I've been married for 10 years, separated for more than 1 year now. It's very difficult to learn to live without the person you thought you would grow old together with. The thought of her makes a knot in my throat and my stomach sick. I pray that God uses time to mold me and build my character to the man He wants me to be and gives me the strength, wisdom and patience I need to go on. Please help me with your prayers.
i’m in the very same situation as you. i sit in work right now infront of my computer crying my eyes out. i have a one year old with him. i’ve been abused. i pray that he will change. but i don’t know what God’s will is. the pain is unbearable at time. i just pray he will fight for me. if not, i don’t know what the future with hold. oh God take control .. hope your okay derek?
This is glorious, I have been researching "how do i get him to be more affectionate?" for a while now, and I think this has helped. You ever tried - Bonuhappad Intellectual Blaster - (search on google ) ? It is an awesome one of a kind product for discovering how to understand what your husband wishes you knew about him without the normal expense. Ive heard some pretty good things about it and my cousin got amazing success with it.
God doesn't impose on someone's free will, and a "hardened" heart. He is clear that divorce is the RESULT of a HARD HEART.. a heart choosing their way over God's, and an unforgiving heart.
I am so thrilled to hear this on prayer, you have no idea how much I needed to hear this. My prayer for my Wife is that God would give her what she needs and that I would know and give her what she needs from me. We have been separated almost four years now. She does things every now and then that let's me know that she cares. I had my days where I could pray that she'd wake up with purple hair and that her drawers would never fit but loving her through it is so much better. God has so much to work with in her and that's a blessing. Focusing on allowing God to work in me while praying for her.
here's several tips for saving your partnership Try to talk more Help each other out more Start to give and take more (I learned these and why they work from Mirykal marriage plan website )
Anyone else just wanna get a nice grandpa hug from Joe Beam? He just seems like such a nice, safe father figure type that I wish I could have been mentored by 15 years ago early in my marriage.
I was all set on calling my husband and laying out my case (again) but I stopped to watch this video.... 10 minutes in he actually called me to discuss his work and how busy he had been. I didn’t push the conversation into “heavy” topics but just had a “normal” interaction. It felt so good! I put aside my agenda and just enjoyed that we talked for a few minutes. Thank you for all the videos you all put out! When I’m feeling discouraged or anxious I watch and take in your advice. You blessed me today ❤️ I am standing for my 16 year marriage with the man I have loved since I was 11!
Lora T. Mom of 3 I am standing for my 10 year marriage my husband and I were having so so many problems and he finally decided he has had enough and filed for divorce. I pleaded with him and begged him over and over again but he still moved out. It’s been 2 months he won’t talk to me or even look at me
@@adrkari Hi 💛 Pull back and protect your heart. If someone isn’t listening you’re wasting your valuable energy. Or as the Bible puts it, casting pearls before swine. Let him go because do you really want someone that isn’t willing to put in the effort or want to love you? Not saying it is your fault; I’m just sharing the advice I was given. If someone is carnal, selfish and not in Christ, no amount of bargaining, negotiating or pleading that will bring them back to you or be genuinely Christ-led. I am sorry for what you are going through and God promises all works out for our good. Even the evil thrown our way.
I dont want to boast but in my current situation with my wife there was another in the picture for a day, nothing happened but coffee and I prayed and prayed for God to cutt off all paths and all forms of communication between the 2, and at times out of anger, but rejoiced and gave thanks to God because my wife God angry at me thinking I talked to the other person though I had no idea who it was , but she said that he just disappeared and had not messaged her back at all and ignored her since the day of coffee. And I thank God every day for continued blockages it's been 5 weeks now and every day our situation gets better...
I really like what this video hit on, and will help me during this time of my separation from my husband. But, nowhere in the bible does it permit remarriage. I have been searching and searching in the bible and researching online, and God did not say we have the okay to remarry. He says, either remain single, or reconcile; those are our only 2 choices. Trust me, I'm not saying this to debate, because I wish it were not so, because it seems unfair to the spouse that is actually trying to fight for the marriage. And if the other spouse decides never to come back, then the spouse that wants their marriage is left to be alone. He hates divorce, but allows for separation because of hard hearts, but never once he mentions remarriage.
For me there’s only one solution and that God will soften my wife’s heart, bring her out of her new age spiritual ways and joins us together because I cannot live with another plan of being seperated of my beloved God given wife and my children. Personally I think God is often allowing way to much pain in the hearts of his children. I really really feel abandoned by God
Can y'all pray for me and that He restores the relationship between me and my ex husband please? It's so hard to keep living when everyday is miserable and no healing.
