been playing on and off for 30 years and I still can't play a full song perfectly 😂 ... I'm only starting to take it super seriously now at 40...

    • @kevinawood
      @kevinawood 2 месяца назад

      @@luisutil9070I am probably picking up a kit very soon and starting to play. Day one isn’t here yet. I am 59 years old. How’s that for a late serious start?

  • @gianlucaluongo4974
    @gianlucaluongo4974 6 месяцев назад +16

    FINALLY!!! You have no idea how much I have searched to find someone showing on how to hold the sticks. And if you look at how other drummers are holding them, they all have their own personal style....

    • @NintenDub
      @NintenDub 6 месяцев назад +4

      I've come to find there isn't a right way. Cuz they all say one thing. They say do this, and do do that. And than you watch them do exactly what they say not to. They talk about using fingers.not using fingers. Only using wrists etc. it just seems everyone does it differently. After 20 years I finally have found my real grip.but my hands just aren't shaped to hold it how most would say your supposed to

    • @Fiascopia
      @Fiascopia 5 месяцев назад +2

      The thing I have found is that you have to learn to hold the sticks many different ways in many different contexts. This video is really solid advice and you should always be trying to apply the principles but you need to be able to do American and French and everything in between. I have recently been trying to force the most French grip position I can on myself as I play and it has really helped me even though it has been like learning to play the drums again.

  • @Fiascopia
    @Fiascopia 5 месяцев назад +7

    I been playing for 10 years and I needed this video. Luckily ABSOLUTE BEGINNER is a mindset and I'm happy to have it :)

  • @andyndanaemcburney122
    @andyndanaemcburney122 3 месяца назад +1

    I appreciate this. I had drum lessons 20 years ago, and I'm getting back into it, and just wanted to make sure I wasn't starting any bad habits.

  • @AnthonyandRoger
    @AnthonyandRoger Месяц назад +5

    5:20 into video to instruct you on how to hold your sticks.....this man can Talk!

  • @llRoBoBinHoll
    @llRoBoBinHoll 6 месяцев назад +4

    I have very flexible thumbs which are not good for pinching and holding things. I hadn’t heard of having the fulcrum more at the base of the middle finger. Just trying it out, I really like it! I lately have been kind of worried that my potential on the drums is limited due to my autonomy, but this may be some crucial information to keep improving.

  • @applesforakbar
    @applesforakbar 6 месяцев назад +3

    Years ago a drummer taught me a technique that completely stifled my progress and I couldn't get past it. This makes waaaaay more sense excited to pick up drumming again and try it. Also sidenote, it's just like tennis more control comes from looser strokes rather than gripping harder.

    • @Fiascopia
      @Fiascopia 5 месяцев назад +1

      IMO a good way to switch to looser styles is to think that the more you feel like you are bouncing a ball, the closer you are to good technique

  • @vessal1
    @vessal1 2 месяца назад +1

    Thanks for all your drumming tips! Of all the 'how to' videos on YT, I keep coming back to yours! Cheers!

  • @andrewjones9690
    @andrewjones9690 4 месяца назад +2

    always wanted a drum kit, grabbed 1 a few days ago. so here I am looking into every type of drumming basics i can find. my end goals are songs like Lux Eterna by Metallica. great video and thanks for your efforts.

  • @makelifematter1896
    @makelifematter1896 2 месяца назад +1

    Not sure why the negative comments but thank you so much for this educational video to the negative comments make your own video if your so great at this then we can compare...he is explaining for us just learning so more info is better than less....

  • @h00dles33
    @h00dles33 5 месяцев назад +1

    dude youre the best teacher. so grateful for so many of your vids.

  • @danmcbmusic
    @danmcbmusic 25 дней назад

    Great advice. I'm a multi instrumentalist, composer, producer, started with buying some drums for friends to record on, now I got curious and started playing. I work on a pad a lot. It's really interesting to get into how drums work and developing independence and all that, even if I only play for fun, right. No particular song, I just wanna be able to swing like Louis Bellson ... not much to ask right ... 😅

  • @cypressphil84
    @cypressphil84 2 месяца назад

    You know what Im not a drummer by any means at all. Im just bass player and a noise guy. I decided to take drums seriously in my jams, Ive only been practicing a couple days off this vid on a practice pad and I gotta say. I just gotta out of jam and heard things out of myself on the kit I havent done before! Thank you. You made it less overwhelming and i didnt have to sift thru a bunch of bs to get there. I still sort a suck but Im going to keep at. I still lost my sticks but I did it alot less, I was able to go a bit longer too without splitting a stick.

  • @mikeswiegot1792
    @mikeswiegot1792 2 месяца назад +1

    I'm an animator. This demo made 100% perfect sense to my brain. Drums are a beautiful craft.