It seems sometimes God's will is not what we desire, so is hard to accept this. I am struggling now with my faith and accepting that God might have another plan for me.
He does answer your prayers. I think the confusion comes when people ask the wrong question. Most of the time, i believe what they really mean is "Why hasn't God given me the answer I was looking for? The hard thing for people to accept is that most often, I believe the answer we're given by God is "wait".
With all due respect...I generally like Dr. Beam's work...but hold on...We pray for something...but God doesn't answer the way we want, because he knows what is best for us because he has a plan for us...and the reason he doesn't answer our prayer the way we want, is so we can have free will, because he has a plan for us that we don't know about? That really doesn't sound like free will to me. And as an aside, if the last 10 years of loneliness, despair, depression, destruction of my family relationships, and related health problems and income struggles after my wife left have been the best thing for me, then I'm glad I don't know what the worst thing for me is.
Never thought I of all people would post this here. But, if you see this please pray for my wife & I. We had a big fight about 5 wks ago and she took our baby and my stepson to her mamas with her. She won’t talk barely responded to texts & im not even getting to see our child regularly now. Her mother wants to control things and my wife get out of even discussing anything. She went on a tear separating accounts, cost me my health insurance and a lot of money which I don’t care. I regret many things that I said but I regret missing some signals she was letting me know it was bound to happen sooner or later. I just want a chance to do better by her and for God. I was who witnessed to her when she got saved. We backslid and fell outta church and I was wrong for letting my walk with him fail. Thanks guys and have a good Godly day. These people are right it’s God first husband and wife next then down the line
I have been praying for my husband to come home and to change his mind on other people and his heart to be back in Love with me And hold us in each others lives I need him desperately I want to show him how Much that I am Still In Love With Him .
@joe l Well sorry to hear that Um I seriously pray and keep on praying If I had a home still with my True Husband I would Deffinatly be home in his bed I Am Still In Love with my Husband .I will never hide those True feelings for my True Husband .
Well joe Do you truly and I mean truly In Love with your wife? Love holds no boundaries have you spoken to God and meditated on it? I feel in my heart that God will help my husband to see how foolish that he has been .I try to show him how foolish that he has been not listening to me and doing the thing that he wanted to not doing the right thing make things right of what is in your memory she would have said something to you of why she was leaving you change what she said and find away to change it either about you or about something some times it is a bitter pile of what you would have to swallow but it can help.
Hay if I was your wife I would Deffenitly go home to you .You sound like you really need to be with her . And I need my Husband like A heart needs blodflow to keep it a live.
I feel like God told me that my husband can and will come around. What makes me nervous is whether or not I know and am primed well enough to do my part. May God bless me to play my part well and continue to pour into my dear husband however He is pouring into him.
I've been praying for my Husband to come home it's been three months. His heart is so hard I'm frightened that he won't hear God and will go his own way.
@@symplykym4098 Sadly no it's been 20 months now and he's divorcing me. I am still on my knees praying God will cancel this divorce. The Lord has put several blocks on it already, he is working all prayers would be so welcome. God bless.
@@Vero-cu4hs Hi thank you for asking i'm still standing and fighting for my marriage. He filed in 2019 and i'm still married praise God!. I've changed so much in the last couple of years and the lord has taught me that restoration starts with us.
I really needed to hear this as well I've been praying for my husband to change but have not see him changing, so then it dawned upon me that God should used me as a vessel to change him, but it's not easy allowing God to guide you, you have to really know that is God who is speaking to you,
Yea. I confess I have. I think she has as well. But faith was found by me. Also her emotional affair could be religious in part but I don’t think they listen to what’s right ! I will say I have faith to see it through what ever my plans are ! Faithful 🙏🏻
Oh God thank you!!!! You brought me here! I was hesitant at first to subscribe because i want God to be involved in everything i do and i couldn't find a video in your videos that spoke about God but i was wrong.
I’m at my wit’s end. Married to a woman for almost 18 years that has attitude and gets mad about almost everything that doesn’t go her way. I’m so tired of praying for all these years and NOTHING happens. I’m extremely close to a divorce. I just can’t take it anymore. I’m sick and tired of being miserable in my own home.
I have given up. I prayed all year long and my husband moved in with another woman. My husband and I have been talking off and on. I prayed for him to leave this woman and to change is heart there has been no results. I dont have any more faith. Dknt know what to do?
I dont know what you should do either. But shurly invest in biblestudies and prayer( fasting if you want to fight) invest in yourself and your relationship with God, be ready for what ever God has for you, ask God to prepare you for His Kingdom 😊😊😊🌸🌸🌸🙏🙏🙏 I will pray for you 🙋♀️
How about prayer for a family when you've never had one. Wondering if I am to pray after 30 yrs. Used to beg. No answer. Just desolation. By the way I'm smart well educated well mannered pretty by any standards and easy to get along with. My issue is I wont marry a man who drinks smokes fornicate swears or lives idolatrously. I'm talking about my experiences w Christian men. ( not a man hater just stating my experiences) You all are so grounded ( rare) I just had to ask.
Can you guys give some updated on where u are all these yrs later? What u did to help u thro this though time? Please be a source of encouragement to me know thank u...
I'm praying so much and so hard. I allowed my family to destroy my marriage. I failed miserably to protect my wife and stand by her side against my family. She told me she has NEVER been hurt like that before. She said she doesn't even see me as a husband and that we are just friends. We live separate lives at home like we are roommates. She's doesn't turn to me for anything. She relies on herself, her family and her friends (males included) on the streets for anything her goes through. She is so cold towards me but can flip a switch in a second to laugh and smile with someone else when they approach and flip back to being cold towards me as soon as they walk away. My wife used to worship the ground I walked on and I screwed that up! She's a dead woman walking when we are together. I just want my loving and caring wife back! Hear my cry dear God, please help me!
What about God working on my heart? I keep asking him to change my heart to clear my heart to take away my resentment for years and years of Sexless marriage. My husband is changing we are still together. We are crying. I am crying more because I was in limerence with a man for a month. I made the choice to cut him off. I need wisdom. Because I need to trust my husband as well as trust myself. I need God to open my heart to fall in love with my husband again. I am currently going through depression. Please change me. Please help me lord. I want to see my husband with new eyes and with a new heart full of love.
We even waited till after we were married, to honor God, to have sex....and it has been miserable from the start to 10 pluss years out, praying my butt off, and only silence....life is torture...
Well. If God can't change a rebellious heart because of the rebelling then prayer is not worth anything. Thanks for the discouragement. God is omnipotent, isn't he?
Prayer is for us (like forgiveness), not for someone else. I hear you, I was in the same headspace. In the Lord’s Prayer we pray “God’s will be done”. Pray for your own peace and joy. When we pray for our enemies and bless not curse them, it actually heals and protects us from bitterness and developing a hard heart or block the Holy Spirit.
@@2780-l2k Sure prayer is for us, but why shouldn't it be for anyone else? That makes no sense at all. Why does Paul ask the Romans to pray for him so that God would protect him from the ones in Jerusalem? If God does not intervene in human affairs and the actions of others this prayer is literally useless. Why do we pray for kings and those in authorities... and the list goes on. What you wrote literally makes no sense. Unless, of course I understood you wrong.
My wife was cheating on me about 2to3 mouths ago I don’t know if she still is but She keep lying and telling me that she wasn’t but I already knew she was cheating on me put I keep trying to get the truth but she keeps denying it then get mad . So I don’t know if I should stay or just let her go. Me and my family have been praying for me but I still have not got an answer to my question
My prayer for my husband 🙏 is that he will choose internal Life, breaks my heart after 30 years together that he would want Death and not Life, Satan loves dorivce I rebuke all Evil around my husband. I pray the other woman has the harded of her heart towards my husband. Now by the blood of Jesus Amen.❤ Thank you Jesus
What about a spouse that says they have prayed to God about whether they should stay in the marriage, but haven't heard anything from God whether to stay or go? Or that the spouse believes the marriage isn't a covenant relationship because the whole marriage is a sham and I broke our covenant (was unfaithful), and therefore the marriage isn't valid in God's eyes?
Hi Raine, The same things happened to me, my wive is leaving me. She asked God if she should stay and God stayed silent (Its obvious in the Bible, so why would he respond? You don't ask God to rob a store if He is ok with it, right?). Six months into the seperation I was unfaithful (didnt want to, cause I was and am still fighting). But I got the same explanations. That we weren't made for each other and God didn't want us to get married in the first place. Those feelings/lies don't come from God. Marriage is the most closest thing to heaven on earth, because its Gods Nature. He made it, and everything that is valuable to God, Satan attacks. My advice, keep close to God, repent from your mistakes/sins if you havent done allready. Through God I can love my wive still, while she ignores me, treats me like garbage, and put all the blame on me. God strengthens me to be Patiente, Loving and strong for her and the kids. God is fighting for you, if you keep true to Him! Don't give up on God or your marriage, but if you have to choose, choose God!! I will be praying for you!!