  • @totallyfrozen
    @totallyfrozen 2 месяца назад +1

    21:52
    “The Motherload” by Mastodon.
    That’s one of my goals. It’s fast and busy. It boggles my mind that the drummer plays and sings the lead vocal at the same time since the drum track alone is challenging to play.

  • @user-xt7tv6ni9s
    @user-xt7tv6ni9s 5 часов назад

    Really good video, I'll even look into your course

  • @dbfzato-1327
    @dbfzato-1327 2 месяца назад

    i've not played drums in 15 years so was just double checking i had it right, seems i had a good teacher :) just got a electric kit, one thing that im having to get used to is the rubber feeling of the cymbals
    the end goal is something slipknot possibly 3 nil lmao high aspirations n that lol need to get and learn double bass tho lol

  • @SModex777
    @SModex777 2 месяца назад +2

    Picks up sticks at 4:27 but lots of good info if you’re watching from the beginning. 5:19 lesson begins.

    • @cazzhendrix
      @cazzhendrix 2 месяца назад

      came here to say that 👍

  • @markfinney7387
    @markfinney7387 Месяц назад

    The point you make about practicing air drumming and creating artificial rebound is very practical because sometimes, you might have to play on another kit with a snare drum that someone tuned super low with practically NO rebound. It was impossible to anything subtle or play double strokes on. RLLK? nope impossible to play on that snare lol, made me sound like a complete beginner lol.

  • @samanthalefebvre6235
    @samanthalefebvre6235 4 месяца назад +1

    I had to pause this video to go take care of a fly and found myself practicing my flicks with the fly swatter haha… thanks for the awesome videos!

  • @eloiswaters9523
    @eloiswaters9523 2 месяца назад

    Totally GREAT Lesson!!! And I am not a drummer, but your lesson felt more confident.

  • @ElenaHicks-y3p
    @ElenaHicks-y3p 29 дней назад

    This is something i needed as a beginner with a pad and 2 sticks.

  • @marklaas4475
    @marklaas4475 3 месяца назад

    Thank you for starting at the aboslute basics. It's a great video subscribed for sure!

  • @nimbabul8384
    @nimbabul8384 2 месяца назад

    This is absolutely great! Thanks a lot

  • @freddybpr
    @freddybpr 6 месяцев назад

    Exactly what I was looking for. Thanks a lot!!!!

  • @ZachBratland
    @ZachBratland 5 месяцев назад

    You’re the man!! Appreciate you!⚡️⭐️

  • @kaymadd
    @kaymadd 3 месяца назад +1

    Got an edrum kit and I am so pumped up but my finger is already aching 😭

  • @teabagenglish
    @teabagenglish 2 месяца назад

    thank you so much sir!!

  • @TheFearUnlimited
    @TheFearUnlimited 6 месяцев назад

    This is really helpful vid man, thanks!

  • @UltimateDillon
    @UltimateDillon 20 дней назад

    my dream fast song is HOLY WARS... THE PUNISHMENT DUE !!!

  • @elementrypenguin3116
    @elementrypenguin3116 Месяц назад

    I just got a pad and sticks. Trying to learn grips and getting comfortable with the sticks and learning paradiddles. My weak hand is my right. I’m left handed.

  • @carlospalacios3874
    @carlospalacios3874 21 день назад

    Outta love again - Van Halen!

  • @StatiXonfirE
    @StatiXonfirE 6 месяцев назад +1

    Savior by Rise Against . My kick doubles seam to lag the hands and just can’t get the timings synced at a slow tempo it’s ok but the faster I go it falls apart.

  • @joecaruso1960
    @joecaruso1960 Месяц назад

    i like . is the little finger free? pinky.... tx

  • @ericgardner8311
    @ericgardner8311 17 часов назад

    I would love to be able to play LED ZEP ROCK AND ROLL!

  • @YayoPortillo
    @YayoPortillo 3 месяца назад

    I´m getting my drumset today, how can I get to the paid community u mention??,

  • @gucio_wss
    @gucio_wss 5 месяцев назад +1

    18:50 Can’t help the „Look at the flick of da wrist” in my head

  • @mtpstv94
    @mtpstv94 Месяц назад

    I can't tell you how, but when I began playing in High School in the 90s so much was just natural and obvious (common sense?) to me on guitar and drums both with no instruction. I figured everything out on my own. So for me it was always strange and hard to grasp the idea that for other people it wasn't obvious. So I was never able to teach anyone else. I didn't have the patience. These days I have a bit more than I did. So much is in the wrist for both of these instruments. If you aren't relaxing you aren't going to play well.

  • @totallyfrozen
    @totallyfrozen 2 месяца назад

    I’m confused. Last year you taught about using the first finger as the fulcrum to be very fast (e.g. blast beats). Then you teach the middle finger as fulcrum.
    Is one preferred over the other for some reason?
    Or are they both simply used for different dynamics and feels?

  • @cbav8r
    @cbav8r Месяц назад

    Just starting at 56 yo. Would love to be able to play Mombassa from the movie Inception.

  • @Mescalito71
    @Mescalito71 6 месяцев назад +13

    Jesus get to it.
    Grip instructions start at 5:16

    • @RobertMurphy-wm3ge
      @RobertMurphy-wm3ge 2 месяца назад +1

      Ah the age of "GIMMIE MY FREE SHIT NOW"
      spoiled

    • @neonsedits1697
      @neonsedits1697 Месяц назад

      Mate it's learner's coming here, any tips he's got are good advice and can help a lot. Beggers can't be choosers

  • @Steve_Onaut
    @Steve_Onaut 5 месяцев назад

    I feel like its sounding good but it actually isnt when i play. I often have like a little break in my beats which sounds really weird. Also im often loosing my sticks i hope this will help

  • @luisutil9070
    @luisutil9070 2 месяца назад

    Where is that pdf for practice pads? The link sends me to the fluid hands one

  • @crimson_sun7274
    @crimson_sun7274 6 месяцев назад

    Any song by Skitsystem or Drillerkiller. Though I'm working through "Maktens murar rasar" by Skitsystem at the moment.

  • @nghivmai
    @nghivmai 4 месяца назад

    I'd love to be able to play anything off of Quadrophenia. To be able to play as freely and confidently as Keith Moon in general, actually.

  • @sdw-hv5ko
    @sdw-hv5ko 6 месяцев назад

    Ever Fallen in Love With Someone by the Buzzcocks is a song I really wanna learn but I tense up when I try to play it at full speed

  • @TimothyBeard-w3g
    @TimothyBeard-w3g 6 месяцев назад

    Thanks Steven and the answer to the question is.Run to the hills Iron Maiden

  • @thomasfinn2140
    @thomasfinn2140 18 дней назад

    how about any RAMONES song ... Rockaway Beach, Blitzgrieg Bop ....

  • @juniorchavez2787
    @juniorchavez2787 5 месяцев назад

    Forever Dead by Sevendust is the one I want to play smoothly.

  • @jaredschmidt2062
    @jaredschmidt2062 8 дней назад

    21:52 “Bleed” by Meshuggah

  • @sueashton3786
    @sueashton3786 6 месяцев назад +1

    I want to play New Rose (The Damned) as half as good as Rat 🐀 !!

  • @ayealexandra
    @ayealexandra 3 месяца назад

    brackish by kittie!

  • @elijahrgr
    @elijahrgr 24 дня назад

    I would love to play solway firth by slipknot 😂😂

  • @vladimirt514
    @vladimirt514 6 месяцев назад

    fast song, which I think I "would never be able to play"... beatles, I want to be your man

  • @richardrichard5409
    @richardrichard5409 8 дней назад

    Starts at over 5 mins in😮

  • @GersonMelgar-w8v
    @GersonMelgar-w8v 26 дней назад

    Thanks! I'd say Tom Sawyer, lol

  • @phillyeel
    @phillyeel 3 месяца назад

    Long Train Runnin' - The Doobie Brothers

  • @Y_why
    @Y_why 3 месяца назад +2

    ask your doctor for an Ultrasound of your left parotid gland, this is not medical advice

  • @drumhead869
    @drumhead869 6 месяцев назад +1

    I will follow - by U2 , this one is a fast song for me

  • @daroldpitkin8433
    @daroldpitkin8433 Месяц назад

    Wipe out by the raiders

  • @davidfordyoyoguy
    @davidfordyoyoguy 6 месяцев назад +2

    What about the thumbnail? Never talked about it at all.

    • @Fennyella
      @Fennyella 4 месяца назад

      Exactly. And then states that "There's a whole video on my channel about why middle finger is better" and then i can't find it, because it seems to be hidden in some arbitrary lesson.

    • @user-bz6gz7qi4w
      @user-bz6gz7qi4w 4 месяца назад

      ​@@Fennyellaruclips.net/video/4oktd85wPt0/видео.html

  • @jeffreyjohnmann
    @jeffreyjohnmann 6 месяцев назад

    Painkiller by Judas Priest

  • @alphago9397
    @alphago9397 3 месяца назад

    I want to learn "Indoctrination" by Dimmu Borgir .. 🤣

  • @karlbyrne589
    @karlbyrne589 Месяц назад

    Playing since I was a teenager and still can't hold the stick in my weak hand correctly

  • @CesitarLabarthe
    @CesitarLabarthe 5 месяцев назад

    👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

  • @sleepmeditationyoutube
    @sleepmeditationyoutube 4 месяца назад

    Blink 182 - Always

  • @user-bz6gz7qi4w
    @user-bz6gz7qi4w 4 месяца назад

    Why the middle finger is the better pivot point: ruclips.net/video/4oktd85wPt0/видео.html

  • @gabyiriarte5602
    @gabyiriarte5602 2 месяца назад

    I want to be able to play Misery Business :(

  • @mranonymous8979
    @mranonymous8979 24 дня назад

    Where's the stick toss ?