If you read the Bible, that’s a good place for God to talk to you and answer some prayers. I kept asking the same thing to God and he kept telling me in scripture to not be afraid because my God will fight for me. I took this as an answer to stay and wait for my God to keep working. Now my husband and I are different better people and are back together. The Lord is Great. Technically, if your spouse wants to leave because you were unfaithful, he can according to scripture. It does not mean your marriage was a scam. But scripture gives him the way out if he wants. But God never is ok with divorce. If there’s a chance to save your marriage, God wants you to fix it.
I'm sorry, but the lady in this video joked around a little bit too much. These are serious issues about people's marriage. And she's laughing and making too many jokes.
23:09-23:46 sec Wait what how could two divorce people get remarried and their covenant spouse is still alive🤔 he said God allow it because of there faithfulness.That is lie false teaching. Sir PLEASE show me that in the bible. Personal opinions will cause one to be lead from God. Sir Speak & teach the whole bible or sit down and dont speak. No where in the bible states what he said.
Great message but I’m starting to loose hope in God. I’m convinced he gave my wife 22 years ago, she gave her life to Jesus and for sure we have Godly children but 2 years ago she fell in love with another man and started with spiritual things. Now she’s pushing divorce. God can also change kings hearts and I heard he did it with other prodigal spouses but it looks like he refuses although I’m praying so hard but now I have no tears left. If Jesus is my friend why is he allowing this and not taking away the love for my wife. I’m really at the point of stop praying and trusting in God because he also didn’t blessed me with my business for about 30 years
Praying for you brother.. As sure as you are still alive today God does love you and your spouse.. The enemy is having his way in your spouse but God sees all and if and when your wife will listen to God then her heart will repent.. The hardest thing we can do as men is start to work on self while the heart aches continue to pull us down.. Stand my brother regardless and God will reward you.. It's ok to be mad at God He can take it but as you are upset with Him be honest and open your heart to also listen to what He says to your spirit.. Love is free will. Love you brother shine your light so your children and others will see God in you and continue to good while you wait. Stay strong bro you're not alone!
Sorry you were hurt and had tender emotion. I know that the pain from another that you cared for is the most painful. But the hurt from another human and the wait that you were going through and even the education you got on behavior doesn’t mean that there isn’t a creator and that he doesn’t love you. There is and He does.
@@JordanNHoule it doesn’t have to do anything with religion. There are thousands of religions. Every religion worships its own god. Which god to pick ? Your god is not any better than someone else’s god. I prefer laws of nature vs any religion.
Sometimes I wish he wasn't real but he is and you know in your heart he is, my friend. Otherwise you wouldn't even have an opinion about him one way or the other.
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I've been married for 10 years, separated for more than 1 year now. It's very difficult to learn to live without the person you thought you would grow old together with. The thought of her makes a knot in my throat and my stomach sick. I pray that God uses time to mold me and build my character to the man He wants me to be and gives me the strength, wisdom and patience I need to go on. Please help me with your prayers.
I hope you're better now. Looking back
@@Charlie-tj4lz Thank you, it hasn’t been easy but He has given me the strength to continue. I still have so much to give.
@@derickcampos594 thanks for the update. God bless you brother
How are things today Derick??
i’m in the very same situation as you. i sit in work right now infront of my computer crying my eyes out. i have a one year old with him. i’ve been abused. i pray that he will change. but i don’t know what God’s will is. the pain is unbearable at time. i just pray he will fight for me. if not, i don’t know what the future with hold. oh God take control .. hope your okay derek?
Sometimes God doesn't answer right away because you have your own issues that need to be dealt with and changes that you need to make as well 😇
This is glorious, I have been researching "how do i get him to be more affectionate?" for a while now, and I think this has helped. You ever tried - Bonuhappad Intellectual Blaster - (search on google ) ? It is an awesome one of a kind product for discovering how to understand what your husband wishes you knew about him without the normal expense. Ive heard some pretty good things about it and my cousin got amazing success with it.
I needed this reminder. I will rejoice in the waiting time. Thank you Father for what you’re doing and what you’re going to do!
Update?
God doesn't impose on someone's free will, and a "hardened" heart. He is clear that divorce is the RESULT of a HARD HEART.. a heart choosing their way over God's, and an unforgiving heart.
I am so thrilled to hear this on prayer, you have no idea how much I needed to hear this. My prayer for my Wife is that God would give her what she needs and that I would know and give her what she needs from me. We have been separated almost four years now. She does things every now and then that let's me know that she cares. I had my days where I could pray that she'd wake up with purple hair and that her drawers would never fit but loving her through it is so much better. God has so much to work with in her and that's a blessing. Focusing on allowing God to work in me while praying for her.
here's several tips for saving your partnership
Try to talk more
Help each other out more
Start to give and take more
(I learned these and why they work from Mirykal marriage plan website )
Anyone else just wanna get a nice grandpa hug from Joe Beam? He just seems like such a nice, safe father figure type that I wish I could have been mentored by 15 years ago early in my marriage.
I was all set on calling my husband and laying out my case (again) but I stopped to watch this video.... 10 minutes in he actually called me to discuss his work and how busy he had been. I didn’t push the conversation into “heavy” topics but just had a “normal” interaction. It felt so good! I put aside my agenda and just enjoyed that we talked for a few minutes. Thank you for all the videos you all put out! When I’m feeling discouraged or anxious I watch and take in your advice. You blessed me today ❤️ I am standing for my 16 year marriage with the man I have loved since I was 11!
Lora T. Mom of 3 I am standing for my 10 year marriage my husband and I were having so so many problems and he finally decided he has had enough and filed for divorce. I pleaded with him and begged him over and over again but he still moved out. It’s been 2 months he won’t talk to me or even look at me
Adriana K Gomez I’ll be praying for your marriage as well 🙏🏻
@@adrkari Hi 💛 Pull back and protect your heart. If someone isn’t listening you’re wasting your valuable energy. Or as the Bible puts it, casting pearls before swine. Let him go because do you really want someone that isn’t willing to put in the effort or want to love you? Not saying it is your fault; I’m just sharing the advice I was given. If someone is carnal, selfish and not in Christ, no amount of bargaining, negotiating or pleading that will bring them back to you or be genuinely Christ-led. I am sorry for what you are going through and God promises all works out for our good. Even the evil thrown our way.
I dont want to boast but in my current situation with my wife there was another in the picture for a day, nothing happened but coffee and I prayed and prayed for God to cutt off all paths and all forms of communication between the 2, and at times out of anger, but rejoiced and gave thanks to God because my wife God angry at me thinking I talked to the other person though I had no idea who it was , but she said that he just disappeared and had not messaged her back at all and ignored her since the day of coffee. And I thank God every day for continued blockages it's been 5 weeks now and every day our situation gets better...
Great to hear something about God and Marriage! I really like all your videos, keep up the good work!
Thank you for the kind words, Jan! Blessings! - Marriage Helper
Such a good video addressing this topic. I love how Marriage Helper is Biblically based.
I’m praying for my wife’s affair to stop and things have just been getting worse and worse.. it’s been awful praise God keeling faith
I really like what this video hit on, and will help me during this time of my separation from my husband. But, nowhere in the bible does it permit remarriage. I have been searching and searching in the bible and researching online, and God did not say we have the okay to remarry. He says, either remain single, or reconcile; those are our only 2 choices. Trust me, I'm not saying this to debate, because I wish it were not so, because it seems unfair to the spouse that is actually trying to fight for the marriage. And if the other spouse decides never to come back, then the spouse that wants their marriage is left to be alone. He hates divorce, but allows for separation because of hard hearts, but never once he mentions remarriage.
I pray God will repair me so I become more attractive to my husband.
For me there’s only one solution and that God will soften my wife’s heart, bring her out of her new age spiritual ways and joins us together because I cannot live with another plan of being seperated of my beloved God given wife and my children. Personally I think God is often allowing way to much pain in the hearts of his children. I really really feel abandoned by God
I am sorry for your pain. Please do not lose hope. Your faith will count one day, for you and for your family.
You haven't been abandoned by God you have been abandoned by your spouse who is probably not following God.
Learn this lesson in my journey: It is about me. God loves me enough to deal with me.
I am transformed and renewed.
Can y'all pray for me and that He restores the relationship between me and my ex husband please? It's so hard to keep living when everyday is miserable and no healing.
How r u doing today?
Hello I pray for healing in your heart. For your relationship with god to deepen during this season in Jesus name. Amen
This was spot on. Thank you! Dealing with how to pray for your spouse . God will not interfere with free will.
It seems sometimes God's will is not what we desire, so is hard to accept this. I am struggling now with my faith and accepting that God might have another plan for me.
He does answer your prayers. I think the confusion comes when people ask the wrong question. Most of the time, i believe what they really mean is "Why hasn't God given me the answer I was
looking for? The hard thing for people to
accept is that most often, I believe the answer we're given by God is "wait".
Praise God ! I so happy to come across this video. Thank u Jesus. God has been working in my life spiritual and character wise.
With all due respect...I generally like Dr. Beam's work...but hold on...We pray for something...but God doesn't answer the way we want, because he knows what is best for us because he has a plan for us...and the reason he doesn't answer our prayer the way we want, is so we can have free will, because he has a plan for us that we don't know about? That really doesn't sound like free will to me. And as an aside, if the last 10 years of loneliness, despair, depression, destruction of my family relationships, and related health problems and income struggles after my wife left have been the best thing for me, then I'm glad I don't know what the worst thing for me is.