  • @simonbroke-smith7783
    @simonbroke-smith7783 Месяц назад

    😁🥁👍

  • @VinceApin-zk5mb
    @VinceApin-zk5mb 2 месяца назад +29

    Brother you talk too much. Less talk and get to the practical points where you demonstrate, we don't want to listen to you too much but we want to learn from your demonstration

    • @filosurfer
      @filosurfer 2 месяца назад +7

      I was thinking the exact same thing. I appreciate the content but I’d wish he’d get more to the point. I think he’d have more subscribers if he did.

    • @larrywaraytv8172
      @larrywaraytv8172 27 дней назад

      ​@@MisshaMointrue

    • @danmcbmusic
      @danmcbmusic 25 дней назад

      I didn't find this at all. The explanation of how and why was something I found useful. Different strokes, different folks ...

    • @LooopQ
      @LooopQ 23 дня назад +1

      You can always just scrub forward and skip it dawg

    • @rickmckay65
      @rickmckay65 21 час назад

      I had the same issue as others here.
      You come across as a really nice guy and it’s great content, but you need to stick to the bare essentials.
      SOOOO many RUclipsrs talk and talk before getting to the subject and it just makes me switch off and look for another video.
      I stuck with this one purely because it seems to be the ONLY one that addresses “grip”.
      If you edit this down, I think you’ll get a better response.
      Oh, and thank you for making the effort in the first place. 😎

  • @dianehanscom8580
    @dianehanscom8580 6 месяцев назад

    Wipeout!

  • @pikeeve4282
    @pikeeve4282 2 дня назад

    I disliked this vid

  • @NintenDub
    @NintenDub 6 месяцев назад +2

    Minute after mimute after mimute of taling without saying anything. Typical youtube fluff..
    "You can do this....nicoteyte can help"
    This fake self help bs of drummers is just the worst

  • @Fennyella
    @Fennyella 4 месяца назад +2

    What i don't like about this video, to give some constructive criticism:
    The critique:
    Thumbnail showing us a middle finger grip instead of pointer, but you never acknowledged it properly or addressed why. You simply referred to "some" arbitrary other video, where you supposedly talk about it in detail.
    No links provided, nothing. I've watched not all, but most videos in the "Hand Technique" playlist that made sense from thumbnail or title. None of them talk about that.
    That's what i don't like and feel very strongly about. You basically change a big part in hand/grip technique, expect us to follow through on a "Trust me bro" basis, without explaining anything.
    Constructive Feedback:
    Provide proper links if you have something covered that demands an explanation, so we can follow you not on a "Trust me bro" basis, but on the basis of determining for ourselves if that makes sense to us. I like doing stuff, when i understand the WHY behind it. Most people do, actually.
    And to follow up on this, i also tried that other grip. Doesn't feel like it changes anything, really. So the explanation of the WHY would really help to understand if there's an actual reason or if it's just something to be "different/unique/edgy" in any way.
    So in total:
    - Provide links to stuff you are not willing to explain in the video you mention it, no matter what the reason might be.
    (Bonuspoints / Alternative: Show on the thumbnail what's actually part of the video. Don't make a thumbnail with one grip being ok ✅and another that isn't ❌, that doesn't even get explained in the video itself. Keep it about the video.)
    - Explain at least in a TLDR / short version why we should do something. It's fine to have it explained more detailed in another video, but give us something to follow you when you are the only person on earth i've seen so far, making a change to grip like that. And without explanation, it's just something many people (and i've looked through the comments, a lot of people wonder about the same thing) are not willing to follow.
    Over 100 big people on this platform trying to teach drums.
    1 of them saying that another finger is better, without explanation, just a thumbnail that heavily suggests that and one sentence on the "just trust me" basis.
    That's just not the way to go.
    The rest of the video is fine. Different thumbnail, explaining the middlefinger instead of pointer and the video would be great. Now it's just confusing and feels like only half the video.

    • @FH-cn3mg
      @FH-cn3mg 3 месяца назад

      Instead of writing this diatribe you could have searched middle finger grip and found his video within seconds like I did.
      ruclips.net/video/4oktd85wPt0/видео.htmlsi=e8ypLfBXcpgIXo9m

  • @somerandomdudeable
    @somerandomdudeable 6 месяцев назад

    Hands Down by Dashboard Confession and Typical by Mutemath. the verses have fast hihats

  • @monoTNT
    @monoTNT Месяц назад

    404 error on the drum pad eguide 🥲

  • @stygs6
    @stygs6 4 месяца назад

    Chop suey or toxicity by System of a down, got the rhythm but not the speed.. edit: also 2 months in