Never thought I of all people would post this here. But, if you see this please pray for my wife & I. We had a big fight about 5 wks ago and she took our baby and my stepson to her mamas with her. She won’t talk barely responded to texts & im not even getting to see our child regularly now. Her mother wants to control things and my wife get out of even discussing anything. She went on a tear separating accounts, cost me my health insurance and a lot of money which I don’t care. I regret many things that I said but I regret missing some signals she was letting me know it was bound to happen sooner or later. I just want a chance to do better by her and for God. I was who witnessed to her when she got saved. We backslid and fell outta church and I was wrong for letting my walk with him fail. Thanks guys and have a good Godly day. These people are right it’s God first husband and wife next then down the line
Great stuff!! I feel like God is leading me this way so to actually hear it and the way you’re delivering Prayer is really balanced and 😉 amazing!
I have been praying for my husband to come home and to change his mind on other people and his heart to be back in Love with me And hold us in each others lives I need him desperately I want to show him how Much that I am Still In Love With Him .
same here
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@joe l Well sorry to hear that Um I seriously pray and keep on praying If I had a home still with my True Husband I would Deffinatly be home in his bed I Am Still In Love with my Husband .I will never hide those True feelings for my True Husband .
Well joe Do you truly and I mean truly In Love with your wife?
Love holds no boundaries have you spoken to God and meditated on it?
I feel in my heart that God will help my husband to see how foolish that he has been .I try to show him how foolish that he has been not listening to me and doing the thing that he wanted to not doing the right thing make things right of what is in your memory she would have said something to you of why she was leaving you change what she said and find away to change it either about you or about something some times it is a bitter pile of what you would have to swallow but it can help.
Hay if I was your wife I would Deffenitly go home to you .You sound like you really need to be with her .
And I need my Husband like A heart needs blodflow to keep it a live.
I feel like God told me that my husband can and will come around. What makes me nervous is whether or not I know and am primed well enough to do my part. May God bless me to play my part well and continue to pour into my dear husband however He is pouring into him.
I've been praying for my Husband to come home it's been three months. His heart is so hard I'm frightened that he won't hear God and will go his own way.
I feel the same way about mine, I will pray for you, it hurts daily, it been about a month for me
Did he come back? Prayerfully he did
@@symplykym4098 Sadly no it's been 20 months now and he's divorcing me. I am still on my knees praying God will cancel this divorce. The Lord has put several blocks on it already, he is working all prayers would be so welcome. God bless.
@@violet9486 any updates?
@@Vero-cu4hs Hi thank you for asking i'm still standing and fighting for my marriage. He filed in 2019 and i'm still married praise God!. I've changed so much in the last couple of years and the lord has taught me that restoration starts with us.
I really needed to hear this as well I've been praying for my husband to change but have not see him changing, so then it dawned upon me that God should used me as a vessel to change him, but it's not easy allowing God to guide you, you have to really know that is God who is speaking to you,
We just have to rest in Him , good point I worry constantly about restoring my marriage and it’s killing me , God help me have focus and rest in You
Thank you for such a revealing Christian view. 🙏❤️
This is a great video. Thank you for the message. I know God will provide blessings for my current situation.
My husband is leaving me. This has been comforting to listen to.
So now I'm getting ready to file for divorse. I have already surrendered. I've prayed I've done everything 🙏🙌
Yea. I confess I have. I think she has as well. But faith was found by me. Also her emotional affair could be religious in part but I don’t think they listen to what’s right ! I will say I have faith to see it through what ever my plans are ! Faithful 🙏🏻
Oh God thank you!!!! You brought me here! I was hesitant at first to subscribe because i want God to be involved in everything i do and i couldn't find a video in your videos that spoke about God but i was wrong.
I *LOVED* this video. I wish Dr. Joe would do another one with Leighann.
The wisdom that I needed to hear when I needed it. Thank you.
I know I didn’t stumble across this video for nothing.
#imgettingbkonmykneesagain🙏🏾
Hi LIFESTYLE with EDNA! We're glad you discovered our video! :) All the best-MH Team
I’m at my wit’s end. Married to a woman for almost 18 years that has attitude and gets mad about almost everything that doesn’t go her way. I’m so tired of praying for all these years and NOTHING happens. I’m extremely close to a divorce. I just can’t take it anymore. I’m sick and tired of being miserable in my own home.
I have given up. I prayed all year long and my husband moved in with another woman. My husband and I have been talking off and on. I prayed for him to leave this woman and to change is heart there has been no results. I dont have any more faith. Dknt know what to do?
I dont know what you should do either. But shurly invest in biblestudies and prayer( fasting if you want to fight) invest in yourself and your relationship with God, be ready for what ever God has for you, ask God to prepare you for His Kingdom 😊😊😊🌸🌸🌸🙏🙏🙏 I will pray for you 🙋♀️
I feel like they are speaking to me.
How about prayer for a family when you've never had one. Wondering if I am to pray after 30 yrs. Used to beg. No answer. Just desolation. By the way I'm smart well educated well mannered pretty by any standards and easy to get along with. My issue is I wont marry a man who drinks smokes fornicate swears or lives idolatrously. I'm talking about my experiences w Christian men. ( not a man hater just stating my experiences)
You all are so grounded ( rare) I just had to ask.
Can you guys give some updated on where u are all these yrs later? What u did to help u thro this though time? Please be a source of encouragement to me know thank u...
I needed to hear this thank you god
Thank you. My w has said several times that God told her to leave me and go to this guy.
God would NEVER say that! God bless you 🌸
Great Video!!!!
I'm praying so much and so hard. I allowed my family to destroy my marriage. I failed miserably to protect my wife and stand by her side against my family. She told me she has NEVER been hurt like that before. She said she doesn't even see me as a husband and that we are just friends. We live separate lives at home like we are roommates. She's doesn't turn to me for anything. She relies on herself, her family and her friends (males included) on the streets for anything her goes through. She is so cold towards me but can flip a switch in a second to laugh and smile with someone else when they approach and flip back to being cold towards me as soon as they walk away. My wife used to worship the ground I walked on and I screwed that up! She's a dead woman walking when we are together. I just want my loving and caring wife back! Hear my cry dear God, please help me!
Amen. How is it going now? The outcome sounds really familiar to me and would love to celebrate your turn around coz I believe it has come to pass.
Did you cheat on her?
What about God working on my heart? I keep asking him to change my heart to clear my heart to take away my resentment for years and years of Sexless marriage. My husband is changing we are still together. We are crying. I am crying more because I was in limerence with a man for a month. I made the choice to cut him off.
I need wisdom. Because I need to trust my husband as well as trust myself. I need God to open my heart to fall in love with my husband again. I am currently going through depression. Please change me. Please help me lord. I want to see my husband with new eyes and with a new heart full of love.
We even waited till after we were married, to honor God, to have sex....and it has been miserable from the start to 10 pluss years out, praying my butt off, and only silence....life is torture...
It can only get better, God bless your marriage 🌸
Thank you my marriage is failing and this helps me
We don’t have free will. Our wills are enslaved to sin. Prayer results in Gods will which is a yes, no or wait
This is such a good video!!!!! Thank you!!
Do you really think God is actually present among us?
Help me write my book 📖
Well. If God can't change a rebellious heart because of the rebelling then prayer is not worth anything.
Thanks for the discouragement. God is omnipotent, isn't he?
Prayer is for us (like forgiveness), not for someone else. I hear you, I was in the same headspace. In the Lord’s Prayer we pray “God’s will be done”. Pray for your own peace and joy. When we pray for our enemies and bless not curse them, it actually heals and protects us from bitterness and developing a hard heart or block the Holy Spirit.
@@2780-l2k Sure prayer is for us, but why shouldn't it be for anyone else? That makes no sense at all. Why does Paul ask the Romans to pray for him so that God would protect him from the ones in Jerusalem? If God does not intervene in human affairs and the actions of others this prayer is literally useless. Why do we pray for kings and those in authorities... and the list goes on. What you wrote literally makes no sense. Unless, of course I understood you wrong.
Que vraiment Dieu vous accorder vos prière
No, I Am praying for God to change ME. 10 years later...NO CHANGE, stuck in a marriage!
only you can. sorry.
Read bible too, it will change you 🌹 God never meant life to be just easy. One day at a time. Step by step...choose to do good. Be blessed 🙏
God hates divorce but go in a church there all divorced or married to someone else hyprocripts
Stephen Osborne agreed.
So what does this prove exactly?
My wife was cheating on me about 2to3 mouths ago I don’t know if she still is but She keep lying and telling me that she wasn’t but I already knew she was cheating on me put I keep trying to get the truth but she keeps denying it then get mad . So I don’t know if I should stay or just let her go. Me and my family have been praying for me but I still have not got an answer to my question
Scott Sinclair pray and let God guide you . Let God confront her and break that affair .
My prayer for my husband 🙏 is that he will choose internal Life, breaks my heart after 30 years together that he would want Death and not Life, Satan loves dorivce I rebuke all Evil around my husband. I pray the other woman has the harded of her heart towards my husband. Now by the blood of Jesus Amen.❤ Thank you Jesus
What about a spouse that says they have prayed to God about whether they should stay in the marriage, but haven't heard anything from God whether to stay or go? Or that the spouse believes the marriage isn't a covenant relationship because the whole marriage is a sham and I broke our covenant (was unfaithful), and therefore the marriage isn't valid in God's eyes?
Hi Raine,
The same things happened to me, my wive is leaving me. She asked God if she should stay and God stayed silent (Its obvious in the Bible, so why would he respond? You don't ask God to rob a store if He is ok with it, right?). Six months into the seperation I was unfaithful (didnt want to, cause I was and am still fighting). But I got the same explanations. That we weren't made for each other and God didn't want us to get married in the first place. Those feelings/lies don't come from God. Marriage is the most closest thing to heaven on earth, because its Gods Nature. He made it, and everything that is valuable to God, Satan attacks.
My advice, keep close to God, repent from your mistakes/sins if you havent done allready. Through God I can love my wive still, while she ignores me, treats me like garbage, and put all the blame on me. God strengthens me to be Patiente, Loving and strong for her and the kids.
God is fighting for you, if you keep true to Him! Don't give up on God or your marriage, but if you have to choose, choose God!!
I will be praying for you!!
If you read the Bible, that’s a good place for God to talk to you and answer some prayers. I kept asking the same thing to God and he kept telling me in scripture to not be afraid because my God will fight for me. I took this as an answer to stay and wait for my God to keep working. Now my husband and I are different better people and are back together. The Lord is Great. Technically, if your spouse wants to leave because you were unfaithful, he can according to scripture. It does not mean your marriage was a scam. But scripture gives him the way out if he wants. But God never is ok with divorce. If there’s a chance to save your marriage, God wants you to fix it.
I'm sorry, but the lady in this video joked around a little bit too much. These are serious issues about people's marriage. And she's laughing and making too many jokes.
23:09-23:46 sec Wait what how could two divorce people get remarried and their covenant spouse is still alive🤔 he said God allow it because of there faithfulness.That is lie false teaching.
Sir PLEASE show me that in the bible. Personal opinions will cause one to be lead from God. Sir Speak & teach the whole bible or sit down and dont speak. No where in the bible states what he said.
M. Magdalene Ford RN, Future ANRP interesting question. I thought the same. He sounds contradictory. My pastor would never marry divorced couples.
Great message but I’m starting to loose hope in God. I’m convinced he gave my wife 22 years ago, she gave her life to Jesus and for sure we have Godly children but 2 years ago she fell in love with another man and started with spiritual things. Now she’s pushing divorce. God can also change kings hearts and I heard he did it with other prodigal spouses but it looks like he refuses although I’m praying so hard but now I have no tears left. If Jesus is my friend why is he allowing this and not taking away the love for my wife. I’m really at the point of stop praying and trusting in God because he also didn’t blessed me with my business for about 30 years
Your wife has free will.
Praying for you brother.. As sure as you are still alive today God does love you and your spouse.. The enemy is having his way in your spouse but God sees all and if and when your wife will listen to God then her heart will repent.. The hardest thing we can do as men is start to work on self while the heart aches continue to pull us down.. Stand my brother regardless and God will reward you.. It's ok to be mad at God He can take it but as you are upset with Him be honest and open your heart to also listen to what He says to your spirit.. Love is free will. Love you brother shine your light so your children and others will see God in you and continue to good while you wait. Stay strong bro you're not alone!
Group psychosis.
Cuz there is no god, people. I was praying like an idiot and wasted my time. Cried my eyes out. Study psychology and human behavior. Educate yourself.
Sorry you were hurt and had tender emotion. I know that the pain from another that you cared for is the most painful.
But the hurt from another human and the wait that you were going through and even the education you got on behavior doesn’t mean that there isn’t a creator and that he doesn’t love you. There is and He does.
@@JordanNHoule it doesn’t have to do anything with religion. There are thousands of religions. Every religion worships its own god. Which god to pick ? Your god is not any better than someone else’s god. I prefer laws of nature vs any religion.
I'm not waiting for god.
Why not? It's worth it ;)
DISAGREE
Because he doesn't exist.
I’m sorry you’re hurting Rob. Me too man, but that doesn’t change we are here for a reason and that God has a plan in this all.
Gods a joke he’s not real. You might as well pray to Santa clause. Get real!
Prayed for u. He will reveal Himself to you
I hope you open your eyes and see God is real!
Sometimes I wish he wasn't real but he is and you know in your heart he is, my friend. Otherwise you wouldn't even have an opinion about him one way or the other.